The Victorian government will tell foundation teachers not to use phrases such as "boys will be boys" as part of a $3m plan to eradicate sexism in pre-schoolers.

According to The Australian, 4000 early years state educators will receive training about gender stereotypes in the classroom. A government tender released last week says children as young as three or four are aware of "gender expectations" and try to "fit within these gendered norms" as they start school.

The 'gender-equality' program has been developed as part the Labor government's $21.8m Respectful Relationships plan to tackle family violence. It's been widely criticised by community groups for promoting domestic violence as a male on female issue.

Minister for Families and Children Jenny Mikakos told the paper that the training was important.

"The early years are an important time to start helping children develop a secure sense of self and healthy, respectful ­relationships — this will help prevent family violence in the long-term", she said.

"Let kids be kids", a Liberal spokesperson told

The Australian

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