Allison Moon: I would never recommend going on social media immediately, but rather just kind of following the trails of individuals who already explore this stuff in their lives. Those people can often be great resources for you in terms of talking about how you want the party to be. Also, those are often the people that are like the ringers. Those are the people who are coming to the sex party to get the ball rolling. As a host, you don't have to be that person.