Thus past weekend, I attended an unusual wedding. The minister presided over the wedding in a cow patch. We were driven to the pasture on a hay ride. The best man (my son) was barefoot, and the bride wore cowboy boots. But at least this millennial couple was getting married. I guess that puts them in the minority with their peers — sadly.

A Drudge.com headline very recently, on July 28, declared, "Americans Aren't Getting Married."

Writing for Bloomberg.com on the same day, Ben Steverman notes in the Drudge-linked article contained therein, "The U.S. marriage rate — the number of new marriages per 1,000 people — has been falling for decades. . . . And research firm IbisWorld predicts the marriage rate will keep falling over the next five years."

He adds, "It’s unclear whether the decline of the American wedding is a permanent trend. American millennials lag previous generations on many metrics of adulthood . . . Maybe most of them will eventually get around to weddings of their own — but then, it’s possible that many never will, and that they’ll bring the U.S. marriage rate closer to Europe's."

It would be disastrous for this country if we went Europe's route by being a post-marriage society. The old cliché is still true — "As the family goes, so goes society."

So what’s happened to marriage in America?

No fault divorce has made it easy to get unhitched. When divorce is an easy out, then couples can look for an easy exit when the going gets tough.

Hollywood has turned monogamy into monotony. The irony is that surveys show that those who are married tend to enjoy everything on a much more fulfilling basis. And that includes intimacy.

Living in sin (as cohabitation used to be called) has lost its stigma — but most couples falling under that category don’t seem to comprehend that. Statistically, living in sin prepares you for divorce more than it does for a happy marriage.

Although millions profess Christian beliefs, too many compartmentalize their lives and fail to live by Christian standards, i.e., no sex outside of traditional marriage.

Government tax policies, especially in examples of welfare, have subsidized single parenthood, thus, breaking the back of the urban family. Instead of actually helping the poor, welfare has ensured their long-term misery — because the family is the key to upward mobility.

A Marxist attack on marriage has been quite effective. In "The Communist Manifesto," Karl Marx and Friedrich Engels specifically call for the "abolition of the family." My friend, Dr. Paul Kengor, authored a entire book about this, "Takedown: From Communists to Progressives, How the Left Has Sabotaged Family and Marriage."

Traditional marriage is good for individuals all the way around. Numerous studies show it’s good for your spiritual health, your mental health, your physical health, and your fiscal health.

Many today think marriage is unnecessary. They think marriage is misery, and singleness is bliss.

Perhaps one of the biggest myths of all about marriage is that feelings are all that matter. But feelings come and go. As my wife (for 37 years, thank God) once put it, "Our culture says, 'Cling to your feelings.' God says, 'Cling to your spouse.'"

Several years ago, sociologist Linda J. Waite and columnist Maggie Gallagher authored a definitive book on how marriage is good for society— on virtually every front, "The Case for Marriage: Why Married People Are Happier, Healthier, and Better Off Financially."

They combed through all the research, concluding, "The scientific evidence is now overwhelming: Marriage is not just one of a wide variety of alternate family forms or intimate relations, each of which are equally good at promoting the well-being of children or adults. Marriage is not merely a private taste or a private relation; it is an important public good."

Waite and Gallagher add, "As marriage weakens, the costs are borne not only by individual children or families, but also by all of us taxpayers, citizens, and neighbors. We all incur the costs of higher crime, welfare, education and healthcare expenditures, and in reduced security for our own marriage investments. Simply as a matter of public health alone, to take just one public consequence of marriage’s decline, a new campaign to reduce marriage failure is as important as the campaign to reduce smoking."

The couple wed in the cow patch said a mixture of traditional vows along with some interesting twists, such as, "I will protect you and stand by your side. I vow not just to grow old together, but to grow together. I will love you faithfully when things are easy and when life gets tough. . . . I vow to love you with all I have and hope to be, until Jesus calls me home to heaven."

Marriage is worth saving. I hope more millennials will come to learn that — for all of our sakes.

Jerry Newcombe is co-host/senior TV producer of Kennedy Classics. He has written/co-written 25 books, including "The Book That Made America, Doubting Thomas" (with Mark Beliles), "What If Jesus Had Never Been Born?" (With D. James Kennedy), and "George Washington's Sacred Fire" (with Peter Lillback). For more of his reports, Go Here Now.