Wrong. Wrong. Wrong. I'm a feminist and I like sex. I just want a culture where girls and women are told that sexual pleasure is a natural part of being female. Not dangerous or dirty, not something we need to be badgered or forced in to, or shamed as a result of. What do feminists want sex to be? Consensual, safe, fun with a communicative, generous partner. How can you make space for this is your relationship? Ask, discuss, and be happy to take direction. It's all kinda common sense, right? See, we're not so scary, are we?