i hate my brother so much omg?????

so we were watching big brother and one of the white women were like “I wouldn’t go for black men” and understandably a black woman got offended

my brother was like “that’s not racist” and I was trying to explain that as a white dude he was in no position to tell a black woman whether or not she found it offensive and THEN IT ERUPTED INTO ONE OF OUR MANY ARGUMENTS WHERE HE BASICALLY DISMISSED THE IDEA THAT THE UK WAS A RACIST/SEXIST SOCIETY???

he basically said that it’s irrelevant to think black people can’t be racist to whites and whenever you try pointing out the difference between instititutional racism and just verbal abuse he gets all angry about it? Like i tried to explain the different and contrasting consequences that come out of misandry and misogyny and why the latter is more harmful and he just got mad and said “BUT THERE’S LAWS AGAINST THIS” and “AT MY UNI THERE’S LOADS OF ASIANS AND BLACK PEOPLE” and “WELL I FEAR GETTING RAPED TOO” (EVEN WHEN I QUOTE ACTUAL STATISTICS ABOUT RAPE)

okay whAT THE FUCK????

he refuses to listen to me, his sister, about what it’s like as a woman, believing that it’s only my ‘skewed’ perception that the world is against women as oppose to a reality where everydaysexism exists (and he DISAGREES WITH THE TWITTER ACCOUNT???? IE HE THINKS THE ANECDOTES OF HUNDREDS OF WOMEN ARE INVALID AGAINST HIS SINGULAR OPINION AS A MAN), and refuses the notion of talking to poc instead of just talking out of his white privilege

I’M SO MAD I HAVE TO DEAL WITH THIS FOR WEEKS AND I JUST WANNA INVITE ALL MY GIRL MATES ROUND TO TELL HIM TO SHUT UP AND LISTEN

AND NOW I CAN’T MOAN ON TWITTER BECAUSE HIS GIRLFRIEND STALKS ME BASICALLY