I identified as genderfluid for a while and I can confirm that this was literally it.

Some days I wanted to feel handsome, wear jeans and a loose sweatshirt, and basically LARP as a masculine boy. Other days I wanted to feel pretty, wear a dress, and basically LARP as a feminine girl. Some days I wanted both or neither.

I adjusted my conception of myself based on how I wanted to dress and whether I wanted to act out masculine or feminine stereotypes that day. I was never just a woman who did and wore whatever she wanted. Because god forbid a woman wears men’s clothes and still dares to call herself a woman, right?

Genderfluidity is the most gender-role-reinforcing bullshit.