"I used to have a high libido, but I haven’t wanted to have sex with him in years. We do it maybe two or three times a month because I force myself to, but it is unpleasant for me. He doesn’t want to guilt me into sex and hates that I force myself, but he has a very high libido.We are in our mid-20s and I know this is killing him — and us.I am attracted to some (but very few) others — just not to him."