dave-strider-against-cgl:

reasons why i hate cgl ableism it constantly fetishizes autism traits (stimming, hand flapping, other bodily stims, childlike behaviors)



it uses the DID term little which is used to describe a child alter

it fetishizes diapers which some disabled people need

it fetishizes speech impediments pedophilia a large number of pedophiles are involved in cgl

it sexualizes childlike traits and involves these childlike traits in sex

it sexualizes childrens things and involves them in sex

it sexualizes parent/child relationships and often uses words that children use as sexual terms (ex. playtime for sex, time out for spanking, etc.)

its roleplay that outright mimics csa incest it sexualizes parent/child relationships



its roleplay that outright mimics incest abuse there are a large amount of abusers in cgl. they are usually excused as being “not real caregivers”

abusive dynamics (ex. nonconsensual sex, control over food, control over when someone can use the bathroom, etc.) that are incredibly dangerous are excused because “its just a kink” or because “its just roleplay” harassment/violation of consent if people express distaste in the kink they tend to be harassed



banners people put asking cgl blogs not to interact tend to be ignored

when people ask for their posts to be removed most of the time people say no or they reblog/interact with more posts out of spite

sometimes cgl blogs reblog peoples selfies without consent or add sexual captions to pictures of unconsenting people

i have personally gotten doxxing threats endangerment of minors there are a lot of cgl matchmaking blogs for minors



nsfw things tend to get put into sfw tags due to blogs not being flagged which also violates consent as well as puts minors in danger

some minors are encouraged to become involved in cgl despite cgl being a kink and nsfw if anyone wants to feel free to add more, i know this doesnt cover all of it.

note that nothing on this list is because im bored, just looking to hate people, or not into kink. my reasons for disliking it are all good ones that i have taken time to think about.

I can attest to the harassment and the ableism with proof.

A friend of mine asked the old owner of this blog to please delete her cgl comments on a post that was about a fictional character who is four years old. Like ok yeah sure she’s fictional but she’s still FOUR YEARS OLD – aka Julia from Sesame Street who is canonically autistic.

The original comment that the old owner of this blog had put was something like “I’M GLAD JULIA IS AUTISTIC IT MAKES ME FEEL SO SMOL AND WIGGLY” something like that. So that alone clearly shows the infantilization and fetishization of autism as a kink LET ALONE the fact that the original owner was willing to fetishize a FOUR YEAR OLD in pedophilic ways.

The old owner of this blog littlepookie95 did delete her reblog but then proceeded to harass my friend, guilt trip them, and try to manipulate them (as shown in the links – they’re the same link just added twice to give full context). It shows that they’re all prone to harassing others even for harmless requests.