That was driven home for me when I started publishing a few essays about it. People often reached out, saying, “I don’t read enough from this perspective” or, “This is a perspective that I hadn’t thought about before.” But it took me a while to get there. My search was over 10 years ago now, and I didn’t start writing about it until four to five years after that. But when I tried to write about it, it felt OK because I had processed enough about it and done enough work. I felt very secure in my various family relationships. I was at a point emotionally where I could write about the more difficult aspects of the story.