3. Use edging.

Edging is the act of stopping and starting sex to reset your orgasm timers. Build up until you’re close to orgasm, then slow things way down (or even stop completely) for 30 seconds or so. “My girlfriend likes to edge me, but she does it in a sexy way. She can tell when I’m close and she’ll back off and go really slow and just watch me with a sexy smile,” says Stephen, 28. “Or sometimes she’ll get off me and play with herself while she watches me before getting back on. It’s definitely a more intense orgasm.”