user1488397844 Sun 31-Dec-17 09:18:15

I looked through my OHs internet history last night as it's his birthday and I know hes been looking at some watches so wanted to order him one. However I was totally unprepared for what I found. He works away from home a lot of the time & I found various searches for escorts and massages in the area he's been working!?!? Obviously the massage could be totally innocent and I'm trying not to overreact but what the hell??? He had a works do last night and was worse for wear so I haven't had a chance to speak to him yet but what should I do? I have no evidence he's actually done anything but do you think the intention has been there? I'm just looking for advice on how to approach this. We have been together for 14 years and have a DC together, I have never had any concerns before! I dont want him to turn this around on me and say I shouldn't have checked his phone, as I say I've never done this before and had no concerns, hence why he clearly never bothered deleting his history!