Jed York doesn’t win much these days. The San Francisco 49ers’ CEO has seen his team go 5-11 last year and slip to 1-7 halfway through this season.

So maybe he’s forgotten some of the normal niceties involved in winning.

He has been in minor conflict with some neighbors in Los Altos Hills over an outdoor cabana he wants to build. According to a report in the Los Altos Town Crier, even after mostly getting what he wanted in negotiations with the Los Altos Hills’ Planning Commission Thursday, York didn’t much act like he was feeling good about the win. Related Articles 49ers’ Jed York on $1 million pledge to ‘racial, economic inequality’ cause

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One of the neighbors who were trying to prevent York to build a 756-square-foot cabana adjacent to his 9,000-square foot home tried to congratulate him with a handshake Thursday only to have York rush by her saying, in the words of the Town Crier, “I’ve had enough.”

Seriously, dude? A little civility couldn’t be part of the equation?

The plans York submitted called for a cabana. Neighbors Nobuko and Gary Cleary said it would block their view.

“We were shocked and dismayed when we found out that they did apply in building the cabana – the cabana which they promised us they were not going to build,” Nobuko Cleary told the paper. “(The) cabana is only 30 feet from our boundary line.”

Looking at it from the town planners’ viewpoint, they sympathized with the Cleary claim while not entirely subscribing to it.

“I do think the Clearys have a great view of the bay, which they continue to have,” commission chairwoman Kavita Tankha said. “But from what they describe as their cottage, I can see what they are saying about having a minor obstruction to what they call their views. I think there’s a compromise out there if the Yorks would be willing to reduce the ceiling height of the cabana.”

Ultimately, the cabana was approved, although its height must be trimmed by 18 inches.

The Clearys, who had several neighbors speak up against the York plan, said they were disappointed, but accepted the final decision. Yet when Nobuko Cleary offered a handshake, York didn’t take it.

You can’t help but wonder if he’s like this at work.