

At the Library of Congress, public affairs assistant Bryonna Head, left, and historian Barbara Bair listen as manuscript specialist Adrienne Cannon reads aloud a letter from Lewis Douglass to Helen Amelia Loguen. (Amanda Voisard/for the Washington Post)

“My Own Dear Amelia: How can I express the pleasure it affords me to receive a letter written by hand of her I love. . . .

“Men and women talk of love, can anyone describe it? Can any one give the reason why one person loves another to the exclusion of every one else. . . . I know many ladies, who are amiable kind, talented and refined, all that a man can wish, and yet I cannot love them or do not love them as I love you, and they may be like you, but to me they are different. . . . So I say reason or no reason, some undefinable force attracts me to you, and I have no means of resisting it and would not if I had.

“Affectionately LEW.”

“LEW” was Lewis Douglass, the eldest son of abolitionist Frederick Douglass, and he was writing to his beloved H. Amelia Loguen on June 16, 1862, from Rochester, N.Y.

Try finding this kind of heartfelt affection on a Match.com profile.

But once upon a time, before the age of tweets and Tinder, lovers took ink to paper to express their devotion to one another. So for this Valentine’s Day, The Washington Post asked curators at the Library of Congress to select some of their favorite love letters.

[President Warren Harding’s steamy love letters]

Adrienne Cannon, African American history and culture specialist for the library’s manuscript division, focused on letters written by Lewis Douglass to Helen Amelia Loguen.

Library of Congress manuscript specialist Adrienne Cannon reads a letter aloud from Lewis Douglass to Helen Amelia Loguen. (Amanda Voisard/for The Washington Post)

“The letters present a beautiful black love story, preserved for posterity,” Cannon said. “Lewis Douglass’s singular love and devotion for Amelia Loguen inspired him to poetry, helped sustain him through war, and culminated in an enduring marriage.”

They would marry after Douglass was honorably discharged from the 54th Massachusetts Volunteer Infantry following the Civil War. (His was the regiment depicted in the movie “Glory.”)

Curator Sahr Conway-Lanz, a manuscript historian, chose letters written by President Woodrow Wilson to the widow Edith Bolling Galt. Wilson had fallen in love with Galt a year after the death of his wife, Ellen Axon Wilson, in 1914. Conway-Lanz said the two kept their romance a secret until they were ready to make their engagement public.

“This was clearly tough on both of them,” he said. That longing is clear in a July 18, 1915, letter.

“My precious sweetheart: There are so many things I want to say first — but I can’t decide where to begin — but as a preliminary I will ease my heart by saying that which is dearest in all the world — and it is — I love you — love you — love you.”

One of Wilson’s advisers, Conway-Lanz said, wrote: “It seems the president is wholly absorbed in this love affair and is neglecting practically everything else.”

The couple married Dec. 18, 1915.

Curator Julie Miller, an early American history specialist, picked a now-famous letter by Thomas Jefferson to Maria Cosway, written Oct. 12, 1786, while Jefferson was U.S. ambassador to France. Jefferson was a widower; Cosway was married. But that did not halt the future president.

“He clearly fell in love with her,” Miller said.

The 12-page letter is structured as a dialogue between his head and his heart. It is the ambivalence in the correspondence that intrigued Miller.

“Seated by my fire side, solitary and sad, the following dialogue took place between my Head and my Heart.

“Head. Well, friend, you seem to be in a pretty trim.

“Heart. I am indeed the most wretched of all earthly beings. Overwhelmed with grief, every fibre of my frame distended ­beyond its natural powers to bear, I would willingly meet whatever catastrophe should leave me no more to feel or to fear.”

Curator Michelle A. Krowl, a specialist in the Civil War and Reconstruction, selected a letter written by Ulysses S. Grant to Julia Dent. Grant met Dent when he traveled with his former West Point roommate Frederick Dent to St. Louis. “He was quickly besotted” with Dent’s sister Julia, and they became engaged on May 22, 1844, Krowl said. “But Grant’s military career and her father’s condition that they wait to marry until Grant’s professional life was more stable postponed their marriage.”



Library of Congress Civil War and Reconstruction specialist Michelle Krowl looks at letters between Ulysses S. Grant and his wife, Julia Dent. (Amanda Voisard/for The Washington Post)

Library of Congress Civil War and Reconstruction specialist Michelle Krowl reads correspondence between Ulysses S. Grant and his wife, Julia Dent. (Amanda Voisard/for The Washington Post)

In a letter dated Jan. 2, 1846, from Corpus Christi, Tex., Grant, who was growing impatient with their delayed wedding, begs Dent to speak with her father.

“You know Julia what I think we would be justifiable in doing if his consent is still withheld and I hope you think nearly with me. . . . You alone Julia have it in your power to decide whether despite ev[e]rything we carry our engagement into effect. You have only to decide for me to act. If you will set a tim[e] when I must be in Missouri I will be there no matter if my Reg.t is still in Texas. The matter is one of importance enough to procure a leave of absence, and besides for the love I bear my dear Julia I would not value my commission to[o] highly to resign it. My happiness would be complete if a return mail should bring me a letter setting the time not — far distant — when I might ‘clasp that little hand and call it mine.’

“Your Devoted Lover, Ulysses”

Krowl said Grant’s letters clearly reveal “the depth of his love for Julia and how central she had become to his life.”

[‘An offer of my heart’: A story of black love after the Civil War]

Love letters written by famed Hollywood director Rouben Mamoulian to his wife, Azadia, were written from the perspective of their pet cats.

“Rouben and Azadia never had children,” said senior archive specialist Laura J. Kells. “Their cats were their children. . . . When he died there were 40 cats in his Beverly Hills home. He died flea-ridden.”

“We are all independent and free, With each other we never agree, But for once, on this day, all as one we can say: “Will you pet us and feed us? Always love us and need us? Or, in short rain or shine, Be our sweet Valentine?!”

He signed the Feb. 14, 1973, letter “Little Pretty, Naba, Mata Hari, Tigress, Abigayil, Zorro and Chunky.”



Library of Congress historian Barbara Bair holds a letter from the poet Walt Whitman to his significant other, Peter Doyle. (Amanda Voisard/for The Washington Post)

During the Civil War, Walt Whitman moved to Washington, where he met Peter Doyle, a former Confederate soldier. Whitman’s letters, including those to Doyle, were recently put online by the Library of Congress.

“They met one stormy night in 1865 when Whitman was the last passenger on Doyle’s car,” according to the Library Congress exhibit. “To Pete, the poet looked ‘like an old sea-captain.’ We were familiar at once. I put my hand on his knee — we understood from that time on we were the biggest sort of friends.”

“They said it was love at first sight,” said Barbara Bair, literature and cultural specialist.

They took long walks. Whitman read Shakespeare to him. Doyle read limericks. In love letters, Whitman referred to Doyle as comrade, son and darling.

Their relationship changed, Bair said, when Whitman suffered a nearly fatal stroke while working late in the Treasury building. He moved to Camden, N.J., to live with his brother and recuperate.

In a letter dated June 20, 1877, Whitman wrote:

“Dear, dear boy Pete I’m stopping here now for a week or two in the house I believe I have mentioned to you before, and where I wanted you to come and see me and still want you if you have a chance. But I spend most of my time down at an old farm down in New Jersey where I have a fine secluded wood and Creek and springs, where I pass my time alone, and yet not lonesome at all (often think of you Pete and put my arm around you and hug you up close, and give you a good buss often.)

“Your Old Walt.”

The profound portrayal of “longing” caused by the distance between the two lovers makes the letter compelling, Bair said.

Lucy Stone, an early women's rights advocate, is shown in this photograph around 1853. (G.W. Bartlett/Library of Congress)

Janice E. Ruth, assistant chief in the manuscript division, chose love letters between abolitionist and women’s rights advocate Lucy Stone and Henry Blackwell.

Stone initially had no intention of marrying Blackwell, Ruth said, but Blackwell was persistent.

“They decided to use their wedding ceremony as a vehicle for focusing on laws discriminatory to women. Stone kept her maiden name, and they eliminated the marriage vow ‘to obey,’ and circulated a written protest against the 19th century marriage laws which denied women all legal standing,” Ruth said.

In a letter dated Feb. 19, 1855, Stone wrote:

“I received your two letters dearest Harry — the one from Ann Arbor and the other from Battle Creek, on my return from Shalamazoo (where I wrote you last.) A fervent ‘thank God,’ escaped my lips as I read your deliverance from the railroad disaster. Never until then had I known how dear or how necessary you are to me. But when I reflected how barren life would be to me if you had been killed, how much of its sunshine, and its power of use, would have gone more than ever before, I felt how much I need you.”