BlockedAndDeleted Sun 25-Aug-19 22:24:19

Slightly confused as to what happened.



He was going to shoot sister in the head.



You said no.



He shot her in the head anyway.



Toy turned out not to be loaded - is this relevant, I feel not as children can still be upset, scared, wound up by this, it’s the intent more the effect.



So he was deliberately testing you as well as being horrible to his sister.



You admonished him because he upset his sister and challenged you on purpose.



Your wife was not on your team as she felt that it was relevant that gun wasn’t loaded.



She made this clear in front of kids thus letting son know it’s acceptable to scare females and also undermining you.



You’re upset for your daughter and that your wife didn’t have your back as parents are supposed to present a united front.



You have done this for her previously even when you haven’t necessarily agreed with her choices.



I can see your point tbh.



YANBU.