drejofvalenwood:

ravefromthegrave:

drejofvalenwood: ravefromthegrave: drejofvalenwood: ravefromthegrave: drejofvalenwood: ravefromthegrave: Yes, of course. Why? Preeclampsia, unwanted pregnancies, STIs including deadly ones, UTIs, the unnecessary use of hormone contraceptives which side effects includes blood clots and death, the whole power issue, the fact that 85% of women never has an orgasm through PIV, should I go on? Mmmk, all I’m seeing is “PiV is harmful because pregnancy and STDs.” Which sounds like Vacation Bible School logic to me. STIs can be avoided if: People with STIs simply hold the fuck off for awhile

Telling their partner what’s up with them.

Condoms.

Meds. UTIs can be prevented simply by cleaning yourself up after sex and getting checked out by your doc frequently if you’re sexually active. Contraceptives don’t kill people every fucking time. And if they do, it’s an issue with the person’s body/condition. Power issue? Spot the Radfem time. Where are you getting that 85%? I know some women don’t achieve orgasm through PiV (I’m one of them, weirdly enough) but that doesn’t mean “PIV IS BAD DON’T EVER DO IT EVER.” Sounds like you just can’t handle the fact that people are wired differently, and what works or doesn’t work for one person doesn’t mean it covers everyone. I think a biologist should know that. mmmk, all i see is you stalking my blog. here’s some source for you: http://m.psychologytoday.com/blog/stress-and-sex/201012/orgasms-you-cant-fake-it-till-you-make-it Still don’t see how this makes it unsafe



Also, 3 bottles of Angry orchard blus being a plightweight makes things hilarious. Like you. You’re more hilarious. tell that to all the AIDS sufferers currently existing and also, nice to see that you didn’t even address the fact that you were wrong and i was right about the stats lmao you’re just gonna pretend it never happened just like all the other times i’ve proved you wrong, aren’t you? lol no, I was waiting till I was less drunk. How was linking me a source ‘proving me wrong’? I wanted to know why a few statistics makes sex some evil thing. Like I said, people are wired differently. Some women achieve orgasm through clitoral stimulation instead of actual penetration. Some achieve it through penetration and not through clitoral stimulation. I know you’ve prolly read some wild fanfics, but women don’t exactly splooge when the clitoris is so much as looked at. And not everyone in the world has AIDS, dumbass. As long as you’re having sex correctly and safely, you have little to worry about. And I don’t count ‘not achieving orgasm’ on a list of Reasons Why Crazy Radfems are Afraid of Penises and Why Everyone Else Should, Too. because 72% of women don’t achieve an orgasm through PIV. like, i seriously don’t understand why somebody is upset by the idea that maybe there’s a way for women to have a fulfilling sex life? why do you want to defend the idea that 72% of women not reaching orgasm through a specific type of sex is okay when you could just be like “oh, women need clitoral stimulation to orgasm? cool let them”? and your argument “The fact that most women don’t achieve orgasm during PIV is not a valid argument against it” is so fucking sad it almost makes me cry; why the fuck should anyone have sex that isn’t satisfying? why do you want that for women? wouldn’t it be better for heterosexual women if they 1. lessened the risk of getting STDs, and 2. actually had an orgasm once in a while? like, why are you AGAINST women protecting themselves from shitty sex and STDs? for the other things, i’m just gonna copy and paste an answer i wrote to another complete idiot just now 1. if i pulled it out of my ass, how come i can use AIDS as an example? 2. the most HIV/AIDS affected place in the world is sub-saharan Africa, and why that is, you can read here (hint: one of the reasons is because women can’t practice safe sex due to marriage and mandatory PIV in heterosexual marriages. another factor is sex work and drug use). In the US - which I’m not from, but usually the only country you people actually give a fuck about - the CDC has published that 57 percent were men who contracted HIV through sex with other men (MSM) and that sexual activity among heterosexuals accounted for 31 percent of new infections, with most of these cases among women infected by men. they don’t mention lesbians at all, but when i’ve tried to find statistics on how common it is for HIV to be transmitted through lesbian sex, i’ve only been able to find TWO reported cases, this one and this one. Furthermore, the CDC state that heterosexual intercourse is the most common mode of HIV transmission in many resource-poor countries (source).

So by your logic, if a woman doesn’t find PiV orgasmic but still wants men because that’s who she’s attracted to, then she’s shit outta luck?

When did I ever say I was against women protecting themselves from STDs? CONDOMS. GETTING MONTHLY CHECKS. BEING CAREFUL ABOUT WHO YOU SLEEP WITH. HETEROSEXUAL SEX CAN HAPPEN WITHOUT STDS. CAUSE YOU KNOW. LOGIC. WHICH YOU SEEM TO LACK.

See, I don’t really think you understand how sex works. Woman doesn’t splooge over a penis? Ok, fine, start with clitoral stimulation until she gets off, then the man can get off. It’s so goddamn easy to find a compromise, it’s ridiculous. Use toys. Watch porn together. It can still fucking work.

And I’m sorry, but if you’re sexually active, then at some point you’ll have unsatisfying sex, no matter who you’re with. Happy, married couples have this problem. Sometimes it’s just not going to happen. No amount of screaming at people on the internet to avoid sausage fests altogether is going to change how someone’s body works or what they’re aroused by or when they’re not aroused by something anymore. Which, by the way, is something a biologist should know.

And ok, yeah, HIV/AIDS is higher in some countries than in others. Those people have to take stronger precautions. This STILL doesn’t make the act of PiV itself unsafe.

Hell, driving is one of the most common cause of deaths in the US, but that doesn’t make the act of driving itself unsafe. Driving crazily with no regard to safety rules or procedures? Running red lights? No signals? Yeah, that’s unsafe. Sex is the same way. No condom, sleeping with a random dude in a back alley, not going to the doctor for a physical, and generally just being reckless about your partners? Yeah, that’s unsafe. ANYTHING is unsafe if you do it the wrong way.

So YES. If someone’s body is different, THAT’S OKAY. IT’S OKAY TO BE DIFFERENT. And I figure that as a biologist you should probably know this.