Us woman, don't NEED a man. Stop acting like its a necessity.

Us woman feel like we can't live or breath without a man by our side, someone to live for. I have recently been through a stage where I was so "in love" with a boy who turned out to be the most average guy in the world, he hurt me and made me his bitch and I took it because I always had preconceived ideas in my head that he was so great, when in fact he wasn't, at all. I one night lay in bed and realized I don't need him or like him at all, he was so not worth the four months I spent crying and wishing I had him. I feel stupid, but have learnt so much.

So now that I'm over him and his idiocracy it got me thinking.. I only wanted him because he didn't want me. How ridiculous, it's beyond stupid. But it's the truth and I feel like a lot of woman are the same as that. We need to own ourselves and not want what we can't have, we must wait till the right guy comes along that wants us just as much as we want them.

Stop relying on the quotes and fantasies of how badly we need a man and all this relationship goals crap .. We don't need any of that. Take yourself out. Read a book. Become intelligent and independent. ALL YOU NEED IS THE BEST YOU.Then when someone comes along you will be ready and it will be perfect.

I really hope if anyone is going through what I went through, realize what I've realize now, I feel like a million bucks. Yes it's hard not messaging him and seeing him with other girls but remember..and this is hard.. If he liked you he would be messaging you already and be hanging with you mot her.

GIRL POWER.