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This is Kinky Characters – a series that explores unusual fetishes and the people who like them.

In the last month, we’ve learned about taboo kinks such as watersports (aka golden showers), sounding (inserting metal rods into the urethra), as well as watch and nosebleed obsessions.

Sammy Rei Schwarz, 27, understands quirky fetishes better than anyone.

She is an adult model, phone sex operator and erotica author, and regularly fulfills men’s deepest sexual desires.


It’s how she came about a new experience – macrophilia, or as it’s more commonly known, giant or giantess fetish.

Macrophilia isn’t as stigmatised as other kinks, but mainly because there’s less information readily available.



There is little to no official research on the topic, but that’s not to say there isn’t material to learn from.

Jump onto popular porn sites and you’ll find cleverly constructed videos of real or computer-animated women towering over men, lifting them up and squashing them with their bums.

In some of these videos, the ‘tiny’ – the smaller person – climbs into or out of the giantess’ anus (the footage is not for the faint-hearted).

You can also visit Giantess City, a forum for people who are lovers of all things large, or contact professional giantesses.

Macrophilia can involve a variety of scenarios; from fantasies of women destroying entire cities, crushing people with their feet or simply holding the tiny in their hand.

The kink is closely linked to vorarephilia – which involves being eaten or eating someone – but as is often the case with fetishes, this is very individual and not everyone enjoys combining the two.

With the evolution of technology, especially advances in virtual reality, we expect that macrophilia might soon sneak its way into the mainstream.

Until then, Sammy tells us everything we want to know about being a giantess – and a sex worker – including the weirdest thing a client has ever asked her for (hint: it includes balloons).

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Tell us about your fetish

My most unusual fetish is ‘giantess’ – a fantasy about being a giant woman who towers over other people like a skyscraper and can easily overpower them.

Although I’ve had fantasies of female domination, also known as ‘femdom’, for many years, I was first introduced to the world of macrophilia in my work as a phone sex operator.

At first, I was surprised by the many requests I got to role play as a woman as large as Godzilla, but then I saw how it could really heighten the femdom experience (pun intended).

The giantess fantasy really scratches a dominant itch in me and allows me to feel powerful and god(ess)like.

How does it work?

Since there’s no magic spell to make me as big as King Kong or shrink someone else to the size of Thumbelina, we get our rocks off through verbal role playing and cleverly shot photos.

The role play either involves me as a giant woman with a normal-sized man, or me as a normal-sized woman with a tiny man.



Sometimes, I use magic or a drug to grow me or shrink him, and I’ll tease and scare the tiny with my almighty size, making him run as I try to step on him.

I might pick him up by the threads of his hairs and watch him tremble as I threaten to swallow him and can suck on his entire body like a lollipop, or use him as a dildo, which also allows me to play with sensory deprivation and breath control.

In this kind of fantasy, my pleasure, sexual and otherwise, is absolutely paramount.

After I’ve had my way with him, I might lock him in a cage, stick him in my pocket to forget about him, or even swallow him whole (many macrophiliacs are also vorarephiles – people who fantasize about being eaten).

Tell us about your best-ever giantess scenario

I can’t choose a favourite, but I really adored a phone session in which a client wanted to worship my ass and get squeezed between my butt cheeks before getting used as a human dildo.

I have a big butt and used to get made fun of for it, so I really get off on people who adore my backside.

In that session, I had so much fun making custom photos where my ass looked like it could crush a man.

The most gratifying thing was hearing how much he enjoyed it.

How does your husband feel about your fetish?

Giantess isn’t my husband‘s thing, but he‘s not judgmental – we share other kinks.

Honestly, now that I’ve realised how many open-minded sex positive folks there are out there, I would never want to date someone who would react negatively to my sexuality.


I‘ve had enough of shame.

How often do you get clients who want you to reenact this fetish?

It’s not the most common type of call I get, but it’s much more common than I would have expected – probably about 10% of calls I get deal with macrophilia.

I would guess that it’s overrepresented among phone sex clients, due to its unusual and fantastical nature making it hard to satisfy with their partners.

What other fetishes do you have?

I love BDSM and identify as a switch, which means I get off on taking both dominant and submissive roles.

Within S&M, my favorite kinks include body worship, humiliation, bondage, discipline, and impact play.

I also really enjoy playing role reversal scenes, which allow me to switch from dominant to submissive or vice versa during one encounter.

What’s the most unusual kink a client has asked you to act out?

For me, the oddest was balloon fetish.

Though it’s pretty hard for me to relate to, I still find it incredibly adorable and cute. Of all weird fetishes, this one just makes me grin thinking of sunshine and rainbows and birthday parties.

Although balloons personally don’t do much for me, I will gladly blow up, rub, cuddle, and pop balloons for my friendly ‘looner’ clients.

When did you start doing this type of work?

I started doing sex work a year ago, and primarily do phone sex, erotic audio, photos, and written erotica.

Although my work is sexy, it’s definitely not all about sex. A lot of the time, guys just want someone non-judgmental to talk to.

Knowing that I don’t think they are bad for their sexual fantasies makes them feel comfortable to open up about all kinds of other things that have nothing to do with sex.


How do you think society’s view on sex has changed?

That‘s a difficult question to answer.

Societal attitudes vary so much from city to city, and country to country.

While attitudes towards kink in the US have become more open in recent years (as evidenced by more mainstream representations in the media), it‘s still quite taboo compared to European countries like Germany and France.

Do you have an unusual fetish? Want to tell us about your sexual preferences or odd kinks? Drop an email to almara.abgarian@metro.co.uk to be considered for upcoming episodes of Kinky Characters.

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