geekandmisandry answered:

I talk to a lot of other inclusionist behind the scenes who have told me not to bother to get involved in the discourse on the basis that I am as csa survivor and a lot of the discourse can end up with people messily being accused of being apologists and I’m not emotionally capable.

It’s a place of rare vulnerability, even the things I’m normally upset about I can handle being hammered on, but my csa is different and I’m extremely vulnerable in that regard.

I have apologised to other inclusionists behind the scenes who have been accused of awful things sometimes for as LITTLE as liking a completely unrelated post by a poster who was deemed to be problematic by some.

But I want to be very clear that despite all of that I feel that aces are a part of my community, the lgbtqia+ community regardless of any other letters they associate with. Your aceness is not a threat to me and all I want for all of you is safety and acceptance.

I don’t feel well enough to delve deep into the intra community discourse but I need people to know where I stand.