merlotmummy14 Fri 26-Oct-18 17:29:51

I figured this would be better in tattoos as I know some of mn can be quite judgy towards tattoos whereas I'd get a bit more perspective here if I am being unreasonable. Due to get married in 7 months and my only bridesmaid has gone and got a huge facial tattoo across her forehead in a barely legible hideous gothic font a few days ago. I have a few tattoos that are hidden by my dress and while she has a lot of other visible tattoos and peircings, they are somewhat tasteful. She has one other small facial tattoo that is about doable. Other than the fact she'll never get a job in any customer facing role ever again and she most likely did it to get revenge on her pos dad for something he said, would I be a bridezilla to say I don't want her as a bridesmaid as everybody will remember my wedding as the one with the bridesmaid with the horrible face tattoo. I'm quite upset that she's done this without thinking about me or my partner and our DD or or both our very conservative families who will be at wedding (my super religious gran will most likely have a heart attack). It's supposed to be a lovely summer affair but I feel this will just taint the whole thing. I've been best friends with her for about 5 years but this is by far the most selfish thing she's done. I've let her pick out her own dress without restrictions other than "No red or black" and "please don't have your tits hanging out" and even offered to pay for it. I've been very laid back about the whole wedding but I think this is definitely a straw too far. Am I being unreasonable to tell her I really don't want her as my bridesmaid And how do I go about telling her?