I definitely understand hw you feel, some people are genetically gay, however some are mentally or emotionally gay, and some just think they are gay even though they are not.....

you are right, your other sons would definitely be influenced by him in some way. and I think you are just protecting them not being selfish, but you should understand that at his age you want to know who you really are and think you are different than everyone around you, and even sometimes you may cross the line. even though i respect gay people but I think it is kind of ....

You don’t also want to kick him out of the house because he is only 16, and if you do, when he goes out into the environment people and the society would eat him up because he would not know what to do with all the freedom he has.

Anyhow I KNOW IT IS HARD ON YOU, but you should pretend like you support him, because if you don’t and try to stop, he would want to be gay even more, and you might be able to stop him today but if he wants he is going to be gay one day anyhow.

SO you should tell him """""OK well, if you are gay then you are gay, i trust you and i respect your thoughts and feelings, however you have other siblings, and you will influence them, tell him wait until he is at least 18 or 21 (ur choice) and then you can even bring your partner home i will support your feelings and I will do anything to support your relationship. “”””” also you should let him know about the consequences of being gay. tell him about AIDS and all the STD's that actually was generated by gay people. And tell him even in states that is legal people would look at you like it is not normal.

After he is 18 which is 2 years which is two years from now if he is gay and wants to be one then he might be really gay and that is how he is born and you should accept it and help him because it is hard on him, or if he is not gay anymore, and it was silly teenage thing he will be over with it.

don’t TRY TO PUSH HIM INTO SOMETHING THAT WILL MAKE IT EVEN WROST.

I am a physician at a hospital in Baltimore and there are gay people who always knew they were gay but they got married and been married for 10 years and had family and kids but they separated and became gay.

After he is 18 if you want you can kick him out it is your house your rules, and he would be the one accepting the consequences