A reminder: It's less than a month to Loving More's annual Poly Living conference February 8–10 in Philadelphia, and two months to the third annual Atlanta Poly Weekend March 15–17 in Atlanta.I'm again going to both. These things are loads of fun — wonderful warm people, shared ideas and dreams, much to learn from each other, and friends and contacts to make. Last year I gave the opening keynote talk at Poly Living, and this year I'll be doing a closing keynote at APW.What are these things like to attend? Here are my writeups of the first Poly Living I went to and last year's APW . They've been growing, and last year each had about 150 people; both expect more this time.See you there?