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Katherine Cathey and 2nd Lt. James J. Cathey. (A moving photo essay on the true cost of freedom)

http://sexualityinart.wordpress.com/2007/11/20/katherine-cathey-and-2nd-lt-james-j-cathey-todd-heisl ^ | November 20, 2007 | Todd Heisler

Posted on by TSgt

Todd Heislers Pulitzer Prize Winning Photographic Series





At the first sight of her husbands flag-draped casket, Katherine Cathey broke into uncontrollable sobs, finding support in the arms of Major Steve Beck. When Beck first knocked on her door in Brighton, Colorado, to notify her of her husbands death, she glared at him, cursed him, and refused to speak to him for more than an hour. Over the next several days, he helped guide her through the grief. By the time they reached the tarmac, she wouldnt let go.





Minutes after her husbands casket arrived at the Reno airport, Katherine Cathey fell onto the flag. When 2nd Lt. James Cathey left for Iraq, he wrote a letter to Katherine that read, in part, there are no words to describe how much I love you, and will miss you. I will also promise you one thing: I will be home. I have a wife and a new baby to take care of, and you guys are my world.





The knock at the door begins a ritual steeped in tradition more than two centuries old; a tradition based on the same tenet: Never leave a Marine behind. When the wars began in Afghanistan and Iraq, Maj. Steve Beck expected to find himself overseas, in the heat of battle. He never thought he would be the one arranging funerals for his fallen comrades.

Major Steve Beck and another Marine approach the family home of 2nd Lt. James Cathey, preparing to escort the Catheys to the airport to receive their sons body. Five days earlier, the shadows of Casualty Assistance Call Officers followed the same path, carrying the news no military family ever wants to hear. Ill never forget Major Becks profile, said Bob Burns of the night he was notified of his sons death. The gold star flag in the window signifies the death of a loved one oversees.





After arriving at the funeral home, Katherine Cathey pressed her pregnant belly to her husbands casket, moaning softly. Two days after she was notified of Jims death in Iraq, she found out they would have a boy. Born on December 23, 2005, he was named James Jeffrey Cathey, Jr.

Since James Cathey was killed in a massive explosion, his body was delicately wrapped in a shroud by military morticians, then his Marine uniform was laid atop his body. Since Katherine Cathey decided not to view her husbands body, Maj. Steve Beck took her hand, and pressed it down on the uniform. Hes here, he said quietly. Feel right here.





The night before the burial of her husbands body, Katherine Cathey refused to leave the casket, asking to sleep next to his body for the last time. The Marines made a bed for her, tucking in the sheets below the flag. Before she fell asleep, she opened her laptop computer and played songs that reminded her of Cat, and one of the Marines asked if she wanted them to continue standing watch as she slept. I think it would be kind of nice if you kept doing it, she said. I think thats what he would have wanted.







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Military/Veterans

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FRiends, freedom is not free. We owe an incredible debt of gratitude to the families of those who made the ultimate sacrifice. Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends. - John 15:13



To: TSgt

Tears falling. :-((((((



To: TSgt

Every time I see this, my heart aches for the familes, and my anger grows at the treatment by liberals of the military and their families.



by 3 posted onby rlmorel (Now I have to change this tagline: "Weakness is provocative." Donald Rumsfeld)

To: TSgt

Thank you for posting. I hope God has a special place for heroes like 2nd Lt. James J. Cathey. A great American who knew what it meant to be an American.



by 4 posted onby FlingWingFlyer ("Thou shalt not speak ill of any fellow Republican." - President Ronald W. Reagan)

To: TSgt

Might have a better impact (on me at least) if it didn’t come from the “sexualityinart” blog...



by 5 posted onby raybbr (Someone who invades another country is NOT an immigrant - illegal or otherwise.)

To: raybbr

Perhaps you could focus on the content and not the URL?



by 6 posted onby TSgt (Colonel Allen West & Michele Bachman - 2012 POTUS Dream Team Ticket!)

To: TSgt

What a moving set! Excuse me...There's so much dust in this room I have to go away and wipe my eyes... God bless our servicemen, servicewomen and their families!



by 7 posted onby prisoner6 (Right Wing Nuts are holding The Constitution together as the Loose Screws of The Left come undone!)

To: TSgt

Tears, tears, tears! May the Lord bless 2nd Lt. James J. Cathey, his beautiful wife and son. When I saw the wife press her swollen tummy against the casket, I completely lost it. Thank you for posting. Bless our armed forces.



To: momtothree

Apologies, the last picture should have the following caption:



John Moore recorded an image of Mary McHugh at the grave of her fiance Sgt. James John Regan (who was killed by an IED explosion in Iraq in February 2007) at Arlington National Cemetery, May 27, 2007. Mary McHugh, the fiancé of a James Regan, moved a thousand mourners to tears with her touching tribute at his funeral. Jimmy was a hero to many, but he was always very humble, she said of her beloved. He always sought team success and not personal glory. Regan was to marry McHugh, a medical student at Emory University, when his Army service ended. He was killed in February 2007 by a roadside bomb in Iraq. Jimmy and I were so excited to stand up in front of God, our family and friends and declare our love for each other, McHugh said. Only God knows why we were deprived of that opportunity, but it doesnt change the sentiments I have. Regan, an All-American lacrosse player and All-State football scholar at Chaminade High School in Mineola, graduated from Duke University five years ago. He was deeply affected by the 9/11 terror attacks, which claimed many lives in Manhasset, and turned down a position at financial services firm UBS and deferred a scholarship to Southern Methodist University Law School to join the Army in 2004. He had earned a Purple Heart and a Bronze Star. After reading a love letter Regan wrote to her, McHugh said in a passionate whisper, Jimmy, we never got to wake up next to each other every morning. Jimmy, I will wake up every morning and thank God for the opportunity to love and be loved by you. McHugh remembered Regan as someone who always wore a smile and simply wanted to be happy and make others around him happy. Regans father, also named James, said his son did just that. Last week in Iraq the bell tolled for Jimbo and he gave the ultimate sacrifice, the grieving father said. You have done your duty, son, as you saw it. You are a wonderful son.



by 9 posted onby TSgt (Colonel Allen West & Michele Bachman - 2012 POTUS Dream Team Ticket!)

To: TSgt

For anyone who has never seen the HBO movie, “Taking Chance”, I recommend it - you’ll never forget it. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MtmiLdzzgGE



by 10 posted onby nuconvert ( Khomeini promised change too // Hail, Chairman O)

To: TSgt

Oh, God bless this family and please ease their sorrow....

I was a CACO officer for two years while in the Navy in San Diego - it wasn’t during combat but we still lose troopers during peace time. Most of my cases were due to stupidity on the part of the service member but it affected the families, kids and all just the same way.

While most jobs in the military are pretty damn tough, being a CACO is really up there...



To: TSgt

tears flowing...



To: sassy steel magnolia

Tears flowing here too.

My son in law was injured in an IED explosion in Iraq.



by 13 posted onby kalee (The offences we give, we write in the dust; Those we take, we engrave in marble. J Huett 1658)

To: TSgt

That’s heartbreaking. I’ll remember them all in my prayers. Thanks for posting it.



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