I want to ask you three questions, which you are to answer truly to yourself. Do not just read on; there’s no benefit in that. Close your eyes and from the bottom of your heart ask yourself these three questions one by one:

1. What’s your greatest fear?

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2. What’s the one thing that makes you angry?

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3. What’s the one thing that you want to change about yourself? Or If you could make any one change in yourself, what would it be?

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Are you done answering? If not, do it and only then continue further.

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Okay, so now, I assume that you have answered the questions.

Now, I am going to read your mind and give you your answers

1. What’s your greatest fear?

You have a lot of dreams, a long way to go and a lot to achieve. You are afraid that you may not reach them, that it may never come true, that you may never have your desired life.

2. What’s the one thing that makes you angry?

It boils your blood when people do not treat you well. When people do not understand you. When they discriminate and categorise you. When they act like you are a nobody, like you are inferior to them.

3. What’s the one thing that you want to change about yourself? Or If you could make any one change in yourself, what would it be.

You are a loser and want to be a winner. You are not satisfied with your life; you haven’t achieved anything great yet.

Shocked to see just how much I know about you?

The Truth

How do I know your answers? Well here’s a little not-so-secret: We all give the same answers. The very act of me having written a post, which correctly guesses your greatest fear, anger and the one thing that you want to change about yourself, has huge implications, let’s go through them one by one:

Being afraid is natural.

It’s about getting over all your fears and hesitations.(tweet this!)

We all are scared, you are not alone. It’s fine to be afraid; it’s in our nature. It not because you lack the skills or the resources or even time. You have it all in you. You can do it. People do not mistreat you; it’s all just an illusion.

It’s about not caring as to what others do and also not falling for your own brain’s tricks and illusions.(tweet this!)

There’s only two possible explanation of the fact that we all feel mistreated by people — either the human race is doomed and we all have lost our inter-person communication manners, or maybe it’s all just little misunderstandings. Now, the first option sounds a little too far-fetched, and so I would go with the second one.

People do not mistreat you. People are very kind to you; it’s just that we tend to dwell over and keep thinking about those very few incidents in which we had some misunderstanding with someone, or just, may be just, the other person was being a jerk. A few people are not able to think of anything good to do to feel great about themselves and so they take the easier root and put others down to get a sense of being great. You are so used to polite behaviour, that you tend to ignore and forget them — they are the norm, and when in rare cases, someone misbehaves, it gets highlighted in your memory. It’s psychology, it’s a bias, it’s an illusion. It’s your internal drive to achieve greatness.

You really have not achieved anything in comparison to all that you are truly capable of and destined to.(tweet this!)

It’s not that you are a loser. It’s your internal drive to achieve greatness.We as humans have the need to feel great about oneself. It’s this need for meaning that has driven the human race to where it stands today. The only difference is what inspires you, and doing what will truly make you feel great. Doesn’t that just make total sense? What’s the one thing you want? To feel great and good about yourself. The though is not to demotivate you, but instead to raise you above all hurdles and give you the strength to go out there and do it.

What should your answers be?

I have infinite potential within me; I can do anything I want. I am afraid that knowingly or unknowingly I may do some harm. (tweet this!) I am angry because I never get to have challenges and adventures of my own, God is always there to help me out, to show me the way. (tweet this!) There’s nothing that I want to change about myself; I am happy as I am. (tweet this!)

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