It has been a little over a year since Caligula opened its doors in Astoria and just as much time has passed since we last visited the club. The first time we had gone we found the crowd out of our age range and did not return. For Saturday, October 11, 2014 there were only two events going on in the New York City/Long Island area, which was the Mayor's Party and Jimmy's Birthday at Caligula. For those of you that have been reading my ramblings you will have noticed that I had unkind words for the Mayor's Party several posts back, so that left one option for this weekend.





This was a couples/single females only event. Over a hundred profiles signed up on Swing Life Style (SLS) . By signing up on SLS and arriving before 11:30 p.m., the entry fee was $65.00. It is BYOB. We arrived at 10:30. There were not a lot of couples there yet. When you first walk in you are confronted with a young lady which checks your SLS name against a list and takes your money. I believe you can also coat check there as well. Then you proceed into the club. It is a two floor venue. When you first walk in to the right is a large bar, straight ahead are bathrooms, and to the left is a large dance area, stage, and seating. Out back is a smoking area. Upstairs are private, semi-private, and open play areas and additional bathrooms. In New York these clubs are NOT allowed to sell alcohol. However, one of the guests did tell us that for $5.00 a pop you could get a mixed drink. Keep this in mind because they are potentially setting themselves up for New York City to come in and shut them down by doing so. I personally do not want to be having sex upstairs and the place gets raided because they are improperly selling alcohol without a liquor license.





We had messaged several guests on the SLS guest list that we thought were potentials earlier in the day. Only one responded. That couple when we went and introduced ourselves looked approximately ten years older than their photos. Not appealing. We then noticed a couple walk by as we were talking to them, James and Elise. Elise was the usual thin attractive brunette that is my type. We ejected from the couple we were speaking with and went and introduced ourselves. We hung out with them and mingled with other couples for about another hour or so and then headed upstairs to the play areas. Elise is proud to call herself a voyeur and an exhibitionist, and this she definitely was. There was a private room available which my girlfriend immediately made a b-line for, but Elise was having none of that. She wanted the most open room available.





There was some girl on girl action and then we did the switcharoo. I have to say that this girl was phenomenal in bed. It had more to do with the way she would look at me than anything else, but after about 20 minutes of fucking she started doing this hip circular motion while in missionary and had located her legs behind me, so I was not getting out of it. It felt so damn good that I was just done. I don't know what it is, but the last few girls I've played with have been a little more aggressive with their participation in the actual fucking and I've come to realize that I definitely like that. Meanwhile during all of this there had to be about thirty people around our bed just watching us have sex. Throughout being in the lifestyle I've had sex just in a room with our play partners, and in open areas where people can watch, and I just do not care for having an audience.





When we cleaned up and went back down to the first floor the place was packed. There were definitely quite a few attractive couples under the age of 35 walking around. We are very happy we decided to come back, but a few regulars had mentioned that this was not the typical size or makeup of the crowds. So the lesson here is that if it is a large event like the host's birthday, it is worth the visit. Hopefully they stop with the liquor sales there though. Stupid behavior results in poor outcomes.





Final Verdict: Visit when they are having a large party, otherwise pass for a different venue throwing a large party.