1) Mood

To cum like a girl, it is absolutely necessary to look and feel entirely like a girl. An unequivocal sense of feminine submission and a burning desire to have your pussy filled and bred with semen ASAP. This is not as straightforward as it sounds though, as any sense of masculine feeling (particularly shame or doubt) will completely intrude on your feminised girly persona and immediately ruin your chances of sissygasm.

This is because of the fact that a sissygasm is primarily a mental effort, so it’s extremely important for your mood and excitement to be at 100%, with no sense of hesitation whatsoever. Therefore, spend the day dressed up, looking at captions, yearning for cock whilst behaving and thinking entirely like a girly girl. Do not touch your clitty for a few days prior. Edging is only helpful if done prior to proper abstinence (to build up cummy pressure) but you still need a few days of absolutely no clitty touching to really sensitise your girly parts. But sometimes this might not always be enough, as we can’t always tell our brains how to feel and expect it to follow suit. In this case, hypnosis is your answer. Spend a couple of hours meditating and trancing to sissy hypnosis. I recommend Bambi Sleep as the ultimate girl maker, as it prompts you to develop a girly alter ego with powerful subliminal effects that WILL definitely transform you into a cock dumb bimbo slut right there and then.

2) Setting

It’s extremely important that during your “me time” all attention is focused solely on the sensations your feeling back there, in order to build up enough levels of pleasure and sissy arousal. Therefore a comfortable setting to play is imperative! Any disturbances, especially when you’re close to reaching sissy bliss, will not only cease your ability to orgasm but also divert your attention just enough to ruin your chances and steal your mood away. In addition, being in a comfortable position where you can thrust your daddy toy hard and long without tiring is also crucial, as reaching sissygasm is a game of persistence and rhythm and could stretch for hours.

Therefore, plan ahead for your sissy session making sure that there will be no unwanted visits, disturbances or anything else that can be a source of anxiety. Don’t expect to reach orgasm if half of your mind is preoccupied on whether your wife or parents are gonna come home soon etc. It also helps to turn your phone off or put it on airplane mode so your normal life doesn’t make an unwelcome intrusion. The aim is to feel completely relaxed, safe and away from your worldly responsibilities for a while so you can focus solely on your sissy self to indulge in a much needed “girl time”.

3) Focus On Nothing But Your Fuck Hole

This rule is the most important, and also often the culprit reason of failure for many girls out there. It is the decisive factor on whether you’ll manage to hit that climax of sissy heaven… or just once again stroke it off in a disappointing but all too familiar state of exhaustion and frustration. So pay attention!

Reaching sissygasm is determined solely by pleasures derived from your butthole (specifically the prostate), of which it is immediately hindered as soon as you avert any attention at all from it (usually by touching your clitty – bad sissy). Therefore, anal fucking yourself should only be done when approached with the right mindset. You absolutely cannot think about and thrust yourself as a means of leading towards sissygasm. You must only just think about the present sensations from being ass fucked. In fact, if you keep thinking about reaching sissygasm, it will just go drift further away from your grasp. Chasing is a no-no, and you must avoid it at all costs. Your focus must solely be directed towards the pleasures of thrusting and being fucked up your whore pussy. When each thrust starts becoming noticeably exhilarating; a series of continuous pangs of slutty blissful ecstasy – you’ll realise that you love nothing more than what you’re feeling in that very present moment. All pleasures will be completely based on your fuck hole, to the point you won’t even care about sissygasm anymore because you’re already in sexual heaven feeling mind numbingly euphoric from each thrust as your gaping ass takes that ruthless, heavenly beating. And then, and only then, will you feel it coming… and you will know.

The crucial part to remember is that during that state of ass smashing ecstasy, you will be tempted to chase the sissygasm. Do not fall for this trap, as it can completely reverse it all. You must only love and focus on boy pussy being smashed, it will truly feel better than any other feeling in the world, and you will be so preoccupied by the intense wave of pure anal bliss by ramming your slutty gaping wet fuckhole. So much so that nothing else in the world will matter. And trust me, once you experience that, no other euphoria will compare.

So why else do you think us sissies become hopelessly addicted anal sluts?

Some Side Notes on Incorporating Drugs

Many girls incorporate some form of chemical assistance. Namely poppers, weed and MDMA. Other substances such as amphetamines, mushrooms, various RC’s are also well liked. Whilst these things can give a boost either to your girly libido or enhance the physical sensations of it, they should only ever be used moderately if at all. Overly using your drugs of choice each time you sissify will create a psychological dependence and will make it difficult to switch on sissy mode without them. It will also set you back in learning how to please your ass without them. Being able to feel anal bliss whilst entirely sober is the purest form of sissy pleasure and sensuality, and means that you’re much better in touch with your pussy. If you will use drugs, only use them as an occasional enhancement. If you find yourself using them too much (particularly poppers), then take a night or two practicising sober – taking your time to mentally engage yourself and rediscover your pleasure spots. Weed and poppers are a generally safer and extremely pleasurable combination. MDMA is generally less safe (dehydration is a huge risk factor) but majorly euphoric and sissygasm inducing. It also makes you a total blowjob whore! But beware, as the magic will disappear very quickly. If you’re going to use it, do it very very occasionally as a special treat, once a couple of months or so. However, the main point to understand is that pleasing yourself sober is the best way to maintain and develop your sissy training, and ultimately in attaining pure sissy bliss.

I hope you enjoyed and learnt enough to be able to go out and find your sissygasm! Have fun and be positive ❤ xoxo