Seduction is sales

In sales, the salesman always wants the customer to believe the purchase was the customers idea, not the salesman’s. They want the customer to become excited about the product, and make an impulse purchase.

Your product is yourself. And the customer is analyzing your market value vs theirs. Will purchasing this product satiate a need, emotionally, socially or financially? Will hooking up with you make their life more fun, more interesting, or safer? Will it bring them greater social status, resources, or adventure?

You want to put your product in front of as many potential buyers as possible. You want to approach the shit out of your city.

Objections:

What negatives might she experience if she dates you? If you’re overweight, sloppily dressed, or poorly groomed, you might be an embarrassment. Her friends might think less of her and her standards if she dates you.

If you’re a dull conversationalist, then she might not want to introduce you to her friends because she knows you will stand around all quiet like, boring them. Is that the best she can do? Is she only worth this boring, shy man?

If you’re over thirty, unemployed, with no education, career, talent, or ambition, what will she tell her parents about you?

And on top of all that, what if you are needy, or jealous, or controlling like most of the other weak men out there?

These are just a few of the thoughts bouncing around her mind as she decides whether to give you her number, or meet you for a coffee.

You have to have answered all of her objections, before she’s had them.

In night-game things are different. It’s more about how much you can make her laugh. How well you can short circuit her logic, her defences, and be fun enough that she decides to ditch her friends and bring you home. She isn’t spending so much time evaluating you, especially if she’s been dancing and drinking for a few hours. She just wants to have fun.

You sell her fun, more fun than any other guy, and you might have a chance.

And men? What are we thinking?

“She’s pretty. I like her. I hope she meets me. I hope I sleep with her. I hope she keeps sleeping with me. I hope she texts me back.”

We’re not a hard sell.

Our worries of personality, neediness and jealousy come later, after we’ve practiced our baby making enough times to feel secure that she likes us enough to stick around. But for the most part, we’re secure enough just by looking at the product to give it a shot.

In romance, if the product is attractive we are very likely to impulse buy based solely on physical appearance. Women are more likely to impulse buy based on other factors like pre-selection, entertainment value, provider value, and social status.

One thing we both have in common, is that we impulse buy based on emotions

Learn to give a woman emotions, from laughter to sadness, joy to rage, insecurity to security, anxiety to safety, and she will be more likely to purchase your product on impulse.

You want the mere thought of spending time with you, to give her heart a flutter.

Your trick as a man, is to convince the women to impulse buy.

But how?

This is what we call game. And it takes years to master. It’s what I’ve spent a decade reading, writing, practicing and teaching. It is a combination of study and application. Of field research and contemplation. It is not something I can sum up in a blog post.

But what I have learned, is that if you’re not out there promoting your product, and placing it in front of as many potential buyers as possible, using whatever medium you can with an intent to close…you will not sell a thing.

ABC = Always Be Closing

Lying is also a great sales tactic.

Once I told a girl I was going to Afghanistan in the morning to clear landmines, and all I wanted was “one last night with a woman.”

Once I told a girl I was “The Drummer for Good Charlotte.”

A good salesman never takes the first “no” as concrete. It means “Not yet.” (SJW’s calling this promotion of rape can suck my consensual dick.)

“I don’t give my number to strangers.”

“Me neither. What’s your Facebook?” (Gives Facebook). “Now we’re not strangers anymore. What’s your phone number?”

“I can’t leave with you, my friends are in the bar.”

“Take out your cell phone.”

She takes out her phone.

“Take a picture of me.”

“Ok.” Snap.

“Send that picture to your friends.”

“Ok.”

“Give me your phone.”

“Ok.”

Types in “Hi guys. Leaving with this guy. He’s amazing. Talk to you tomorrow!”

If you want to be good at pickup, you must learn to sell yourself, to never take “no” (except, don’t rape, duh) for a first answer, and sell yourself to the best of your ability.

Give her emotions, counter her arguments and resistance with more fun emotions, and a little logic, and keep trying to close. Once you have the girl in your bed, it will be good for both you, and her, to be close. You will enrich each other’s lives, if even for one night, or fifty years.

But you have to be the world’s best salesman, or it won’t happen at all.

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