examining your tale made me little aroused ;) jokes aside you the two would desire to speak, i dont think of the guy is at fault neither do you . you the two could attempt to comprehend one yet another. with the aid of the way you have portraited him it potential he particularly cares for you. you're a married couple now intercourse and different element are the the component to recurring you will get used to it .the project is which you the two have on no account achieved this and that's completely super. as quickly as I guy comes back from his activity and needs a affection from his spouse all you probably did became reminding him on the subject of the undesirable sexual adventure that had with you . To be extra precise you even think of to called the police and approximately divorce, in case you the two won't be able to deal with such small difficulty then how would desire to you in all threat waiting to with stands the extra beneficial issues of existence, being married isn't as common you comprehend. there are a number of issues you will possibly choose to be confronted with and in the circumstances like which you the two could stick jointly and would resolve it . Divorce isn't a decision in case you the two love him then attempt to variety it out and attempt to deliver back the charm of love . God bless you the two :-D