PleazeMe.com is a sexy social site where you can uncover a universe tailored to your desires, and anonymously explore, connect, shop, learn and play! As an adults-only, sex-positive social media network, PleazeMe allows the freedom to share and explore adult content not available on other platforms (like Facebook for example). Their goal is to liberate you and your interests, not censor your sexy content. When passionate people come together to change the world for the better, amazing things can happen, creating unlimited opportunities for all.

When we talk about sex there are two terms that are universally used to describe how we approach sex. Are we vanilla or are we kinky?

As we explored how to design our social platform to support each and every one of us on our sexual journey, we quickly realized that two categories on their own were not sufficient. The existing terms lack the ability to capture the complexity and progression we actually take in our sexual journeys as we add to our basic beginnings. The more we research sexuality and sexual preferences the clearer it became that sex exists on a spectrum not a black and white comparison.

Challenge accepted! We innovated a new method for helping people identify like-minded individuals and resources based on the full sexual spectrum. A better way to communicate the basic sexual preferences and boundaries that color our fantasies and desires.

Elara, Lynx, Zeta, Vega, Janus, Triton and Avior are the 7 Worlds within the PleazeMe Galaxy. The Worlds are categorized by sexual preferences and each has a soft beginning, a middle ground and an outer edge. Your sex sign, as we call them, gives each Member insight into their own intimate needs and their partner’s deepest desires. Instead of saying I am Vanilla or I am Kinky, a person can say I am a Lynx or I am a Vega. Much like your astrology sign it shares some broad sexual information but still requires deeper discussion and understanding before you get the complete picture.

Each world builds on the last. You may be just out of one World and into another…but that doesn’t mean that you like everything in that World. For example, let’s take a look at Lynx, the sign after Elara. Lynx differs from Elara because its members either like a bit of role play or light bondage or spankings. However, a fellow sex sign may not like role play but love spankings…or may have a hard NO for spanking but like having their hands restricted. However, If you feel you are more comfortable identifying as a different sex sign you simply change your world.

At PleazeMe, we looked at the variety of sexual activities and put them on a spectrum. There are about another 150+ activities that you can do other than “the basics”. That is A LOT! We also considered the progression one takes as we expand our basic fundamentals. We thought about what might make or break a couple’s sexual satisfaction if one of them had a hard NO on a sexual activity that was the other one’s favorite. It was interesting, as we worked to come up with the spectrum of sex that categorized our Worlds, we found what created a new World had more to do with the things one was unwilling or uninterested in doing vs. what one liked. Which is why the further you travel through the spectrum of Worlds on PleazeMe, the more you will find others that feel the same. Which in all truth was the point.

We wanted people to have a Community that accepted their desires because they matched their own, where Members would feel comfortable to explore their pleasures. The PleazeMe Sex Spectrum offers us a means to explore what pleases another while we learn more about our own intimate needs and desires. Communication is the key to sexual satisfaction and on PleazeMe that is what we are all about. Sex and our intimate relationships have a direct and impactful effect on our joy, happiness, and health. We deserve to have better resources for improving this critical area of our lives.

So where are you on the spectrum? Take the analysis that determines your sex sign and corresponding World to explore anonymously. The anonymity and the world synergy provide a way for shame and judgment that we dump on ourselves and others, to be suspended as we exchange information, fantasies, and perspectives with the sexually like-minded. Improving our satisfaction and happiness quotient.

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