(dear husband)

(father-in-law)

My DHand I recently received an invitation to his cousins wedding. Handwritten on the RSVP is "please note this is a child free event"At the time of said event my baby will be just under 11 months and she is our only.My FILhad been pushing us for months about booking accommodation as this wedding is 5.5 hours from where we live. Thankfully I did not book accommodation as I have no intention of leaving my 'will not take a bottle' infant for 2.5 days to attend such an event but I feel like they shouldn't have bothered to invite us.

What are your thoughts?