Wondering how to get your lost love back? Don’t worry; you are not alone in this. Every one of us has faced with this urge to contact an ex. Yes, the reasons can be varied for different people. People suffer from the fact that wanting to get your lost love back is a weakness. And they should not feel this way.

As we all know, for doing anything there is a best possible way. Though not all of us are lucky and observant enough to know the best way in everything we do. Accept we are humans.

So let’s settle for ways which are proved effective in rekindling the lost romance.

1. When going to strike a conversation again after a long time, try to keep it light and subtle. At any cost it should not be evident that you are trying to get your lost love back. Keep it simple but still as you were romantically involved with him/her, a little hint of you missing him will be cherries on top and completely justified. You can start with simple text/email like

“ Hey! How are you? I have been thinking about you lately”. Or You may draft the text as “ Today while going to the church, I met that old flower vendor. He seemed interested to know about you.” This way you are trying to connect him/her with a past beautiful memory of yours. And not directly telling him that he is being missed. Draft such texts that effuse subtlety with light affinity.

2. If you people are not in touch for a long time, then you can ask him/her about what he has been doing these days. To draft these texts you have to be very careful to not touch a chord which could hurt him/her. Ask him about how he is doing in his hobbies and other things which he used to love.

You can ask him “So have you started taking the martial arts classes”. Here you are cleverly giving him a chance to talk about his life with pinch of understanding and giving him vibes that you remember the things he used to love.

3. When asked about you, just very casually show that instead of everything great, you still feel times were merrier with him. Exude confidence while making this statement. You do not have to look needy in any case. Because people like to be wanted, that makes them attractive in their eyes. They don’t like to be needed, that puts pressure on them and the chances of rekindling love will change to getting sympathy from the person you never want to get from.

4. I know, it feels difficult to decode how to get your lost love back. Because after all these superficial chats, how can you make him/her text on a regular basis. How can you ask him to go out with you? Here is a way; you can just casually give him a hint that you may want his help in a particular project of yours; because you think no one can be better in that than him/her. Once you get a chance to meet, then you may assess if he is still into you.

5. Do not consider this as a game plan. But it is important to give him/her time to draft a text to you. Wait before you reply to his/her text. It has a benefit of giving you time to frame your answer for uncalled for questions and will allow him/her to be relaxed and chat.

There are few things which each one of us should know:

1. There is nothing wrong in missing your ex. Missing is a natural process. If you have loved someone, it is natural that you will miss the closeness. It is human nature that we become used to a person and his/her presence. So if people are asking you to not miss your ex, then do not try to unnecessarily burden yourself with the fight. Accept that missing will happen. The wise will not fight to not miss their lost love. Instead they will accept that they are missing the person because they were used to his/her presence.

2. Before finding and researching on how to get your lost love back it is imperative that you do an in depth analysis. Find out the reasons why you have left him/her in the first place. Some people may have misunderstandings as the reason of breakup. In case of misunderstanding, you must go ahead, clear the doubts and get your love back. But if you had a breakup because he was cheating on you, or because she was very dominating , then going back to the same person or wanting the same person is of no use. It is futile because the bone of contention will always remain the same. And sooner or later, you people will drift apart.

3. This is very important to keep away from the following type of people.The worst case scenario could be you dealing with a manipulator/narcissist. Beware of such fellows. In this case you may be feeling and thinking how to get your lost love back because while breaking up, you were made to feel terrible, you were made to feel guilty. This is the signature sign of a manipulator. While in a relationship he/she will emotionally abuse you. Will never take responsibility of the mistakes made. And when you decide to call it off, you will be made to feel as if you are not worthy of him. You may have to face actual bashing and all of a sudden the love will turn into slavery. Such people will not keep you happy in a relationship and they do not want you to be happy afterwards. I want to forbid you from making any attempts in rekindling romance/love with this kind of a person.

Hence, after analyzing the actual reasons as why you want to get your love back, if you decide to pursue him/her further and wants to move ahead to get your lost love back then be with me for a while.