“In every moment I’m evolving. Just like you.”

Throughout the first interaction, they make each other laugh. From the first question, it’s clear Theodore is anti-social, but he seems at ease with Samantha. He’s impressed with the artificial intelligence, and we see a different side of him come to the surface. One issue screenwriters often encounter with this type of meet cute is that there’s typically no underlying tension. Both people (or computer programs) like each other, so what moves the plot forward? In this instance, it’s the fact that Samantha is an AI program. Theodore’s first thoughts aren’t to pursue a romantic relationship with his software. Even when he does, it presents challenges. We've imported the scene into StudioBinder's screenwriting software to take a look at the scene as it was originally written.

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This scene in Her is sweet, but it keeps the audience guessing what will happen next. Is this guy really going to get into a relationship with Siri? That’s what keeps the viewer interested and the plot engaging. Don't stop there — read and download the entire Her screenplay. WHEN HARRY MET SALLY (1989) The Push/Push You don’t have to worry about conflict when you utilize the push/push type of meet cute. As opposed to the two characters automatically falling in love, they are disinterested or even outright hate each other at first. For this meet cute example, let’s look at one of the most famous push/push scenes in film from When Harry Met Sally…

“I have just as much of a dark side as the next person.”

In the scene, Harry and Sally are sharing a car ride to New York City. They only know each other because Harry’s dating one of Sally’s friends, and they banter about Sally’s career aspirations, which Harry dismisses, as well as the concept of death. It’s clear they have radically opposed ideologies, which creates tension and leaves the audience wondering how they will ever end up together. As the film goes on, we see Harry and Sally meeting at various points in their adult lives. They grow and mature, and although they can’t be together for various circumstances initially, their friendship grows. They become friends, which gradually turns into a romantic relationship.

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The meet cute shows them as immature college students, and we see them grow into functional adults capable of an actual relationship. As you brainstorm your own meet cute ideas think of how your characters would actually get along. If they have opposing ideologies, what would make those two people fall in love? Want to read the entire When Harry Met Sally... script? Of course you do. THE NOTEBOOK (2004) The Push/Pull So far, we’ve examined how you can write a meet cute when the two characters share mutual feelings. However, when you decide to make one character smitten and the other repulsed, it inherently makes for engaging conflict. Just watch what many consider to be one of the most romantic scenes in movies from The Notebook.

“Get down, Noah! You’re gonna kill yourself!”

Ignoring the problematic nature of threatening to injure yourself if a girl doesn’t go out with you, the scene is a good example of the classic push/pull. Noah instantly falls in love with Allie. However, she’s on a date at the fair with another guy. Noah has to get creative to get her to go out with him, so he hangs from one of the bars and threatens to let go if she doesn’t say, “Yes.” Allie has her time to shine when she pulls his pants down, showing she has a sense of humor. The scene shows exactly how you can make a push/pull work to your advantage. Noah has an obstacle (the girl he likes being on a date), and he has to overcome it. It will be the first in man as Noah, a poor lumber mill worker, works to keep Allie, who comes from wealth. This meet cute lets the audience know exactly the lengths Noah will go to in order to keep Allie in his life. My Big Fat Greek Wedding (2002) The Neutral/Nervous For writers who want to get really creative, there’s the neutral/nervous meet cute. In this example, the protagonist is nervous meeting the object of his or her affection while the other person is hard to get a read on. A perfect example of this is when Toula meets Ian in My Big Fat Greek Wedding.

“Sorry… my brain… stopped.”

This has all the hallmarks of a great neutral/nervous meet cute. Toula begins the encounter by awkwardly staring at Ian. When she finally goes up to talk to him, she stumbles over her words, and now, she can’t even look him in the eyes. Ian laughs at her awkwardness, and while he may be charmed, it’s clear he sees no romantic prospects with her. They meet later after Toula undergoes a makeover, and that is when the romance truly begins. However, it all began with one awkward meeting, which is so often the case with real-life couples. When picking the right type of meet cute for your film, you need to remember what would work best for your characters. If your protagonist is an introvert, then the neutral/nervous may work in your favor. Use these meet cute examples as your guide, but remember to make yours stand out so that the audience dreams of meeting their one true love in the same way after watching your film.