

Quote History Originally Posted By glockluv:

If your point is that many people are too quick to hit the "eject" button then I agree with you.







That being said I've had friends who married women who had deep psychological and drug abuse issues in which even the couples counselor told them "this is never going to get better"







At the end of the day you only have one life to live and everyone makes mistakes.







Try not to judge folks too harshly. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quote History Originally Posted By glockluv:







Originally Posted By CCLJ03:



I really don't want to sound preachy, so please know ahead of time - that is not my intention.







I got married on June 4th of this year... so just over 2 months ago, and I just can't figure out why divorce is the answer for so many of you.



(Before you say "oh you've only been married for 2 months you don't know what you're talking about".... We started dating in 2009 - going on 7 years together)











I'm sitting here looking through GD seeing "eject" everywhere and I just can't imagine ever breaking my vows.











What is your word worth after breaking a solemn vow like that?



What are you teaching your kids through your actions?



Did you not really mean what you said on your wedding day?











I vowed to support, protect and nurture my spouse in sickness and in health. It doesn't matter what happens, I gave my word that I would be there.











My wife and I have had days, weeks... shoot even months where things sucked - She was bitchy or I was impatient - but I wouldn't ever leave her.











So, my question is - How can "eject" be an option for so many of you?

I know I'll probably catch a lot of heat for this topic but I really am curious.















If your point is that many people are too quick to hit the "eject" button then I agree with you.







That being said I've had friends who married women who had deep psychological and drug abuse issues in which even the couples counselor told them "this is never going to get better"







At the end of the day you only have one life to live and everyone makes mistakes.







Try not to judge folks too harshly. If your point is that many people are too quick to hit the "eject" button then I agree with you.That being said I've had friends who married women who had deep psychological and drug abuse issues in which even the couples counselor told them "this is never going to get better"At the end of the day you only have one life to live and everyone makes mistakes.Try not to judge folks too harshly.









I try!









Both of our parents or divorced - mine multiple times.









I just don't think you can make a solemn vow before her, god, and your family and then just say "oops I fucked up, can I get a do-over?"

I try!Both of our parents or divorced - mine multiple times.I just don't think you can make a solemn vow before her, god, and your family and then just say "oops I fucked up, can I get a do-over?"