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Meditation is becoming one of those habits that we all know is good for us, but we have trouble actually doing it on a consistent basis.

When I first learned about meditation and tried it out, it was about 10 years ago. Since then my practice has been very sporadic. I enjoyed it and could see its benefits afterwards, but I could never transform it into a steady habit.

However, meditation is slowly become as essential to my daily routine as exercise, diet, and sleep. I’ve been able to meditate almost every day for the past few months, so it’s still a relatively new habit, but using gamification has motivated me a lot this year.

Because I’ve been meditating more frequently, I’ve begun to develop my own “personal routine” when it comes to my meditation practice.

The main purpose of this post is to share that routine with you. I call it a “Multi-Stage Meditation” because it’s a combination of multiple techniques, including “Breathing,” “Body Scan,” “Visualization,” “Metta (Loving-Kindness),” and “Mindful Movement.”

That may sound like a lot, but the whole routine takes about 15 minutes total. Here’s an overview of how it looks.



My Multi-Stage Meditation: A 15 Minute Routine

Here’s a complete summary of my “Multi-State Meditation” practice. While there are many parts to it, it’s very simple and takes only 15 minutes overall.

Keep in mind: I don’t use any mobile apps, or music, or external devices (besides a timer). While I think these can be helpful when starting meditation, at the end of the day the most important thing is to just sit with your mind.

Usually I set a timer on my phone for 15 minutes, but because this meditation practice is so structured, it’s not necessary.



1. Breathing

The first stage of my meditation practice is a simple “Breathing Meditation,” specifically a 100 Breaths Meditation, which is one of the first meditations I’ve ever done.

All I do is take slow deep breaths, and countdown on each exhale (“100” → “99” → “98”… → “0.”)

One of the reasons this is a great beginner’s meditation is because using the internal dialogue of “counting down” helps you to sustain focus on just your breathing (and not have your mind drift to other thoughts).

Another thing I enjoy about the counting down is that it becomes a self-timer. You know this stage of the meditation is over once you reach “0,” so you don’t find yourself thinking, “How much time do I have left?”

This is the longest stage of the “Multi-Stage Meditation,” but it’s also one of the most important for getting my mind into a more focused and relaxed state, which augments the later stages of the meditation.

Benefits: Focus. Relaxation.



2. Body Scan

Once I complete the “Breathing” stage, I transition into a “Body Scan.”

A body scan is simply paying attention to the raw physical sensations of your experience: touch, sound, smell, taste, and vision.

I begin by focusing on the “touch” aspects of my experience: any sensations I feel on my skin, any tension in my muscles or joints, the position of my body, the pressure of gravity while sitting, etc.

Then I move my focus to the “sound” aspects of my experience: anything that enters my awareness, whether it’s the humming of a refrigerator, birds chirping, a door shutting, cars passing by, etc.

Then I move my focus to the “smell” aspects of my experience: usually a few deep breaths through my nose to see what odors I can detect, such as something cooking, fresh air, a scent from outside my window, etc.

Then I move my focus to the “taste” aspects of my experience: usually I move my tongue around my mouth a little and see what tastes I can sense, such as something I ate recently, minty breath after I brush my teeth, or a hint of coffee from earlier.

I finish by focusing on the “vision” aspects of my experience: usually I’ll just look at the “light specks” on my eyelids, but occasionally I slowly open my eyes and observe what is in my immediate line of sight.

Benefits: Awareness. Relaxation. Open-Mindedness.



3. Visualization

Once I finish the “Body Scan” I transition right into a “Visualization” I created. The visualization is simple, but it’s evolved quite a lot since I’ve started practicing it.

I call this specific visualization, “Burning Light.”

I start off by imagining myself as a huge bonfire in a cave by the beach. In my mind, the fire is a symbol for energy, motivation, and passion.

Inside the cave is a whole machine designed to feed wood into the fire. As I visualize this process, I imagine the fire getting brighter and stronger, and I begin to feel more energized and motivated.

The fire also serves as a way for me to gauge my energy levels on a subconscious level. Sometimes when I visit the cave, the fire is smaller and weaker, which usually means to me that I’ve had a stressful day and need to rest more to regain my energy (At this point, I’ll imagine the machine feeding wood at a faster rate to help re-nourish the fire).

Often I’ll include a few super quick affirmations while I imagine myself as the fire, such as “I’m light,” “I’m energy,” “I’m warmth,” “I’m passion,” etc. (I improvise this part depending on what words come into my mind, sometimes it turns into a free association exercise).

At times, I’ll also imagine empowering music playing (as if it’s an inspiring scene from a movie). And I’ll also switch viewpoints to see the fire/cave/beach setting from different vantage points.

There’s a lot more to it, but I’ll leave it at that for now. In general, using our imagination can be a really great way to change our mindset on a deeper level.

Benefits: Motivation. Creativity. Energy.



4. Metta (“Loving-Kindness”)

Once my “Visualization” is over, I shift right into a “Metta (or Loving Kindness) Meditation.”

The basic idea behind a Loving-Kindness Meditation is to send good intentions toward everyone in your life.

I often start with family and friends, and then I’ll move toward daily acquaintances, people I work with, people from my past, and people from my future (including people I haven’t met yet or may never meet).

With each person, I say their name in my mind, and then imagine good outcomes in their lives. I wish them well and imagine myself sending them positive energy (sometimes I visualize a “yellow energy” connecting me to them, which I see as a symbol for platonic love, gratitude, and appreciation).

When I imagine “future people” or “people I may never meet,” I usually see it as a group of random people that I’m connected to through this web of “yellow energy.”

It may seem a bit cheesy, but as someone who has struggled with cynicism and pessimism toward others, the “Loving-Kindness Meditation” has helped me greatly to shift my perspective in a more healthy and positive direction.

This is one of my favorite stages of the “Multi-Stage Meditation,” and probably the most important one.

Benefits: Gratitude. Relationships. Connectedness.



5. Breathing

Once I complete the “Metta (or Loving Kindness)” stage, I re-visit my Breathing Meditation. Usually I’ll start with another 20 breaths, (a shorter version of my “100 Breaths Meditation”).

If the timer hasn’t gone off once I’ve completed my 20 breaths, I’ll continue to sit with my breathing until it alerts me.



6. Mindful Exit

The last stage of the practice I call a “Mindful Exit.”

Once I’ve completed the meditation or my timer ends, I don’t want to just abruptly get up and continue my day. Instead, the ultimate goal is to carry that mindset that I’ve just cultivated and bring it with me into my daily life.

So once the meditation is over, I try to transition back into my day in a very slow and mindful way. For example…

First, I slowly open my eyes and begin to observe my surroundings.

Then, I slowly stand up.

Then, I slowly walk over to turn on the lights (observing my every little movement).

From there, I officially consider the meditation to be “completed.” But it’s important for me that the transition back into my daily life is slow, gradual, and mindful.



Conclusion

That’s my “Multi-Stage Meditation” practice. I imagine I’ll be making small adjustments to it over time, but for now I’m really enjoying it.

Being able to cycle through different “stages” while meditating often keeps me more engaged and makes the experience more powerful overall. I also get to cultivate multiple attributes in one session: focus, awareness, creativity, gratitude, etc.

Feel free to adopt any ideas you like into your own practice. And feel free to experiment with different types of meditation or visualization. The ultimate goal is to create a routine that works best for you.



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