selfishdilema Sun 29-Apr-18 16:13:56

Ok so name changed.

I've been offered a job of my dreams but it's about a 30 min drive from home, (no public transport links apart from 1 bus per day)

Better money, better hours, better benefits 1 being a salary sacrifice car (important)

However I can't take it 😔 we've only got one car it's and old banger and my dh is going to need it for the School runs, School is 2 miles away dd has hypermobility so walking is out and I'll have to leave before and be home later than School times breakfast club etc.

Been offered a car on finance but as I've poor credit history from a few years ago (undiagnosed asd in ds resulting in not being able to work-now sorted) the payments are very high (unaffordable) for not a very good car, all I need is £500 to get another car until I can get my salary sacrifice one (after 6 months) and I'm sulking cos can't do it. So I know Aibu but am still sulking ☹️ and venting here because dh is sick of me moaning.