Heads up: If you aren't using condoms every time, you don't care about abortion. If your partner suggests no condom and you agree, you don't care about abortion. If you won't consider a vasectomy because you think it will hurt/make you less manly, you don't care about abortion.

If you don't bring up condoms or birth control and wait for your partner to say something, you don't care about abortion. If you've ever hinted to your partner, or outright said, that sex feels better without a condom (so manipulative!), you don't care about abortion.

If you assume your partner will have condoms or will otherwise be taking care of birth control, you don't care about abortion. If you've ever thought: well, if she gets pregnant, she can just get an abortion or take the morning after pill, you don't care about abortion.