Even when men sought relaxation and night life in larger cities, they risked having ground glass or animal feces placed in their drinks, Louis Sims Jr. said.

He said his father returned to America fearful of public places and alarmed by the chilly reception he and other Vietnam vets received.

“The last time we went to the Heart O’ Texas Fair, I was 8 years old,” Louis Sims Jr. said. “My father could not stand to have anyone walking behind him. He said it was almost like being back at war. Going to a restaurant was out of the question. He did not like the crowds, and he knew what could be done in kitchens.”

He said his father would describe the jungles of Vietnam as being so black that the darkness rested on men’s shoulders like blankets.

Maybe surprisingly, his father enjoyed watching war movies on television in the comfort, and safety, of his home, Louis Sims Jr. said.

Oakwood Cemetery

On Christmas Day, the Sims family likely will visit the grave of Louis Sims Sr. in Oakwood Cemetery, as they do on most special occasions.

Shirley Sims will think about her Marine, how handsome he looked in his uniform and the sacrifices he made for others, she said.

She might repeat what she said when her husband was laid to rest last year: “It was an honor what he did: laid down his life for his country. It made him stronger. I would like to salute all veterans and thank them for the courage to fight for this country. I pray for them all. God bless you all.”