This year I read lots of self-help books.

I learned how to be more productive, how to be a better romantic partner, and how to advance at work.

Below, I've listed the top takeaways from the books I read. For example: Approach dating like dieting, and remember that your coworkers aren't your family.

My friends often make fun of me for forgetting everything I read. I like to think that's because I read a lot, and not because my mind is a sieve.

This year I read tons of books in the category commonly known as "self-help" (here at Business Insider, we prefer the term "self-improvement"). And while it's true I don't remember everything I learned, there are tips and insights that will stick with me for a long time.

Below, I've described the takeaways that really resonated with me and the delightful books they came from.