If you don’t already know, I am Violetta and I am 18. I recently joined this community and looking around at other girls, I started wondering if my privates are anything close to normal. No, I am not talking about a private show, yes I am talking about my private parts and yours. I know I said at some point that the beauty of this industry is that there are no beauty standards. But even without the beauty standards, I started to wonder if everything is normal with me and if it affects my sales. I still don’t know if it does because I can't really change my body for a day.

What made me think that I am not normal? Everything that makes me human but that I am embarrassed about. My hairs growing on my nipples. Is that normal? Yes. The pimples or ingrown hairs I get on my nipples? I don't know but I’ll guess yes. But those things aren't the details that affect me the most. The worst is my ass, I pick at my skin a lot and doing that resulted in me having hundreds of small scars on my cheeks and it’s just never smooth as I think it should be. Is that normal? Euhm I don't know, a dermatologist might know. Also, it's those ingrown hairs and pimples I get after shaving my pubes and I used to pick at them so guess what I have down there too? Yes! Scars!

These small things have grown to bother me so much that I was surprised nobody commented on it once. I started to wonder if it was all in my head. I mean I can’t make up flaws in my head but maybe it didn’t really matter to others. Does anything purely physical really matter? I feel like when it comes to insecurities and flaws in your body it doesn't really matter. There’s always going to be a person that thinks they are fat but to another they are perfect. With me, I guess it's my privates, must be perfect for some right?

I mean what is normal? Who determines what is normal or not? Didn’t you realize that I was labeling things normal or not normal earlier? Yeah, we judge for ourselves but there is no universal normal or not normal. There Is unique. That's a great word I think uniqueness is universal because we are all unique, nobody is the same and if my scars and ingrown hairs make me unique so be it, because someone out there appreciates me for who I am and looks past that.

I still have some growing up to do, I am only 18. But a lesson I did end up learning is nobody is normal. Everyone is insecure about something. Someone admires you out there. You can change the way you see things and hopefully, this post helped you. I now rock my scars, pimples, body hair and ingrown hairs. I flaunt my uniqueness for everyone to see. I do this so others can see me and realize that they are not alone, they are not weird and they are beautiful.

Violetta124