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<\/p><\/div>"} 1 Know what you want before you start the conversation. Whether you want to stay together and work it out or break up, make sure you know what you want before you start the conversation. Going in with a clear goal will help you stay focused while talking to her.

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<\/p><\/div>"} 2 Meet with your girlfriend one-on-one. Don't allow the other man to come. Doing so will put your girlfriend in the power position. In addition, this is a situation that is between you and your girlfriend. The other man may not have even known that she was in a relationship—don't bring in another unnecessary foe.

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<\/p><\/div>"} 3 Explain your desire to have an honest but calm discussion. Telling your girlfriend at the beginning of the conversation that you wish to stay rational will also help you remind yourself not to get overly worked up. If your girlfriend wishes to apologize or talk first, let her.

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<\/p><\/div>"} 4 Be the bigger person. Understand that your girlfriend will be on the defensive, and therefore will likely try to upset you. She may blame the cheating on you, scream at you, or otherwise attempt to make you angry. Hear her out, but do not fall prey to her attempts to upset you. Stay calm, and be firm about your decision.

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<\/p><\/div>"} 5 Be honest but rational. Explain why you are hurt and what you want to do about it. If you want to break up, explain to your girlfriend that you are too hurt to continue the relationship. If you are willing to rebuild, let her know, and see what she thinks. Avoid saying anything strictly out of anger or hurt—you may end up saying something you regret. Explain why you are hurt and what you want to do about it. If you want to break up, explain to your girlfriend that you are too hurt to continue the relationship. If you are willing to rebuild, let her know, and see what she thinks.