The main problem with sex in long term relationships is that the initial spark tends to disappear. When you two first met, everything was new and exciting. You didn't know each other's bodies, you didn't know each other's desires, and you didn't know exactly what your sex was going to be like. Now that you've been together for a while, you know all of those things. And since variety is the spice of life, your sex life has dwindled from jalapeno hot to pepperoni mild. Fortunately, you can easily spice up your sex life with a few simple tricks. Here are ten ideas to get you started.

If you have been seeing your lover for a while, chances are that you've gotten into a routine. You probably have the same kind of sex, on the same kind of days, at the same kind of time, in the same kind of place. While this routine may be comfortable, it's certainly not sexy. Surprise your lover one night and try to have sex in a random way, on a random day, at a random time, in a random place. Just by breaking out of your routine, you will be able to rekindle some of the fire that you lost when your sex life became mundane.