neither. are you crazy? lol. it makes zero sense to move to the most expensive cities in the country, as you have almost zero chance to sustain your living expenses without a job lined up. have you even looked at your budget to forecast all your montly costs? if you move there and get no job, you'll be packing out of there before you know it, especially NY and SF. i repeat: YOUR ASS WILL NOT SURVIVE THERE.



and also the notion that the entire south is racist is just false and plain ignorant.