The Truth about So-called “Deadbeat Dads”



By David J. Stewart

“A false balance is abomination to the LORD: but a just weight is his delight.” —Proverb 11:1

All across America, local newspapers publish the names of thousands of so-called “Deadbeat Dads.” They do this in an attempt to compel fathers to pay child support. Such men are viewed as irresponsible, rotten, and selfish. However, the truth paints a very different story, which the jerks who publish the names of all those fathers won’t ever tell you.



I’ve yet to hear one negative word from society concerning rebellious wives, who cause much grief for their husbands. Yet those same hypocrites crucify men who refuse to give money to a rebellious wife, who quits her marriage. They’re a bunch of heathen hypocrites! Fathers and husbands ought to have legal rights; but they don't in today's heathen U.S. Court System. The Muslims come a whole lot closer to being right than our American way of doing things.





America’s Courts Verses the Word of God



Tragically, America has forgotten God and the Bible. Ironically, in a nation that is increasingly turning towards religion; we have never been so far from God. The Bible commands a wife to submit to her husband in obedience… “Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord” (Ephesians 5:22). That’s a powerful Scripture. The Bible plainly states that a wife is to obey her husband as if he were Jesus Christ Himself. This idea is extremely offensive to feminist thinking, which holds to the demonic doctrine that a husband should not have authority over his wife. In Genesis 3:16, God plainly stated that a husband is to RULE OVER his wife… “Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee.”



America’s Court System not only rejects the Biblical Truth that wives are supposed to obey their husbands—they also reward rebellious wives by awarding them alimony, child custody, child support, et cetera. This is evil. A rebellious wife should be punished in a court of law; not rewarded for breaking her marriage vows, quitting her marriage, and bringing reproach upon her husband. 1st Timothy 5:14-15 state: “I will therefore that the younger women marry, bear children, guide the house, give none occasion to the adversary to speak reproachfully. For some are already turned aside after Satan.” This is God’s blueprint for young Christian ladies—to marry, bear children, be a homemaker, and keep the dirty laundry in the family.





America’s Injustice Against Husbands and Fathers



It is hypocritical and unjust that a woman can drag her husband into court for any number of reasons; BUT, a husband cannot legally do anything about a rebellious wife. If a wife refuses to clean the house, care for her children, be honest with the husband, cook dinner, et cetera; what recourse of action is there for a husband? He can’t call the police because there’s no law enforcing a husband’s right to a submissive wife. In fact, a husband who exercises his Biblical authority to rule over his wife is breaking the law. It’s called “Domestic Abuse.” As a consequence of feminism’s evil influence, many unrealistic laws have been enacted in America. Thus, a husband who tracks his wife’s whereabouts is now considered abusive. A husband who shelters his wife from a meddling mother-in-law is considered abusive. A husband who controls the mail is considered abusive. But God said that a husband is to RULE OVER his own wife (Genesis 3:16). As the law stands today throughout the United States, men have been effectively castrated in their marriages and homes. This is evil.



Having said that, it’s not hard to figure out why many fathers refuse to pay alimony and/or child support—It’s because the Court System is extremely unfair and heathen! God hates a false balance in the courts… “A false balance is abomination to the LORD: but a just weight is his delight” (Proverb 11:1). I can understand why a man would refuse to cooperate with an unfair legal system that caters to rebellious wives and irresponsible mothers. A woman receiving alimony can legally “shack up” with another man who has a good job, and there’s nothing her former husband can do about it. So why should her husband support her if she’s living with another man? It is unfair.



Concerning child support, many men refuse to pay a dime, because the money goes to a rebellious wife, who quit her marriage and abandoned her husband. Women file for divorce at TWICE the rate of men in America. Some men support their children because they want to, and I respect that. That is the Biblical thing to do. A man should support his children; however, I can also understand why men get angry and refuse to pay a dime. Such men realize that the government will support the children, and they will not go hungry. Such men protest an unjust Court System that persecutes hardworking husbands and fathers, placing the financial burden upon his shoulder, while the mother (often lazy) shacks-up with a friend or lives with mama.



The reality that a wife can abuse her husband by abandoning and divorcing him, after causing him much grief in the marriage, and then expect the poor husband to support her and the kids in her rebellion is injustice!!! If our lawmakers were God-fearing respectable people, who they are not; then divorce would not be so easy to get, and wives would be required to honor their marriage vows and stay-the-course in the marriage. American women nowadays can divorce over nearly anything, and lawyers are THUGS who use intimidation tactics to compel heartbroken, distraught, and scared husbands into signing the divorce papers, or else. It is criminal what lawyers and judges are getting away with in America. Most of all, the lawmakers (former lawyers) are to blame for allowing this injustice to happen in the first place. Every member of the Supreme Court that voted in favor of abortion is GUILTY is mass-murder. Can you imagine how hot their Hell is going to be? I assure you it will be hot enough!





Conclusion



It is utterly sinful that our U.S. Court System refuses to recognize and honor a husband’s right to RULE OVER his wife in every aspect. Whether you ladies like it or not, God’s Word teaches that your husband has the RIGHT to control your life, where you go, what you do, and how you do it. If you don’t like that, then you need to either get saved or get right with God. God says that rebellion is equal to the sin of witchcraft (1st Samuel 15:23).



I am not condoning spousal abuse, such as violence in the home; but the reality of today’s freakish society is that a husband cannot even control the couple’s mailbox without risking being considered “abusive,” and that’s just plain wrong.



In view of today’s Godless, evil and unjust Court System, I can understand “why” many fathers refuse to pay child support. I am not saying it is right, because a man is responsible to support his children; but I can sincerely understand the reasons behind a man’s anger, frustration and lack of cooperation with a rebellious wife and heathen Court System that spits in God’s face. It's the principle of the matter. A man has a Biblical right to RULE OVER his wife (Genesis 3:16); BUT not in America!