Running or pulling a train means that more than 2 guys plan on having sex with the same gal, one after the other.....the sex may be consentual on the gal's part...it also refers to gang rape.....

Your intuition is right, Toots...I read/answered your other question.......if you can at all posphone the wedding until this is cleared up I strongly advise you to do so......

Your fiance knows exactly what it means.

Judge the situation by the character of the fellows attending the batchelor party...are they the type to participate in this, if the gal is willing?

Even if he wasn't going to participate...even if he used the expression to mean something other than it truely does....he lied to you on the real meaning.....and if he wasn't planning on participating or allowing anything 'dicey' at his party, then why isn't he going thru with it? Why refuse to go & stay home with you rather than re-asure you nothing wrong will be going on........

I can't answer these questions...only you can....go with your gut instinct/intuition-far too many women ignore it. If you suspect, then it's very well true...and even if it isn't, suspicion on your part and the need to lie on his is not a good start to a marriage...good luck.

...and Hon, if you are still not sure, then ask your Dad what it means...and see the look on his face...he has your best interests at heart, your Dad...listen to what he says.......please let us know what happens......I wish for you the best out-come, in your self-interests.