Another response I recieved.





This man who replied to me was more than willing to give me the answers that I needed. He told me that he had been cheating on his wife for almost a year with his neighbor who was also married. He informed me that they see each other at least two times a week and will sometimes organise trips to the store at the same time so that they can quickly meet and have sex. I asked him why they are both still with their partners if they have been cheating for so long. And he told me that it was just fun, that they both loved their spouses and the only reason they were sleeping together was because neither of them had much of a sex life at home and the sex life they have together is amazing. He informed me that he had never cheated in the past and this was the first time he had ever done something like this.He has no plans on stopping anytime soon , but also has no plans on breaking up with his wife because he claims he loves her.





I had one response from a woman. She told me that when she was with her ex partner she cheated on him with two other people. One of them she still sees now. She told me that she enjoyed the thrill of it and playing with fire. She said it was good to be able to enjoy sex as her partner did not satisfy her enough. I asked her if she thinks she will cheat in future relationships and she told me that it depends. It will depend on how they can please her sexually. If they can't live up to her expectations then she will more than likely cheat on them, just like she did her ex.

What is the main reason men and woman cheat?

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Lets face it, no one wants to find out that their partner has been cheating on them. To feel that you are not good enough for that person, and the wondering questions. The what if's. But my main question isI've done some research to find out why is it people cheat on their partners? Why they can't stop? And the most important question. Why are they still together?So I asked a few questions on an anonymous app in hope of a reply from people who have had affairs in the past. The types of questions I asked were;- Have you ever cheated on your partner? If so, why?- Have you ever willingly slept with someone knowing that they are in a relationship?- How many times have you cheated on a partner?- Why are you still with the person you cheated on?This is one of the responses I received. This response was in answer to 'Have you ever slept with someone knowing that they are in a relationship?'. We actually went on to chat some more and the man who replied to me was at first willing to answer any lingering questions that I had. I later found out that he was in an open relationship with his girlfriend who knew about what he was doing. So my questions went on to find out more about the girl he was sleeping with who was cheating on her partner. Unfortunately, he stopped answering anymore of my questions.I got a variety of answers from other people. I noticed that a lot of the responses I received were from men between the ages of 25-40. Mostly married men. Some of the responses I received were from married men who had not yet cheated but were thinking about it because they were bored of their relationship at home. A lot of people who had cheated in the past claimed that they were still very much in a relationship with the person they cheated on and that their partners were none the wiser.A couple of responses I got were of work affairs. People who had cheated on their significant others with people that they worked with.Because most of the responses I got were from people in the United States, I thought I would do some extra research. I came to the findings that 30%-60% of all married individuals in the US are likely to cheat on their wives/husbands. And that 2%-3% of children born from these couples are a result of cheating. Cheating is becoming very common in people under the age of 30, the theoretical reason being is that younger people now have a higher amount of multiple sexual partners before they get married. I personally think it is also because of social media. I feel like social media makes it a lot easier to find people online for a quick fling, and you can also remain anonymous on there so there is less likeliness to be caught.From the findings that I have received, I have come to the conclusion that one of the main reasons people cheat on their spouses is because they are not happy sexually at home. This doesn't mean that they don't love their partner and that they don't want to be with them, because according to the majority of people I have spoken to they do. They just don't get enough of what they need from them at home and they also enjoy the thrill of cheating. A lot of people I spoke to asked me if I have ever cheated on a partner. And my answer to that is no. Firstly, I do not agree with cheating. It is not something that I would want to put myself in the situation of doing. And secondly, I have never really been in a long term relationship to do so. I was quite shocked with the amount of responses I received off of people willing to admit that they had cheated, which kind of confirms my question. That cheating in relationships is becoming so common that it's almost expected. I remember being younger and you would hear about someone being cheated on and you would be stunned. It would be a shock to find out. Now I hear of people being cheated on weekly, and it is not that much of a surprise anymore. So I guess it is becoming normal. Although it is not accepted, it is becoming a normal occurrence.