I'm Hindu. I respect Kali. And I haven't found a more erotic, beautiful vision of my goddess anywhere. It evokes a lot of Eros and lust. However, one also realizes respect for her form and grace.

The thing to note about Shakti or Kali is that she responds to bhav ( loosely translated as your passion/emotion/affection/desire and lust for her) As long as you respect her as Shiva or Rudra did and completely submit yourself to her, She will respond to your love and /or lust for her.

You'll never make her your own like Shiva did because you are not Him.

Shiva personifies a whole gamut of qualities. The day you imbibe Him, you'll find Shakti (Kali's transcendental form) in some or the other forms on you.

Thank you for the beautiful and erotic vision of the Goddess herself. May you make a thousand more.

Adam