We can’t believe it’s been 11 YEARS since we danced down the aisle.

Thank you for all of the emails, messages, comments, and donations that have come from across the globe. We love hearing how this video has given you joy and hope over the years.

Here are answers to some of the questions we get the most -

We are still happily married :)

We have three amazing kids that keep us laughing every day - two boys (ages 9 and 6), and a 3 year old girl

We are still very close to the people in our bridal party. In the past ten years, 11 of the people in this picture have earned doctorate degrees (medicine, law, education, ecology, physical therapy) and we have added 22 kids to the mix!

We did NOT know The Office was going to copy our wedding. We were watching it live on TV when it aired and were shocked

This website has raised over $70,000 for charity over the past decade.

Jill is a psychologist, professor of criminal justice, and is co-founder of The Violence Project. She is a national researcher, trainer, and speaker on mass shootings, mental illness and crime, and social media and violence (Twitter: @jillkpeterson).

Kevin is an immigration attorney who owns his own firm, Heinz Law in St. Paul, MN.

We hope you keep dancing. Keep hoping. Keep lifting up others. Keep spreading joy.

With much love and gratitude,

Jill and Kevin