The truth is far more personal and relates to the way the Smith family treated the Cronks in relation to a matter away from football. It was fairly average. And Cronk is entitled to stand his ground.

Cronk has only been respectful about Smith in public. Better days: Smith and Cronk celebrate a Kangaroos' win in 2017. Credit:AAP The Storm asked Cronk to do a tribute message for Smith and he did. That says plenty about Cronk. Smith deserves praise for his on-field efforts. He is the greatest hooker the game has seen and in the conversation for greatest ever. This column is not his biggest fan. He lost me for the way he handled himself when Alex McKinnon suffered an horrific spinal injury in a game in Melbourne in 2014. Smith continued arguing with the referees while McKinnon lay motionless and then failed to apologise for his behaviour. Eventually it was McKinnon who called Smith to clear the air long after the initial incident. Sadly, in my view, the Smith celebration overshadowed Benji Marshall’s 300-game milestone.

Inspiration: Josh Addo-Carr with Tom Valentino. Marshall has genuinely influenced a generation of players. There were kids in parks everywhere doing a ‘‘Benji sidestep’’. So many NRL players list Benji as the man they loved growing up. I’ll often ask a young player who they admired. So often they’ll say Benji. I put that question to rising Cronulla star Bronson Xerri. He told me he played in the halves in his young days and wanted to be like Benji. I was sad when Marshall went to rugby and I’m enjoying every moment of his revival. Addo-Carr gives fan small piece of inspiration as he begins real battle The Trbojevic family has known the Valentino family for years. But that’s not how Tom Valentino got to spend the captain’s run with the Blues. Or walk up the tunnel with the Blues. Or sit in the coaches box.

‘‘When my family moved to the northern beaches, the Valentino family were the first ones we got to know,’’ said Blues adviser Greg Alexander. ‘‘I got to know them through coaching junior sport.’’

Alexander is fond of the family and is feeling for them as 15-year-old Tom battles cancer. He is undergoing chemotherapy. ‘‘He loves his footy and we wanted to lift his spirits,’’ Alexander said. ‘‘Obviously he loves Manly and knows the Trbojevics well, but I asked him his favourite player [and] he said it was ‘The Fox’, Josh Addo-Carr. He came into camp with us and Josh spent so much time with him, just talking, playing Xbox. And then after the game he gave him his Blues jumper. Josh went above and beyond. I can’t speak highly enough of Josh.’’ Addo-Carr said he had enjoyed his time with Tom and wished him all the best in his fight. ‘‘I was so happy to have the chance to meet him,’’ he said. Now the NRL has to put its money where its mouth is The NRL reacted swiftly to our piece last week accusing powerbrokers of failing to defend the game against claims that it hadn’t done enough to protect players from head knocks.

As we said, the NRL has done a good job putting protocols in place to protect players, but no one was defending the game publicly, even in the face of threats by lawyers to launch class actions.

Australian Rugby League Commission chairman Peter Beattie issued a statement saying player safety was a priority. He then texted me saying: ‘‘The NRL will continue to use research based on the International Consensus on Concussion in order to shape the code’s guidelines. Venues now use Hawk-Eye technology in order for club medical staff to review incidents. Issue won't go away: The NRL needs to back up fine words on concussion with financial support. Credit:Jessica Shapiro ‘‘We are also gradually changing the culture among the players to now realise it is in their interests to come off the field to be tested if they have sustained a head knock. ‘‘All head injury assessments are reviewed at the end of every round, using the bunker technology. Every angle of every incident is assessed through the process. On occasions clubs are asked to explain the circumstances surrounding some interchanges. While many of those have been quite legitimate, some assessments have led to warnings or fines.’’

Loading What the governing body failed to do, however, was allocate one extra dollar to help players suffering from the effects of concussion. There was no promise to provide treatment for players who gave so much to the game that is now raking in millions of dollars a week. All we got was an assurance that the commission takes concussion very seriously. Unfortunately, that promise sounded pretty hollow when the referees failed to stop play with Warriors player Peta Hiku dazed on the ground during their match against the Knights. To make matters worse, the NRL’s match review committee then decided that Kyle Flanagan shouldn’t miss a match for kneeing Matt Lodge in the head. So much for taking concussion seriously. Beattie and chief executive Todd Greenberg need to realise that the concussion issue is not going away. They need to start providing financial support to back up their words.

$600,000 well spent? There is growing concern among the clubs, states and even the ARLC about the way money is being tossed around at NRL headquarters. It has been a bumper year for the game financially. The NRL received big money to take Magic Round to Queensland and Origin II to Perth. Millions of dollars, in fact. Then the governing body hit the jackpot this week when Origin went to a decider and attracted a sell-out crowd at ANZ Stadium. It is now expected that the NRL will come in millions of dollars ahead of budget this year. Under the current arrangements, any profit over budget has to be shared with the state leagues and clubs, the players’ union and the sport’s grassroots. So it’s hardly surprising to hear rumblings from those parties about the level of spending at head office. Well in the black: A sell-out Origin decider at ANZ Stadium significantly added to the NRL coffers. Credit:AAP

A classic example is the NRL’s attempts to fill the vacant head of media and communications role. NRL boss Todd Greenberg decided to split the job into two roles: one paying more than $200,000 a year and the other paying more than $300,000. Then he issued a note to staff advising that two existing employees who missed out on the roles would be promoted, presumably with pay rises. And it has cost about $50,000 to use a headhunting firm to fill the jobs. Allup, it has cost about $600,000. To say these stakeholders are concerned is an understatement. Teddy time: James Maloney says James Tedesco's late try saved his blushes. Credit:Nine News Highs and Lowe Leeds has been whispered as a potential new home for Panthers and NSW star James Maloney and he knows that Wednesday night’s Origin was most likely his last.

Loading ‘‘If it was, it was a good way to go out,’’ Maloney said. ‘‘I tell you what, I’ve got a debt to James Tedesco. He saved my bacon. I didn’t have a real flash last 10 minutes and, without him, well it could have been bad for me.’’ Cutting sledge So what did Josh McGuire say to Blake Ferguson at half-time in Origin III to so rile up Ferguson and Blues enforcer David Klemmer? Let’s just say it was highly disrespectful towards Ferguson’s loved ones.

Secret agents Bulldogs chief executive Andrew Hill doesn’t deny that he met with St Helens coach Justin Holbrook on his recent trip to England, but Hill says it wasn’t the purpose of his trip. He says he travelled to Britain to establish relationships with player agents in England. Kicked out The Sharks have not employed a goal-kicking coach this season, for budgetary reasons, we are told. And it’s a decision they must be regretting. Shaun Johnson and Chad Townsend were spotted working on their kicking on their days off.