What we call a shit-test is when you are interacting with a woman and suddenly out of no-where for no apparent logical reason related to the present context; she starts giving you some shit to see how you will react. It is extremely common and can continue endlessly even after you are in a long-term relationship. This kind of things also happens when you enter a group of men. In that case, we call that ‘Ball-busting’, but in the end, it really has a similar purpose.

Unbelievably for most, shit tests can be very easily passed once you have internalized the truth about what they are.

You can pass them just by being yourself if you just get it.

I would even add that shit tests are good things.

Shure, they can be annoying as hell, especially if you are not in the mood, just like traffic or mosquitos…

I grant it to you, someday were just not in the mood for this type of thing, but in general, I assure you, you should feel good when a woman is shit testing you!

I know, most of you are just thinking … Dude… WTF? Feel good? Really?

Yes, totally, simply because a shit test is a very strong indicator of interest. She is testing you because you unconsciously or consciously interest her.

A faithful woman busy with three kids who love his family and have a good relationship will not shit test you!

Just like the dried-up government clerk who has zero libido won’t either.

Not all women will shit testing you, only those who are potentially interested in having sex with you.

Just like us, women have standard and since they cannot really ask the questions without having bullshit answers from you. Well, they have to covertly test you…

Note that some women do not even realize what they are doing. This is instinctive for them.

Men hit on beautiful women so many times, that even if she fucks a new one each month she still has to filter out 95% of the incomings.

That’s why, generally, the most attractive a woman is, the more intense her shit test will be.

What is the true purpose of shit tests?

The best way to pass a test is to first know what the tester is looking for and then to give it to them! Right?

By internalizing the following knowledge, you will start to change your behavior toward women naturally, and it will also surely help in your evolution toward being more Alpha.

Once you will be Alpha, those shit tests will always turn to be favorable to you and that while making any effort whatsoever to pass them.

Shit tests are part of a very important survival mechanism.

Since the beginning of humanity, women, especially once pregnant or with children, had to depend on someone else for resources and security in order to survive.

This situation has changed only recently and the modern feminist society does not represent more than 0.001% of our evolution.

All that time, if a woman did not have a strong partner, to provide for her and the children, that including security against other men and natural predator, here genetic line was most likely to end just right there.

Sex with a weak man = major league, life-threatening, kind of problems.

By challenging you with this test, she can figure out:

If you can at least stand up to her.

If you cannot stand up to her, it is unlikely you will be able to stand up to another man.

If you cannot stand up to her, it is unlikely you will be able to stand up to a predator.

Bottom line, if you cannot stand up to her, she has a better chance to survive without you.

The first level, instinctively she wants to know if you can protect and provide for her. This is mostly subconscious but it is still required for attraction.

The second level, she wants to know where you fit in the social hierarchy, her instinct is pushing her to have a grab on the man with the higher status she can get. Which will increase the chance of survival of herself, the children and maybe even a few more generations down the line!

The third level, are your even worth it? I mean, there is a lot of candidates, all the time and energy, dating, the risk of std’s, sex, etc … Will she have a good return on investment? Probably not if you are afraid of her anyway…

By testing your character with a test conceived to put you off balance, she can have a pretty good idea where you stand and that in a matter of a few seconds.

How do I pass the shit test?

If she is testing you, it is because she thinks you are, at least, kind of attractive. If she thinks that, it also means, as women date up, she suspects that you are probably smarter, stronger and more confident than her and she’s probably right.

I know, she looks, very confident, but the fact is, she’s not.

Anyway, for sure, she thinks you are more confident than her.

Keep in mind that women are masters of deception, they are excellent at creating an illusion of confidence, but in fact, inside, most of them are like a little girl, anxious and unsure.

This is totally normal, because contrary to what Hollywood portrays, even if she’s practicing a martial art, pretty much any man has the physical power to rape and kill her pretty easily.

So, even if the law is on her side, the fact is, she’s fragile and she needs to conceal it.

With that in mind, there is no reason for you to see her shit test as a treat or an insult!

You just need to realize the truth:

It’s only an anxious and unsure girl who believe that you might be smarter and stronger than herself, with reason, thus thinking you’re potentially a good sex partner, and for that cause, she has put on her “tough girl” mask and throw you a test at you to verify if you are really the man she thinks you are.

It’s cute, funny and kind of a compliment! Right?

Plus, at that point, your kind of prequalified… if you don’t fuck it up by playing your needy politically correct nice guy routine, she should be in your bed inside 2 dates!

Once you get it right, you don’t really need a technique to deal with this!

Sure sometimes, she can surprise you, and say extremely cruel stuff. However, even in a case like that, it will take you a few seconds to realize that she’s testing you and most likely you will just burst out of laugh.

Example:

Looking for a store, asking a question in a flirtatious way to a random cutie at the mall:

Girl: By the way, I don’t really date short and bald guys, who overcompensate for their small penis with big muscle…

Chuck: {3 seconds pause WTF was that?}, Burst out of laugh, holy-crap girls, where did you learn to say stuff like that to people? You’re pretty intense for a small one! You must be very brave! Want to do something with me Thursday evening? I have a free spot! I don’t bite, come on, give me your phone number, will do something! Are you living in the area? Blah blah blah…

Sure you could blast her back where she comes from with your own insults, and it would work very nicely too like for example by answering something like:

Girl: By the way, I don’t really date short and bald guys, who overcompensate for their small penis with big muscle…

Chuck: Hey, it’s all good to me, I don’t date a girl with beaver teeth and small titis, so we’re cool, we can just be friends… ;-) Are you living in the area? Blah blah blah…

But why would I even do that?

“It’s just a scared little girl who’s attracted to you and doesn’t know how to control her instinct in public.”

It’s more dominant if you act on that frame of mind, as a leader, already using positive reinforcement to tame her, making yourself a good girl who will do what you want later.

If you’re new at this, it will take time before this new paradigm replaces your old one, in the meanwhile, go with humor, turn her insult into a joke, have a good laugh, act like if she was 8 years old, Its gonna be perfect.

Consider that it’s the fucking green light your waiting for!

Just act like if she had said, “I kind of like you” instead.

Girl: I bet you use that line with every girl! (rolling her eyes) Translation: I kind of like you, just checking if you have balls.

Chuck: Yeah, with all the girls, it works very well, has a matter of fact, because of this super line, I normally have at least 3 to 5 of them following me everywhere I go, but today they all stayed home preparing a surprise party for me… I guess it’s your chance to take action! ;-) Come on, give me your number, I promise I won’t tell them… It’s gonna be our little secret! ;-)

Girl: Are you a player? Translation: I kind of like you, still checking if you have balls because I’m kind of confused right now.

Chuck: A player? Yeah sure, but don’t worry, I won’t tell the girls about you. ;-) By the way, do you like hiking? Hiking is great! Would you like to come for a hike with me Saturday? Come on, give me your number!

Just make sure to see the difference between a shit test and a woman really telling you to piss-off because she’s busy, uninterested and has no time to flirt. Unless you’re autistic, you should be able to feel the difference. One is fucking with your mind the other is a clear go fuck yourself I don’t have time.

Be proactive!

By the way, your allowed to test her to… you know, to see how well she scores on the narcissistic-drama-queen-gold-digging-whores scale!

Not only you have to protect your interest too, just like here, but the fact is that, if you test her once in a while it should reduce the recurrence of her testing.

That, simply because if you test her, means you’re unsure if she really qualifies for your standards, thus also means you believe you are smarter, stronger, more confident than her, and think you might even get better than her, which kind of leak the information she wants to know about you.

Plus now, she will start being more careful in order to qualify for your standards…

It’s kind of reversing the frame, if you take control and provide her with all the necessary proof she needs to conclude that you are a real badass, she will not need to test you that much anymore, only when she feels extra anxious.

Make sense?

On this, have a great day, get some shit done and go kick some ass.

Chuck

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