Zeitgeist-required disclaimer: StickIt! soundly denounces violence or discriminatory treatment of ANYONE based on class membership or non-harmful behavior. All people who are not harming others deserve lives of dignity, full citizenship, and unfettered participation in the rewards and responsibilities of their societies.

Some critical thinking and examination of evidence are seriously in order here, on both sides of the stall door.

Trans people just want to pee, I’m told.

And what is wrong with the bathroom that matches your anatomy, I ask?

THAT WILL CAUSE TRANSGENDER PEOPLE TO BE RAPED AND BEATEN.

But women and girls have concerns about their safety too. If they see a male dressed as a female in a female restroom, that is a hint something might be wrong.

So trans people are in serious, life-threatening danger if they cannot use the restroom of their choice, but the fears of women and girls that predators will invade their designated spaces are unfounded?

Let’s see what a little extended googling turns up.

Women and Girls Attacked in Women’s Restrooms by Men Wearing Women’s Clothing

Count: 12 14

(N.B: This list purposely excludes restroom attacks on women and girls by non-crossdressing males, accounts of males (crossdressing or not) entering women’s spaces without attacking anyone, and attacks on women in other sex-segregated spaces (not restrooms) by crossdressing males. A list of attacks on women and girls by males in general would obviously exceed the bandwidth of this blog.)

Transgender People Attacked in Restrooms

Count: 3 2 5

While this is not an exhaustive or even a comprehensive study, the result of a couple hours of research does not bear out the constantly repeated claims that:

transgender people’s lives are constantly at risk if they are not allowed to use their preferred restrooms. there is absolutely no evidence that women and girls have ever been harmed in women’s restrooms by men dressed as women.

In fact, one could argue that, since all the attacks above happened while the transgender people were using or had just used a cross-sex restroom, the trans people involved might have been safer using the restroom matching their sex rather than their chosen gender presentation.

If the concern were truly for the safety of transpeople, any of the many alternative arrangements suggested — such as separate, gender-neutral accommodations, or single occupancy unisex facilities — would make perfect sense. When the same people making claims not borne out by the evidence dismiss these solutions, one starts to wonder what is really going on.

Links to media (not self-) reports of restroom attacks presented in comments will be added to this post.

The following blogs provide vital information on these subjects and were invaluable resources for this research:

Autogynephilia Truth (where many of the linked articles are permanently archived)

Gender Identity Watch

Allison’s Law



Edited 5/6/2020