Your child may need financial support or help with childcare after a divorce, but she also needs your unconditional love and emotional support. Even if you think she made a major mistake or handled the situation poorly, she will still expect you to be loyal to her. The best thing you can do is to ask her what you can do to help and then show her that you will be there for her no matter what, even if you do not condone all of her choices. Helping her through this difficult time will help you get over what happened, too, as you deal with your own feelings and work to help your daughter deal with hers.