Well, if we're going to be totally up front, Bill, we'll have to tell kids that sex outside marriage is also sometimes awesome. If I were a teacher, and had to "just be honest," I would have to tell kids that sex outside marriage  for me  has been fun, moving, steamy, spiritual and completely disease-free (also child-free!). I'd also have to tell kids that sometimes it's been boring, a blow to my ego and less good than masturbating.