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whispywillow: merman-dad-merman: testosterlonely: themakerisamotherfucker: biphobiabullshit: Bisexuals in a hetero relationship have no right to invade LGBTQ spaces. ??????????????????????? if you agree with this op go ahead and unfollow me and also fuck off What does the OP think the B in LGBTQ stands for???? Lesbian, Gay *looks at hand*…Biscotti… “Bi-erasure is not a real thing” they say

I am a bisexual in a hetero relationship. I still get to belong to the LGBTQ space. I still understand what it’s like to have to hide for being capable of loving the same sex. My parents don’t know, and will probably never know. I know what it’s like to keep something hidden inside of you. To be afraid to show who you really are. And I know what it’s like to have my potential to love the same sex fetishized. I’ve learned to embrace it, or fight it depending on if my fight or flight kicks in. But now, not only do I have to face either ridicule or fetishization from my heterosexual peers, but now, since i’m marrying a man, i’m excluded from the LGBTQ community as well. Which, if y’all want equality, you can’t preach equality only for those that are “really gay” or else you’ve just invalidated everything. Sit the fuck down with your nonsense. Straight passing privilege is not a thing either, so pipe the fuck down with that too, because i know that’s your next argument. Yes, i pass as straight, but also, guess what, that means people just ASSUME who i am. Who wants to have things assumed about them? Do you like it assumed that you’re gay just because you like pink, or do you like people thinking that if they know you’re gay, you must watch every episode of Keeping up with the Kardashians? Do you like that people assume that just because you’re a lesbian, you’ve seen every episode of The L Word? Assumptions are never fun. Whether its passing as straight or what you like to watch on tv.





So sit the fuck down and stop thinking you’re all high and mighty because you’re a gold star gay.

(Source: biphobiabullshit-blog)