What Does a Ruined Orgasm Do for Him?

When a man’s orgasm is ruined, fluid (semen) is released from his prostate gland as usual, but he does not experience the muscle contractions that cause the semen to “spurt” during a full orgasm.

As a result, his brain does not release any of the hormones associated with the post-orgasmic “afterglow,” such as prolactin and oxytocin. Dopamine levels remain elevated throughout his body. Instead of feeling sluggish and relaxed, he remains aroused and frustrated.

(For a more in-depth look at how chastity affects the dopamine and prolactin levels in the male body, check out our comprehensive male chastity guide here.)

For him, a ruined orgasm can be an extremely frustrating experience, especially if he has been caged for a long period of time and waiting desperately for release.

Some men enjoy ruined orgasms, feeling that they intensify the teasing and denial elements of an enforced chastity relationships. Others dislike them, and would do anything in their power to earn a full orgasm rather than a ruined one.

Keyholders, take some time to learn how your caged man feels about being ruined to find the best way to work them into your chastity dynamic. Are they a reward? A punishment? A bit of both? Something to surprise him with so he doesn’t become complacent always getting to orgasm when you promise him he will?

Experiment and find out what works for you!