FairytalesAreBullshit Sat 15-Apr-17 02:58:25

Also you have a young baby, bear that in mind that you're not that far postpartum. Do you think you could have a touch of PND with how you feel?



You said about not using contraceptives, although you haven't said if you're BF, but could it be you get pregnant easily and don't want another baby but don't have time to figure out which contraceptive is best, if you've had a bad reaction before. Massive assumption, but it's a possibility.



I would talk to him about how you're feeling, he would likely say you've not long had a baby, I know we're not going to be like rabid teenagers. Don't feel bad about it. It might put your mind at rest.



Also because you're not overly up for it isn't an excuse for him to go looking elsewhere. You're still you, the woman he fell in love with, the mother of his DC's. I think we forget the state we look in the morning, most men strangely prefer the natural morning look to being all pristine.



Please don't be too hard on yourself.