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It can be uncomfortable when you think someone’s baby is ugly, but there are a few tactful things you can say to avoid an awkward encounter. The easiest thing to do is not say anything at all. Simply smile at the baby and the parents and then move the conversation along. If this isn’t possible, redirect the conversation to the parents. You could ask how the mom is feeling, how the baby has changed their lives, or what they like most about being new parents. Parents are used to their child being the center of attention, so they might actually enjoy talking about themselves for a change. While you may not want to compliment the baby’s appearance, you can comment on other things. For instance, you could say, “Oh he’s such a happy baby!” or “That outfit is precious! Did you pick it out?” To learn other things you can compliment a baby on besides its appearance, keep reading!