Jen8888 Fri 21-Jun-19 13:19:15

IL's have DS one day a week while I'm at work.

My mum also has him another day, and my grandma the third day.



My mum and grandma couldn't be more generous, and have nappies, wipes, toys, books, his favourite foods etc all ready for him and so it really is a home from home and taking the pressure off me to have a bag/packed lunch etc each day.



My IL's on the other hand;

- Expect food to be provided; Breakfast, lunch and tea as well as a beaker of full fat milk as they "only drink semi" and got forbid they couldn't buy a pint.

- They expect nappies, wipes, calpol, nappy bags, toys EVERYTHING to be provided.

And remind me when things are running low.



When I'm packing his things up at the end of the day they say things like, "are they yours or mine?" For things like wipes (which I have provided).



They live 45-60 mins away and I'm fed up of driving frozen fish fingers up the motorway and having the added pressure of this especially I'm returning to work FT in a month.



AIBU and what can I do? I'm so nervous about going back to work FT (DS is starting nursery for 2 days) and I feel like the IL's are getting to me ￼