When you do something the general society considers controversial, you're gonna run into way too many fucktards along the way. Especially if you earn money by doing it. Let's focus on the hardships of working in a sex industry, shall we? This post is focused specifically on porn consumers and similar people.

Friendly warning: I was inspired to write this post after a few particular frustrating and annoying experiences so I apologise for making it obvious that I'm fucking pissed off.

Regardless of what kind of sex work you do, wether you do cam shows, escorting or whatever, as fucked up as it is, you just have to accept that you're gonna run into at least some of these situations. Non-sex workers don't have to understand this but doing any of these things makes you an ignorant disrespectful prick.

1. Asking for free content or services.

Are you fucking kidding me? You deliberately go to a sex worker's profile or website where the first thing you see is that they are a sex worker and that they work in this industry, meaning that this is a job. You clearly see and are fully aware that they charge for their content/items/services yet you still think you're special and, even though they have no idea who you are, they will make an exception for you and give you free stuff. Yeah, no. Honey has to pay for food, bills and a bunch of other stuff, just like you do. Full-time, part time or whatever, a job is a job. Would you go to work and do your 8 hour shift without getting paid? Would you make an exception for your boss because he told you you're beautiful? Would you ignore your bills and work for free?

2. You watch and enjoy porn but have zero respect for any kind of sex workers.

Ah, the classic. You go to one of the tube sites full of pirated content, find what you like, play the video, whip your dick out and jerk off. When you're done, you put your dick back in your pants and go around the internet commenting on sex worker's posts how they're pathetic and should get a "real job". Is there a better example of a hypocrite? How the fuck can your brain allow you to do that? Do you really not see that this makes you a total jackass?

3. Faking payments.

We've seen way too many examples of these. You ain't getting shit before our earnings are fully in our account and no longer in your control. I get it, you want a free service. You want to cum and that's the only thing you're interested in. Guess what, hun. Your hand is completely free. If you don't want to pay for our services, you can still take your dick out and jerk off without contacting us. That's free, we aren't. Your hand doesn't need to eat and pay bills, we do.

4. Dick pics.

No. Stop. We didn't give you permission to send us that and most of us will refuse to sell to you after you've sent us dick pics without our consent. Want us to look at your dick? Buy a cock rating or a sexting service. Your dick pic isn't gonna help your case, in fact, it'll probably make it worse. I don't care how fascinating your dick is, that's not gonna make me give you free stuff. Period. Stop doing it. Won't work.

5. No means no.

While this is easy to understand, "no" isn't the only word that means "no". And that's something a lot of us get frustrated with.

"Nah" means NO

"I don't think so" means NO

"I don't want to" means NO

"I'm not in the mood" means NO

"I don't feel like it" means NO

Everything that indicates we are not willing to do something means "NO"

Feel rejected? Don't insult us. It's not personal. Calling us bitches and whatnot doesn't make you a bigger man, it makes you a bigger piece of shit. Your insecurities have nothing to do with us.

So there you go. An annoyed Carli just listed a few things you should avoid doing. Again, apologies for the very clear frustration in my words, sometimes you just gotta explode a little.

Do you agree? Disagree? I don't give a shit. You're not in my shoes. Why don't you try doing what I do and pretend everything is lovely and full of unicorns and rainbows. I am so thankful for those nice and respectful buyers. I appreciate them even more when I had dealt with a brainless fucktard before him.

To all of you who are here to troll us, waste our time, insult us, fish for freebies and threaten us - just leave us alone. You won't gain anything from it. Why the fuck do you have to be such a dickhead?

And to those who actually respect us and realise that this is a job - you are wonderful. You make our days better and put food our out tables. I'm so happy you understand that we are humans too and that life is better when we're being nice and respectful. Thank you!