"She asked, 'Who is going to clean the house? Who is going to cook? How are you going to have kids?' So my wife had to do a little bit of grandmotherly education. Because, while I may not be a very good husband, I am a great housewife. And when we cook dinner, we break it down by who likes making the kind of food we want to eat that night," she said. "I've found that when you cannot rely on other people's narratives about how things are supposed to work — when those don't represent you — you have to come up with your own."