A few years back, as I was browsing through a martial arts magazine, I came across a poem that would change my life. To this day, I consider it the best summary of how to develop self-esteem and reduce your ego.

The original is in German. I had to translate it, which made some parts a little “bumpy”. I apologize to the native English speakers for that.

Here is the poem:

As long as you try

to impress others,

you are not convinced

of your own strength. As long as you strive

to be better than others,

you are doubting your

own worth. As long as you try

to elevate yourself

by lowering others,

you are doubting your

own greatness. Who is in peace with oneself

doesn’t have to prove anything

to others. Who knows one’s own worth

doesn’t need validation. Who knows about one’s own greatness

lets others keep theirs. -Gabriele Ebbighausen

I read this poem several times a week to constantly remind myself to stay humble, never look down on anyone, and just focus on becoming great myself instead of putting others down. Work it into your morning routine or just ready it regularly. It will change your life as well!

What is your favorite poem that actually taught you something? Share it in the comments.

Thanks for reading!

Take care,

Julian