The Moves

Have fun with this! Enjoy it and I promise he will too. 🙂

The sensitive spots: the areas around his penis are sensitive and need a little attention. Tease him a little bit. Gently kiss and/or lick his inner thighs and lower stomach (below the naval).

The sensitive spots: the areas around his penis are sensitive and need a little attention. The shaft: the main part of the show. It’s what you’ll mostly be focusing on throughout your entire performance. Slide your flat tongue from the base to the top of the head (and over the frenulum). Lick your lips and slide them along the shaft. Make out with it a little. Keep your lips tight around the shaft while you move up and down. It creates a “vacuum” effect which feels really nice for him. Be gentle! Please don’t use your teeth If you have to, cover your bottom teeth with your tongue to prevent anything bad from happening! Use your tongue! Don’t let it lay in your mouth like a dead fish. Lick all around his shaft. Circle it around the head. Be sure to use your hands to your advantage. Grip his penis and move it up and down in sync with your mouth. Be sure there’s enough lube (see: saliva) for it to glide up and down smoothly. Dry rubs may be good for steak, but not for your man’s dick. Use both hands if you want! Gently suck on the head of his penis while your hand moves up and down.

The balls: these babies need some lovin’ too. Gently massage them while you are working his shaft. Don’t be afraid to use your mouth on them! And again, please no teeth! These guys are super sensitive so licking and gently (and I mean geeently) sucking on them should feel great for your man. Lick/suck his balls while you stroke his cock.



Read more about Penis Sucking Techniques here.

The 22 Major Penis Sucking Positions.

NOTE: For each of these positions, make sure that you are comfortable enough to breath, your man is comfortable enough to cum, and you’re able to finish the job.

#01 On knees, sitting upright, sucking a standing man

This is by far the most popular blowjob position. I have given more blowjobs in this position than any other. This position works very well on average because it positions the cocksuckers mouth at the proper height for the cock he is sucking. This suggests some modifications when there is a major height difference. If the man being sucked is tall, the cocksucker can accommodate by rising up on his knees to the proper height. The opposite situation is not so easy — if you are blowing a short man, it might help for him to stand on a footstool or other sturdy item. Once the geometry between sucker and suckee have been worked out, things pretty much take care of themselves, unless the blowjob lasts a long time. Most of the guys I blow cum within five minutes, but there are some that take over half an hour. While it is wonderful to have a cock in my mouth that long, it can be tiring. The knees tend to get sore on a long blowjob, so cushions, pillows or even a few towels under the knees can remedy that.

This position leaves the suckers hands free, so there are many possibilities. I will often place my hands on the hips or ass of the man I’m sucking. It also allows you to jack off while sucking. If you do, make sure you are able to finish the blowjob once you cum (some men have a “change of heart” once they cum, and are unable to continue). Some men really like their sucker to stroke themselves while sucking because they like the idea of them being clearly aroused from sucking. Other men forbid their suckers from touching themselves because they want their cock to the center of attention. Some of these men like their suckers to have their hands behind their backs. There are many variations possible in this position, so be flexible and enjoy!

#02 On hands and knees, sucking a standing man

This position can work well in a three-way, with the cocksucker “getting it in both ends at once”. I have only experienced this a few times, but they were all wonderful, and I’d gladly do it as often as I can! Like the “on knees” position, there is a fair amount of adjust-ability, since the cocksucker can raise or lower his head to accommodate men of different heights. The man fucking the cocksucker’s ass will generally adjust either his position or the cocksucker’s ass for a satisfactory fucking. If you are doing this position in bed, it usually works well. If done on a hard surface, such as a floor, some sort of cushioning can make it more comfortable. If you find yourself in the very lucky situation of servicing a line of men in this fashion, long term comfort will be more important than for simply a three-way.

#03 On knees, “sitting on peg”, sucking a standing man

This is another three-way position in which one man lies on his back, and the cocksucker sit on his erect cock. The man being sucked stands, feet apart over the man on the bottom. I have only done this once, and long to repeat it — if I could, it every day! The men I did this with made this especially wonderful. I rode the first bottom man’s cock while sucking the other and stroking my cock. When the man I was sucking came, I was in such a state of arousal that I came on the bottom man’s belly. I checked with the man I was riding and confirmed that he had not yet cum, so I slipped off him and stroked his cock while I licked my cum off his belly, then proceeded to suck him off. As much as I wanted to, I was not able to reconnect with these men. I did this on a bed, which was very comfortable. Had it been on the floor, some knee discomfort may have occurred, which might be remedied with towels under the suckers knees and legs.

#04 On knees, sucking a man sitting on chair (or couch)

As with other kneeling positions, it offers a lot of flexibility to adapt to the height of the man you are sucking. This is my second most frequent position, mainly because the men I blow like it. Knee comfort, as with other kneeling positions can be enhanced with cushioning. This position does not work well for extremely fat men. I mean no disrespect, and have enjoyed blowing a number of fat men (after all, they need to cum also). When blowing a very fat man, the position needs to allow easy access to his cock, which can tend to pull under layers of fat. Leaner men, and men with long cocks can be very effectively blown in this position. This position makes it easy for the man being sucked to be comfortable while watching porn. As a cocksucker, I have come to realize that for some men, my mouth is simply a cum dump. Many men really enjoy watching a cocksucker in action, but when blowing a man, watching porn can help in the arousal process. In such situations I just tell the man I’m blowing to imagine that he is being blown by one of the women in the porn flick.

#05 On knees, sucking a man lying on bed, knees over edge of bed (legs may be spread)

This offers the same flexibility as other on knees positions, and is very comfortable for the man being blown. They may not be able to watch porn, but can close their eyes and indulge their favorite fantasy. This position works especially well when blowing very fat men, because the belly tends to “flow to the sides” allowing easier access to the cock. Fat men often appear to have smaller cocks because some of their length is hidden beneath the fat. I have always enjoyed blowing fat men, and they seem to be especially appreciative, and perhaps don’t get very many.

#06 Man being sucked lying on back on bed, sucker lying face down between his legs.

This offers the ability to easily blow men of any size, and can be comfortable for long duration blowjobs. It works well for fat men, though position #5 is better for extremely fat men, because it provides better access to his cock.

#07 Man being sucked lying on bed, sucker lying face down perpendicular

This is similar to position #6, but requires either a large bed, or can be done with multiple mattresses on floor. The multiple mattress situation sometimes happens in sex party situations. This position allows for plenty of adjustment, which is handy for long duration blowjobs.

#08 Man being sucked lying on bed, sucker lying face down with legs facing upward.

This is similar to positions #6 and #7. This position lends itself well the man being sucked touching the sucker. It is important to understand that some of the men we suck are “bi-curious” and may take the blowjob experience as an opportunity to touch you. I never discourage that because if it arouses him it makes the blowjob better for both of us. Some men secretly want to suck a cock themselves, and this position can easily morph into a very effective “69” position. I never seek reciprocation, but if a man really wants to suck me, I won’t deny him. I don’t cum from being sucked, but do enjoy the feeling. Furthermore, if having my cock in his mouth helps him to cum, I’ll do my best to accommodate him! This position offers a lot of flexibility to change position, and is very comfortable on a bed. If not on a bed, you may have to make some adjustments to enhance comfort.

#09 Man being sucked lying on bed, sucker on hands and knees in any orientation.

As with position #8, it allows easy access to the cocksucker’s “parts”, though it is not as good for “69”. If access to your parts is the primary consideration, it is superior to position #8, because the cocksuckers cock and balls hang down, and with the knees slightly apart, the ass can be easily accessed. I became a real fan of this position when I blew men who enjoyed fingering my ass, which I grew to really enjoy.

#10 Cocksucker lying on back on bed, man being blown kneeling over face (from top).

This is a comfortable position for the cocksucker, and works especially well when there are multiple men to suck. The man being sucked kneels above the cocksucker’s head, with knees on either side of the cocksucker’s head. The man being sucked then “dips” his cock into the cocksuckers mouth and can exercise quite a bit of control. For those who like to give facials, this is a good position, allowing him to pull out and spray his load as he pleases. It is also an especially when the recipient of the blowjob wants his balls sucked. In this position the both balls can often be completely dropped into the suckers mouth. This is popularly referred to as t-bagging. Its not for everyone, but for men who love it, it can be very arousing. One of my regulars would often approach climax, but have difficulty getting there. When he would drop his balls into my mouth for a few minutes, he would pull his balls out and immediately insert his discharging cock! Giving your man what arouses him the most can be key to your both experiencing the very best blowjob.

#11 Cocksucker lying on back on bed, man being blown kneeling over face (from side).

This is similar to position #10, but with the man being blown coming in from either side. I don’t find it as comfortable, but it does work well in a group situation, where each man can come in from the opposite side, and the cocksucker only needs to turn his head to service the next cock.

#12a Cocksucker lying on back on bed, man being blown kneeling over sucker’s face.

In this position the man being sucked kneels, lightly sitting on the sucker’s chest, knees at arm pits of sucker. This position clearly puts the man being sucked clearly in charge. Like it or not, the sucker must continue until the man being sucked gets off him. This position works best for longer cocks. Men with small cocks may not be able to reach the sucker’s mouth. This is closely related to position #12b, described next.

#12b Man does pushup over cocksucker’s mouth.

Same as #12a, but man being sucked leans forward, supporting himself by his hands, as if doing push-ups over the cocksucker’s mouth. This simple adaptation of position #11a is a good work-around for men with smaller cocks, provided that there is enough room above the cocksucker’s head for the man being sucked to support himself. If the man being sucked likes the “push up” approach, this position can work well. If not, the very similar position #12c may work better.

#12c Knees over cocksucker’s shoulders

Same as #12a, except knees of the man being sucked are over the cocksucker’s shoulders. In this position, the man being sucked can insert his cock completely into the sucker’s mouth. This is wonderful for men with small cocks, and sometimes preferred by men with large cocks. With a large cock in this position, it can be really tough on the cocksucker. If you cannot deep throat, don’t do this position with a large cock man unless you are prepared to get gagged for as long as the man on top wishes! Having said that, this is a position I really do love, but only encourage men with small to medium sized cocks to mount me in that manner. It is also a great position for t-bagging. There is another issue with this position. The sucker is very much at the mercy of the man he is sucking. Some men like to be rimmed (have their ass hole licked, and often penetrated by the sucker’s tongue). If rimming is not something you want to do, don’t do this position with someone who might be inclined to force you to do it!

#12d Knees under cocksucker’s arms

Similar to the other #12 positions, and #10, with man being sucked facing feet of cocksucker with knees under cocksucker’s arms. This positions the man being sucked immediately over the face of the cocksucker, typically with the balls immediately over the sucker’s mouth. In order to blow the man on top, he often needs to lean forward, almost in 69 position. It is a very good position for t-bagging. It is also a favorite of men who enjoy forcible rimming. In this position the man on top can position his ass hole right on the sucker’s mouth, and hold it there as long as he desires. If you are on the bottom of that position YOU WILL lick his ass until he decides to release you.

It would seem that the four #12 positions are very risky and should be avoided. On the contrary, I really like all of these positions, but it is critical to really know the man you are blowing! In all of these positions you are giving up control, so make sure you give up control to a man you really trust! I have blown many men I did not know well, and typically use the kneeling positions for them, but when I know and trust a man, any of the #12 positions have been great!

#13 69 position

— one person lying on back, other person lying face down on top of first person, cocks in each others mouths. Most of the men I blow would never think of taking a cock in their mouths, and I like it that way, but sometimes I meet a man who also likes to suck, and I’m glad to let him enjoy the joys of cock-sucking as well. The man on the top will often have his knees on either side of the bottom man. The top man’s ass is very accessible for stimulation. If you use this position, make sure you are able to finish the job, should you cum first.

#14 Cocksucker lying on bed on back, with head over side of bed.

In this position the cocksucker’s head is tilted back, opening the throat. The man being blown comes slips into the mouth and enters. This is a good position for blowing men with big cocks, even if you cannot deep throat. I am told that this position is also very good for deep-throating, as the entry is a straight path and the throat is more open.

#15 Cocksucker sitting on armchair, man being sucked kneeling on chair’s arms

This position can work well if the furniture size is right, typically with wide arms that are easy to kneel upon. It is often best for the cocksucker to slide down in the chair a bit to adjust to the position of the cock.

#16 Cocksucker sitting in chair, man being sucked approaching from side.

This position can work well for “spur of the moment” blowjobs, often in a group setting, where the cocksucker is presented a cock, and expected to suck. Like position #11, it lends itself well to approaches from either side.

#17 Man being sucked sitting in car seat, cocksucker sitting in other seat or kneeling on floor.

This is the classic “car suck” position, and varies according to the type of car. Car sucks can be very cramped in small vehicles, and nearly impossible for vehicles with large consoles. You may have to do a little experimenting to find what works best. In general, car sucks are best with guys who cum quickly.

#18 Both standing, man being sucked standing on ladder or other elevating device.

This positions is similar to the #1 kneeling position, except both are standing. As such it lends itself well to long duration sucks, since your knees won’t get tired. One of my regulars has a flatbed trailer parked in his back yard. When the mood strikes him he stands on the trailer while I blow him, standing on the ground. A variation of this has the man being blown in an elevated seated position, as you might imagine blowing a lifeguard.

#19 Cocksucker sitting on chair or couch, man being sucked standing in front.

This position can be very comfortable for the sucker, since it avoids the sore knees that the #1 kneeling position can cause. It can work well if the height of the man being sucked works well for the seated cocksucker. There is not as much ability to adjust for height, so you might find yourself trying this position and then dropping to your knees to find the right sucking height.

#20 Man being sucked on all fours, cocksucker kneeling behind, sucking from behind.

This position works well when the cocksucker is paying a lot of attention to the man’s ass, such as dildoing, or rimming along with cock-sucking. Some men’s cock don’t point that far back when hard, so this may not work for some. Furthermore, since the cock will be upside down in the suckers mouth (similar to 69 style), it may not be as easy to give good tongue action to the bottom of the cock.

#21 Man being sucked on desk or box, cocksucker on knees.

This position is very similar to #04 Sitting in Chair, but is usually a bit higher.

#22 Cocksucker sitting on floor against wall, man being sucked standing

This position works well if the height of the cock is right. Usually very comfortable, but with limited ability to adjust for height.

#23 Cocksucker squatting, man being sucked standing in front.

This position is most often used when unable to kneel. It works well for men who cum quickly, as the legs quickly fatigue in this position.

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