Kiriyama Prize Notable Book



Honorable Mention, Gustavus Myers Center for the Study of Bigotry and Human Rights Outstanding Book Awards





The writing is vigorous, and Chai’s descriptions of the murderous winters and corrosive boredom of the Great Plains are compelling. . . . Hapa Girl is a reminder that Americans cannot have too many reminders of the un-American things they do when they’re afraid.

— Don Morrison, Time Magazine, Asia edition.

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Chai’s (My Lucky Face) parents never believed themselves to be unusual. Her father, a young scholar new to California, fell in love with her mother, a local painter, on first sight.

That he was the son of educated Chinese immigrants and she was the daughter of Irish Catholics was immaterial-until, after spending time on both coasts, they landed in rural South Dakota.Once the locals started harassing them (e.g., trespassing on the family farm, killing pets and seeking to attack Chai’s younger brother), the Chais realized that they weren’t ordinary Americans after all. Easily labeled a coming-of-age story or a narrative about racial tensions in 1960s America, this memoir – whose title employs the Hawaiian word for mixed–is truly an homage to a loving marriage. Only the strongest kind of love could survive the crucible of a community hoping for a family’s failure. Highly recommended for all libraries with large memoir and Asian collections.

— Library Journal.





Throughout Hapa Girl, Chai’s mother proves an impressive heroine. Always her family’s champion, she carves out a “place in our town:” she forms her own “Irish gang,” throws exotic Hawaiian luaus, and eventually helps a young man named Tom Daschle get elected to the U.S. Senate. Chai herself adroitly balances her worst memories. . .with her family’s triumphs.

— Terry Hong, the Christian Science Monitor.

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“A tour-de-force sojourn into a never-before-told zone of small town American bigotry. Hapa Girl is consistently stylish, permanently courageous, bitingly tragic, but always rationally detached with a Marx Brothers’ wit. This is May-lee Chai’s best comment yet about America.”

— Anthony B. Chan, author of Perpetually Cool: The Many Lives of Anna May Wong





“I was captivated by May-lee Chai’s Hapa Girl from the first sentence. It continued to be so powerful that I read it in one sitting. It’s at once brutal and sad, humorous and plucky. Chai has beautifully captured the deep racism and bigotry that lurks in our country with how one misguided decision can change a family’s fortunes forever. Hapa Girl made me think about the bonds of family and the vicissitudes of place long after I finished the last page.”

— Lisa See, author of Snow Flower and The Secret Fan