First, I do not consider myself a PUA, or alpha or whatever. I became so good with ladies because I am myself, and because I have fun at it.I will make this thread short and to the point, because I am sick of tired of these guys asking the same questions over and over.GIRLS WILL NEVER MAKE THE FIRST MOVEI'm not saying a slap in the ass by a girl is considered a first move, but they will NEVER go past that, no matter if they're a slut or not. You have to take that as a hint that they want your nuts. Some guys may disagree with me...but I believe sluts do require a first move, except that "first move" may be as easy as "Hey what's up, you're lookin mighty fine"...Point is, EVERYOEN requires an ice-breaker.Scenario: Guy 1, his name is Bob, he's very good looking, muscular, is a pretty cool guy but is frustrated that no girls pay attention to him. Everytime he goes to the gym, or to the club, he stands around, or hangs around the bar, but no girls approach him. He catches girls looking at him, which makes him a bit excited, but nothing ever happens. Bob never makes a move, he is always walking around showing off his muscles, but nothing happens. He doesn't talk to people because he feels that, just because he's hot, that people are gonna talk to him. Bob gets frustrated and tired, so he asks the RH section of the MISC what's wrong...and the cycle continues... If only bob could read this.What's the problem? I don't care how ugly you are....if you seem friendly, or are at least willing to talk to people, people will approach you or will be willing to talk to you. Bob here thinks he's such a hotshot that everyone should be approaching him, but he looks a bit intimidating, and thinks he's the ****, which im not saying is wrong, but USE IT TO YOUR ADVANTAGE. Girls get intimidated too! which in turn makes it harder for them to approach you. Show them that you're just another cool dude, not some hardhead meathead ******* that you look like. Ill say it again, No matter how hot you are, girls will never make the first move. They will never approach you, unless it's their friends, or unless thyere super drunk.If you catch a girl looking at you, smile back and talk to her. Don't think about it too much...that's the problem man. I know many guys expect the girl to come and talk to them after they catch them smiling but IT WILL NEVER HAPPEN. put yourself in the girls shoes, if they smile at you, and you smile back but dont do anything, it just means you were just being nice so the girl wont feel left out. You have to show her that you think she's cute, and want to talk to her, by smiling then talking to her. It makes her FEEL GOOD. I've had friends that are girls that tell me they give guys so many clues but guys are lil bitches. Girls love guys that are confident, and make them feel good.Talk to people... Don't be so intimidating... Smile at people...STOP COMPARING YOURSELF SO MUCH!!!!I had to learn this one the hard way.Long story short: went to a hs with a lot of rich kids, im not rich, so i often was jealous of these guys...they had beautiful girls, great looks, and bigass houses. I would get depressed because i thought i would never get any of that... I worked hard to be like them (srs), i talked like them, i did similar things like them but i failed in the end. In college, i started reading self-help books, i started finding myself, and i started realizing that i should go at my own pace instead of trying to be something that i like. God made you, you.Don't compare yourself man... DON'T COMPARE YOURSELF.... I don't care how many friends your neighbor has, i dont care how popular he is, you have to understand that everyone is unique. So what if he has a lot of friends? maybe he's a loser, parties every night (which is why he knows those ppl), and never went to school. Stop judging everything from the outside, once you learn to go at your own pace, youll be livin move comfortably.Remember this: Many guys try to understand how to get girls by appraoching the subject directly (they google "how to get girls", they read books on how to get girls) Rather, guys should be focusing on other aspects that may be affecting their girl-less lives. Maybe they have anxiety, maybe they need to change the way they think, maybe they need to start slowly, and take things slowly. That's the best way to learn this stuff. Not only will this new way of thinking get you girls, but it will help you with other things in life.^^^ this brings me to my next point:Read HOW TO STOP WORRYING AND START LIVING by dale carnegThis book is my 2nd bible. I owe my life to this book. I have read about 20 self-help books including THE GAME and MYSTERY METHOD and i gotta say 'How to stop worrying and start living' has helped me out more than any of those. This book changed my way of thinking, and many other things. Read it!!!!!!!Oh and read jankys thread. Oh and also get off the misc and get out there!!!!Laters