AWOLDh Wed 13-Sep-17 21:07:54

I'm trying to keep this vague in case someone recognises me but hopefully it will still make sense.



I had my first pregnancy scan today for our second DC.

We have a DD together , it took a long time to conceive DD and we had a couple of failed ivf attempts before we eventually had her.



So I always wanted 2 DCs, DH wanted 1. However after having DD he decided that he wanted to try for another. But I think in part he said yes because I wanted 2.

I fell pregnant on our first attempt and we were both a bit shocked at first as we were expecting it too take longer and the gap between the DCs is closer than expected. But once it sank in I was over the moon and DH said he was too.



So to today, we are at my first scan and the scan showed twins. Both of us were shocked and DH asked her to check again which she did and assured us it is twins.



So We left the room and DH said actually he had to go out and think and he needed space. He said that this wasn't part of the plan and he had to think. I said oh ok and didn't really question it.

He has been gone for hours, he has missed dinner and DDs bedtime.

I text him to ask when he is coming home but he hasn't replied.



I am zigzaging between being worried about him and being angry with him. I'm not sure if I should call him or if that will make it worse because he wanted space. But I'm also worried and annoyed and I want to hear from him.