I hate it whenever I discuss the empowerment of women, even to the most innocent degree like education or workplace, and someone only hears that I want women to establish a matriarchy. This is why I am a marxist feminist. Because whenever a demographic NOT in power discusses equality, the demographic in power enters a bizarro mind frame ripe with vomiting fear of losing their existing power and in the conversation arm themselves as if I was talking about taking their power away, instead of what I am really talking about - empowerment of a demographic that is disenfranchised.