(dear husband)

I want to start with the fact that I knew what I was getting into when we began dating.He (let's call him Bob) was dating my friend and we all got wasted one night, we ended up having sex. After that my friend told me all about their sex life. I was intrigued and disgusted all at the same time.Eventually things didn't work out with my friend and her boyfriend but we kept having sex. Then things got serious and we dropped the sex with the friend completely.In the beginning sex with Bob was pretty vanilla, occasionally we played around with the kinky and taboo but not often.We were married exactly a year after we started dating. We banged like bunnies so it was also no surprise that I was very pregnant during my wedding.After the baby was born our sex life really picked up and Bob was less and less vanilla.He liked to drink my milk, have period sex (both vaginNalgene and oral) and we had some 3 some sort of both sexes.Our relationship was great, he was a hard worker and a great dad.As time went on however sex with him became more strange. I also became pregnant again when our first was a year old. That started our first and only rocky patch. He accused me of cheating because he thought he sterilized himself by running my period blood through his Penis.He then had his sperm checked to prove that he could indeed get me pregnant and everything was fine after that.We were both thrilled to be pregnant again.So our new baby is now 6 months old and we have once again resumed our wild sex life. I don't mind most of the stuff he wants to do. I find that even if I'm a bit grossed out by it, if I try it I end up loving it and asking for it again.Here is the thing, we attend church regularly and are well liked in our church. We are friends with our pastors daughter (She's my age) here recently we have been a bit more then friends if you get what I'm saying.What I'm concerned about is that dhnow wants to be less vanilla in our encountersociety with her. I'm just worried that he will tell her and she will freak out and tell everyone and our reputation will be ruined.Some of the stuff we do is pretty crazy and I just don't know how someone else would take being asked to do something like the Kentucky Klondike or the Alabama Hot Pocket.

I should just tell my husband no fucking way to what he is wanting to do here right? Right?