Anotherbloodyname123 Sat 06-Jul-19 15:02:58

Lodger announced his family (wife and two kids) are coming to visit in a few months a while ago and I'm not quite sure why I didn't think to ask immediately where they were staying. I did today as it came up and he says they're going to stay here, for two whole weeks!



(For context, he is lodging with me for a work contract, and his family live abroad)



This is a normal two bed flat and he said his family are fine to share the (double) bed and sleep on the floor.



I'm really not happy about this. He kept saying it'll be fine and the kids will be well behaved (I'm sure they will as he's very quiet and usually considerate and polite!)



He's not even really booking time off to spend with them. He said the kids and wife will stay in the flat all day Monday to Thursday as they'll be too scared to go out, and he'll go out with them on the two weekends they're here.



I said I wasn't keen but he just kept batting it back.



AIBU to not want them to stay? I'm a single woman and I DON'T want kids staying especially ones I don't know. I have a nice place and it's not child friendly. I don't have a garden.



Relevant bit of our contract is this: 'not to permit anyone else to stay in the Room, although the Licensee may allow visitors to stay overnight in the Room on an

occasional basis;'



But I also don't want to be an arsehole. He must miss them a lot!



Help.