In my list of the 10 worst things about DSM 5, its decision to confuse normal grief with clinical earned a very high ranking at second place.

https://cdn.psychologytoday.com/blog/dsm5-in-distress/201212/dsm-5-is-gu...

DSM 5 will go to press at the end of January. The American Association has just four more weeks to reverse this dreadful mistake that flies in the face of clinical common sense and is unsupported by the limited available science.

The DSM 5 medicalization of grief has been opposed by editorials and scientific papers in the major medical and psychiatric journals, by hundreds of newspapers articles, and by the 200,000 grievers who viewed a moving blog by Joanne Cacciatore that went viral.

So far, APA has lived in its cocoon- stubbornly sticking to its senseless decision, oblivious to the intense opposition both from the experts in the field and from the many people it will mislabel. Making grief a mental disorder will be a bonanza for drug companies, but a disaster for grievers.

The decision is also self destructive for DSM 5 and further undermines the credibility of APA. Psychiatry should not be mislabeling the normal. Instead, our field should focus on getting more resources for the treatment of patients with clear and severe mental disorders- those who are now receiving far too little care as mental health budgets are slashed.

This final plea to reason comes from the three people who have been most active in protecting grief from being mislabeled as mental illness.

The first is Joanne Cacciatore- psychologist, researcher, clinician , bereaved parent, and founder of the MISS Foundation and Center for Loss & . For more details see:

http://drjoanne.blogspot.com/2012/12/the-death-of-sadness-birth-of-menta...

"It is simply outrageous that DSM 5 will diagnosis mental disorder in the normally bereaved as early as two weeks following their loss- thus encouraging the massive misdiagnosis of grief as Major Depressive Disorder. Under trained primary care doctors are particularly likely to confuse grief and depression and to over treat with psychotropic . Drugs are necessary for the severe symptoms of depression in some individuals, but there is no evidence they are good for expectable grief. In fact, the research shows that the bereaved are already being medicated earlier than can be justified."

"We issue an ardent appeal to DSM 5. Please, do not medicalize normal grief. It is not at all pathological to have symptoms that closely resemble mild depression during . The Bereavement Exclusion is absolutely necessary to protect against the false positive over diagnosis of depression. Keep it in place. The bereaved are already vulnerable. So, please take to heart your responsibility to them- 'first do no harm'."

The second email is Russell Friedman: co-founder of The Grief Recovery Institute Educational Foundation and co-author of 'The Grief Recovery Handbook' and 'When Children Grieve'.

[www.griefrecoverymethod.com],

"One of the very few defenders of the indefensible DSM 5 decision to pathologize grief is quoted as saying : “Well-trained clinicians will be able to make this distinction [between normal grief and depression] and most have done so without the help of for many years.”

"This is far too an appraisal- true only for the distinction between grief and severe depression. Not even the best trained clinicians can distinguish grief from mild depression. And a totally untrained and ill-equipped GP, in his 6-8 minute consultation with the new widow or widower, might as well be blindfolded and throw darts at targets marked MDE or Normal Grief, while prescribing unnecessary meds that will bury the griever’s feelings- where they will likely fester."

"In its zealous attempt never to miss any possible patient, DSM 5 endorses further loosening of what are already too loose criteria for depression- thus mislabeling grief and potentially hurting many millions of grievers."

The third email is Jerry Wakefield, Professor Of Social Work and Psychiatry at New York University http://www.nyu.edu/socialwork/our.faculty/jerome.wakefield.html]

"DSM 5 claims that its decision to relabel mild depressive feelings during grief as clinical depression was based on scientific evidence. This is simply not true. In fact, the evidence goes strongly against the decision.

For example, two critical features of clinical depression are that it predicts a higher likelihood of later recurrence of new depressive episodes and a highly elevated rate of attempts. Studies show that the depressive feelings during grief that the DSM 5 is going to relabel clinical depression do not predict higher rates of either of these problems.

"The scientific literature documents that on many other important measures as well, such grief is unlike clinical depression and more like intense normal emotions that improve on their own with time."

"Similar normal feelings of sadness occur in reactions to other losses, such as marital dissolution, romantic betrayal, job loss, financial trouble, natural disaster, and a terrible medical diagnosis. Such reactions are currently diagnosed as psychiatric disorders when in fact studies show they too are often normal responses. The evidence indicates that DSM 5 should be narrowing the category of clinical depression, not broadening it."

"Grieving individuals need and deserve support and frequently consult general physicians seeking help with sleep or other symptoms. The provision of such help should not be distorted by a spurious medical diagnosis that is not supported by the scientific evidence."

Many thanks to all three correspondents for this and for their previous efforts to save DSM 5 from itself. The need to preserve 's valuable distinction between ' " and "Melancholia' seems self evident to everyone except the people responsible for DSM 5.

There was no previous problem in DSM IV that needed fixing. Grievers who have severe and urgent symptoms- suicide risk, symptoms, severe agitation. Inability to function- have always qualified for the diagnosis of Major Depressive Disorder; while those having typical symptoms of grief were appropriately regarded as having a normal, human reaction to a grave loss. As Dr Wakefield points out, the criteria for mild forms of Major Depressive Disorder are already too loose when people are experiencing any kind of loss- DSM 5 now makes the strange choice of making them looser.

After 40 years and lots of clinical experience, I can't distinguish at two weeks between the symptoms of normal grief and the symptoms of mild depression- and I challenge anyone else to do so. This is an inherently unreliable distinction. And I know damn well that primary care doctors can't do it in a 7 minute visit. This should have been the most crucial point in DSM 5 because primary care docs prescribe 80% of all and will be most likely to misuse the DSM 5 in mislabeling grievers.

Drug companies will probably jump at this golden opportunity to mount a disease awareness 'educational campaign' spreading the false DSM 5 gospel that depression can be reliably diagnosed among normal grievers. And the instinct of primary care docs is always to reach for their prescription pads or the free samples on the shelf as the quickest way to get the griever out of the office.

Grief is a normal and inescapable part of the human condition, not to be confused with psychiatric illness. Let us respect the dignity of mourning and treat it medically only when it becomes melancholia.

APA needs to reconsider a really bad decision that will seriously reduce its credibility and encourage the DSM 5 boycott I am told is now in its planning stages.