Absofuckinlutely Sun 09-Jun-19 12:11:51

You're bound to feel anxious, it's such an intimidating situation - my abortion is very recent so fresh in my mind if you have any questions. I had a medical (pill) one at 7 weeks. I wanted surgical due to the horror stories I'd read online but due to timings the medical was the best option, and it was honestly no worse than a heavy period. The nurse was very kind and explained everything very clearly. I took the strong painkillers provided beforehand, which I'm certain helped kill off the worst pain before it started. I saw nothing gruesome and felt physically very well hours later.



That's not intended to influence your decision - it's just that I was SO scared of the medical, and want to put out another side of it so you don't torture yourself beforehand like I did and potentially allow that side of things to affect your decision.



If you decide to proceed with the pregnancy I'm sure the counselor will be able to point you in the direction of places to get advice and assistance.



As you say, tomorrow you'll hopefully have a bit of a 'plan', and will feel more in control and less worried Let us know how it goes if you want to x