The citizens of London can be proud in their kinky and alternative city in regards to sexuality. Though the weather is mostly grey and cold, it is hot and humid in the realm of pubs, parties, hotels and friendly event. You can find those places and activities almost every day of the week and any sexual preference will find a place. Either you are a swinger and look for the a public party or a private orgy, or into BDSM and leather and looking for the equipped dungeon or a play party.

The city is happy to entertain your sexy shopping whether you are into gummi, latex, leather or “just” want to crossdress. If you’re looking for a slave for the night or partner for an orgy, there is a special website you can look in and I bet you’ll find it.

The clubs and bars scene is very strong and welcoming for all colors and types, LGBT, leather, geeks and more. The english way of drinking outside while standing in the cold weather gives a great opportunity to get to know people and exchange tipsy ideas.

If you can, try to schedule your visit to the weekend of the alternative market. This event is an amazing mixture for everything we mentioned above. A whole afternoon and evening in a relaxed but highly sexual atmosphere where you can dine, talk, buy and finish with a nice play party in the same building. This alternative event is by the community and for the community thus make it highly enjoyable.

There no need to mention that London is full with “plain normal” activities like the Big Ben, Piccadilly square and the London Bridge. In our daily tours you will be able to find exciting routes mixing the kinky stuff with the main sites.

Don’t forget to check the schedule of the events as you might find yourself outside, and more important is to make yourself familiar with the local rules as the organizers will not be shy and will break any activity which is not according to the rules.

Clubs, Parties and Bars

Men & Women

LGBT

Munch

Calendars

Men & Women

Sanctum – Sanctum is a friendly BDSM & Fetish event which takes place on the 3rd Saturday of every month, starting at 8pm . we welcome all genders, orientations and titles whether Dom/Domme, submissive, slave, top/bottom, kinkster, fetishist or self proclaimed pervert! There are House Dominants in residence who can be approached for play. Music is mixed. Discretion is key. Aimed at serious players – the place where anything goes!

The Vanilla Alternative‏ – The Vanilla Alternative, is an 8 hour monthly play event, every second Sunday of the month. 14:00-22:00. The Vanilla Alternative features a 30 person hot tub, numerous nooks and corners to explore, a fully licensed bar, free private parking, hotel rooms and a range of play equipment.

Rooms are available for those that wish to stay over after the event. These need to be booked before the event.Inside you can play with 2 St Andrews crosses, spanking benches, swing, stocks, restraints. You are welcome to bring your own kit, (needles are not permitted) .

ABC Club London (Adult Babys & Diaper Lovers) ‏‏‎- ABC runs on the 3rd Saturday every month. ABC is a safe place for ABs, DLs, their daddies, mummies and friends to play. ABC try to offer a safe place for them to just be themselves. There are two changing rooms in place, and A private area for those babies who are feeling a bit more “naughty”. The dress Code include Adult baby cloths, sissy cloths, nappies / diapers, and more.

Club Rub – Sexy, provocative and a guaranteed great night out. Second or third Saturday of the month. From 9pm until late + special event, you should check out the site for exact dates. The place also suggest few interesting and unique workshops that can be found here

Red stairs party – highly stylish decoration will welcome all 18+ for an adult social party

LGBT

Club Linger – UK’s first ever venue where masculine men who are in to lingerie (and the men who admire them) can meet, socialise and play. She.world – An intimate and secure venue for the transgender community. Transgirls, transvestite,transsexuals, cross dressers, drag queens and their admirers are all welcome. XXL London – Pulse‏ – Weekly popular Saturday night out with beers and cruising. East Bloc – Gay Shoreditch club / bar Bump – Rise (Lesbian) – Friday night gay dance night at the very large Rise club on Leicester Square.

Fire – Fire is the gay club where it all happens for the muscle and party boys in London. The venue has many rooms, hosting different parties.

The Underground Club – SPANKZ is a men only spanking / CP club. It’s provides you with the ideal place to spank, be spanked, or just chat over a beer. It provides you with all the props such as the horse, a whipping frame, and chairs for a spanking or paddling. G-A-Y Bar – A large gay bar in Old Comptomstreet with 16 large lcd screens for you to select pop videos in the video-jukebox! 3 Floors with usually a very young crowd. Only on a fri/sat. Circa – A trendy and popular gay bar with late night opening in weekends. Comptons of Soho – It’s a large traditional styled gay bar for men: lots of skins and other rough guys. Cruisy and horny.

Halfway to Heaven– is a gay bar, where you can enjoy a lively cabaret show or karoke every now and then.

The wayout club – THE place to be if you are a crossdresser or an admirer. Exotic, diverse and even alarming crowd you could not find anywhere else. All colors, styles and sized from the shy admirers to the amazonian drag queen. They dance, they pose, they drink

Bombshell Club – Fashionable and friendly club for TV/TS Admirers and Friends. Gorgeous basement club with plenty of seating and intimate booths

The Backstreet – UK’s longest running leather bar You can find more clubs and pubs on our Kinky London Map

Munch

Wagging Tails, Wet Noses @ CCK – The munch is for anyone who loves coffee, cake or pet play! You’re more than welcome if you like dressing as an animal and getting cuddles! Come and join the munch, if you like drinking coffee and eating cake whilst petting nuzzly creatures! Or even if you just want to relax after a long day of work! Fun and games start at 7pm, but feel free to come early for some wonderful food and lovely service!Dress Code: NO NUDITY! But feel free to come with tails, ears, masks, collars.

here is no Cost for Entry But please indulge in coffee and cake.Geek Munch – This is the once-a-month free event for people who are geeky and either kinky or curious, with free cake and a range of card and board games.

no actual kink taking place. It’s just a meet and greet, dressed however you normally would. The munch is also absolutely LGBTQA+ friendly.

Highbury Fields School – This Munch is intended as a jam and picnic in the park, where any musicians are encouraged to bring their instruments along, as we intend to have a jamming session. Everyone is welcome, regardless of ability, and everyone is welcome to join in, sing, dance, clap, etc! There is no kinky play at this event. Afterwards , we’ll be going to the Horatia pub. A place is reserved for us.

You can find more clubs and pubs on our Kinky London Map

Calendars

London fetish scene is the primary resource for calendar of events for whatever take place in town

tvchix events – for transvestite / crossdressers and their admireres. Covers more then just London

Bizzarre events – Private pan-sexual / bisexual kinky extreme​ fetish adult parties for consenting adults with some of the naughtiest, most outrageous, sexiest extreme fetish themes you can imagine, but won’t find anywhere else in London

Some other events in central London :

AntiChrist (Islington)

BDSM and alternative music event, dates various but generally bi-monthly.

If you want to play or make the beast with two backs to either metal, goth or EBM, you have come to the right place. Live bands and cabarets included, my favourite central event.

Event fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/4369

Decadence (Hackney)

BDSM Event, Monthly.

No review yet.

Event Fetlife group: https://fetlife.com/groups/53367

Sanctum (Bethnal Green)

BDSM Event, on the third Saturday of the month.

Good event run by a well regarded ProDomme.

Event Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/97953

Subversion (Venues Various)

BDSM Event, roughly Bi-monthly

If you want to get pissed in latex and listen to deafening dance, this is for you. If you want BDSM play, look for a better run event.

Event Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/4672

Legs800 (Walthamstow)

TG Event, every Thursday and Saturday

One floor for social, one for sex. Bit rough around the edges but has character and outstanding staff. there is a dungeon which on some Saturdays has a house Domme…a very good one too.

Fetlife contact: https://fetlife.com/users/768625

The kinky map of London







Shopping

Men & wemen

LGBT

MTF transformation services

Men & wemen

Fetish freak‏ – Wide range of leather and rubber clothing made right in London (one of only a few places left to do this) with prices to suit everyone’s budget. Extensive range of cock and ball toys, lubes, harnesses, used Army boots, restraints etc.

F.A.B. (FETISH ALTERNATIVE BOUTIQUE)‏‏ – F.A.B.’s ‘Vibe’ is to bring several designers and artists under one roof to create an ‘Old School’ style boutique where you can find, and try on for size, items from different labels as well as a ‘Fetish’ Art Gallery. It stocks clothing in Latex, Leather, Vegan Leather, PVC, Vulcanised Rubber, Traditional & Alternative Corsets, Lingerie and a great selection of Accessories and Artworks from a mix of really established labels and upcoming and exciting new ones.

Cyberdog – cyber clothing/accessory specialized in gothic style and bright fluorescent dance clothing

Sh! – First ever ‘women only’ erotic boutique, designed to give ladies a welcoming, safe place to shop for intimate items and get sound sexual advice. Recently, they’ve relaxed their rules: the ground floor is still reserved solely for lasses and couples, but the basement is now open to everybody

Honour – wide range of kinky clothing, toys and equipment designed to suit all budgets and tastes, including an abundance of very affordable yet gloriously deplorable goodies

Coco De Mer – a large collection of toys, accessories, jewellery and lingerie. They also offer workshops.

House of Harlot – Handmade latex wear for men and women, Masters, Mistresses, fetishistas, kinksters, and more. Rubber clothing, tie dye latex dresses, rubber shirts with silk scarf patterns and many more unique and amazing items .

You can find more shopping on our Kinky London Map

LGBT

Expectations – The biggest gay and fetish lifestyle shop.

There is a vast selection of electro-stimulation toys, adult movies, anal plugs, and of course some kinky rubber clothes.

Regulation London – A must visit. Focused on male fetish clothing & accessories. you also find some unique items that you have never seen before.

Clonezone – Soho – Every thing a kinky gay man wants: Sex Toy, Designer Underwear, Mr S Leather, Fetish Gear, Lubes, Aromas & Sexy Men’s Fashion and more.

Prowler Soho – Largest gay lifestyle superstore. Here you can find includes inflatable anal dongs, cock rings, a huge line up of jockstraps and more

You can find more shopping on our Kinky London Map

MTF transformation services

Suprisingly (or not) crossdressing is a big thing in London. You can easily find multiple places that will be happy to guide like minded males through being a female for a day.

Dress me up – Few packages pf full dressing services

Adam and Eve – makeup service and photo shoots

Your might also find the London crossdressers map useful

Accomodation

Sanctum Soho Hotel– world’s first S&M suite at 404. Live the experience of “50 shades of Grey” with your partner in crime on the Box of Grey experience.

Better Than Bed – A fetish bed and breakfast and dungeon includes Erotic toys, sex swings and whips hang from the walls. To book go to [email protected]

The Serpent Rooms – North London ever growing with a fully equipped dungeon and wrestling room. Many specially designed and unique furniture.

London Dungeon Hire – Situated in Central London since 1990. Fully equipped facilities for couples with an extensive collection of every kinky toy you could ever imagine

You can also try and find a place to stay at KinkBNB

If you don’t want a spacial kinky place and just want somewhere to put your head during your vacation, here are some links to make life easier for you:

You get more than 35$ off your first stay with airbnb.

off your first stay with airbnb. HotelsCombine helps to understand what is available.

The free cancellation approach of booking.com is a great thing that we tends to use on our trips.

Special events

London alternative market (LAM) – Workshops, shopping, wine and dine and a play party as well. Take place on the first Sunday of every month.

Torture Garden – Monthly fetish / body art events hosting 1000s of people club. Enforce a strict fetish and fantasy dress code, and if you don’t dress up you won’t get in. Events consist of venues with multiple rooms offering diverse experiences, dancing and various dungeon or play rooms. TG can be a fun dressed up party with great fashion shows and performances, or it can be as dark and as erotic as you want to take it.

London Fetish Weekend – A four days event that usually takes place around the beginning of October (check the site for exact dated). Bring the fetish community together in a celebration of the biggest fetish clubs and events for kinksters