This uncertainty existed before the tidal wave of accusations of sexual misconduct, ranging from unwanted touches and kisses to rape, against powerful men in multiple industries. As much as the #MeToo moment has changed the workplace, it is changing the dating scene as well. Some single men are so worried about coming on too strong that they will not be the one to lean in for a first kiss. "If the woman doesn't make the first move, they're not going to," Francesca Hogi, a dating coach in Los Angeles, says of the single men she has spoken to recently. "They say: 'I'm going to take that as she's not interested, and I'm going to move on.' " Hogi said she thinks this is a lot to ask, especially when so many single women do not even want to send the first message online, much less make the first move sexually.