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To get a girlfriend in middle school, make her notice you by chatting to friends before class, which shows you’re a sociable and likable person. During class, answer a few questions to show that you’re smart. If you’re sitting next to her, try making small talk, like asking her if she’s ready for the test. When you run into her in the hall, make eye contact and say hi to show that you like her. Once you’re ready to start a conversation, ask her what she’s doing next, or make a harmless joke about someone you both know. You should also ask casually about her hobbies or pets to show you’re interested in her life. After you’ve gotten to know each other, pick a time to ask her out, like in the hall after school, so you’re not rushed and can have some time alone. For tips on how to act maturely after asking a girl out, keep reading!