bonebleach:

if you seriously cannot tell the different between “i hate the group that i am oppressing” and “i hate the group that is oppressing me” you need to sit down and shut up

“i hate trans people” is not the same as “i hate cis people”

“i hate a group of people so i’m going to kill, rape, judge, and oppress them” is not the same as “wow, i hate the group that continues to kill, rape, judge, and oppress me and people like me"