

If you are a bachelor looking for a bride or you are looking for a bride for your son , for God's sake please be informed about IPC section 498a which can be used to loot your family. Please follow the below checklist to make sure you are not getting a 498a wife or daughter in law. It would be better if you can hire a detective to gather the informations mentioned below. This would save you from the huge humilation, harrasment that your family may face in police custody/jail. Check whether someone from the girl's father's family or mother's family has ditched her husband for trivial reasons and staying in her parent's house

reasons and staying in her parent's house If the girl that you are going to marry is currently having a full fledged relationship with someone who is a frequent visitor to the girl's house - stay away

If the girl is having a relationship with her brother in law or her close relative - stay away

Check whether the girl's family is in deep debt (lot of home loans, car loans) and their income is less than their spending

If both the girl's parent are working , be double cautious , girls with lot of freedoms can really be troublesome

Make sure there is not much difference in economic status between your family and girl's family

Make sure the girl is a good match to you physically. (example if she is fat and you are too thin, stay away)

If the girl starts saying things like "I love you ,etc." before marraige , just do not get melted , 90% of the time she may be just acting as told by her parent.

if the girl has got a close lawyer relative and the lawyer is not earning much from his practice, be extra cautios. Verify whether the lawyer is ready to fight a fake 498a case.

If the girl is very hot tempered , better to avoid

If you belive in astrology , for God's sake get both of your kundali matched by a good astrologer

If you are not taking any dowry , better put in writing that "No dowry was exchanged in this marriage" in a stamp paper and get it signed by the girl and her parent