Courtney555 Fri 02-Aug-19 11:00:51

The stick as a willy thing, is fine. Boys have different levels of maturity. My DS at 11 still goes into fits of laughter over poo, bum, willy, as do many of his friends. He put a sock over his in PE changing rooms and thrust it about claiming to be an elephant. The other boys found it hilarious and followed suit. Teachers weren't impressed lol. I'm not fussed about that. He's just immature.



What he wouldn't do, is smack girls on the bum. That's not something I've heard of before. Was it a one off, and what was the context? An accidental whack that coincidentally landed on the bum as she ran past (not that he should whack anywhere but you know what I mean) is very different to some kind of Sid James/Barbara Windsor slap on the bum.



I'd reiterate to the girls, stay clear. And the boy needs it making clear by the leaders that you don't smack anyone, anywhere. Until you know more about the context, you can't really take it further in that context.