I am in such a big dilemma right now. I am being swayed in a million directions. My birthday is in May and I need to decide soon whether I want a party or a trip.

I have Turks and Caicos booked for my sweet 16 trip but I have been there 3 times already, so I decided I wanted to go somewhere else. With that being said I was looking at other islands. I always travel though so is a trip going to be really special? I want to go to Europe but my parents think that I should save that for when I am older...eyeroll because I know they can afford it but don't want to spend it.

On the other hand a party for your sweet 16 comes once. My sister is one of those glamorous girls and she had one 2 years ago and she thinks I should have a party. I found the venue I want to have it at and its different. Where I live sweet 16s are like of the norm. I l am an extremely fun person and I love to party, but I don't know if all the glamour behind a sweet 16 is me. My mom said by May sweet 16s will be so played out that mine will just be forgotten about, thanks mom... I can tell my parents are going to be annoying about having a party, thats why I am on here because they told me they can't listen to me anymore.

Can someone just like give me a little advice here to help make my decision because I am so torn. I am almost down to tears because I am so frustrated because I can't make a decision.