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The Red Flag: You've gone on three dates, and we still haven't gotten to first base. s What Men See: We're not looking for a floozy, but we are looking to fulfill our instinctual need for a little love. If it's been three dates and you're not down to do…anything, we're starting to wonder if it's ever going to happen. Your Move: You might think you've given him obvious hints that you want to do something. The truth is, it doesn't matter. If you're into him, just move forward with things a little—pull him close and kiss him, or have a down-and-dirty makeout session on his couch. Not comfortable with it? Be honest and set his expectations according to what you're feeling. Just know that he wanted some action yesterday. (And if you're not into him, stop wasting everyone's time.)