The boy's name is Acey. His dad came up with the name. He has his dad's curly, rock star hair and cries when his mom insists on a trim.

But the 9-year-old from Plainfield never got to meet his father.

Ty Longley was on stage at a Rhode Island nightclub with his heavy metal band, Great White, when a pyrotechnics show sparked a terrible fire.

One-hundred people died in the 2003 inferno, including Acey's dad, who had been so excited about the impending birth of his first child that he told his girlfriend, Heidi, he was going to create a nursery on the tour bus. He also wanted to wear the baby around in a carrier.

For the last nine years, Heidi Longley has worked hard to raise the boy alone in the Chicago suburbs where she grew up. She has tried her best to balance keeping Ty's spirit alive through stories and framed tour posters while also offering Acey normal kid experiences, like tae kwon do lessons and superhero matinees.

So it caught Longley a bit off guard when Acey turned to her a few months ago and suggested something seemingly impossible.

Maybe I can do something, just me and Dad.

"I was just speechless," Heidi Longley said. "What do you say to that?"

Acey's idea was to create a charity that helped children, in memory of his father. He wanted to give away iTunes gift cards so children could have music while they were in the hospital. And he wanted to give away autographed drumsticks — like the ones he'd been collecting for years — so children who were in pain could pound on drums or pillows to work out frustration, the way he sometimes did.

His mother used connections with Ty Longley's and her own friends in the rock world to secure early donations. Then she helped her son name the charity:

B.E.A.T.S. (Bringing Everyone A Tremendous Smile)

Perhaps, Longley thought, the charity would bring the boy closer to his father, whose love for music cost him his life. It could help her son to better understand the man she loved.

Within two months, her basement was overflowing with contributions. Eric Powers, the drummer for Great White on the night of the fire, sent six pairs of drumsticks and pictures his own son had colored. Robert Sweet from the Christian metal group Stryper and De'Miyon Hall from Gladys Knight's band also sent items.

Zoltan Chaney, drummer for the heavy metal band Slaughter and a family friend for years, said he would do anything he could to support the boy's efforts.

"He's turning that emptiness that he felt growing up not having a father and flipping it around to help others with a need," said Chaney, who also plays drums forMotley Crue'sVince Neil.

It's easy to forget, Longley said, that rock stars are real people.

'We were normal'

Heidi Longley said she met Ty when she was in her early 20s and living with her parents in Schaumburg. Always a rock fan, she went to see a friend perform at Penny Road Pub in Barrington Hills with a band called Samantha 7. Ty was filling in as the guitarist.

It didn't take long for their relationship to blossom. She flew to Las Vegas to watch him play with Great White and Samantha 7. He visited her in Chicago, where they went on dates to the Adler Planetarium and the Rosemont Theatre.

There were also glamorous rock parties and Versace dresses and backstage passes to friends' concerts. But they were happiest just spending time together, she said.

Longley remembers getting dressed up one night in 2002 at Ty's home in Los Angeles. They were invited to a party at a Hollywood Hills mansion. But when they pulled up to the house and saw the party in full swing with alcohol and drugs, they turned the car around, stopped for Subway sandwiches and spent the night watching CNN, she said.

"We were just like big nerds, y'know," Longley recalled with a laugh. "We were normal."

Tired of picking up Heidi at her parents' home, Ty told her to pick out a house where she could live and he could stay between road shows, she said. They decided on a four-bedroom trilevel home in Plainfield because it was affordable and close enough to her parents. Marriage was also in the plans.

The couple learned Heidi was pregnant in late 2002.

On the day before her first ultrasound, Ty called and insisted she charge the video camera. On the road playing shows every night, he also wanted her to wake him with a phone call so he could participate in the morning appointment through speakerphone.

The night before the ultrasound, Great White took the stage at The Station, a popular concert venue in West Warwick, R.I. The pyrotechnic display used to open the show ignited soundproofing foam at the rear of the stage.

Fire consumed the club in minutes.

When she couldn't reach Ty by phone, Longley took the first flight available to Rhode Island. Three days later, police, a priest and support staff from the American Red Cross knocked on her hotel room door with the news she didn't want to hear.

Great White fans did their best to help the devastated Longley cope.

Because Ty had spoken openly about becoming a father in blogs and guitar magazines, strangers sent diapers, baby clothes and money.

Too grief-stricken to be seen in public, Longley survived on bags of groceries her parents dropped off weekly, she said. Her mother accompanied her to the hospital when she delivered.

A child is born

After a pregnancy that felt like years because of the stress, Longley was elated when she met her son in the delivery room.

"I saw the top of his head and brown curly hair and button nose like Ty's," she said. "He was my angel baby."

Rolling Stone magazine published an article about his birth.

In the years that followed, Daniel Biechele, the band manager who lit the pyrotechnics, and Michael and Jeffrey Derderian, The Station's owners, faced criminal charges for their roles in the fire. Biechele was sentenced to four years in prison; Michael Derderian got four years in a minimum-security prison; and his brother was sentenced to 500 hours of community service and three years' probation.

Lawsuits ultimately led to $176 million in settlements between the victims and their families and various companies and governments, the details of which have not been disclosed, according to news accounts.

Longley has always been open with her son about his father's death, telling him she's sure Ty died trying to help others. She has taken the boy to Rhode Island to mark the first and fifth anniversaries of the fire.