Anonymous asked: Here's one to your "women don't owe you anything" - I consider myself pretty nice, I'm also very self aware. I'm an above average looking 6ft rugby player, who's sense of humour and laziness stops me from having a stable girlfriend, I'm not bad with women, I'm just not a womenizer - this is just to establish that I'm not some sort of 5ft5 virgin who hates women. Why, as a man, am I the one who is expected to buy the drinks, pay for the date, open the door 1/2

2/2 fight the guys who creep out my girl-friends in clubs, pay for the taxi, carry the shopping, help with heavy lifting, help with electronics, catch spiders, be able to drive and work out? If I don’t do ANY of these things, I get called a pussy, a girl, not a man; yet if I was to call out on a girl for wearing trousers (which I wouldn’t) I’d get called a sexist prick? Online and in the grand scheme of things society favours men, yes, but in the grassroots, small-scale scheme, women win. P.S Men (Including me) owe you nothing.



Your height has nothing to do with whether or not you hate women nor your entitlement toward them. Let me tell you, a 5’5 weedy virgin who respects women is 1000% more appealing than some self-aggrandising ‘6ft rugby player’ and your pat on the back about how ‘nice’ and ‘attractive’ you are isn’t really helping your case here. For someone who is supposedly self-aware, you don’t seem to understand that it’s not really about how stereotypically attractive you are, it’s about respect.

And you know what, this isn’t even women’s ‘fault’. You’re attributing the blame to the wrong place, because let me tell you, women would much rather be treated with respect and like real human beings rather than infantilised by men with some kind of chivalrous ‘oh I’m so nice because I opened a door wow look at me I’m such a nice guy’ complex. I’m getting the feeling that you feel like you’re owed something because you do ‘nice’ things for women.

Guess what? I do ‘nice’ things for everyone, and I do it without any expectation except the hope that they pay it forward. If you do ‘nice’ things because you think that you can put ‘nice’ points into a woman and get sex out of it, then you aren’t nice, you’re a predator.