I am so fucking sick of people saying things like, “Tumblr is such a hateful place” “Tumblr is so judgmental” “why are people on tumblr always so terrible.”

Like, NO. People getting angry and reacting in an angry fashion because their experiences and lives have ONCE AGAIN been invalidated is not “a cycle of hate”. People of privilege actually having to deal with these angry messages as a consequence of their is not a sign of how horrible tumblr is.

Ok, so you apologized. That’s nice. Now maybe if you could stop whining about how horrible and meeeeeeeeaaaaaaan all those evil, judgmental sjws are I might actually believe you.

Because guess what–those angry messages you got? That’s minor fucking inconvenience for you. As a person of privilege you are in no way actually threatened by these. But that post you made? That is yet another micro-aggression in a FUCKING MOUNTAIN on aggressions and micro-aggressions and invalidations of their lives which they have to deal EVERY. SINGLE. FUCKING. DAY.

These are things which make people’s lives a living fucking hell. Which cause intense stress, pain, and mental anguish and have a massive effect on people’s mental and physical health in addition to any of their immediately harmful effects.

As a person of privilege, you do not have to deal with this. You don’t have that constant build of of stress for no reason except who you are. You can brush off, EASILY brush off, any mean things said to you. Because they don’t have the power to enact violence against you, and ultimately you can move on and forget about it. Which is something that marginalized people can’t do, because for them this shit literally never. fucking. stops.

So you will have to forgive me if I don’t give a shit that someone was mean to you because of an asshole post you made.