You're too young to have sex.

How old is the guy? Be careful so you don't end up pregnant! Use protection and please realize that sex IS serious, you don't know who he has slept with no matter what he tells you.

he might have a disease, he might have HIV, you don't know! You need to WAIT before you have sex with a person, it can be dangerous and you can never be too careful now a days.

And the part about "bigger man parts" is so ridiculous...Do people actually believe in that myth that btw came from the mandingo.

No, it's not true! We are all different. Some have bigger "man parts" than others, has nothing to do with skin color! You are obviously not old enough mentally to have sex.