5 The Lady Missionary

"Everyone says missionary is bad for lady-gasms, but I disagree," says Borowicz. "The key is for the dude to stop moving so damn much and just press against you while you grind in peace." It might take some training to get your partner to stop pumping so much, so be vocal about what you want him to do. Position your hips so your clit is pressed up against his pelvis while he's inside you. Holding his hips mostly still and close, grind up against him however you need until you get there. Then you can let him go and he can start moving however he needs to get himself there.