*Obsessively check your email, because that’s where all the good news comes from.

*Know what the fee debate is.

*Have paid one. At least once. (Maybe in secret.)

*Have moments where you know nobody is being honest with you. (Or are at least paranoid that they aren’t.)

*Feel euphoria for days after typing “END OF PLAY.”

*Can become demoralized, depressed, discouraged, and call your whole life and purpose into question because of a negative review.

*Or a less than enthusiastic response from a loved one.

*Don’t believe every good thing you hear—but want to.

*Hear the words coming out of actors’ mouths and can barely remember writing them.

*Can make a coffee date with a playwright you never met and lose track of time talking.

*Have written a play based on a dream.

*Call writing a page a good day.

*Have resilience that nobody else can understand.

*Believe this play you’re working on is the best you’ve ever written.

*Can’t describe that painful place your head goes when it’s trying to reconcile something in the script and it’s not happening—but know exactly what it is.

*Miss your characters when you type “END OF PLAY.”

*Say “Congratulations!” while thinking, “So how did that happen?”

*Understand the elation that comes from a positive, personal rejection, followed by the realization that it’s still another rejection.

*Have bristled at a rejection that called you “brave” and entreated you to “keep writing.”

*Panic about what’s next after typing “END OF PLAY.”

*Know that your own opening nights aren’t really fun; they’re weird.

*Have recommended BACKWARDS AND FORWARDS at least twice.

*Could probably stand to reread it yourself (but won’t… at least not right now).

*Can somehow spot problems in other plays more easily than you can spot them in your own.

*Can define admiration as “I wish I wrote that.”

*And envy as, “I probably couldn’t.” (Probably!)

*Always wish you had more time to write.

*Can’t stop.

I imagine this will be an ongoing post, that I’ll add to as I think of them. But if you have some of your own, feel free to add them in the comments (as opposed to on Facebook), so that everybody can see them.

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