There are lesbians and bi women who are not penis-repulsed.

And there are some who are penis-repulsed, with or *without* trauma.

“I would never date a trans woman,” is transphobic because it is a blanket statement on all trans women, implying they are men.

“I have penis-repulsion, which limits my sexual compatability with some women,” is a better, less transphobic thing to say cuz it can also *potentially* refer to incompatability w/ cis women who prefer using synthetic phalluses, while validating womanhood regardless of genitals—which are not uniform.