What Is An “Edge”?

An edge is the advantage you have in what you set out to do. It’s the willingness to maintain your success or take it to new heights. When you’re single and trying to get laid or find a girlfriend, you understand that you need to have this edge in order to fuck. This is when you are your best because you want to improve yourself to increase your chances. While other men are complaining that women only go for assholes, you’re trying to get to the root of what women really want so you can have the upper hand over the assholes who are dominating the dating scene.

It will come to a point where you are sleeping with new women more than you ever have in your life. Then you decide that you want to find a girl and possibly get into a serious relationship.

Serious Relationships Make Men Drop Their Guard And Lose Their Edge

You finally did it. You ran through all these women just to find the one that you really like and want to get serious. She’s perfect. She’s sweet, she’s nurturing, and she’s special to you. Little do you know, when you start looking at her in this way, you start to lose your edge.

“How do you lose your edge when you find a woman that you want to get serious with”

In your mind, this girl is special to you. You can’t bend her over the sink and hit it from the back with your thumb in her ass. You don’t want to treat her like the rest of the girls you’ve fucked up to this point. The problem is, women like having a certain kind of sex. Different women like different things. So if you think that she’s this pure, innocent dove who you can only “make love” to, you’re falling down the path of the friend zone in your own relationship.

After a while of boring, generic sex, your girl is gonna start withholding sex from you. She’s gonna tell you she has a headache. She’s gonna tell you she’s on her period. She’s gonna tell you that the both of you need to “connect on an emotional level instead of a physical one”.

Now you may think that she’s just withholding sex and staying celibate so the both of you can work things out, but the reality is, she’s seeking satisfaction elsewhere.

No Woman Should Be So Special To You That You Deny Her Of Hot, Passionate Sex

There’s something you need to understand about how easy it is for a woman to get sex. A woman who is fat/bony could get sex from a man within a few hours of meeting him without much work on her part. Imagine how easy it is for an attractive woman to get sex. Everywhere she goes there are men who are trying to talk to her and sleep with her. All she has to do is pick the one she wants.

Before getting to the point where your girl is cheating on you with random men, understand that your girl is not an angel. Before she met you, she probably fucked more men than you fucked women, she probably has fantasies of getting gang banged by cell block full of prison inmates and taking cumshots to the face. Just because she looks like she doesn’t do that kinda stuff doesn’t mean she doesn’t want to have dirty sex.

I’m not saying you have to let your girl play out a fantasy that involves other men, but you still want to give her rough, dirty sex from time to time. You want her to feel like a dirty whore when it comes time for sex, but when the both of you are out in public, you want to treat her like a lady.

Women Want To Be Desired And Taken

Disclaimer: Never force yourself upon a woman who doesn’t want to sleep with you.

Now that we got that out of the way, know and understand that women want to be desired and they want to be taken. A lot of married men kinda hint or ask their woman for sex, while other men are consensually having their way with their women (and sometimes the women of the men who feel the need to hint or ask their women for sex).

There’s a difference between desiring a woman and being thirsty. Thirsty men are looked at as desperate and needy, two things that women despise in these thirsty men. When a man desires a woman, it’s much different. He will show interest, but he will not beg her for sex. Instead, he will do things to increase her desire for him.

When you have a girlfriend, you should constantly build that desire in her. Hold her close, grab her by her waist, look into her eyes, and smack her ass, but at the same time, give her some space so she can start missing your touch and strong embrace. If she pulls away or doesn’t allow you to do the things that turns her on, this is a red flag. She’s not fully attracted to you or attracted to you at all. Sometimes, you may need to learn her body before she can feel comfort in submitting herself to you. Other times, she’s in a relationship with you, but she’s not into you.

“Why would she date me if she’s not attracted to me?”

A woman who is attracted to a man wants him to increase that desire inside her because it makes her feel good. This is on a physical level and an emotional level. It boosts her ego as being a desired woman to a desirable man. If she’s not attracted to you, she doesn’t want to connect those feeling to you. So she will pull away or try to avoid situations where you are giving her this type of attention. She may be with you for reasons other than sexual attraction. You may be a bridge to an opportunity she wants. You may have a wealth of money and resources. She may be with you for emotional, non-sexual relations. If this is your situation, nip this shit in the bud. Don’t let her run game on you or shame you into accepting the non-sexual relationship. Instead, get to the root of the problem or move on from the relationship. Accepting a non-sexual relationship from your girlfriend opens you up to her cheating on you and/or you cheating on her.

Get Your Body Right So She Will Be Physically Attracted To You

Do you know that a man with a strong, masculine physique increases his chances of keeping the sex going strong in the relationship? Remember that the more a woman desires you, the more of an edge you will have in your relationship. A major problem men have when they get into a serious relationship is they let themselves go. They’ll gain a bunch of weight and the woman will slowly but surely make excuses so she won’t have to sleep with him.

“Honey, not tonight, I have a headache”

Another reason why you don’t want to let yourself go is because she knows that you’re kinda trapped in that situation. A man who is hot physically fit will struggle a little more than a man who looks like he’s chiseled and physically attractive. If you’re physique is on point, and your girl is a 7 on a scale of 1-10, she’s not gonna be so eager to withhold sex from you. Why? Because she knows all you have to do is tell a woman that she’s withholding sex from you and that other woman will pick up her slack.

I did a post called, Why You Should Get Your Body Right For You And Not To Get Women, and just like the title says, you workout for you. You do it to maintain that edge. A man with an edge is highly attractive to women because he has power. This is the power of options or the power to walk away from a relationship that’s serves him no purpose.

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