I’ve read bdsm dom’s rhetoric and practices (unfortunately) and they write about how the want to psychologically break down the woman they are targeting. When doms emphasise that ‘trust‘ is important they are trying to trauma bond themselves to their target and get them to ignore their self preservation instinct.

A lot of bdsm rhetoric and practices are designed to put someone into a state of mind where they are susceptible to influences (causing them enough pain to go into shock or messing with their senses). Doms have learned and often teach other abusive men how to torture and brainwash.

