No offense froggy but I don't think that last ask you answered was actually a troll. They disagreed with you yeah but that doesn't make someone a troll....

It’s exhausting hearing the same things over and over again. People trying to make excuses for telling people what to do with their bodies.

So many people have sent in messages asking me for advice on how to fat shame without it actually being fat shaming. They want the satisfaction of telling others what to do without any of the guilt.

“What if I told them they gained weight in a really nice way?”

“What if I just invited them to go jogging with me?”

“I think my friend wouldn’t mind if I told them they were getting fat.”

The truth is, I don’t think some of these people actually care about my health or the health of any other fat person. I think they believe fat people are unpleasant to look at. The want us to look more pleasing to their eyeballs. But they can’t say that. They don’t want to look like a jerk. So they tell us all about diabetes and heart disease. They say things like, “it’s for your own good” and “I’m just trying to help.” They would rather we change to please them rather than just accepting us the way we are. Not everything has to appeal to your specific gaze.

I’m sorry if I’m sick of hearing these lectures. I’m sorry if you think I am being too harsh. But I can’t help it. They are offensive to me.