A mom on Facebook shared a now-popular plea: for all other working mothers to stop excusing their husbands’ laziness, and to leave their marriage if need be.

In the post, writer Zawn Villines laments the usual advice given to tired moms.

"On every page I follow, in every parent group I am in, I see the same thing: mothers talking about how exhausted they are, how hurt they are by the imbalance of work in their heterosexual relationships. The problems are all some variation of "I just gave birth/am up half the night breastfeeding. Why do I have to also make dinner and clean while my spouse watches TV?" The advice is always the same: Be gentle with yourself. You can't do it all. Parenthood is hard.”

This mom is done with the sugarcoating, and goes straight to the point.

“I don't know which of you needs to hear this, but I'll give you some better advice: Divorce his ass.”

She talks about how society is much gentler with fathers, and how they're usually the first to get a break, no matter how tired a mother is.

“This cultural norm where a man buys his free time with his partner's labor, suffering and sometimes with the literal destruction of her body is misogyny on steroids. Men are not innately incompetent or lazy or incapable of doing their fair share.”