My SO is going to a bachelor party next weekend and he mentions to me that there are going to be strippers there. I don't really care and tell him that. I mean, I'm a woman and I've been to strip clubs. It's so not a big deal to me but I know other women are bothered by it and, in fact, apparently one of his friend's wife or girlfriend or fiancee or whatever FREAKED THE FUCK OUT when her guy told her there were going to be strippers at this bachelor party. It turned into some huge big fight and all of his friends are asking my SO "Are you going to tell RedOryx??" and I think he was caught off guard by their question because it hadn't really occurred to him that it would ever be an issue for me because he knows me and knows that's not a hill I care about, let alone a hill I want to die on.





Anyway, maybe it's because I'm so this is NBD, but I'm always curious about where other women fall on the spectrum. Specifically those who are very much against strippers. If it's a trust thing, well, it seems to be that if you're sincerely worried your guy is going to cheat on you with a stripper you have far bigger issues going on. Plus, I've been cheated on by an ex. The woman wasn't a stripper. If a guy is going to cheat on you, he's going to cheat on you regardless of her profession. Women being worried about stripper/bachelor parties is a red herring as far as I'm concerned.





If it's the naked women thing, well, look. I don't care what he tells you to the contrary, there's a 99% chance he's looking at porn on a regular basis.



