nonbinarygamzee:

Cis ppl are fuckin incredible. ‘Dont fight hate with hate’ as if trans people really hate every cis person around. Even if they do they have a right to be suspicious of an oppressive group as a whole and your cis tears arent gonna do anything but make everyone see how badly you wanna turn the trans communities issues to be about you

sorry 2 add but like also??? cis ppl r fucking incredible by not only turning trans people’s discomfort into a whole big thing about how cis people are hated, but u ever notice how they also turn our fucking fear of them into something about them?

like if a trans person says they are afraid around cis people, the only think you’ll hear is “not all cis people are like that!!!” instead of acknowledgment that yeah but some are and they do the most damage?? also if you are able to pass and you dont tell a cis person right when you meet them, when they find out a lot of the time theyre first reaction is “but why didn’t you tell me >:’(!!” instead of listen and recognizing that for a lot of trans people coming out can basically be a death sentence, and if not that, just really humiliating and scary?? like

cis people r a fucking trip