You are going to dismiss everything Cowgirl does because you are that pathetic. All the girls (well maybe not SM) want him to be to happy more than what they want him for them.This is about that not everything has to be a big deal, the little steps matter and take everything into account so yeah eating with her in the festival, buying her a ring,put it in her hand and have fun with the kids is important. I don't know why I am wasting my time explaining this because I am sure you won't get any of that.