This is a bit outside the norm of business, and if you'd rather I not send stuff like this, you won't offend me. I'm pretty hard to offend.

but i do love to discuss religion and even controversy, I enjoy, ... because unlike a lot of people, I don't have a problem confronting or embracing it without feeling the need to get defensive like so many Mormons.

Anyway, I love this essay, have you read it?

http://staylds.com/docs/HowToStay.html

This is one of my fav parts:

Think of the church as a place to serve, not a place to be served.