HasPegOnNose Mon 21-May-18 10:02:02

I have a (distant) relative staying for almost 2 weeks.



We are 1 week in and he is refusing to wash. He stinks and is making my house stink. There is a horrible musty sweaty smell about him and the room he is trashing at my house.



His clothes are also filthy. I ask him for his laundry and he gives me a bunch of stuff while still wearing the stained shirt he had on yesterday. It has a good stain in the middle of the front.



There is a greasy circle on the pillow where I imagine his (unwashed) head has gone. The room stinks, literally stinks



Also he is rude to my friends and ungrateful.



He seems to be treating me like a hotel, putting in food orders as he never likes what we are eating. I have gone out of my way to check what he wants but he still makes snide comments and looks unenthusiastic.



The other day he said he liked egg, (I'd checked he liked egg before making the sandwiches, I hate egg but got some especially for him.) When I was making the sandwiches he wandered in and says that's not for me us it... I don't like egg in sandwiches!



I am fuming & at my wits end...Counting down the days until he leaves.



He has been before and never gave me so much as a bunch of flowers or card as a thank you gift. Thankfully it was not at the height of summer and it stayed a few days, I don't think he showered then either but the smell was not as bad.



I was a bit then...but he is definitely never coming again!



I have name changed in case this gets picked up by the Daily Fail: but it is all true and I cannot believe the rudeness and cheek of anyone who would act this way.



I hope I am not BU here- but you know, it never hurts to check on MN!