namechangedforasecond Mon 08-Jan-18 19:08:17

Posting here for traffic. Name changed for this.



So ds 4 has been a bit moany when carried for last few days.



He doesn't nap anymore and Dh usually does bedtime so puts diaper on and by low lamp light as it's bedtime.



He was going to nap today as feeling a little under the weather. I've noticed a bruise each side of his groin. Kind of where the big artery/leg vein is prominent.



Asking him how he got it he got very upset and said the monster did it. At our local community centre the other night. (We were there for dinner and the kids all run around in an adjacent room and play.)



I've asked if it was a kid monster (one of the kids was pretending to be a monster) but he's adamant it's a grown up monster. And it gave him monster scratches.



He's also saying it's a secret which is throwing the fear of God in to me. In my experience that's not the kind of thing a four year old comes out with, maybe an older child.



We've always talked about how we don't have secrets. Ever. Secrets are not good things and not something we do.



He doesn't seem upset or traumatised.



But I'm really trying to hold my shit down. The bruises are weird, the only way I could see them happening accidentally are by falling on to a bike saddle or similar. I just can't for the life of me see how they happened.



I don't even know what I'm posting for. It's not like there's anyone to tell or anything much to tell. I feel like I should tell his teacher in case he complains about them or notices and thinks it's odd.