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And don't send him mixed signals, either. Telling him he's hot one night and being distant the next will just confuse him, not turn him on.

This can be a bit hard but once you get the hang of it then it will be as smooth as silk. Though you may be determined to play hard to get and to keep things a bit mysterious, you have to end up telling the guy how you feel if you want to keep him. You don't have to declare your love to him right away or tell him your fifty favorite qualities of his, but hey, if you do like the guy, it won't hurt to be honest with him. Tell him you had fun on your date, that you love hanging out with him, that you love his quirky sense of humor, whatever. If you don't give him anything to work with, he'll lose interest--fast.