Grace CAN die: Paralyzed bank manager, 28, with terminal brain cancer wins right to have life support switched off after battle with her Christian parents

Grace Sung Eun Lee, 28, is paralysed from neck down after brain tumour led to seizure



Currently on breathing tubes and told her parents that she wants to die

Her parents, originally from South Korea, are deeply religious and think that allowing her to die is suicide, a sin

Judge sided with Ms Lee today in dramatic legal battle against her parents



A terminally ill 28-year-old woman has been granted the right to die by a judge after a dramatic legal battle with her parents.



Grace Sung Eun Lee, a bank manager from New York who has terminal brain cancer, had told her parents and the doctors: ‘I want to die.’

But because her parents are deeply religious and belong to a Korean Christian church in Queens, they believe that allowing her daughter to choose death over life is a sin.



A judge at the state appeals court today sided with Miss Lee after the rift with her parents led to an agonising legal battle for the family. Doctors are set to be given the go-ahead to turn off her life support, unless her parents launch further legal action.



Family's loss: Grace Sung Eun Lee, center, died on Sunday, months after a legal battle with her own parents over whether to remove her breathing tubes Devastated: Miss Lee's parents are pictured at the hospital after hearing the news that she had won the right to die

Happier times: Grace, center, pictured with her parents Manho Lee, left, and Jin-ah Lee, right; her father is a pastor at a Flushing, Queens church

Speaking with th e New York Daily News , Ms Le e’s mother, Jin-ah Lee, said: ‘Despite all this confusion, (my daughter) wants to go to heaven. I keep telling her she can get better.’

Her daughter is currently at Long Island North Shore Hospital, hooked up to breathing tubes that are keeping her alive. She is paralysed from the neck down due to the tumour on her brain stem.

Ms Lee’s father is Antioch Missionary Church reverend Manho Lee, and practices out of his church in the Flushing neighbourhood of Queens. His congregation has flocked behind him to pray for Ms Lee and tell her of God's plans for her life.

The sin of suicide, they said, would condemn their daughter's soul to hell.



The difference in beliefs has led to an emergency end-of-life hearing at the hospital, with the two sides bitterly re-affirming their respective stances.

Smiling: Ms Lee had worked as a manager at Bank of America and lived in Manhattan before she was stricken by the brain tumor

Meeting: On October 1, there was a press conference at North Shore Hospital to inform the media of Grace's condition

Speaking on behalf of Ms Lee, Dr Dana Lustbader testified that the patient ‘consistently asks that her breathing tube be removed.’

However, Rev Lee and his wife argued that their daughter is heavily medicated, and is not lucid enough to make the life-or-death decision.

BIOETHICS: A CASE OF LIFE AND DEATH

End-of-life issues are ones that are at once vastly personal and highly polarised. According to th e American College of Physicians , the important thing is to do what the person said they wanted, rather than what the person forced to make a decision.

In cases where the patient cannot speak for themselves and there are no specific end-of-life wishes, the ACP suggests: ‘You can make a decision if you can determine what the person probably would have chosen,’ known as a ‘substituted judgment.’

Doctors said that her medications, including morphine and an anti-anxiety medication, are not strong enough to cloud her judgment.

Ms Lee’s troubles began last year. Before her illness, she worked as a manager for Bank of America, living and working in Manhattan.



She was also training for the famous New York City marathon.

She had emigrated with her parents from Seoul, South Korea, the Daily News reported. But Ms Lee was devastated when she was diagnosed with a tumour in her brain stem.

Though she received chemotherapy and radiation, the treatments did not successfully target the tumour, and last month, she had a seizure that eventually left her paralysed.

Ms Lee had apparently talked to nurses at North Shore about removing the tubes, but her parents interceded.



Offering support: Members of her father's congregation are pictured in in Miss Lee's room in October, praying for her to be healed Full of life: Miss Lee is pictured before her illness



A Facebook page entitled Save Grace SungEun Lee cites a passage from the Old Testament, which reads: ‘”For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord. “Plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”’

A post from Tuesday reads: ‘We can see God’s powers working every day and know that God has a plan for her too!’

Children from the congregation have written notes of encouragement for the 28-year-old, with one writing: ‘I hope you feel better. I miss you, Grace Teacher.’

Cultural, as well as religious differences have come to play in Ms Lee’s case. Rev Young Gab Hyun said: ‘In Korean culture…we believe that the decisions that the parents make have a lot more influence in this type of matter.’



Words of love: Young members of the church offered kind words to Ms Lee, calling her 'Grace Teacher,' and pleading with her to come back soon

‘The role of religion in medial decision making really pertains to the patient,’ Tia Powell, M.D., the director of Montefiore Einstein Center for Bioethics, told MailOnline.



‘If the patient is capable of making her decisions, then that’s where we would honour.’

Dr Powell added that while it may be heart-wrenching for the parents to face, she said the goal of bioethics is to bring the families together. ‘The question is not whether she’s going to die, it’s how she’s going to die.



‘There’s nothing worse than losing a child,’ she said, ‘but there are limits to medical treatment. There are many things we cannot fix, we cannot perform miracles.’