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The On-Off Relationship Ft. Ross & Rachel





You guys love each other, but it is one of those toxic relationships where you want each other but end up breaking up everytime. You have given this relationship so many chances and gone through so much of pain that it has just become a regular thing for you guys. It keeps on going on and off. Either it is your fault or his and the other times it is just the whole situation that leads to dis-agreement. You just can't help but part ways but eventually again get back together.

If this is how your situation looks like? Then you are the ROSS & RACHEL of F.R.I.E.N.D.S









5 SIGNS YOU ARE ROSS AND RACHEL OF F.R.I.E.N.D.S





1. You keep digging each other's past-

Being in a relationship is being true to your partner and accepting their past and living in the present. But what most of us do is we keep digging and arguing about things which happened in the past. We bring things from the past and have illogical arguements leading to non-required disturbance in your relationship.





2. You involve other's in your relationship.

A relationship should be between two people and anything in-between those two should be in-between those two. No one should be allowed to interfere in a relationship. No one should be allowed to speak in between your problems. It's should always be You and her/him. Remember how Ross & Rachel used to drag the whole group in their arguements. Never do that! Whatever happens should be between you two and should be solved by both of you and not any other third person. Privacy is key.





3. You make excuses for your mistakes.

Remember the whole "WE WERE ON A BREAK" situation. Accept your mistakes, rather than getting away from it by making excuses. It will just pile on. Making mistakes is human tendency but accepting it is always a good idea if you want to save your relationship.









4. Ego rules your relationship

A relationship should be balanced and ego should be kept at the edge. Never prioritize your ego more than your love towards the other person. For this you will say that you are the one who keep ranting about self-love and self-respect. So Darling, Self- Respect and Ego are two completely different concepts. Don't label ego as self-respect and destroy your relationship.









5. Sacrifice is more, reward is less.

Remember how Rachel left her 'Dream Job' and got off the plane? In these relationships, you sacrifice alot for your respective partners. Love is about sacrificing a lil bit. But giving up everything is stupidity. Your goals, your success, your dreams are far more important. If your partner helps in achieving those goals then it is a healthy relationship.





Ross & Rachel were fictional characters but if you face such things in your relationship then it's time to end it. But if still you think you could end up like ross and rachel, you are free to try. But ending things and living peacefully individually is far more of a great idea then having so many problems and mis-communication leading to a toxic relationship. I'll always prefer a healthy relationship like mondler rather than Ross and Rachel.





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