There is a lot of things in life i have always been curious to do and try. Recently I have been trying to tick things off my bucket list. Going to a swingers club to see the environment and how people act and mingle in there was always one of mines. This week i got to finally cross that off my list.

Now am not currently in a relationship but i have a very close female friend that was also very interested in trying one of these places out so she came alone with me as another single lady and to give me some support for this new adventure.

I managed to find one from searching on google that was in the city. For privacy reasons i will not be naming the club or any people involved. They advertise on there website that you can either come as a couple or show up as a single lady which was great for us both to go.

Well it was safe to say that the week leading up to it i was extremely nervous. A little was of excited as well for trying something new and exploring something totally different that was out of my comfort zone.

Me and my friend started off with a few drinks before heading there to give us some dutch courage and to calm the nervous a little bit. We got our taxi to the main street, the club has a box cover around the front door which helps to be discreet for anyone that is uncomfortable with showing there faces outside of the club. I picked this Saturday night especially as the club was hosting a masquerade theme night which was so much fun to get a mask and dress up a little for it. For anyone interested they also host one Friday night a month a newbies night which i thought was great idea for fresh people starting off. We just couldn’t get there on Fridays so decided to pick a night that suited us both. I also picked this club before hand as they have a rules page which really helped ease my mind. The club websites information made it sound like a classy place and you do not feel pressured into doing anything that you don’t want to do as i was only really there to just experience it once and not feel i had to get involved into any sexual acts.

So we finally made our way to the front door and we rang the door bell. A women answered the door and we explained we were interested in entering the club. She asked the basic questions like had we been here before and we new exactly what time of club it was. We then paid our $50 each fee to enter and also left a $50 deposit just to make sure we handed our locker key back. You are given a key for your locker to store all your items in, a towel as there is a Jacuzzi spa there. They also ask you to leave your phone in the locker for privacy reasons which was totally understandable. Was nice to actually not rely on technology for a couple of hours. The club is BYO (bring your own alcohol) so another women took our alcohol from us and stored into the fridges for us to keep it cool all night. Her role was to pour your drinks for you whenever you wanted a refresh so that made me feel very looked after by the staff.

Once we had sorted out all of our belongings the first lady gave us a tour around the club. Downstairs was sitting areas to have a little mingle and chat with everyone. There was a strippers pole also which everyone had a little fun having a shot on it and a dance around it. There was a bondage room for for anyone that was into that stuff. Upstairs felt more like hotel rooms but with curtains as doors instead to give little privacy. There was only one room upstairs that you could lock the door and have it totally private. A few people were busy in each rooms we had enter but gave a little wave and smile to us and just got back to it. There was another two rooms that one had the spa in it and the another had an orgy going on in it. Once we had the tour we got a drink and went back downstairs to try mingle with everyone there.

Being very curious and not having any experience at all i started to get involved and ask the regulars some questions. They were so lovely and friendly which put me at ease instantly. No one got offend for me asking away and all answered me honest and truthfully. As much as i wasn’t there to do anything i had a lot of offers from both sexes which does give you a little confidence boost. I explained to each one that i just wasn’t ready to go upstairs and everyone one of them were so understanding which was lovely. I have got to say in a place like that they have so much respect trust and passion for each other and never once did they get upset or rude for not being ready to do anything. They make each other feel so comfortable and open about who they our and i think that is an amazing way to be in life. Not one person there was made to feel that what they enjoyed and were into as either a single person or a couple was nothing to feel ashamed about or frowned upon. I think in life we should all be more like that. Guess that was the biggest lesson i took from the night.

After me and my friend had enough we said our goodbyes to the main people we had bonded with and got our belongings. The main staff member walked us to the front door and just made sure everything had went okay for us. They really do have amazing and professional staff that look after you and check up on you throughout the night.

All in all we had a really good night and very proud of myself for going there and experiencing something new and out of my comfort . It was not my cup of tea but it has opened my eyes up to more on something i knew nothing about. To any couples that are into swinging then get yourself to these types of clubs, you wont regret it and you will walk out after feeling very in powered.

The author is a consultant at the Oh Zone adult shops Sydney.

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