Reading between the lines and connecting some dots with a hearty dose of speculation I think Katie T and her wandering husband probably shared his Yelp account for restaurant reviews. His non-existent sense of computer security meant it didn't occur to him that what he could read she could read. So we know he isn't very smart.



With no Yelp friends, no Yelp reviews, and a join date in July 2018 it's pretty clear she is venting in the sandbox that led to her husband's transgressions; at least the most recent ones



For those who like process models Katie is currently between shock and anger as may be expected.



I have been where you are. You have my condolences. What follows is my opinion. They may not work for you. You will have to find your own way. Lashing out to hurt someone as you have been hurt is not productive. It leads to embarrassment, defensiveness, and self-loathing. You have to decide if your marriage and family are worth saving or if the betrayal is too deep. Only you can decide that. In my case I made an effort with my first wife. I had three requirements: 1. Testing for STDs (not that you have to insist on testing for herpes - there are a lot of false positives so many tests leave them out). 2. Do not see the other man again. 3. Change jobs (they worked together). My first wife could only manage the first of three. *sigh* Divorce followed. Perhaps you will be more fortunate than I was.