If you listen too much to the politicians, you could be forgiven for thinking that the Netherlands is on the verge of collapse. Integration has failed, refugees are running riot, pensioners are impoverished and everyone supports Geert Wilders.

Nonsense! The economy is on the up, crime is down and 80% of people don’t vote for the PVV.

Politicians may be waxing lyrical about the way the Netherlands used to be, but nostalgia for the 1950s is largely misplaced. Women were stuck at home, it was perfectly legal to discriminate against gay people, we were less well educated and even though there were far fewer cars, we were more likely to die in a traffic accident.

So as 12 million people in the Netherlands cast their votes for the next government, here’s a list of 12 reasons for optimism.

1 Women are working more and earning more

Seven in 10 women now have a job. They might only work part-time but hey, it was not until 1956 that a law requiring married women to have their husband’s permission to work was actually torn up. And until 1957, married women were banned from working for the civil service.

There is still a pay gap but it is closing, and young women in their 20s now earn between 5% and 15% more than their male colleagues.

2 We’re more polite

We’re being nice to each other. Despite the politicians’ rants about the decline in those mysterious Dutch normen en waarden, just 14% of shoppers say they are treated rudely by staff, compared with 23% in 2008.

3 We are better educated

In 1950, fewer than 10,000 people graduated from university or college. Last academic year 95,000 graduates joined the workforce.

4 The Dutch are among the happiest people in the world

Dutch children are so happy, people write books about them. Teenagers are pretty content too – last year, research showed nine out of 10 are happy with their lives. And the adults are pretty positive as well.

5 Gay people have more rights

Although same sex sexually activity in the Netherlands has been legal since 1811, it was not until 1973 that homosexuality was declassified as a mental illness and 1993 before discrimination on grounds of sexuality was made illegal. Gay marriage followed in 2001, as did same sex adoption, but it took a further 13 years before it became illegal for registrars to refuse to marry gay couples.

6 Immigrants are doing better

The Netherlands has always been home to a mixture of different tribes and religions and most people are pretty relaxed about it. Today, second generation immigrants and refugee children are doing better at school, they are more likely to have jobs and they are making inroads into higher education. The mayor of Rotterdam, the chairman of the lower house of parliament and one of the judges on the Voice of Holland all have Moroccan roots. And what could be more Dutch than that?

7 No deforestation here

In 1952, there were 260,000 hectares of woods in the Netherlands – but that has now soared to 360,000 hectares. At the same time, the otter and the wolf are back, and we’ve so many deer and wild boar we have to shoot them

8 We’ve got a lot of world champions

Draughts, darts, speed skating, women’s 200 metres sprint, gymnastics, sustainable coffee, solar cars, low fat cheese….

9 The crime rate is down

We can dispute the actual figures, but however you calculate it, the crime rate has been falling steadily for years. In 2016, there were around two murders a week in the Netherlands, in a population of 17 million.

10 There is less terrorism

We don’t want to tempt fate, but it is worth pointing out that in the 1970s and 1980s, some 30 people were killed in 70 terrorist attacks in the Netherlands. The last attack, apart from the murder of Theo van Gogh, was the killing of two Australians by the IRA in Roermond in 1990.

11 Less church and foster care abuse

In the 1950s, hundreds of children faced physical and sexual abuse in institutional care and via the Catholic church in particular. Today there are more checks on carers and the victims from all those years ago are finally getting recognition and compensation.

12 We’re much better protected against the sea

Over 1,800 people died in the great floods of 1953, when the dykes in the south of the country broke. The tragedy led to the development of the Delta Works flood prevention scheme, a massive complex of dykes and sluice gates along much of the southern coastline. And today, Dutch experts are involved in water defence projects all over the world.

And by the way, we might think that the entire country is low lying, but in fact only 26% of the land mass is below sea level. So even with global warming, we can just nip up to Groningen to keep our feet dry.