Jules Wainstein was not made to feel comfortable in her Hamptons home when she (foolishly) invited the Real Housewives of New York over for some lox and schmear. Admitting she was hurt to see the snark being spewed behind her back by besties Carole Radziwill and Bethenny Frankel, Jules says she is still hopeful in getting to know them better.

But Jules has high praise for Countess Luanne deLesseps, who she deems to be “nothing but sweetness.” Oh, newbie housewife! Beware of first impressions…they evaporate quickly in the face of narcissism and delusion! Jules reflects on Bethenny’s “birthday tailgate” party first: “Here we are in the Hamptons, my home away from home. I ‘m loving that John and Dorinda [Medley] were with us that weekend, because we had such a great time having them; tons of fun, laughs, and an all-around good time as always. We are all here to celebrate Bethenny’s birthday on Saturday, a tailgate-themed party, and I always love a good festive theme. The party was very well done, every ‘I’ was dotted and every ‘T’ crossed, yet the energy was off.”

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Although tension was high in Bethenny’s backyard, Jules shares, “The one good thing, though, is that I got to meet Luann for the first time! She is absolutely lovely, fun, warm and welcoming. I loved my first impression of her – she was nothing but sweetness.”

Moving on to brunch, Jules defends the construction zone that is her house, noting how she told people straight up to bring their own hard hats! She shares in her blog, “I love to entertain. There is nothing better than being surrounded by friends and family. It makes me happy to see people smile and having fun while hosting. I love meeting new people and starting new friendships. I’ve always been great at that.”

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However, brunch didn’t last long enough for many friendships – or eating – to get off the ground. Jules laments, “I was disappointed that the girls couldn’t stay long. At the time, I was hoping to get to know everyone better and them to know me. It was hurtful to hear some things that were said in my home behind my back, and even out of my home, but maybe the ‘smorgasbord’ that divided us really was the issue.”

In reference the the eating disorder Bethenny has been accusing Jules of all season (whether by insinuation or overtly), Jules wryly defends, “I may not be a bagel lover, but I do love me some Goldberg’s lox and veggie shmear – it is my absolute favorite! Trust me, I had tons of it through the morning.”

Promising us a longer glimpse into the Depths of Jules, RHONY‘s newest housewife asks viewers to stay tuned for this week’s episode, “where you will get to know more about my story.”

TELL US – WERE BETHENNY AND CAROLE RUDE TO JULES? IS JULES’ IMPRESSION OF LUANNE ACCURATE? IS THE EATING DISORDER STORY LINE GOING TO HAUNT JULES ALL SEASON LONG?

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