Hey! Congrats on losing the old virginity. It's about time. You kids are waiting wayyyy too long these days. What are you, 14 already? Geez.

I don't know any Spears songs, but I suggest that you put on an album and make him do foreplay until at least the third song - that's like six minutes, which is way more than a 14 year old needs. Then go at it like mice until there is no tomorrow. Here is the thing - you can only get pregnant if you do it an odd number of times, so one time and three times = possibility of pregnancy. Do it two or four times and you will be golden. Sex without worries. This is the stuff they don't teach you in school.