Casual racism is when my boyfriend does accents (including Hispanic/Japanese/Chinese, appropriating AAVE, etc). It’s when I talk to him about it, he says nobody has told him that it’s offensive (citing people who have said they were good) and I’m the only one who’s had a problem with it, therefore it’s not offensive. It’s when I talk to him about the difference between stereotypes (an Italian accent) and racism (a Japanese accent) and how they’re both bad but the latter is worse, that he says that’s a double standard. It’s him getting mad at me and saying, “White people aren’t all bad. Everything’s so serious to you. I think your view of the world is very biased,” just so he can talk in accents.