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It certainly could be lithromanticism. Like any orientation, lithromantics are a diverse group. Some lithromantics actively desire a lack of reciprocation, but can cope with it if it does happen. On the other end of the spectrum, we have lithros who theoretically don’t mind reciprocation, but when it does happen, tend to be uncomfortable with it at best, and repulsed by it at worst.

Only you can tell for sure if you’re lithromantic. It’s not impossible for it to be something else.

But, what you’re describing definitely does fall within the realm of lithromanticism.

This doesn’t mean you can never have a relationship. You could have a queerplatonic relationship, you could have a sexual relationship (emotionally close or casual or anything else), you could even have a pseudo-romantic relationship if you found the right person for that and were able to pre-negotiate it in a way that worked for both you and your partner.

All those possibilities aside, if you consider yourself lithromantic, then you are lithromantic. Self-identification is the most important part of almost every identity.