has anyone else experienced this consistent dynamic with men where they will “forget” that something that you originally showed them/ told them/ shared with them (like an article, a fact, a movie, whatever) came from you? do you ever find men actually SHARING those things with you, or telling them to you, some time later because they forgot that you were the one who showed it to them in the first place? I’ve just had this be a repeated pattern in some of my relationships with dudes and it’s so weird, like people who do it often attribute it to bad memory or whatever but it feels way more insiduous than that, like this dynamic where I feel like I’m literally not being seen or noticed in terms of what I offer to them in our relationship. it’s always so awkward when they send me shit being like “this made me think of you!!” and I’m like, “yeah, I’ve read that article before actually, cause remember how I sent it to you three months ago?” it makes me feel crazy.