fuck him and his gaslighting bullshit.

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Gee, I wonder who TMZ "obtained" the text messages from?

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lol keep digging that hole bud

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" it's hard to believe Chloe would try for months to get back with him if she was being emotionally and sexually abused, as she claimed last week."



nice gaslighting! this makes me rage. how many sources should i bother copy and pasting for the obvious message here that abusive relationships are VERY difficult to leave/get over. it's not a fucking mystery. and him spinning it as "if i was abusive why would she say this?" makes me think 100% that he's exactly what she said he was.

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I mean, that proves nothing, people want to get back with their abusers all the time. The son-in-law of Patty Hearst should understand Stockholm Syndrome but I will keep a vaguely open-mind because I am awaiting Janet Varney’s comment (did she comment yet?). They’ve stayed close and though she shouldn’t have to comment, she’s someone I believe totally.

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So is TMZ the official mouthpiece of "wronged" men?

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Yikes man.

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Everything Hardwick has said has been Excuses 101

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Proving that men will grasp at any excuse to defend their behavior. TMZ is also trash and Harvey Levin is a Trump defender, so there you go.

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“emotional affair”. Like the one Chis Hardwick had with Chloe while he was still dating Janet Varney, when Chloe was put ‘on hold’ while Chris decided what to do..?



He’s not an innocent victim. pic.twitter.com/fIACH54sES — Sonja Nelson (@tweedandtales) June 19, 2018





I don't know if this is real or not, but apparently I guess Chloe had been on reddit and commented before about her situation with Chris.

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this is what i dont get, she's been talking about this on reddit for at least a year. this is the longest con if she ~made it up like he's claiming she is

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I'm assuming Janet has/had no knowledge of this considering her and Chris are still very close.





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wow I wonder who TMZ “obtained” these messages from

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Yep I def thought I would be forever alone if I wasn’t with my ex

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I mean, abuse fucks you up in a lot of ways. It's not unheard of for victims to become dependent on their abusers and fear losing them.

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UGHHH fuck this noise



Shit doesn’t exist in a black or white vacuum



As much as I recognize my ex was emotionally abusing me, sometimes I get in my feelings and want him back and wish it worked out and wondered what I could have done different



I spent years trying to get him back



How does any of that invalidate the abuse??

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Ok I may need to go back and read but didn’t Chloe address *all* of this in her eassay? For sure the cheating (IIRC it was a kiss, and what got her to get out of the relationship) but didn’t she also mention that she had reached out for quite a bit after she and Chris broke up!? Am I hallucinating!?

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She did, and just like his apology, he's trying to change the narrative again.

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Well I'm glad I'm not the only one picking up on that.



I, for my life, can't find the tweet anymore either but someone out there went back through his book and found a quote along the lines of "and make sure you leave your GF in your hotel room at SDCC because she'll just get in your way of having a good time" like 100% acknowledges locking her up "for her own good/enjoyment" I will also NOT give this shithead any more $$ in buying his book to try and find said quote.



BARF



ETA: went back to look for tweet again. Can't find it. Guessing it was probably faked in some regard... but still.



Edited at 2018-06-19 10:46 pm (UTC)

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seriously? I'm about 2 months out of an abusive thing and most days I'm fine and it's getting better but like yesterday I was weepy and sad becuase I missed him. I miss him every day. He still emotionally abused me and used me for sex and tossed me away. It doesn't make me stop caring about him

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saying that, abuse doesn't stop us from loving our abusers



Edited at 2018-06-19 08:29 pm (UTC)

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Eventually it will. Takes time but if you stick to your guns, one day you'll find yourself only looking back in relief without the feels.

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It gets better. Soon you will grow angry and resentful and then realize you are better off without him. Don't beat yourself up too much though. Fuck that guy and what he did to you.



Also, I know the missing feels. I begged my ex to get back with me and now 6 years later my life is much better...much much better.

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stay strong! soon you won't miss him at all :)

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it took me a long time to stop missing my abuser too :( i'm sorry bb i'm glad you're out

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