Emotions play a very important role in one’s life. Every human needs to express their feelings but there are two ways to do so-one is to control it another is to express it or show it. Just like plants inhale carbon dioxide in the night and exhale oxygen in the morning, maintaining balance and supply the best and the most needed elements where it surrounds. Same way we need to struggle with our positive and negative emotions to get the best control over it, how and when to express it. Since life is a test and complicated too which requires an ongoing struggle, so we need to be balanced in our life. In addition to it moral integrity is as important as intelligent ability. For that one needs to focus and try to make efforts to improve it constantly. Then only we can achieve our set goals in life. Just the same as if horse’s rein is in your control then only you can manage it as you want or vice versa.

Being humans we have the Physical body as well as Spiritual body with desire and needs. The emotions balance these two elements and enhance its productivity. IQ, SQ, PQ are in harmony if EQ is properly controlled. We are not like machines, but have emotions and feelings which doesn’t remain in one state rather it keeps fluctuating as per our life situations leading to high and low emotions. Emotional intelligence deals with fundamental element of human behavior that is different from your intellect. There is no specific connection between IQ and EQ whereas intelligence is your ability to learn, and it remains the same whether we are young or old. Moreover it depends on our interest and willingness to do so.

Conversely, Emotional intelligence is a person’s ability to identify feelings and that layer of feelings beneath feelings: their own and those of others. It is a flexible set of skills that can be acquired and improved with practice. Although some people are naturally more emotionally intelligent than others, you can develop high emotional intelligence even if you aren’t born with it. Its very true that IQ can’t be increased. It’s a gift from God, those who are blessed with it but those who don’t possess this attribute can achieve success by developing their EQ because the tool is in one’s hand.