about

interests include

lots of fandoms and stuff

shipping

ocs [drawing, writing and rping about said ocs]

vocaloid/utau music - check out my song recommendation list here!

social justice

psychology

also, i run two rp blogs! if you see me follow your RP account it’s likely because i mean to rp with you from either of these two accounts:

i’m not really sure what my gender is!! genderfluid-ish, but most of the time im a woman or at least woman-aligned, but yet at the same time i kinda wanna be everything?? idk. its complicated. i dont consider myself to experience transphobia necessarily

i’m also bi and i talk about biphobia within the community quite a bit.

im also neurodivergent which serves for a fun blogging experience on occasion. that is to say, sometimes this blog will be The Suffering Hour - but generally speaking as soon as someone starts whining about me ~romanticizing mental illness ;-;~ i start fucking with them. specifically the following kinds of fun brain time will be happening:

depression [pro-dxed]

anxiety associated with depression [pro-dxed]

ADHD [pro-dxed]

autism Traits that probably would have resulted in a PDD-NOS diagnosis if that disorder existed anymore [pro-dxed]

PTSD [pro-dxed]

possibly dermatillomania [self-dxed but not 100% certain, more like I Probably Have This], im not sure if this is a standalone disorder or connected with OCD which would explain a lot of things

possibly OCD according to a couple professionals, looking into it at some point [self-dxed]

on very rare occasion i’m kind of not piloting my own body but i don’t think that’s DID, i just don’t know what that could be related to? dissociation of some kind

if there’s something you want me to see, tag it with “#winterywitch” or just submit it to me!

i can tag pretty much everything if asked to (i already tag basic Distressing Things), just let me know if you need something tagged and i’ll try my best to remember.

on the other hand i’d generally like the following things tagged

graphic descriptions/depictions of rape or any sort of nonconsensual intimacy (just “#rape warning” is fine, i dont need mentions tagged)

of rape or any sort of nonconsensual intimacy (just “#rape warning” is fine, i dont need mentions tagged) pedophilia, incest, abuse ships, general Promblematic stuff people use to cope w/ trauma - i dont ask you tag it bc it triggers me, i ask you tag it bc not knowing if someone is coping ethically or if someone is coping UNethically (ie: not tagging their stuff, publicly posting pedophilic content etc, anything that puts this content out publicly where it can hurt other survivors) (or god forbid not coping at all and just fetishizing these things) is triggering for me. i understand that not everyone can tag these, and im not gonna ask everyone to out themselves as survivors but if you can, it helps my hypervigilance die down a lot (#pedophilia, #incest, #abuse warning, #abuse mention, etc)

babies or children crying (#kids crying)

people crying bc they’re given animals (#surprise pets)

general happy crying (#tears of joy)

uncritical cinnamon roll-ization of any abusive character but particularly jasper. it helps to know if youre a survivor and youre doing it to cope but you dont HAVE to tell me, just please tag this if you can (#kara don’t look)

biphobia/aphobia , this is a huge deal. im just tired of me and my loved ones being categorized as Less Radical Failed Fake LGBTs Who Should Shut Up And Sit Down And Let The Real LGBTs Do The Talking. im talking about horizontal aggression within the community, not even necessarily straight people doing it

, this is a huge deal. im just tired of me and my loved ones being categorized as Less Radical Failed Fake LGBTs Who Should Shut Up And Sit Down And Let The Real LGBTs Do The Talking. anything that delves into mortality/any definite ending of life or existence, i dont mean death talk that implies a concrete afterlife i mean things that DONT imply a concrete afterlife. includes plotlines with immortal characters outliving mortal characters, stuff like that. ive just kind of suddenly developed really bad thanatophobia this year [as of early 2017] and just, please please please tag stuff like this. again im fine with talk of death that involves an afterlife, in fact PLEASE DON’T tag posts like this with “kara dont look” or anything, i WANT to see stuff like that. but talk of death that implies there is none, or just doesn’t focus on one, please tag that (#thanatophobia, #thanatophobia warning/mention/etc)

i dont mean death talk that implies a concrete afterlife i mean things that DONT imply a concrete afterlife. includes plotlines with immortal characters outliving mortal characters, stuff like that. ive just kind of suddenly developed really bad thanatophobia this year [as of early 2017] and just, please please please tag stuff like this. again im fine with talk of death that involves an afterlife, in fact PLEASE DON’T tag posts like this with “kara dont look” or anything, i WANT to see stuff like that. but talk of death that implies there is none, or just doesn’t focus on one, tag that (#thanatophobia, #thanatophobia warning/mention/etc) idk #kara don’t look is fine for any of these

if im using a term or presenting an argument that’s shitty or bigoted for some reason uncritically, let me know! i’ll do my best to research the history of the term on my own. feel free to tell me your experience with it, it’ll be much easier for me to get what’s wrong with the term.

check out my BYF list before you follow, both for your sake and mine.

if you have ocs feel free to have them interact with mine in some way!! im never against rping or anything like that, i love having ocs interact and having a Good Time™.

tags i use a lot

