Sometimes among all of the flash and show of big budget movies, it’s nice to see an understated, thoughtful story. This is exactly what Brooklyn brings to the table. It is the story of an Irish immigrant, Eilis, adjusting to her new life in the unfamiliar America during the 1950’s. In Ireland, Eilis has no real prospects yet it’s hard to ignore the duty and expectations of family. In America she has a job, is advancing her education, and has the love interest of an Italian man named Tony.

What I find wonderful about this film is the universal themes of duty to family and branching out into independence.

What I find wonderful about this film is the universal themes of duty to family and branching out into independence.

What I find wonderful about this film is the universal themes of duty to family and branching out into independence. It’s about taking chances when you don’t know exactly where the road will lead you. Even though this is set in the 1950’s, it is a message that will resonate with everyone. We’ve all been in a position of making a choice of which creates rippling effects in our lives.

Another compelling part of this film is the dynamic between Eilis and Tony. The love story aspect is played out with a sense of balance in their relationship which is especially novel to see during a piece set in an earlier time period. They not only have mutual respect for each other, they want to bring their best to the relationship, and are supportive of each other’s endeavors. While everything isn’t always easy, I think it is a great and healthy relationship dynamic shown that we could all hope to emulate.

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