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To touch a girl, start by making sure that she’s comfortable with you. Look for an opportunity to touch her arm or hand for just a moment, and pay attention to her reaction to make sure the touch is welcome. You can progress your relationship by letting your touches linger a little longer, brushing your leg against hers under a table, or placing your hand on the small of her back as you walk through a door. If she seems uncomfortable at any point, stop touching her immediately and respect her boundaries. To learn more, such as what not to do when you're trying to touch a girl, keep reading the article!