In somewhat optimistic news, millennial women are super over playing into traditional gender roles. When women between the ages of 18 and 40 are evaluating a date or hookup partner, they listed sexism as the ultimate deal-breaker, according to a survey by Sapio.

Men ages 18-29 were also concerned with the wokeness of their dates, saying the number-one deal breaker was racism or intolerance, while those ages 30-40 were opposed to bad hygiene. Racism also ranked second with women ages 18-40. But the results varied a bit by sexual orientation: Sexism was the worst trait in the eyes of straight women of all age groups, while bisexual women worried about racism first, and lesbians were concerned about excessive drug use.

It looks like we've come a long way since the socially idealized relationship consisted of a male breadwinner and female homemaker—or a man and a woman, period. People are becoming more open to same-sex relationships, straight men care more about women's education and careers and less about their domestic skills, and couples who split chores evenly are enjoying better sex lives.

At the same time, avoiding sexists in the dating market is still far from easy. Gender stereotypes persist despite evidence to the contrary, and as any Tinder user could tell you, encountering sexual harassment and misogyny while online dating is almost inevitable.

Plus, given that 42 percent of women voted for Trump, we find ourselves wishing sexism were more of a deal-breaker when it comes to electing a president.