Anonymous If PIV sex is negative or propagated to create labour supplies, or whatever reason, what is the most natural, unharmful alternative? I realise that sex covers a whole range of activity, but in terms of heterosexual relationships what is supposed to be the unharmful method of engaging in sexual intercourse? Just everything bar PIV?

Any type of heterosexual sex has the patriarchal power dynamic attached to it. We’re not saying stop having heterosexual sex, but that the power dynamic is completely fucked up.



My short answer? Become a lesbian. Any woman can be a lesbian.



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