dragonflyflew Wed 12-Sep-18 02:05:53

I went through similar and not trusting my own judgement was gaslighted into believing it was my problem: 'all men like to look at younger women' etc.

It really really freaked me out and messed with my head to the point where I became quite mentally unwell. Not least because I have family history of abuse but for many other reasons too

It meant I couldn't even watch Rita and sue and Bob too which was one of my favourite films!

I ended up with PTSD and had trauma therapy which mainly worked but there are so many triggers everywhere I'll never be fully recovered.

Teen porn is a super popular genre. It doesn't make it right and just makes me despair for our kids and future relationships. Sadly, shit like this really makes me despise men. I know they're not all like it but it's so prevalent.

You need to be comfortable with your son bringing teenage girls home. What is it like for you when you're both around teenagers? I remember the anxiety and constant scanning for 'signs'.