PREPARE TO NEVER SLEEP AGAIN -- TMZ has obtained VIDEO FOOTAGE of Octomom whipping the bejesus out of that fully grown man ... the only time you'll ever hear her say, "Do you want it harder?!?!"





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It's not so bad once you get used to the baby-man's constant crying -- and we'll admit ... hearing Octomom say "spanky" is kind of a turn on.