Question

What if I just can't stop thinking about other people?

Community Answer

This is perfectly normal; as social beings we're primed to think about others, to connect and to aim to fit in for our survival. It's instinctual. However, if what you're referring to is not being able to stop caring about what they think about you, remember that the ultimate judge of your actions is yourself, and you are also the ultimate controller of those actions. Realize that people who judge are often insecure and therefore project their insecurities when they judge harshly, rather than say anything useful or helpful. By all means think about other people but don't think about their assessment of you unless it helps you to improve your talents and what you have to offer the world.