Male solidarity doesn’t exist. In fact, I noticed that even in the groups that aim to improve the lives of men or so they claim, there’s always someone who loves to take pot shots at the men working in those groups and provoke/divide instead or to put it more bluntly – take a dump on other men. If you aim to have a group whose credo is to bring this non-existent male solidarity in order to improve lives of men in some way, then having resentful people in the group is not an option. Anti-social nutjobs tend to be attracted to groups solely to vent and can cause big damage to solidarity in those groups, sometimes they will even mock the efforts made by the members of the group. How it is then possible to build male solidarity on a larger scale if the group is unable to build solidarity because every frustrated “low-status” or ordinary man in the group, term which I personally prefer, wants to feel like a some V. I. P., a boss, a big man and has troubles keeping his ego and emotion in check? Observing pro-male collective for some time, even after I had left it for a period,

I think I really like the approach of Trevor Cormier and I think his contributions as the content creator could really help the group and that he really brings something unique to the table. Apart from his big life experience and his fiery attitude, he speaks in compassionate manner to men and he talks about topics which are relatable to everyday guy and those “low-status geeks”. It is indeed an interesting approach, something different from so-called “MRA-types”. That said, I still see men grovelling, coping and ignoring the complexity of men’s issues and attacking other men instead. This “toxic masculinity” will be very difficult to cure or, at least, keep in check in order to rally men which I sincerely believe is deeply needed in order to really create manageable alternative to all those anti-male forces in power.

I guess what I’m trying to say is that ultimately the efforts and experiences of an individual won’t tip the scale enough to make really noticeable change, more men needs to start make an effort and spreading their experience and bring something fresh to the table. Anti-social, often right-wing men tend to see collectivism as some dirty word that kills individualism, but collective relies on individuals that share common goals, yet different from each other in terms of their age, experiences, interests and the way they approach similar topics, the way they communicate. Men already have stacked cards against them, so getting everyone to contribute in their own way is a paramount in order to build considerable force that will be able to achieve something in a larger scheme of things.

Too many men when introduced to the idea of pro-male collective action respond with some form of: “What are you offering?”, either as an pre-planned excuse to dismiss or because they’re expecting to hear some life-changing words from the mouth of pro-male angel heaven sent. Some of these men will even act as they’re supporting the cause and briefly pay lip service to the cause and disappear in order to continue their routine, visiting same spaces and places, listening those same anti-male individuals and holding the same anti-male banner they hold. Instead of going with the anti-male flow and pretending to support the cause, these men could actually contribute to that cause they allegedly support, but they won’t. They won’t offer themselves anything, they don’t want to support the cause, they want to be stuck in their individualistic, “anarcho-individualistic” or however they wanna name it, routine. Men don’t wanna contribute, they just wanna whine how women don’t contribute and cockblock other men who wish to do so. If men truly wanted to contribute, they would lead by example, not dump on others who try to do so and not asking those who do their part. Those men that sit in the audience and clap their hands are no better either, it’s all same fucking thing, same facade of “pro-male auditorium”. Future videos will be aimed at those who have genuine interest in pro-male collective action and aim to make their modest contribution to the cause. On the individual level, every little contribution can help and, on the larger scale, together we can make the difference. The male solidarity is needed now more than ever.

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