A new list of rules for weddings was recently released, and undersigned by prominent Rabbonim. The rules are regarding the music at wedding. The text below has been transcribed by YWN.

Dear Choson,

You are, with Hashem’s help, planning to build your new home, a בית that will be לכבוד ה’ ולתפארתו, a בית נאמן בישראל – בית שמגדלים בו תורה ויראת שמים.

The חתונה is the foundation of, and an integral component, of your future home. It is therefore crucial to ensure that the chasuna be imbued with a spirit of kedusha and be a Yiddishe simcha – and not chas v’shalom the opposite.

Unfortunately, in recent times – even at frum and ehrlicha chasunos – it has become accepted to compromise the kedusha of this special occasion with inappropriate music, coming from non-Jewish sources.

There was a time when a chasuna was a truly uplifting occasion, as is befitting of a Yiddishe simcha – permeated with kedusha and simcha. Tragically, today, a Jewish wedding can sometimes appear to be no different from a disco party. What should be an opportunity for the choson and kallah to start off this bayis ne’eman appropriately, complete with uplifting Yiddishe music, has been lost, due to goyisha music and inappropriate dancing. These influences only cause destruction of the yesodos of kedusha of Am Yisroel. This is the opposite of what should be seen and heard at a Yiddishe chasuna.

Our dear choson, at this seminal point of your life – as you prepare for this auspicious day – do what you can to ensure that you are laying the foundation of your bayis ne’eman on yesodos of kedusha, and not chas v’shalom the opposite.

We therefore appeal to you to adhere to the following guidelines:

No non-Jewish songs or intros may be used, either from the original online sound track or played manually. The bass level should be kept at a medium level. No beats should be used with loud electronic sound effects, or electric guitar and synth sounds at high volume. There should be no flashing, moving, or color changing lights. One should be very careful which singer they hire. The singer should not be dancing in an inappropriate fashion. The חתן should only hire a singer that will sing in a proper Yiddishe fashion. It is important to bear in mind that the band is solely in the employment of the חתן, therefore, the choson’s friends may not request anything of the band without permission from the חתן.

We sign on this with an emphatic plea: Please be vigilant about the בית הגדול you are attempting to build, and lay the יסודות with חכמה ודעת.

HaRav Matisyahu Solomon, Mashgiach Lakewood

HaRav Yisroel Neuman, Rosh Yeshiva, Lakewood

HaRav Dovid Schustal, Rosh Yeshiva, Lakewood

HaRav Shmuel Kaminetzky, Rosh Yeshiva, Philadelphia

HaRav Elya Ber Wachtfogel, Rosh Yeshiva South Fallsburg

HaRav Yitzchok Sorotzkin, Rosh Yeshiva, Lakewood Mesivta

HaRav Eliezer Lieff, Rosh Yeshiva, SOuth Monsey

HaRav Yaakov Forchheimer, Dayan, Lakewood

HaRav Ahron Zuckerman, Rav, Zichron Pinchas

HaRav Yaakov Landau, Rav, Chanichei Hayeshivos

HaRav Yisroel Brog, Rosh Yeshiva, Cleveland

HaRav Chaim Meyer Roth, Rav, Sterling Forest

HaRav Yosef Dovid Neuschloss, Rav, Agudas Achim

HaRav Avrohom Spitzer, Skverrer Dayan

HaRav Tzvi Noach Portugal, Admor Skulen, Lakewood

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