I will add a HYPOTHETICAL scenario. Here it goes:



A young man, just reached age of consent, lets call him A, visits an old friend of his father for the weekend.We call him B. It is planned that A would sleep in the guest room right next to Bs bedroom.

There is an over 20 year age gap between the two.

On the first day, A is asked by B if it is one of his sexual fantasies that a hot girl would sneak into his room while he sleeps and have sex with him, wakeing him up in this way. A answers with yes, and B makes some scary comments afterwards about makeing this dream a reality. B makes A promise that he would never tell anyone. Not even his future wife when he is married for 30 years.

In the Night, A had almost fallen asleep, B sneaks into the guest room and strokes As penis, takes in his mouth and gently bites it. A tries to push B away, once he notices him, but B remembers A about his given consent.

A then tries to ignore it and hopes for his erection to go away, but that doesnt happen, so he instead pictures a hot girl in his head and focusses on that until he ejaculates. That is when B retreats and lets A sleep.

Afterwards, A feels ashamed, betrayed by his body for haveing that erection to the point where he even considers cutting his penis off, mad and angry at B for what he did but yet obligated to keep this promise.

A starts to lie to B about where he lives, refuses to tell B his new phone number after he changed it for unrelated reasons and generally avoids him.

It took years for A to realize that he could have been raped, but he still is not 100% sure if what he want through classifies as rape. He breakes the promise and tells his girlfriend about it after realizeing that, asking her if it is rape. She says it is. For context: he did not have a girlfriend when that took place.

Months later, A gets brave enough to tell his godfather about it. He agrees that it is rape and offers him to come with him reporting B to the authorities.

A has yet to build up the courage to tell anybody else.



Did a Rape happen?

(THIS IS A TOTALLY HYPOTHETICAL SCENARIO AND IT IS NOT IMPLIED THAT THIS EVER HAPPENED TO ANYONE!!!! ESPECCIALLY NOT ME!!!!)