Time truly does heal all wounds. A very simple but powerful statement.

Looking back at all the shit, all the torment I put myself through makes me realize that no person however much you think you care about them isn’t worth it if they choose to cheat. I really don’t think all the sorry’s in the world would change my mind, albeit it was hard as hell to walk away I know now it was the right thing to do. The one thing I regret was fighting as hard as I did to try and keep the relationship. Like I have mentioned in past entries I am lucky I had the great circle of friends and family to keep me grounded. I am super proud of myself for recognizing that I needed extra help and turned to a counselor to help me sort through the bag of emotions that flooded my head following the loss of the relationship. I look back at it and no longer think of it as a loss. More of just another life lesson / another bump in the road.

Using this blog as a platform to help others has been very rewarding. My story doesn’t differ much from those who have been hurt by a partner who chooses to cheat, but if anything maybe my story can help push people to seek out professional help when life’s problems have you feeling hopeless.

Keep fighting/ Keep living life