If you feel like a babysitter while dating a younger girl then you have a messed up view of babysitting. I DON’T have to speculate here, I can say a significantly younger girl offers the perfect compliment to the older man. What she may lack in knowledge or experience is more than made up with youthful vitality, and the lack of that jaded mindset that the harsh realities of life can impart. While you may need to be the “decision-maker” when it comes to some things, the fresh outlook of youth filtered through a more adult mind can help you look at everything from a new perspective and actually help you grow yourself.