i’ve seen this post about 15 times on facebook. im in a group called “black women being brutally honest with everyone” which ends up being a bunch of ashlords and neauxteps posting nonsense and basically getting dragged in the comments and this was probably posted there at least 10 times by dudes trying to make a point. ridiculous mess of a post.

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I belong to groups like that and the hoteps stay big mad



And these pick me women do the most

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mention abortion and they go off but as soon as supporting the children these deadbeats make, they suddenly get amnesia



the pick mes are so sad, like they really think what they’re doing is going to get them a man, but why are all of them single 🤔

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I'm sick and tired of this narrative that men get nothing from marriage when historically they have vastly benefited from it.

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what are you talking about, having ownership to your self passed around between men like you're cattle is every woman's dream! ahhh back in the good old days when you were first owned by your father and then your husband!

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Choosing for yourself is so hard, let's go back to those times!!!!!

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Supposedly it was to protect us~ and ofc since you couldn’t work it was from father to husband to son



Maybe if women could have been financially independent...

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lmao especially when studies show that married guys live longer!

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oh fuck off



in a patriarchal society men unequivocally get more out of heterosexual marriage than women.

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men are only attracted to women that impress other men. not to mention how they legit get fetishes through memes "lol eating ass!!! xdddddd toe sucking xD"

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and big titty goth gf xxxDD

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It’s crazy how easily their sexuality is influenced by other ppl

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I know a guy who married a woman that wasn't his type but was his type for showing off to friends.

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that's truly fucking pathetic.

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I went to high school with someone like that. He just divorced his wife and married a younger woman in the span of 3 years.

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Wow like I knew that was probably a thing but to know it in this day and age, yikes





But what am I saying? My school crush dated a girl for the cool cred even though he supposedly really liked me

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"men are only attracted to women that impress other men" This is actually pretty interesting. I would love to read a study about this tbh

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Like they HAVE to get married or something



Male celebs have 10 baby mamas and nobody cares... Kate Winslet was married and had a kid with each husband and gets shitted on

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MTE. If you’re losing your friends and your sex life in your marriage, you’ve probably married the wrong person.

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By friends they mean the one with benefits. By sex they mean the sex they had with their friends with benefits. Damn marriage

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But like, conversely? You wanna sleep around and have all these women? DON'T GET FUCKING MARRIED. (still side-eyeing you Tiger Woods)

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as if a woman doesnt lose all these things via bad marriage too

im so over men shitting on women and treating them as lessers, fuck off.

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Look at whos talking. This level of such disrespect is unacceptable. Trash.

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Right? Internalized misogyny is definitely a thing.

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Also it's not that a woman believes this, but through a study found that a majority of men believe this. So to say "hey a woman is saying it so it must be true!" doesn't even remotely apply here.

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lol right, it's not like it's her personal opinion that she has no sources for.

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And the woman who did is out here trying to impress men and get them to ~~like her~~~

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Thank gawd I'm gay and don't have to put up with this shit.

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And I meant putting up with the shit from straight men.

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IDK. If you like men, fuck your life, because it means putting up with all kinds of bullshit.

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mte

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You act like all men aren't trash

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Yeah and guys expect a submissive and a home maker and a mother and a cooker and a wahser and the woman's youth and career and future. And then they fuck around and are shocked she's not putting up with it. And then takes half of what she helped you make. So get a grip.

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And a housewife has no way of making the other half back. Try getting a good paying job when you haven’t worked in 25 years. They also lose insurance.

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This is currently my reality :( Thank god I began saving money on the sly here and there or else I'd have been homeless when I made the leap to leave him.

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Gold digger!!!! That’s their rallying cry

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Yessss!!!! This happened to my poor mother 😔 my asshole dad left my mom cuz he couldn’t deal with financial issues once their business went under. And he cheated on her so many times with her friends and shit.

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This exactly. I'm not sure why these average ass men think that women who want to walk away from long term marriages with half are "gold-diggers". That must be the really long fucking con method.



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They also think their time is more important than their wives'. Then these dumb asses try to compare mowing the lawn once a week (during the months that need it) and washing a car to-

:every day:

cooking

house cleaning

childcare



They're fucking delusional.

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shut up Clifford.

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I can't believe I was once ashamed of being a lesbian and wanted to change. You couldn't fucking pay me to spend time with a fucking straight man anymore.

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i may only be bi, but i am so glad that should i feel like getting a love life again, my options aren't limited to men. i feel seriously sorry for women who don't have an alternative bc YIKES.

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same

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Mte

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YUP

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yes I'm so thankful every day

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MTE

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lol same. i’d rather deal with struggling to find another woman to date than have to sift through all the ain’t shit men.

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I feel like I'm in the minority because my husband doesn't expect me to do all of the housework, remind him that he needs to clean or remember his fucking family's birthdays and shit. I actually married a partner.

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"their masculinity dies, too"



OH THE HUMANITY

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Remember when ONTD stanned this motherfucker? Every post about him ended with 'remained sexy while doing so'. He showed his ass, huh.

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this throwback lmao, i completely forgot about those posts. anyway he can choke

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Jokes on them, he was never sexy to me.

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damn i forgot about that lmao it was like one stan who went hard and made posts every fucking day basically and then of course a stupid little bandwagon started, it'd always be some shit like ~this GQ MF~ .....f u c k haha it's so odd thinking of what this site used to be

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lol memories. I used to find him super hot but he's always been a misogynistic dummy so... I mean, back then with his mouth taped shut AND if I can kill him afterward? I'd still hit it.

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even if the reason why they lose their friends, respect, sex life (lol like if that were ever the case), money and family is because they disrespect their wives in the first place. Why women can't let men being cheaters, abusers and manipulative bastards in peace?!1

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