If you've got a family that likes to bicker during the holidays, consider inviting someone less-fortunate who has nowhere to go this Thanksgiving and give your family a reason to behave.


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Psychologist Guy Winch, over at Psychology Today, offers up some great tips for keeping tension low this Thanksgiving, one of which is inviting someone less-fortunate to your table:

Invite someone less fortunate. Far from being a ‘downer', inviting an unemployed neighbor, a friend who suffered a loss or a relative dealing with a difficult illness can have a surprisingly positive impact on everyone. The presence of someone less fortunate allows us to see ourselves through that person's eyes. Doing so would give everyone a clear perspective as to how thankful they should truly feel this holiday season. Also, far less trivial and minor complaints will be voiced as a result. In short, not only would you be doing a good deed, you would be making the holiday more meaningful and memorable for all.


For more tips on a tension-free Thanksgiving, be sure to check out the full post. Got any tips of your own? Let's hear 'em in the comments.

5 Ways to Minimize Family Tensions This Thanksgiving: Part I [Psychology Today]