Am I the only one out there that can't seem to make any progress with OLD? I'm doing the work, getting and going on dates, reaching out to people. Either I like them and they don't like me, or vice versa. Was in my first relationship in years in 2017 for about 6 months, but he ended it and is now happy as fuck with someone else. Meanwhile I'm getting nothing but an inferiority complex, and find myself resenting his happiness. Starting to think I pissed off the universe somehow and being eternally single is my punishment. Am I alone here? How do you guys deal with the awfulness of OLD gone bad?

EDIT: You guys are all awesome. Thank you for sharing your stories and words of support.