Hey Earth Angels!

So let’s be honest, as much as being high vibe and positive is important, we as humans are designed to feel a beautiful array of emotions.

None of these are better or worse then the others. Pain, sadness, anger, frustration, etc all have very important qualities. No one is happy and positive all of the time. Nor should we want to be. Pain and suffering are not intended to burden you but to communicate vital information, in which to help you grow. All feelings and emotions are good and vital.

That being said, I wanted to express some of my inner challenges and struggles, in order to hopefully alleviate some of the anxiety and pressure I feel. As well as to help others, especially Empaths who are, or considering going down this same journey as I, to face and overcome their own inner struggles.

My 3 Biggest Challenges as an Empath are:

1. The Overwhelm and Time

As I continue to grow, my demand grows. As wonderful as this is, as an Empath, I tend to literally FEEL my clients anxiety and frustrations as they await my reply. I already have many regulars, as well a new clients, that come to me daily.

On top of a house that constantly needs cleaned, 3 little boys that constantly need my attention, 3 more future step daughters, a fiance, and of course my own self and needs. All of which has to come first.

We all have that FIGHT, FLIGHT, OR FREEZE mechanism that kicks in with stress. There have been many times, already, when I have fallen behind. It seems to domino out of control to the point I get overwhelmed and literally shut down. Then, I feel the need to take the day off, getting even further behind.

One thing I consistently hear from my clients is how grateful they are for the time and energy I put into my readings. That they are grateful for the fact I DO NOT (& never will) charge by time, and how they feel like working with me is very personal and not business like.

Part of not charging by time limits (not to mention having kids) means that scheduling can be difficult. Therefore it may take longer to get to you then you, or even I, expected sometimes. Just be patient with me. Keeping in mind, when it is your turn, YOU COME FIRST, and I will answer any questions you have and fully help you resolve your situation and feelings.

Baby steps are key for me. I can’t reply to all 100+ messages waiting between my text messages, both FB pages, this blog, reddit, linked in, etc all at once. I can’t even get to all 5-10 people who already paid and are patiently (or sometimes, not so patiently) waiting for me, ALL AT ONCE.

What I can do is take better care of myself in order to better care for you all. Avoid shutting down. To reply to some messages. To do 1 reading or spell at a time. To make progress. To have thick skin. And to remind you all that I was born to help, and I will. Everything will happen when and as it should!

2. Money / Pricing

I truly believe in my gifts and what I do for the world. If I could, I would gladly do it all for free. In fact, I do alot of free readings and spiritual work, and I always will.

But honestly, in this crazy world the demand for people like me (not too mention the demand for anything FREE) is extremely high.

As a mother, living in the real world with mouths to feed and bills to pay, it would be impossible for me to do the work I love and passionately feel I was put on this world to do, without that transfer of energy and wealth.

My pricing is exceptionally low for this business in comparison. Part of that is to suit the needs of my clients, while part of it has to do with my own negative programing towards money.

I always considered money to be the root of all evil. The fact is it is merely paper, that we have foolishly been conditioned to believe has real value. There is not even a gold backing anymore, and hasnt been for some time. It’s printed from thin air with interest rates that are impossible to pay back without that printer. Causing a perpetual cycle of debt and the lack of mentality.

In reality money is not evil, nor or is it in short supply. While it is merely an illusion, it is an extremely powerful NUETRAL illusion. With the ability to be used for both great evil, or great good. And there is MORE then enough to go around!!

It’s not secret that 99% of the world’s wealth is concentrated in the hands of merely 1% of the population. Those who collect and hoard all of the world’s wealth in order to keep up the illusion, the struggle, the lack of mentality. To keep us all enslaved.

Imagine if you will a transfer of the world’s wealth into the hands of people who ACTUALLY GIVE A DAMN ABOUT THE WORLD!!

If more money was transferred into the hands of the givers, empaths, and healers of the world, people who geniunely want to make a difference, imagine what the world could be!!

Whenever I’m asked that age old question, “What would you do if you had a million dollars?” My first thought and responce has ALWAYS been, TAKE IT TO THE STREETS. GO TO THE GHETTO AND MAKE A DIFFERENCE IN REAL PEOPLES LIVES! Why give to a charity when I can go to the hood and find hunger?? Do the work you wish to see in the world.

I recently had a a regular client tell me after waiting for me for 3 days, they sought out another reader. They where charged $150 for the same type of service they had been paying me $10-15 for. They where left feeling unsatisfied and still longing for a reading with me.

Money is motivation. It acts as a maginifier for energy, both good or bad. It allows us to bring our dreams into reality in this world.

If that same client would have donated that same $150 into my PayPal, with a note saying, “I need you now!” I BET that would have gotten my attention. (Paypal.me/SWhyde) Instead they where charged 10 X’s the amount they where used to paying with me, and left with 10 X’s less then what I give them.

This being said, no matter how big Earth Angel Intuition grows, or how much my prices raise, I’m still Stacy, I still give a damn, and I’m still here for you.

Not everything has to be paid for either. I don’t want anyone to ever think they can’t afford my services i.e. my love, care, and concern. I will always do free and low cost readings to those who need it!

At the same time, being painfully blunt and honest….to hear things like “I get readings all the time for way more money, and this is by far the best reading I ever had, you should be charging more” gets to be as despairing as it is heart warming. If you can afford to pay me what I’m worth in your life, then you should be. PERIOD. Help those who help you, and you help the world. You help them so they can better help you, and the world.

3. Putting Myself and My Needs First

Most Empaths have at least two things in common, the history of trauma and the need to give, give, give. Healing and awakening are never final destinations, but always never ending journeys. That spiral back to the same things in order to gain deeper healing, understanding, and wisdom.

When you embark on any spiritual journey such as opening a business like this, things from your past will resurface. The same wounds will keep revealing themselves on deeper levels as you work to heal and grow.

Your spiritual business will often act like a mirror. You will often see yourself in your clients. As you help them heal, you heal yourself. And as you heal yourself, you are better able to heal others.

No one can do the work that I do, in the way that I do it. Same goes for you and anyone else. We are all very gifted, special, and unique.

Using a combination of love, spirituality, and psychology, I am truly uplifting people all around the world!!! I have been convinced that I am truly making an priceless difference in the lives of others and the world around me.

Therefore the most important thing I can do is to invest in myself, quit selling myself short, and take the time I need for me and my family FIRST.

If I am not in the right mental state, giving into these feelings of overwhelm and the lack of mentality, then I am doing a disservice to not only to myself but my clients, and therefore the whole world.

So bear with me as I help myself to help you and as a result we can all help the world around us to thrive and flourish!!!

Thanks so much for taking the time to read.

As always 💗&🕯️

Stacy Nicole

Earth Angel Intuition

317-200-7938

http://www.facebook.com/earthangelintuition/