Can I Have Sex While Pregnant?

A big question when it comes to pregnancy is about sex. Can you still have it? What’s safe? What about sex toys, are they going to harm you while you are pregnant or affect the baby that is now a part of your body? While there are precautions to take into consideration the short answer is no, you do not have to put down your vibrator. Phew!

If you are a regular lover and user of sex toys with your partner or just for masturbation you will be thrilled to know that just because you are pregnant it does not mean you have to lock your favourite sex toys away and wait that incredibly long 9 months to get them out again.

What Are The Risk And Warnings?

Now while every women is different and every pregnancy is different, some general factors to consider if you are wanting to continue or even begin using sex your while you are pregnant it is important to get the dangers and cautions out of the way first:

Check with your doctor.

Are you a high risk pregnancy or have you had complications? If so consult your doctor as there might be risks you are not aware of when it comes to sex or sex toys.

Every sex toy that you use or that enters your body MUST be sterilised and 100% clean. This is incredibly important as you do not want to be transfer diseases or infections into your body while you are pregnant.

Do not use anal sex toys in the vagina, mix and matching can cause infection.

Be aware of extra sensitivity. Although you may not realise now your body changes a lot throughout pregnancy and so does your sensitivity to certain areas, so what felt good before may not feel good while you’re pregnant e.g. nipples

Be gentle. While it is not in the pregnancy sex handbook, when using sex toys be aware of how you are using the sex toy and how rough you might get. As long as it feels good for you and there is no pain you are safe.

DO NOT use e-stim (electro stimulation) sex toys internally or externally. This is incredibly important to be aware of as this can affect your baby directly.

Stay away from certain sex toys that contain phthalates as they can cause disruptions to your hormones. Always opt for “phthalate free”.

Another product that goes hand in hand with sex and sex toys is lube. When you are pregnant be aware that anything with a high sugar level can cause yeast infections in the vagina and anything with menthol for “cooling” or any lube labelled for “warming” or “buzzing”, stay away! Keep it simple with a basic good quality lubricant to keep safe.

Although it may feel like a lot of warnings and cautions don’t be put off using your favourite sex toy, embrace the precautions and play it safe but make sure you still play. While women are pregnant there are so many hormones rushing through the body every day and once you have passed the first 3 months and all the nausea is gone you will start to feel an incredible surge of energy and endorphins along with the desire for sex. Oh yes, women become incredibly horny and desire things they may not have before, so embrace the feelings and have sex! Masturbate! Go for an old favourite or try something new. Keeping in mind the basic precautions sex should not be limited to “vanilla” you should be embracing your desires and feeding your body what it needs.

What Sex Toys Are Safe To Use While Pregnant?

When it comes to the sex toys themselves what is going to be safe and what should we be keeping away from? Maybe now is not the time to start training for a 13 inch don’t or a larger than life butt plug but you’re not limited to some of the greats:

Dongs (vibrating or non-vibrating) are more than safe to use while pregnant. Made to simulate the penis and to be used for internal penetration, dongs are a great way to satisfy the urge if you do not have a partner or just require a little bit of extra penetration. Although they are not as soft as the real deal careful and enjoy. A personal recommendation, the Real Feel range. These sex toys are soft and lifelike and will give optimum pleasure and realistic feel.

Vibrators are a women’s best friend and totally safe to use while pregnant. Use for masturbation or with your partner for more intense orgasms which are totally baby safe.

Anal play. While it is totally safe to use anal plugs, beads or dongs while pregnant, it is important to be gentle and considerate your limits.

Nipple stimulation can be amazing when pregnant if you are one of the lucky women whose breasts are not aching. Start out slowly and if you are comfortable with more intense nipple stimulation e.g. from clamps and suction cups go for it!

Get creative! While women are pregnant it can be a little more difficult to manoeuvre around the baby belly to find the right position that’s good for both you and your partner. Some great positions for optimum satisfaction; doggy style, women on top or spooning

For those who are still a little too wary of the cautions, don’t give up on sex toys all together. Try some light clitoral stimulation with something like the Nu Sensuelle Point bullet vibrator or something you can take in the bath to make your alone time a little more special with the Satisfyer Pro 2 next generation. These sex toys are designed for external use only and you don’t need to worry about any penetration that might make you uncomfortable.

Embrace your beautiful body and the new found sex drive you have from all the hormones pregnancy has graced you with because I can assure you after that baby is born you will not want this kind of attention for a while. Use your sex toys alone or with your partner and enjoy the intense orgasms and sense of euphoria.

Author: Nikki is a consultant from Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle CentresSave

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Jennifer works marketing at Adultsmart an online sex toy shop. She has a non-judgemental approach to sex, sex toys and sexuality. Her favorite saying is if it feels good and right and is not illegal then why not! adultsmart.com.au

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