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Right now my biggest problems aren't that I'm a fag, it's that I'm struggling with what I want to do in life. I don't want to do much other than to travel and backpack places. I don't really want fancy cars or big houses, but even that seems to be unfulfilling over time.Eh anyway. Aside from my crisis of meaning and shit, I have a nice situation. I have almost exclusively straight guys for friends, and I like it that way. I get to be one of the guys and hang out, get drunk, take them to the shooting range, go for hikes, etc.I am generally pretty distant from the gay "community", in that I don't really like gay bars, NEVER go to pride parades and dislike the hookup culture that seems to define the 'scene' these days. I guess my whole deal is that my sexuality is not my identity. It's not my defining feature and it never will be. I think many of the problems we have today with the gay "community" arise from the idea of a gay identity, when really you should just be you and not worry about what the fuck it means to be gay.