When it comes to sexual attraction, it makes it a lot easier when you have some muscle on you and a low body fat percentage. Men workout to attract women a lot easier. However, I’m gonna explain why you should workout for yourself and let getting women be the by-product of working out.

You’re Your Best When You Are Trying To Get Women

When a man is single and trying to get laid or just find a girlfriend to lay up under, his self-improvement game is at it’s highest. Working out works really well attracting women because it’s physical. Women like the idea of a man with big arms throwing her around and having his way with her. She likes feeling a man’s chest when she is cuddling up with him. She likes feeling the ripple in his abs. Not every man will get attention for his body, but don’t think for a second that women don’t notice. Some women play it cool more than others. So don’t feel discouraged because her tongue is not on the floor when you flex your biceps.

Fit Guys Who Struggle With Women

I don’t want you to fall under the misconception that all you need is a fit body and that’s it to attract women. Women will check you out, but if your attitude or personality sucks, you’re gonna struggle with women even if you look like a fitness model. The fit men who struggle with women don’t understand this and feel entitled just because they workout.

This is why a confident guy with a dad bod can get more pussy than a non-confident guy who has the body of a fitness model with male model features.

Let Your Body Build Your Confidence

When you look good, you feel good. Putting in the effort for a few hours a week to get the body you want will pay large dividends over time with women. While the overweight guy has to approach, charm, and do the most to get women to go home with him, a confident, fit man will walk into a venue and will have a few women stare. Spoiler alert: They’re not staring because they want to put you in the friend zone. They have sex on their minds. It’s not just because you have a fit body, but you carry yourself in a very confident way. You have a strong posture with your stomach in, shoulders back, and chest poked out. This is without even trying. Just like men like women with an arch in their back, booty poked out, and chest sticking out, women are attracted to the strong posture of a fit man.

Getting Female Validation Helps You Continue To Workout

Let female validation be a confidence booster, not a reason to be confident.

“Huh, you make no sense”

Think about a car with NOS like the movie The Fast And The Furious. The car itself can go really fast, however, when that driver is being edged out by another driver, once that NOS switch is hit, the car blows past that car and wins the race. This is how you want to look at female validation.

You want to have a good workout and eating regimen that will allow you to head in the direction you want your body to go as far as fitness goes. There will be times it will feel so much better to eat more and workout less, however, when you get women flirting with you and treating you like a piece of meat because you look like the type of guy they have fantasies of fucking, this gives you that “NOS boost” you need to stay the course.

“Hey, I’m a fat/skinny guy who gets plenty of pussy. I don’t need to workout”

To get the women you get, you may have to work harder. When you’re a fit man, you become the guy version of a chick with big tits and a phat ass. Just by existing, you’re attractive to women. Imagine if you had the personality that is getting you pussy now, but you look like a Spartan warrior. Don’t you think it would almost be too easy to sleep with your pick of the hottest women without even really trying?

Serious Relationships Fatten Men Up

When men find themselves in a serious relationship and have children, they get too lax with their body. This is when the dad bods start popping up. These men found their wife or their dream girl and feel like it’s game over. Unfortunately, when you do this, you don’t give your serious girlfriend an incentive to be sexy for you. Why? Because you let yourself go. Imagine maintaining your chiseled physique while in a serious relationship. Not only will your woman love you, but she will still be sexually attracted to you.

Don’t be fooled by women who say they like you being soft and mushy so she can cuddle with you. Just think of it like this.

“Women like cuddling with soft and pudgy men, but like fucking strong, chiseled men”

Would your girlfriend feel the need to go out and go clubbing with her girls and get some eye candy if you have the body of the strippers she saw at her girlfriend’s bachelorette party?

Having a fit body doesn’t make you cheat-proof, however, if you’re still sexually attractive, and other areas of your life are good, she will not want to fuck up her situation so quickly. She understands that a man with a chiseled body is a beacon for hotter, younger women. So if you’re a 40 year old man, and your girlfriend is 35, she knows that a man with his shit together and a chiseled body can easily get a nice little 20-something year old woman. So instead of nag him the way she would a man who is struggling to get women, she will not push her luck so much.

If You Break Up From Your Serious Relationship, You Have To Get Your Body Right Again

Some relationships last forever and others were not meant to last. Being that you’re never truly sure which direction things will go, don’t be surprised if you find yourself back on the dating scene. If you were married or in a serious relationship for 10+ years, you may have packed on the pounds… of fat. Attracting single women as a single man is so much easier when you look like the men they want to sleep with at first glance.

The problem men find themselves in when they become single again is they’re 30lbs heavier than when they left the dating scene. This happened because they used their body to get women. Once they got the woman they thought would be the last woman they would get, they got too comfortable and gained a bunch of weight. Now that they’re single again, they have to start all over. Not just how to interact with women again as a single man, but losing the fat and getting their body back.

This is why you shouldn’t get a fit body to attract women. Keeping your body right is something you do for you. It makes your life easier. You’re stronger and look more masculine, which helps you gain the respect of other men and gain the attraction of women. By looking good, it’s easier to get women to sleep with you because you’re aesthetically pleasing to her. Some women are looking for any excuse to sleep with you because she’s sexually attracted to you. When you’re in a relationship, and you still have the type of body women are sexually attracted to, your woman won’t deny you of sex as much, no matter how bad her headache is. She understands that you have the power to summon up some pussy if she doesn’t act right.

When you workout for women, you tend to think you don’t have to do it anymore once you “accomplished your goal”. This is why married men gain the weight because they don’t feel like they have to work so hard. Imagine having the body of your girl’s favorite action star. For the duration of the relationship, do you think she would lose sexual attraction for you?

I’m not saying you’re gonna have the perfect physique, but the longer you stick to your workout and eating plan, the easier it is to keep these women attracted to you. This is why you don’t want to workout for the purpose of getting women.

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