In the time when men attending baby showers are all the rave, one father-to-be decided to break the mold on the standard baby shower by throwing his own— reportedly without the expectant mom!

A post shared by The Shade Room (@theshaderoom) on Oct 23, 2018 at 11:16am PDT

Confused? Well, here’s what we know.

The expectant father, @woodrowsfinest, recently appeared on The Shade Room along with the caption: “This dude had his own baby shower y’all! Him and the mother of his child are no longer together so he decided to have his own! Thoughts?”

Quickly the internet split into two with opinions about a dad throwing himself a baby shower.

Keep scrolling to see what was said about the idea of a father basking in the attention usually reserved for the pregnant mother along with gaining loads of baby gifts from friends and family.