Third, why do we need to point out benefits of dating girls with eating disorders?Girls with and without eating disorders (which, by the way, are diseases that affect "mature", "smart", athletic women just as equally as other women.Are you saying only unpleasant, immature people have eating disorders?) can make great relationship partners. Which is why if ROK had said NOT to date women who had eating disorders, yes it would be just as offensive; it's like saying to date or not date people with depression or cancer or some other serious illness. But no one would say men need to date them to help them "get over" their serious disease; that's sickening. I find it hard to believe anyone depends on dating as a way to "get over" an eating disorder (seriously?).You did make one good point, that dating someone for who they are should be more important than whether or not they have an eating disorder (which shouldn't factor in at all). Please make that your argument.