Post by ladislav » November 28th, 2012, 7:03 pm

Winston and I noticed something simultaneously - Filipinos act Buddhist. I actually thought they were more Hindu-like. So, I have written my observations about this phenomenon not mentioned in travel brochures. It is not even realized by Filipinos themselves.



When a Western foreigner reads about the Philippines, the first things that he will encounter in most books will make him feel like he is becoming acquainted with a brotherly culture - it is a Christian country, the people speak English, and they have Spanish last names. It would be an easy fit if I went there to live, he thinks. When he arrives in the country, again he might smugly say to himself, "Hey this looks easy". All the signs are in English, the newspapers are all in English, people wear Western clothes -T-shirts with huge letters "USA" on them, and maps of the United States predominating. Everyone is happy to see him. The only thing that looks different is the physical aspect of the people- most of them look Malay or S.E. Asian - same as Thais or Cambodians or Burmese. But no sweat - they are Western on the inside, Christians. "I'll have a great time here, and I won't need to adjust." Or so he thinks.



So, unlike when going to live in Japan, where one expects people to be different and be exotic and Eastern, Filipinos seem easy to understand and the country seems cool to live in. "Hey, these are just brown Americans- every time I go to a night club, they sing all these American oldies!" No place in Asia seems more like home than this country. Or so you think.



However, after one starts living there, sooner or later, one becomes aware of the deep cultural undercurrent that is not obvious at first glance, but which really is the Philippines. It is like a giant river that flows under the ice and all you see is ice while missing the river. Or, it is as if you are attending a costume party with people dressed in all these Western outfits but, underneath them, a subterranean reality resides. Soon, you will see that, while they were not deceiving you on purpose, the true and profound soul of the Filipino, which is as deep as the Mariana Trench nearby, is as even more inscrutable and unpredictable than that of the Japanese.



The reason for the inscrutability is precisely that- it is implied and unseen by naked eye. The actuality is that a Filipino is really a Hindu Malay more than anything else. And the most shocking thing of all is that Filipinos themselves are not aware of that fact. It took me two decades of being around these pseudo-understandable people to finally figure that out.



One needs to understand that when one lives in the Philippines, one is located not even in Asia, but on the Malay Archipelago. The people are mostly ethnically Malay. And before the advent of Christianity and Islam, Malays had been Hindus (and Buddhist) for a very long time. The same can be said about Indonesia- while on surface the country is Muslim and follows Muslim teachings, the daily interactions, the life philosophy, the attitude towards things and people is profoundly and truly Hindu. Just like in Bali, where it is explicitly Hindu. Once you look underneath the new religions which these people have had for only a few hundred years, you will see the true nature of these islands.



The Hindu-Buddhist kingdoms of Luzon such as Tondo may be gone physically, but their legacy lives on and it can only be "felt by one's soul" but not easily seen.



Tolerance and acceptance of different points of view: Christians, at least countries where Christianity has been for a long time, such as in Europe, are by nature very polar- things are either good or bad, right or wrong. Majority opinion rules. Judgementalism predominates. The same can be said about many Muslims. Not so with Filipinos. A Filipino does not readily decide whether someone is good or bad, but offers all people an attitude of tolerance. He is just as tolerant about other religions. A Filipino will buy a statue of a Buddha and put it in his house. Many Filipinos naturally believe in karma and reincarnation. A true Christian will not believe that. This is more of a Hindu attitude - that of acceptance and forbearance. And of open-mindedness. Majority opinion does not rule but compromises do. People adjust to each other and do not force others to be like them.



Emotional balance and even-mindedness: When I was living in Pampanga last year, I heard that one tricycle driver whose services I often used had died in a trike accident. He was only 30 years old and left a pregnant young wife and was survived by his parents and siblings. I went to the chapel to pay my last respects and was expecting to see people tearing hair on their heads and wailing and beating their chests in angst. Instead, I saw something that amazed me very much - all the people there were sitting in a state of utter tranquility, the wife had shed a few tears, but they had dried up very quickly and she and the mother were just seated in a most serene condition of mind with an expression of calm acceptance and no obvious vibe of grief coming from them. Was it fatalism? One can say that, but it was more than that. It was as if they understood that death was something normal and could happen any day to anyone and they looked beyond it. And even though I saw Jesus on a cross in that chapel, I could not help feeling that I was really inside of an ashram or a Hindu/Buddhist temple.



In India in the old times, people could come and settle in and become Indians. It was an open society devoid of nationalism and intolerance. It was only when it came in contact with Western religions that Hindu nationalism arose. The Malay race in the Philippines must have also developed its own version of Hinduism whereby they would absorb others easily, too, and take them into their fold regardless of who they were. They were largely peaceful and they liked to get along with each other and outsiders. People from many lands, even Greeks and Arabs and anyone else would be naturally absorbed into their society. Because they had no national or religious intolerance, they easily accepted other creeds and other populations, and that was also the reason why they were so easy to colonize - peaceful passivity and conflict avoidance in their dealings with others were the reason why so many aggressive conquerors succeeded in occupying the islands - or so they thought. Eventually, they too would be absorbed by the "Malay sea". Foreign influences would become grafted upon the Malay core and stay there as decorations rather than new essences and did change the Filipino's mind in its depth.



A meditative "force field" envelops the country: If you are a spiritual person, when you go to different countries, you pick up on the "vibe" of that country. So, when you arrive in the Philippines, you will also be able to pick up on the vibe that hovers over it and penetrates everything around it. But it is more than a vibe. It is like a cord that hangs in the air and sounds continuously. It is a major sound and its sound is so fine and subtle that it takes time to hear it but when you do, it will be pleasantly deafening. Every person who is in the country will drown in it and will fall under its spell. It is a cord of intense meaning which cannot be described in words. It basically stands for - union with all others, union with happiness of being alive, union with joy of being in company of others, in society, union in friendship and union in love. When you feel - I cannot even say hear - that cord and let it go inside of you, you will realize that it is a cord of supreme spirituality and happiness. This is why the Filipinos are such happy people.



This is especially obvious when you look into the eyes of children in the country. They are wide open, the expression is not self-absorbed, they are constantly taking in information; they seem to be filled with wonder and joy of simply being alive. You can see in them peace and friendship with other children, respect towards adults and in tune with life. At the same time, they are full of strange calmness that is very deep and spiritual. Sometimes, when you look at them, you can see the origins of the nation- how it came to the islands in boats, under a warm sun, and how they had obviously enjoyed the journey.



Just like in India, many ethnic groups live in peace and speak many different languages, but unlike in Europe, they do not attack each other, but coexist and mingle with an easygoing attitude towards one another.



Mental illness and suicides are rare, families and friendship are strong and, in many ways, one can see great excellence in the structure of the social fabric of the country and it all seems to be coming from the ever reverberating cord - an "Om" of sorts hanging above the land and echoing evenly and steadily day and night.



When witnessing people in traffic, stuck on buses for hours while going to work, one does not see frustrated faces or impatience nor hears complaints. They display composed countenances with eyes as clear and pacific as if they were meditating in a temple â€“ only someone with the fortitude of a yogi or an Eastern monk would display such qualities.



The demeanor and gracefulness of an average person, the smooth manners, the quiet voice, the harmony and politeness are neither Spanish nor American. The closest I can think of is probably Burmese and Sri Lankan. Or Balinese.



Seeing Filipinos sick in hospitals is a strange sight- they look calm and their faces do not show much suffering. The same can be said about them working hard jobs at Jollibee or in department stores or factories. They do not complain, do not show pain or anguish and, what is more interesting, they do not seem to hurt because their stoicism is of a happy kind of, not that of bearing great pain, but of being strong, patient and enduring.



Are such traits good? That is a matter of opinion. If there is an evil person who tries to oppress others, such a person is tolerated for a long time before measures are taken to control him. If there is a criminal doing something bad, you often see a guard who looks happy and who does not immediately take action to stop the evil-doer. Forgiveness, kindness and a mild state of bliss are pleasant to observe, but what if there is someone who is wicked and wants to harm others? Such a person is not instantaneously rebuked. People also do not complain if they are given food that is not tasty, or if they receive service that is not up to par. They look upon it philosophically with acceptance of the status quo. And that is very Hindu.



The non-violent, non-confrontational nature of an average Filipino and his relative lack of experience in conflicts, physical fights and verbal altercations sometimes lead to situations when, if he is really wound up, he acts without thinking about consequences which may befall himself and others. It is because he has not experienced too many effects of conflicts in the past. So, if there is crime of passion or that resulting from anger, the anger and passion go completely uncontrolled. Woe is to him who, thinking a local to be harmless, tempts him to aggression because the result will be extremely ugly for both parties. One person may end up dead and the other- in prison for life. Un-emotionalism can paradoxically give rise to uncontrolled emotions when these do rise to the surface, and common sense gets thrown to the wind.



The same can be said about morality- there are no clear concepts of right and wrong- it is all situational. Philosophically, one can admire such a point of view, but what if some people decide to be dishonest and cheat and deceive others? Such bad individuals may sometimes not have any pangs of conscience at all because they may not clearly think themselves wrong. This is why the Philippine society is slow in stopping deception and dishonesty. They are just too tolerant and too forgiving. They also forget easily, which is not a quality of traditional Christian or Muslim nations.



Thus, in spite of the very much into-your-face Western facade, you have a country that is about as Eastern as Burma or India with a loud "Om-like" infra- sound that permeates its entire being.



You can live in the Philippines for a long time and think that you understand it. But you don't. Words can only describe it partially, and appearances of Westernization are onion- skinned as they like to say. The attractiveness of the country is not in the beaches, the climate or even the pretty women you see everywhere. It is in the hidden "Om-ish" force-field that permeates this land, a force- field that will permeate you, too. Sit calmly and observe the people. Listen in, and you will hear it. Sense it with your soul and you will feel it.

Last edited by ladislav on November 28th, 2012, 9:25 pm, edited 1 time in total.

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