"It's not an easy job to volunteer coach for a youth sport," Phelan explained. "You don't get paid for it, the hours are terrible, and you spend a lot of time sitting on uncomfortable bleachers throughout an entire event. If you're in your early 20s and you're blowing your entire weekend coaching little kids instead of being out with other 20-year-olds for the weekend? It says a lot about the character of the kid."