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If a guy with autism has a crush on you, try to get to know him as an individual, since every person with autism is different. If you like the guy back, try using more obvious flirting techniques, like touching his arm and complimenting him a lot. Since some autistic people have trouble starting conversations, you might have to make the first move and tell him you like him or ask him out. On the other hand, if you’re not interested in the guy, try to make it clear that you don’t like him, since this might not be obvious to him at first. Pull him aside and gently tell him you don’t like him romantically or that you’d like him to give you some space. This might seem mean, but it’ll be much nicer than letting him chase after you with false hope. For more tips, including how to find common ground with an autistic guy, read on!