koshka-da said: Christ. Do we have the same dad? My dad has been on lengthy vacations three times in the past six months, only lent me half of what I needed to not be dropped from my classes and is insisting I pay him back immediately when I have nothing.

It’s hard for me when he says “but you need to pay me back!” wailing and flapping his well-fed arms.

because my college money was stupidly spent on him by my mom, because misogyny taught her “support a man!11 work to provide him college money! then u have comfortable life!!”

he is the reason I am pulling my hair out, wishing I could climb the hell out of here and get a fucking degree ‘cause despite my experience I’m competing with people who have BAs, BSs, MAs, Ph.Ds in my field from some place with a lawn I never stepped on.

He is the one who owes ME. He has that 50k a year that belongs to ME. He has an apartment and food in his fridge instead of ME. And I hate that so fucking much.



