FirstTimeMummyDS88 Thu 06-Jun-19 17:04:23

We have a horrendous relationship which is why I have no contact with her but now I feel like she's trying to wind me up to get me to kick off because then she knows me and my partner will fight. She texts my partner at least one a fortnight reminding him that there will always be a room for him at her house if he decides he's had enough of the fighting, the thing is SHE is the only thing we fight about.



We actually got on quite well until me and my partner moved in together after 18 months of being together, which is now 3 and a half years ago. It started slowly with her being annoyed when we viewed houses without inviting her along. She had the spare key for emergencies but would regularly let herself in which lead to a few embarrassing moments 🙈😂

One evening I came home from work to find her going through our bank statements



When we got engaged she made a guest list and a seating plan for the wedding without once consulting me, out of the 80 people on the list for the daytime I knew 35 and not once did she ask for a list of my friends or family



When I got pregnant with DS it became worse again, she works in the hospital and would change my appointments to suit herself (I know I could have reported this but didn't want to cause even more arguments) she signed me up for breastfeeding classes before I'd even decided if I wanted to breastfeed (my DS was premature and my milk hasn't come in when he was born so this choice was taken out of my hands anyway)

When my DS was born he spent a few weeks in neo natal as he was only 2lbs 9ozs due to a growth restriction and I had to have an emergency C-Section at 33 weeks, as I already said she works at the hospital and tried to get in to cuddle my son before I had even held him



I could go on and on