Two, they don't play games. My girlfriends have complained about the games men play countless times. Is he into me or someone else? Does he want a relationship or just sex? Why does he never text me back? You won't be bothered by these questions with a Chinese man. When I kissed my boyfriend for the first time after being friends for almost a year, he asked me straightaway if I wanted to be his girlfriend. I was speechless and confused at first. But for him, it was clear. He loved me, and he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me. Period.