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To attract a goth girl, try reading popular gothic books and watching gothic movies so you can talk to her about things that she's interested in. When you're around her, avoid judging her for being a goth and try to be as open as possible about her interests and style, which will make her feel comfortable with you. Also, take care of your appearance by grooming yourself and dressing nicely, but don't feel like you need to copy her goth style for her to be attracted to you. To learn how to drop hints that you're interested, scroll down!