"There are a lot more people out there than people realize living in every ward and stake in this church who are dealing with same-sex attraction, but are married or are temple-recommend holders. Those people are serving in all sorts of positions … and nobody is making a big production out of it," Pruden said. "I have guys ask me all the time: 'Should I be telling my bishop this [about same-sex attraction]?' My answer always is, 'Have you done something wrong?' And they say, 'Well, no.' Then I say, 'What are you going to go tell him … ? 'Hi, I'm mortal, in case the other perfect people in the ward were confused?' "