You may be reading this working a dead end job, living with your parents, or lack the motivation to improve your current situation. If you were to get into a serious relationship, it would be doomed from the start. No matter how much you love a woman, you should not get serious with her if your life is in shambles or you have certain shortcomings that can compromise your relationship down the line.

“If she loves you, she’s gonna accept you for who you are”

It’s your job to get respect from your woman first, not love. In all relationships, you want to be respected before being liked. This means you have to be worthy of respect. I’m talking about more than just human decency. I’m talking about her following your lead and trusting your judgement. I’m talking when you speak, and she disagrees with you, she will respectfully voice her opinion. She won’t talk bad about you behind your back to other people, bringing your business to “outsiders”.

When A Man Has His Shit Together, It’s Easier To Keep His Woman In Line

Women don’t like hearing that they needs to be kept in line, but they want a man who can keep them in line. So in other words, emotionally, it sounds harsh to a lot of women, especially the crowd that says, “I’m a strong, independent woman”, but deep down inside, they know that in order for her to respect her man, he has to be able to keep her in line.

Now you may be thinking, “how do you keep a woman in line?” First and foremost, she has to respect you. This means when she gives you sass and backtalk, you nip that shit in the bud. You have to condition her how you want to be treated. Some women do it to test you, others do it because they’re contrarians. Never allow a woman to disrespect you because she will see you as a man who is not worthy of her… even if you have assets worth billions. If you’re a man who establishes respect as his foundation for a healthy relationship, you could be the man who shovels shit in a zoo, if a woman wants to be with you or interact with you, she MUST respect you.

One of the best ways to establish respect is leading by example. If you want your wife to maintain a sexy body, you have to maintain yours. When a woman is with a man who looks like he’s chiseled out of granite, and she’s out of shape, she knows that she is signing her own death warrant because hotter women will flirt and throw themselves at her man. To avoid this from happening, she needs to make sure her body is maintained the way her man likes it.

Something else women need to be kept in line with is flirting and trying to get attention from other men.

“My girlfriend is very flirtatious. That’s her personality”

Flirting is a sign that you’re interested in a specific person or you’re trying to get attention. When a woman flirts with other men, this shows other men that her relationship ain’t worth shit. Even if your woman is not attractive, other men will at least try to get their dick sucked by an unattractive woman who is flirting with them. To avoid this from happening, you need to let her know that you don’t tolerate being in a relationship with a woman who flirts with other men. Don’t say this like you’re trying to control her, say it like it’s part of your relationship standard. If she likes you, and understands that those are your terms, she will stop that flirtatious behavior with other men.

Being In A Serious Relationship Requires A Mentally And Emotionally Strong Man

I emphasize a lot the importance of having a strong, masculine physique. However, there are men who look like Spartan warriors, but are mentally and emotionally weak. Yes, fitness helps you develop mental and emotional strength. You have to be mentally strong in order to stay consistent with your workout. You need to be emotionally strong because you will not always feel like working out and eating a certain way. When it comes to a serious relationship, working out is pretty easy.

Life is a ruthless bitch sometimes. It will send things your way that will test you. This is why a lot of older men are attractive to younger women because older men have wisdom and life experience and they know how to handle things a lot better than the younger men. However, if you want to be this type of man as you get older, you need to build up your mental and emotional strength.

If you have money problems, and you’re in a serious relationship, not only will the money problems fuck with you mentally and emotionally, but your woman will not be in the best of moods. This is when a lot of arguments come about, a lot of belittling, and other things you don’t need while you’re trying to get your shit together. This is why I suggest not getting into a serious relationship until your money is right. If you’re with a woman, she needs to contribute to the solution and not add to the problem. There are women who will do this, and these women get wifed up very quickly because the both of you have been through a rough journey. Then there are women who don’t want to see the struggle, they just want to see the finished product.

Don’t be afraid of adversity. Treat it as “Shoalin monk training”. If you have fucked up finances, start working on your finances. Learn how to manage your money, learn how to invest to grow your money over your lifetime, and learn how to build your credit so you can have access to more capital. The average man lives paycheck to paycheck. If he loses his job, what is he gonna do for money. If you create a side hustle or start a business, and it starts bringing in profits, you will never have to rely on a job ever again. When a man’s money is right, and he doesn’t have to worry about his bills and entertainment for months at a time, his confidence is on a whole other level. When he’s in a relationship, and money is not the main problem, problems get dealt with a lot more easy. Sometimes money can solve a lot of those problems, like things being fixed, upgrading a lifestyle, etc.

Being that money trains your mental and emotional strength, it’s a good form of adversity to train with. Try learning new skills where you don’t have to rely on a job. For example, I write blog posts about how to help men succeed with women. These are things I’ve learned over my lifetime, and I can add more to any new experiences I have. I get people to join an email list to help them even further. Having the power to help a mass audience is very lucrative, but requires a lot of patience because traffic, email opt-ins, and a customer base takes time to build. Once you do build that audience that loves your work because you have changed their lives, they’ll pay top dollar for a product you haven’t even created yet. With this power, you have to never let them lose that trust in you. So it’s your job to continue to give them nothing but the best. You may not want to have an online business, but the more you hone your skills, the easier it is to make money independent from your “9-5”.

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