DDLG – what does this even stand for? Daddy Dom and Little Girl roleplay seems to be a growing thing. Whether it’s due to a surge in BDSM or more popularity in age gap relationships, we thought we’d explore and give you the full scope.

Since not many people know about these terms, we decided to help you out and write more about them. After this article, you’ll be the one teaching others about things such as BDSM, Daddy Dom, Little Girl and of course DDLG.

Daddy Dom

Daddy Dom refers to a dominant male partner who acts in a ‘daddy’ role. While this lends itself to age play and age gap arrangements, the ‘daddy’ aspect isn’t always age related. The ‘daddy’ role might imply a more caring, alpha male character who looks after the needs of his ‘little girl.’

‘Daddy Dom’ might appeal to you if you’re a more dominant or paternal person. Particularly if you enjoy the idea of having a ‘little girl’ to look after with pampering, discipline and fun times.

Little Girl

These roles are usually taken by submissive women who want to be nurtured by their ‘daddy.’ Seeking a leader to organise their relationship, direct their sexual encounters and generally dominate them in a more caring way is common. They might act in a bratty manner when seeking punishment or may act well and simply want to be a ‘princess’ type.

Sometimes the role becomes more child like, in its’ extreme form the dynamic can lend itself to a woman dressing in childish clothing or behaving as a child rather than just being submissive.

BDSM

BDSM is known as standing for Bondage, Dominance, Sado Masochism. But what exactly is it? Some might think that 50 Shades of Grey gives you the full picture but you’re forgiven. BDSM is such a wide ranging topic which we are simply finding out more about as the scene is more public. Whether you like to be tied up, choked, punished, inflict pain or receive it – BDSM is an umbrella term for a much bigger topic. DDLG features as just one aspect within this world of wicked fun!

Dominance & Submission

In BDSM, dominance and submission play key features in the lifestyle. If you like to lead a relationship or just a sexual scene, the dominant alpha role is preferable. Men who take on the role of a dominant are known as Masters or a Daddy. Women who are dominant are referred to as a Dominatrix, Goddess or Mummy figure.

Domination varies from being a mild leadership role to acting in a parental fashion, performing discipline or inflicting torture within sadomasochism. While dominants are often male, there is a growing desire for there to be more female dommes within the BDSM scene. Subs can seek the services of a professional Dom, with dungeon parties and BDSM clubs becoming more widespread.

The submissive side of the scene however is not always exclusively female. Both men and women sometimes choose to act in an obedient, subservient manner. Whether this is taking on a more child like behaviour in becoming a ‘Little’ or acting even as an adult baby or simply being submissive. Those who are childish but misbehave are brats while others who are obedient are baby girls.

Those who act as servants may be known as slaves or cuckolds. Slaves perform for their Master/Owner as a sexual playmate and receive pleasure themselves. This differs from a cuckold who wants to be punished or perform favours but not receive any sexual satisfaction themselves.

People can switch between roles although most have a defined preference to match their personality type.

If you want to get involved with the DDLG scene, there are many websites available to make connections. Such as Fetlife.com