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To make a best friend, start by making small talk with someone you’re interested in being friends with. It might seem scary to approach someone new, but it’s okay to introduce yourself with something like, “Hi, I’m Julie.” Then, ask about their hobbies and interests to get to know them better and see if you can do something together, like going to the park or joining a club. As you get to know each other, foster the friendship through phone calls, hanging out at each other’s houses, and sharing secrets to slowly go from friends to best friends. For more advice, including how to nurture your friendship with kind gestures and special surprises, keep reading.