(7:01:59 PM) The topic for #reddit-seddit is: Official Seddit Chatroom! Try to stay on topic of seduction =E When someone is in here asking serious questions, please hold off on the zany-randomness and get serious.

(7:02:08 PM) areyouconfusedye: yo TheDukeDevlin

(7:02:16 PM) TheDukeDevlin: MAW BOY

(7:02:22 PM) areyouconfusedye: so i'm reading that book

(7:02:40 PM) areyouconfusedye: lol im sorry what tterrible greeting

(7:02:42 PM) areyouconfusedye: MAH NIGGA

(7:02:49 PM) TheDukeDevlin: hahaha

(7:02:52 PM) areyouconfusedye: im reading that book tho

(7:02:59 PM) areyouconfusedye: apparently its actually signed by the guy who wrote it too

(7:03:00 PM) areyouconfusedye: roy hunter

(7:03:03 PM) areyouconfusedye: which is pretty neat

(7:03:06 PM) areyouconfusedye: nice surprise

(7:03:17 PM) TheDukeDevlin: Woah

(7:03:18 PM) TheDukeDevlin: that's awesome

(7:03:26 PM) areyouconfusedye: but yeah apparently its actually about a direct suggestion technique

(7:03:30 PM) areyouconfusedye: but you can easily see how to use it indirectly

(7:03:34 PM) areyouconfusedye: and its CRAZY

(7:03:43 PM) areyouconfusedye: how many "parts" people can actually have to themselves

(7:03:45 PM) areyouconfusedye: it really got me thinking

(7:03:59 PM) areyouconfusedye: like he'll put poeople in trance and just build rapport by saying he understands that part is there for a reason

(7:04:06 PM) areyouconfusedye: a good reason, and its doing a good job doing what it does

(7:04:28 PM) TheDukeDevlin: That's fuckin DOPE, dude

(7:04:34 PM) areyouconfusedye: and then he'll say WHEN you're ready to communicate with [clients name], signal using your yes finger or say "im ready" or something

(7:04:46 PM) areyouconfusedye: but either way the part always shows itself, and then he asks for its name

(7:04:49 PM) areyouconfusedye: in order to refer back to it

(7:04:53 PM) areyouconfusedye: reminds me of giving girls nicknames

(7:04:58 PM) areyouconfusedye: related to the behavior you want them to exhibit

(7:04:59 PM) areyouconfusedye: etc

(7:05:12 PM) areyouconfusedye: but that's for the later sessions anyway

(7:05:14 PM) areyouconfusedye: people

(7:05:20 PM) areyouconfusedye: can have like a huyndred different parts

(7:05:24 PM) areyouconfusedye: like you name something, it becomes real

(7:05:27 PM) areyouconfusedye: you describe it and it comes to life

(7:05:34 PM) areyouconfusedye: and he lets these people describe it for him and shit

(7:05:54 PM) areyouconfusedye: but what if you were to dismiss the entire part of the mind

(7:05:58 PM) areyouconfusedye: related to social conditioning

(7:06:11 PM) areyouconfusedye: like you can find a place inside your mind

(7:06:19 PM) areyouconfusedye: we all ahve places insid eour minds

(7:06:42 PM) areyouconfusedye: and we can all -find this place-.

(7:06:45 PM) areyouconfusedye: now with me i find

(7:07:01 PM) areyouconfusedye: here what i'm saying is

(7:07:03 PM) areyouconfusedye: lol let me restart

(7:07:24 PM) areyouconfusedye: its easier to talk about it, i was just talkinga bout it with my co-worker

(7:07:26 PM) areyouconfusedye: but basically

(7:07:44 PM) areyouconfusedye: you get her in a place where she perceives the only way to get what you want

(7:07:53 PM) areyouconfusedye: is by stepping out of social conditionng

(7:07:58 PM) areyouconfusedye: what her friends tel her to accept as ok

(7:08:01 PM) areyouconfusedye: what society says she should do

(7:08:09 PM) areyouconfusedye: which acts as truisms

(7:08:11 PM) Nulogy [~Nulogy@216-58-104-141.cpe.distributel.net] entered the room.

(7:08:12 PM) areyouconfusedye: who wouldnt agtree

(7:08:19 PM) areyouconfusedye: that what i want to do is for me by me and only me

(7:08:34 PM) areyouconfusedye: so you have her step out of that social conditioning of what her friends, family, and society says

(7:08:48 PM) areyouconfusedye: and into the place where anything is possible

(7:08:51 PM) areyouconfusedye: the part

(7:08:58 PM) areyouconfusedye: ive been using the terms interchangably

(7:09:02 PM) areyouconfusedye: as i read like in my own mind

(7:09:03 PM) TheDukeDevlin: That's fuckin WILD dude, my mind has been blown @_@

(7:09:12 PM) areyouconfusedye: so not only is it that

(7:09:14 PM) Guspardios [Mibbit@175.139.122.95] entered the room.

(7:09:16 PM) areyouconfusedye: but her OWN conditioning you need to metnion as well

(7:09:17 PM) areyouconfusedye: like

(7:09:22 PM) areyouconfusedye: at least in theory i haven't tried this

(7:09:27 PM) areyouconfusedye: YET

(7:09:29 PM) areyouconfusedye: but anyway

(7:09:34 PM) areyouconfusedye: so like

(7:09:46 PM) Nulogy: Can anyone recommend a good easy listening mix when youre driving with a girl?

(7:10:48 PM) areyouconfusedye: you step out of that social conditioning, what society tells you to do, what your frineds think you should do, even what you yourself have been used to

(7:10:56 PM) areyouconfusedye: up until this point in time

(7:10:58 PM) areyouconfusedye: now

(7:11:03 PM) areyouconfusedye: where you step into this place

(7:11:18 PM) areyouconfusedye: and now you rattle off juist what this place is

(7:11:30 PM) areyouconfusedye: whatever you want it to be for her lol i'm sure you can fill in those blanks

(7:11:30 PM) areyouconfusedye: beacuse

(7:11:35 PM) areyouconfusedye: social conditionign is a very REAL part of all of us

(7:11:42 PM) areyouconfusedye: what i've found from reading this book is

(7:11:49 PM) areyouconfusedye: we all have MANY PARTS and theyn are all VERRRYYYY REAL to us

(7:11:52 PM) areyouconfusedye: and we don't even realize it

(7:12:14 PM) areyouconfusedye: but by addressing them and using them we can make things happens in each other and ourselves

(7:12:20 PM) areyouconfusedye: with a very powerful effect

(7:13:21 PM) Jaff1e|sleep is now known as Jaff1e

(7:13:37 PM) WildWeasel: so parts are essentially the separations of our mind that deal with different topics?

(7:14:48 PM) areyouconfusedye: exactly

(7:15:04 PM) areyouconfusedye: now if you divert attention from one part

(7:15:05 PM) areyouconfusedye: and toward another

(7:15:18 PM) areyouconfusedye: after dismisisng the previous as undesirable

(7:15:28 PM) areyouconfusedye: and converting her attention toward the one that you've made desirable to the both of you

(7:15:32 PM) areyouconfusedye: under mutual understanding

(7:15:36 PM) areyouconfusedye: and rapport

(7:15:43 PM) areyouconfusedye: things can start happening

(7:16:25 PM) areyouconfusedye: suddenly she's forgotten about the rest of the world and their opnions on what she's doing have become unimportant

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(7:18:06 PM) areyouconfusedye: they talk about places of the mind in building a better girlfiend, but i never really understood it entirely

(7:18:12 PM) areyouconfusedye: or its power

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(7:18:28 PM) Said: i see

(7:18:30 PM) areyouconfusedye: and they don't dismiss this social conditioning aspect in there

(7:18:30 PM) Said: and understand

(7:18:33 PM) Said: everything you just said

(7:18:46 PM) Said: I generally try to do that fuck social conditioning shit

(7:18:49 PM) areyouconfusedye: but in that thing

(7:18:54 PM) areyouconfusedye: in Building a Better GF

(7:18:59 PM) areyouconfusedye: they say a good way to thread into this is

(7:19:03 PM) areyouconfusedye: "do you think people really know what tehy want?"

(7:19:09 PM) areyouconfusedye: and that's a great way to thread into this theme as well

(7:19:16 PM) areyouconfusedye: that theme being "parts of the mind" or "places in the mind"

(7:19:21 PM) Said: it's so sexy how insidious these questions are

(7:19:29 PM) areyouconfusedye: so you just tell her what you HONESTLY THINK, what I honestly think anyway

(7:19:35 PM) areyouconfusedye: i think theres this place and that place

(7:19:38 PM) areyouconfusedye: and as you step into this place

(7:19:42 PM) areyouconfusedye: you're where you really want and need to be

(7:19:45 PM) areyouconfusedye: aren't you?

(7:19:48 PM) areyouconfusedye: sort of thing

(7:19:59 PM) Said: Yeah man I see exactly whaty your'e saying

(7:20:00 PM) areyouconfusedye: i try to look for techniques and incorporate them in ways that are completely congruent with my won thoughts

(7:20:01 PM) areyouconfusedye: own

(7:20:22 PM) Said: I was gonna say the same like I'll use leading questions and tie it into myself when I see she's interested in building on our rapport

(7:20:31 PM) Said: Because at that point she's gonna jump on what I say and try and fit to it

(7:20:38 PM) areyouconfusedye: yeah

(7:20:40 PM) areyouconfusedye: one thing my uhh

(7:20:43 PM) areyouconfusedye: guide on tp didn't go over

(7:20:47 PM) areyouconfusedye: was using ambiguous language

(7:20:51 PM) Said: so I'll be like, isn't it crazy how we never really get to experience our true intentions because w'ere so afraid about what others might think?

(7:20:55 PM) areyouconfusedye: and its actually really imprtant to understand while eliciting values and repeating them back

(7:21:00 PM) areyouconfusedye: you should be saying

(7:21:07 PM) areyouconfusedye: NOW WITH ME i think that's somethig incredible

(7:21:45 PM) areyouconfusedye: its like i START FEELING X[HER TRANCE WORDS HERE]... and begin to feel X right before i START FEELING REALLY CONNECTED WITH THIS PERSON.. you know?

(7:22:16 PM) areyouconfusedye: and using those words, now, with me, i find, with this person, to connect the ideas

(7:22:41 PM) areyouconfusedye: self gestures then provide all the additional meaning needed for the communication lol

(7:22:50 PM) areyouconfusedye: but this parts shit

(7:22:52 PM) areyouconfusedye: is epic

(7:22:55 PM) areyouconfusedye: i can't wait to start using it in field

(7:23:01 PM) Said: I like this whole using her own words thing

(7:23:07 PM) areyouconfusedye: of course

(7:23:08 PM) Said: a lot

(7:23:10 PM) areyouconfusedye: it's imperative

(7:23:11 PM) Said: it's super sexy

(7:23:13 PM) areyouconfusedye: and makes things so much easier

(7:23:16 PM) areyouconfusedye: she tells you everything you need to know

(7:23:19 PM) areyouconfusedye: and everything you need to say

(7:23:22 PM) areyouconfusedye: you just have to ask the right questions

(7:23:27 PM) Said: :p

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(7:23:43 PM) Said: it's fun to think about how we generally do this

(7:23:45 PM) Said: in mirroring

(7:23:51 PM) Said: like take on some dominant words introduced by the other

(7:23:56 PM) Said: and then use em

(7:23:57 PM) ]Golden [~GD@ool-18b93f36.dyn.optonline.net] entered the room.

(7:24:02 PM) areyouconfusedye: generally for mirroring

(7:24:07 PM) areyouconfusedye: i match words as they're being used

(7:24:12 PM) areyouconfusedye: i don't go back and use them over and over again

(7:24:15 PM) Said: Yeah

(7:24:19 PM) Said: This is osme nother level shit

(7:24:19 PM) areyouconfusedye: but in this case

(7:24:24 PM) areyouconfusedye: yeee

(7:24:41 PM) Said: Fuck I need to not procrastinate on my relationship paper

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(7:24:48 PM) areyouconfusedye: lol

(7:24:49 PM) Said: I really want to do it hypnotoad style

(7:24:55 PM) Said: But I don't know if that's scholarly

(7:25:06 PM) areyouconfusedye: lol write about love being self-hypnosis

(7:25:12 PM) areyouconfusedye: everyone knows LOVE IS A PROCESS

(7:25:20 PM) Said: I'm going to write about limerance

(7:25:27 PM) Said: and how we instill false values into people we desire

(7:25:28 PM) areyouconfusedye: of MUTUAL UNDERSTANDING and shit

(7:25:28 PM) areyouconfusedye: lol

(7:25:36 PM) Said: My thesis: It is when we discount our self-worth and attempt to rationalize consequences experienced from others that we find ourselves in loathing and emotional pain as results of these relationship-seeking behaviors.

(7:25:57 PM) areyouconfusedye: id like to read this paper when you're done with it

(7:25:58 PM) areyouconfusedye: lol

(7:26:06 PM) Said: Of course, it'll be cross posted everywhere

(7:26:12 PM) areyouconfusedye: lol good

(7:26:15 PM) areyouconfusedye: i def wanna see it

(7:26:16 PM) areyouconfusedye: hahaa

(7:26:23 PM) Said: I finished the first page

(7:26:26 PM) Said: 4-5 more to go

(7:27:01 PM) Said: i have like 3 papers to type and one to edit by friday 2pm

(7:27:18 PM) areyouconfusedye: the trick to the parts of the mind thing is framing shit so she's agreeing with it and as if it's for her own benefit

(7:27:23 PM) areyouconfusedye: just randomly hopping back on that topic

(7:27:31 PM) Said: It's like as if you're now her inner monologue

(7:27:33 PM) Said: @_@

(7:27:34 PM) areyouconfusedye: because she's going to agree with anything

(7:27:37 PM) areyouconfusedye: that benefits her

(7:27:41 PM) areyouconfusedye: and her progress and growth as a woman

(7:27:52 PM) areyouconfusedye: and human being

(7:28:05 PM) areyouconfusedye: lie if someone said what i just said to you

(7:28:06 PM) areyouconfusedye: like

(7:28:14 PM) areyouconfusedye: you'd agree obviously cuz you did

(7:28:14 PM) areyouconfusedye: lol

(7:28:33 PM) areyouconfusedye: double meanings start coming into place when you start really patterning shit in though

(7:28:40 PM) areyouconfusedye: or should i saiy

(7:28:43 PM) areyouconfusedye: start coming into this place

(7:29:00 PM) ***Said comes

(7:29:05 PM) areyouconfusedye: lol

(7:29:26 PM) areyouconfusedye: i can't wait to try this stuff out

(7:29:30 PM) areyouconfusedye: eheheheheh

(7:29:45 PM) Said: Looks like you're coming

(7:29:48 PM) Said: everywhere

(7:29:49 PM) areyouconfusedye: i've done stuff like

(7:29:52 PM) areyouconfusedye: "its like theres a part of you that X"

(7:29:58 PM) areyouconfusedye: but not like

(7:29:59 PM) areyouconfusedye: there sthis place

(7:30:03 PM) areyouconfusedye: and this place

(7:30:24 PM) areyouconfusedye: look how much more awesome this place is now as you forget about what you were just thinhking while listening to me describe this wonderful place to you

(7:31:51 PM) Said: I heard you like emotions so I put emotions in your emotions so you can cry while you fuck