TheQueef Wed 05-Dec-18 08:39:21

Currently discussing with adult DS.



Yesterday I had some day surgery. The only two people in the DS recovery were myself and a man approx 50.

First time I was in bed across and had a full uninterrupted view but we had both had anus and bum surgery so I assumed it was inadvertent.

I got up and dressed so I could sit up and not be in bed opposite.

Two minutes afterwards he wanted up and moving to the arm chairs where I sat.

This is where the three come from.

First he sat with his gown rucked up and knob out. The sister brought a blanket.

Second time leg over the chair arm, balls out (how he was moving his legs after a fissure repair I don't know) Again staff covered him up.

Third time he actually laid it on his leg, like a balding water vole in a satsuma net.



I moved and was discharged.

I was so angry on the was home that DS and me are still butting heads.

He said it must be an accidental flash but IMO it was all deliberate.

Oppressive, sinister and deliberate.



Have I had too much mumsnet or is DS wrong?