I have met a new partner that I am really keen on, and would like to develop a deep and intimate relationship with him. What advice would you give for this to be successful?

So sorry to trouble you again with my first world problems, but I have housing and money problems, a sick baby and two teenagers to care for. I now have no friends, even though I am forty and used to have friends.

I was depressed recently which lead to full blown negativity to the extent where I was locked up in a mental home. I have no support with the baby and I’m totally not coping. Our flat is small and hot and he is itchy all of the time. I have looked for other housing but we have a housing crisis here and basically if you have no money people won’t rent you a home. We depend on social housing and as we are not living in our car like other families we won’t get transferred.

I know I am not lovable at the moment as I am so sick of fake friends and mean people. All I see is friends and family who are sick of me. What is the best thing for me to do?