This week, real-life rockstars Carrie Brownstein and Corin Tucker participated in Rookie Mag’s brilliantly earnest Ask A Grown Woman series. They recorded the video together in Dublin, one of the stops on the current leg of Sleater-Kinney’s reunion tour.


In the clip, Tucker and Brownstein answer questions about how to kindly reject someone, kissing for the first time, coming out, and having a crush on a friend. They even do a kissing demonstration fake out (don’t trust that Rookie subhead), because they’re life ruiners. Their real advice on kissing, however, is actually quite sweet. If you’ve seen Sleater-Kinney live, then this video is definitely a different, quieter, more intimate vibe than their huge rocker stage presence. And if you haven’t there’s still time to do so.