A Relationship Advice I Can Offer You

Here is a relationship advice I can offer to those people who have enrolled themselves in relationships so soon. I’m not that experienced when it comes to relationships, but the relationships that I had been in so far gave me a brief view on what relationship is all about. Something you should know about relationship is that everyone comes in a relationship with a different purpose. We have people who indulge themselves in relationships so that they find peace and happy dwelling.



















We have other people involve themselves in relationships because they have no alternative. They are bored with the kind of life they are living in. They really don’t love anything from you; it is just because of peer pressure that made them to make a step in to relationships. Such kinds of people are not there to offer their heart. They are just there pretending of the existence of a connection between you two. They make love seem to be real while in real sense deep down they know it just a thing with no meaning to them. It is just a thing for them to pass time.









You have to be so much carefully when it comes to the person you decide to give your trust and heart. These kinds of people exist. Don’t believe so easily that someone is into you without being cautious and find out if he or she has feelings for you. People out there take relationship as games. They find it fun when they play with people’s feeling. They pretend to care so much but all they want is to use you. When they get what they want, they walk away without looking back. You are left all alone with scars all over. You may be thinking of how he or she used to treat you at first when you met. This may make you believe that it was a real love.















Something that we often fail to see is the real people’s intention. That is so hidden. We cannot get through people’s heart. This hinders our possible to identify whether the person who is claiming to be so much in love with you, real or faking. It is out of our reach. That why people find it very hard to develop a trust for someone that easily. Trust may take even yours to develop. In most of the relationships that you see people holding hands while walking on the streets, did you know they may even have no trust to one another? It does not mean when people are in a relationship have trust for one another.









So, when you find someone, try to be cautious before you regret later. No one wants to be used nor exploited. Sometimes I think so hard on this issue. Why should someone waste someone’s time pretending to love him or her? In this century we are, to find someone who is real and true, and he or she is ready to give everything for the relationship to move on it is very rare. Before you say he or she is the one try to find out if he or she is the right person. Sometimes we are easily deceived by our own eyes and lust. You may think it is love, but it is only lust that drives you.















I advise you, don’t fall so easily in love without knowing where you are falling. Sometimes I wonder why people engage so easily in relationships. I know for one to admit someone in his or her heart it should take time. You have to know the person you want to allow in your heart. You have to know him or her not only externally but also internally. Know each other deeply it will give you a better chance to identify whether he or she is the right one. Go further explore his or her interests. The petty things that we might ignore are the things that are going to spoil our relationships.









You may think you know her or him enough but you have to know that knowing someone takes time. We have some kind of people who are so hard to be known. These are the kind of people who hide their own personality and hiding their own feelings. For you to have known them fully, you would have captures their hearts. We also have kind of people who aren’t open. They like privacy so much; they don’t talk of their personal affairs so easily with anyone they don’t trust. So, for you to explore someone to the fullest it might take so much time.















Take is slow. Don’t rush to give someone your trust. This is one of the things that made me regretted some time back. I was never considerate. I used to think rushing things and doing them without caution is a better chance to get what you want in a relationship. I used to think that rushing to get someone before someone else gets him or her was the better idea. I engaged myself in a relationship so quick without thinking of what it may cost me. I gave up so much to a chick. I gave my heart fully without thinking of any consequences. I loved so deeply believing that she was all into me the same as I was.









I made every effort to please her; I texted her every morning, I gave her my time, I made her my priority, and I was ready to spend anything to please her. Guess what? I was wrong. I rushed to get her without knowing her that deep. I thought she was a chick with an open-heart to pour out everything that she experienced to me. I believe what she told me at the first time without asking anything further because I was already attached to her. I never had time to contemplate where I was heading. I later came to realize that her heart had many corners and pots. I wasn’t able to see anything straight away. When I saw the right side of her, there was also the left side of her which was hidden with dark paths.















She said she had one, but the real sense is that she had more of them. Her heart stuck back from where she came from. I thought I had dragged her heart from where she came from when I first gave her everything to her. The truth is that her piece was still back to his old ventures. I lost her later own because I never knew of her old history, after long enough she couldn’t hold herself she felt she was pulled back to her old nature. It hurted me, so badly. This all happened because I never took my time trying to know her that deep. I think my lust drove me. Her cuteness contributed to it. She was a cute girl that I had never seen before.









She made me crazy. She made me fall for her so quickly which made me made irrational decisions. I advise you to be carefully so that you may not find yourself on the position that I was. Take your time to know someone before you decide to make something with him or her. Don’t be deceived by the looks because this is where most people are trapped thinking they have got it all, only realizing later that they have lost it all. Relationships are tricky, with many riddles in them only the people who solve these riddles are the only one find themselves at a safe place.















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