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Feruza Afewerki and other members of her family remember Mohamadnur Tucca, Amal Ahmedin, Amaya Tucca Ahmedin, Amna Mahmun who all died in flat 166 in the Grenfell Tower fire. Photograph: screengrab/Grenfell Tower Inquiry

The large group of the Tuccu-Ahmedin family on the stage clearly demonstrates the multiplier effect of grief in a tragedy like Grenfell.

For every victim, there are dozens, scores of grieving people left behind.

These commemorations gave a very special insight into a family, particularly the detail of life in 1970s Eritrea (it was still part of Ethiopia in those days), where Mohamednur Tuccu grew up as the eldest son in a large clan of brothers and sisters.



We were intrigued as to why Mohamednur left Eritrea for the UK. It turns out he is yet another of the Grenfell victims who left their homeland for security, not economic, reasons. There are at least a dozen of these. The arc of their lives seem similar: highly qualified in their home countries, they are forced to settle for blue collar jobs in the UK. They give of their talents in different ways though - through charity work, volunteering, and ploughing much of their efforts into their families, their children.



But perhaps the most devastating note from his brother Ibrahim came at the end: the closest of rough-and-tumble brothers, they had not seen each other since 1989.