In all the shit that is posted in the /r/seduction subreddit, on the rare occassion there is actually great content. Today is one of those days. Someone posted a comprehensive guide to teasing and it is truly spot on.

If there was anything I was naturally good at before I started any of this self improvement, it was teasing. It was always ‘kind of my thing’. No one was offended – because teasing is different than insulting. And there is a fine line.

So I found that any girl who ever did like me, I was always teasing. But I never teased the girls I was crushing on. Hence not having a girlfriend for 23 years.

After I started all of this self-improvement, I realized that my teasing was actually an attractive quality, and I should do it to the girls I actually liked. I didn’t tease them earlier because I put them on a pedestal.

As the Reddit post says,

People only tease people of equal or lesser value than themselves.

This is key, and I will make an entire post on this separately, but the idea is that I wasn’t teasing the girls I was attracted to because I put them on a pedestal. When you hold a girl to be of higher value to yourself, you are making yourself less attractive. Now that I see everyone on equal value, I tease them all.

An obvious generalization here, but girls like being teased. If you are a good teaser, you are not mean. Instead, you are funny and don’t take yourself too seriously. You are fun to be around and make people laugh. If you are a bad teaser, than you are insulting. So read that guide. Good tips there.