user1471427667 Mon 20-Jan-20 12:30:58

Bf of 2 years sent me this text in the early hours of this morning.

“Hey I’ve been thinking about us and it’s just not working out so best to end it. No need to reply. All the best”

I feel absolutely blindsided. Didn’t see this coming at all. Aside from the shock of it, I feel so dismissed that he put “no need to reply” as if he I don’t have a say in it ( well I know I don’t but the urge is to try and talk about what he feels is wrong)

Should I ignore what he said and try and contact him to find out what’s wrong and try and work it through or at least end it amicably? Or just accept it somehow and not reply.

I feel as if someone has punched me in the stomach and everything I thought was real just isn’t.

Please help me retain some dignity and tell me best way to reply or not.