There is no sure fire solutions to all of this, even if ERA is supposed to be more progressive than other sites, it's still a reflection of society as large, and society is not exactly a progressive paradise right now, much less on a majorly american forum.The first step is that people need to remember that this largely male problem does not equal "all men", i mean, fuck, OP had to bold it to avoid a torrent of "but not all men!", yes we get it, not all men, just because misogyny is rampant doesn't mean your instant knee jerk reaction is "but im not like that" if you acknowledge there is a problem and you claim not to be part of it, then you need to be part of the solution and start reflecting on why there is a problem, why there is that perseption and how to fix it.Furthemore, you shouldn't shut youself down by thinking "not me", because no matter how much we think we have progressed, no person is perfect, you might feel happy with yourself because you're not racist or a raging MRA misogynist, doesn't mean you couldn't improve yourself, there is no real line of "good man" and "misogynist" you can always improve yourself, acknowledge that your own ignorance could make you blind to your own faults at hand. You can always learn new things, part of bettering yourself is realizing you're not yet the best you could be.If someone tells you something you did is not okay, your reaction should not be "but im not the worst i can be! so im good and you're being hysterical!", you're supposed to learn from others.Basically, the cure to this situation is to open your mind to the fact that you might actually be wrong and that doesn't mean you're the worst.