Basically, all of us very well know that there are things that are in human power or control and then we have to accept that there are things that are beyond our power, influence or control. We can say that which is in our power is destiny or which is in God’s power is decree. Human life is very uncertain just like a bubble of water. His life revolves around many people and things. Man has many phases from childhood to old age, every time he has different challenges and issues which demands some sort of responsibility and duty, but anyhow he always manages to go through it, this process is never ending till death. He surrounds himself with many people as he can’t live all alone (being social animal) and need people to live with different ages and with different circles, parents, spouse ,friend and collegues.

Human existence is very mysterious. Human being is a paradox. Nothing is under humans control as everything is functioning without the involvement of man, yet everything is subjected towards him, for man to gain dominance over it, which is why God made man the successor of earth. To make him dominating over all creations. That’s why humans have the tendency and curiosity to conquer this universe from every angle, obviously for that he keeps learning and experiencing the new things every time.

This curiosity compels him to learn more and more at every phase of his life.That’s why we are enjoying the best of the things in the 21st century. Neither our responsibility will end nor our curiosity will come to conclusion. This inspiration keeps us moving towards the new dimensions. We have to take it on face value, that we just decide many things, which turn out to be successful but sometimes unable to fill the colour in our plan due to many drawbacks or shortcoming. Nevertheless we should be optimistic and try our level best to achieve good results. So keeping in mind the above points ..We have to utilise the best of our quality.

Sense of responsibility

Peace of mind

Determination

Positive attitude

Contentment

Kindness

Sharing

Accept criticism

Avoid laziness

Financially independent before settling down.

These attributes need to be developed at any stage or at any time, then one can settle in his/her life. The most important thing we must know before settling down in our life is to understand our purpose of existence in our life and work towards it. It is temporary but it is the only chance to make an impression and that is what we are here to do as a creation of our Creator.