KindnessIsNotWeakness Wed 21-Aug-19 21:21:23

Ex messaged me today to ask me to transfer the child benefit of our Son to him because he wants to reduce the amount he has to pay in maintenance for his daughter (who he’s going through court for access to at the moment) she is 2. He said he will pay me back the amount I will loose.



I’ve told him no because it protects my NI - also it feels wrong that he is doing that to get out of what he should be paying for his daughter,



He pays me £20 a month for our son & the split is 60/40.



Would there be any other implications of doing that?