Dovesprologue Sat 24-Feb-18 17:03:00

Both me and my husband cheated on each other (he was first). Although nature of our affairs was different we both cheated on each other.

I work in the same company as my affair partner and naturally we have contact through work, but when I find it tough I call him outside of work and we have a chat. He makes me feel better. We never talk about the affair and sex we had, we just talk about every day things and about my feelings when things between me and my husband were tough.



Every time my husband finds out I was talking to my affair partner he is upset, angry and doesn’t tolerate it.



My affair ended, I do not meet my affair partner after hours, there is nothing between us anymore, we only work together and I enjoy talking to him sometimes.



Am I doing anything wrong or is it my husband who blows it out of proportion?