faintlinesquints Wed 27-Sep-17 11:30:25

Is this your 20 week scan? If so, I wouldn't be taking dc at all, there are a lot of things the sonographer needs to look at, to make sure all is well and healthy with the baby, not just the sex. Children can be very distracting, and god forbid if anything was to go wrong then it would be awful to have your dc there too.

At 4&5 I doubt they would be very interested in a detailed scan either tbh. Show them a picture afterwards, and if you do find out the sex then you can tell them in your own way.