Bachelorette Andi Dorfman may not have found love on national television, but the reality star has now learned to embrace the single life and is 'genuinely happy alone,' she has revealed.

The 30-year-old brunette, who appeared in the tenth season of The Bachelorette, has since ditched her hometown of Atlanta to soul-search in the Big Apple.

'When I decided to move to New York, I did it to look for me, not to look for love,' she writes in her new book, Single State of Mind, set to be released on Tuesday.

'I've embraced the single life and all the glorious independence it has to offer.

'I want to be able to go on vacations with my friends and not have to think about a man. I want to be able to come home to an empty apartment and drink a bottle of wine, or not, by myself.'

'And most of all, I don't want to be responsible for anyone else.'

Loving the single life: Andi Dorfman reveals she ditched her Atlanta hometown to soul-search in New York City

The brunette bombshell, who appeared as the lead on The Bachelorette in 2014, became engaged to contestant Josh Murray, but the pair ended their relationship the following year

The former Assistant District Attorney first joined the show in 2014 and became famous for walking out on bachelor Juan Pablo Galavis. She appeared in The Bachelorette that same year and after 26 dates on national TV, got engaged to contestant Josh Murray.

But Murray fell for another woman and called off the engagement the following year.

Dorfman has finally moved on and has had her share of boozy nights with girlfriends, and dates with coked-out and drunk guys. She quickly launched herself into using dating apps and Facetime to hookup with men coast-to-coast for what she describes as hot sexy nights.

'I'm genuinely happy being alone,' she writes in her very small New York City apartment on Perry Street in the west Village.

Dorfman revealed her celebrity status has helped her score dates over Twitter and describes the time she flew out for a date with a guy she thought could be 'Mr Right' in Canada.

The 'real-life hot' Canadian was following her and soon she was jetting out on her first international booty call.

Dorfman writes that distance is no issue – if they're game to pay for the airfare and an Uber car to the airport, she's willing to go.

Andi was the lead in 2014's The Bachelorette where she met 25 eligible bachelors

Andi first appeared as a contestant on The Bachelor in 2014 and became famous after she walked away from Bachelor Juan Pablo Galavis (pictured)

But in the first big meet up, she says the 'hot' Canadian looked different than all the FaceTime meetings – and he had zero warmth.

One bottle of wine later, her bra was off and she was taking off his shirt. She was naked on her back and looking up at the ceiling thinking she just had the best sex of her life, except, she says, he was cold and weird.

'What the f***k just happened? Did I just get hate-f***ed?' she writes.

Andi says her date hardly spoke, left her alone for hours, and even wanted to send a Snapchat of her to his friends - which she refused.

She saw a slightly more humorous side to him after he ate a marijuana cookie, but it wasn't enough to change his chilly persona.

She caught an Uber back to the airport and flew home to Manhattan with 'no emotional feelings, no regret, and almost no dignity left.'

Single State of Mind, is Dorfman's second book and will be released on January 9

'These douchebags coming into my life are my own fault. Why am I drawn to such losers? I think I have some soul searching to do,' she writes.

Her wake up call came after she found herself crying in the bathroom while attending a wedding out of town and realized she felt alone.

After cocktail hour, she headed back to her hotel and signed into a dating app and created a profile.

'I seriously need to make a rule that I am not allowed to use my phone after a certain number of drinks. The s**t I do when I'm drunk just...well, it lands me in even more s**t.'

While sorting through the cheesy one-liners on her dating app, she moved on to hook up on Facetime with a baseball player 3,000 miles away in Seattle.

He was the only man she had in her life at the time, she says, until she was set up with a New York Yankee by a friend.

Dinner dates, drinks and by the end of the night, 'it's just straight-up sexual. 'I am on fire,' she writes.

Two weeks of being inseparable and four dates later, she arrived at his apartment after ordering condoms on Amazon Now to have them waiting at the front desk within the hour.

Since her reality show stint, Andi has moved on to playing the field and 'embraced the single life and all the glorious independence it has to offer'

Home sweet home: The 30-year-old is now living in her West Village apartment in New York, where she says she came to find herself

However, she admits the first hookup was 'pretty good' sex, but not 'bada**.'

'You've got to give it a couple of tries before giving up', she advises.

'Plus, I've learned from firsthand experience that sex isn't everything in a relationship. Hell, look at the Canadian – best sex of my life and also biggest a**hole in my life.'

'Sometimes you can just date without needing love, date for companionship, for passionate make-outs, for snuggling.

'At least, until you meet the real thing, right?'

The Yankee served his purpose, she writes 'and that's what happens when the only thing you really enjoy about a man is his penis.'

At the moment, she admits she is in fact looking for a good time and 'if that good time happens to be with a man, then so be it.'

She moved on after finally connecting with Mr. Seattle – the other baseball player on the west coast - and after six weeks of phone dates, 'I had finally found what it feels like to love and be loved.'

However, her feelings were not reciprocated and he dumped her over a text.

While playing the field, she reveals she has met so many 'pretentious a**holes' whose only intention was to get laid, and how she was even invited to have a threesome with a Hollywood madam who she later learned sold girls as sex slaves to millionaires.

But despite her bad luck with men, Dorfman says she's still found success in New York.

She met a literary agent who got her a book deal writing about her reality TV experience and that became a bestseller which she describes as 'the single greatest accomplishment of my life.'

Heading into her 30s while still single leaves her feeling a little terrified, she admits, and she's even yielded to what her single girlfriends were doing – getting her eggs frozen.

'I've had so much fun that time has started to physically pass me and my ovaries by. I'm scared, because I know that the time has come for me to start growing up a little bit.'

'The reality is that I still want all of those things I dreamed of when I was younger. I still want the husband, the children, maybe more of a penthouse in the city than a picket fence, but I still want a life like that.

'Through it all, I have laughed, I have loved and I have learned' – thanks to New York.