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A 'sex starved' woman has confessed to rediscovering her passion after turning her hair blue and joining a dating website to find men to have affairs with.

Katie Say, 31, says she had not been intimate with her older husband for three years and was desperate to reignite her sex life.

And Katie, from Barton-upon-Humber, said dyeing her hair bright blue gave her a surge of confidence – and to start being unfaithful.

She reckons her profile on the dating site stood out because of her brightly coloured hair.

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Katie, a natural brunette, said: “My sex life is as blue as my hair.

“It certainly gets me noticed and encourages men to click under my name because they think I will be fun.

“They are not wrong on that score.

“It has been great for attracting new men after all those years without passion.

“You could say I was dying for sex.

“It has certainly done the trick because I am having a great time now meeting lots of guys.”

The care assistant enjoyed the sex so much that she ended her marriage – and does not regret it.

She enjoys the thrill of it all – and revealed her second affair was with a married man with three children.

They had sex at his house while his wife and kids were out.

(Image: IllicitEncounters.com)

Affair number one

Katie said: “This was with an Asian man in his 40s from Leeds.

“He moaned that his wife was not fulfilling his needs.

“We chatted and there seemed to be a spark, so we agreed to meet at a hotel.

“We had sex three times and it was amazing.

“I could not feel my legs by the end of day.

“It felt wonderful to be wanted again and feel a man’s touch on my body.

“He was an incredible lover and we have met several times since and the sex has always been great.

“I don’t doubt that he is seeing other women as well and I am fine with that.”

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Affair number two

She added: “This was with a mature university student from Bradford who was in his late 30s and married with three children.

“His wife was very mistrustful of him and they had trackers on their phones so they could monitor each other’s movements.

“We had sex at his house.

“It was slightly spoiled by the fact that he was always checking his phone and I was worried that his wife would burst in at any point.

“He wasn’t as good a lover as the Asian man but the sex was still very good. I have a high sex drive.”

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Affair number three

Katie said: “This was with a man who had recently split with his wife because he had been cheating.

“He had a high sex drive and he really brought out my kinky side.”

Katie told her husband that she didn’t love him anymore and their marriage was over after her first affair.

She originally joined the cheaters’ website because she wanted to meet a man who was also married and wouldn’t want to upset her situation at home.

She added: “My husband was not happy when I said it was over but I am only 31 and didn’t want to spend the rest of my life not having sex.

“Some people may think it is immoral to use a cheating site but it suited me because you are both in the same boat.

(Image: IllicitEncounters.com)

“Married men tend to be a little more gentlemanly and know how to treat a woman.

“Anyone on a site like that has made a conscious decision to be unfaithful and I felt better about the fact that I was not ending anyone’s marriage.”

What the dating site says

Jessica Leoni from the cheaters’ website IllicitEncounters.com used by Katie said their site helped saved marriages rather than destroyed them.

She said: “Katie is quite unusual in that she quickly left her husband after joining the site.

“Most of our female members like to stay in their primary relationship and date on the side.

“It can be positive way to escape their marital woes and many women come off the site after having several affairs because they realise that the grass is not greener on the other side.

“There is no doubt that we do save a lot of marriages.”

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