Your kitchen light bulb flickers and goes black (after you just replaced it’s counterpart last week). Your boss emailed another round of edits for you to make to this week’s report. You still haven’t scheduled that dentist appointment — nor answered that email about volunteering next week. And when you open your closet you realize it’s time to do laundry again.

We’ve all (likely) been fed up enough with the routine daily grind — whether it be errands, chores, work, family responsibilities or any combination of the above — that we can relate to that “I need a vacation” feeling.

“There’s this constant nonstop,” says Alexander Cailllet, an organizational psychology consultant and coach and adjunct professor at Georgetown University — explaining that the pace of work and other parts of our lives is only getting faster and faster in today’s world. And our brains and bodies aren’t built to work that way, he says.

Many human beings are driven in a positive way by having some pressure, deadlines and challenges, says Caillet, who is also CEO of Corentus, a company that provides leadership coaching in the workplace. But we’re expected to respond to emails, texts and a myriad of other communication channels continuously. We run from back-to-back meetings and appointments. Caillet says it can feel like “a relentless march forward with no time off.”

It wears us down, he says. And that’s why today more than ever we need to value time off — and take it. And take enough of it, he says.

Time off means unplugging from the everyday drudge and engaging in something different that leaves you feeling refreshed and rejuvenated.

But “vacation” doesn’t mean you need to fly to Europe or some tropical beach necessarily. The time off Caillet is talking about means unplugging from the everyday drudge and engaging in something different that leaves you feeling refreshed and rejuvenated. It might look like a two-week road trip, or it could be an afternoon hike, enjoying a good meal with interesting friends, or simply gardening for an hour in your backyard.

“It’s about giving ourselves a chance to step out of the stress, calm down, rebuild and regain that sense of balance,” Caillet says. It’s about the mindset.

The ‘vacation state of mind’ frees your brain for important mental processing

Think back to the last time you completely lost track of time — when you were able to choose to do what you wanted to do in the moment. You weren’t worried. You weren’t thinking about what you had to do the next day. And you felt satisfied with whatever you were doing — and you weren’t questioning, judging, comparing or worrying that maybe you should be somewhere else or be doing something else.

That’s the vacation state of mind, explains Brigid Schulte, director of the Better Life Lab at New America and author of the book "Overwhelmed: Work, Love, and Play When No One Has Time." “You feel okay with yourself and what you’re doing. And you’re giving yourself permission to be in the moment and let the moment unfold as it is,” she says.

The brain is designed to work in two modes, she says. “We have the concentrated-vigilant ‘on’ mode and then this spacey, day-dreaming mode. And you really need both.” (It’s not that being in work mode is inherently a bad state of mind to be in, Caillet adds. It’s just that you can’t stay in that state of mind all the time. And that’s an important point, he says.)

The unplugged mode is where your brain is freed up to have new ideas, fresh thoughts and make connections it wouldn’t otherwise.

The “on” mode is where we get things done. The unplugged mode is where your brain is freed up to have new ideas, fresh thoughts and make connections it wouldn’t otherwise, she says. Neuroscience explains the down time mode (“default mode” in science speak) is when we have insights, and that it plays an important role in our psychological mental processing, reading comprehension, divergent thinking skills, and our ability to feel social emotions.

Unplugging also gives you time to connect to your sense of self and to others — and take stock of the meaning you’re getting out of life, Schulte says. And getting in vacation mode is one way to get into that down time, daydreaming state of mind.

‘Getting away’ really only takes an instant

This is where we could cite dozens of studies that illustrate the benefits of vacation and down time (such as research that shows having reliable and predictable regular time off improves job satisfaction, perception of work/life balance, intention to stay in a job and performance). But if you’re reading an article about how to get into the vacation mindset, you probably don’t need another reason why you want to.

What is helpful to know is that evidence suggests you can actually get into that mindset really quickly. One study that looked at brain activity in individuals as they watched videos for entertainment showed that that “down time” brain mode could be activated in a moment with the blink of an eye.

“It happens when you take a break from your day-to-day life, you focus on something else (whether it’s people, an experience or an adventure), and you engage in something different,” Caillet adds. You’re immersed in it and you’re curious about it, he says.