The average dude assumes that if he’s feeling pleasure his partner is too—and that’s where he’s losing. Being a slayer isn’t just about doing freaking stuff; it’s also about technique. Mastering the way you switch up your rhythm, depth of stroke and positioning will ensure you receive the ultimate compliment every time you put it down. This level of skillfulness requires some effort.

There is an art to making love, and just like the variety of paint strokes a painter uses to create a beautiful piece of art, a varied stroke technique is needed to truly create a beautiful and satisfying sexual experience when in the bedroom.

Any man can pump like a jack rabbit and achieve his orgasm quickly, but to put the pleasure of your partner first and sincerely savor every moment of being inside of her and connecting on an energy level separates the truly skilled from the animalistic.

Believe it or not there is an art to penetrating your woman and the way you thrust in and out of her pussy. Sure, she may like it hard and fast at some points during sex, but chances are she’s going to enjoy it more if you vary your thrusts a bit.

First and foremost, you have to train yourself to pay attention to how the partner is responding at all times. Second, you must stay ahead of your climax. Once you’ve gotten that down try these strokes…and get ready for your five-star reviews.

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THE HEAD MASTER STROKE

The opening of the vagina has a high concentration of nerve endings that are often overlooked. Drive her crazy by giving her just the tip. You do this by delivering shallow, quick strokes that only allow the tip of your penis to penetrate the entry.. Try this move in the beginning of a session. These strokes will help to generate vaginal lubrication and warm your girl up.

THE CURL UP STROKE

You know G spot penetration is often desired by women, particularly because it can lead to intensely pleasurable orgasms. You can access this erogenous zone by curling your stroke upwards while penetrating, only go about two-inches into the vagina. Missionary style is the best position for this type of stimulation. Most men aren’t used to moving their hips this way and end up hurling forward with their entire bodies—that’s a no-no. Get in front of the mirror and practice whining (isolated hips rolls) in the mirror. It’s the only way to perfect stroking.

THE DEEP STROKE

Deep penetration accesses the cervix and the A spot with strokes that can bring about powerful, quivering orgasms. Take it slow when going deep, and penetrate until you can feel the slickness of the cervix. Once you’re as far as you can go, use your hips to press slowly and gently into her center. You’re remaining as close to the cervix as possible. Lifting her pelvis up towards yours helps make this penetration more comfortable and pleasurable. With this move, your penis doesn’t just slide in and out; you can also do a stirring motion. Alternate based on what you’re partner’s body is responding to.

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THE SWIRL MID-STROKE

Access the middle of her vagina, and every ripple of its walls, by rotating your hips in a circle to swirl your penis. This is a stroke pattern that may feel different because the middle of the vagina is often bypassed for deep penetration. Try slid inside until you feel you reached the middle of her vagina, about 3-4 inches in. Then rotate your hips in a circle to swirl your lingam around her walls. Having a hard erection is ideal for this stroke.

Anticipation

The first thing to understand is that women love the first thrust. Many women will let out a big moan when she feels you enter her fully for the first time. Knowing this you can always tease a bit and build up some anticipation before sliding in fully the first time. It may involve rubbing your penis head on the inside and out of her pussy lips and rubbing the tip of your penis on her clitoris. Also sliding your penis up and down the outside of her vagina, but not penetrate her. Think of a hotdog sliding in and out of a bun. And you can always just rest the tip of your penis at the opening of her vagina while you kiss, etc. (This will drive her wild.)

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Slow short stroke

The slow short stroke is one that can provide great stimulation by massaging the very opening of the vagina that contains hundreds of nerve endings. Go in slowly with short strokes and drive her crazy! Your penis head will thank you later. Similar to the slow short stroke just with more speed, this stroke provides a rapid sensation to the opening of the vagina. Use this stroke before fully penetrating.

Shallow thrusting allows you to stimulate the opening of her vagina up to about an inch deep, which for many women is a very sensitive part of the vagina. Also, the opening of her vagina is often the tightest part, so shallow thrusts allow you to concentrate a great deal of stimulation on the head of your penis and just below, which feels awesome.

Slow long stroke

The slow long stroke is the one that has the most feeling in it. You get the opportunity to experience every ripple in the vaginal walls and to truly connect with your partner while watching her enjoy you inside of her. Switch to the slow stroke to also reduce an overabundance of sensation that may cause you to ejaculate earlier than you would like.

The deep thrust can be extremely pleasurable for the both of you. There’s nothing quite like the feeling of being fully inside your woman and hearing her moan with pleasure. Deep thrusting can allow you to aim for her G-spot and it can also allow you to position your pelvic bone on her clitoris or the area around her clitoris allowing her to rub up against you to trigger a clitoral orgasm. One thing to note about deep thrusting is that if your woman’s vagina is particularly shallow or your penis is particularly long, it could be uncomfortable to go too deep too fast, so just keep that in mind.

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Fast Long stroke

This jack rabbit approach is one that is commonly used by younger men during their eager attempts at busting one, but it’s also a great way to take full control during sex and put your partner into total submission. The fast, deep penetration will drive her wild when switching from the short or long slow stroke.

Rhythm Stroke

Based on a rhythm usually deriving from following the rhythm of music playing in the background during sex or from a rhythm created in your mind, the rhythm stroke is one that keeps a woman guessing about how you’re going to make your next move.

Curved Stroke

The curved stroke is one that has an arch to it instead of being a straight in and out motion. When the pelvis is rotated in a curving motion, the penis hits the vaginal walls at different angles that will make her body shake with pleasure!

Like with any sexual techniques, the key is to keep an open line of communication with your partner and try lots of different thrusting styles, and in no time you’ll discover what drives her wild and gives you ultimate pleasure.

Ultimately you’ll want to experiment with both deep and shallow thrusts with varying speeds. Not only will varying your thrusting style give her an incredible experience, but it can also help you last longer during sex. For example, one of the best move is to give a woman five or so deep thrusts and then, on the sixth one, thrust deep and just leave your penis deep inside of her vagina for about a second or so, and if your woman is doing Kegel exercises, she can squeeze your penis with her vagina at the same time. Believe me this feels amazing and allows you to make sure you don’t overstimulate yourself too quickly. If you wanna learn all the tips for lasting longer during sex, check out the Extreme Stamina guide below. Illustrated with tasteful, erotic photography, showing how and when to use specific techniques, tricks and styles!

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This manual is a plain-and-simple, instructional guide on how to give women orgasms. This Book is something that you can refer to time and time again. The information is intended to help women achieve orgasms and have a more fulfilling sexual relationship. It contains details of female orgasms, along with the overall “system” or “strategy” you’ll employ. Also included are techniques to illustrate what needs to be done, and when.

It can be looked at as the “toolbox” of techniques. You’ll find a variety of different sexual techniques you can use to “plug-and-play” into the overall system of making a woman achieve an orgasm. In this book are the keys needed to open the doors for a woman’s sexual fulfillment ready to be given to as many lovers as those who desire to possess them.

OK, enough talk… now open the book and let’s get down to business!

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