sunnyshowers Sun 02-Feb-20 10:05:02

Thanks so much.

Shes such a cool kid. She rides horses every weekend for an entire day with an different set of girls, plays hockey for a local team and also in very involved in scouts. She is SO capable.

All her teachers say she is an amazing student too.

Shes so kind to her friends and my gut tells me they are jealous.

She has a core group of friends that are lovely but these 2 girls have joined and while they are not in the core group they have been invited to this sleepover.

I told the mum whos having the sleepover that she wont go and why. (one of the taunts was ...we d love to see you in pjs and all your fat hanging out...her friends said do not believe that..you know that's just NOT true)



I was surprised that is did bug her, she is so accomplished and its gutting to see that she was vunerable to something that was so blatantly a lie.



I really thought I had talked it out fully wit her when it happened, but it s still there.

This morning she said she feels better that its out in the open but the rage I feel...



I haven't invited these girls to ours sine it happened and she tolerates them but said that they are done friendship wise.

She doesn't want to lose the close friends though they are supportive.

The child having the sleepover is such a sweet innocent easy going girl...it genuinely hasn't crossed her mind and I don't think we can dictate who she invites, just decline the invite.



My dd would go bonkers if I e mailed the school or contacted the parents (not that they give a toss anyway)