Is it possible the introverted guy can get the girl by adding just one element to his interactions with women?

She looked at him with compassion in her eyes and said, "Thank you. I’m so happy you’re in my life. You’re such a good listener and you’re so thoughtful…but I just don’t want to mess up our friendship.'

This is the third time this year that Michael has heard these heart-wrenching words.

Michael is an introvert. He’s very good at listening and being thoughtful, but somehow he never gets the girl.

If you are an introverted man, this story probably resonates on a very deep level.

Because it happens so often to introverted men, many start to think their introversion is a problem.

This belief gets reinforced by reading pick-up advice that tries to convince them to behave like extroverts or to use tricks, manipulation, and lies to get the girl.

But using these techniques doesn’t feel right! So they avoid this part of their life and focus on their career, hobbies, and social life.

If that’s you, be warned! There is a big danger in this.

The longer you wait to handle this part of your life, the more you’ll get used to this lifestyle.

If you don’t get your dating life under control quickly, there’s a big chance you’ll either settle for a woman you’re not attracted to or you’ll stay alone for the rest of your life.

If you’re in that situation, there is a solution.

The first step is to realize what your strengths are and embrace them.

The second step is to add just one element to your interactions with women. More on that later.

Here are your three biggest strengths as an introvert:

1. You are mysterious.

Women are naturally attracted to mysterious men. Because you reflect on things before you speak, and because you have a tendency to listen instead of talk, you are naturally mysterious. This is a strength extroverted men can only wish they had.

2. You know how to create deep bonds.

Creating a deep connection with women is probably the most powerful thing you can do. Don’t make the mistake of thinking that your listening skills and connecting skills are the reason you’ve landed in the ‘friend zone’. They’re not. You just need to learn to use them the right way, and I’ll show exactly how to do that in this article.

3. You're a challenge.

Women love to be challenged mentally by intelligent men. Because of your introversion, you usually have a deeper understanding of things than other people. Because of that, you can provide insights and perspectives that she might have never considered.

Right now you might be thinking, ‘Yeah, that’s me, but so far it’s only gotten me a kiss on the cheek and a pat on the shoulder. Women never consider me as a sexual option. How the heck are those qualities helping me, then?’

The answer:

It’s not the presence of your mysteriousness, listening skills, or connecting skills that catapult you into the ‘friend zone’. It’s the absence of something.

This is so important that I’m going to say it again.

Your issue is not the presence of something; it’s the absence of something.

It’s not something you do. It’s something you don’t do.

In many cases, you can easily get the girl by adding just one thing to your conversations with women:

Touch.

Yep, that’s it. It’s as simple as that.

You need to learn how to touch a woman. More specifically, you need to learn how to escalate your touch from social to sexual.