flabbythighs Thu 11-Apr-19 18:55:09

I remember a conversation I had with a male friend years ago when he started to date his now wife



He said she had said right at the start what she wanted out of a relationship - marriage kids house etc - they were both early 30's but her words were the clock is ticking and this is what I'm looking for , is this what you are looking for ? because I don't have time to waste if it isn't



I thought it was perhaps a little blunt but he liked the honesty of the whole situation and thought at least He knew where He stood



Perhaps you need this type of conversation adjusted to your expectations and if he cannot match that move on and make it quite clear to him you are wasting valuable time otherwise