“The game ‘Pull a Pig’ comes up a lot with fat women. Lads seek out the fattest woman they can find, and the competition is to sleep with her and then display her as a trophy, exposing her to public ridicule. That happened to me at 17. I thought, 'Wow, I’ve met a nice dude, we’ve had sex, and now he’s inviting me for lunch with his friends.' When I walked into that pub, a massive cheer erupted. His friends handed him an envelope full of notes, and he slapped my arse and said, ‘Thanks for that, love.’