elletram Mon 23-Dec-19 06:57:33

hey crumbs I hope you see this sorry to hear about your sister its such a crap situation for all involved my brother is much the same and today im going up to clean 2 wet beds hopefully he will let us dump one, stick him in a bath if we can get him in and clean clothes for Christmas. we need to sort the smell out in his flat as I think the neighbours are gonna complain soon. my mum is in her 70's and stays in the same apartments as him he is on the 12th floor and she on the 1st shes so embarrassed. he suffers from anxiety terribly and is hitting the booze big time 5 years so far over a litre a day of gin I don't know how he is still here. my fear is my mum takes him in but I know its her choice she says she wont though ive tried every avenue to try and get some help he just wants to end it all he tells us all the time and its very distressing for him and us but rubber gloves and bin bags at the ready not to mention the air fresheners it just breaks my heart