So, my recent experience back in the single life has opened my eyes to many things, most prominently however, is fetishes. That’s right, maybe I’ve been living under a rock but I honestly never realised how many people have kinky fetishes.



I’m not just talking about whips and chains or “sex in the air” as Rihanna puts it, I’m talking about the more subtle fetishes that you wouldn’t think would be all too exciting. Perhaps the one I’ve come across most is the underwear fetish, more importantly the boxers v brief debate of which is sexier. You’d think none at all would be the sexiest option but apparently not. There are so many men out there who get off at that sight of a guy in their underwear and after looking at David Beckham’s very large H&M campaign you can see why.

Feet. Now I always knew that foot fetishes were out there but I guess like underwear, I never realised how much seeing someone’s feet could turn a guy on. There seems to be something incredibly sexy about the weird looking body part beneath our ankles that I unfortunately won’t ever be able to understand for myself.

All in all, I guess everyone will have that “kink”, that one or a couple of things that we search for and that drives us wild. Perhaps it is seeing underwear, or someone’s feet or well… “Water sports”. But while it’s easy to judge like I am guilty of in the past, think about the world we live in, a world of sexual freedom and exploration. Go out and find your kink, find what drives you wild because your sex life can only benefit from it and I can guarantee there are a host of people out there who will accommodate your fetish.

So zip up your leather outfits, grab your ball gags and experiment! but always stay safe.