



The Difference Between A Common Man And A Gentleman

Ways That Helps You To Get Success And Makes Your Behavior Like A Gentleman









Do you know, what is the difference between a common man and a gentleman? Why people say only some specific persons "Gentleman"? What type of qualities he contain in himself? What makes his thinking different from others? Today, we discuss the same.

But, before starting you have to carry one thing in your mind that these qualities are natural, or since birth in some people. Or if you want to adopt these qualities, you have to work upon it or you see better results in less time interval. One thing always remember if you are going to start any new thing, you have to determine always towards your work and to control your mind our the most effective technique is "MEDITATION".

Let start the qualities which helps you, and support you to fight with your worst time. And after adopting these qualities you handle the situations effectively.

1.Start Loving The People Who Always Find Mistakes In You

This is one of the best effective way to clean your bad habits. When you start to live with a person who always try to find mistakes in your behavior and highlights your shortcomings then, you have to carry on with this type of people. Generally in real life, you get angry when anyone find your shortcomings because of our attitude, and you try to go far from that type of a person. But, if you think it psychologically he is giving benefit to you. This type of persons always try to find your shortcomings and you have only listen without any anger and have to work upon it, after sometime when you clean all your bad habits. It makes you to become a perfect man without any extra effort. Or we say "Gentleman" to that person which is so perfect in all the things.





2.Confidence On Yourself

This is a key point to get success or one of the best quality that needed to all. But many people are confused between this term. In paper you easily that you need confidence but, in real life it is so dangerous to judge whether you are confident, under confident or over confident. Most of the people are confusing between these terms that how they get know about their confidence level. So today I share a strategy with you. And we understand this by taking an example, imagine that you are preparing for your tomorrow exam. You read all your books and you are going to sleep with an intention that tomorrow you have to wake up and will go to give the exam. But, when you going to sleep three type of persons. One think I read all but it is impossible to crack the exam for me tomorrow and went to sleep with a tensed mind, with a thinking to read more this is "under confident". Another one think I read all, and this time no one can beat me, whatever the paper is surely I win. There is no book left to read. I read all the thing, and take a sleep with an extra joy. This is "overconfident". But confident never show behavior that they both show. He always say to himself that how much amount I read is satisfactory for me, and anything come from that how much I read. I will do it safely and sleep with calm mind.

So, be confident and do your work by pacifying your mind.







3.Keep Smiling

You always have to give a first priority to your smile. In every situation you have to keep smile on your face. This indicates your positivity towards your life. And sometimes it works like an acid for those who want to see you in sadness. Always remind:

No one present to see your tears, but your one smile gives jealousy to many.

4.Routine And Discipline

If you want to do things great in your life, then have to follow a daily routine. Make your daily routine, and keep follow it. Plan your work, organize it and then, apply. If there is no routine in your life then, you can't understand when you have to complete which particular thing. And after a time all get mixed up. Recently, tennis star Novak Djokovic also revealed his routine and explained how he wake up early in the morning with his whole family and how he welcome the rising Sun every morning. So, in short for doing your work successfully, it is important to follow a routine and specific discipline in your life.





5.Not Excepting Much From Your Life

This is true, many times I see or I think you also note down this that many times you planned a thing according to yourself and except the same that you not done any mistake and this time surely you would get whatever you want, but suddenly life take a curve and deflect from your expectations. This called life, whatever your life wants only that happen. So not expecting much from your life, only try to do your work safely.





6.Hard Work Is Better Than Luck

You all know this, very well. Luck keep you on a winning track one time, two times or three times. But never give you a continuous win, since it's probability of win is so less. But, if you talk about hard work then, it gives you win always. Whatever you do as a hard work, their results you always get. And it also increases your wining probability





7.Always Keep Your Mood Neutral

This is a common thing between all successful people. In good time or in a worst time, both they always keep their mood neutral, this reflects your way of seeing life, way in which you understand people. This is a point which makes them great. People having wisdom neither excited too much on their wins and nor flowing tears on their lose.





8.Work Sensibly

You always have to focus on your work whatever you do. Try to do your work with effort because "no one is great, it is a their work that makes them great". You always have to focus on your work, because only work is responsible to make you a unique one, in the eyes of the whole world.











