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There’s a common understanding amongst guys that women are impossible to understand, particularly when it comes to arguments and saying one thing to mean another. But guys often overlook the fact that girls too do wonder about how the primitive mind of men works.

Thankfully, a Singaporean Redditor Ehsiala took to the popular site to ask girls to share what they’ve always wanted to ask guys but never dared.

The response was overwhelming, so we compiled ten of the best questions along with some of the replies they got from male Singaporean Redditors. To our surprise, the responses were not only candid, most of them were positive and friendly, which just goes to show that not everyone online are trolls.

1) Would you mind being house husbands?

There was quite a mix in responses, many of whom didn’t mind at all as long as their partners were fine being the sole breadwinner. Others however didn’t feel it was right to be dependent financially on someone else while another pointed out that house husbands have a risky position in society as only women were entitled to alimony, just in case the worst should happen.

Despite this, one redditor came forward saying that he volunteered to be the house husband to take care of his kid and that he is “loving every minute of it”.

2) How is paid sex different from “normal” sex?

Sex-related questions were always bound to happen, but a query about the difference between paid sex and unpaid sex caught our attention. A lengthy but insightful response from a reddit user explained that paid sex allowed him to reap the benefits of the deed minus the effort of having to “seduce” a girl.

It’s her job to pleasure you, so you don’t have to think of pleasuring her, or about how she feels about you.

He added that you can even explore certain kinks or fetishes by negotiating with money – pay more for this and that.

He did say however that it really depends on what you’re after, emphasising that it might be great for certain things but it will never replace the feeling of being in a relationship.

3) Would you mind if your girlfriend was more “educated” than you?

Reddit user alpspine51 was curious whether Singaporean guys were okay with dating a girl who had a higher degree or education background.

As it turns out, most guys are actually perfectly fine if their significant other was “more educated” than them.

4) Do you believe in having platonic friendships with girls?

A Redditor asked if guys believe in platonic friendships with girls, sharing that from what she has observed, girls generally believe in it more than guys. To her surprise, most respondents believed in it and even found that girls were easier to talk to about “deeper” topics.

User not_a_reddiporean added however that in most platonic relationships, “there’s a high chance the guy had a crush on the girl.”

5) How often do you masturbate?

To be fair, I’m pretty sure guys wonder this about girls too. Safe to say, the common response was indeed “often”.

6) What do you think of girls playing hard to get?

Turns out, not favourably. The respondents were not keen on girls who play hard to get and might even be turned off by it.

7) Would you allow your girlfriend to go out in “skimpy” clothes?

This question also drew mixed responses, with some saying that their girlfriends have the right to choose how they dress.

One respondent however shared that he would much prefer not, as a “sexy” outfit “would put his girlfriend in danger”. He explained that while she’s free to do what she wants, “perverted guys out there” are the problem, and would rather not have her become a target.

8) Do you ever get annoyed or embarrassed when you get erections at inconvenient times?

Random erections happen and mostly at the wrong times. All respondents agreed, and some even had hilarious anecdotes of their experiences.

I remembered the first time I went swimming with my gf. Half the time I was just hiding inside the float. Umm umm, you ain’t getting me out of the pool.

9) What gifts would you rather receive on your birthdays / Valentine’s Day?

With Valentine’s Day just around the corner, one Redditor took her chance to fish ideas.

It wasn’t for naught, thankfully, as she received some really helpful advice. Some guys expressed how handmade gifts were their preference due to their thoughtfulness, while others said that anything practical works – whether or not it’s store bought or handmade.

Of course, it’ll depend from guy to guy as well.

10) How do I know if a guy likes me?

Of course, at the end of the day, girls are as curious as guys in figuring out whether we’re liked back. Almost everyone agreed that the best approach was to be straight up and ask the guy directly. Guys are less likely to beat around the bush – pun unintended – and are more likely to give a clear indication.

Other also advised to look out for signals, such as whether texts often and asks what you’re doing, although signals do differ from guy to guy.

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