This metaphorical “chasing your tail” is also added to the layers of dirty pain.

We are all allotted only so much time and energy. We have a choice: Spend this time and energy trying to change the unchangeable, or engage in activities and relationships that help give you a sense of purpose and well-being.

The goal of therapy is to help pain patients increase their repertoire of behaviours, guided by what they see as important, their own goals, and what they value in their life. This is in direct opposition to a restricted, limited and socially isolated life where pain is lord and master. By helping people to change the way they experience their thoughts, feelings and pain sensations, there is an opportunity to drop the struggle with your pain and to connect to what really matters to you.

Therapy for chronic pain management is a tool, and a good one at that, especially within a multi-disciplinary setting where you also have access to a team of other professionals. Some people with mild pain do very well using just one or two tools. However, if you are moving toward severe pain, you will need to have a larger toolkit.

My own toolkit -- in alphabetical order -- contains diet, exercise, ice packs, lifestyle modifications (e.g. strategic scheduling of work), medications, psychotherapy, rest, and a support system of family members, friends, and colleagues.

Some tools help with my clean pain while others help with my dirty pain. They all work together so that I can disconnect from struggling and connect to what matters to me. It isn’t an easy thing to do – especially at first -- but it is doable, as countless others are doing it as well.