Give up on online dating, go out into the world, make yourself an interesting person, focus on your goals and talk to women along the way. That's all it is. You're looking too much into it which is depressing yourself and everyone else. I'm fukking tired of it, quit hiding behind the computer, quit going with the other cowards and WKs who are too scared to approach IRL, grab your balls, muster up the testicular fortitude and ask the sloot if she saw the last episode of walking dead or if she's done with that machine. It's not hard to do. They're normal people, sometimes it works out, sometimes it doesn't.