So, why am I still considering it? I’ve come to realize that if I concern myself with these jabs of hate, they — the people on my Facebook page, the woman on the lawn — would win. It’s not in my nature to concede. And, instead of shaving a few years off my life because of high blood pressure, I have to figure out what I will do if I ever witness my child getting "the look." I need to concentrate my focus on protecting my child’s safety and ensure that they will be instilled with enough self-love so that the "looks" they will most likely receive will be deflected with self-esteem. They will know that it is the person who is sending messages of hate with the problem — not them.