When you take the onion out of the soup, much of the flavor disappears. Taking men out of the mix in marriage means that the truly good women are going to suffer by being left alone even though they would mostly be good wives and mothers and not seek to have a bunch of babies then dump their husband so they can get their hands on their money and keep their kids away from them. The femme-nazi's are angry because a man will not allow themselves to be put at risk, having seen many of their friends go through wretched marriages and have their lives ruined. Many men are even pulling themselves away from working with women, because they see the toxicity of such relationships where as co-workers or friends, you are always at risk of being accused of making inappropriate remarks, even if the woman pretended to be amused at the time or even if nothing inappropriate happened. For some, it's easier to just step away from the toxic potentials altogether. It's a bit paranoiac, but sometimes necessary for self-preservation.