'So Now You Know: A Memoir of Growing Up Gay in India' is a meaningful look into the developmental years of a gay child in India during the 80s and 90s.'So Now You Know' is a memoir, recounting several phases and incedences the author went through from around the age of 8 to his early twenties. He looks back on how he became aware he was different and how he tried to fight it, for gays are depicted badly in media and his behaviour was looked down upon by his family. He looks back on the way he had to navigate the world alone and his introduction to the gay community. Mostly he looks back on the people who loved him or hurt him or both. The book shows how society and the media can make life difficult for homesexuals as they struggle to come to terms with themselves.The book is not a sad one, though he does look back on many low points. It's merely reflective and he's understanding and fair towards all he spoke about. It's heartwarming to see the affection with which he looks back at even those who hurt him. The book is eye-opening for those who aren't to close to any homosexuals and insightful for even those who know some. With less than 150 pages, this slim tome is a must read for all.