The "how it is in reality" spelling which describes the bulk of supposedly-just-first-base relationships between two people --- i.e., they actually " fool around " and "have fun" a-plenty, even if they'll never admit it

Two often-reliable ways to determine what type of relationship dat a guy and girl are having --- i.e., platonic or "playtonic" --- are (1) if da girl's boobs get noticeably bigger over time , since this would indicate dat da dude has been playing wif dem a lot, or (2) if she gets pregnant (duh!).