“But what do I say? What if they reject me?” I hear you whisper-screaming. With the exception of an insult or a catcall, you can say just about anything. Comment on something they’re wearing. (Lots of folks dress up for sex parties.) A riding crop? An excellent purple wig? Ask them about it! Then ask if there’s a story behind it. Another trick is to comment on something going on around you. It’s a sex party, so there’s bound to be SOMETHING. Nothing breaks the ice like, “Have you ever been fire massaged?” If all else fails, do they seem nervous? Tell them you’re nervous too. People will most likely be nicer to you if you’re a little vulnerable.