We get it. Sending that first message can be tough. Do you talk about the weather? Compliment their profile? Just say “hey sup?” While everyone deserves a perfectly-worded-conversational-yet-flirty first message, it’s waayy easier said than done. That’s why we’re introducing Connection Cards, a new DoubleTake feature on the app that helps you kick off a conversation.

This is how it works: every time you and another person like each other in DoubleTake, you’ll see a card that has a few interesting things about their profile — like essay responses and a photo you might have missed. That way you can start your conversation with something genuine and unique to that person (and retire the old days of saying ‘hey” to everyone, which has an 84% chance of being ignored).

While saying the perfect first thing 100% of the time is nearly impossible, we hope that this gives you a few more places to start. Best of luck.