SelfEvident Tue 03-Jul-18 15:22:26

Hi



It seems as though he has a strong grip on you still.

you may have an odd feeling of being discarded by him, even though he was the one massively deserving of the one discarded?



my best advice is to understand he has a mental illness and that it was all fake. He leeched off of you and in turn made you feel worthless.

Revenge will more than likely give him a kick and narcissists are intelligent people more often than not, so he could swing it around and make you look bad.



Be active and move on - one last point. You may have taken on some of his traits....meaning you may have a temp narcissistic mode. Please remain self ware



Hope you start to feel better soon