One thing that really grinds my gears here is that when I see a post about male victims of rape and domestic violence, there is sometimes a moronic set of comments by tumblr feminists like;



“But what about us?? Men are really the fault!!! It’s the patriarchy!! If the patriarchy didn’t exist this wouldn’t happen! Let’s talk about women and even more so how awful men are and how this is all their fault! Did we mention we are the victims here??



NO. FUCK YOU. Fuck you with a broomstick up your ass. Stop making everything about YOU. There are SEVERAL posts about female victims of abuse, way more than about men. You don’t have make the male one’s about you too.



Also feminists created the Duluth Model of domestic violence, which dictates that only men can be abusers. The model focuses solely on the men’s use of violence in abusive relationships, rather than on the behavior of all parties concerned. It focuses on the idea that domestic violence is about men dominating women in a patriarchal society, disluding several important things concerning domestic violence.



Also did you know in India, because of pressure from women activists, the government decided to restore the term rape in criminal law that states only men can be booked for committing the offence against women. And this is precisely what women’s groups in India wanted. They did not want the law to recognize women as potential rapists, and protested against the government’s attempt to create a gender neutral law. The government tried making the law gender neutral since 2011, and each attempt failed. Women’s groups also oppose the recognition of men and boys as potential victims under the argument that it ignores the “gendered” nature of sexual violence. Still going to blame the patriarchy?



Also I’m not even going to talk about certain rape apologists radfems when it comes to women having sex with little boys.



I AM A WOMAN, but that does not mean I somehow feel threatened if we sometimes talk about problems that men face. I’m not a child. Both sexes have their problems. IT’S NOT. ALWAYS. ABOUT. YOU.



If you’re as strong as you claim, why do you have to make yourself a victim in every possible situation, even when it doesn’t concern you? Let’s face it, you don’t care about the victims, you care about your own selfish ass.