I need advice. I seek second opinions. I ask questions. In general, I do not think these are negative traits. I like the concept of due diligence in all things. My researcher’s mind feeds on information. This often serves me well. (I guard against second guessing and procrastination, the evil twins of thoughtful deliberation.) In remembrance of a time when advice was more than “stay inside” and “wash your hands.” In honor of graduates who want to hear commencement messages. In the spirit of a beginner’s mind. In the hope of living in alignment with the wisdom I have learned over the years. In gratitude for my favorite advice givers — Cheryl Strayed , Amy Dickinson, Liza Featherstone, and Carolyn Hax. I have made of a list of some of the best advice I have ever received.

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