Anonymous asks: Anonymous asks: Is it possible for ENTJs to be super nice and understanding? Absolutely. Although our super nice and understanding may seem a bit odd to those who are more emotional. For example, if you are in a sticky situation we’ll show our care by giving you a detached logical solution which will fix your problem but may not account for feelings being hurt. As long as you’re my friend I want the best for you but sometimes I will see past your clouded judgement and so offer rational advice that may seem to lack empathy but actually makes things easier in the long run.

Feel free to add your comments ENTJs.

ENTJ Confessions #181 “People mistake my resting face for a bitch face. Sorry, you’ve got it all wrong. It’s actually my ‘I hate all of you idiots and can’t wait till I dominate this world’ face.”



ENTJ Confessions #180 “It’s not that I don’t care about your feelings, it’s that I don’t know how. You have no idea how psychologically difficult it is for me to consider things from an emotional perspective. Please try to understand.”



ENTJ Confessions #179 “I have a wide circle of acquaintances, but I only consider three of them as “friends”. I have a problem with lying, I do it all the time, instinctively, it’s become a habit now. I might be a sociopath. Most of the stories I tell are made up to make myself sound more interesting, which attracts more followers–cough–I mean people. Hey, I may be a sociopath, but at least I’m a charming sociopath.”



ENTJ Confessions #178 “I have been so happy lately and weirdly it’s because I’ve allowed myself to feel more emotional about things.”

ENTJ Confessions #176 “I hate it when people view me as incompetent. So when I’m learning something new like playing an instrument, I feel obligated to learn on my own before learning with others.”



ENTJ Confessions #175 “People seem to always think I’m on top of things- that everything’s under control. They don’t see the moments of chaos I endure and try to sift through internally when trying to keep things under control- the fact that in order for me to be successful at it, I have to bury my feelings. And then they wonder why I appear so cold… everything comes at a price.”



ENTJ Confessions #174 “I get called bossy and cynical a lot. I try and laugh it because people expect me to be confident and I don’t think they mean it to hurt, but it does. I can come across as intimidating so it’s hard to open up and tell people how I feel.”



ENTJ Confessions #173 “Most ENTJ’s acknowledge and realise that emotions are integral to life. Seriously, the type of emotion ENTJ’s claim to hate is the type when your roommate threatens to throw all of the dishes out of the window because you didn’t wash them (because you fell asleep ffs). I just sat on the sofa, pretending to be half-asleep, until he was done being dramatic. Then I washed the dishes, because he may be an overdramatic idiot, but he had a point.”

