this pervasive phallofascism makes me feel boringboredasleepdead

the fact that our bodies and sexualities will always be evaluated based on this strange heteropatriarchal rubric that prioritizes penetration above everything else really aggravates me

just being in spaces with het men is overwhelming

everything is about “fuckability” and every conversation/“joke”/game ultimately revolves around PIV and hegemonic masculinity

I enjoy hanging out with my cousins

that seems to be the only time where I can hang out with men and feel safe and somewhat free