TimeForDinnerDinnerDinner Thu 09-Jan-20 03:29:25

There is a huge amount of insidious racism in this country. Huge. In my experience, those that do not suffer from it directly tend to want to bury their heads in the sand and pretend it can't possibly be true. It's easier that way.



I remember a former acquaintance denying that the racist name-calling I was experiencing in the local streets could possibly be an example of racism. And when it was reported to the police they sent round an officer who was ready with loads of reasons this behaviour could be explained away...



I also experienced this on a professional basis where a popular senior manager overtly, during a staff meeting, expressed his racist views. My colleagues were initially shocked, but by the next day, his views had been rationalised by almost all who'd heard them. It certainly helps to be popular and in a position of power.



These two examples don't even begin to address insidious racism which is far harder to prove, but still very much real. I could give A LOT of examples of racism at many levels personally and societally.



It simply amazes me how quick many people are to sweep overt and covert racism they've witnessed or heard about under the carpet, make excuses and rationalise it. And I'm talking about intelligent and good people here.



MM has definitely had a rough ride due to her ethnicity as well as other factors. I'm pleased she has Harry who has stood strongly by her side thus far. While I don't agree with 100% of what they do and say I feel their intentions are good. I hope they remain very happy together.



I know some will disagree, and that's fine. I'm used to it. Generally people like to think whatever they want, and whatever is most convenient, no matter what facts and evidence are placed before them. If any good can come of the treatment of MM I hope at the v least it opens a few more people's eyes to the real experiences of minorities in this country.