I.When we first starting a relationship, be honest and be yourself. As we all have been there and done ‘ our little white lies,’ hoping to put your Mr. or Ms. charming under your spell. What you don’t realize is we are taking away their chance to love and appreciate you as who you really are by misleading it. Once the trust breaks, harder to gain it back, right? Remember the tale “Ugly Duckling?” Don’t be afraid to be who you are. You might been the swan, you just didn’t realize how extrodinary you are.

II.Communication is the key to your magic castle. Don’t be shy on‘how you truly feel.’ As long as your intention is good, we have a good heart to understand each others. Don’t assume that she or he might understand how you feel without saying directly.

III.Don’t be to quick to conclusion. A lot of times we judge things to quickly. You know it hurts when you’re being judged. Espceially from your knight or princess, it feels like a sword gushing through your vein. Bad comparison is not only unhealthy, but it could only put your love ones into the box. When he can be extraordinary, why would you prefer to be normal? We all have different gifts in different individual. Don’t discourage your love ones and vice versa..

IV.Be supportive. If your love one doesn’t want to support your success or independence, it might be the dark spell of abusive behavior, without even realizing it. Abusive relationship often starts with power & controlling. You want to be supported? Be supportive to your love ones.