Sociopath And Privacy

Sociopath’s and Narcissist are experts at hiding their true identities. And because they are in a constant state of perpetual motion of keeping the ‘supply source’ going, they take advantage of every available avenue.

Some of these people will have online dating sites, other’s become involved with one (or more) people at work, still other’s can be out in any type of social setting to meet their next victim. And there are other’s that use social media, ie: Facebook, SnapChat etc. The supply source is endless for people with Antisocial Personality Disorder’s.

Since a sociopath will have one or more of the above, there is a great need for privacy. So as to make sure we do not suspect, that they do in fact have one or more victim’s, they will go to great length’s to keep us in the dark. They will change their password’s constantly. Their cell phone will be like an extension permanently attached to their hand. They will be so convincing in their lies about who was on the phone (*note, they seem to have a lot of ‘nobody’s’ that call 🙂 LOL.) Some have their bank cards replaced {as theirs is unusually compromised, frequently!!} They will rarely, if ever, leave their wallets far from their side. Once you figure out how extremely private the Sociopath is with his/her life, and you start to ask questions, they will try and instill paranoia in you.



This paranoia is done on a multi-level fashion. It may start out if you asked ‘I saw an email from a dating site’, their response could be: “oh, that wasn’t for me, it must have been sent by mistake. Or, “Don’t be silly, you know I don’t go on those sites”. Then if you question further the next level of paranoia is directed at you:

accusing you of being deceiving and/or lying

of being deceiving and/or lying lying directly to you, and when you question that lie, they then turn it around to ‘why are you questioning ME’, acting the victim then.

telling you ‘all his friends and family’ think your crazy

crazy making cutting remarks about ‘YOUR’ paranoia.

they will make you feel like ‘everyone’ is on his side

they will blame an open web page on a friend and ask ‘why are you accusing me’? When in all reality you probably just asked and not accused.

Once the Sociopath thinks he has set the paranoia in you, they then carry on with their outside supply source. Since they are aware that you might be on to them, they will go to even greater lengths to be private. The cell phone now may be on silent all the time , if they have a laptop, chances are it won’t be brought into the home anymore. They will be even more vague about their whereabouts, and if asked, once again that will be turned around on you as if YOU have something to hide. Remember, their privacy is of utmost importance to them, as Sociopath’s fear being exposed.

While you may want to question them over and over about the above, chances are, you will never get a direct and honest answer. I equate this to being one step ahead of the Sociopath. Do your homework! If you find him on a dating site, print the information and confront ask him directly! He will however, most likely deny it is him. Or give you a litany of lies excuses as to why he is on there. The best way to deal with Sociopath’s and Privacy is to realize, you will never be privy to their other supply source. You have already established he is a liar. And by digging more, it will end up making you fall further into their spinning world of bullshit.



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