lets talk about thin privilege in the gay male community. when you're a skinny gay guy you get into clubs for free, you get free drinks, you get special treatment. why? because you're attractive you may have a shitty as fuck personality but thanks to that six pack you're getting the swag bag, you get asked to dance, you get to do everything i don't. on grinder theres never a "not str8 acting/ no muscular dudes" its always not fats/no fems its fucking ridiculous. I'm so ashamed of the queer comm