What makes Married Women cheat their husband.

Cheating wives and husbands have their reasons. Maybe a close relationship with a colleague goes too far during a long night at the office. Or an unexpected fling occurs on a vacation with friends. Maybe, it’s a longer-running situation, where a spouse turns to someone to fill a physical or emotional void left unfilled by their spouses. Infidelity is almost predictable. What is surprising is that more women are cheating.

Now that we know women are not as opposed to cheating as we'd like to think, it's time to dive deeper into the reasons so many women are abandoning their vows. I spoke with several experts to find out, and while some reasons may be just what you expected, others might really give you pause.





So Why Do Women Cheat?

So why do women cheat? The answer is as complicated as one might imagine, there’s no one specific reason for infidelity. Some women cheat to avoid boredom; other women cheat because they feel neglected. Still, others say it’s because they want to.

A lot of the time the reasons are physical, sometimes they’re emotional, and, sometimes, as much as we don’t want to admit this or know this, sometimes it’s just a matter of somebody having an opportunity. There’s a lot of data showing that a woman will have an affair with a coworker and are more likely to report that ‘My marriage is great and I’m super satisfied. I literally saw an opportunity and took advantage of it.





Woman cheat on a committed partner for one or more of the following reasons:

They crave intimacy.

Women tend to feel valued and connected to a significant other more through non-sexual, emotional interplay than sexual activity. When they’re not feeling that type of connection from their primary partner, they may seek it elsewhere.





Unhappiness/Dissatisfaction:

Dissatisfaction with the marriage either emotionally or sexually is common. Marriage is work, and without mutual nurturing couples may grow apart. A sexless marriage is often claimed as a reason by women.





Overwhelmed by the needs of others.

Research about women who cheat indicates that many women, despite stating that they deeply love their husband, their home, their work, and their lives, cheat anyway. These women often describe feeling so under-supported and overwhelmed by having to be all things to all people at all times that they seek extramarital sex as a form of life-fulfillment.





The Internet:

Having an affair, especially an emotional affair, is much easier than in past, and social media sites have been implicated in many affairs and divorces. Internet infidelity or "online cheating" is still cheating, even if the two people never met face to face.





Boredom:

As noted, boredom can lead to an affair in women who are looking for the thrill of the chase and the excitement and passion associated with newfound love. Some people claim that, rather than looking for a substitute for their partner, their fling is a way to spice up their marriage. Falling out of love is also frequently cited as a reason for cheating, but maybe a lack of understanding of the normal maturing of love in marriage.





not having enough satisfying sex at home. Donot having enough satisfying sex at home.

There is a societal misconception that only men enjoy intimacy. But lot of of women also enjoy sex, and if they’re not getting it at home, or it’s not enjoyable to them, for whatever reason, they may well seek it elsewhere.





Body Image/Aging:

Illustrated frequently by stories of middle-aged men having an affair with women the age of their daughters, cheating may sometimes be a way for a woman to prove that they still "have it." Hand in hand with these thoughts, a spouse may cast blame for their own indiscretions by claiming that their spouse has /herself go.





Lonely.

Women can experience loneliness in a relationship for any number of reasons. Maybe their spouse works long hours or travels for business on a regular basis, or maybe their spouse is emotionally unavailable. Whatever the cause, they feel lonely, and they seek connection through infidelity to fill the void.





Expect too much from a primary relationship.

Some women have unreasonable expectations about what their primary partner and relationship should provide. They expect their significant other to meet their every need 24/7, 365 days a year, and when that doesn’t happen, they seek attention elsewhere.





Women are responding to or re-enacting early-life trauma and abuse.

Sometimes women who experienced profound early-life trauma, especially sexual trauma, will re-enact that trauma as a way of trying to master or control it.

Woman feel underappreciated, neglected, or ignored. They feel more like a housekeeper, nanny, or financial provider than a wife or girlfriend. So they seek an external situation that validates them for who they are, rather than the services they perform.





Opportunity:

Periods of absence, whether traveling for work or serving in the military provide greater opportunity for an affair to occur. Not only do these absences allow a spouse to have an affair with little risk of being discovered, but the absence may lead to the loneliness and resentment often cited as reasons.

Woman feel more like a housekeeper, nanny, or financial provider than a wife or girlfriend.

So they seek an external situation that validates them for who they are, rather than the services they perform.





Any man who is concerned about why women cheat on their husband, these are a suggest, “you should really start looking at your own behavior in the bedroom and really make sure that you’re holding up your end of the table. Because, if you’re not, there’s somebody out there who’s more than willing to do that.”





Lots of married couples like to pretend extramarital affairs just don't happen or at least not in their houses. But the truth is affairs do happen. They're a lot more common than you might think, and women are almost just as likely to step out on their relationship as their male counterparts.There is a common misperception that it’s only men who cheat on their marriage and that women are always faithful. Who are all these men cheating with exactly? Do heterosexual men only cheat with single women and each other?The truth is that approximately as many married women cheat as married, men. Research result that ten to twenty percent of men and women in marriages or other committed (monogamous) relationships will actively engage in sexual activity outside of their primary relationship. These numbers are likely under-reported, possibly by a wide margin, Are you cheating if you look at porn? If you flirt on social media? If you have a profile on charming movie star that you check regularly, even though you never hook up in person?