I did not say that gender based organisation is bad, quite the contrary, historically almost all organisations were sorted by gender (but women were not as discriminated as most think, as there are examples of powerful female rulers throughout history even in the darkest of the middle ages there were female rulers, like Matilda of Tuscany, or Irene of Byzantium).

However organisation focused on the sole pursuit of "scoring" is doomed to failure. Because while dating IS a game, the whole purpose of that game is not to just keep playing it, but to win it, and you win it, when you marry a person that you truly love and who loves you in return, and when you met that person he or she becomes absolute and every other organisation secondary.