Anonymous wrote: Then what are you doing here???

Don’t know yet, still finding my way around. I just made an introductory post titled “don’t know if I belong here”. I joined because I read a few posts and felt inclined to give my input because of the misconceptions contained within them. I’m impulsive like that.

Anonymous wrote: What you call blame I call assigning fault where it lies. We are here assigning fault of the nature of women that when feral, on the injustices of law that protects them, and prevalent social norm of male disposability. We cannot assign fault? Must suck it up because life is not fair?

I NEVER said blame cannot be placed where it belongs.

I blame my ex-wife for spending most of our marital assets on her reckless and irresponsible spending habits and wasting a good part of the rest on attorneys fees for a contested divorce that could have been settled amicably and I blame her for much of the reason my daughters don’t speak to me.

But I don’t then go jump off a bridge. If I did, I’d have no one to blame but yours truly.

I don’t waste my time complaining about a flawed system that won’t change much during my lifetime.

I live my life to the fullest extend that I can and I don’t look in the rearview mirror and constantly complain about how infairly I was treated by the broken system because it’s a pointless exercise in futility and a waste of my valuable and limited time and resources.

Do you see the difference between what you said that I said and what I actually said?