Each of us who were at Stonewall has a different view of the event. They run the gamut from it being a rebellion, a riot, a revolution, or simply a night of the queens having fun and taking over their home, Christopher Street.

There are many other versions espoused by people who were there, historical scholars, journalists, and people who like to make things up. Let’s parse out the facts and inconsistencies of all of these views.

Who was there?

It amazed me, as I was on my book tour, how many people came up to me and said “you remember me from Stonewall” and wanted me to confirm to their friends that they were indeed there. This has been a contentious issue; thousands of people claim to have been present.

To each person who approached me, I said, “It was a riot. You can’t take attendance at a riot.” But there are ways to at least make assumptions on who was there.

The best accounts are from those who, out of the ashes of Stonewall, created Gay Liberation Front. Many of us GLF members are still around.

Stonewall was not just one night. Those who were there know of the other three nights as well. Those nights helped form GLF. Stonewall and Gay Liberation Front are connected at the hip.

Writings on Stonewall published by our own community during the time period are more accurate, since mainstream media largely ignored it or was biased. A good place to start is Donn Teal’s The Gay Militants, published by Stein and Day in 1971. Many of those at Stonewall contributed to Donn’s work.

Here’s my simple rule: Anyone who propagates the myth that we were angry because of the funeral of Judy Garland wasn’t at Stonewall. That myth is an insult to all that did participate.

And it should be obvious, since we were in the counterculture of the 1960’s, not the ‘40s. Garland might have been the music of some 40 and 50 year olds who might have been in the bar, but those people were privileged enough to run away. To those of us who stayed, Garland was not on our mind.

It’s a stereotypical slur that was started by a straight white man writing about the event a week later in the Village Voice. None of those who have credible claim to being there think Garland was a factor.

Charles Kaiser, while being interviewed by The Washington Post about his book The Gay Metropolis, was quoted as saying he thought “the prospect that a funeral service for Garland held on the first night of the riots on the city’s Upper East Side inspired a grieving gay fandom to stand up to police bullies.” No, check your delusion in the mirror, historian.

Who threw the first rock?

Again, this was a riot, not an organized demonstration. People gathered in a semi circle around the front doors and across the street as police were letting people out. Something was said to the police, they said something back and then people started hurling objects towards the bar. Stones, empty cans.

The reality is no one actually knows who threw first, or even what they threw. Those of us who were at Stonewall all have different accounts, based on our own memories of that night, about what we did.

It wasn’t a precision march. Each person had a different experience. Some gathered at the door as people were let out, some ran up and down the streets letting others know what was happening and others wrote on the walls and streets “tomorrow night Stonewall,” to help organize the rallies in the days after.

To me, all the accounts of my brothers and sisters of Gay Liberation Front are correct since each account is their own personal memory and their different views on what created the riot. Everyone in GLF has a different perspective and I accept each person. Historians must take all of them in consideration in writing about that historic night, and, thus far, most of the work compiled has not done that well.

The two best-known recountings are David Carter’s Stonewall, which is more detailed and researched than anything that came before but written during a time of competing and conflicting views. Carter had to sift through the noise; he persevered, and his book can and should be used as a starting place to be built on.

The other well known Stonewall book, by Martin Duberman, focuses on just six people, over dramatizes the drama within the community, and is fueled by his personal, privileged agenda

The recent Roland Emmerich film, Stonewall, was a complete disappointment. There is no actual video footage from that first Stonewall night, and the photos you’ve seen are from the other nights. Cell phones weren’t invented yet.

Everything you’ve seen in the film is a (largely incorrect) re-creation built upon the director’s image, not ours. Several of us who were at Stonewall offered to help give the filmmakers detail and context, but none of us were asked to do so.

How many people were at Stonewall?

It went on for many hours. Some people were there the entire time; others came later. Even more were just passing by. Was it 50 or 200? We all have different views. My personal thought is less than a hundred from noting the numbers of people on the street.

The participants were scattered with the exception of those around the front door, which might make people think there were more people than there actually were.

Everything I’ve said thus far is from my own memory and from reading well-sourced materials. But here is what is absolutely known: from Stonewall came Gay Liberation Front. Without GLF, Stonewall would be as remembered as the Dewey’s sit-in or the Compton’s riot, both of which happened before Stonewall, but which the general public knows little about.

GLF, which helped organize the following three nights, made that first night historic by realizing that it was the catalyst for change that our community needed. Some might say that Gay Liberation Front, born from the ashes of Stonewall, might be more important then Stonewall itself.

Why do they say Stonewall birthed the movement?

Many people in New York in June 1969 were fed up with the antiquated tactics of prior movements such as asking for “homosexual equality,” as it was called by members of the Mattachine Society.

Before Stonewall, several of the early Gay Liberation Front founders, including Martha Shelley and Marty Robinson, were attempting to create a new movement. Others like Sylvia Rivera also wanted a new movement, but few people at that time from those earlier organizations wanted to be associated with her.

Gay Liberation Front was created and Sylvia was welcomed gladly. GLF helped us decide that we had the sole right to define ourselves rather than live by society’s definition. We were out loud and in your face. Rather than beg for our rights, we demanded them.

Then we did something even more revolutionary. We created a community where there was none before. Before GLF, the only place LGBT people met were small organizations in large cities, private parties, a few illegal gay bars, and cruising places.

One month after Stonewall, GLF had its first demonstration. We took over Christopher Street and told the police it was our home, our community, the very first gayborhood.

We invited what today would be called the trans community, including Sylvia Rivera and Marsha P. Johnson, to join our ranks. They created Street Transvestite Action Revolutionaries – STAR. Some of us created Gay Youth, the nation’s first organization for LGBT youth.

We held public dances and public meetings. We went on TV and radio shows, we printed and distributed publications and medical and legal alerts. We even created the first LGBT Community Center. If all of that was not enough in that first year, many of us joined with Craig Rodwell and helped form the “Christopher Street Gay Liberation Day March” – the first gay pride parade.

How dramatic was this? Before Gay Liberation Front, the nation had only around 100 openly gay people who would speak on behalf of our community or show up at a demonstration. In fact, there was only one demonstration a year. One. That was in Philadelphia each July 4th in front of Independence Hall from 1965-69. That national demonstration never drew more than a hundred participants.

One year after the creation of GLF, there were anywhere between 5,000 and 15,000 people at that first Pride. The FBI report states 3,000, The New York Times states 5,000. Those of us who were there think it was more. But even going from the Times‘ numbers, from one hundred to thousands in just one year is an incredible shift.

Modern LGBT orgs could learn the lessons of GLF and Stonewall to build a stronger community

Gay Liberation Front was a phenomenon with autonomous chapters sprouting up all over the nation and the world. GLF created the movement we have today. More importantly, GLF created what has become “the LGBT community” where there was no community before.

There are other lessons that could be learned from GLF. Today’s LGBT organizations struggle with the difficulties of the intersection of social justice movements working together. Gay Liberation Front joined with other movements and supported them regularly. Likewise, GLF welcomed diversity. It isn’t difficult to do the right thing.

Here is one last point, one that is personal and stated with a sense of pride. GLF was by far the most dysfunctional LGBT organization that has ever existed to this day, and that was part of its magic.

So much arguing, so much yelling, so much disagreement. But how else could it have fought off the oppression of 2,000 years and produced the first real out, proud, and in-your-face generation? How else could it have inspired people to come out when it was illegal to be openly gay? Disagreement isn’t necessarily bad when you’re trying destroy the status quo.

Stonewall created the Gay Liberation Front, but it was GLF that changed the world.