



Did it work out? What are some not-obvious positives and negatives? Did it meet your expectations? Would you recommend it? How did you manage things like taxes, wills, insurance, health concerns, joint finances, schedules, priorities? Did you feel "really married"? Was it ultimately good or bad for your relationship? What do you wish you'd known before not moving in together?



But feel free to just sound off about what you think is most important.

Talk to me about being married, but choosing to live apart. It sounds... awesome, for so many reasons. And I have heard that people do this. But I don't know any real people who have done it. If you or someone you know has this type of relationship, i'd like to know more about your experience. Examples of the type of stuff I want to know is: