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“We cannot become what we need to be, remaining what we are.” – Max Depree

How does one become a better person?

Back when I was studying in university, I didn’t like myself very much. I was rude, selfish, emotionally stingy, self-centered, judgmental, highly critical, very obnoxious, and arrogant.

When I think back about it, a lot of that came from insecurity with myself — a lack of self-esteem. I didn’t like myself, and this projected in my behavior toward others. I was dissatisfied with things about me, and hence I was dissatisfied with things about other people.

Subsequently, I decided to work on becoming a better person. I didn’t like who I was becoming and I wanted to change that. After all, it’s quite miserable to live a life of self-hate. They say misery loves company, but I think the company that misery attracts is self-debilitating in nature. It only makes you unhappier and unhappier, and no sooner turns you into a wrenched sight. Not a pretty vision, me thinks.

Today, I’m a lot happier with who I am. I can’t say that I’m perfect or that I’ve achieved my ideal self, because there’s still so much I’ve to work on. I also think that becoming a better person is an ongoing goal to be worked on, and there’s never a real end point to reach.

In this massive 101 list post, I share with you 101 ways to be a better person. 🙂 If you just follow a tip a day, you’ll go a long way toward becoming a better, more likable, person. Remember this isn’t about making yourself liked by others — it’s about becoming someone you truly love and adore, which will in turn attract the right people and opportunities into your life.

Here goes:

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