Banangana Fri 23-Aug-19 04:03:45

I'm considering buying plane tickets to fly out and see him... am I crazy?



Where is your child while all of this is happening?



* I did love him too, we spent hours on the phone every day whilst in contact, I genuinely believe we are meant for each other.*



I have several exes who I spoke to for hours on end and a few platonic friends who I also do it with. They're not my souls mates and it's not a sign that we're meant to be. I may be wrong but it sounds as if these are the only two men you've been involved with romantically. It didn't work out with the husband as he turned out to be abusive and now you're pinning all your hopes on this other man. Even if 'the one' did exist, It's unlikely that it would be him, given that he waited around for 7 years and in that time you not only chose not to be to be in a relationship with him, you married someone else and had a child.



You need to let him go, work on yourself and on recovering from your abusive marriage for your own sake and for the sake of your child. When you're in a better place then you can seek out a healthy relationship that is free from drama. This man will not be a knight in shining armour that helps heal the wounds from your previous marriage and you won't be riding off into the sunset.