A source for Life & Style Weekly says Nick was up-front with Vanessa when they began dating. He explained to her that he was not looking for a casual girlfriend. The insider said, “[Nick] told Vanessa that his goal was to get remarried and start a family…He didn’t want to continue seeing her unless she was serious about their relationship.�? But Vanessa, fresh from an on and off relationship with Yankees shortstop, Derek Jeter, was also looking for a big commitment. L&S’s source said, “Vanessa is all for it. She’s eager to be married as well.�?

