he's dead, that's all that matters

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This comes across so dismissive of her.

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People's negative reactions toward him are not on her behalf



if she wants to forgive him, that's her prerogative

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Poor girl. She must have so many different feelings right now. The cycle of abuse is complicated, I don't expect his Neanderthal fans to understand

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Yea, when she states that he's dead n she isn't makes me think she's feelin enormous amount of guilt. How could she not? In abusive situations that tends to happen, plus she's had his family n stans attackin her relentlessly over it. They still are makin it feel like its her fault. Nevermind the fact this pos had a death wish from the get go. He lived his life as such n he openly challenged it.

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People are saying “ohhh well his ex is mourning him so obviously she forgave him for what he did!” Like uhhh mourning =\= forgiveness and even if she did forgive him, it is part of the cycle of abuse and we can’t forget that. I don’t know them personally obviously but this is how it reads from an objective standpoint. Stockholm syndrome teas tbh

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Facts.



I’ve gotten married, have 3 kids and years of therapy and parts of me still feels sadness for the man who spent years beating my ass. He could die tomorrow and I’d likely cry instead of feeling relief.

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Mte like my ex and I went through so much together and while I would never be in a relationship with him again, I'd probably feel pretty fucked up if he died right now. It's possible that she's feeling guilty, too. Lord knows how many times I've wished someone would take my ex out.

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Exactly people are still putting words in her mouth they clearly don’t give any single type of fuck about her

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Stockholm syndrome



hit the nail on the head

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Well, that and even though he was super shitty and abusive, he was still someone "close" to her. I know ONTD was spiking the football in the endzone over his death, but lots of people can feel shock or trauma from a sudden violent death, regardless of how they may have felt about the decedent.

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and forgiveness =/= doesn’t mean he didn’t do anything but I’ve seen plenty of people apparently missing that connection too

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you said exactly what i was thinking. i want it to be simple where she's happy he's dead, but a part of her did care for him, i suppose. i just hate that he did this shit to her.

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Right? It's a bit of a different situation, since my ex was emotionally abusive and not physically abusive, but I was still a fucking mess when I found out he had a medical emergency and probably wasn't going to make it (or at the very least, wasn't going to have a normal life again). He recovered though, and now I certainly feel differently about it than I did at the time.

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Most ppl don't understand the psychology of abuse. It goes beyond them.

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I made the mistake of reading the comments on The Shaderooms IG and people are seriously pieces of shit.



The cycle of abuse is so fucked up and people are just trashing her endlessly calling her a liar and saying she ruined his life and so on as if it was that one incident on his rap sheet.



The entire thing is so gross.

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Their comment section when it comes to posts involving abuse or rape allegations is absolute trash. I'm not surprised by how much they hate women, but it breaks my heart when women are the ones being hella cruel :/

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There's soooo much of those wannabe hiphop dudebro meme profiles. I want to die

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I saw those. Sad that most of those appeared to be teenagers. Also weird how they have been harassing and defaming her while simultaneously posting how much positivity xxxtentacion put in their lives.

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Teenagers are the fucking worst. Reading something about how "wOmEn MaKe OuT In A DiVoRcE" and the fucker's profile says, "UGHS c/o 2018," like wtf do you know about shit? Have your balls even dropped yet?

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yes xxxtentacion is such a positive influence on their behavior

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Twitter has been a mess with this. It’s shown up so many men’s propensity to dismiss women’s claims even in the face of evidence. They don’t care if it happened they only care about man they liked.

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The comment section is horrible no matter what is posted there, like any other comment section that exists on the internet.

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my heart breaks for her. I hope she has a supportive community around her right now.



his stans are just as vile as him.

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oh lordy

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"Stop believing the motherf**king rumors. I did not beat that b***h; she got jumped. Bye.'



In another call, XXXTentacion said: 'For all you dumb f**k ass n****a that thought this stupid b***h was pregnant. I've got the paperwork signifying that she wasn't pregnant."



I decided to Google both of them and this is the first thing I saw. Christ. Girl will need some time to snap out of it. She didn't get any closure in any way. Hopefully she has good people around her.

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and here’s what he said on the call to her that leaked for anyone who cares to compare:



X: Here's what you're gonna do, and if you don't do this the way I'm playing it, then I'm gonna send 'em to your mom's house. We have the address. That's where you f**ked up, you gave it to [redacted]. So here's what you're gonna do. I'm gonna call one more time. I'm gonna use the rest of this call (...) You guys are gonna listen to what I'm saying, and you're going to accept what I'm saying. You need to go delete every single tweet now. You don't have to delete the GoFundMe yet though. Geneva's gonna delete all those tweets, uhh, she's gonna send a specific text message to [redacted] to make it that if you guys play with me, you've f**ked yourself in the long run. You can hear me, correct?

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jesus. there are no words.

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good riddance.

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Wow. I'm happy he's gone

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How can you be that cruel and sinister before the age of 20???? What the fuck.

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such a manipulative little shit

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abusive relationships are not as black and white as a lot of people think



EDIT: also knowing someone you were once close to has died is pretty hard to swallow. this literally just happened, so i hope she's gonna get the help she needs to get her through this; especially with his fans giving her shit on social media.



Edited at 2018-06-20 05:10 am (UTC)

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I believe she also changed her IG to @liar.

She has posts on there about people burning items she left at his vigil and attacking her.



Somehow people think this treatment of her is ok.

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people are garbage

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I hope she is able to get the surgery and recover from her injuries. Gosh reading the comments towards her and about him in general have been so discouraging.

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I don't know why I came into this post tbh. What a dark, unsettling read.

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Gurl, I'm so fucking angry. Fffffs hes dead and that's all that matters. Awwww GURL 💔. Seriously I hope she got such immense good support system.... GURL!!!!

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Hang in there hon. I wish all abusers would suffer and die

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mte



Nothing of value is lost when people like him die.

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There were so many Xs in the title that I thought he was tweeting from the grave. Clearly, I cannot read tonight.

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