TW: Rape culture So, I don’t have a rape story, but I am concerned about my younger cis-male (to my knowledge) cousin. He used to cling to me like a lost puppy, but over the years he’s become quite a problematic little shit, to the point that I’ve started hating visiting them. Just over this thanksgiving he showed us this video called “the grapist” online, which was basically just a bunch of rape jokes, and found it funny even after my little sister and I told him it wasn’t. But the worst was the next day when, while hanging in the guest bedroom of my grandparents house, he started taking off his older sister’s jacket and talking about “undressing her”, after which i immediately got his hands off of her. My family lives in another state then them, so we rarely see them, and now that I’m in college most of the year I see them even less, so I have no idea what his parents are doing to stop this, if anything (In fact, I think they encourage some of it- his dad is the bullshit republican type, and my cousin often mimics his dad’s political beliefs without understanding their meaning or having any way of backing it up). Basically, I’m afraid my cousin is becoming a rapist. What do I do to stop this?