'I'm so much more blessed now': Mother-of-two disfigured in horrific Lye attack says she wouldn't take back what happened to her as she awaits face transplant

Carmen Tarleton, 44, suffered burns to 80 per cent of her body five years ago



Ex-lover Herb Rodgers broke into her Vermont home, doused her with industrial-strength Lye and beat her with a baseball bat

Claims she sees more of life's blessings having been through the ordeal

But 'reliving that night was sickening,' she said of writing her book

A mother-of-two whose estranged husband poured industrial-strength Lye over her in a horrific attack that left her so disfigured she's awaiting a face transplant claims she wouldn't take back what happened to her.

In a captivating new book, Carmen Tarleton, 44, says she is 'more blessed' now than she was before her ex, Herb Rodgers, broke into her home five years ago and unleashed his anger.



'When life gives you a big negative situation like I'd been through, if you can get through that, you can really find all of the blessings and all of the positive things that can come out of that,' she said.

'And I found so much that I would not go back. I'm so much more blessed than I was then.'

Brave: Carmen Tarleton, 44, pictured prior to her face transplant surgery, says she is 'more blessed' now than she was before the 2007 attack

While she lay in a hospital bed after surviving what doctors called 'the most horrific injury a human being could suffer,' Tarleton decided it did not have to ruin the rest of her life.



She had vivid dreams, including one where dozens of doors stretched around her and a voice said 'Life is a choice,' before the words appeared one at a time in white across a dark movie screen: LIFE IS A CHOICE.

Tarleton carried that lesson with her through her ongoing, daunting and remarkable recovery from the attack, which also saw Rodgers beat her with a baseball bat.



Tarleton's book, to be published in March, is called 'Overcome: Burned, Blinded and Blessed,' and she hopes it will speak to everyone, not just victims of abuse.



'I think I can help a whole bunch of people, not just domestic violence (victims),' said the woman, who continues to undergo surgeries. 'I think I can help a whole bunch of people wherever you are in your life.'

Before: Tarleton, pictured, was suffered burns over 80 per cent of her body in the horrific act of domestic abuse

Face transplant: Tarleton, pictured at high school in 1986, received the face transplant earlier this month

The book starts with Tarleton's decision at 28 to move across the country from her native Vermont to Los Angeles, with her two children in tow, to work as a nurse at a UCLA hospital.

There she met Rodgers, whom she eventually married. The family moved back to Thetford, where her marriage started to unravel — in part over Rodgers' dishonesty, she writes.

Tarleton recalls what she now says was a premonition. One evening when she was about to leave for her night shift at the hospital, her 12-year-old daughter was sobbing in her bedroom. When she asked what was wrong, her daughter said,

'Something really, really bad is going to happen to you.'



Eight months later, it did. Rodgers is serving a minimum of 30 years in prison for the June 2007 attack.

When she set out to write the book three years later with only limited vision in one eye, she stalled when it came time to explain what Rodgers had done to her that night. She had to coach herself through it.

Sickening: The mother-of-two, pictured while awaiting surgery, said reliving the night of the attack for her book was 'sickening'

Horrific: Doctors called what Tarleton, pictured before surgery, experienced 'the most horrific injury a human being could suffer'

'Alone at my magnifying machine, I felt physically ill with what I was doing,' she wrote.



'The experience of reliving that night, trying to capture every detail as vividly as I remembered it, was sickening. Halfway through, I let my pen drop and rushed to my bedroom, the edges of my limited vision blackening.'



It took her two days to write it. It was scary, but it was what she wanted to do, she said. She talked out the rest of the book and recorded it. She hired Writers of the Round Table Press to write it all down, including dialogue she had recalled.



'I was paying attention, because some of it I couldn't forget if I wanted to,' she said.



She writes about facing Rodgers in court, how she dealt with being blind and disfigured, her pain, the help she has received from her community, family and friends, and how she came to forgive the man who maimed her so she could get on with her own life.

In prison: Herb Rodgers, pictured, is serving a minimum of 30 years in prison for the June 2007 attack on his wife

Uplifting: Tarleton's book 'Overcome: Burned, Blinded and Blessed' is on shelves from March

'That's where I feel people get stuck because we don't have a segment of our society that says just because this terrible thing happened to you it doesn't have to ruin the rest of your life,' she said. 'And I want to be the example of that because it doesn't.'

Publishing the book was a no-brainer for Writers of the Round Table Press, said vice president David Cohen.



'Taking that kind of experience and turning that energy into something positive and wanting to go out there and effect change with as much as she had to overcome, to me was just striking,' Cohen said.



As Tarleton awaits approval for a procedure that could help her get a face transplant, she looks forward to feeling well enough to speak publicly again about her ordeal to help others.



She has had several recent surgeries to install a catheter in her chest and was sick last winter with hyperthyroidism.