AutumnCrow Thu 22-Aug-19 19:35:24

It is incredibly hard to do a 'rule'.



Everyone is different. What's ok for one person isn't ok for another.



I think a good partnership needs patience and understanding from both sides, e.g. after one half has e.g. given up smoking or had a baby or become unwell - but it really needs to work both ways.



I think it is one of the most difficult dilemmas tbh to come into a relationship.



Yes, barring abuse, you should ideally love your partner whatever. But they shouldn't take the piss. That leads to the erosion of love - and with that, the erosion of desire.