

When I visited Auschwitz, I was in a sombre mood. Walking around the former death camp, surrounded by the ghosts of those who perished there, I barely even spoke to the friend that I was with. The two of us walked around Auschwitz and Birkenau in near silence, partly because we weren’t really in the mood for conversation, and partly out of respect for those who lost their lives in this godforsaken place.



However, while most people abided by the unwritten rule that one should be respectful and sensitive when visiting Auschwitz, there were exceptions, and their number wasn’t insignificant.



While I was visiting Auschwitz, I witnessed people laughing and joking, taking selfies, play-fighting and posing for photographs in front of the ovens where countless people’s bodies were incinerated. One man walked out of the crematorium crying as his wife comforted him, all the while surrounded by groups of oblivious teenagers who continued to crack jokes.



Unfortunately, for some, the need to visit Auschwitz and pay one’s respects has become overshadowed by the feeling that Auschwitz is some sort of tourist attraction. Tour companies in Kraków bring busloads of young tourists to Auschwitz and Birkenau each day and now, rather than going to Kraków with the purpose of visiting Auschwitz and educating oneself about the horrors that occurred there, visiting Auschwitz has now become just another ‘thing to do’ in Kraków.







Young lads that have flocked to Kraków for the cheap booze and beautiful women find themselves heading to Auschwitz to “get a bit of culture” before the drinking commences.



I personally had the misfortune of talking to a group of young Canadian men who had been kicked off the bus on the way to visit Auschwitz because they were drinking.



Yes. You read that right. They were pre-gaming on their way to a concentration camp.



Unfortunately, Auschwitz and Birkenau are not unique when it comes to this type of behaviour. I’ve witnessed the same at the Berlin Holocaust Memorial (where for some reason, people simply cannot resist taking selfies), the Sachsenhausen concentration camp and the Killing Fields in Cambodia.



Friends have told me about similar behaviour at the 9/11 Memorial. It boggles my mind that people would visit Auschwitz for some kind of fun day out, and I cannot comprehend the mentality of people who think that taking a f*cking SELFIE at a concentration camp is okay, but apparently these things need to be spelt out to people, and so here I am to do just that.



There are not many official ‘rules’ for visiting Auschwitz – no food and drink, no smoking, no bicycles, no dogs, large items of luggage, music etc. However, there is definitely an etiquette to visiting Auschwitz, and so if you are planning on visiting Auschwitz-Birkenau, then carry on reading for my tips on visiting Auschwitz without being an asshole.





Sachsenhausen concentration camp, Germany.



Visiting Auschwitz – How to Not be a Dick





1. Don’t Complain





Visiting Auschwitz and Birkenau takes a full day. Your feet will hurt. You might get cold. Maybe you’re hungry and can’t wait to get back to your hostel for a hot meal.



Well guess what?



The prisoners of Auschwitz were also cold, hungry and in pain, and I’m willing to bet that they felt it a lot more acutely than you! Don’t whine about your minor discomforts when walking on the very soil that so many people really suffered on.



If anything, you should be counting your goddamn blessings while walking around Auschwitz, not bitching and moaning about minor aches and pains.







2. Don’t see Auschwitz-Birkenau as a tourist attraction





Yes, you are a tourist. Yes, you are visiting Auschwitz. But no, Auschwitz is not a tourist destination.



It is important to visit Auschwitz for the right reasons. I genuinely believe that we have a duty to visit sites such as Auschwitz (I wrote about this in more detail in my post about the Killing Fields and S-21 in Cambodia) in order to educate ourselves about what we, as humans, have done to our fellow humans. However, there are also some very wrong reasons to visit Auschwitz, and we should be mindful of why we are choosing to visit a sight of mass suffering.



Unsure what the right and wrong reasons are?



Here’s a guide:



Are you visiting because you want to educate yourself and pay your respects to the people who perished at Auschwitz? If so, you’re visiting for the right reasons!



Are you visiting because you heard it was a “must-see,” you want to take some Insta-worthy shots with deep and meaningful captions, and you feel like you need to tick it off your Krakow bucket list along with the salt mines and pierogi? Yeah, don’t bother.







3. Taking Pictures at Auschwitz





Are you allowed to take photos at Auschwitz? Yes, for the most part. There are a couple of places where flash photography is not permitted as it damages the exhibition (but yet still people choose to flout this rule and destroy history at the same time), but on the whole, photography is okay.



HOWEVER. Although you can take all the photographs you want at Auschwitz, etiquette dictates that just because you could, doesn’t always mean you should. I personally took some photographs at Sachsenhausen and the Killing Fields. I didn’t want them for social media, and the pictures didn’t have me in them. They were just pictures of the things that personally affected me on my visits. Some people choose not to take any photographs at all because they don’t feel comfortable. And that’s okay too.



Sometimes, you have to judge for yourself what is appropriate and what is not, and some things are just objectively in bad taste. For example, it is never appropriate to take a selfie at Auschwitz, and honestly the concept of wanting to be IN the photograph at all is very odd to me.



I understand that people may want to take photographs of things such as the Arbeit macht frei sign, but to actually pose in front of the train tracks or the barracks? That is very odd to me. Where will you put the picture? Instagram? Tinder?!



On my visit to Sachsenhausen, I actually saw a couple (who were definitely old enough to know better) posing in front of the ovens that were used to burn the bodies of countless innocent people. Why? Will they frame the picture and hang it on their bedroom wall? That type of behaviour is incomprehensible to me.







4. Dress Appropriately





What do you wear to Auschwitz? Not a question you probably ever thought you’d be asking, right?



Would you believe me if I told you that some people walk boldly around concentration camps wearing t-shirts sporting band names such as Megadeth or Slayer? Megadeth might be your favourite band in the world (I own both Megadeth and Slayer t-shirts myself), but maybe, just maybe it isn’t appropriate to be branding yourself with words like that when you are walking around a literal death camp. I’m not saying that you have to dress the same way you would for a funeral, but just use your brain and realise that your neon yellow Full Moon Party singlet may not be the best choice of attire for visiting Auschwitz.







5. Don’t Laugh and Joke





Who are you Dani, the fun police?



Well, actually yes.



I don’t care if your friend just made the funniest joke in the world about something completely unrelated to Auschwitz: it isn’t appropriate to laugh. Auschwitz is a place for quiet reflection, not for comedy. Even if you personally don’t feel affected by the things that you see when you visit Auschwitz, just remember that other people are affected, and if somebody who has lost family members in the gas chambers sees you and your mates cracking jokes, they may feel very upset.







And there you have it.





I strongly believe that visitors to Poland owe it to themselves and to the victims of Hitler’s regime to visit Auschwitz and Birkenau. If you can follow my guidelines on how to behave while you are walking around Auschwitz, Birkenau and other sights of mass tragedy, I implore you to go and visit them and learn about the atrocities committed not that long ago by our fellow humans.



However, if you want to walk around in a Megadeth t-shirt laughing, joking and taking selfies then perhaps skip the day trip to Auschwitz and visit a beer garden instead.





Do you agree with me? How do you feel about taking photographs at Auschwitz? Can it be done tastefully or is it never appropriate? What is the worst type of behaviour that you have witnessed at Auschwitz/Birkenau? Please let me know in the comments section so that other readers can know what else not to do at sights like this.



