Dylan Benson with son Iver, born by caesarean section at 28 weeks. Photo: Facebook

The 32-year old from Canada announced the birth of his son at 28-weeks on Facebook on Monday, “Iver is healthy and is the cutest and most precious person I have ever met.”

“On Sunday,” the post, already shared more than 8,300 times, continues, “we had to unfortunately say goodbye to the strongest and most wonderful woman I have ever met. I miss Robyn more than words can explain. I could not be more impressed with her strength, and I am so lucky to have known her. She will live on forever within Iver, and in my heart.”

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Dylan and Robyn on their wedding day in July 2013. Photo: YouCaring.com

The bittersweet tale began just after Christmas, when 32-year-old Robyn Benson suffered a sudden cerebral haemorrhage that left her brain dead. Because she was 22 weeks pregnant at the time, Robyn was kept on life support in the hopes of allowing the foetus to develop until it reached 34 weeks. But doctors decided they had to deliver tiny Iver, via caeserean section, even earlier. He weighed just 2 pounds, 13 ounces (just 1.3kg).

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“It’s earlier than we planned,” Dylan, a 32-year-old e-commerce account manager, tells The Province. “(We) had hoped to get to week 30 before delivering, but we made it as far as we could.” Iver will now remain in the neonatal unit at Victoria General Hospital until he’s strong enough to go home with dad.

“He’s showing hints of Robyn’s red hair, not surprising,” he adds. Dylan and Robyn, reportedly high-school sweethearts, were just married in July. Now he’ll be planning his wife’s funeral while getting used to being a single dad. “It’s more than I can explain,” he says. “It’s the best and the worst at the same time.”

Dylan’s announcement on Facebook notes, “As to be expected, it will still be a bumpy ride for Iver and I as he continues to grow under the care of the wonderful staff at the hospital.” His post has garnered more than 35,000 likes and more than 230 comments, with one friend posting, “Two such extreme emotions and life events, I hope Iver will ease your sadness, your love for Robyn will live on in your heart and in Iver.”

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Dylan and Robyn Benson. Photo: YouCaring.com