ok, stop being so harsh people.

Sometimes I cry because the feeling is so overwhelming. I'm still new at it, and not used to being turned on. Plus it still hurts some. (I don't sob or anything, just get teary eyed sometimes)

soothingly ask her if she's okay. Are you hurting her? (not saying you are, but ask) If, like me, she's overwhelmed, tell her it's okay. Stop for a second and cuddle with her until she calms down. That might be all she needs.