Last night Kelly Martin Broderick, a student at the University of Maryland, Baltimore County, was contacted by someone on OK Cupid who divulged that a photo of her was circulating around the Internet as a misogynistic meme: "That's Pretty Much What I Expected." The photo on Facebook, posted just a few days ago to a group called "No Hope For The Human Race" (and, frankly, its existence makes me agree) was shared 2,000 times, had 10,000 likes and 1,000 comments, mostly equally disgusting.

Broderick contacted Facebook, whose Community Standards rules are almost as confusing as its privacy settings, and they replied that the photo didn't break any of the image restrictions even though it was a clear violation of her privacy. But instead of crawling into bed with a bottle of Jose Cuervo, which is definitely what I would have done, Broderick wrote about the last few days with articulate clarity, closing with:

"Feminists are not a monolith. We are diverse and unique. We don't fit into every stereotype... And they picked the wrong feminist fatty to mess with."

Yuuuup. Whatever sexist, fat-shaming piece of shit put this up is laboring under the common misapprehension that all feminists look exactly the same. Because when you share the same opinion with a large group of people, you physically morph into carbon copies of the same person. That's just how science works. At least we realize that misogynists come in all different shapes and sizes: The cute guy you went on a date with last night who uses the phrase "feminazi," the dude who yelled, "Can I suck on your nipple, baby?" while I was walking on the street yesterday (true story), or your old boss.

Another common mistake: Feminists are buzzkills who are offended by any kind of Real Comedy. Pull your heads out of your butthole, guys. Just because we don't laugh at Daniel Tosh randomly shouting, "Rape, hahaha! Right?" and we don't think it's funny when someone does something mean-spirited and degrading to anyone, male or female, does not mean we don't appreciate humor.

Broderick has started a tumblr, We Are What Feminists Look Like, to which the Cosmo girls and I are happy to contribute to...even though I look like crap.

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