Plea from Me

I am posting this to get ahead of most of the bad sentiments that might stem from the whole Jebailey search history thing. My main purpose is to help enlighten people that many people in the FGC do not care what your sexual preferences are and that transgender guys and gals are welcome in the community and shouldn’t be made to feel bad about who they are.

Jebailey on his talk show, that is worse than the show that sucks every Tuesday at 10pm (hue), had a search bar come down, and it had a url for a transgender porn star. People poked jokes at him mostly because his face instantly recognized his folly. I mean it’s acceptable in my mind to throw a jape his way, he screwed up and showed an erotic link, it’s funny in a dumb way.

The situation that I really don’t want to happen is for people to judge Alex by that random link. It really isn’t anyone’s place to judge what someone finds erotic (unless its like murder or something). I watch porn, you probably watch porn, and your mom probably watches porn, a lot of people enjoy porn there is nothing wrong with it. I mean there’s plenty of problems in the porn industry, not trying to justify it, but there’s really nothing wrong with watching some. So, for you to wash away all the Alex has done for the Florida FGC,[ and FGC as a whole because of who he wanks off to, then you are just a really ignorant person who deserves no respect at all.

Another issue is that I really hope people don’t spread the notion that transgender males and females are an abomination of some sort, and that if you find them sexually appealing then you are a weirdo. I find that this is a really ignorant, and flat out bigoted standpoint that a lot of people share in this world. I know a lot of people in the community share my views so far as that it doesn’t matter what you identify yourself as, as long as you are a good person 99% of the time we will like you. It is terrible to use someones gender identity to attack them as a person. I see many people trying to strip away the identity of transgender women and men, and then shoehorn them into some freak category. It is not for you to decide how someone identifies themselves. Don’t you get angry when someone tries to shove you into a category that you don’t identify with?

I live in norcal which has a huge transgender population, and some of the transgender guys and gals I know are some of the nicest people I know. I really hate to see when people are ignorant, and hateful toward those who are just trying to be themselves.

I am not trying to be nor am a moral authority, but I really don’t like hatred stemming from ignorance.

-Carter Gray