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Choosing a wedding gift which shows how much you appreciate being part of the big day but doesn't leave you needing to re-mortgage your house can be a minefield.

A photo frame might not be enough but giving cash puts a direct value on how much you value your relationship with the happy couple.

With travel costs, hotel rooms and finally replacing the dress you bought for the year 11 prom that you've worn to every formal event for 10 years, weddings can really set you back - even as a guest.

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Luckily, some brides send out gift lists to reduce the chance of you ruining everything by turning up with a knock-off spatula that melts in the pan on the first use.

One list, however, has raised a few eyebrows as the 'helpful' bride-to-be sets out demands requiring guests to splash out more than around £300 each .

She informs her dear friends that they MUST choose from the list or consult her first. And then it begins...

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The list includes:

Any kitchen appliances over £280. Simple and cheap items like aprons and spatulas are a big no-no, so that's us out. Gucci and Louis Vuitton purses. You can choose other brands but, as stated in the terms and conditions, you must consult her first and it doesn't sound like Primark is going to cut it. Any clothes OVER £325. The word over is in capital letters, just in case you were unsure. If you want, you can fund the re-tiling her whole house. It seems a big ask, but it would be appreciated. Just not by your accountant. A car. Gift cards for places such as Calvin Klein, and Gucci. Seems like the best of a bad bunch, right? But no, she closes this loophole by saying they must be over £325. Beauty products. Again, over £325 please. Paintings and furnishings for her house. See above for expected value. A cash gift. There's a theme here and we won't even bother telling you the expected amount.

It finishes by stating she will accept slightly lower amounts, as long as you tell her first. Good luck.

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After the post was shared on Reddit , people were gob-smacked by the expectations on her poor guests.

One commenter said: "I guess her husband isn't in need of anything!

"It's so strange to me for a woman to contort what should be an intimate moment of commitment in front of loved ones into a day to worship her as a princess and lavish her with praise and gifts."

Others were slightly less understanding, such as "What are the ugliest floor tiles a person could send this a**hole?" Another bet her marriage would last no longer than a year.

Sometimes gift lists aren't as helpful as they seem.