Do You Masturbate Too Often?

Here's Why Too Much Masturbation Is Not A Good Thing

Every guy on the face of this Earth has played the personal flute every now and again. There's absolutely nothing wrong with doing the deed on occasion, but overplay might lead to some complications when it comes to sharing your pecker with a woman.

stop or you'll go blonde

The side effects that result from frequent masturbation are not usually visually evident.

As far as I can tell, you're not going to hell nor does anyone have a right to laugh at you, especially considering virtually all men have, do or will masturbate. So relax, you're completely normal so long as wiggling it doesn't interfere with your daily life.

the problem with too much

If you begin looking forward to getting home only to play with yourself all night long, then maybe masturbating is not so good for you. After all, the fact that you're looking forward to basically sleeping with yourself is stopping you from meeting other people, namely women.

That's right; and even if you do go out with the boys on Friday night (I'm referring to your friends, not your testicles), you won't feel inclined to approach all the beautiful women. Why?

Well 1) your testosterone levelsare lower so you're more serene and not very inclined to approach women and 2) you know that you'll be home alone in about three hours so you can stroke and choke your penis at will.

why are you doing it?

Even if you are in a relationship, you might masturbate — and that too is absolutely normal, although your woman might think and feel otherwise. But do you even know why you masturbate if you have a woman who's ready, willing and able in your bed?

Believe it or not, sometimes masturbating is less about sexual thoughts and feelings and more about anxiety. Many men, when they're feeling stressed about work or home life, tend to masturbate as a way to relieve the tension and anxiety.

Now don't get me wrong; of course masturbation is also about sexual frustration. If your woman is not giving it to you enough or not the way you like it, then masturbation is one way to relieve the pent-up sexual aggression trapped inside of you.

Do you find it difficult to reach orgasm with your girlfriend?

you're just not sensitive

Many men who masturbate frequently also have a hard time reaching orgasm when it comes time to make love to their partners. It might be because they're all spermed out, but more often than not, it's brought about by their own hand.

What most men don't realize is that because they've become so accustomed to the pressure of their own hand, when their penis enters a soft environment like the vagina, it somehow isn't as forceful.

If you've been masturbating roughly and squeezing the head of your penis, then of course a vagina will never measure up to the ability of a hand. If you insist on masturbating, train your penis by stroking it gently rather than with aggression.

make it more intense

Analogy: if you've been stranded in a desert for six days without a drop of liquid and you finally run into someone with spring water, won't that be the absolute greatest drink of water you've ever had?

Now imagine you haven't masturbated or engaged in intercourse for six days, and suddenly your girlfriend bends over and begs you to give it to her doggy style, don't you think that you'll experience one of the most mind-boggling orgasms of your life?

The point here is that if you're having one orgasm or more every day, then the outcome of sex with a partner simply won't have a great effect because you're all juiced out. Masturbation is great, yes, but so is making love to your woman. Enjoy it.

how much is too much?

Some guys masturbate once a week, others masturbate 5 times a day; it only becomes too much when it begins interfering with your daily tasks. But remember that masturbating should not be used as an excuse to avoid approaching women (i.e. you want to talk to that hot babe at the bar, but you won't because you'd rather steer clear of rejection and play with yourself instead).

Yes, we are living in an unsafe world with the threat of HIV and AIDS> constantly thrust our way, but you don't have to dive into sex the moment you meet a woman; get to know each other and eventually you can proceed to the lovemaking aspect of the relationship.

Sometimes you'd be doing yourself a favor by maintaining that sexual frustration you're feeling and using it to approach all the beauties around you. That doesn't mean you're going to start humping every woman's leg like a dog in heat, but perhaps it will give you the incentive to make a move you normally wouldn't.

Until next time, keep your penis in your pants for a while and leave it to the ladies to get the slimy bugger out.