Not many married people have it. Actually, not many people have it. Nowadays the issue of ‚sex openness’ is a great advantage. Even more- an obligation. You can read how to make love, how to seduce, how to go oral almost everywhere. Technically, we all seem to be the masters of the art. Practically, it works only at the first stage of the relationship. Or when the relationship seems forbidden.

Obviously, we all want great sex. For many reasons. But what is it? A bed-set paradise? Experimenting? Crossing own borders? Reaching the point you go sexually high with somebody following pure instincts?

The sexual act makes us fullfilled. Yet, we tend to depreciate it by saying it is not the most important part of the relationship. Recently, it has been researched that even 26 year olds- the bold, the young and beautiful avoid having regular sex in the partnership. Tiredness and gruelling routine are told to be the main reasons. Nonetheless, they say they find sex crucial so why have they stopped touching each other? Denying your own sexuality has serious consequences. No matter if you devote yourself to sports or work. Sooner or later you are going to explode and pack your bags out of blue leaving your pale spouse or partner behind. You let them think you were so happy whilst none of you remembers any orgasms or any more- than- 5minutes sexual intercourses.

Some of us will never split up. They will remain silent, repeating to themselves that there are other values of higher importance. They will say sex is for the teens with all those ridiculous positions and gadgets. Wrong. Deceiving themselves. For the whole lifetime sometimes. Do you want to cheat yourself?

Why don’t you recognise your needs and talk to your partner? As simple as that. Be aware of what you get and what you give. Focus. Talk. Explain. Serach and find. And then go and have your own.. great sex. You deserve it.