MarioSisters Fri 01-Nov-19 17:28:54

Well maybe they're not inappropriate which is why I'm asking on here.



I took her phone off her earlier as she had been on it long enough and a message from her friend (friend from school, I don't know her though) which started with the words pussy, so I looked at the texts. Oh my god.



OK I know they get interested in sex etc and wondering what it is. But this girl was basically encouraging dd to masturbate, use objects, telling her to watch porn hub. When dd asked what porn is, her friend said its another word for sex. There were more messages but I don't want to go into detail as you don't know who reads these.



I was shocked and checked her group class messages etc and it does seem this girl is definitely in my daughters class and not some random person on the Internet.



I really don't think I'm being a prude, but welcome to be told its normal exploration etc. I just feel horrified, this isn't how I want dd to explore sexuality and sex.



Also they did suggest sending pics to each other soon. And I have so so many times told dd that things sent are out there forever but apparently that didn't sink in.



Don't get me wrong, although this girl is obviously much more knowledgeable than dd, dd was more than happy being led into the discussion and descriptive herself.



Am I being unreasonable? Is this normal? Shall I buy a farm and live off the land with no communication with the world?