Okay, I don't know too much about the whole tricked lots thing, but out of the three, Hades is the best out of all of them. Zeus and Poseidon are both rapists. Zeus even disguised himself as Artemis to get close to one of her hunters, Callisto (who swore off ever having sex or falling in love with a man), and immediately raped her the moment she got close enough. Whereas there is no myth I know of that directly states that Hades raped anyone. People argue that he raped Persephone, but actually that's left ambiguous is the majority of myths since it's never clear as to whether she knew what the pomegranate seeds Hades gave her would do. It's all just speculation. So on one hand we have Poseidon and Zeus who we KNOW raped countless people, and then Hades, who MIGHT have raped one person, and nobody's even sure about it since the myths either contradict themselves or aren't clear.



And who said anything about crying like a baby? What? How are they crying? They're just pointing out a lot of flaws in most modern depictions of Greek mythology.



But in all seriousness, though, what do you mean by an excuse they love to use? Because it's unclear as to whether you're referring specifically to the topic of Greek mythology or not.