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To act like a dominatrix, practice giving demands and speaking confidently, which you can see demonstrated in videos of other dominatrixes if you need to. Then make and rehearse a routine so you can act naturally when the time comes. This should including purchasing and learning to use accessories. Whips, especially, need a good amount of practice to use safely while still causing enough pain. Even after you have practiced for a while, pay attention to your partner and stop if they ever seem uncomfortable or in pain. If you want to learn how to dress like a dominatrix, keep reading the article!