So I almost didn't sign up for SS. I really don't need more "stuff" at this stage of my life and basically told my SS that.

Here's my request: Okay, here's the thing....I really don't need anything. I live a lovely middle class life in an American suburb. I have a husband, some kids, a bunch of animals, and a job I love. We have a little money stashed away and I've reached the point in my life where I pretty much can buy anything I really need (because I don't need anything) and anything I want....and I'm learning, with age, I want less and less "stuff."

I'd like to ask that you consider doing something for someone else or some charity that is near and dear to your heart. If you've signed up for a secret santa, I know you have a great heart (and you love gifting and getting gifts.)

But I don't want you to just DO something, I want to hear about it-- that's the gift I want. I want evidence. Volunteer in a soup kitchen? Snap some pix or send me a letter from the organization. I want to hear about the time you spent, why you picked the charity or person, how you feel about.

You can adopt a family for the holiday, or a child off an angel tree. Adopt an animal or clean up the side of the road. Buy a cow for a third world country thru World Vision, volunteer in an animal shelter or a homeless shelter...honestly don't care who you help, but just THAT you help. If everyone gave the gift of charity and kindness this holiday, the world would be a much better place.

Oh, and have fun.

Now I figured, maybe I'll get lucky and someone will volunteer in a soup kitchen...or make someone is busy and will simply make a donation to a charity...

But I never expected this.