We all like and dislike different things about ourselves, and sometimes we're uncertain about the differences we see in someone else. One of the coolest parts of this video comes at 4:25. I'd love for you to watch the whole thing, but please at least watch that part, where she talks about what she perceives as her differences. What mattered most to me is how I felt on the inside while she explained how she looks on the outside because our emotions mirrored each other while she talked ... and that's a great indicator of how similar we actually are.