A mother has told how crippling prenatal depression convinced her she was going to be a terrible mom, and even made her wish she'd have a miscarriage.

Former TV news anchor Hayley Matthews, 38, fell pregnant with her second son after four years of trying with partner Kenny Maddison, 37.

But instead of feeling delighted, she was struck with depression, and became utterly convinced she would be an unfit mother who was not strong enough to have a baby.

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Her feelings became so strong she secretly hoped she'd miscarry, looked into having an abortion and didn't tell anyone she was pregnant for six months, apart from her partner.

With the help of counseling she got through the pregnancy, which she called the "worst nine months of my life".

Matthews, a former STV presenter, gave birth to baby Oryn last month and is on the mend.

She's bravely speaking out to remind women they "can't be everything to everyone" and that there's no such thing as the "perfect mum".

“I’d had a quick search on the internet about abortions and the procedure," Matthews, of Edinburgh, said. “I was sitting there crying and thinking ‘I can’t do that but I don’t think I’m strong enough to have a baby.' It was six months before I told anyone - I couldn’t face saying the words."

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“I didn’t tell many people I was pregnant as I knew I’d made a terrible decision and would make a terrible mum," she said. “I used to tell myself ‘I asked for this.' I thought if I had a miscarriage it might be the best thing. It was horrible, I knew deep down, but it felt like someone had taken over my head. It was a slow process before I felt better about it."

"These first few weeks have been amazing and I’m over the moon," she said. "There is part of me which feels guilty about how bad I felt at the start, and at the time there was part of me that hoped 'Mother Nature' would end the pregnancy for me. I just can’t get my head around it because I felt like a completely different person."

“I look at him and think ‘I’m so glad I didn’t do anything stupid,'" she said.

"Live at Five" presenter Matthews left her job in 2017 to spend more time with her son Harris, now 6, after feeling years of "guilt" at missing out due to her busy job.

Leaving for work at 7 a.m. and getting home at 8:30 p.m. she adored her job, but was rarely home to put him to bed, and was out before he went to school.

She decided to resign and go freelance - and nearly immediately became pregnant, so she had to stop taking anti-anxiety medication.

“Being able to take my son to school and dropping him off at breakfast club, being able to take him to the park, being able to ask him what he wants for dinner, are really important to me," she said. “Before I became pregnant I was working as a TV presenter, thousands of people had gone for the job. But I realized that my mental health and my family were more important. I never wanted to be on telly to be famous, I just wanted to tell people’s stories."

“I was leaving for work at 7 a.m. and getting home at 8:30 p.m., it was like being on a treadmill," she said. “Going from that to then being freelance and sitting there every day trying to find the motivation to email people was hard. It was a very different pace of life. I don’t think I was in the frame of mind to fall pregnant.”

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Within six months she was expecting her second child - but with no close family nearby in Edinburgh, Matthews began to seriously doubt whether she was fit to be a mother.

She said she was consumed by thoughts she wasn't strong enough to be a new mom again, but now realizes it was an exacerbation of feelings she had about trying to "be everything".

Doctors caring for Matthews at the start of the pregnancy decided to take her off anti-anxiety medication she was prescribed, which she described as “absolute hell”.

“I was told to cut back on tablets, and eventually had no choice," she said. “When you have that responsibility for a life growing inside you, the pressure seems huge. I was on the verge of making some very bad decisions. I couldn’t have an abortion as it was not right for me, but I didn’t want to be responsible for a child.”

With the help of a counselor, Matthews began to talk through her fears - including that she would not bond with the baby when he was born.

She gradually began to reintroduce a low dose of the medication, and towards the end of the pregnancy began to feel a glimmer of excitement.

But she was still haunted by apprehension and concerns she would struggle to cope with a newborn.

“Our bodies are like fuel tanks, if you’re running low on serotonin you feel really flat," she said. “I think therapy helps more than tablets, someone saying ‘maybe this is why you feel this way.' That’s been a lot more helpful, but the tablets take the anxiety off.”

Oryn was delivered by C-section at the Royal Infirmary of Edinburgh on Oct.24, weighing 8 pounds, and Matthews' fears were alleviated and she instantly bonded with him.

In a bid to encourage other women to seek help, she decided to tell her story - and is still receiving counseling once or twice a week, as well as taking anti-anxiety medication.

“It was definitely one of the worst periods of my life," Matthews said. “You can’t be everyone all the time. Being able to take my son to school and dropping him off at breakfast club, being able to take him to the park, being able to ask him what he wants for dinner, are really important to me."

“It is the pressure we put on ourselves, the only people who suffer at the end of the day is us," she said. “As females we are subjected to that pressure - this idea that you should have your nails done twice a week, get your hair done, everyone putting pictures on Instagram of their perfect lives. It is a shame, we are just beating ourselves down.”