Sandpaperkisses357 Fri 17-Apr-20 19:09:55

I have, a few days ago, found a phone I never knew my husband had..(I never usually would go through his phone but I just got a horrible feeling)and on it are texts from one of his female friends, one of which was asking him to send her money, 100 or 150 if possible as things are hard for her and family can't help.. next msg, her asking again and saying she will pay back the 1000?! He already sent last month When she gets bk on her feet WTF?! Another msg, burn after u read this ..

I am fuming to say the least .. how do I approach this ..

That money could have gone on the family, maybe for a holiday, which we've had one of in our 10 yrs together or get me my driving lessons he keeps putting off as " we can't afford it" but not just on some other woman.

Now I'm questioning our whole lives together and wondering is he having an affair?

We have 5 kids together, and can't just leave so easily..feeling so depressed about it all .. and even harder in the current circumstances too.

Totally heartbroken