Walking through the by-lanes of Arjun Nagar in South Delhi's Safdarjung area, one sees the humdrum of daily life – housewives buying groceries, schoolgoing children playing about, and vegetable sellers doing brisk business.

In this bustle, one sees the occasional African haggling with the bhajiwala – Indian style. At one corner, you see another African sipping on cutting chai, or, perhaps, in a general store stocking up on soap, shampoo and other toiletries. The only thing different is the colour of the skin.

There has been much debate over alleged racist discrimination against Africans living in India since the recent spate of attacks. Even as joint secretary (West Africa) Birender Yadav met the family members (cousins) of deceased Congolese national MT Oliver at the airport and conveyed his heartfelt condolences, the question most frequently asked is: Why does an African come to India?

Thirty five-year-old John Uche Jesus was keen to come to India ever since he grew up watching Bollywood movies in Nigeria. A fashion designer who designs Indian ethnic wear, Jesus claims that he "loved the movies, the culture, the concept of love portrayed in the movies, and, of course, fashion."

Congolese nationals Guylain Kongolo and Sandra Sambayi came to India for its affordable quality education. Across Africa, it is widely believed that, in India, one can avail good educational degrees that are internationally recognised and cheap, compared to western countries.

All three were aware it would be difficult to adapt to a new country. However, they did not anticipate just how difficult it would really be. "I completed my undergrad in London and I thought since the UK recognises Indians, it would be somewhat similar. I thought everyone would speak basic English at least," says MBA graduate Sambayi. The 30-year-old Congolese completed her post-graduation from Stratford University in South Delhi's Lajpat Nagar.

Kongolo, who came here almost a decade ago, claims that it has been tough logistically, but he has not suffered any threat to life – yet. Kongolo was lured by a dream that the Congolese ambassador to India sold to his countrymen. A country where one could avail cheap, quality education that one could apply once they returned to Congo.

The idea is to assimilate oneself in your host country. "When in Rome, do as the Romans do. I am a guest in this country; I must abide by local rules, customs and culture. Only then will I be accepted," said Jesus. This sentiment was echoed by almost universally by the African community.

"The actions of a few misguided youth who killed the Congolese national will not shape my opinion about all Indians in general, just like all Indians must not generalise all Africans for the act of a few who may be anti-social in their activities," Jesus added.

Amitabh Bachchan, Shah Rukh Khan and Bollywood aside, India is host to almost 39,517 foreign students. Students from almost 158 countries come to India to study information technology, medicine among other fields. Of these, African nationals make up a small but significant number.

While a section of the African community wants to return home at the first chance, another group which believes that the concept of love, as shown in movies will transcend to reality, is hopeful. "I believe if I am respectful of my actions here and adhere to local norms, perhaps Indians here will not be so scared of us anymore," Sambayi said.