The Mumsnet user called her son a 'cheeky monkey' while playing in the park

A mother has been left furious after she was branded a 'racist' by a stranger for calling her mixed-race son a 'cheeky monkey'.

The Mumsnet user, who is white, was confronted by a black woman in the park who told her she needed to 'educate' herself about her son's race.

The mother, known only by her username, Jumpiin said she was 'reeling' at the accusation, and asked other parents if she was right to be upset.

The message board was divided, as some accused her of being insensitive for giving a mixed-race boy the nickname because 'monkey' is an offensive term used against black people.

A mother was called 'racist' by a stranger after she called her mixed-race son a 'cheeky monkey' (file image)

The woman accused Jumpiin of treating her son like an accessory and accused her of not knowing anything about her son's race.

She revealed that she'd actually been learning about her partner's Swahili culture, and was learning the language with her son.

She said: 'Aibu (am I being unreasonable) to think that she was in the wrong here and that she is a part of the problem?

'And to think that I can call my child whatever I want as long as there's no malice behind it?!'

The Mumsnet user was called 'ignorant' and got accused of using her son as an accessory

But some Mumsnet users didn't join in with her anger, and accused her of being ignorant of the history behind the word.

ArcheryAnnie posted: 'I can understand you feeling defensive, but honestly, if you want to continue to do the best for your child, please do listen to other people who have much more experience of racism than you do.

'You might not always agree with them, but getting defensive and asking for validation from others about how mean they were to you really doesn't help either you or your child.'

EnthusiasmIsDisturbed said: 'I would have thought if you have a mixed race child you would be aware of racist terms that's have been used and avoid them

Some Mumsnet users said she was being insensitive about the history of 'monkey' as a racist insult

'Calling white children little/cheeky monkey doesn't come along with the same horrible connotations.'

TinklyLittleLaugh agreed: 'I'm inclined to think that, on the whole, a black woman is going to have a better understanding than a white woman, of what is or is not racist, regardless of the white woman's relationships.

'I base this on my experience as a disabled person, of having more sensitivity than a non disabled person, as to what is offensive and disablist. My able bodied husband has some idea. I would still cringe at the idea of him telling a disabled person what they should be offended by.'

Others shared the mother's anger, and called the unnamed woman 'ridiculous' and 'mad'

However, many agreed with her, calling the unnamed woman 'ridiculous' and 'mad'.

LorelaiRoryEmily said: 'Wow. That is ridiculous op, I wouldn't give her head space. People are mad.'

JamieFrasersKilt posted: 'Does that mean when I called my socially anxious kids, chicken, I was committing some sort of faux pas? She was being completely ridiculous.'

Greenlynx agreed: 'She behaved very rude towards you. You were playing with your child. it's none of her business.'