Want to have Multiple Male Orgasms? (*Hint: They can’t be “Wet”)

Generally speaking, the terms “ejaculation” and “orgasm” are used interchangeably in discussions about male sexuality. In fact, many people-including those born with a male anatomy-don’t even know that there is a difference because the two actions often occur simultaneously, or close enough together that we perceive them as happening at the same time. So, what is the difference between orgasm and ejaculation? And what is Multiple Male Orgasms? To boil it down to the simplest of terms, orgasm occurs in the brain whereas ejaculation has to do with the prostate and urethra (the route that both semen and urine take to leave the body).

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Even though the phrasing above makes it sound very simple, truthfully there is a lot going on in your body and brain during these two events whether they occur at the same time or separately. Let’s break it down and look into what’s going on as “the big moment” arrives.

Understanding the Male Orgasm

It all starts with testosterone, the sex hormone responsible for arousal. Of course there are other elements at play, such as psychological and environmental factors that impact how you get into the mood. Issues ranging from low testosterone to depression and anxiety can negatively impact a man’s libido-even when he might otherwise really want to have sex. Other health issues can also come into play here, as arousal is as much mental as it is physical.

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Researchers have conducted brain scans on how the largest organ inside the human body reacts to orgasm, and the results aren’t all that surprising. Considering the toe-curling, spine-tingling sensations of orgasm, it shouldn’t alarm you to learn that the pathways inside the brain light up like a decked-out Christmas tree. In fact, these researchers have compared their findings regarding the brain’s response to orgasm to be similar to the brain’s function when an epilepsy patient is in the throes of a fit. Except, obviously, having an orgasm is significantly more enjoyable.

Nerves and their Role in Sexual Arousal

As we touched on above, orgasm has more to do with the brain, but that doesn’t mean that a man’s genitals have nothing to do with it. There are three types of nerves that send messages between the genitals or prostate and the brain and are responsible for both orgasm and the euphoria that a person may feel before climax even occurs.

The hypogastric nerve – Transmits messages between the brain and the prostate. The pelvic nerve – Transmits messages from the rectum to the brain in both sexes. The pudenal nerve – Sends messages from the penis and scrotum to the brain.

For the sake of providing inclusive information, there is a fourth nerve that is present in female anatomy-the vagus nerve, which transmits messages to the brain from the cervix, vagina and uterus.

Once these nerves have been engaged, meaning that arousal has occurred, the brain picks up on these sensations in the amygdala, cerebellum, pituitary gland, nucleus accumbus and the ventral tengmental area (or TVA). All of these regions of the brain have to do with arousal and inevitable orgasm when stimulation continues. It shouldn’t be any kind of surprise that the brain has everything to do with one’s feelings of arousal, but not so many people expect so many parts of the brain to have a role to play in it.

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While we are on the subject of the brain and orgasm, let’s quickly discuss the lateral orbitofrontal cortex. This region of the brain exists behind the left eye and essentially “shuts down” when orgasm occurs. The lateral orbitofrontal cortex is responsible for your ability to reason and make decisions. According to the Journal of Neuroscience, the brain of a man or woman in the throes of orgasm is similar, for the time of orgasm, to the brains of men and women who are under the influence of heroin. Except an orgasm is infinitely safer than heroin, of course.

Multiple Male Orgasms and ‘Dry Orgasm?’

A dry orgasm occurs when a man experiences the sensations of orgasm without the ejaculation that is usually associated with it.

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This is an example of how orgasm and ejaculation are two different things, though they are often regarded as one and the same. When most people say “orgasm,” ejaculation is usually implied-and perhaps this isn’t the most inaccurate thought in the world, as ejaculation typically occurs at the same time as orgasm. However, it is worth noting that the two can happen separately during a sexual experience. One can even occur without the other, though this isn’t as common. To understand multiple male orgasms you need to understand the stages of orgasm:

The Stages of Ejaculation

Most sources cite four stages that are inherent to ejaculation, the combination of protein-rich fluid and semen exiting the penis via the urethra. Before we go into detail as to what these four stages are, we want to inform you that there is no one “right” way to come. Some men experience only some of these four stages, while others experience them all as a part of the male sexual cycle. This is not by any means abnormal or generally a cause for worry.

Each sexual experience, either alone or with a partner, can differ from the previous or the next. This is something that you should keep at the back of your mind.

Stage 1: Arousal

This is where the fun begins: when a man finds himself sexually stimulated or “turned on.” When he experiences arousal, blood fills the spongy tissue inside the shaft of his penis. This, as you may have guessed, leads to the erection that most men consider to be the “main event.” During this time, quite a few interesting things transpire inside of a man’s body.

Blood rushes to their penile tissue at up to fifty times the rate that it usually would.

Veins in the penis become shut, keeping the blood inside so that the man may maintain his erection until climax.

The scrotum draws up closer to the body.

Tension increases in muscles all over the body.

Stage 2: Plateau

This stage involves the body preparing itself for ejaculation. A man will experience involuntary muscle movements, such as pelvic thrusting for example, and he (or his partner) may see a clear pre-ejaculatory fluid (or “precum”) coming from the tip of the penis. This fluid exists to balance out the pH levels of the urethra so that the actual semen that’s produced has a better chance for survival.

Note: Precum can contain trace amounts of semen, which can lead to pregnancy. It can also transmit STDs to your partner. If you wish to avoid STD transmission and/or pregnancy, protection should be used throughout sex. Men often do not feel the emergence of pre-ejaculatory fluid when it occurs.

During this time, a man’s heart rate may drastically increase to as high as 175 beats per minute.

Stage 3: Ejaculation

This occurs in two parts, which we will outline below.

Emission – This is also commonly referred to as “ejaculatory inevitability” or “the point of no return.” Emission involves semen building up toward the head of the penis in preparation for the second stage, actual ejaculation.

Ejaculation – Rapid movements of the penile muscles and the muscles around the anus cause a mixture of semen and protein-rich fluid to exit the penis via the urethra. The same nerves that are responsible for this release are also responsible for sending signals to the brain that result in feelings of great pleasure.

Stage 4: Resolution and Refraction

After ejaculation has occurred, the penis will quickly lose up to half of its stiffness. It will soften the rest of the way rather rapidly after that, and the man may feel sleepy or “blissed out.” Many men will also experience what is known as a refraction period, wherein they cannot get another erection immediately after ejaculation.

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We know that a lot of this sounds rather clinical, but when we try and understand the functions of the human body it is essential that we know what these functions entail. The more you know about your anatomy and how it relates to your sex life, the sooner you will be able to identify any concerns and irregularities.

But why would you want to have a “Dry Orgasm”?

If you want to have multiple male orgasms, you don’t want to ejaculate. Once you ejaculate, the refractory period starts and you have to wait to orgasm again. The younger you are, the shorter the intermission, the older you are the longer the time between ejaculations. But if you don’t ejaculate you can have unlimited orgasms! So how do you have dry orgasms? One of the best ways to have a dry orgasm is through direct prostate (also called the “P” Spot) stimulation via a prostate massage or use of a prostate massager. And many men report that prostate orgasms are even more powerful than penile orgasms. (Keep in mind that penis stimulation is a “no-no” if you want to have multiple male orgasms. Check out Tip# 4) So if you want to have unlimited powerful dry orgasms, you and/or and your partner have some experimenting to do!