Why do Asian men have this fascination with white women? While I love all women and think women of all races are beautiful, white women are different. How? Well that’s just my personal opinion. Maybe it’s because for me, there is something cute about the blonde girl. Maybe it’s her portrayal in the mass media that makes her sexier.

Here is a great example. Megan Fox in Transformers I and II. In this film, she is the seductive sexy white female who is willing to get down and dirty with her man and help him out. In Transformers, Fox goes from leaving her buff, good looking white boyfriend, to small, kind of geeky at first Shia LaBeouf. When they first meet in the film, Fox’s character has no idea that LaBeouf and her have been in the same class since the first grade. Right before that she says she was into guys with big arms and tight abs. Although LaBeouf is not Asian, he shares similar qualities to Asian male stereotypes. He’s smart, gentle, kind of clumsy, and geeky.

The picture above is from a car scene when Bumblebee “pretends” to break down. Fox gets out of the car opens the hood, and then demonstrates knowledge for cars and engines. This is the kind of thing that all males feed off of. We love a woman who has knowledge about things that are classified as “manly”. If a girl is good looking and knows about sports and cars, chances are guys will find them more attractive because they might have more in common than he thought. Fox’s character in Transformers demonstrates that ideal girlfriend every guy wants. Her portrayal in the media causes white women to be more attractive in that way.

I guess it works both ways: Asian men are represented as feminine by people like Ken Jeong and therefore are undesirable in a relationship. On the other hand: white women in the media are all seen as sexy, beautiful, and outgoing, such as Megan Fox. Portrayals such as her is what makes them more desirable to me.

In short, media representation effect how we see other people. For Asian males, our image is hurt. For white females, their image is positive and desirable. But then this also hurts the average white women as they have this image that they must live up to. Stereotypes are bad!

If you have time, here’s a music video that the Miami Dolphin Cheerleader’s put together (this is why I think white women are sexy):

This video includes an abundance of cheer leaders are all well endowed and seem very outgoing. Most of the girls in this music video are white with big chests. They are very sexy and attractive and give us another image of white women. There is the stereotype that Asian females have smaller boobs. For a girl, her perception of her own attractiveness and sexiness to others is directly related to how her body looks, which includes face, hair, boobs, and ass. In America, sexiness is defined by your body, although there are plenty of Asian women with smoking hot bodies, the majority off actresses and models in America are white. Because of these ladies, sexiness is defined by how big your chest and how how nice your body is. If you have these qualities, naturally you may be more attractive.

And similarly, a male’s perception of their own attractiveness and sexiness to others is directly related to how much confidence he has. And this confidence is driven by how he looks, dresses, and even by the size of his own penis. Because there is the stereotype that Asian males have smaller penises, Asian males may be appear to be less confident. As mentioned in Adrian Tomine’s Shortcomings, there is a joke about the size of an Asian male’s penis:

– What is the difference between a Caucasian and an Asian?

– The Cauc

Fins Productions. “Miami Dolphin Cheerleaders ‘Call Me, Maybe’”. Video Clip. 05 June 2012. Youtube. 6 June 2012.