Hey, Google, enough is enough already.

Google was caught having contractors listening in to our conversations from its personal assistant, which sounds bad until you realize Google wasn't alone in this. Apple and Facebook were doing the same thing. And this week, Microsoft got stung by Vice's Motherboard, and now admits it, too, listens.

The companies, which also include Amazon, have said they do this on a limited basis to learn and make their assistants better. Every time we say "Hey, Google," our query is being recorded and stored. Ditto for Amazon's Alexa, Apple's Siri, Facebook Messenger and Microsoft's Cortana. (Update: Apple just ended the policy.)

Consumers are "trading privacy for convenience," says Bret Kinsella, the editor of the Voicebot.ai blog, which tracks voice computing. "The likelihood of something they’re saying at home being picked up is low."

But it happens. And it's our job, if we're uncomfortable with the practice, to delete the recordings and change our settings to stop the snooping. Because by default, the companies are set to monitor, leaving it to us to have to hunt and peck and stop them in their tracks.

Amazon

Unlike the other companies, the e-tailer is actually upfront and couldn't be more clear about how it uses humans to listen to our recordings made with the many Amazon Echo speakers, Fire TV streaming devices and via the Alexa smartphone app, once we say the Alexa "wake word." Our queries "may be used to develop new features and manually reviewed to help improve our services," Amazon says.

To get Amazon to stop having Alexa have humans listen to you, you need to open the Alexa smartphone app, where Amazon gives you the option to turn it off. Just say no. (Go to Settings, Alexa Privacy and select "Manage How your data Improves Alexa.")

It's within the app settings (under Review Voice History) that you can also enable "deletion by voice," to say, "Alexa, delete what I just said," or "Alexa, delete everything I said today" and have the recordings erased. Make sure your date range under "Review Voice History" is clicked to "all history," and you'll see an option to "delete all recordings."

What you won't see is an option for Amazon to stop recording you at all. Amazon doesn't offer the ability to stop the e-tailer from recording and storing your queries and offered no explanation for why it doesn't offer an opt-out to decline the practice.

Google

The Google Assistant isn't only for the Google Home speaker, but it's also used on Android and iOS phones to pose questions and get information.

Google's defense for listening in to you: "We partner with language experts around the world who understand the nuances and accents of a specific language," and so It records your voice and audio "to improve speech recognition."

You can disable Google from listening to you in the same settings section that stops Google from monitoring your every move for Google Maps, which tracks you even if the app isn't opened.

When you click it off, Google will beg you not to, saying this "may limit or disable more personalized experiences across Google services. For example, Google may not understand you when you say "OK, Google" to speak to your Assistant."

And it reminds you that turning off the setting won't delete any of the past data Google recorded. To get rid of those, you'll need to go to http://myactivity.google.com.

Don't forget once there to click Web and App Activity and "Choose to Delete Automatically," to stop Google from continuing the recordings.

More:Check your settings if you don't want Google tracking every move

More:Facebook releases new tool to block data gathering

Apple

Apple's Siri is the most widely used personal assistant, as default on over 1 billion iPhones, Apple Watches and the HomePod speaker. The iPhone maker has been outspoken in its support of personal privacy, saying it's not a data hog like Google and Facebook that want to track your every move for selling targeted ads.

But according to The Guardian, Apple, too, was listening in to our chats with Siri. Apple was paying contractors to do the job, and the publication learned of personal information like doctor’s appointments and addresses being noted. In response, Apple initially said it would suspend monitoring operations and would grace us with a "future software update," which will let users choose whether to participate in the human monitoring program.

Wednesday, Apple announced that it was ending the policy after "a thorough review of our practices and policies."

However, it plans to resume recording again in the fall, but with some changes:

—It will no longer retain audio recordings of Siri interactions, and will offer opt-in tools for consumers who agree to be recorded to help Siri get better. And when they do, "only Apple employees will be allowed to listen to audio samples of the Siri interactions."

Kinsella says some 77 million smart speakers are in use today in the United States.

Facebook

Audio messages between two private parties via the Facebook Messenger app were transcribed by contractors working for the social network, per a Bloomberg report.

Facebook now says it has paused the human review of transcribing.

But do you trust that Facebook won't start it up again in the future?

If you're skeptical, here's a tip: you too can pause microphone access too to protect the privacy of your audio. Turn it off.

When the prompt comes up requesting microphone access, just say no.

Here's how to turn it off: the Messenger app doesn't have a settings section, so you'll have to do it in the settings section of your phone.

In Apple iOS, go to Settings, scroll down to the Facebook app and un-click microphone. On Android phones, open settings, click “Apps & notifications,” find the Facebook Messenger app, look for Permissions, click Microphone, and chose Deny.

In other tech news this week

Disney staged a huge celebration for fans in Anaheim this week, gave us a sneak peek at its upcoming Disney + streaming service, and announced several new titles that would debut on the streamer after it launches on Nov. 12th. They include a new series with the Muppets, the return of Lizzie McGuire, a former Disney Channel hit and a new show featuring the Obi-Wan Kenobi character from Star Wars. (We had fun photographing the fans who dressed up as their favorite Disney characters. See the gallery below.)

Spotify upgraded its family plan and parental controls. It's only in Ireland right now, but "coming soon," to us: a tool that gives adults better control over the content children listen to. As part of Spotify's new Premium Family Plan, parents will be able to filter out songs with swearing and other explicit content. And don't worry, parents, your kids won't be able to go around you. This is a password-protected feature, so kids won't be able to undo it unless you give them the password.

Those big beautiful restaurants we love are only going to shrink in the coming years. The culprit: the popularity of mobile dining apps, like DoorDash and UberEats. Restaurants are testing "ghost kitchens," small places with no signage, seats or servers, as delivery-only restaurants.

In just a few weeks, Apple is expected to launch the iPhone 11. Our guide to what to expect. Meanwhile, the Apple Card, Apple's new credit card, is now available to consumers. Just open your Wallet app on the iPhone to find your invite.

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