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Is your sex life good or bad?



















Is your sex life good or bad? If it's either one, it's not good enough because it's not great. Do you want to improve your sex life? Take the necessary steps to become great at it now.

If you are happy, know all you need to know about sex and have no problems in the bedroom, thats great! Stop reading and refer somebody that may need help. If you are confused, unhappy, or curious then this is for you.









You've been having sex with your partner long enough to the point you feel pretty confident that you know what you're doing however you still have a lack of interest for some reason. Sex is just another pass time you do together. It's equivalent to going to dinner or watching a movie which is OK because there is sexual communication there. But its not great. Its a routine. And while you learn to live life in this manner, you know deep down inside you want more and your partner most likely but quietly also wants more. You know there are ways to create the best sex between you and your partner but your not sure what it is, where to start or what to do.









So what can you do? You know you can ask her what would she want to be done differently so she could enjoy it more but that process plays on your pride because you want to be able to discover it on your own or you may feel she's not going to tell you because she hasn't mentioned it already? However, the trick is to try new things, show that you want to learn new things to do with her and get her involved in the process. You want her reaction so it confirms if your doing things she likes and desires. Also do not make it too big of a deal. You want it to go as smooth as possible. If it becomes too big of a deal, then there is too much pressure on both of you which can make for a bad/worse situation.







Here are a few tips you can try:





Eliminate a set routine:

If you and your partner have been sleeping together for a while, the same routine can make sex extremely stale. Spice it up a little and try different times of the day, different positions, unusual locations, and new techniques. If these things are done spontaneously, it really adds to the enjoyment. Unusual locations can really create an adrenaline rush if you get my drift(public places- don't get arrested).



Look for outside help:

Once you become more open-minded to learning new things, your eyes open up and you will see all the tips and tricks that are out and available to you. It will blow your mind, realizing how much you do not know about sex .



Become more involved in the action:lying there like a sack of potatoes, that will not work. Men are going to have an orgasm regardless but the woman orgasm requires some effort and you need to make sure

Take charge. The biggest mistake men make is not realizing you need to make sure her needs are met no matter what and first. That will not happen if your not active and letting her do all the work. If your it happens. Now you may be saying to yourself that is unfair and you shouldn't have to do all the work but remember, the more and more she enjoys herself and have a great time, the more excited you will be and the more she will be into it and want to please you even more.



The mind is extremely important:

For guys, sex is physical for the most part. However, for women thats not the case. Of course it's physical to a degree but its the mind that gets her going, continues it and ends it for women. Have you ever seen a man that you thought was just out right non attractive and a woman that was too beautiful for her own good and you say, "how did that happen?" Well it's because he simulated the mind. For a woman there is no greater turn on than being desired and adored. Show how much you care about her at all times and you'll be amazed how much that pays off for you. She will want to have sex much more often, become enthusiastic about it and go the extra mile to make sure your extra extra happy.



Being committed to improving your sex life between you and your partner is going to create togetherness and hopefully provide you with the best sexual times of your life and that way you do not have to ask yourself, "Is your sex life good or bad?"







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