SarahAndQuack Wed 16-Jan-19 18:15:59

That sounds like a huge salary to me!



I would have thought you've got it worked out. Are you married? It might be worthwhile. I know no one ever wants to think about splitting up, but if you work part-time and therefore take a career hit, you'd end up worse off when you split, and being married might protect you a bit.



I think him paying more is fair, both because he's earning more and because obviously if you weren't working part time you'd both need to pay more for nursery. Effectively you are 'working' for the price of nursery care, if you like.



Frankly, I do think it is a bit lazy that he wants to do food delivery, but maybe on that income you can afford it!



I'd also suggest (based on seeing a lot of MN threads!) it's worth discussing crucial things like what your expectations of night-time wake-ups are, what your expectations of 'free time' or 'leisure time' are, and what happens if (god forbid) you have either a complicated labour or a sick child to be taking into account, and you either need a lot of support, or can't go back to work for a while.