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Admitting to a foot fetish can seem a little daunting, but you can make the news easier for you and your partner by waiting for a time when you’re both relaxed and alone. You should also wait until you’ve hooked up a few times already, so you don’t scare your partner away from sexual contact. When the time feels right, say something like, “Hey, so I’ve been having a great time with you and I think you should know that I have a bit of a foot fetish.” If your partner is comfortable with it, you can thank them for being understanding. However, if they need a little time to process the news, take things slow and don’t try to touch their feet until you know they’re okay with it. For more tips, including how to deal with a partner who won’t accept your foot fetish, read on!