I’ve been traveling so much in the past few months that even when home in New York, I feel like a stranger.

Mexico, Montreal, Miami, Big Bend & Austin, Los Angeles, and for the past week, I’ve been doing some work in Chicago.

Since I’ll never do online dating, I’m always on my own and its in my hands whether or not I interact with people.

One highly effective way to get myself in to interesting situations, meet tons of new people, have adventures, and get invited to cool places is so simple that I never realized how much I used it until now.

Every night I went out this week, it led me to some fun.

It got me partying with strippers at a high end club and I got myself some free lapdances.

I was able to sit at a VIP table and mingle with some extremely beautiful women…all because of this simple social tactic.

And another night I went out, it led to a house party, free drugs, and a blowjob.

It’ll be easier to share what happened first:

My first night in Chicago was in the beginning of the week and it was pretty dead in the neighborhood I was staying in.

I roamed around for a while, saw that the ratios were terrible everywhere and chatted with some Hungarian girls, when I asked what they were doing later, they said they had to go work at a club. They invited me to the club, and told me they could hook me up with drinks. Great.

After that, I went in to another bar where there were four cute girls at a table. I said hello and asked to join and they said sure.

We chatted for a bit, I found out two of them were strippers and then I asked if they were good dancers. The two got up, made a sandwich out of me and did their stripper moves. It was sexy to say the least.

I asked what they were doing later and they told me the name of the club they were going to.

We chatted a bit more and then I told them I wanted to explore a bit but would meet up with them at the club.

I roamed a little more before heading over and when I got there, the strippers were delighted to see me and we danced for a while.

Strippers can dance. It was a pleasure watching them get down on a regular dance floor.

The next night, I was out in another part of town and walking the streets looking for a place to have fun.

There was a group of three beautiful girls and a guy walking towards me, I stopped them, told them I wasn’t from around here and asked if they knew of any cool places.

They listed off a number of spots and then I asked them what they were up to.

They told me they were headed to one of the more popular clubs in the neighborhood and the girls invited me to come along.

So I did.

And they got me in easily and I joined them at their table for a while before going out to dance my ass off and get drunk.

The night after that, I was going into a bodega to purchase a walker beer. There were three dressed up girls also buying beer and I turned to them and smiled.

When they all smiled back I said “Hi girls, what are you doing tonight?” and they giggled and told me they were going to a party.

I told them I liked to party and they invited me with.

At the house party I met some really interesting artists, bumped some weak Chicago cocaine, and got a very enthusiastic blowjob from one of the girls I had met in the bodega.

Three fun experiences, both of which were enabled by my simple tactic.

Did you catch it?

Ask them what they are up to.

I do this all the time back in New York and it always works like a charm.

If the girls are doing something else later on that sounds like fun, invite yourself along.

If they aren’t doing anything else later, invite them with you.

Its this sort of thinking that will place you in the lap of adventure whenever you go out.

And that’s the reason to go out, correct?