may i ask you a thing? I will try not to be rude. (it's just curiosity) I see you have both bisexual and asexual pride on your blog. are you on a spectrum between them, or something else?

No, I’m both. Asexuality is itself a spectrum, and in a different way, so is bisexuality. Some asexuals actually like sex, some don’t mind it, and some are sex-repulsed, but we all still identify as “asexual” just because it suits us better. There’s a great post on this site somewhere that explains asexuality, in that to us, sex is like a donut. We’re not immediately compelled to eat it like most people, but sometimes, we like them and might even indulge. It’s different from celibacy, which in this metaphor is more like dieting. You’ll see in my description that I identify more as demisexual. This means that I experience sexual attraction only in a deep emotional context. That, for me, can potentially be towards either men or women. There are lots of other terms that fall under the asexual umbrella, including graysexuality and sex-repulsion.