I feel like you should explain to the askers why mens rights activists are not really 'for' men but more 'anti' women. Like every MRa 'issue' is just an argument point against feminism while feminism is actually a serious movement dedicated to helping women as opposed to just arguing against MRA.

explaining all that to them, especially since they actually don’t care to hear it, they’re just wanting to criticize it for the sake of it, it’s just exhausting. and I’m not their teacher.

if they want to know more about feminism vs mras, then they can google it. I’m not obligated to teach anyone.