How it works

Lutkin says the weight loss method is effective because a month is long enough to see progress and short enough to make a commitment.

“I think, psychologically, it is very much easier to say, ‘Ok, I’m only going to do this for 30 days,’ than ‘This is the thing I’m going to do every day for the rest of my life,’ and that’s a very hard thing to grapple with,” Lutkin explains.

If you have a sedentary lifestyle, for example, Lutkin recommends making a goal to do something active each day for 45 minutes. Every month, try something different. The first month you can go for a 45 minute walk each day, the next month you can switch to bike riding, followed by swimming the next. The change in routine will continuously reinvigorate weight loss by challenging your body in new ways and will give you something different to look forward to, says the writer.

“I think we are more in tune with the cycle of the month than we realize,” says Lutkin. “For each month starting, it feels like a brand new thing, and then the month coming to a close, you’re in a new place.”

Make sure it’s fun

Don’t force yourself to run if you hate it. Don’t force yourself to eat salads every day if you hate salad. Instead, Lutkin advises doing activities and eating healthy foods you enjoy.

I think we are more in tune with the cycle of the month than we realize. For each month starting, it feels like a brand new thing, and then the month coming to a close, you’re in a new place.

“If you’re like ‘I am miserable every moment of this, it makes me really unhappy, it stresses me out,’ you can’t do it,” Lutkin says. “It’s not going to go anywhere. And I think we tend to think of taking care of ourselves as it’s supposed to be grueling and horrible, and it doesn’t have to be.”

She also recommends making weight loss a group experience. For instance, you can plan exercise date nights with friends who are also trying to change their lifestyles, she says. If you don’t have friends who are interested, there are plenty of weight loss support groups online, she says.

“I mean everyone is different, but if you’ve never tried it, I would definitely say try to do your weight loss practice or diet plan or exercise plan with other people,” she says. “Because, also, you want to talk about it, and your friends don’t want to hear about it, your family doesn’t want to hear about it, but because it’s taking over a big chunk of your experience on a daily basis you just need to vent and discuss what’s happening.”

Don’t think of weight loss as a cure all

Losing weight “feels great,” says Lutkin. But for her, it was about getting healthy through hard work, she says, not an obsession with looking good.

“Physically I have a lot more energy, I’m a lot stronger,” she says. “I love going and doing exercise classes [more] than I did before because I feel like I can keep up with them and challenge myself in a way that’s fun.”

Lutkin warns that weight loss, however, isn’t “a magic cure to all sorts of things.”

“But it can feel good to know that you can change yourself if you want to through slow and deliberate work, and that applies to all areas of life, it’s not just your body,” Lutkin concludes.

Aimée Lutkin, after losing 45 pounds by changing up her routine every 30 days

How to kick start weight loss every 30 days

How it works: Every 30 days, try something new. Whether it’s a new healthy diet trend or a new exercise regime, switching up your routine will prevent boredom and challenge your body in new ways.

Every 30 days, try something new. Whether it’s a new healthy diet trend or a new exercise regime, switching up your routine will prevent boredom and challenge your body in new ways. Make sure it’s fun: Don’t force yourself to do things or eat things you don’t enjoy. If you hate what you’re doing, you’re not likely to stick with it. If possible, make your weight loss journey a group experience with friends who will motivate you to stay on track.

Don’t force yourself to do things or eat things you don’t enjoy. If you hate what you’re doing, you’re not likely to stick with it. If possible, make your weight loss journey a group experience with friends who will motivate you to stay on track. Don’t think of weight loss as a cure all: There’s no magic solution to losing weight.Weight loss should be about getting healthier, not an obsession with looking good.

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