Robert Whitman

In my last post, I asked how you deal when your guy is being moody/acting stressed/closed off. I haven't totally figured it out, but one technique is to not smother him. Another technique is to give him a blow job. I did both and they seem to be doing the trick.

Robert Whitman

I woke D. up with oral. (One of the benefits of being anxious is that I didn't sleep really well and was up early.) I very slowly and carefully pulled back the sheets because I wanted to make sure I actually woke him up to the sensation of my mouth on him. He started to stir when I pulled down his boxers so I just pulled his junk through the opening and got to work.

He didn't get an erection as quickly as I expected (do you take it personally when a guy takes a while to become hard?) but it immediately woke him up. His initial reaction: dazed and confused. But that was quickly replaced with, "Oh shit yes." Ahh, sex swearing. It's when you know a guy really loves whatever you're doing.

D. reached down to take off my shirt, but I was firmly set on finishing him off with oral.

I never removed his boxers and there was something really hot about the limited contact. OK, also he hasn't trimmed for a little while and it was a good…um, how do I say this? Shield from the jungle?

Since I couldn't get to the balls, I paid special attention to the head. I even tried the "lipstick technique", which I read about here.

D. came soon after pulling out that little move. (Thank you, Cosmo!)

And for the rest of the day, I was determined not to talk about feelings, stress, or work stuff with him. I totally backed off, didn't talk about it when he called me during the day, didn't email about it, and in the evening, while we were eating dinner at my place, I just said, "Hey, you know you can talk to me about work stuff if you just need a sounding board or someone to vent to." He said, "Thanks, I really appreciate it S. I think I'm cool for now," very genuinely and that was that. And I just have to be OK with the fact that D. won't always want to vent like a chick.

Does it bother you when a guy won't open up?

Do you have any little oral tricks that make a guy finish quickly? Any hot spots on the penis I should know about?

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