Just how endemic is internet pornography? What effect does it have on our relationships? And how different is a baby-boomer’s search history from a millennial’s? According to our survey, nearly two-thirds of us (58%) watch porn. We asked them what they watched, how long and how often, and with whom. Here, India Knight reveals the results and asks what it means for our sex lives.

I feel conflicted about porn, as I am significantly less liberal than I want to be. My instinct has always been to think you can’t police fantasy, to live and let live, as long as there is consent and nobody’s getting hurt — but I don’t know what to do with that now women getting hurt is the new normal.