H&F: You have all these great terms...There’s one video on YouTube where your manager, Jay, is shouting out all the techniques, and you’re performing them on a dildo rapid fire. There's “The Double 8,” “Fire and Ice,” “The Love Bite” etc. Where did the names come from?



AUNTIE ANGEL: I came up with the names because it just helped to remember exactly what it's all about. It's fun practicing, and even if you mess up, he's so excited you're down there doing something extra and different.

I’m going to push my DVDs because they're so different. The techniques need to be done in a certain order, I wouldn't recommend someone just jumping into one [advanced] technique because you're not going to get the best result. I formulated these blow jobs for her mouth first, and then for his enjoyment second. If you do it while you’re watching the videos, he’ll tell you what he likes and doesn't like because that will customize it, it's all about him. It's all about communication because everything is different for men. What's good for him is not good for Bob, so you want to make sure you customize your head for your man.

It's not really about you, anymore. He might not like that sound effect. He might not like that wetness, he might not even like that technique. Now, women, we're all in our head. We always overthink everything: does he like the way it sounds, smells, tastes? Can the kids hear? We don't enjoy sex as much as men because a lot of times, men don't care. Now, you have a template of what you should do, and then you have him critique exactly what he wants you to do. Pretty much, it's a no-brainer.

H&F: What are some typical hang-ups for women?

AUNTIE ANGEL: A lot of women do not like a lot of saliva because you were raised as a lady, and ladies don't spit. I tell women, "You have to learn how to get your ho up.” A little ho can go a long way because when you're out of your own mindset, you just put all that nasty stuff on your alter ego. It frees you up to be a little freakier.

That's when the sound effect [that I make in my demonstrations] comes up– that's just a fake sound. The average woman will make their oohs and aahs, but that's every woman that's he's ever been with, all his life. The way I've always looked at it is, I want to be a lot better than the last chick, and I'm pretty sure every woman does too. Women are always in some type of competition, it's just our makeup. He's never heard that [sound] before, so he's looking at you like, what the heck is going on?



If he doesn't like it, I tell women, you can always change it. You can go down a notch. But don't start at zero to ten– start at ten and work your way down.

H&F: Obviously, the grapefruit video is a smash hit. Are there any other household things that you can use to practice techniques?

AUNTIE ANGEL: I actually have a new technique with a cucumber, whipped cream and honey.

It's more of a jacking-off technique for him than a fellatio technique. Sometimes women do not want to give head; you're tired, you've got a headache, the kids are working your nerves, or whatever it is. But some women will still want to please him if he's in the mood, so we normally probably will give him a hand job. So I came up with the cucumber, which is basically just cutting the ends off, slicing the side of the cucumber lengthwise, and scooping the insides out. The longer the cucumber is, the better, even if he's not really long.

That way, the cucumber can open up. Because if you're man is girthy, of course he's not going to be able to slide his penis in that small hole. Then, warm it up for thirty seconds to a minute in a microwave. Because cucumbers will get cool really quick. Then all you're going to do is slide his penis right in that cucumber, and just jack it off. Because it's long, it's going to go over the head, the shaft. And it’s a great vegetable for swelling, it’s not acidic, and it's not going to affect his skin or the urethra or anything like that. And if you've ever put your finger inside of a cucumber, just imagine if you had a penis, it would just ... It's an amazing feeling. He's happy, you're happy and you spent fifty cents. Yeah, so that is my newest technique. I just think outside the box.

Sex gets to be so boring after a while. I just wanted to think of things that people could probably just have in their home, to make it sexy, but also safe. Know if a person is allergic to something.

H&F: Back to trauma... Is that something that you get often in your classes?



AUNTIE ANGEL: At the end of the class, I open it up; the first part is the fellatio, then I teach the grapefruit, then there's questions and answers. Then, I go into fantasies and all that, and at the very end, I tell women my story. I want them to know who this person is in front of them because everyone has a story. I also talk about this at the beginning of my book, Angel’s Secrets. When I go into it, the faces of the ladies completely change because at first we're all laughing and giggling, we're giving head and saliva's everywhere. The mood changes because they want to empathize with my story, but a lot of them can relate. I do that because I need to open up a platform for women, more than just sex.

A lot of women come there to learn more things, but they're not going to go home and really do everything because they still have this cloud over their heads. Ninety percent of women have either been raped, molested, or have some type of sexual harassment. What do you do with that? You're having sex, but these negative things are happening to you, a lot of women won't be as sexually open or some women don't want to have sex at all. A lot of women may want to be with another woman. There's just so many different things that can happen. You have children, you're scared for your kids to go anywhere because you're scared someone's going to do it to them.

When I talk to women about it, you can see the tears on their face because they can relate, and some women even walk out because I hit a nerve. But then they come back, and then they come push me to the side and say, “You don't realize how much you helped me with your story.” Because the key to it all is about empowering women, it's all about us, helping each other to get better. We all have common denominators– doesn't matter if you're black, white, rich, poor, older, or younger. We all have a vagina, we all have a penis, or we want penis, we all have feelings. We all have children or something in common. We need to really help each other, we need to empower one another. I teach that in every class.