If you have read your Bible, you would already know the answer to this. ALL kinds of sexual immorality is wrong. That includes, gay sex or gay lustful feelings, sex between two heterosexuals who have not committed themselves to God, heterosexual lustful feelings, having sex with someone who has been given to another person by God (adultery) or having lustful feelings towards another persons spouse.

All of these sins are detailed in the Bible...both old and new testament.

The reason the word abomination is used does not mean that it is any more a sin than anything else. It refers to the fact (and it is a FACT) that the natural order of things for all living creatures. Male and female. In cases of homosexual people, the body is one gender and the brain is another, thus does not follow the natural order of things that we see all around us every day. Something has occurred in those individuals (physically) that caused a departure from natural development. It is not their fault and it does not make them less of a person. However, just as God tells us heterosexuals that we must not do certain things sexually, he also tells the homosexual that regardless of their desires, they are not to act on things that God says not to do. Being a homosexual is not a sin. Acting on those desires are a sin. Fair...no...but a lot of things in life are not fair.

As far as the relationship with God goes, a person who prefers the same gender as themselves can love and honor God is all the same ways that the rest of us do. We have to acknowledge that we are all sinful and do our very best to follow his guiding. It makes them no better nor worse than anyone else.

Now legally, the church is called to do what they can to prevent immorality...so when a legal question arises (gay marriage, abortion, racism for example), we must fight against it because God says it is wrong. This does not mean that we are to hate, bully or otherwise demean the individuals themselves.