I hear these stories all the time and was loosely thinking ‘won’t happen to me’ well this girl I went on two dates with (I made a post previously about ‘choking’) long story short she is a mega whore who is ‘bi’ (are any women not bi anymore?) and she is cold for most of date we go back to her place where she literally grabs my pants and rips them off and starts giving me a bj.

I was on a sexually abstinence spree so I stopped her (likely key to story) and we just make out. She tells me how she wants me to choke her, spank her, tie her down, how shes on her period but we can have sex in shower just dont blow it inside, etc etc. We do NOT have sex, because I don’t want to ruin my streak. I think this somewhat spurns her.

I leave. We also go on a 2nd date, shes cold again but talks about all the 3ways shes been in, loves fisting etc. She talks about how she’d rather have sex with a guy than hug/kiss him because ‘thats too intimate’. She also talks about how she never iniates sex and wants guys to just throw her down and take her. (Implying for me to do it?)

We drift apart and I think that is that.

Today I found out that this other guy who was mutual friends (he likes her, HEAVY white knight for her) had been talking to her, and so get this: she tells him that I basically raped her, forced myself on her etc etc.

This surprised me as I legitimately thought she would keep quiet about her ‘date’ with me, because she was an outright whore, but to see her randomly bring it up like a month later and spin it into a pseudo-rape stuns me a bit, because you think it can’t happen to you.

So glad I followed advice about making sure you get post-date texts about ‘had a good time’ in case it ever goes anywhere.

You have to have this stuff happen to be truly aware.