Today's society is mostly about convenience. Everyone is all shaking their asses for magical skinny pills or food diets that will help them lose weight when in reality; not only does it not work but weight loss isn't what you actually want. Because the ultimate goal isn't to be a low level or to lose levels. For all you gamers out there, not only does it sound stupid here many of you already know that a gamer's level indicates nothing about their competence at the game. But in today's society, replace the word "level" with "weight" and all of a sudden less better. The goal isn't to weigh less, it's to look fine. You want to be desirable. Gorgeous if possible but let's be real here; if you're reading this, you're probably as thick as Kim Kardashian, but not in a good way.

As with all societies throughout time, being desirable is a must. It's genetically coded into our DNA - we seek others' seal of approval because it means we can stay in the wolf pack. Back in our prehistoric age, if we weren't acknowledged we were rejected, and historically speaking separation from the pack was equivalent to a death sentence. Now days we don't die - we just get depressed. Lets roll back about 500 years, did you see anorexia as a huge disease? No, it wasn't even a thing until our recent change in beauty standards. People wanted to be fat because it meant you were financially well off enough to afford food, and that was beautiful.

OK so here's my point. It's not about what level you are, its not about how much weight you can lose, and it's not about how much you can lift - its how good you look. Muscle weighs 25% more than fat, 1.1g/ml to fat's .9g/ml. So a body builder can be twice the level(weight) of your typical couch potato and still get laid. At the same time - some big fat guy can come around and still bench an entire plate more than that body builder, but the girls aren't going to him for lifting tips. Mr potato boy or ms potato girl - gender neutrality - weighs less and the fat guy's clearly stronger, but we all know neither of them are desirable. And why is that?

Because this was never a math or the numbers game. It's about the implications of your body that makes you look good. Being fat today doesn't mean you're financially well off - it just means you've got nothing going on in your life and you probably need to get out. We have so many free handouts today - if you're economically struggling and hungry, you're doing something wrong. You wanna know why a six-pack is so attractive? What muscle do you think you're using in bed? - All core. The ladies, and men, - gender neutrality remember? - all love someone who can bonk to a cadenced rhythm. And unless you've got some amazing swordsmanship, you're thrusting with abdominal muscles. You don't need to be under level 120 to join this party, you just got to look competent enough - which is the same as looking good.

Thin, tone and athletic bodies today are desirable because it means the person you're dealing with gives enough f*cks about themselves to be presentable to the public; because they don't want to inconvenience the public with such an unsightly appearance. Hence, in today's society, they are recognized as more respectable than their reverse counterparts. It's like not picking up after yourself in a shared space. Nobody wants trash sitting around in public. And no, you're not thick; you're chunky. What's the difference? Both are going to be turn heads when you walk down the street; it's just a matter of towards or away from you.

Stop looking down at the scale - you're only disappointing yourself. The posture you take when you look down at the scale reminds me of a child who got caught with their hands in the cookie jar. The only difference that is you are already assuming the shame stance before even measure your guilt. Your state of mind reciprocates your what is felt in body. Why would you do that to yourself? Stop embarrassing yourself. Look up, look forward, and into the mirror. Look at yourself and ask; what does my physique imply? And what am I going to do about it.