When you’re getting into the dating game, first and second dates are overwhelming.

There’s a lot that goes into each one!

Of course, you’ve gotta convince a girl to meet you.

Then you must pick a venue.

Find the right clothes.

Shower, groom, and dress.

Travel to, and from, the date spot.

Time your entrance after hers.

And then there’s the seduction itself – both verbal and non-verbal game.

So when you’re focused on the big picture, it’s easy to miss the small things.

One crucial first date detail you can’t afford to overlook? The seating…

Yeah, seating seems almost irrelevant.

But it’s not.

That’s because touching her, kino, must be big part of your pre-lay game. Basically, you’ve gotta put your hands all over her when you’re in seduction mode.

In practice, that means you must sit very close to her. Sit too far away; and you kill your ability to get touchy-feely. And that can cost you a bang. Gotta sit close enough to touch her freely, without it seeming forced or awkward.

Let’s explore some common first date seating scenarios:

Obviously, certain venues lend themselves to hands-on game more than others. I like “cool” local coffee houses. They fit my introverted personality. They’re quieter, more intimate, serve alcohol, and usually have the right kinds of seating…

1) Kitty-corner

Kitty-corner is probably my favorite first date seating arrangement. I’ve gotten many bangs using it. It’s a bit hard to describe, so just see the above diagram.

It’s good for skittish girls you’ve met online. It allows a bit of distance, at first. But then you gradually move closer together as the date goes on. It’s a superb kino spot, since there’s no real barrier.

You can also carefully read her interest here. Watch her body language. Is she leaning into you, making it easier for you? Pressing her knee into yours? Or crossing her arms defensively? Did she put her purse on her lap between you, or out-of-the-way?

And with kitty-corner seating, you can alternate your body language between interested and dis-interested. For example, leaning forward and using aggressive kino mixed with leaning back and relaxing in your seat.

2) Same-side

The same-sideposition is also highly effective. It’s any seating where you’re right next to her. Bar, couch, two seats next to each other at a table, a bench, etc. Same-side is great for establishing rapport quickly. With same-siding there are zero barriers between you so it’s easy to touch her here.

I’ve gotten multiple bangs from first date same-siding at bars and on coffeehouse couches.

And of course, if you have a traditional “American-style” entertainment living room set up at home? Then almost all your lays will eventually come from same-siding her on your couch, in front of the TV…

3) Across-the-table

Siting across the table from her on a first date is not good. It’s common sense – it’s harder to touch someone if there’s a barrier between you. So never sit like this. Go for kitty corner or same-side instead.

But what if you’re on a date and forced into across-the-table seating? Don’t panic. You can still make it work.

In that scenario you’ll have to be very aggressive about kino. Reach across the table. Start touching her by demanding to see her hands. Grab one hand across the table, and talk about her finger nails, manicure, her rings, bracelets, etc. From there it’s an easy transition to touch her feet if you ask about her toe nails matching. Then you can ask to see tattoos or piercings, and make her stand up and show you. Get creative and you can make it work.

4) Walking side-by-side

I don’t like walking dates.

But sometimes, you might need to walk next to a girl. For example, perhaps you take a 20-year-old girl to a park before bouncing her back to your place to bang.

Kino is tougher here, so read the situation and calibrate. Yes, holding hands is OK. Cheesy, but better than not touching her at all. You can also nudge her, lightly body bump her, or gently grasp her hips, shoulder, and the back of her neck while you walk. Or ideally, find a park bench, sit, and same-side her.

Avoid walking dates. You’re better off using the seated styles of game.

Conclusion

Where you sit during a date seems minor, but it’s vital.

So set yourself up for success, player.

Pick the right venue, and insist on ideal seating.

Most guys have no clue where to sit on dates…

But you do.

Just follow this guide, and you’ll greatly increase your odds of getting naked with a new girl on your next first date.

Read More: How To Walk Out On A First Date



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