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We live in a society where being single means that you are the odd one out. Nowadays, kids as young as 10…even 7 years old are already starting to think about boyfriends and girlfriends. Like What?!?! When I was 7, all I wanted was toys, food, and sleep. End of story! … And no, I’m not from the ice ages! All I am here to say is that there is nothing wrong with being single… It is okay to be single.

Oh the good ‘ole days

I mean times have changed so much. Gone are the days when it was normal for a man to really prove his worth before asking for a serious relationship with a woman. Likewise, gone are the good ‘ole days when it was classy for a woman to expect to be wooed, charmed and treated like a queen. Sure, it may sound a little old school but it has its benefits. No matter how advanced humans become, there will always be a need for love and affection… and modern dating is mostly depriving us of that.Â Social and online dating apps have normalized the idea of “casual relationships.” Relationships nowadays are on a test-drive basis. More people are jumping into relationships for the sake of being in a relationship and not for the sake of love and affection.

Pressured to be in a relationship

Look, there is unsurmountable pressure especially for young persons to be in relationships. They are bombarded by images, videos, commercials, and movies of “the perfect couple.” I have yet to see a movie that lacks at least one scene depicting the perfect relationship… or one without a happy ending for a couple whose love life was in turmoil. It is no wonder then, that these young people, and some older ones too, are under the impression that being in a relationship is the norm and being single is odd. Unsurprisingly, they fall into the trap of wanting to be like everyone else and end up in relationships just for the sake of it.

Just to be clear, here are the things you need for survival…. Air, Water, Food, Shelter, and Clothing. You can survive without a relationship. Don’t force it. It should feel natural and in sync.

A relationship…or lack of it thereof… shouldn’t define you

Admit or deny it, there is some kind of stigma attached to being single. You’ll hear negative statements like, “She is so bossy, she can never keep a man.” or “He is so unattractive, he will never find a girlfriend!” NONSENSE!!! As if being in a relationship will change a person’s personality or appearance! Never! Here’s a truth you need to hold on to. A person who loves you will love you for who you are. And beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. One day, Mr. or Mrs. “The One” will come into your life and embrace the whole of you… flaws and all. Do not feelÂ defined by your relationship status. No, you are not a loser, or unlovable or a relationship repellent. You are you. Keep it that way. That is all that matters.Â

Yes. It is okay to be single

Being single and unattached should be one of the best times of your life. You get toÂ be selfish, treat yourself, be spontaneous. On some days, you can be lazy and on other days, you tackle the world head-on. As a gift to yourself, you get to learn about you, to appreciate your strengths and embrace your weaknesses, to love and pamper yourself. Oh, and the travels… you get to travel whenever, wherever, however and for whatever. You get to learn how to be independent, to be the boss of your feelings and emotions, to know what and how much you can and can’t take. You are accountable to and for no-one. Being single is great… and it is fun. It is okay to be single.

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