Life is so beautiful and we have to live and enjoy every little moment in our life. However, some time we all are facing some ups and downs. We school/ college/office going girls are always excited and happy to share our happiness with their family, friends. But react opposite when we are facing troubles in our life. Being a girl facing the problems like not scoring marks,socialization or may be not able to full fill the expectation of your parents, breakups, workplace harassment is very much common these days. But sometimes a girl does not have courage to share her problems with her family. She always has a hesitation that what others will say.

So generally she keeps hiding her problems from family and friends and always wears a fake smile on her face. This is where problem lies. Why she keep pretending that she is OK and not having any issue or problems in her life?

I know it’s really difficult situation to tell anyone that you are in some problems, feeling sad or upset. When you keep hiding your feelings or problems inside yourself than its just ruins your life and you kill yourself day by day.

Try this thing

Share your feelings with your mom, dad family, colleague (in case of workplace problems) or your close friend and let them know that you are in trouble. This is the easiest ways you can get out of your troubles. Let them know that you need tight hug, shoulder to cry, wipe your tears? Don’t feel scary to say that “you need someone /please save my life/ be there for me/ need you”. Don’t afraid of rejection. Don’t think that those who loves you will be happy if you are in trouble and this is just your perception. Don’t bother about what they say and how they will react to your problem. After sharing you problems definitely, you will feel more relax, more confident and stress free.

For Parents

Girls are very innocents and get hurts easily. Some problems in life like career judgement, socialization, breakups, and workplace harassment can break them emotionally and mentally. All these are likely to make them depressed and stressed. One and only best solution for these problems is your unconditional love and care. Be there like friend and give them surety that you are always there to stand with them without being demanding. This will help them to get out of problems easily.Your unconditional love and support will make her confidant to face problem in life. Speaking harshly or imposing things will only make situations worse for you as well as them.

Share with us if you are facing some problems and how you overcome from the problems in the comments below.