The more I read about women’s experiences, the more I considered the subtler, less obvious offences committed by men that affect their lives. I found myself spending more time considering what it actually means to be a misogynist – how men talk about women, the language we use, the way we look at them. And let’s be honest here – even the most liberal of us have done it. Bantering with your mates about an attractive woman in the office, or catching a sideways glance on the train. Is this misogynistic abuse? Sexist? Or simply a patriarchal conditioning so ingrained that it’s become invisible to us? Perhaps it’s a matter of semantics and interpretation. Which is easy for a man to say.