Thanks to everyone for the birthday wishes yesterday. Benihana’s was a rousing success, unbelievably enough. My niece and nephew actually liked their food. I think Nicholas has a new favorite restaurant now. He’d never been so of course he’s excited about it. I think if you ask him next week he won’t care, but hey, at least for one night it worked. Anyway, very excited for you all to listen to Podcast #28 today with Lesley Murphy. She appeared on Sean’s season and was eliminated right before hometowns, and we talk about all that stuff, but I think her life post-show has been quite a ride. She’s lived in Argentina, she is just recently out of 4 year relationship, and underwent a double mastectomy within the last couple months. To say she’s been through a lot would be an understatement. If you’ve followed her at all on social media, you know how open she’s been about the whole process. She’s inspired so many women and it’s really amazing to see. As always, if you want to respond to the podcast, please include Lesley’s Twitter handle (@LesleyMurph) in your reply so she can see it. As a guy who’s never been out of the country to talk to someone who seemingly is in a different country every other week, it was quite interesting. Hope you enjoy…

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(SPOILERS) Lesley joins me from Banff, Canada, we talk about how she originally got cast on the “Bachelor,” (2:36), her limo entrance (7:20), who she thought was her biggest competition upon arriving (8:24), all of Tierra’s exploits in the house (10:17), her and Sean setting the Guinness Book of World Records for Longest On Screen Kiss & what you didn’t see (17:52), her relationship with Catherine (22:54), getting eliminated in St. Croix (28:36), I tell her how I found out she got eliminated (32:16), talking about the first and only time we’ve met & what she asked me (38:19), her ex-boyfriend Wade & their 4 year relationship that ended (42:50), her travel blog (52:54), how I’ve never been out of the country (59:19), testing positive for the BRCA2 gene & undergoing a double mastectomy recently (1:07:36), what made her decide to document everything she was going through (1:14:13), and finally end with Rapid 10 (1:27:25).

Twitter: @LesleyMurph

Instagram: lesleyannemurphy

Website: The Road Les Traveled

Snapchat: LesMurph

I only had one “Dr. Reality Steve” this week so I will just include it with next week’s batch. So you can start getting your emails in right now for next week. Also remember if you’d like to appear on Sharleen and I’s podcast beginning next month, have a relationship/sex/dating/marriage question and have access to Skype Audio, contact either of us and let us know your situation and your availability. We’ll be taking your calls for the show as we discuss all things having to do with relationships. Can’t wait to get started on this show since Sharleen is one of the most opinionated and well spoken contestants this show has had. You all seemed to enjoy her when I had her on the podcast in March so I figured why not make her my co-host for this venture with Stitcher Premium. Excited about this opportunity.

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