Unread post by curiousdave » Wed Mar 21, 2012 11:57 pm

Not really sure where to start. Sharing something like this online is a scary thing for me but I really have no other outlet that I can think of. I guess I'll start by telling you my name is Dave, I'm 28 years old and have been married for almost 10 years. My wife Jenna is the love of my life, always has been, always will be. She's a year younger than I am and we've been together since highschool. Jenna is a gorgeous woman in my eye's and most everyone else's too I think. She's really stunning in my opinion and I never even give other women a second look. Besides her beautiful looks to me she's just as wonderful on the inside. Really I have no complaints. My story starts about 8 months back when my mother passed away from cancer. My wife really stepped up in this family set back and did so much for everyone. She especially stepped up for my dad. He was really lost for a while after Mom's death and Jenna was a huge rock for him to lean on. She was always over at his house cleaning or cooking or just being a shoulder for him to cry on. I was really busy during this time with work and couldn't be there nearly as much as I would have liked too.



Now when I say Dad that's what he is but he isn't my biological father. He's basically raised me since I was 4 so that's how I've always thought of him, as Dad but he's really my step father. I never had any relationship with my real dad so he's all I ever knew. Dad is 47 and still in very good shape. He owns his own company ( a couple actually) and does really well for himself. He was always my role model and hero and in my opinion the ideal for what a Man should be. He's always been big and strong and virile and much more the Man than I ever will be I fear. Anyway like I said Jenna has been spending a lot of time with my Dad and they have grown very close. Recently they started taking dance classes together. For starters it's something Jenna had always wanted to do and could never get me to go along with and secondly she thought it would be good to get dad out and keep him busy with a fun project. I was and am very ok with this and they seem to really enjoy the whole thing. Recently a comment was made that started this whole thing rolling in my mind and now I just can't get past it. She innocently referred to their dance class night as a "date". For whatever reason that really struck me back and I started looking and feeling differently about the whole thing. To me in my eye's it really started seeming like she was "going out" on a date and surprisingly it turned me on. She always get's all dolled up and normally looks Un-real hot in my opinion. I guess that's the style of the dance class for everyone to look their best and be all dressed up. Whatever the cause the end result is breathtaking to me. dad stops by and picks her up always wearing a classy suit (something I never wear). Bottom line is they look fantastic together and they seem to know this. Maybe they are just feeling good and having their fun night but they seem to really "fit" together and realize it too.





After that little innocent "date" comment by her I have brought it up in various ways here and there. Maybe looking for more fantasy fuel for my fire, maybe searching to see if there is more to it than I even think there is. And to my surprise and in ways relief I think there may be. She has nonchalantly admitted that if she were single and my dad asked her out she would probably accept. That may sound crazy but in the tone of the conversation and the questions I was asking it wasn't bad. She has also said many times over the years even before all this started how she finds my Dad very attractive and how my mother was a very lucky woman. So the bottom line with all this is I really, honestly do think there is something to this. I know from watching them together there is a very strong mutual attraction and a fun and flirty nature to their demeanor with each other. They always were flirty even when mom was alive and it was just their way. No one thought anything about it then. Now , well it does give me thoughts. Maybe something has already happened, maybe not. But as crazy as it makes me feel I think I really want it to happen. When they are together around me I seem to enter in to some weird mental place where I feel like I am just a fly on the wall watching everything transfixed. Sort of like I am zoned out or something, hard to explain. All I know is that as a "couple" they look great, maybe even sexy. I know my beautiful wife finds my dad attractive and that excites me. I also know from growing up that my dad is much (MUCH) more well endowed than I am. That's another thing that fuels this fantasy I guess. I know my wife knows of this too because I have mentioned it once or twice over the years about seeing how big he was and wondering how Mom was able to take all that.

So that brings us to the now, where to go with all this. What steps if any do I take? Do I sit back and let nature take it's natural coarse? Do I try and help further the situation along? I almost feel that I need not do anything because the signs are on the wall if you are looking. You have a man and woman spending a lot of time together, being close, sharing lives so to speak. Mutual attraction is there, natural evolution is bound to take place. Of course both have morals so that could get in the way and if so maybe this is where I should come in, let them know somehow it's ok? I just don't know. But I have thought about it, fantasized about it, so on so much, I feel I really want this to happen. Advise please and thank you for your time.