“I remember reading the very first line of the report written about me by the social worker – it launched straight into my religious beliefs, saying how they weren’t hugely influential in my life which isn’t really the case. It felt like a deliberate effort to play down my Christianity. The final stage in the process is questioning by a panel of 10 people; they all had one question each – three of them chose to ask me about my religion to check that I wouldn’t be forcing it on a child.