Did Alan, 50, commercial manager, and Isobel, 42, therapist and writer, hit it off?

Alan on Isobel

What were you hoping for?

That my date wouldn’t come into view, take a look at me, turn on her heel and leave.

First impressions?

Relaxed, friendly and, assured. I thought she was delightful.

What did you talk about?

Our recent endeavours, similarities and differences, recent elections, hopes and fears – and plenty more besides.

Any awkward moments?

Not for me.

Good table manners?

I never noticed, but that wouldn’t have bothered me anyway.

Best thing about Isobel?

Her profession, politics, inclinations and pursuits all involve helping people.

Would you introduce her to your friends?

Sure.

Describe her in three words

Charming, erudite and engaging.

What do you think she made of you?

Too nervous, too chatty.

Did you go on somewhere?

No, it was late.

And… did you kiss?

A continental “mwah” on the cheek.

If you could change one thing about the evening, what would it be?

I would love to have eaten more. It had been very warm and my appetite failed to join us.

Marks out of 10?

8.

Would you meet again?

Yeah!

Isobel on Alan

What were you hoping for?

Someone tall, intelligent, funny and easy to talk to.

First impressions?

Calm, friendly and smartly dressed. Maybe older than I was expecting.

What did you talk about?

London bus routes, politics, art.

Any awkward moments?

I gave him two kisses when we met rather than one.

Good table manners?

Yes – although I wasn’t sure how much he actually enjoyed the meal. I ate everything.

Best thing about Alan?

Easy to talk to.

Would you introduce him to your friends?

Possibly.

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Describe him in three words

Kind, creative, open.

What do you think he made of you?

I’m not sure – possibly because I said less than he did (not that he talked too much).

Did you go on somewhere?

No.

And… did you kiss?

Only a peck on the cheek.

Marks out of 10?

6 ½.

Would you meet again?

There was no chemistry, so I doubt we will keep in touch other than as friends.

• Alan and Isobel ate the new summer menu at Carluccio’s, London WC2.

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