For Tobia, body-hair norms, nonbinary bodies, and pronoun education are at the top of the list. The model recently took body-hair norms to task on their first red carpet debut by wearing a sexy dress that showed off their hairy arms, legs, and chest.

The model admitted that the experience made them feel "the weight of what it means to push back against the idea that hairlessness equals beauty."

Of course, there are a million other stories similar to Tobia's, but their takeaway from the experience is pretty unique — especially in the way it encourages us to take the shame brands can put on us for not meeting their "norms" and have the courage and insight to throw it right back at them.

