Thanks guys! I am starting cemo next week. Looking at chemotherapy to shrink the cancer and then remove the bladder. The new doctor is very nice and complete explained and answered every question we had. He said they would build a new bladder out of a piece of intestines. I will be in the hospital for 5 days. Looking like the removal isn't going to happen till the first of the year. Cemo now. I am going to get a bag to drain the kidney/ bladder soon too.All this is going to be hard and long, but my odds are very good in the end. Plus I am going to BEAT this