CFAlert Mon 06-May-19 00:28:12

I don't think IABU but after speaking with my mum earlier she suggested posting on here to get other people's views.



I've name changed so this isn't linked to my other posts.



Background is I've been single for 3yrs, after leaving an abusive relationship. Single parent to one child, and have EOW to myself when little one is at their dads.



Met a guy, was very intense very quick...thought it might actually go somewhere.



I met his friends, and also his mum due to me staying over one night (he was living at home for reasons I understood)



But... the aibu is because he used to stay at mine a lot... but bought his own pillow because he claimed to have neck pain. Despite me cooking us 3 course meals or full fry ups he never bought me flowers and/or wine or prosecco. Even though he knew I loved both Does this make me a grabby cow?



Or was I right to end it after 6 weeks thinking if that was the way he intended to start a relationship I want willing to continue it?



Thoughts welcome!