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MUMBAI: The issue of exploitation of a Christian woman in Kerala by four priests after the ritual confession has caused a churning over this important sacrament. Archbishop of Bombay, Oswald Cardinal Gracias on Friday described the National Commission of Women's demand for abolishing the practice as "absurd and violative of the freedom of religion".

Activists in Mumbai and Thane have been disseminating messages asking that nuns be permitted to hear confession for women rather than male priests. "Priests hearing confession should sit in a sealed cabin. They should not be able to see the face of the confessor. Also, dialogue confession in the priest's room should be banned," said Thane activist Melwyn Fernandes.

However, Fr Nigel Barrett, spokesman for the archdiocese of Bombay, said this was not possible. "Confession is a Universal sacrament that is performed similarly around the world. Also, a nun cannot hear confession as that is theologically and canonically prohibited. She would have to be ordained as priest to do so. Any change in India cannot be effected by the local Church or Indian government. It is a matter of Personal Law." He said punishment involved defrocking the offending priest, even possible excommunication.

Catholic women TOI spoke to had reservations but did not wish their names to be published. "I have stopped going for confession for many years as the practice of admitting wrongdoing before a human being who is an intermediary does not appeal to me. My sins are a matter between me and my God, it is him I seek forgiveness from," said a Mahim resident.

Yet, women feel that the NCW's demand for a ban was inappropriate. The Mahim resident said, "The confessional is the right place. The priest and confessor must not see each other. But confession should not be banned. Priests should be sensitised regarding sexual harassment."

Yvonne S, a Malad resident, has not gone for confession in years. "When I did, mine was always in full public view but at a distance. But if it makes women comfortable to have a nun, they should have that option. Banning it is not the solution."

Jean Saldanha, who was head of the archdiocese's women's commission until June, said, "The priest who hears confession is bound by the seal of secrecy that is sacred. During my term we did not receive such complaints in Mumbai."

