What is an Alternative Dating Site?

Meeting other people who are interested in kink dating or fetish dating isn't a problem anymore with the Alt Dating Club. In fact, kink is so widespread now that it's the new normal. With our website, it's easier than ever to find other people who are looking to explore dynamics that are new and exciting.



Who's it for?

Are you having trouble finding a dominatrix who will gag you, stomp on you, and help you live out all your femdom fantasies? Want to find someone to teach you how to cum on command? The Alt Dating Club is one of the fastest-growing fetish personals communities for alternative lifestyles. Find BDSM, bondage, and fetish partners through our member base of over a million members and connect online. Our members include general alt and kink singles, swingers, dominatrices, subs, switches, slaves, and more looking for anything from total power exchange to safe and sensual. We are the leading destination for adult, BDSM dating, fetish dating, and bondage play worldwide. Explore countless kink interests from femdom, foot play, water sports, latex, spanking, nipple play, medical, bondage - from traditional to shibari, and more. There are so many wondrous, sensual things to experience with your bodies, so what are you waiting for? Sign up today and find yourself a playmate.



How do I find the perfect match?

It's best if you join us with an idea of what you're looking for first, but the point of putting so many quirky and interesting people into one site like ours is to let you explore. When it comes to the kink scene, there is always room for fantasy, ideas, role-playing, and more. Message people actively, and once you find the right connection with someone, you'll find that you can do all sorts of things that you might not even have thought of in normal vanilla relationships. Fetish play is about consent and trust, and both are by far the most important aspects. No matter what the real you is deep down inside, it is important that you have mutual trust with a partner.



How do I build a fantastic Alt Dating profile?

Writing a proper profile for alternative dating can be hard for some people, because let's face it, most of us aren't used to discussing our fantasies with people we don't know right off the bet. However, that's the entire point of a fetish website like ours! The most important thing you can do on a kink website is that you tell people about WHAT you want and enough about your kinks right off the bat. Communication and trust are already important in regular relationships and even moreso in the fetish community. Discuss ideas, fantasies, and desires openly, and let people what you like and don't like. Tell them what your limits are, first and foremost, and and what you would like to try with them. Always include the very best pictures of yourself, and don't lie in those pictures. Above all else, don't try to be something you think other people might want you to be or be afraid of people judging you. BDSM and kink websites are about people being true to themselves, and this allows you to escape your mundane life and do the things you want to do. Always remember to be yourself and you'll have a wonderful kink experience.