Let me guess, you’re reading this article ’cause you’ve seen other guys walking up to just any girl, impressing her immediately and you want to know how to do it too.

If my guess is right, then you’re eyes are in good hands.

First off, let’s just say you want to meet girls at the bar for casual fun or for a relationship. Before leaving the house there are some things you gotta do first.

Clean Up Nice

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I don’t think there’s any girl out there that would love to mingle a shabby looking dude so please for your sake, take a shower, shave or make your beards look neat if you keep em. Wear a cologne that smells so nice ’cause you know what they say, it’s the key to getting attracted by women.

Put On The Right Clothes

You don’t have to look expensive but presentable. So ditch the baggy jeans and cargo shorts along with parachute shirts. This is 2020, please wear clothes that fit.

Now you’re at the bar, you’ve found the one you’re interested in. follow these steps.

Approach Her

As you draw closer to her, smile and make eye contact with her so she’d know that you intend to talk to her. Introduce yourself with a nice pickup line.

Be Confident

Speak and look confident. Make sure she sees that ’cause if there’s anything that’s sexy, it’s confidence and girls love confident men.

Make Eye Contact

Throughout the conversation, look her in the eye but not too much so you don’t come off as creepy.

Don’t start at her breasts no matter how tempting it is else you’d be the pervert that got a drink spilled on him.

Compliment Her

We girls love compliments. Give her compliments on her smile, hair, clothes, shoes or anything you’ve noticed about her.

Don’t Be Boring

You could start by asking how she’s doing then proceed to ask what for she does living, her hobbies, worst or best life experiences, the type of music or movies she’s into. Avoid asking questions about her political views or religious views. Trust me, the last thing you want is to get you or her upset.

Be Yourself

Don’t pretend to be someone you’re not ’cause nothing hides under the sun forever. Be honest about everything so she’d be comfortable around you.

Be A Good Listener

Try your best to listen to everything she has to say so could you pick one or two things and ask about it, this keeps the conversation going and it also shows your interest in her.

Pay Attention To Her Non Verbal cues

The one thing that we girls use to communicate is our body language and you don’t need to be an expert to understand it. This will help you to know if she’s really into the conversation or not.

If she isn’t into it just leave and find someone else and if she is, leave while the conversation is still fun don’t wait till it gets awkward before leaving. You could get her number or if you’re lucky enough she may give it to you without you asking for it.

Thanks for reading.

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