Don't Let Them Manipulate You















It is not too late to stand for yourself. You may have been used so much by the person you believe he or she loves you. It is so hard to see the real picture of the person you hold on to. I’m saying this because I see most of the people get to be used up, and they can no longer stand for themselves and claim what is theirs. They believe that by objecting these people they will miss what is worth for them.



















I know it may be hard to see if someone is using you to fulfil his or her own desires. We tend to make things look so okay with us. We tend to make things look perfect with the people we think are in love with us. If you love someone take your stand and know your limitations. Don’t push so hard thinking you are doing the best for yourself.



















When someone realizes that you are so much into him or her, he or she will try to take the advantage of you. I have seen this happening in real life situation, whereby someone gets so much obsessed with someone thinking it’s true love. When someone knows that you are into him or her that much, he or she will never bother doing anything that is of his own advantage.













Let me give you a short history of what happened sometimes back. I remember I saw someone, a lady, who was very much gorgeous. She looked so amazing. I never talked to her the first day I saw her. We used to pass each other and nothing we would dare to do. Not even greetings of God’s sake. She always saw me alone most of the time.



















Most of my friends who I used to live with recognized me so talkative and social to anyone I come across. I remember some saying that I’m a go getter. It’s true I won’t delay going for anything that I see has benefit to me or its worth to be followed. She was so awesome. A girl who would take attention of most of the people around.













One day I wake up on my right hand. I felt to disturb anyone, to talk with anyone, as I was using my own usual route to stretch my legs. I came across her. I said hi to her and I asked for her number. I saw this as an opportunity because she was never walking alone. I have always been seeing her with a guy and number of girls. They walked together holding hands, touching. I said to myself, “Damn they are amazing couples,”



















This made me it hard before for me to walk close to her. Not only walking close to her but also to say hi. She gave me her number and I thought it was a good start for me to say hi through some calls and texts. The first day our conversation was so lit. I think that is how these relationships are at the first times. The first thing I asked her was about the guy who she has been walking with. She told me that the boy was nothing to him but just a friend. I looked at this as an amazing chance for me to get started with her. We knew so much about each other.



















The first text I sent to her was asking her if I'm lucky. She told me I'm a lucky man because she also had a crush me and that it have been like a blessing me greeting her the first time.





The next day we met again she took me to her home. She stayed with her ‘sister’. It was a warm welcome that day. She prepared for me tea as any other girl would do in a cold environment. We drank tea together and bread smeared with blue band. I felt so much welcome and free. I tried to accord my code of behaviours though I was so hungry.



















We watched some film together. I felt so calm as she laid her hand on my shoulders as we walked. She made me feel so different though I had never said anything about love or relationship. I remember we were watching a film with a title ‘A Little One’









As we looked at each other smiling of the comedy we saw in the film. We just caught ourselves off guard kissing, a warm and a deep kiss that I had yearned for in so many months. I couldn’t stand it and it and I got myself caressing her all over her body.



















I felt like the girl already had a crush with me. I was so much happy at such a moment. I knew I already someone dope to lean myself on in this lonely world. She told me she was about to leave. She said that she had some things to handle at town. I had no alternative than to let her go.





We separated. I went home so happy and hopeful. I never felt the world so fair that day. I got a reason to smile again after a long period of loneliness. No one ever saw me as a lonely boy. I never looked so desperate. I talked and interacted with everyone. This is a trait that you should dress up yourself with. Don't let people realize your weakness. Put a smile on your face. I believe the world has no market of advertising your emotions.



















The first days were so amazing. We meet several times and kissed again and over again. I later decided to confess and told her the truth of what I felt about her. She admitted that she was also in love with me. So it was so astonishing. We pushed it together.





After sometimes things started to turn a part. She changed so much. She used to text me frequently; she was always there for me. This time it was very different. I remember I used to call her and inform her that I would be going at her home so that she avails herself for me, but whenever I went to see her, her door was always locked up for several times that kept on happening.



















I continued to push harder and never gave upon her. I knew we had started something great together and I never wanted to break it up. I was so much loyal to her. I decided that I would never do anything stupid to annoy her or hurt her. I had decided to offer my heart for her. I was all hers!





It went on such a way in some weeks. I later came up with a conclusion. If she does not bother or cares for my existence then I will also have to keep myself respect intact. I will never hurt myself again for someone who does not give a damn thing about me. I decided to let her go, no matter how much she had caught my heart up.



















Before I let her out of my brain and heart, I tried several times to call her, text her and even meet her so that we can talk about this issue, but she always had a reason to walk away from me. Many thoughts crossed my mind. The thought of her using me, the thought of her dating someone else apart from me and the thought of her having found out that I was not enough for her started creeping in my heart and the peace of me loving her faded.



















I thought critically on this matter and later knew that she was just using me for the moment we had together with her. She wanted to get she wanted and so there was no need for me to occupy her. I surrendered and moved on with my life, it is because my life was also lit before I met her. That is why I say it is not too late for you to stand for yourself. Don’t let anyone use you his or her own advantage.















If someone wants to walk away from your life then don’t bother to hold them up, after all you had a life before he or she came into your life.











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