sam25enh Guest

Posted on 16-08-2012 at 11.51AM Wow.. hate is such a strong word :( Also talking about beating him makes me worry. You are obviously not coping very well and having another one right now would be a huge mistake. I am not trying to be mean but I am not going to sugar coat it either. You can not bring another child into your family when you are struggling so much with your toddler. We all have bad days but not to the extent where we hate them and feel like beating them. Now the juice thing could have been avoided. I personally did not allow my toddlers to drink on the furniture. They had to drink in the kitchen. I think you need to toddler proof your house a little more to make it easier on you. Please get some help.. talk to your HV or GP or perhaps your close family members. I found the toddler years tough, it isn't an easy stage but you can make it easier by toddler proofing. You say he is scribbling on things?? then why does he have pen/crayons when you aren't sitting with him watching him? Mine all did it once but then they were put high up and only came out when I could sit with them. Please please do not TTC right now until you are in a better place. Another baby will make things 100 times worse. Please also think about how you can make your life easier... by locking cupboards etc Also talking about beating him makes me worry.



You are obviously not coping very well and having another one right now would be a huge mistake. I am not trying to be mean but I am not going to sugar coat it either. You can not bring another child into your family when you are struggling so much with your toddler. We all have bad days but not to the extent where we hate them and feel like beating them.



Now the juice thing could have been avoided. I personally did not allow my toddlers to drink on the furniture. They had to drink in the kitchen. I think you need to toddler proof your house a little more to make it easier on you.



Please get some help.. talk to your HV or GP or perhaps your close family members. I found the toddler years tough, it isn't an easy stage but you can make it easier by toddler proofing. You say he is scribbling on things?? then why does he have pen/crayons when you aren't sitting with him watching him? Mine all did it once but then they were put high up and only came out when I could sit with them.



Please please do not TTC right now until you are in a better place. Another baby will make things 100 times worse.



Please also think about how you can make your life easier... by locking cupboards etc Wow.. hate is such a strong wordAlso talking about beating him makes me worry.You are obviously not coping very well and having another one right now would be a huge mistake. I am not trying to be mean but I am not going to sugar coat it either. You can not bring another child into your family when you are struggling so much with your toddler. We all have bad days but not to the extent where we hate them and feel like beating them.Now the juice thing could have been avoided. I personally did not allow my toddlers to drink on the furniture. They had to drink in the kitchen. I think you need to toddler proof your house a little more to make it easier on you.Please get some help.. talk to your HV or GP or perhaps your close family members. I found the toddler years tough, it isn't an easy stage but you can make it easier by toddler proofing. You say he is scribbling on things?? then why does he have pen/crayons when you aren't sitting with him watching him? Mine all did it once but then they were put high up and only came out when I could sit with them.Please please do not TTC right now until you are in a better place. Another baby will make things 100 times worse.Please also think about how you can make your life easier... by locking cupboards etc