Damn, this was one separation I thought wouldn't get nasty. The short visitation makes even more sense.

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Aryn goes on, claiming Jesse has a violent temper and cites a road rage incident last month with his next-door neighbor. She says after an argument the neighbor flipped off Jesse, and he then "aggressively pursued him in his car" with their 2 kids inside. She says Jesse threatened to kill him.

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Context is important and I'm glad you shared this. This incident alone would warrant these feelings from her.

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That's beyond fucked especially with kids in the car.

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sounds like my dad! ugh

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Omg are you my sister?

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Same :/

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same

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that's awful



but TBH i still don't think this warrants her to have sole custody. he's obviously an asshole but the majority of people are too? like, if this is enough to lose custody then i feel like 90% of people (and 99% of men) should be in the same boat.

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wtf is wrong with people?! anger management should be manditory for people nowadays.

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I mean we ~all go through fits of blind rage so.



Let's make it a big deal when the kids are actually IN a car accident.

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My dad actually did that once, and my mom went apeshit on him, and even I was telling him at 7 years old to stop fucking following this person.

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what awful awful reasons to keep children away from their father



the 3rd one is most sketchy out of context but saying you want to kill someone is normal.

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lol

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The above comment provided actual context and chasing a man down threatening to kill him with kids in the car is way different than a throw away I wanna kill them comment.

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nnnnnnnnnnn



evidently i was wrong. those poor kids

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LOL IRL YOURE TOO MUCH

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Yiiiiiikes. Also I thought it was such a sympathy ploy that he started posting his kids, especially Sadie on his instagram 😒

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The exposure. Poor children though :(

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This makes me sad.



Also, I remember he would never show their faces in photos and then all of a sudden he started to.

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This is getting nasty.

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She's also pissed off that Jesse posts pics of their kids on social media.



lmao oh god

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Someone else said he used to not show their faces, so I'm guessing that was the agreement when they were together.

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They used to hardly ever be on his social media accounts sometimes you just saw the back of their heads. Now he can't stop posting them.

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her issue (according to the summary) is that he's only posting about them now to sway the public opinion of him in his favor, which is gross tbh.

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The poor kids :(

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What am I repeatedly looking at?

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I-I guess it was a phantom.

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This is gonna be nasty.

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The last post on this was a mess so 👀

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honestly ppl who introduce someone they've been dating for a short time to their kids are nasty and irresponsible. my POS ex moved a woman he'd been dating for like a month into his home to basically be a mother to his kid. they lasted three months

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its scary to me when parents do that. your children shouldn't be introduced to every random joe you bring into your life.



unless it's obvious that the relationship is headed for the long-term, keep your kids away.

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for real, idg how ppl are so ready to find a partner for their kid as if it's some altruistic decision they're making on behalf of their child when really they're just lonely. like I get it, who doesn't want romantic love, but studies show kids are wayyy more vulnerable to abuse and pedophilia by a step-parent. it's a risk ppl more ppl should consider before deciding to have children with an unstable partner.

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mte! 6 months seems completely reasonable and should be the standard. your kids don't need to know about everyone you bring home, especially if you are sharing custody, you can make time for your kids and your partners separately.

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ia it's so irresponsible.

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My friend does that all the time, it's like the 3rd guy now that she's done it with and her daughter is only 3.

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it really is. I wish people had to date someone longer before introducing them and having them around kids was mandatory.



some kids get emotionally attached really quickly and its shitty to have people rotating in and out of their life men tend to do this tbh, have different women constantly around the kids



on the flip side I also hate when people leave their kids to be babysat by a boyfriend or girlfriend after dating for like a month or moving in after 2 weeks, its super risky for the kids I don't care how much its 'love at first sight'

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As someone whose parents did this several times, it's really damaging when you get attached and then that person is yanked from your life, especially if a break-up is acrimonious. So many parents never take any of this into consideration.

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i dated a guy and then he ghosted me after 8 months. then that fall i found out he was dating the mom of one of my students. that was fun. what was also fun was that before the little girl was my student, i was a counselor in the scjool's ymca after school program and i remember hearing her mother talk about how she was meeting all these men online and how she was so comfortable with them that she let her daughter sleep i bed with them after the third date.



once i actually had the little girl in my class and remembered that comment, suddenly so much more about her behavior made sense.

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Was he always this angry or is it nose candy or something? They were together a long time for this kind of anger but ego is a bitch.

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what is nose candy?

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Coke. I was just speculating, I have no idea.

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