White privilege is being able to wear jeans to a baby shower and not immediately be mistaken for “the help” by the first woman who walks in. (For what it’s worth, several guests were wearing jeans, but no one else was wearing jeans while Asian.)

White privilege is being able to lend a hand in the kitchen, while wearing said jeans, and not being told to “bring me something to drink”.

White privilege is not being able to understand why I then proceed to give you the cold shoulder the rest of the afternoon.