Why would you freak out and try to insult me then?



That's not the definition of ironic.



1. the expression of one's meaning by using language that normally signifies the opposite, typically for humorous or emphatic effect.



2. a state of affairs or an event that seems deliberately contrary to what one expects and is often amusing as a result.



3. a literary technique, originally used in Greek tragedy, by which the full significance of a character's words or actions are clear to the audience or reader although unknown to the character.



You yelling and insulting me over my use of a male gender pronoun is most certainly not ironic in any definition. If it was an attempt at humor, you failed horribly and miserably.



My privilege? I still don't know what you mean by checking it. Are you trying to say I don't have the right to respond to you, or the right to pull apart your 'argument'?