Mmmboppp Wed 04-Apr-18 18:19:16

So most Friday night's my sister and BIL and my ex H will come round for a takeaway/tipple.



We usually go to the same place each time because it's nice food, quick delivery etc.



BIL or Ex H answers the door whilst we get the plates. It's always same driver in red cavalier.



Can always hear BIL/exHmaking small talk, weather, busy? Etc



So they haven't been for a few weeks so me and DP decide to order. My DP is a woman.



Food arrives and door opens, she says hello, thankyou, is there drinks? And thanks goodnight.



All silence besides that, I thought it must have been my hearing but when she walks in I said "did he reply to you?"

She says 'no. He ignored me completely. Wouldn't even look at me



So I ran out and asked why he felt it acceptable to completely ignore a customer when she was talking to him and to not even say you're welcome when thanked. First he pretended he couldn't hear me then pretended he didn't speak english. I know he does because we've ordered from them for over a year!



He half mumbled 'sorry' (whilst looking through receipts and wound the window up and drove off.



This was last night. I was going to call the shop but thought nothing would be done.



But AIBU to he annoyed that he would have a full convo with BIL and DH but wouldnt even look at my girlfriend?