Just like it says on the tin. I was in a very bad car crash which killed my brother, left me with PTSD and with a badly fractured leg that is still not fully healed a year later. I've also gained around 40lbs as a result of not being able to move and probably also the meds I've been on for the PTSD.

She didn't say she wanted to leave me, but she did say that she thought that I was less attractive to her now and didn't want sex as frequently because of this. She also said that she thinks that a high percentage of other men are more attractive than I am.

I'm very hurt by this. I also feel really ashamed about this and don't want to discuss it with anyone else, not even my therapist. Which is why I made a throwaway here.

Am I being too sensitive or was this a really mean thing for her to say? How do we move forward from here?

TL;DR My wife complained about finding me unattractive after I gained weight after an accident. I'm hurt and unsure of how to proceed.