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While society might make you feel ashamed of your kink, you can enjoy your fetish by exploring your sexuality safely and communicating with people who share your fetish. As you identify and explore your fetish, prioritize consent and safety so you and your partner are always comfortable. For instance, if your kink involves anything dangerous, discuss it with your partner before having sex. That way, you can plan for a safe, consensual experience you'll both enjoy. Because of the stigmas surrounding fetishes, look online for support groups and communities of people who share your fetish to keep yourself from feeling isolated. If you can't find anyone else who engages in your fetish, don’t give up. For more help, like how to tell a partner about your fetish, read on.