This article was co-authored by Cher Gopman. Cher Gopman is the Founder of NYC Wingwoman LLC, a date coaching service based in New York City. 'NYC Wingwoman' offers matchmaking, wingwoman services, 1-on-1 Coaching, and intensive weekend bootcamps. Cher is a Certified Life Coach, a former psychiatric nurse, and her work has been featured on Inside Edition, Fox, ABC, VH1, and The New York Post. This article has been viewed 714,045 times.

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If you want to attract an older girl, focus on maintaining a healthy, clean appearance and engaging with her in a mature way. Shower every day and apply deodorant to keep your body fresh and clean, which is attractive to any girl. When you spend time with the girl, flirt with her in a mature way by giving her a smile or telling her she looks pretty. Talk to her about topics appropriate to her age, such as a book she’s read or a sports team you belong to. Remember to show off your confidence by standing up straight and smiling while you talk, which is attractive to someone who is older. For tips on how to choose an appropriate date for an older girl, keep reading!