FairfaxAikman Wed 03-Jul-19 08:45:49

I've asked my PIL (who look after DS when I work) and DH not to tell me if DS takes his first steps in front of them so at least in my mind I'm not missing it.



Today I got a text from DH saying he'd taken one step and then fallen down.

I said that counted as telling me. And he snapped back "So it's just you are supposed to get all the firsts with him?"



As far as I'm concerned if DS walks, DH still "gets" the first (not like he's missed out on loads as he spotted first tooth etc) but I don't feel I'm missing out. Ignorance is bliss and all that.



AIBU?