Self-delusion is big when it comes to men thinking they have women under control or choosing to believe women actually give a shit about their boyfriends or husbands beyond what benefits they can extract from their association with them. Female association with the male is all about the purchasing power of nature’s credit card. She holds the credit card and you hold the bag. Forget that fact at your own peril.

Some guys like to strut around bragging they’ve never paid for it…but upon further inspection that front falls apart.

Poon is never free.

Whether it’s leaving a $100 bill on the nightstand, leasing fleecing a Lexus for Christmas to shut her up, or a man losing his life savings in a frivorce with a frosty-assed Anglobitch, the bill for services rendered comes due one way or the other.

For guys who are married or in relationshits who think they don’t pay for sex, tell them to quit their job or to quit paying for things for their girlfriend or spouse and see how long princess stays around. This should illustrate the point quite well – that men are subservient to women economically in each association they have with the bearer of the fish taco. We all know it won’t be long after wealth transfers are cut off until she’s “accidentally” fucking some other dude. (Unless he’s a bad boy with frame, but even then once he becomes an economic disincentive long enough she’ll move on to more lucrative male prey.)

Men paying for things and striving for social status to attract women is so ingrained in society it’s almost invisible. But, there lurking beneath all the sophistry are the basic biological economics that are the basis of every association women have with men. Many men will perform the most incredible mental acrobatics to try and get around this fact, but there it is – unchanged – even after they’ve tried to deny it.

Even PUAs pay for it with countless hours of “hunting” and practice and psychological manipulation that twists their own psyches as much as those of the women they’re pursuing. Not to mention the investment in clothing (peacocking) and the aggravation of constantly putting on a clown show.

Some guys say the juice is never worth the squeeze. In many ways, it isn’t. But it boggles the mind why living in a society in which paying for pussy with a rock, a McMansion and mortgage is perfectly okay, but paying for it outright and up front is shamed, ridiculed, and met with kidnapping and extortion from America’s thugs in blue.

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