“Since the Bible is filled with stories of love, sex, and romance, then why is the average Christian home starving from the lack of these same desires?”

If you’re passionate, it is never too early to work on a good relationship for positive change, any more than it is too late to rescue a bad one. Don’t start one more relationship looking for better love without reading this book. Don’t even try to leave the current relationship you’re already in without understanding this book.

The right person for you is either with you now, awaiting you, or has left your presence, but all these people have you in common. My mission is to have you on your journey to a better life and analyze the ingredients you are using to put together a recipe for your relationship to be not just a success but a shining example to anyone around you that doubts God’s ability to heal any troubled love.

INTRODUCTION- You need to stop blaming yourself for your failing or sexless marriage. Whether you know it or not, everyone fails at marriage. Why? Because marriage is the first time in your life that you must navigate how someone other than yourself responds to the same stimulus. In fact, it is the only coupling, besides that of having a child, in which you believe (erroneously, I might add) that you are prepared.

In life, anything that requires nurturing to grow is ultimately tended to within the confines of our real-world experience. You cannot grow a great garden with a lack of knowledge or without a love for plants. You cannot nurture a puppy without proper care and grooming. Sure, you could tie the puppy against a tree and feed it until it is full grown, but the dog would become wayward and bite you. Similarly, you cannot grow a great relationship with the romance you deserve using the knowledge that you left home up to this date with.

