Suddenly this got reblogged all over tumblr? What the shit?

Seeing as people are either skimming or arguing a point that I agree with (bigotry is not ok, and there’s no fucking excuse for it) or I don’t even know what with this rant, let me reiterate (because I word myself shittily to begin with):

- Bigotry of any form is not only not ok, but I can’t comprehend any reason for it. I don’t even see why I have to state this.

- A DID system (like our’s) can have a mixture of ethnicities, beliefs, opinions, etc that are not shared across the system

- DID isn’t PC. Anyone trying to make someone else’s system act PC is a fucking idiot. What’s more, what may be PC to you is offensive to plenty of other people. That’s like walking into a town and telling everyone bhow to speak/behave based off of your morals and views.

- A lot of systems with agressive members tend to only let those multiples front when it’s safe to do so. Mike wouldn’t be allowed to hang out with 99% of my friends because he’s a miserable, hateful fuck who will pick on them. So the realistic way to handle that is for him to not interact with them UNLESS THEY insist on it (and they’re prepped before hand)

- Anyone using any disorder or difference in themselves or their morals of any kind as a means/excuse to hurt someone or fuck someone over or manipulate them is a fuck. It is inexcusable. I have ASPD and you don’t see me selfishly dicking over everyone around me. Can people and/or systems always control their actions? No, but they can take responcibility for them.

So if anyone reads the below unedited original rant and sees it as an excuse to be racist or a bigot, do me a favor:

- Go educate yourself on how to properly deal with someone who is a bigot (being an ass to them does not educate them, it enables them)

- Go educate yourself on DID and how extreme some multiples can be (bigots, rapists, addicts, violence prone protectors, etc)

- go volunteer to work with both groups mentioned

- and then shut up, read and learn for the next few years, and then re-evalutate yourself and the views you’re pushing on someone else

We are not all here to be your friends, or friendly, or get along with you, or be respectful. We don’t all have the same fucking opinions. Some of us are complete and total fucking assholes. I’m body, gender, and race/ethnicity positive. I actually could give a shit less about those things and don’t understand why anyone would have an issue with it. Maybe that’s the utter indifference of the ASPD talking, but you’re all people. It’s that simple. That being said: Mike is a racist and bigoted fuck. It’s how he is. He’s not going to change unless he feels like it. And he’s like that because he’s miserable. That’s his problem. We’re not going to silence or censor him just because we don’t agree with him. Generally he doesn’t take it out on people, but it happens. Funny enough, Jack is more prone to saying horribly hateful things but he’s not bigoted in the least. He just takes the way his ASPD makes him feel towards people and lets it dictate that he’s amused by their being offended by him. If he’s a bigot or a racist, then he’s a bigot and/or racist towards everything on the planet, including himself. And that’s just not logical. If I can tolerate living with this shit 24/7, you can tolerate it’s existence and not shame us for it. It doesn’t help anything.