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When I first came into the position, I sat down with a reporter. He asked me how I could do this job and do it well. I’m a woman and a mother. You know, ‘How is this possible?’ And I thought, ‘Oh, what a great opportunity. I can run through my whole résumé. I got this right. I can do this.’ And he asked the question the second time. ‘How can you do this job well? You’re a wife and a mother.’ And I thought, oh, OK. Well, I have a support system. I’m very fortunate to have the support of my family. You know, not everybody has a support system that I do. I know that. I am just so lucky to have that. And he asked it a third time and I finally said, ‘Look, I’m not sure that I can answer this question in a way that is going to satisfy you.’ And after the interview was over, he turned off the tape recorder, you know, put his notes away. And the gentleman that was working for me at the time and my communications staff said, you know, ‘Do you ask everybody that question?’ ‘Yes.’ ‘The men that have had children and in public office, you’ve questioned?’ And he said, ‘Of course not.’ And then I think he caught himself and said, ‘Well, OK, OK, yes I do, yes I do.’