Just like bearing children, choosing to become a step-parent is a tremendous act of love. But while many biological parents end up having kids in a, ahem, unplanned fashion, step-parents know what they’re getting themselves into. They might get to know their partner’s children for some time, but they still choose to adopt them as their own. It can be challenging of course, as some kids might not always be terribly receptive. But in the end, it’s worth putting your all into these new, specially chosen relationships. In honor of this, we’ve picked out some great step-parent quotes that cover the challenges as well as the heartwarming aspects of it all.

1. You won’t always know who is a step-child, but know that they often have a great step-parent behind them…

2. An important word of caution for those just starting out on their step-parenting journey. Because it can definitely be tricky to navigate at first.

3. This one is for all those who simply don’t understand the vital role a step-parent can play.