Like most men, I know the difference between fancying someone and sexual harassment, between which conversations are and aren’t acceptable in the company of women, or what’s sexist and what isn’t. But also like most men, I often talk and think about women in terms of their sexuality. I sometimes have conversations with my male friends which my female friends probably wouldn't appreciate. I am sometimes as guilty as the next man of objectifying the opposite sex. Does that automatically eliminate me from actively supporting the feminist cause, or from declaring that I too am a feminist? Is every man who declares himself a feminist some sort of hypocrite?