I have wondered if I should try to have sex just the once to please him but somehow I just can't do it - I know it would be against my will, and that equates to rape. I don't even know why I don't want it - other than I see it as an invasion of my body, I'm scared it would hurt - plus I honestly can't see the point of it - it's not as if we want to create a baby. He is willing to see a sex therapist - but what would be the point - I don't want someone helping us to have sex when I know in the first place that I just don't want it.