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At a job, teens are exposed to and cannot get away from

Their boss. They are at the demand of their manager to be available to do what he/she wants at whatever time he/she wants (though with some restrictions due to their age). This boss most likely won't care about things like your teen keeping the Lord's Day or having convictions about not doing certain things.

Their co-workers. Co-workers can be the worst "companions" which your teen will naturally have to be around and cannot get away from in the workplace. If you send your teen off to a job, do not be surprised if they are exposed to filthy language and jokes, drug use, alcohol use, people fornicating, along with the more subtle views of their coworkers that are prevalent in our society, such as feminism, environmentalism, evolution, etc. Teens are still very much in their formative and immature years and will find it hard to be the only one standing against such evils in our society.

Wicked music. Often in places of business, raunchy, inappropriate music is played, and your teen will have to listen to this all day and cannot get away from it. Co-workers may also play their own music which your teen may be exposed to.

Customers. Depending on the type of job your teen has, there may often be customers that your teen has to interact with that expose them to things you wouldn't want.

Sexual advances. It is a sad fact that if you send your daughter off to a job, you can expect that someone will at some point act inappropriately toward her. And in our backwards society, even young girls feel emboldened to make sexual advances towards young men, so you can expect this if you have sons as well. If you want to keep your children pure until their marriage, sending them off to a place of employment is not a very good way to do it.

Technology. Co-workers these days most likely have smartphones where they freely show other people porn or other wicked photos and videos. Are you ready for your teen to be exposed to this? Also, would your teen have other access to computers or other technology where they could search for or even accidentally stumble upon some of the wickedness that is on the internet? The temptation for teens is very real in this area, and once seen, these things cannot be unseen.

Immodesty. Many places of employment will expose your teen to high levels of immodesty that they wouldn't have to deal with at home. This is especially problematic for teen boys who are trying to keep themselves pure in thought and deed.

Your teen most likely will be asked by coworkers to "hang out" at other times other than the workplace. Don't be surprised if your teen forms an attachment to the people they are around at work, wanting to be around them instead of their family.

There are many dangers of sending your teen out to work in our modern world, and loving, Christian parents would do best to seriously consider these. Even homeschooling parents who have foreseen the dangers of public school, sometimes send their children out to jobs where they will be exposed to many of the great evils they were seeking to avoid at school.





Even if you send your teen to work at a place that you are familiar with, or even to a place of employment where the owners are professing Christians, you will run into many of the same issues.





What is the solution then?





For young women, I see no reason for her to ever need "job experience", as the Bible has made it clear for what young women are to be concerned with.

The aged women likewise, that they be in behaviour as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things;

That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children,

To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed. ~Titus 2:3-5

hen children become a certain age, some Christian parents think it would be a great idea to allow them to get a job to "keep them busy" and earn some money. Not only is this popular for boys, but also has become popular for teenage girls. Why parents want to send their teen daughters out into the world to earn money is beyond me. It is not in a young woman's nature to hold a job, and certainly doesn't prepare her to be a wife and homemaker.My parents did this with me, and I had several jobs before I was saved. One summer before I was even old enough to hold a paying job, they sent me to a camp to be a camp "counselor in training" to "keep me busy", and they even paid me to do it since it wasn't a paying position. All of these places of employment did me no good and actually caused much harm.Before parents consider allowing or even encouraging their teens to get a job outside the home, there is much to think about Biblically, especially with concern for their souls and how a place of employment might affect their future. Jobs outside the home hold a lot of danger and temptation for young people who still are not mature. It is very similar to sending them off to public school.Consider the following:There is no reason for a daughter from a Christian home to get a job outside of the home. Let her learn beside her mother, the many and varied skills of home-keeping while she has the time on her hands! It makes no sense for her to wait until she is married to learn these needed skills. There are always more things to learn, and before she is married, she has the ability to become very good at these things. Older daughters at home can be a tremendous blessing to their mothers. Daughters at home should be learning contentment within the home sphere and to not be led by selfish desires.For young men, it is a bit more difficult. Obviously, young men need to at some point learn to be providers. At what time this occurs and in what way will greatly depend on the individual young man, his walk with Christ, and his maturity. But do not be fooled into thinking that your teen boy is beyond being tempted or lured away from his faith by the above mentioned dangers. Even if he is not led away into a snare, if he's working at a place of employment, he will be exposed to things that will most likely leave an impression on his young heart for the rest of his life. That's why we must be ever so careful and wise in our decisions. It would be best if his Christian father had his own business that his son could get involved in. That way his father can still be with his young man and guide him as he steps out into the working world. Other options are if your teen son can have his own "business" doing yard work or other such things for neighbors where he is still close to home and has a sense of accountability. If he has a brother or even his own father to come alongside him, even better, as they can provide each other accountability.Other ways to keep teens busy are to have a family life that is busy with regular family dinners and family worship. These are important duties that should be happening every day, and many teens start to miss out on them if they are at jobs in the evenings. Families can also minister together to other people in many ways, as well as share the Gospel. Don't forget family walks, outings, and other enjoyable leisure activities. Doing things together as a family is so beneficial for all family members, and prepares our young teens to one day have their own families and spend time with them instead of leading their separate lives.Even though this may seem "different", don't cave into the pressure of those around you to do what everyone else is doing or what seems right in their own eyes. What is most important is our children's souls, and so we must always have their spiritual wellbeing in mind.