Qwoptain and I decided to try out a 24/7 D/s relationship. We made a contract (the list came from http://www.reddit.com/r/BDSMcommunity/comments/i10qo/checklist_for_play/ however, we deleted the ones that we didn’t know what they were – which was quite a few) that will last a week, and we will edit and make it for longer if we decide after this trial period.

Anyway, here is the contract in case anyone is interested, although it is really long 😛

This contract is to indicate a Dominate/submissive relationship between Quoptian (Dom) and curious15cat (sub). This contract will last one week, beginning on the date signed.

The following safe words are in place: “yellow” meaning to yield and “red” meaning stop.

This relationship involves the sub obeying and serving the Dom as requested, so long as it does not interfere with her grades or her health. It is not the subs sole job to please the Dom as it would be a Master. The Dom is allowed to use the sub whenever he wishes. He is allowed to punish her for being disrespectful and/or disobedient. He agrees to take her wellbeing into consideration when using or punishing her or giving her orders. The sub agrees to trust the Dom’s judgment and oblige given punishments.

Limits and Pleasures of the sub

Rating scale for checklist:

0 = Hard Limit

1 = Soft Limit

2 = willing, but no real appeal

3 = like

4 = really like

5 = love

() around a number means that it has not been tried before, but is what sub expects her level would be.

? means sub is completely unsure how she will feel.

BONDAGE

[3] Leather cuffs

[(3)] Leather restraints

[4] Blindfolds

[4] Position (Classic i.e. wrists, ankles)

[(3)] Position (Reclining)

[4] Immobilization

[4] Position (Bent Over)

[(3)] Position (Chair/Seated)

[3-4] Gags

[5] Rope

[(4)] Spreader bar

[2] Position (Hogtie)

[4] Position (Standing)

[(2-3)] Wrestling

[(3)] Harness

[(2)] Hair Bondage

[2] Position (Kneeling)

[?] Nipple Clamps

[(2)] Breasts

[(1)] Mouth bits

[(2-3)] Suspension

[(2-3)] Under Clothes (public)

[(2)] Hoods

[0] Saran wrapping

[(3)] Steel restraints

[(1)] Suspension (up-side down)

[(3-4)] Cage

[(3)] Chain

[(2-3)] Inside a closet

[2-3] Multi-Day

[(4)] Shackles

EDGE/MIND PLAY

[(3)] Rape Fantasy

[(4)] Tattoo (temporary)

[0] Hypnotism

[2-3] Biting (breasts)

[0] Choking

[(3)] Name Change

[3] Ice

[4] Hair Pulling (large handful)

[(3)] Hot wax

[0] Branding

[0] Electric (violet wand)

[0] Electric (muscle stimulant unit)

[0] Fire and Ice (same time)

[0] Needles

[0] Piercing

[2] Pinching

[(2-3)] Tit (weights)

[0] Abrasion

[1] Cloth Pins

[(2)] Medical scenes

[1] Tit (cloth pins)

[(2)] Tit (rope)

[(2)] Tit (vise)

[?] Torture rack

[0] Cutting (clothes)

[0] Face slapping

[0] Gun Play (toy)

[0] Knife play (toy)

SEXUAL D/S

[5] Vaginal sex

[4] Vaginal Toys

[(4)] Forced bi-sexuality

[(4)] Threesome (Forced)

[(3)] Bi-sexuality

[5] Oral sex (receiving)

[(3)] Orgasm Control

[(2-3)] Orgasm Denial

[?] Phone sex

[(3)] Threesomes (FMF)

[3] Anal plugs (small)(forced)

[1] Clean Cock after sex

[2] Hand jobs (giving)

[(3)] Masturbation (forced)

[3] Oral sex (giving)

[2] Swallow semen

[0] Sexual Double Penetration

[0] Swap cum

[0] Anal

[(1)] Anal plugs (large)

[0] Anal (vibrator/dildo)

[(3)] Anal beads(forced)

[(3-4)] Voyeurism (watching Dom play w/others) (forced)

[0] Anal fisting

[4] Sexual denial (short term)

[1] Sexual denial (long term)

[1] Swallow own cum

[0] Vaginal fisting

[0] Triple Penetration

[4] Voyeurism (watching others play)

CORPORAL PUNISHMENT

[4] Hickeys (nonvisible)

[4] Location (Bottom)

[5] Spanking

[4] Belts

[(3)] Paddle

[1] Hickeys (visible)

[0] Whip

[0] Bruises (light ones on ass is okay)

[scratching only] Location (Back)

[nothing hard] Location (Chest)

[0] Location (Feet)

[thighs only] Location (Legs)

[(3)] Cane

[(4)] Crop

[(2)] Floggers

[?] Leather Paddle

[3] Wooden Hair Brush

[(3)] Wooden Paddle

ROLE PLAY

[?] Princess

[?] Act as objects (furniture, etc.)

[?]Doll

[(2-3)] Rape Scene

[(4-5)] Pet (non-animalistic)

[(4)] Maid

[(4)] Student (hs/grade school)

[(3)] Arrested

[(1)] Call Girl

[?] Fake chloroform/ drugged drink

[(3-4)] Interrogation Scene

[(4)] Kidnap Scene

[(3)] Secretary

[(2)] Nurse

[(2)] Burglar Attack

[(2)] Cowgirl

[(2)] Librarian

[(3)] Torture Victim

[(2)] Superheroine/ Villainess

FETISH WEAR

[4] Corsets

[(3-4)] Costumes

[4] Lingerie

[?] High Heels

[?] Leather

[(3-4)] Silk

[?] Victorian

[(3)] French maid

[?] Jewelry

[4] Slutty

[?] Swimsuit/Bikini

[(1)] Rubber

[(1)] Spandex

HUMILIATION

[4] Eye contact restrictions

[3-4 unless used in a very harsh tone] Curse words (Whore, Slut, etc.)

[3] Following Orders

[4] Forced dressing

[?] Act as objects (furniture, etc.)

[4] Blindfolds

[4] Collar (private)

[3] Dom chooses clothes

[(1-2)] Verbal Abuse

[?] Crawl on all ‘s

[?] Dom chooses food

[(3-4)] Permission to use bathroom (pee)

[(3-4)] Denied bathroom use (pee)

[(2)] Denied privacy (changing clothes, using the bathroom, etc.)

[(3-4)] Examinations

[?] Forced to be slave

[(3-4)] Forced to wear a leash

[?] Makeup

[(3)] Public Humiliation (Anonymous)

[(1-2)] Scolding

[4] Speech restriction

[(2-3)] Being left note with instructions (while Sir is busy)

[(3-4)] Presenting (private)

[2-3] Wear Masters cum on face

[(3-4)] Forced nudity

[?] Forced masturbation

[(3-4)] Forced to wear see thru clothes (at apartment or event)

[(3)] Ignoring slave

[2] Kneeling

[(3)] Maid services (forced while Dom watches – small things)

[1] Maid services (when Dom is not around)

[(3-4)] Serve as waitress

[4] Stand in corner

[(3)] Wear ripped clothes

[(1-2-3)] Write on Body (slut, sissy, worthless, etc.)

[(3-4)] Anal Plugs under clothing

[(3-4)] Dildo under clothes (public)

[?] Enema

[(1)] Forced masturbation (public)

[(2)] Massages (giving)

[(3)] Outdoor Sex/Scenes

[4-5] Take Pictures

[(4-5)] Take Video

[?] Force removal of clothes in public

[(3-4)] Forced to shop for BDSM toys

[?] Dancing/Strip Tease

[?] Forced exercising

[?] Spanking (public)

[(2)] Sucking Dildo (private)

[(1)] Sucking Dildo (public)

[0] Wear Collar everywhere

[?] Hold ping pong ball or coin against wall with nose

[(3-4)] See through clothes with no bra/panties/wearing clamps

[(3-4)] Stationary Dildo

[(2-3)] Ask to eat or drink

[(1)] Curtsy in public

I, Qwoptain (Dom), have read and agree with the above: _________________ Date: _________

I, curious15cat (sub), have read and agree with the above: _________________ Date: ________