"If you still believe here today as students at Morehouse and Spelman that you are not good enough, it's not about something that's happened to you today, it's probably a part of what you've heard and seen consistently throughout your life. And that's your story that you have to own and have to understand," she said. "That's what this book is about. You've got to be able to go over the moments in your life that brought you to a moment of joy and happiness or broke you down and be able to understand how has that made you who you are today and what are you going to do to recalibrate."