i see the way men talk about their attraction to women, and i can’t relate at all. i don’t want to watch lesbian pornography. i don’t want to go to strip clubs. i don’t want to joke with my friends about “wrecking pussy”.

it took me so, so long to realize that my feelings for women were authentic attraction because my attraction doesn’t look at all like what i see on tv, in movies, or even what i overhear in men’s conversations.