hidetothink answered:

“Everyone has their own truth” is so intellectually lazy, it’s what Kajsa Ekis Ekman calls “liberal resignation…Just let it be, don’t worry, let people figure it out for themselves, everyone has their own truth, which conveniently frees you from having to think deeper about the implications and consequences of the things you support, you can pretend to support everyone in every way and feel good about yourself without having to form a personal opinion or make any personal moral choices because that sounds scary” -Sespursongles

Let’s agree, trans men are men. We still have an issue, trans men are not male. A neo-phalus is not male genitals. A transitioning or passing trans man’s body is not male. Consequently, you are arguing that some gay men, not all but still some, are attracted to the opposite sex when enough effort is made

Do you see the danger here? Do you not see the inherent insult and danger in arguing “some homosexuals can be compatible with the opposite sex with enough work?”

I am not the spokesperson for the gay community, but neither are you

What I am is a gay man who understands what words mean and how reality functions. I understand what homosexuals are. I understand that homosexual men are not attracted to the opposite sex and that it is unhealthy to encourage these same men to ignore their sexuality. I understand that redefining “gay” as inclusive of heterosexual attraction inevitably hurts gay men

Some men do enjoy enthusiastic consensual sex with the opposite sex, trans men included. We call them heterosexual or bisexual, because that is what those biological realities entail: the ability to be genuinely attracted to the opposite sex

You don’t “get” the “conflict” because you have given into liberal resignation. You’ve taken the easy, morally bankrupt road that says everyone can be right, even at the expense of the oppressed and minority

You are not an ally to gay men, regardless of whether you yourself are a gay man. An ally to gay men does not argue some of us, with the right circumstances, will “meet the right person” that negates our homosexuality. You are a homophobe, and I’m sorry that likely won’t carry any weight with you