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friend wants me to spend every 5 mins with her? getting creepy!! Having a problem with a friend of mine and even though I have spoken to her about this many times she still does it and im getting pretty close to just blowing up about it. We are both 27- known each other 5 years, both married, and live about 5 minute walk away from each others houses. But she does and says a few things have have seriously began to annoy me, and even though ive called her on it she keeps doing/saying them.



1. I am very close to my sister, I mind her kids while she works 3 days a week and even on my days off I pop out for a visit and stay for dinner etc . My friend however seems very jealous of this. If she contacts me when im there she snarls and says stuff like “Jesus your like lesbians rather than sisters”. I was in the park the other day, and my friend rang me and when she found out I was with my sister she got very snarly and said “Oh I am SO surprised, be a bigger shock if ya wernt with her- why don’t ya just sleep with her” and hung up. She got a right bollocking off me and started crying on the phone saying “Why are you always with her I though we were best friends”



2. She has no concept of couples wanting some alone time together, and no concept of if people don’t answer her back they are busy. Last week was our wedding annivsery, my hubby was off work so we were in bed having a lie in, and she called my phone, my hubbys phone and the house phone. And when she didn’t get an answer she came over and kept her finger on the bell until she woke us. I gave out sting and told her we were spending the day together alone, 10 minutes later she text “Fancy coming to town for coffee?” This has happened more than once, and sometimes she doesn’t even ring- she just shows up at my door and tries to walk in, I had my in laws over for dinner last month and bell was broken, so she came in the side gate and started knocking on back window even though I told her I couldn’t see her that day. If she texts me and I don’t answer ive tonnes of missed calls from her, Cant even have a bath without her ringing me



3. When I am in town I always have tonnes to do, I have a few older neighbours that I do a few bits for if they cant get into town. I always meet her for coffee even though I have lots to do but she sees that as an invite to spend the day with me, even though ive to pay my bills, do shopping for a few neighbours (never mind my own) do housework and dinner etc and she expects me to drive her around to do her bits even though her hubbys still at home asleep in bed. I had my NCT recently and she got thick because I hadn’t “invited her” It’s a ****ing car test not a birthday party!



I have spoken to her about this many times and she always makes excuses -her excuse for abusing me when im at my sisters is “You spend too much time there”, for arriving at my house all the time is “You never answer your phone” and for the town thing is “Oh your always too busy with your sister and ignoring my calls and it’s the only time I see you”



Now this woman is not working and spends her days eating and watching tv, and her house is a kip and she can bearly boil an egg, and she doesn’t talk to her family. Whereas Ive work and gym, cleaning and cooking , I do messages for my neighbours and I love spending time with my family and she seems to seriously resent that I don’t spend every 5 minutes spare I have with her. Its getting a lil bit creepy tbh