Attractive BBW Seeking LTR I've met some nice guys on here (more that weren't so nice), but I'm not sure that they are meant for me. Until I'm sure, I'm going to keep looking. I need a man who isn't afraid to open up and be in a relationship.I'm not perfect, I tend to be stubborn at times, I can be sensetive as well. But I'm a damn good woman. I'm strong, independent, driven, loyal, kind hearted and nurturing. I like men who are men, not controlling, but strong enough to handle a strong woman and make her feel safe. I cannot deal with liars, I don't lie and expect the same from the people in my life. Life is too short to play games, I live everyday as if it were my last and don't want to be remembered as a fake.Me: I'm 5'2", 230lb (yes I know I'm fat, so losers who have no life, save it, don't waste my time with hate mail) I have long silky red hair, green eyes and a killer smile. I'm very curvy and am in the process of losing weight, so if you're only into big girls, move on. I do not like to argue, like I said life is short, I believe that 2 people can disagree without arguing. I've spend 25 years taking care of everyone else, now that the kids are grown, I need to work on my happiness. I want to go out, have fun and live life.My ideal man: Over 5'6", not really skinny but not too big (2 big people being intimate is kind of scary to me). Must be nice, but not whimpy. Absolutely must have a good sense of humor. Be respectful, mutual respect is crucial to any good relationship. Have goals, if you're into sitting around playing video games all day, we will not get along. I'm very hard working and want the same in a mate. Must have your own vehicle and your own home, no roomates please. I like many different types of men, from suits to bikers, just care about your appearence please.No drug users, heavy drinkers, heavy smokers or holy rollers please. Also, I am not a republican, you must be able to handle that lol***************** Please type Ideal Man in the subject of your e-mail AND include a picture. I will not open anything that does not have this. **********************