Over the past few years, I've watched in horror as stories emerged about deaths, injuries, and sexual assaults tied to fraternities. This is not the kind of community that Greek life is supposed to build. The partying culture that exists in some fraternities and sororities is undeniable and tragic, but it was not the experience I had on campus. We enjoyed one another and took part in harmless activities during our membership intake process, but they were all things to help us grow and develop into strong members. They taught us invaluable lessons that would stay with us for a lifetime. Our process brought us closer together and taught us the history of the organization and what real sisterhood looked like.