Guys. Have been here a few months and fighting hard to ditch my former tendencies.

Am on the verge of a huge decision. Ready to make a career move, and think next week will be the decision point. Three options present themselves. For those who have been following me and my story… Well.. looking for your thoughts. Ultimately it is me going my own way, no matter which, but would appreciate your input.

Option One – do nothing, but stay in the current company with a new role. This continues to allow me prep time and planning time, which is likely the safest decision but the longest term pain and financial mess.

Option 2- out of town new job offer – am expecting an out of town job offer in the next two weeks. If I receive it, make immediate move and form a separation, still providing support till I can establish remote and the kid gets out of school, then file.

Option three – new job same town, same essential outcome as option One.

Now, the out of town option is a financial increase but a lower standard of living supporting two homes, etc. Essentially figure I have to live divorce raped without the divorce. But, I would be on my own again, which has a major draw.

If you search the site for me and know a bit of my back story, or even if you don’t, appreciate any well considered comments or hell just kicks in the ass.