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What sexual things should everyone experience before they die? And how does someone who married young rank against those who didn't?

I got married at 25 and started dating my husband seriously at 23.

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Prior to that, I was in two very serious relationships (both of which ended in engagements) over several years and those three men sum up the grand total of my sexual experience. But what I lack in number of partners, I like to think I make up for in enthusiasm and can-do excitement.

I know I lucked out when I met Rob, so I would trade a few wild and crazy sexual experiences for the really good one of meeting my soul mate at 23 (actually, we met at 10) -- but this idea of "sexual bucket lists" does intrigue me.

Ninety percent of these can be done in the context of a loving, safe marriage (like mine). The rest, alas, I will have to leave to the single gals among us. But here is a list of 50 sexual must-dos before you die.

Kiss a girl Have anal Have a threesome Engage in group sex Have phone sex Masturbate Use a vibrator Use a sex toy on someone else Be tied up Tie someone up Have sex in a public space Be a voyeur and watch others having sex (live, porn does not count) Sex in a car Sex at a drive-in

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15. Mile-high club

16. Sex with a stranger

17. One-night stand

18. Married sex (the best kind, in my opinion)

19. Sex on a boat

20. Sex in a body of water

21. Light spanking

22. Read erotica

23. Play strip poker/Monopoly/card game

24. Sex in the shower

25. Sex standing up against a wall

26. Sex with no kissing

27. Sex in the pitch black

28. Sex in the broad daylight

29. Making out with no sex long after you're no longer a virgin

30. Sex in a tent in the wilderness

31. Watch porn together

32. Watch porn alone

33. Learn to give yourself multiple orgasms

34. Sex on the beach

35. Blindfolds



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36. Using ice sexually

37. Sexual role play

38. Whipped cream

39. La Perla lingerie sex

40. Frederick's of Hollywood lingerie sex

41. Sex with someone much older

42. Sex with someone younger (legal!)

43. Sex in a foreign country, possibly with a foreigner

44. A quickie in a skirt

45. A longie in the rain

46. Sex in the ocean while people swim all around you

47. Feather ticklers

48. Sex while "altered" whether by alcohol or something else

49. Learn to orgasm in less than five minutes from intercourse alone

50. Silent sex in a full house

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How many have you done? And what's on your bucket list?





Written by Sasha Brown-Worsham on CafeMom's blog, The Stir

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