I got married a year back after dating my wife for six months. I love her and we were sexually active prior to our marriage. But, things changed drastically post our wedding. I have started finding her less attractive and have lost interest in making any sexual contact with her. Further, my attitude has also rendered her sexually frustrated. I have now decided to leave her and find some one else who can satiate me sexually and prove to be a good life partner. Also, this way I'll save myself from ruining my wife's life. Please suggest if I have come to the right decision? -I am totally surprised at your attitude towards the woman you love! If you truly loved your wife, you would have taken the pains of fault-finding and consulting a sexologist because the problem seems to be with you. If you are not able to initiate sex with your partner, then chances are that there might be some sexual problem you are dealing with unknowingly.Also, finding a new partner is certainly not the solution as nothing can confirm the fact that this new person will be able to satisfy you sexually. Please consult a sexologist at the the earliest or else you'll end up ruining your life forever.Want expert advice for your relationship? Send us an email at expertadvice.toi@gmail.com