Members and supporters of the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender (LGBT) community take part in pride parade o... Read More

AMRITSAR: The holy city of Amritsar watched nonplussed as a group of nearly 75 lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and queer (LGBTQ) activists took to streets on Sunday, with painted faces and fluttering rainbow flags. The pride parade , believed to be Punjab’s first outside of Chandigarh, left the public bemused. But for the organizers of the event this has been a great step forward in breaking the cycle of isolation and criticism that the LGBTQ community often faces.

Gurleen Arora, an LGBTQ activist, said: “A beginning has been made. I can see an evolution in Amritsar. Nobody can infringe on others’ fundamental rights. Our efforts would give a sense of security to LGBTQs and bring an end to their isolation and criticism both within family and society.”

But, considering the reaction of the public to their presence, the LGBTQ community in Amritsar has a long way to go to end the prejudices suffered by gays, lesbians and transgenders.

Initially, when the activists — fashionably dressed young boys and girls in the age group of 17 to 25 — started converging at Rose Garden on Sunday evening, people present there mistook them for some event marketing team. They were clueless about rainbow flags and pride parades.

It was only when a curious few googled the significance of rainbow flags that things fell into place and quickly the word spread among the crowd that the young girls and boys have come in support of ‘homosexuality’. Lazy Sunday mood vanished soon after and the crowd started to thin, some quietly slipped away and some made it a point to express their displeasure before leaving.

“How could they dare to say publicly I am gay or lesbian? Let them have any kind of sexual orientation and do whatever within four walls. But they need not voice their choices so publicly,” fumed Ravinder Singh, a banker, who was at the Rose Garden for his daily evening stroll.

Even the young seemed uncomfortable with the idea. According to Gautam, a young gym trainer, illicit relations and extra marital affairs are a common phenomena in the society and so is the existence of gays and lesbians. “But there is no need to take to roads professing they are homosexuals or bisexuals,” said Gautam, clearly unsettled by the event. “I don’t really think LGBTQ community face any issue as such, they are doing it for fun and to create an hype in the media,” he added.

For Pratibha Mehra, people can do anything as long as they are nice towards others. But she is of the opinion that the society is confronted with far more serious problems to be bothered by LGBTQ troubles. “Everyone knows such relations exist, so why make hue and cry,” she said dismissing the efforts of the LGBTQ activists.

Not that the LGBTQ activists were paying heed to the disgruntled crowd. Although they did politely answer those who approached them with questions, mostly they were brimming with ‘pride’ to be able to stand up for their fundamental right.

A few known faces of the community from other cities, like Mohini, a transgender from Mansa Foundation Welfare Society in Ludhiana, had also dropped by to express their solidarity. “I have no words to praise these youngsters,” said Mohini, adding that such initiatives would help bring LGBTQs acceptance in the society.

Ridham Chadha, an individual voluntary representative of the LGBTQ community of Amritsar and one of the organisers of the pride parade, said: “It’s like dream come true. Our efforts have bone fruits and people from all walks of life are joining us.”

