The Sex Bucket List: 105 Things to do Before You Die

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Whether you were searching exactly for the sex bucket list or just for new things to try in bed with your boyfriend/ girlfriend – you came to the right spot.

Yes, bucket lists might not be trendy anymore but sure are a lot of fun.

The sex bucket list is not meant to be finished in a day or month, so don’t pressure yourself.

Or maybe you don’t feel like experimenting and trying new things all the time. But when you do, here is the list (Do you like listicles? Here’s 79 ways to spice up the bedroom).

Use it as a tool to expand your repertoire of kinky sex ideas (<-another list).

Constantly adding new kinks and scenarios to your life will surely keep your sex life interesting and it will improve your (sexual) relationship with your partner.

We also went one step further and we suggested some sexy items to use along with the sex bucket list.

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List of sex bucket ideas

1. Kiss a girl/ kiss a boy.

2. Try anal.

3. Have a threesome.

4. Have a threesome with a suction cup dildo.

5. Go to a sex party.



6. Have phone sex.

7. Have a video call sex via Skype or Whatsapp.

8. Use a dildo or vibrator (finger vibrator – DiGiT) – on yourself and on somebody else.

9. Be tied up. Read Bondage guide

10. Tie someone up. If you don’t know or don’t feel like learning the knots, consider under the bed restraint system.

11. Have sex in a public space.



12. Try car sex. Read A Practical Guide To Car Sex

13. Join mile high-club.

14. Have a one-night stand.

15. Try sex on a boat.

16. Have sex in water. Even better, read 61 Best Places to Have Sex and take sex out of the bedroom.



17. Try impact play. Read The Ultimate Guide to Impact Play

18. Read erotica.

19. Play a sex game. Read 5 Hot Sex Games for Couples (#3 & #4 are truly dirty)

20. Play a game of strip poker.

21. Shower sex.

22. Standing sex.



23. Sex without kissing.

24. Have an orgasm without penetration.

25. Have sex in a tent.

26. Watch porn together.

27. Start and finish the 30-day sex challenge (downloadable).



28. Have sex on a beach.

29. Blindfold each other.

30. Use ice during sex.

31. Try erotic roleplay. Read 37 Erotic Roleplay Scenarios That Will Spark Your Sex Life

32. Buy sexy lingerie.

33. Have sex with someone older than you.



34. Have sex with someone younger than you – but over legal age!!

35. Have a quickie in a skirt (hot latex skirt maybe?).

36. Try sensation play – play with your partner using a feather tickler or Wartenberg pinwheel, or warm spoons and then ice.

37. Have drunk or high sex.

38. Have silent sex in a house full of people.



39. Try sexting.

40. Talk dirty to each other.

41. Explore Kama Sutra. Read Kama Sutra Sex Position Guide: 100 Positions

42. Send nudes.

43. Have sex on the floor.

44. Feed someone sexually.

45. Have sex in a chair.

46. Try constant eye contact during sex

47. Treat yourself to a sex vacation weekend.

48. Visit a swingers club.

49. Try out a sex swing.

50. Replace old furniture with sex furniture (something like Liberator sex position wedge).

55 more ideas to add to your sex bucket list

51. Visit a strip club, alone or together.

52. Oil your partner and give her/ him an erotic massage.

53. Watch your partner masturbate.

54. Try mutual masturbation.

55. Have sex in a motel.



56. Videotape your action.

57. Visit a sex shop.

58. Try domination and submission. Read D/s relationship: Beginners Guide and Infographic

59. Buy a sex toy. Feeling funky? Try the eggplant.

60. Have sex while experimenting with different lubes. Read Why Everyone Needs Lube? and 6 Best Lubes for Sex to Try in 2020

61. Have romantic sex with candles on.



62. Have loud sex.

63. Restrain your partner and have fun with them.

64. Have sex on a hotel balcony.

65. Give your partner a handjob/ blowjob while he is driving.

66. Wake your partner with oral sex.



67. Sleep naked.

68. Try Ben Wa balls.

69. Buy some cheap lingerie just to have it torn apart in bed.

70. Play with sex dice. Read Sex Dice: Inexpensive Way to Boost Your Foreplay

71. Use a remote-controlled vibrator outside of the house (are you a cat person? If yes, Paula is something you’ll want to see).

72. Have sex in a national park.



73. Striptease for your partner.

74. Clone-a-willy or clone-a-pussy. Warning – clone-a-willy is a better product than clone-a-pussy.

75. Try out the world famous Magic Wand while being hog-tied.

76. Try orgasming at the same time.

77. Be a sex slave. Read 56 Ideas For BDSM Slave Training (NSFW)



78. Try out sensory deprivation with a blindfold and earplugs. Read GET KINKY WITH SENSORY DEPRIVATION

79. Try 69.

80. Have sex with a cock ring. Read 7 Best Cock Rings and How To Use Them

81. Pleasure your partner with your feet (or be pleasured by your partner’s feet).

82. Try a butt plug.

83. Try electro play.



84. Wear nipple clamps while having sex.

85. Try a sex-machine.

86. Spank your partner.

87. Have sex in a rainstorm.

88. Play with wax. Read Wax Play: A Start-To-Finish Guide



89. Give her/ receive a nipple-gasm.

90. Bring your partner to orgasm with oral sex.

91. Try edible underwear.

92. Be a voyeur and watch others having sex.

93. Wear a collar and a leash/ collar your partner. Read BDSM Collar Guide for a Happy Submissive

94. Attend a munch. Read The Dos and Don’ts of Going to a Munch



95. Explore tantra. Read How to Practice Tantric Sex: 26 Tips for Masturbation and Partner Play

96. Have very gentle sex.

97. Have rough sex.

98. Learn how to squirt.

99. Worship your partner’s genitals.

100. Try consensual non-consensual sex.



101. Attend a sex-related conference. Read All About Eroticon: An Interview with Molly Moore

102. Do an erotic photoshoot.

103. Wear a chastity device or buy one for your partner.

104. Incorporate the spreader bar into your sex routine.

105. Try out bondage tape.

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