This article was co-authored by Trudi Griffin, LPC, MS. Trudi Griffin is a Licensed Professional Counselor in Wisconsin specializing in Addictions and Mental Health. She provides therapy to people who struggle with addictions, mental health, and trauma in community health settings and private practice. She received her MS in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Marquette University in 2011. This article has been viewed 204,215 times.

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To approach a bisexual guy in the closet, try being direct so you can find out for certain if he is interested in dating you. Ask him something like, “Do you date guys?” If he says yes, then you can try suggesting a place to go by picking something that you will both enjoy based on your conversation. For example, if you both like horror movies, invite him to the movies with you. If he says that he isn’t interested in dating guys or isn’t ready to come out of the closet, say something reassuring so he feels safe and you can return the conversation to a friendly space. For instance, you could say something like, “No worries, I just figured I’d ask.” For tips about how to hint at your interest to a bisexual guy in the closet, keep reading!