It seems that the more people I talk to about the concept of dating, the more I realize – people are stupid… They are looking for a thrill, a series of new intimate awkward exciting moments, this is a trend that can’t last long, they get that for maybe two or three months, then they get bored and move on… They forgot in the excitement to become friends and now they have nothing in common and nothing to look forward to but monotony. It’s no wonder marriages don’t last and adultery is an epidemic, people looking for excitement don’t find love, and people who may have found love don’t think its exciting enough to keep. We’ve forgotten what joy looks like, and replaced it with shallow things like adventure, lust, selfishness, and fear.

I hate the beetles, but I think they were on to something.. all you need is love, and the rest works out fine. we can’t keep bouncing from one dead end relationship to another… But many will never figure that out.



