The open secret about unscripted reality TV shows is that they often are scripted, and producers frequently orchestrate every detail that appears onscreen.

While viewers might feel cheated by the lack of spontaneity and a reliance on staged drama in a series that professes to reflect “real life,” show participants aren’t always let down when the curtain is pulled back and they see how reality TV works.

Reddit users who’ve appeared on a reality TV show discussed their behind-the-scenes experiences in a post by redditor Ares_Ark in the Ask Reddit community.

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Judge Judy

American Ninja Warrior

Survivor

This Old House

Mythbusters

Take Home Chef

House Hunters