It’s hard not to think about it all this week: How close we were to witnessing a different sort of history, a different sort of presidency. How uncertain it seems, even now, that we’ll elect a female president the next time around, or the time after that. How much of the way we talk about women and analyze women has to change if we’re ever going to entrust women with enormous power — and not abandon that trust at the first sign of a misstep.