Quote: SociallyAnxiousGamer View Post Originally Posted by No offense intended to anyone by this thread. This is only about my own personal problem and I am hoping to get some advice on it.



I really don't know what the truth is but I am being honest about how I have felt for a long time and would appreciate advice.

Sorry, I know what I will write will be rude. But it is for your own good to actually realize how ridiculous you sound on your own. I’m just gonna write whatever the hell comes to mind. Cuz I especially pity you.I think it is normal for the average person to feel inferior to ‘a specific look’ that has been brainwashed into heads.Also, you seem to have a poor knowledge of history. People from Europe have not discovered the majority of things at all. It’s because you live in America that you don’t know the whole story about where things come from. It’s alright, many people are ignorant about the facts, including me. When I went to public schools we focused on Europe because that is where the selfish conquerors came from that established the unlawful takeover of what we call the United States. You are probably surrounded by a majority of white people and think they have better lives than you. But some of those people you wish to be like are actually sh!t heads, while others are decent citizens, and others are etc. The media has been for a long time brainwashing citizens with what is considered attractive, to the easily receptive citizens. You included. Humans are the same species and it is evolutionary superior to keep reproducing with people from all over the world. Obviously, inbreeding with family heightens genetic diseases such as in the cases of royal intermarriage.You even admit that you are better than a lot of white people in certain things. I have no idea why you are ashamed of being Asian. You must be living in a fvcked up area. Intellect and abilities are specific to a person. Not what you look like. If you prefer European looks then that’s normal because everyone has a preference of what they like to stare at. I have to mention, you sound like a big oaf. You seem too sheltered and too influenced in a very, very negative way. You are not a big disappointment, where you live is a big disappointment.The most important thing here is to focus on accepting yourself. Forget about what you would like to look like and the type of woman you drool for, what you have to work on is acceptance. Acceptance of yourself.Accept yourself. Accept that you are half European and half Asian. Accept your good traits and focus on the positives and work on the negatives.You shouldn’t feel bad about it.I am an American and Asian female. I accept who I am. It is likely because I live in and around Seattle. It is very diverse where I lived and currently. Many nationalities and ethnicities live here. Many people I know have more than one ethnicity in their family. In my family personally, I have relatives that are white, Asian, Pacific Islander, Mexican, European, and they gave birth to relatives that are ‘mixed’. People like each other for their personalities. I think you need to travel, move somewhere ethnically and nationally diverse. You need a new perspective on your life.Also, many ‘white’ Americans are not restricted to just European lineage. Many ‘white’ people actually have an African ancestry or Native American ancestry. Realize that slaves and minorities have been subjected to rape by so many European settlers for centuries. I met a lot of people that look ‘white’ but one of their ancestors are actually not of European descent. You will be surprised. There are actually a lot of Native Americans and African Americans who are part European. I think most people don’t realize it because, well, it’s not really a big problem to them to try and find out.You need to move to a place that is more diverse cuz it sounds like you live in a small hell hole.I am so upset by this. You don’t need to agonize yourself over this. You are perfectly fine the way you look. You seem obsessed by your appearance. You probably associate your negative experiences with your physical appearance and if people are judging you because of that, you need to live somewhere else or be independent. You won’t be like this forever unless you decide to stay where you are now.What you said made me feel something. You even realized that your point of view has caused you problems. The main point is not about white or Asian people specifically, this is about you not accepting yourself so you blame your half Asian descent. Remember, we all came from the same place because if not we would not be able to reproduce with one another.I am so sorry if I was being mean. I want you to realize that what matters is how you see yourself. Be nice to yourself, if you do then the world you will see will be brighter.