Before writing this, I just saw a photo of a slim girl.

A hot girl. The kind of girl I’d like to kiss. Smooth skin. curves.

The girl I am with - she’s not hot.She’s fat. She’s said it herself.

She’s pretty - it shines through.

She’s doing yoga. and cardio everyday. She’s lost 3 kilos. She’s got like 10 more to lose. And I’m waiting.

If girls can spend hours talking about their favorite handsome men in romantic movies - in a romantic context, shouldn’t the converse be true - that guys should be OK with being able to say that fat is not attractive - in a romantic context?

How can I say this in everyday conversation?

Today’s liberal media is increasingly becoming OK with girls talking about sex, their preferences and opinions.

Open Magazine has an exclusive column, a Sex in the City thing.



The kind of writing that gave India so many similar narratives and annoyed many, silently. The kind that scribbled comfortably -“hi.I’m empowered.”

I can’t tell girls that I’m unsure about my relationship - or whatever this moment in time is.

What kind of bad, awful guy would I be?

I’d be a guy though to say it. I want to commit to the complete package - a pretty, not-fat girl, along with other qualities. It’s a checklist. It’s a fact. We’re human - we’re judgmental.

If girls can spend hours talking about their favorite handsome men in romantic movies - in a romantic context, shouldn’t the converse be true - that guys should be OK with being able to say that fat is not attractive - in a romantic context?

When did society evolve to this this point - and choose to be stuck at this point where we encourage women to be outspoken - and shelve men’s dialogue to “guy talk”?