Charlotte Clymer, a trans woman who works at the Human Rights Campaign, today shared a story about experiencing discrimination on a Lyft ride. As well as the two strangers who stood by her side.

Clymer, who originally came out on Twitter in an extensive thread, once more used the social media platform to share her story.

It started in Washington DC, where the city’s metro was experiencing delays. So Clymer decided to get a shared Lyft ride instead.

Coming back from an early morning doctor’s appt, the Metro got pretty bad delays on the Red Line. I decided to get a Lyft, which is expensive, so I wound up taking the Line option, which is basically carpooling with other passengers and a lot cheaper. — Charlotte Clymer 🏳️‍🌈 (@cmclymer) May 2, 2018

Clymer was the second person to get into the shared Lyft and that’s when her day suddenly shifted.

As she explains in her next two tweets, the driver angrily asked for her name. When she responded, the driver continued to meet her with hostility.

“What is your name?!” Same question. Same hostility. “Uh, Charlotte.” And they respond with an exaggerated “Huh”, not as a question but in an observatory way. Anger still there. My mind is whirring, and I tell myself to calm down. I’m overthinking this. Let it go. — Charlotte Clymer 🏳️‍🌈 (@cmclymer) May 2, 2018

One other passenger joined the ride, but they weren’t asked for their name or met with hostility.

As Clymer writes: ‘My mind goes back into whirring mode, and I feel small, and I decided that’s unacceptable.’

When she confronted the driver about the exchange, the driver responded: ‘Because you’re a man, and “Charlotte” is not a man’s name.’

So, I told the driver, inarticulately: “You didn’t ask them for a name.” Driver responds: “Because you’re a man, and ‘Charlotte’ is not a man’s name.” Same hostility. And my heart sank and adrenaline took over. “I am a woman.” They repeat: “Charlotte is not a man’s name.” — Charlotte Clymer 🏳️‍🌈 (@cmclymer) May 2, 2018

That’s when Clymer decided she could no longer be in the car.

‘And without hesitation,’ she recalls. ‘The other two passengers, far from their destinations, strangers to me and each other, say they’re getting out, too.’

These strangers got out with me and immediately say they’re sorry for what just happened. And I feel apologetic, but they’re having none of it. They assured me I did nothing wrong and both decide to take a cab with me downtown. — Charlotte Clymer 🏳️‍🌈 (@cmclymer) May 2, 2018

Suddenly, a situation that began as horrible and lonely and scary, morphed into compassion and strength.

Clymer learns who the strangers are. One is Robert Byrne who works at Victory Fund. The other is Jessica Ordóñez, an intern working at the National Wildlife Federation.

They talked with Clymer as they all got a cab together.

I learn one is Robert Byrne, who does comms at @VictoryFund. The other is @jessordonez10, a comms intern at @NWF. I felt hurt and shame. I irrationally + quietly kicked myself for not dressing femme enough, as if that would have helped. Their warm conversation was like a balm. — Charlotte Clymer 🏳️‍🌈 (@cmclymer) May 2, 2018

‘I feel a lot of emotions with what happened. I’ve been feeling them all morning. But the one thing I haven’t felt is alone. They made sure of that.’

It goes to show what a relatively simply act of kindness can mean to a person and how far it can go.

I feel a lot of emotions with what happened. I’ve been feeling them all morning. But the one thing I haven’t felt is alone. They made sure of that. — Charlotte Clymer 🏳️‍🌈 (@cmclymer) May 2, 2018

Clymer ended the story on a positive note. She donated both to Victory Fund and NWF.

She also expressed her pride in being transgender: ‘I am proud to be transgender, I am proud of the transgender community, and I will assert that trans is beautiful.

‘To those filled with anti-LGBTQ hatred, I want you to know there’s beauty in you, too.’

One last thing: I am proud to be transgender, I am proud of the transgender community, and I will assert that trans is beautiful. To those filled with anti-LGBTQ hatred, I want you to know there’s beauty in you, too. Put down that burden of hate, and walk with us. /thread — Charlotte Clymer 🏳️‍🌈 (@cmclymer) May 2, 2018

Recognition of privilege

GSN spoke to Clymer about the situation.

Admirably, the first thing she did was acknowledge her own privilege.

‘I am fortunate that I have the kind of privilege that allows me to buy an expensive cab ride without further thought or avoid the ugliness of white supremacy when something like this happens,’ she said.

She continued by explaining many LGBTQ people of color face this kind of thing on a disproportionate level ‘because they lack my white privilege and financial privilege’.

‘I’m grateful I had the resolution I did, but this might have gone much differently for someone who doesn’t look like me or have the level of security I do.’

A good ending

Luckily, this story had a good ending, starting with Byrne and Ordóñez. Their selfless act of kindness — and Clymer sharing it with the world — can hopefully inspire us all.

Plus, Clymer also told GSN that Lyft deactivated the driver. She said the Lyft representative was professional and kind.

‘I’m relieved and impressed with how they handled the situation,’ she said.