Solution to the problem

1) The mindset need to change. If a girl's parent need financial support than girls must be willing to support them even after marriage and set an example that even they can be depended upon by parents to look after them in the old age. Parents will than start to accept the girl’s as a secured bet for their old age.

2) Laws should enacted making females equally responsible as boys for maintaining their parents and if a female does not fulfill this responsibility than law should be having provision to punish the female child and make it share a part of its income with the parents as in case with the only male child currently.

3) Laws need to be enacted to bar children irrespective of gender from share of their parent’s property if the parents have not been looked after them. This will help in two ways first it will act as incentive for the child who is looking after the parents that it will get the property of parents and will not have to share it with the irresponsible siblings who shrug off their responsibility. Secondly it will also act as a restraint in the mind of child who is looking at having the parent’s property but wants to ignore the responsibility to look after them.

4) Pre implantation methods for child gender selection should be made available to parents at reasonable cost. As I said earlier as well people are targeting the symptoms instead the cause of the problem, they are trying to impose a ban on the abortion of female fetus instead of asking for a ban on abortion on Toto. I suggest that if parents are allowed to choose the gender of a child before a fetus is formed than there would be no need for abortion. It is democracy and every family should have the right to select the gender of their child. Whereas, illegalizing this will make this practice more popular and drive the market abroad in Thailand or underground. So the people should be made aware of the methods by which they can choose the gender of their child instead of resorting to the bad practice of abortion. Some of the methods of pre implantation gender selection are as follows

The Ericsson method – in this method the sperm cells are segregated based on the difference in their swimming speed and if the couple desires a male baby the faster swimmers are artificially inseminated, and if the couple desires a female baby the same procedure is enacted with the slower swimmers.

IVF/PGD technique – In this Embryos of the desired gender and with acceptable genetics are placed into the mother

Sperm sorting – In this method a laser is targeted at the sperm to distinguish X and Y chromosomes, and can automatically separate the sperm out into different samples. It’s also called MicroSort

These methods allow for gender selection before a fetus is implanted in the womb hence are not as barbaric like abortion. Such methods should be promoted and subsidized by the government.

5) Allowing gender selection before birth will help in multiple ways in addition to preventing unscrupulous abortions. Many parents have multiple children in their wait to have a child of gender of their choice hence people looking for a female or male child end up having many children than they actually planned to raise leading to financial and resource constraints on them in addition to increase in population. So if these people will have a choice to select the gender of their choice they can have the first child itself with the gender of their choice which will be a win win situation for both the parent and the child.

People believe that daughters care more for their parents. But that’s just because daughters live separately from their parents on getting married and they only meet occasionally, both the parties are in their best behavior whenever they meet. On the other hand a son stays with the parents and since they see each other daily there is normal wear and tear of the relationship which should not be assumed to be lack of care. There are also huge numbers of cases where daughters have been found to be very abusive towards their parents when they had to care for the parents, as shown in my post about daughters http://lifenstory.com/not_precious_daughters I see no reason to believe daughters are better than son as this though also shows ignorance of mens right.

Lastly I want to say that all the propaganda about the fall in female population due to gender selection is crap served to unsuspecting gullible people to ignore men’s rights. Promoting birth of girl child under the pretext of balancing of gender ratio is a very lame excuse as the global gender ratio shows without doubt that there are more females than males across the globe. Though there may be variation among the regions. The world average is 51% of population is female! Even in the middle age population woman outnumber men and for population above age of 65 there are mere 79 males to 100 females(Surprising isn’t it)

Women also survive longer than men. I have uploaded data from graphical representation of gender based population distribution across the globe which clearly defies this myth. That female population is decreasing. Hence the means for actually balancing the world gender ratio would be to save the male child or better still a woman may be allowed to prevent a life forming by using contraceptive, but once it is formed it should not be aborted as it is a separate living human and aborting it whether a male or female is nothing but ruthless murder. If a woman chooses to abort she can ask the doctor to butcher that life into pieces, and it is woman's right!!! But the same child if killed after it comes out of the womb is termed murder. This is illogical and barbaric? Killing a human life, no matter where it happens is a murder. So all women who abort are ruthless and mindless killers deserve to be punished. Why do the feminist want a free license to kill? How hypocrite it is that women want right to abort at will and still wanting to be called good Mothers - http://chalcedon.edu/research/articles/how-pro-choice-women-sell-their-souls

I strongly believe every fetus has a right to live while abortions are evidence of throw away culture hence all the types of feticide (Male or Female) abortions should be banned. Unless done after special approval of court is received on a case to case basis.

Abortion doesn't make a woman un-pregnant, it just leaves a mother with a dead baby!



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