I have corresponded plenty of times by husbands not just within North America, but around the world as well. Always they crave the answer to one important question: ‘How do I get my wife to cuck me?’

For some people out there upon hearing this, they might presume such men as reprehensible to even be considering such action. They would assume that such men are worthless and should have nothing to do with being part of the modern society at large. The irony is that such men who routinely ask this question don’t usually walk around with a bullseye on their forehead claiming that they very much want their wives/girlfriends to cuck them. There always is a thin line when it comes to addressing why any loving husband would want to consider this or whatever source of stimuli injected him in the first place with such an idea. Only when in the comforting privacy of closet friends can such men be forthright about revealing their true desires aloud against fear of being judged by the society at large.

Regarding myself, I seldom endeavor attempting to figure out the happenings of such men to want to think of such question. Just as I would probably be the last man to want to be asked that most eternal question women often voice about me: ‘Why do men cheat?’ A husband should even be applauded for seeking answer to his cuckold questions as he means to understand his changing views of sexuality as he wants to question if really he ought to be entertaining such and why.

It’s all in the genes, some would say. Or maybe it’s in the water we all drink.

I would take it a bit further and say it’s part of Human Nature. We are what we are, even though we’re never going to arrive at a definitive answer to solving that riddle. Sex will always be an important realm of socio-scientific discovery. What makes it even more boundless is how far we’re willing to discover more about ourselves as it comes to us learning about our sexuality.

It is in this grey terrain that Cuckoldry often exists.

Why would a husband desire another man to come into his home, into his bedroom, and make love to his wife? Why would he be so willing to share his wife with another man? There’s hundreds of possible answers to these questions, but I’m willing to bet that neither of those answers will ever be hard-hitting. The reason why is because we’re humans, and we’re ever evolving creatures. What some might consider taboo now, down the road, or in certain private places, are considered the norm.

There is pleasure to be derived in sex, likewise self-discovery. In the place of Cuckoldry, it’s one avenue that pushes couples beyond mere intimate adventures in the bedroom to like thumbing their noses at society as if to say that: ‘This is who we are . . . We love each other as much as we love others, and we’re not afraid to let the world be aware of our desires’.

Even if you comb through the history of the world, you’ll recognize too that they were times in distant times and countries where Cuckoldry was typically the norm, though the name never really existed back then for it. But with the onrush of the changing world, sex became relegated to the background and instead wars became the new antidote for which men can easily express their virility. But with the modern age ushering the advent of social media, more and more people are realizing that no longer are they to withhold their sexual fetish to themselves. The global village has introduced us to our sexual selves, and made us realize that we’re no different from our neighbors.

Cuckoldry seeks to expand the inner proclivities and fetish urges husbands often have towards themselves and their wives, as too, wives for their husbands. What better way to make such known to each other than when a third gets introduced into the picture. This brings back to mind the answer that begets the question: Why do men want their wives to cuck them? The answer is simple: Because they want it . . . and they love it!

Plenty of husbands desire so much to revel in seeing their wives locked in the arms of another man. Of someone they suspect and even believe as far desirable in bed who will inject exotic notions of arousal in their spouse. They don’t want to see such man make love to their wives (the wives can get enough of that from them back home), they want to see the wives ravished and fucked in ways they’ve never experienced or would ever get from them.

As human beings, we are ever fascinated by whatever we deem as societal taboo. Often we dare to gaze into the future of whether or not the Cuckold fetish will become part of mainstream society at large. It is easy for me to declare that already it is. We’re simply too naive to want to recognize it for what it is.