Maybe sex is the ultimate weapon. A Toronto woman hopes it is as she implores gangsters’ girlfriends to withhold sex if their man owns a gun.

Nicole Osbourne James started a blog, Guns Get None, after the mass shooting on Danzig St. in Scarborough in mid-July.

“The idea is that we, as women, should take responsibility and ownership of the men in our lives,” said James, 39, a community activist.

The discussions are always the same after every shooting, James said, focusing on what programs could help, and what roles government and police should play.

“Those are important discussions, but while that is getting sorted out, what can we, as a community, do right away?” James asked. “So my blog is really a discussion. How can we make things better? Let’s talk and maybe we can all learn.”

James’ husband isn’t a gangbanger, but she did have a man in her life who had a gun — a close friend at university. After a minor issue at school, her friend asked if she wanted to settle it with his gun.

She said no.

“Listen, we do use sex to get what we want,” James said. “My man comes home late and I’m mad — there won’t be any action in that moment. We do it for minimal reasons, why should it be different if he’s out gangbanging?”