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I don't wear a turban and tuxedo, unless you really want me to.

At this point, the subject becomes open to suggestion, and I can assign them triggers. "When I snap my fingers, you will feel pleasure" is a simple one. Or "each time I clap, you'll feel like you've just done a shot of strong drink. It feels great, but each one is stronger than the last, and soon enough, you'll feel drunk. You won't feel nauseous or sick in the slightest, just giggly, happy, and drunk."

That's just good, clean fun for all. Then the more fringe stuff:

"Your hands feel bound in soft velvet. It feels so incredible that anywhere it touches you won't want or be able to move. Like a tight knot, but so comfortable. Unable to move."

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Ever try tying actual rope so it's tight but comfortable? It's harder than you think.

That's getting closer to the BDSM scene, and you can combine the trigger with a lot of others to get a full experience.

"Your index finger has become your penis. Anything that happens to your finger will happen to your penis. Should your penis move or react your finger will react in kind."

A simple suggestion that, done correctly, can be an interesting experience. I do a similar thing with a female subject by suggesting her hand is closed and anything touching the "mouth" of it, she'll feel on and in her vulva.