Growing up, I was one of the kids that got “needs to speak up more in class” on their report. When it came to nominations for our school yearbook, I was named one of the quietest people in the year. And they spelt my name wrong.

“The Quiet One”

Truthfully, I despised being known as “the quiet one” because I knew that wasn’t entirely true. My sister and I caused havoc at home, mucking around in the garden and creating chaotic radio shows with our tape recorder. We were frequently told to keep the noise down!

I did, however, spend many a dinner-time daydreaming; my body was present, but my mind had drifted off. Dad built me a high-rise bed with a den underneath — I could sit under there for hours listening to my CDs and feel quite invigorated.

It wasn’t until my late teens that I started to discover why my personality was so contradictory. It was all to do with how I processed information, and where I felt most energised. I was introverted.

But if I had a penny for every time I saw a negative article surrounding introversion, humorous or otherwise, I could buy a pack of Jelly Babies from my overpriced local shop. So instead of creating yet another “struggles of an introvert” post, I thought I’d run through the reasons why I like being introverted. It’s time to highlight the positives.

Here’s Why I like Being Introverted:

I can spot the quiet person

In any group of people, whether it’s a party, networking event, or family gathering, there will be at least one quieter person, perhaps an introverted person, who is on the edge. I know, because I am often that person! They nearly always have something brilliant to say, so I like seeking them out.

I’m comfortable by myself

An introverted person likes social events, but doesn’t need them to have a good time. For me, a good book and a chilled out Sonos playlist goes down a treat.

I have opportunities to step out of my comfort zone daily

I believe there are few things more damaging than living a comfortable life, because you miss out on opportunities to grow. As an introverted person, I can push the boundaries by stopping to chat to my neighbour rather than rushing past, or calling the bank instead of living with a forgotten password. It means I have little successes every day and I get into the habit of doing things that make me feel uncomfortable.

I’m good at “working things out”

Remember my dinner-time daydreaming? I’m naturally good at thinking things through and coming up with creative solutions to problems.

I naturally avoid drama

Generally, introverted people do their best to avoid conflict and although this has its disadvantages in some situations, it’s wonderful to dodge the “drama” that is often unavoidable in workplaces and friendship groups. I’m usually the last to find out anything, but I’d rather that than be caught up in petty arguments and gossip.

Now that I’ve shared a few reasons why I like being introverted, I want to open up the conversation. Introverted or extroverted, I’m interested to know why you love being wired the way you are. Be brave and leave a comment!