Dating coaches really came into popularity around 2013-2015 era when the dating game changed- and single lads flocked online to find the very best information on how to get better at social interactions. Also, looking to find how to improve their dating game and to find “the one”.

#1. Not great reviews



Youtube channels such as “Real Social Dynamics”, really took off when dating coaches became popular. A group of instructors who would mentor men to improve their confidence and lessons on how to attract women. These guys ruined so many up-and-coming men’s lives by selling them complete fantasies.

A former employee of Real Social Dynamics (RSD) speaks…

Quite an interesting take on the group of coaches, characterizing them and admiring their ability to speak to women. Not my idea of cool.

#2. Follow the leader mentality

Take from it what you will. But I certainly will never be getting a dating coach. This seems to be somewhat of an insidious trend, which may start out with good intentions but will result in “follow the leader” mentality.

This is a sort of mental mindset taken on to follow what the dating coach is preaching. If they say jump, then you jump. This can land you in some pretty outright dumb situations, and left you feeling like a complete fool.

#3. Waste of Money

In 2019, dating coaches earn a pretty penny for their hard work coaching men. They are flown out on private jets to remote regions just to share their “valuable” dating advice or tips. I mean it’s worth it though right? You can fly halfway across the globe to speak to some guy about dating. Nah I’m good mate.

#4. Soft way out

The very act of getting a dating coach just shows you are looking for a soft landing. Unfortunately, dating is quite brutal – and real. Instead, why not grab a few mates together and go out on the town. This will be more beneficial in the long-term.



Guys, I urge you, I plead with you – just talk to her. If you are fearful of rejection, don’t worry this will pass. Chin up and keep going and don’t let the rejections get you down. And no.. you don’t need a dating coach.

Instead why not go to the gym? Improve your personal physique or dieting habits, ultimately you will feel better about yourself. This is one life-hack which can help you keep your mind off of the stresses of dating.

#5. No psychological tactics

You can completely avoid the strange psychological methods these guys teach. They learn how girls respond to certain stimuli and then act it out. In the hope to get sex or something else. Probably borderline predatory, I wouldn’t bother, save yourself the weirdness.



Thanks for reading!

Inspired by a Quora post I once wrote





Interested to improve your relationships for the long term? I suggest instead, reading this book, Start With Why – it is not a dating book, but a great book about leadership. Hope this helps!











