Paul Golding at a Piers Gaveston Ball at the Park Lane Hotel in London in 1983. Golding founded the Kay-Whyte Club, named after KY jelly. He told Ian Jack that he was “very, very, very rare indeed” and said of his social circle: “I suppose if I looked on it from the outside I’d loathe it, but the fact is that most of these people are very talented, very nice and very beautiful”