3. Combining Voice & Eyes For Maximum Flirt Impact

As I said in the previous step, you can’t just start talking in a seductive voice for five seconds straight. That would be too long and too overwhelming.

Instead, you want to gradually build it up.

Here’s how you do it.

On your date, there are going to be moments when you’re talking and moments when she’s talking.

When she’s talking, from time to time just look at her lips and back to her eyes. We discussed this earlier.

Then when you’re talking, at some point in the conversation you are going to combine a pause with a quick triangular gaze. And I mean REALLY QUICK. So quick that If she blinks, she might not even notice it.

For example:

“You know, today I was in the grocery store… and I saw a really nice looking apple pie.”

As you can see, right after the word “store”, I took a pause for just a second.





And in that moment I quickly look from her right eye, to her left eye, to her mouth and back in to her eyes and then continue talking normally.

It’s a quick touch and go.

As trivial as this seems, unconsciously, she will have noticed. Believe me.

In that second, she will have seen a look of desire on your face. Like you “suddenly” saw something that you liked. But she won’t be sure of it, because it was so quick.

As you continue your conversation, you’ll inject a few of those moments. And you’ll gradually build them up longer and longer.

Example of a slight increase.

“You know today I was… in the grocery store and I saw a really nice looking… apple pie.”

Example of another slight increase:

“You know today I was… in the grocery store… and I saw a really nice looking… apple pie.”

I think you get the point.

You would naturally inject more and more pauses with quick triangular looks.

Let her level of comfort guide you in how quickly you can amplify the seductive vibe.

If she doesn’t seem comfortable, just wait a bit longer and try again later.

In other words, if she’s uncomfortable you take longer between the flirting moments.

And as she becomes more comfortable, you leave less time between flirting moments.

When you can talk for three or four seconds in this seductive style, and she’s comfortable with it, you can go in for the kiss.