The thing is there isn't just one type of lesbian sex, and the soft-focus femme on femme that the mainstream media gives us is just a snapshot of a bigger picture, and some of us want more than slender straight girls exploring their sexuality. If we're going to have representation across both highbrow, lowbrow and everything in the middle, then we need to acknowledge the diversity in our community. Some of us are fat or disabled, trans or non-binary. We don't all have vaginas. Lesbian sex takes twice as long as straight sex; you can multitask your pleasure for starters. Where are the sex scenes where you wait five minutes to get your breath back and then switch places?