...Well, that would at least prevent the adopted kid from feeling that they are 'less' than what a biological child would be like. Instead growing up with their mom telling them that such a child would be a 'monster.'I feel he would not mind being repeatedly hit in response to such behaviour, but yeah, whoever it is would need the self-esteem to know there was not really anything to the flirting. Your comment about how it would be not Sanji is spot on too, in that such a wife would have to be someone who would not earnestly and sincerely try to change Sanji into someone he is not. Not healthy in itself. They would have to be supportive, and if he does change he has to feel there is no pressure from herThanks for you commentary on this by the way, discussing it has really helped me with co-author fic I am writing: