





While each woman is different and has different preference in bed, I’ll tell you what you can do at a broader level.

I’ll break up it into 3 parts:

The non-sexual bit

The foreplay

The intercourse





You cannot please a woman sexually if you don’t meet her few selection parameters which are not sexual. Unlike men, women don’t jump into bed with any dick they find, even if for a casual one-night stand. Before getting into bed, they would check if the guy can earn their trust and respect. They keep away from guys hungry and desperate for sex. They can see it in the eyes.

Cleanliness is another important criteria. Irrespective of whether they themselves are clean or not, they would expect the guy to be clean and well groomed.

If you can tick off all/most of the items above, you can be sure that there is nothing unpleasant going on in the lady’s mind while she is in bed with you.





The foreplay

This is the most important part of your sexual encounter. You definitely have to indulge in foreplay. I’m saying this because a lot of people I know skip foreplay and go straight into the main act. The lady would never be satisfied without the foreplay. Invest significant amount of time in it.

Make sure you focus your attention on all parts of her body and not just her private parts. Make sure you are complimenting her while playing. Make sure you are making her feel desired. Be generous with oral.





The intercourse

Then, once she is sufficiently aroused, she will signal you to enter. That is when you enter her. Feel the rhythm of her body movements and try to match them. Try to make your bodies move in sync. Change the pace and force depending on what feedback you keep getting from her body from time to time.

The most important bit is to ensure that you do not come before her. You have to control your orgasm till she gets hers. I know controlling excitement may get difficult but you have to. Nobody likes to be with a selfish person.