i am so Tired of ”””progressive””” men in liberal academic circles ‘embracing’ gender non conformity through the medium of flower crown filters, nail polish and blue eyeliner while being very much gender conforming when it comes to keeping the faculty kitchen clean, taking a turn organising birthday/retirement/congratulation cards and cakes for colleagues, respectfully listening to women in seminars, refusing to participate in all-male panels/workshops, and all the other ways they could refuse to conform to masculinity that are less pleasant than posting a pastel selfie and getting validation for being So Gosh Darn Woke