Hi. Me and my wife had a beautiful baby girl a few weeks ago. She is darling and I can't complain about her at all but I do have some problems with the process of her birth. Supposedly, in order to alleviate the pain and help along the process of giving birth, the doctor massaged my wife's clitoris while waiting for the baby to be delivered. Before he did so he asked my wife if it was okay and she said it would be fine. I had to just stand there holding my wife's hand while this doctor sexually aroused her. After a while I could tell she was really getting into it and she took her hand away from me and the doctor asked her if she wanted me to wait outside. I had to listen to the debate my presence until she eventually asked me to wait out in the hall for a few minutes. It was VERY apparent from the sounds I heard coming out of her that she was enjoying herself far beyond being distracted from the labor process. This went on for about 15 minutes after I left. When I was allowed back in the doctor and her were all flirty and it definitely smelled like the scent of a woman.

I talked to my wife about this two times since and each time she has pretty much ignored me by saying it was just a natural part of the labor process and it was strictly professional. I disagree. I know she liked it more than she is letting on because she has asked me to stimulate her in a very identical manner three times since then! What do I do about this!?