So I found this picture on the facebook profile of a friend of mine and, uhm, can we talk about how incredibly sexist this is for a moment? This is basically saying that all women are interested in the same ‘type’ of guys (and there really is no such thing, but let’s roll with that assumption for now). It’s also saying that guys who say they have swag can’t support a wife, which is wrong on two levels. First, it’s assuming that anyone who talks about swag or even vaguely fits the stereotype is an uneducated loser and second, it implies that the male would have to pay the bills, not the women. Well we can flip the situation and talk about if this said that 'Guys need to start looking for girls who have goals, ambitions, and an education. cause 10yrs from now sephora makeup and hair extensions aren’t going to pay the bills.’ Except, that would never happen, because no one expects the women to pay the bills. It would be more accurate to our expectations as a society, to say 'have any kids.’ That’s still our main goal for women in society, for the female role in relationships. The women are supposed to be constantly nurturing and calm and sweet, and take care of the kids, while the dad goes off to work from 9-5 and builds thing and plays football with his son on the weekends. That’s not how most families are (though if yours is like that there’s nothing wrong with that either). This also implies that you can control who you fall in love with. Sure, you should want to go after someone who has ambitions that are similar to yours, but you can’t make yourself do that. You can’t control who you fall in love with, so love whomever you want, even if they’ve got swag.