In this video gay men touch vaginas for the very first time, it is part of a series of videos meant to showcase gay people doing the sexual things that their sexual orientation would never command them do to, namely touching the genitals of the opposite sex among other things. There is a video of lesbians touching a penis for the first time as well, but we will get to that shortly. Because whenever anything interesting, new or fun is done regarding sexuality, especially if men (gay men included) are not being demonized while taking part, some nocturnal feminist slithers out of their den to come hiss accusations of misogyny at everyone… and, you guessed it, one already has in an article titled: Misogyny is alive and well in the gay community – just look at ‘Gay Men Touch Vaginas For The First Time!’ which starts by saying…

There is something cruel at the heart of these videos which reduce us to binary body parts, ‘Gay Men Touch Vagina For The First Time!’ ​is the newest addition to the ​’g​ay people do straight people things for the first time​’ video series​. There are things that lesbians are trying for the first time ​too.​ Some would argue that there is some educational value to these endeavours. The makers of this video, Bria and Chrissy, certainly seem to think so themselves, commenting: “Men are allowed more sexual freedom than women. In our society, when a man has sex he’s ‘the man’, a woman has sex, she’s a slut. We expected a lot of backlash for this video, it will be interesting to see if this video gets the same attention as the ‘Lesbians touch Penis’ video since there are female genitals (and a topic about females as a whole) instead of a male genitals. What are your thoughts?” The attempt to depict these videos as some kind of contribution to the anti-misogyny debate is nonsensical. A gay man squealing in horror at the sight of a vagina will in no way push forward progressive debate. This crass venture serves only to perpetuate these regressive opinions. It reflects an unhealthy preoccupation with body parts so often the subject of misogyny and transphobia.

When will these people find out that regurgitating the nonsense on tap coming out of our universities grievance-politic sacred cows does not make their arguments any less of a crock of shit? First of all, men are allowed sexual freedom? women are not? that it? let’s remember that when the next 40 year old female teacher gets a slap on the wrist for molesting her 12 year old students, let’s remember that the next time these feminists attempt, successfully, to pass yet another draconian law on what constitutes consent, which conveniently does not apply to women of course. And isn’t it a shame that that the author, a gay man, has brought hook line and sinker the all pervasive misogyny narrative, to the point where he feels the need to throw another gay man under the bus for the crime of reacting to a vagina in a way he does not approve…

I mean, what an asshole right? what nerve that a, for lack of a better word, flamboyantly gay man would display a… flamboyant reaction to his first up close encounter with a female vagina… let’s watch the lesbians touch penis for the first time video…

Now if I was a stuck up entitled brat that has been feed a few years of “education” telling me that everyone is out to get me, surely I could find a couple of comments in this video, where mens genitals are compared to limp noodles for example, and extract a victim narrative out of that as well. I don’t because frankly life is too short and I have better things to do than to take issue with harmless youtube social experiments. He continues:

Having witnessed many incidences of unsolicited intimate touching of women and trans people by gay men, I can testify to the existence of misogyny in gay culture. All too often, such behavior is excused on the grounds that the man concerned “isn’t getting off on it”. It promotes the idea that breasts and vaginas are objects of curiosity, of novelty, to be dehumanised and detached from the human being for sport. The pantomime misogyny in the disgust expressed at the sight of a vagina or the mere prospect of contact with a breast may seem amusing. However, it only serves to rationalise misogyny prevalent among cisgender gay men. One man says ‘I feel like I’m going to smell tuna’ – case closed.

Good boy, you whiteknight and you whiteknight hard, make sure women give you a nice pat on the head for villainizing gay men you don’t even know. To be clear there are many great non-gynocentric gay men living as mgtow’s or that are part of the general manosphere, this guy is not one of them, there is a running claim that gay men are somehow impervious to the desire to supplicate to the opposite gender in the manosphere, that because they have no sexual attraction to women, they are somehow immune to the damn near gravitational pull of gynocentrism and white-knighting, but these comments prove that this is not always the case, the force is strong in this whiteknight and to any gay men reading this I assure you that this male feminist will just as quickly feed you to the feminists wolves than any of his hetero male feminist counterparts. Being gay is not a vaccination against misandry, you do not overturn eons of human evolution that makes men hyper-fixate on womens safety and comfort at the expense of men, simply because you prefer penis to vagina.

This reductive attitude towards genitalia is also transphobic. The ‘gay men hate vaginas’ argument is devoid of any acknowledgement of the diversity of gender and sexual identities. There is a very real cruelty at the heart of this whole debacle; reducing human beings to objects and encouraging derision of another person’s body. This is neither educational nor responsible; it’s regressive and potentially incredibly damaging.

Or, a few people just wanted to see what would happen when gay people touch the genitals of members of the opposite sex and have a good laugh about it without having to endure a thesis worth of feminist lecturing and buzzwords? you be the judge folks.