MEN get horny almost all the time. So when your man feels horny, do you find it disgusting and perverted? I don’t because it’s only normal. So you need to be careful how you respond to his advances, which can either strengthen your relationship or destroy it!

Most ladies feel offended when their men say or act horny? Are you that woman that feels disgusted? Do you feel angry at how he “just sees you as an object?” If you feel any negative emotions against your man’s sexual advances, I have two things to tell you. First, if you and your man are still dating, and are not going steady yet, then it’s okay to feel disgusted and offended. And if he insists on having sex with you, even if you’ve told him you didn’t want to, then it’s best to just part ways with the horny little prick. But if you’re married or planning to get married soon, then please be careful! If you show any disgust or anger towards his sexual advances, he just might lose his love for you. No joke. This is serious stuff. And I’ll try to explain why.

All men need satisfying sex. You read that right — as perverted or primal as it sounds, all men need satisfying sex with the woman in their lives. And it’s a really, really big need. Trust me. Let me give you an idea of how strong his need for sex is. Think about your need for affection. When it comes to love and affection, your need for it is very strong. Right? His need for sex is just about that strong. Now here’s another question: What do you do when your man doesn’t give you the love and affection you need? You look for that love and affection elsewhere. Right? You meet your girlfriends. You go shopping. You chat online with complete strangers. Some women go to a male friend who’s sweeter, more caring, and more affectionate than their current partner. And as you might guess, a lot of affairs have stemmed from this! And it’s all because the man didn’t meet his wife’s need for love and affection. Here’s the bad news: When you don’t fulfill your partner’s need for sexual satisfaction, he does the same thing, he looks for it elsewhere! He turns to pictures of naked women on the Internet, watching porn, erotic literature. And some men turn to a female friend who’s more sympathetic. Have you ever lost the love of a man because you didn’t or wouldn’t meet his needs?

Now a simple way to affair-proof your relationship or marriage is showing your man a lot of affection. Let me say that again: Affairs start when a woman doesn’t receive the affection she needs from her husband, or when a man doesn’t receive the sexual satisfaction he needs from his wife. That’s why dismissing, criticizing, or feeling dismayed at his sexual appetite is dangerous. You instantly put your relationship at risk! The more you satisfy his need for good sex, the more he’ll give you the love and affection you need, which in turn makes you more open to satisfying his sexual needs and so on and so forth. What’s more, a man whose needs are met will also be able to give you the other things you desire from him — time, financial support, hours of intimate conversation, and so on. Here’s the lesson: The most effective way to affair-proof your relationship or marriage is to simply meet your partner’s needs. Now, some of my girlfriends have said to me that it’s not their fault, that if he showed more love and affection first, then they wouldn’t hesitate giving him the sex he needs!” If you feel that way, then I’ll tell you the same thing I said to my girlfriends: “You mean you’re too proud to make the first move? What’s more important, your pride, or a happy, loving, nurturing relationship with your man?”

Today, sadly, too many women choose their pride and then they blame their husbands for destroying their relationship. It’s pretty crazy. These women had the power to save their relationship, but wasted it. All because of a silly thing called “pride.” I hope you never make that mistake! The fact remains: If you want your man or husband to love you and only you, then you’ll have to find ways to satisfy his sexual needs no matter how “perverted” you may think they are. Why? Because when he realizes you can satisfy his sexual needs — every single one of them—- then he’d be crazy to look for his sexual satisfaction elsewhere!

Of course, sex isn’t a man’s only need. He has other important needs: Fun, respect, visual stimulation, a quiet and peaceful home, etc. And yes, these are needs that you’ll also want to meet or else your relationship will never be 100% affair-proof.

So, change your attitude today and give your man what he needs, that’s the only way he knows you cherish him and love him. Don’t give pride a chance to destroy your relationship.

To the happiness we all deserve, good luck in love and life. Cheers.

Lady Gbeborun