In 2015 I was diagnosed with gallstones after three painful attacks and a year of intermittent loss of correct bowel function that made me extremely shy and reclusive.

I had galbladder removal surgery which went very well.

I subsequently informed myself concerning the permanent aftereffects. Learning how to deal with them was hard, since what works beautifully for one patient may be disastrous for another, and the loss of self respect I experienced was NOT necessary.

I do not regret the surgery. I do regret the months of shame I suffered before it, and the occasional lapses of control I still suffered after it.

Before I go out in public, a simple small dose of Loperamide/Imodium the night before helps me to feel confident, normal, and above all, HUMAN.