Eeyoregirl, the Orlando office actually went so far beyond 'unhelpful' I wish I could press charges.It turns out, all those years ago when I asked for a more open adoption (more pictures, updates etc..six months after I gave her up for adoption,) my case worker told me that the parents said no. The couple who adopted my daughter said they were never asked and in fact were told to lie about her birth date and where she was born.When my daughter turned 17, her mother called the Orlando office and asked for any information about me and they said they had nothing. Which is a total lie, I've called them every year and any time that I've moved. I even sent them a medical file because I have endometriosis and their were other medical concerns. So we would have met two years ago.When I went to meet her and her family probably the worst part was learning she was in a foster home for THREE months before she went home with the family I chose when I was six months pregnant. I was NEVER told that would happen and would never have agreed to it.When I called the Orlando office and confronted the new director, Marta Tilley, and asked her how she could possibly in good consciousness have done this she got very rude with me and said she didn't see what my problem was. That in the end, I had found my daughter and what did I want from her. I said I wanted an answer, from the LDS church on how preying on someones faith made it okay to lie to them about an adoption, about their options. She hung up on me.In the end, my daughter is very happily LDS and so is her family. I know they won't testify against their faith, no matter that they agree that it was horrible what happened. It's the way the church works. There are many of us on the board who know this. I don't know what choice we have, but I wish we had a voice to tell other young women that they DO have other options.