I know the title is quite the handful, but i promise the content would be less so. I have seen a lot of girls asking about findom, how to get into it, what the terminologies mean, how to be a good one etc and to me the road has to begin with a proper understanding of what findom is.

A findom mistress or princess (or whatever really) is the dominant in the relationship that gets something for nothing. How is this possible? Well, see there are these wonderful creatures that exist called Submissive men. They aren’t like normal men. While most people would chafe and resent being bullied, humiliated, fucked over, exploited, degraded, belittled etc, these special creatures crave all this, to varying degrees. That is the first thing a goddess should know. Submissive men are actively looking for women to hurt them in all the delicious ways which set of their little fucksticks. They LOVE it.

A subset of this poor group of losers is the finsub. And he is your bread and butter. Submissive masochists have always enjoyed being exploited. It is part of the humiliation/degradation cocktail that makes us dizzy and leaves us unable to think. So once upon a time, a brilliant Mistress put two and two together. She saw the state that the submissive fuck got into when it’s buttons were pushed. No doubt a light bulb went on in her head. While in this vulnerable state, she goaded and bullied him to really give in, to surrender and she fucked him over where it really hurt – his wallet.

But then, what do you know, being goaded, bullied, humiliated into a vulnerable state and then being ruthlessly exploited while being told that he is being ruthlessly exploited, being told that he is powerless, being told that he is fucking worthless and it is only right that a superior being takes his money… well, funnily enough that was also fucking amazing for us poor suckers. It was like a whole new level of femdom was opened for masochists. What is more humiliating than being humiliated and then taken advantage of? It is the ultimate self reinforcing loop. The paypig loop. The hamster wheel that turns on and yet scares ever dumb financial sub.

In the beginning as a short definition i said findom was getting something for nothing. A short definition of the findom process would be “pushing his submissive buttons, then fucking him over while he stares, glassy eyed and grateul”. :). That is what i will talk about next time. Hope you enjoyed.