3 Skills that will improve your game dramatically:

To begin, today I had been looking over many old videos which I haven’t seen for awhile and I reflected on instances where I utilized what I learned in some of those videos. Out of every single video I could narrow down 3 skills that I use most frequently. I guess one can say I evolved to using these skills, because I recognized the impact they have in attracting the types of women that I desire.

These skills are:

#1: The Take-away:

This is actually something I’ve experimented with rather often and I work with it as almost second nature these days.

Basically you are creating a feeling of loss that triggers the girl to yearn for your attention even more. Consequently she feels positive emotions(Oxytocin), while increasing comfort; once they realize how emotionally independent you are. You can do this by paying attention to something else prior to having a stimulating discussion; usually about something which you both enjoy discussing.

I do this a lot when I’ve hooked the target and usually after making out; which demonstrates that she is clearly into me. Instead of being eager to talk to the girl, I’ll stare off of into space and give my attention to the New York skyline until she re-initiates conversation. I get them more attracted as I behave like this. They may even ask me what I’m thinking.

Should they ask, then I usually answer, “I like the skyline, it makes me feel nice when I look at it.” Comments like this in particular, I’ve learned, will raise your value and show emotional-security. They allow you to be appear more genuine and natural; not rehearsed and phony, like a large amount of other PUA junk.

#2: Setting the frame:

Another great skill to have is controlling the frame of the interaction. This is a skill that a lot of good salesmen have mastered; whether they realize it or not.

Here are 2 examples to say any time when setting the frame:

– “I knew when I first saw you that we were going to get along well. I could feel that we had chemistry right when I met you. I could tell this was going to go well by how you looked at me.”

– “I like how you are comfortable around me. We just met but I can already tell we have good chemistry. I’ve only felt this way with only a few other women.”

*Sometimes the second statement will get them asking you about the other women. In such a circumstance, then talk the other women up. Make it appear as though she will never reach that woman’s value. Doing this can create jealousy and cause her to start working more for your approval. *

Basically you are setting the stage in her mind. If she is already highly invested, then you can build far more comfort by using these statements. When utilizing statements like these, you allow her to fall into your frame. Once she submits to the frame, she will begin to roleplay and act out the scenario or play along.

#3: Tonality:

This also is second-nature for me personally, mainly because I smoke. I’m definitely not saying to smoke yourself, but it will solves the dilemma of talking in a seductive tone.

However, I was a non-smoker for years and I still could come across rather seductive by simply speaking from my diaphragm. An easy way to do this is by making the sound “Uhhhhhh” until you feel it resonating with your upper-chest and lower-throat.

This enables you too feel the sensation of talking from your diaphragm. Now look at duplicating that sensation while talking. You will notice that you sound much more alpha, so to speak, while speaking in a more attractive and firmer tone.

I’ve had females tell me that they came up to my apartment just because they liked the sound of my voice. If you can get good at this and do this correctly, then you will create a massive decrease in your flake-rate. You’ll also notice less resistance when trying to get them in the sack.

So to summarize…

These skills are like everything in pick-up; they require appication and and in time will improve our intuition. But once you’ve figured out the actual meat of how they work, you will experience great success; in particular with hotter females.

Before I go, I want to suggest checking out the following book…

“The Natural: How to effortlessly attract the women you want” by Richard La Ruina. This book is full of tips on how to approach and communicate better with women.

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Now that’s all I got for now…

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