Tips For Moving With Children

People move to new homes because of various reasons. For example, you could be moving due to changes in your financial status or job location. Perhaps you are chasing a dream or following someone. Sometimes, you could be moving because you and your children need a change of environment. In truth, many benefits come with this kind of transformation.





The most obvious benefit is that a new home comes with new possibilities including new friendships and an opportunity to "start fresh". It also gives your children an opportunity to let go of bad influences. For example, some of their friends may be engaging in reckless behavior. Removing your kids from these negative environments is an excellent idea.





Here are several things kids will face, as well as ways you can make the move easier on them, while ensuring they stay engaged through the entire home relocation process.





Moving Challenges For Kids

People have a strong attachment to their childhood. More specifically, individuals remember how they played on the street, the person that was nice to them, and what lessons they learned as kids. Consequently, children will often resist any attempt you make towards a new home because of their attachment to the current one.





Remember, most kids are keen on keeping their friends, toys, school, and playgrounds. Almost everyone knows them and they know everybody so asking them to move to an unfamiliar place is a daunting task.





Your children will also resist because they know moving comes with a lot of hard work. For example, you have to pack and label everything. You also have to load the packed items onto a moving truck and then offload them as soon as you get to your new home. Moreover, finding a school is a bit of work.





Your kids know they may have to visit numerous schools before the right one is found. Furthermore, children are aware of the fact that building friendships takes time, patience, and understanding.







Organize a Reconnaissance Trip with Your Kids

Take them on a reconnaissance mission so that they can survey the area. Make sure that you visit all the fun places in the new city or town. For example, take them to the local mall and shop for a few things. Go to the local amusement park and let them enjoy a few rides. Is there zoo nearby? Take them there so that they can see how remarkably diverse your new town or city is.





Keep the interests of your children in mind as you take these excursions. More specifically, ensure that each place you visit appeals to them so that they feel like they never want to leave the area. The more easily they can relate to an area the sooner they will adapt to their new surroundings and feel comfortable in their new home.





Hunt For A House With Your Kids

Children love it when you involve them in the family decision-making process. It makes them feel as though you value their opinion. Hunting for a house with your kids shows them that you care about their feelings. In fact, they will feel as though they are making the decision to move to the new area as opposed to feeling as though you have forced them to do so.

Moreover, your kids have vital insights to offer you. You can benefit from their help.





Remember, you are dealing with a lot of pressure as you prepare for the move so you might overlook a few things. Your kids will not overlook those tiny details that you are likely to forget.





Involve Them In The Design and Decoration Of Your Home

You do not have to build a palace for your children, but they can turn it into their little kingdom if you encourage them to be creative. For example, perhaps your son loves batman and as such, he would want a batman theme in his bedroom. Let him have it. Your daughter could be in love with pink. You should paint her room pink so that she enjoys sleeping there.





These little steps create miles of understanding between you and your children. None of them will feel neglected. Instead, your new house will seem like an adventure to them with a plot they helped develop not a home moving experience they want to forget.





Introduce Them To Fun Activities

Kids appreciate any chance to play or explore their talents. Unfortunately, many children cannot seek these opportunities on their own. That means you should look for a fun activity they can do and then introduce them to it.





For instance, scouting activities are entertaining because they involve bonding, traveling, and camping. Churches also have many things for kids to do including singing, dancing, acting, and reading among other things. Also, sporting stadiums usually have programs specifically meant for children.





Kids who have just moved to a new area will think about their old neighborhoods if they remain idle. Keep them occupied with fun activities so that they can focus on the present and the future.





Encourage Staying In Touch With Their Friends

Parting with their friends is the hardest thing kids have to do when you are moving to a new home . Many children are not yet mature enough to deal with such drastic changes. Instead, they will rely on you to guide them through this emotionally charged period.





You can assure them that they are not letting go of their friends completely. They can still talk to them on phone, through email, and most importantly, through social media. They can even visit them on special occasions like Christmas or on their birthday.





However, if part of the reason you have moved is to remove them from negative peer pressure or a poor choice in friendships, it is wise to dissuade future contact as this could cause your kids to revert back to old behaviors or seek out similar contacts in their new community.





Teach Your Kids Social Skills

neighborhood Your kids have to cope with new teachers, classmates, convenience store owners, and neighbors when you move to a new neighborhood. Teach them relevant social skills that will help them get along with these people. For example, what are the cultural norms in your new area? Teach your kids those norms so that they can understand social behaviors within their new





More importantly, teach them about safety and security. They should not assume that everyone is as amicable as the people in their previous neighborhood were. That means they should be cautious when they interact with individuals who live around their new home.





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The reality is, each of your children is likely to handle a new move in a completely different way. That is ok. The key is to engage with them on their level and find out how to help them not only cope with the impending move but to thrive through the experience. Have a fun and stress free move!