I had met Miss K through Tinder, and at her request, we had switched over to Whatsapp where she would send me messages like these:

The problem, however, was that she is the most insecure & emotionally disturbed person I have known to date, and after looking at some pictures of Miss K, declared that there was no way she could compete. Instead, she decided to set up a date of her own with a certain Mr. P who she had gone out with a couple of times before.

The evening of November 7th, 2015 was, even before this controversy erupted, an unforgettable one. I was scheduled to go out on a date with Miss K, while my neighbour (who also happened to be my colleague, and would later be my girlfriend for a while) who I was then already sleeping with said she would come along to drop me off just so she could “intimidate” my date.

I don’t know if it’s apparent here, but essentially, we agreed that we’d meet for drinks & end up at my place for “pleasurable sins”. She pretends like this didn’t happen in her video (which I’ve included at the end of this post), and that I suddenly suggested to her at the pub that we go to my place. Just the tip of the iceberg of all her lies.

So, on that evening, we decided to meet up at Hoppipola on Indiranagar 100 ft road, but since I reached first & found it to be full, decided to go to Harry’s instead where we could catch the screening of a Manchester United match. The date was going extremely well, when early in the 2nd half, United scored & I leaned over to whisper to Miss K that if this weren’t our first date, I was so happy I’d want to kiss her right there. To my surprise, she responded asking me why I wasn’t & suggested that I do, so we did.

Towards the end of the game, when United scored a second to all but secure victory, she suggested that we should ‘celebrate’ and, perhaps because she was slightly tipsy, started full blown making out with me at the table. Acutely aware that we were in a public place, and that we’d draw too much attention, I suggested we move to my flat. She agreed, but on our way out (at the bottom of the flight of stairs, if you’ve ever been to Harry’s) pulled me to her & began kissing me again such that her back was to the wall next to the exit, and I was pressed up against her. I found no reason to stop her, since the passing crowd was much thinner there.

After a couple of minutes, we proceeded to hail an auto ride to my flat while, along the way, she was terribly impatient & eager to get her hands on me. When we reached my apartment building, it was her that started kissing me in the lift, although I did push her up against the wall while kissing back — the same way we had been making out at the exit to Harry’s. I was mindful to switch off the elevator lights since it was less than a week since I’d moved to there & wasn’t yet certain if it was equipped with a camera.

Once we reached my flat, we took a short break from our intimacy to greet & play with my dog — Arya — until she started humping Miss K, at which point I had to pull her off, lift her & put her on the floor. This is something I’ve had to do for multiple women, since Arya’s very fond of them, and I’m sure none will claim that I was abusive to Arya while doing it.

Using the humping as a reference point, I reeled off some cheesy line about us getting back to business, and the making out resumed in full force. As part of this, Miss K’s top & bra came off in the hall, before we proceeded to my bedroom where we would have sex in various positions, and no, she wasn’t lying on her back like a starfish as she claims in her video. I remember this very clearly because when we were in the ‘lotus’ position, I saw her face was screwed up & asked if she was alright. She replied saying she was, I shouldn’t stop & she had “never been fucked like this before”. After about an hour, around midnight, I was exhausted after a long week at work & fell asleep.

I was woken up an hour later by Miss K upset that Arya had chewed through her clothes in the hall, but then she began teasing me that I could stay up till 3 AM for my office work but not for her. I was too tired to immediately respond, but after that taunt, I couldn’t exactly fall asleep either. She began taking pictures of my room (one of which she posted on her instagram), and when I taunted her saying we should take pictures together, said she didn’t want her face in them. I said anything she wanted was cool, and we took a couple of pictures.

Now, in her video, she claims that I grabbed her by the neck and forcefully took pictures. Well, I’ll let you have a look for yourselves:

One hand supporting my head, and the other holding the phone.. so, what’s around your neck?

Wait, is that you.. kissing me on your own, with my hand caressing your hair? Holy shit. For anyone wondering, the portion censored contains cleavage, and my other hand is still holding the phone. I’m more than willing to share the uncensored photo with the concerned legal authorities.

Following this, we made out for a little while until I fell asleep again. The next morning, I awoke intermittently between 7 & 10 AM, until Miss K was finally awake. She was in a great mood, saying she was feeling lazy, wanted to snuggle & not leave. I suggested she could stay if she liked, and as discussed on Whatsapp earlier, go get some breakfast together. She replied saying she wanted to, but had made plans for brunch with her friends and hence had to leave.

She asked for some clothes to cover her torso, since hers had been chewed up, and I gave her my hoodie. I asked her, since she was taking my clothes, if I could keep hers since they smelled so nice & would remind me of her. She laughed at the idea, and agreed before hailing a cab to go meet her friends. That was the last time I saw her.

After Miss K had left, my neighbour came over, told me she “couldn’t bear me going out with other women” & asked if I would get into a relationship with her. I asked her about her change of heart regarding both of us going out & seeing other people. She said Mr. P had asked her, at the end of their date the previous night, to let him know if she didn’t find him attractive & she had said that was the case, and dumped him. I asked her about the other men she had gone out with since I had met her, and those she was still going out with that she had been physically intimate with — if she couldn’t stand me being intimate with other women, it was only fair that I expect the same from her. She said she didn’t care for any of them, and would cut them out of her life, so I finally agreed to get into a relationship with her.

Worst. Mistake. Of. My. Life.

As I would discover over the next couple of months, where she would cheat on me, mentally harass me, try to put a wedge between me & Arya, and much much more, her insecurities had been triggered so badly by the fact that I slept with Miss K that she spun this whole relationship just to make my life a living hell.

After we finally broke up, she would go straight back to Mr. P whom she had rejected to his face for me, and finally end up getting married to him early this year. I find it extremely conspicuous that the same woman would get in touch with Miss K barely an hour after she posts her story, and think it’s almost certainly driven by her. It’s no co-incidence that Miss K mentions “the person behind this”, “another member of the sisterhood”, etc.

I hope that a thorough examination in court will bring out the truth.

In the aftermath of this video, I posted a short reply where I warned Miss K that she’d have a case on her hands if she didn’t delete the video & apologise. It also contained a screenshot of our Whatsapp conversation where she had told me she “had a lovely time but wouldn’t want to do this again since I came across as extremely dominant in bed”. This wasn’t entirely a surprise, since she had already told me the latter bit in the morning. I replied, as I had in person, that she should have said something & I would meet her halfway. Unlike in person, where she had said she didn’t mind & it was a different experience, she texted back to say it wouldn’t work. So I agreed & let her be.

While the video was deleted soon after, she continued to press her claims by contorting herself into some excuses but it led to most of the abuse stopping right away, since a lot of people seemed to have the sense to question why she would delete the video if she were telling the truth.

I also shared a video from her instagram of her dancing in my hoodie last year, wondering if rape victims usually keep triggering items such as their rapist’s hoodie with them for 2 years & dance around happily in it. Perhaps that struck a chord with some actual victims who know how painful/disgusting a trigger like that can be, and stopped them from declaring me guilty.

I’ll leave you to make sense of this..

However, I left some open questions which I’ll try to address here:

My #MeToo facebook post:

I did myself a great disservice when I wrote this post by only positioning my faults & not explaining how scores of women had more than willingly participated in my years of carnal expedition & driven me down paths of depravity I would never have spiraled into without them fueling me.

Sure, I have been overly eager to jump into bed or text dirty with countless women, but I have never done so with anyone who said they didn’t want me to or didn’t respond in kind. I have addressed this further in my note to Mrs. Y below, and the final section of this post.

Here I must apologise to a former boss of mine who I slandered over private messages on facebook basis things told to me about him by the very same ex mentioned above. Now that I know what a blatant liar she is, I realise I was wrong to do so & wholeheartedly apologise if my words caused you any harm in any way.

I have been painted as “being shady, keeps changing homes”:

So. Damn. Ironic. The reason I’ve had to move from my past 3 dwellings is the dogs. I have stayed at a co-living space, a building full of people around my age who are active on social media — if any of them reading this wants to talk about the way I treated Arya or behaved with them while I was there, I welcome them to do so. I can also connect you to the other 2 landlords so you may ask them the reason they asked me to vacate their premises.

If you think I’m fond of moving homes multiple times & losing ~15–20k each time I do simply because I refused to dump my dogs, you need to get your head checked.

“Revenge Porn”:

I have exchanged literally hundreds of nudes to countless women, plenty of whom I’ve never even met in real life. What I have never done though, is leaked any of them on the internet or elsewhere, and I’m open to anyone contradicting me as long as they have actual proof.

Also, I must ask a question of my own: In the video, Miss K mentions first that I ‘fucked her for a few hours’, then a ‘couple of hours’ the second time, and again for hours in the morning. She also mentions that she was dry through the entire ordeal. Now, let me ask anyone reading this: If a woman is fucked dry for a total of 6+ hours, wouldn’t it lead to significant vaginal damage, necessitating a visit to a gynac & a significant period of healing afterwards? Wouldn’t there be a medical report for the same? Why didn’t Miss K provide it, or is she going to go scrambling to get a false one made now?

The reason I want to “be in a court of law so badly” like Miss K says, is because there I will be dealing with a judge who is neutral & will see the evidence in a neutral perspective. This is unlike the lot of you internet overlords & ladies who will contort yourself into any position to make it sound like the side you’ve pre-chosen is the right one.

In the same context, I’m terribly disappointed in twitter, tinder & instagram — or at least those in charge locally — who took the decisions to allow unchecked abuse, delete posts from their social media featuring me & suspend my paid account, and delete my post & deactivate my account respectively. Let us see how those actions match up against your terms & conditions, in court.