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The G-spot maybe doesn't actually exist.

At least not in the sense that there is a button in your vagina that, when pressed, = orgasm. It's a bit more complex than that (surprise!).

First, some G-spot background: For years, researchers have known that there's an area about an inch or two up on the inside front wall of the vagina (the side closest to your belly button) that is associated with intense pleasure. That's why men's magazines love to recommend that your partner should insert a finger into your vagina and make a "come hither" motion to stimulate it.

Here's where it gets a bit complicated: Imaging research and surveys done on twins have failed to find an actual organ, or distinct part of the anatomy, responsible for all that pleasure. Plus, not all women report having G-spots, or being able to find one on themselves.

What does this mean? Well, that new research is pointing to the idea that instead of there being a particular spot or button that causes orgasms, the clitoris, urethra, and front side of the vaginal wall all work together as a "clitourethrovaginal complex." When all three are stimulated just right, it can result in what some people refer to as a vaginal orgasm (aka a G-spot orgasm). Tell your partner not to retire that "come hither" motion just yet.