wrote: For a long time, although I felt fine using my penis alone, I never wanted anyone else to touch it. Well, I have a fantastic partner right now and she's been very open minded about all my trans business. While snuggling one night, she asked if I'd like to try PiV. I immediately told her no, that was not an option.

However, over the next couple days, I thought about it a lot and examined my feelings. I came to the conclusion that I was blowing things a bit out of proportion in my head and told my partner I'd like to try it.

In preparation, I even looked up how to put on a condom because I never had a need to learn before. We had a bit of a laugh about that. :) After some other things in bed, we finally decided to try PiV. I actually rather enjoyed it. I still want to get GCS but I'm no longer concerned about having a sexually one-sided relationship with my partner.