Is that time of the year — Valentine’s Day. The time when people are kissing and drinking wine on every corner. That time when shops are decorated with hearts and inviting you to buy gifts for your significant other. And yet again you are single and crying over that. Well this is the time to stop pitying yourself and enjoy that Single life, it won’t last believe me.

This isn’t the usual tips and tricks how to feel loved on the Valentines Day. This article is not about how you should buy flowers and chocolate for yourself, and cry over a romantic movie in a bathtub. This is all about the joy of being Single and ready to mingle. This article is all about the things to do that would be difficult if you had that special one.

Enjoy of the joy of watching whatever you like

Did you know that you can Netflix and Chill on your own? With not headache what movie to pick and with a happy ending that you can always give yourself. And you sure know how you like it, enjoy this special time of knowing your body. Enjoy watching whatever you like, even a stupid romantic movie that maybe will be too embarrassing for you to watch with others, or maybe you are a crybaby while watching movies and do not want anybody to see it. Well being Single is the time to explore your movie choices (not just regular movies, but maybe some adult content) and at the same time explore your body.

Just one more thing from my side, what I found in 2018 is a cool software called — VPN. It is both for watching adult content (yes, I’m talking about porn) and also watching streaming services like Netflix with different countries content. You should look it up, my favourite is Surfshark and it is offering a discount for all Valentines and security loving people, with a coupon code “loveshark” you can get a huge discount.

Go to a random trip — alone

Best way to meet new people and enjoy yourself the most is to go on a vacation alone. It doesn’t need to be outside your country, just go to some other random city. Traveling alone gives you the full power to decide what do you want to get from the trip, where you want to go. When you travel alone you can randomly jump on a train or an airplane if you have a free weekend, you can go to that weird museum that maybe your other half won’t like, you can just absolutely enjoy yourself and do what you want not looking for compromises.

You know what is also cool while travelling alone? You will meet much more people. You won’t just only meet new people but you will find yourself and build confidence around people. I know that walking up to a new person sometimes can be hard, well, go travel alone you’ll see what I mean.

Stay up late and sleep in

You know what is also cool when you are single and ready to mingle? You can actually mingle till the morning (or maybe even the next morning) with no worries that somebody is waiting for you at home and worrying. I do not mean it in a way that when you are in a relationship you cannot do it or the other half limits your partying time. No. I mean it in a way that being single is the time to explore, to show off your dance skills and just live the night to the fullest. It is the time to live at night and sleep at Day time sometimes, with no worries that you need to meet your love ones parents the other day or you scheduled to go for a brunch date and want to feel and look your best (admit it, we do not look very sexy on hangovers).

Go spend that money

This may sound stupid, but being single means you can spend money buying something for yourself on Valentines’ Day or any other day instead of buying gifts for others. I don’t want to sound selfish, I love buying gifts for others. But just enjoy it and don’t overthink it. Go buy that perfume you always wanted, or buy tickets to Thailand that you always wished to visit. You deserved it. You don’t need to think how to save money for that fancy restaurant that your other half always wanted to visit, or buy that bracelet. Treat yourself for being Awesome. Which you are.

Go on some Dates — Just for fun

One of the most fun ways to enjoy being single is actually dating. People encounter so much fun, awkward, hilarious moments while dating. It’s the moments that you will remember and even laugh over with your wife or husband. Get that Tinder app it is not that bad, find on the web (or create yourself) some pick-up lines and use them. Most importantly forget about looking for the love of your live, it will come naturally, and just enjoy the awkward and fun time of dating. It is not only educative but actually fun. You can find some neat pick-up lines here.

That’s it Peeps, these are the Tips and Tricks how to get most of the Single life. I don’t want you to think that having someone is bad, I just want to see that being single is fun and you should not be sad about. No. Get some fun, get everything you can from the single life and then have fun when you have an other have. Just have fun and enjoy life- that’s the key.

Happy Valentines Day and Happy every regular Day!