when you follow someone who you really like and maybe are even friends with but they ship things that make your headmates really, really uncomfortable and they like to post about them frequently enough that it’s a problem and so you just sit there staring blankly at the computer screen because what the fuck are you supposed to do about it because no matter what you do they’re either going to be offended and defensive or hurt or really confused or won’t take you seriously at all and then how bad could that fuck up your rapport with them I mean really