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As I was making dinner tonight I went to drain the water and ended up with a stomach covered in boiling water. Oh God. It hurt so bad I couldn’t see. I ripped my shirt off and collapsed on the floor screaming as the pain spread from right above my navel to... everywhere.



Background: I’m kind of a klutz - always have been - but I still wasn’t expecting my husband’s reaction, which was to scream at me for being stupid (correction: “such a fucking idiot”) and keep playing Rocket League.



I got myself to the bathroom to asses the damage and found that a small (9cm or so) circle of my skin had come off on the shirt and the spot it came from was bare and had hanging skin around it with blisters all over my stomach.



>I’m describing this just to say that I wasn’t faking or trying to get attention. Like, this really fucking hurt.



So my husband finds me sobbing on the floor of the bathroom forcing myself to pour cold water over the wound even though it feels like nails and lectures me (at full voice) that I should be putting ice on it instead.



So now I’m feeling pain, humiliation, and this horrible sinking feeling that literally no one gives a shit. I mean, I get that I made a mistake and was stupid when I poured it (as my husband yelled at me during his replays) but is it childish to just want somebody to give me a hug and say they’re sorry I got hurt? As I write it, I hear how pathetic this sounds but I don’t think there’s anyone I hate enough that if they got burned this way I would call them stupid and tell them to shut the fuck up and stop being so dramatic. Is this just an example of how men and women react differently to suffering? Or have I just invested 10 years into someone who doesn’t really care two shits if I exist?

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Report Anonymous Fri 09 Mar 2018 03:56:33 No.19339199 Report Quoted By: >>19339186

Also, pick is just what I was looking at to quell the pain. Tylonol isn’t cutting it. Also, pick is just what I was looking at to quell the pain. Tylonol isn’t cutting it. Post

Report Anonymous Fri 09 Mar 2018 03:59:04 No.19339203 Report Quoted By: Holy shit honey, your husband is trash.



Like, if he can't be assed to check if his injured wife is alright, he's got no business being married.



No joke i would literally leave someone over treating me like that. Post

Report Anonymous Fri 09 Mar 2018 04:01:41 No.19339209 Report >>19339710 >>19340029 Quoted By: Do not use ice, cold water is better. Go to a doctor, get treatment.



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Download Anonymous Fri 09 Mar 2018 04:05:26 No.19339218 Report Quoted By: >>19339186

You saw who he really is.



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Download Anonymous Fri 09 Mar 2018 04:08:48 No.19339222 Report Quoted By: >>19339186

Your husband is an asshole. That is a third degree burn. They typically treat these in hospital settings. He should have put down his video game and helped you get cold water on it as soon as possible. The fact that he didn't means he's more preoccupied with video games than he is with your wellbeing and that makes him, spell it out for me fellas, an



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Report Anonymous Fri 09 Mar 2018 04:17:38 No.19339239 Report >>19339247 Quoted By: >>19339186

From the context it sounds like he had been getting slowly pissed off recently, maybe by you or someone else, and this was him letting of the steam that built up. Seems like you should be inquiring from him what his mindset was at the time; if he continues to act like his reaction was justified and offers no apology, well then thats a different scenario all together From the context it sounds like he had been getting slowly pissed off recently, maybe by you or someone else, and this was him letting of the steam that built up. Seems like you should be inquiring from him what his mindset was at the time; if he continues to act like his reaction was justified and offers no apology, well then thats a different scenario all together Post

Report Anonymous Fri 09 Mar 2018 04:19:36 No.19339247 Report >>19339257 Quoted By: >>19339239

>from the context of a text post I didn't write

This is shitty advice, you're not helping. This is shitty advice, you're not helping. Post

Report Anonymous Fri 09 Mar 2018 04:24:45 No.19339257 Report Quoted By: >>19339247

The context of being scalded and screaming while husband comes off of game to yell? Cant say your respose does much good for anyone either, friend. The context of being scalded and screaming while husband comes off of game to yell? Cant say your respose does much good for anyone either, friend. Post

Report Anonymous Fri 09 Mar 2018 05:11:01 No.19339356 Report >>19339361 >>19339403 >>19339771 >>19339822 Quoted By: >>19339186

>is it childish to just want somebody to give me a hug and say they’re sorry I got hurt?



Yes. Yes it is. Should he have kissed the boo-boo too?



Having been married for 10 years, you're most likely in your 30s but you can't even drain boiling water out of a pot correctly? Is your husband going to have to hire one of those assistants spergs and retards need?



You scaled yourself due to your own stupidity and stupidity doesn't garner sympathy.



>>Is this just an example of how men and women react differently to suffering?



It's not a man vs woman thing. It's a human vs. moron thing. I'll bet this wasn't the first time you've injured yourself out of idiocy and then had a hissy fit when the sympathy you wanted wasn't given.



TL;DR - Quit hurting yourself in the hopes of gaining pity. Yes. Yes it is. Should he have kissed the boo-boo too?Having been married for 10 years, you're most likely in your 30s but you can't even drain boiling water out of a pot correctly? Is your husband going to have to hire one of those assistants spergs and retards need?You scaled yourself due to your own stupidity and stupidity doesn't garner sympathy.It's not a man vs woman thing. It's a human vs. moron thing. I'll bet this wasn't the first time you've injured yourself out of idiocy and then had a hissy fit when the sympathy you wanted wasn't given.TL;DR - Quit hurting yourself in the hopes of gaining pity. Post

Report Anonymous Fri 09 Mar 2018 05:12:09 No.19339361 Report >>19339635 Quoted By: >>19339356

>she did it on purpose

Yeah, you're an asshole too. Yeah, you're an asshole too. Post

Report Anonymous Fri 09 Mar 2018 05:24:37 No.19339403 Report >>19339434 >>19339506 >>19340620 Quoted By: >>19339356

>you are an idiot

I know. I heard all this from him almost word for word.



At the same time, being angry with someone for being the person they were when you met, dated, married, and so on is arguably idiotic as well.



If he had ignored me it would be one thing. Sure it’s heartless and unempathetic but to actually scream at someone writhing in agony is not only unnecessary but it’s adding stress to an already stressful situation. Is that intelligence.



To give context, my husband has years of experience in the medical field although he’s moved more into technology recently. I don’t understand why he doesn’t cuss out the guy who literally stapled his ass to a chair but he lets loose on me. Maybe he has higher standards in mates than he does for patients? I know. I heard all this from him almost word for word.At the same time, being angry with someone for being the person they were when you met, dated, married, and so on is arguably idiotic as well.If he had ignored me it would be one thing. Sure it’s heartless and unempathetic but to actually scream at someone writhing in agony is not only unnecessary but it’s adding stress to an already stressful situation. Is that intelligence.To give context, my husband has years of experience in the medical field although he’s moved more into technology recently. I don’t understand why he doesn’t cuss out the guy who literally stapled his ass to a chair but he lets loose on me. Maybe he has higher standards in mates than he does for patients? Post

Report Anonymous Fri 09 Mar 2018 05:35:12 No.19339434 Report Quoted By: >>19339403

You're not an idiot, your husband is a heartless asshole, there's a difference. You're not an idiot, your husband is a heartless asshole, there's a difference. Post

Report Anonymous Fri 09 Mar 2018 06:07:15 No.19339494 Report >>19339635 Quoted By: >>19339186

>So my husband finds me sobbing on the floor of the bathroom forcing myself to pour cold water over the wound even though it feels like nails and lectures me (at full voice) that I should be putting ice on it instead.

your husbands a fucking idiot. cool (not freezing cold, definitely not fucking ice) running water is what you apply to burns. also, hes a cunt your husbands a fucking idiot. cool (not freezing cold, definitely not fucking ice) running water is what you apply to burns. also, hes a cunt Post

Report Anonymous Fri 09 Mar 2018 06:18:55 No.19339506 Report >>19339546 >>19339556 >>19339746 >>19339778 >>19339822 >>19340627 >>19340677 Quoted By: >>19339403

>I don’t understand why he doesn’t cuss out the guy who literally stapled his ass to a chair but he lets loose on me.



He's paid to deal with that idiot while he's forced to live with your self-harming behavior.



The most telling part of your "Give me pity" screed was the admission that you're a "klutz" and have always been one. Absent neuromuscular and other disorders, no one is a "klutz". What people like you learn, however, is that injuring themselves in minor accidents they can blame on clumsiness is a good way to garner sympathy and pity.



One of the first rules of psychiatry is that there are no accidents like the one you posted here. You scalded yourself for some reason that makes sense only to you and your twisted little mind. You husband, thanks to his career in the health field, most likely suspects you injure yourself for attention and is sick of it.



You need psychiatric help, not sympathy. God forbid you ever have children because, seeing as you already have a mild form on Munchausen's syndrome, you're an odds on favorite for developing Munchausen's by proxy. He's paid to deal with that idiot while he's forced to live with your self-harming behavior.The most telling part of your "Give me pity" screed was the admission that you're a "klutz" and have always been one. Absent neuromuscular and other disorders, no one is a "klutz". What people like you learn, however, is that injuring themselves in minor accidents they can blame on clumsiness is a good way to garner sympathy and pity.One of the first rules of psychiatry is that there are no accidents like the one you posted here. You scalded yourself for some reason that makes sense only to you and your twisted little mind. You husband, thanks to his career in the health field, most likely suspects you injure yourself for attention and is sick of it.You need psychiatric help, not sympathy. God forbid you ever have children because, seeing as you already have a mild form on Munchausen's syndrome, you're an odds on favorite for developing Munchausen's by proxy. Post

Report Anonymous Fri 09 Mar 2018 06:37:48 No.19339546 Report >>19339557 Quoted By: >>19339506

>One of the first rules of psychiatry is that there are no accidents like the one you posted here



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wait so when I trip on something in the dark i did it intentionally?!? how could I have known there was something on the floor for my subconcious to intentionally have me trip over unless humans have night vision!! HOLY SHIT HUMANS HAVE NIGHT VISION!! WOWOWOWOOWWOOWOWOWOWoh mY GODwait so when I trip on something in the dark i did it intentionally?!? how could I have known there was something on the floor for my subconcious to intentionally have me trip over unless humans have night vision!! HOLY SHIT HUMANS HAVE NIGHT VISION!! Post

Report Anonymous Fri 09 Mar 2018 06:42:04 No.19339556 Report >>19339619 Quoted By: >>19339506

look out /adv/ we got an arm chair psychiatrist here who thinks reading wikipedia for 2 hours makes him a professional



can i get diagnosed next? look out /adv/ we got an arm chair psychiatrist here who thinks reading wikipedia for 2 hours makes him a professionalcan i get diagnosed next? Post

Report Anonymous Fri 09 Mar 2018 06:43:01 No.19339557 Report >>19339603 Quoted By: >>19339546

>wait so when I trip on something in the dark i did it intentionally?!?



There's a great difference between the accident she posted and the accident you posted. The most important difference is that she made sure to tell us she's always been a klutz and is always injuring herself in minor ways.



Tell us, anon, do you trip every time you walk through a dark room? There's a great difference between the accident she posted and the accident you posted. The most important difference is that she made sure to tell us she's always been a klutz and is always injuring herself in minor ways.Tell us, anon, do you trip every time you walk through a dark room? Post

Report Anonymous Fri 09 Mar 2018 07:06:30 No.19339603 Report >>19339615 Quoted By: >>19339557

I don’t scald myself every time I’m in the kitchen. And clearly, if you can’t even identify a logical fallacy then you aren’t goong to be imparting any wisdom here. Thanks tho.



For what it’s worth, it was a very heavy pot and my wrist wimped out halfway through. And I have a reputation for klutzyness because I am tall, have exceptionally poor hand eye coordination and extreme nearsightedness corrected by glasses which reduces my peripheral views. If something is on the floor, I won’t see it. If someone leaves cabinets open in the kitchen in the dark, I’m going to run into them. If someone leaves a puddle on the floor, I won’t see it until I’m on my ass. I don’t scald myself every time I’m in the kitchen. And clearly, if you can’t even identify a logical fallacy then you aren’t goong to be imparting any wisdom here. Thanks tho.For what it’s worth, it was a very heavy pot and my wrist wimped out halfway through. And I have a reputation for klutzyness because I am tall, have exceptionally poor hand eye coordination and extreme nearsightedness corrected by glasses which reduces my peripheral views. If something is on the floor, I won’t see it. If someone leaves cabinets open in the kitchen in the dark, I’m going to run into them. If someone leaves a puddle on the floor, I won’t see it until I’m on my ass. Post

Report Anonymous Fri 09 Mar 2018 07:10:25 No.19339615 Report >>19339622 Quoted By: >>19339603



Nice excuses. Go see a shrink. You fucked up. Nice excuses. Go see a shrink. You fucked up. Post

Report Anonymous Fri 09 Mar 2018 07:13:10 No.19339619 Report >>19339782 >>19339881 Quoted By: >>19339556

>arm chair psychiatrist



I'm an admitting nurse in the emergency admissions ward at Butler Hospital in Providence RI. How about you? I'm an admitting nurse in the emergency admissions ward at Butler Hospital in Providence RI. How about you? Post

Report Anonymous Fri 09 Mar 2018 07:14:12 No.19339622 Report Quoted By: >>19339615

>You fucked up



That should have read "You fucked up when you admitted being a klutz". That should have read "You fucked up when you admitted being a klutz". Post

Report Anonymous Fri 09 Mar 2018 07:20:09 No.19339635 Report >>19339639 >>19339650 >>19339699 >>19339822 Quoted By: >>19339494

>>19339361

Thanks. We talked things out. He apologized for being an asshole (his words) and explained he had a shitty day at work and took it out on me which was wrong.



Its still kinda nagging at me though. After all this input, I really question whether he really loves me or if maybe being together is just easier than not. Not sure what to do with that. Thanks. We talked things out. He apologized for being an asshole (his words) and explained he had a shitty day at work and took it out on me which was wrong.Its still kinda nagging at me though. After all this input, I really question whether he really loves me or if maybe being together is just easier than not. Not sure what to do with that. Post

Report Anonymous Fri 09 Mar 2018 07:21:13 No.19339639 Report >>19339699 Quoted By: >>19339635

He also bandaged me up and was extra sweet and understanding. He also bandaged me up and was extra sweet and understanding. Post

Report Anonymous Fri 09 Mar 2018 07:24:08 No.19339650 Report Quoted By: >>19339635

>After all this input, I really question whether he really loves me or if maybe being together is just easier than not.



Considering how biased family courts are in favor of women, he staying with you because it's safer than divorcing you. Considering how biased family courts are in favor of women, he staying with you because it's safer than divorcing you. Post

Report Anonymous Fri 09 Mar 2018 07:43:57 No.19339699 Report >>19339707 Quoted By: >>19339639

>>19339635

I think its fair to let him off on a one time occasion -- we're all human and do regrettable things. If this behavior is periodic or seems like a symptom of a larger problem then I'd start worrying I think its fair to let him off on a one time occasion -- we're all human and do regrettable things. If this behavior is periodic or seems like a symptom of a larger problem then I'd start worrying Post

Report Anonymous Fri 09 Mar 2018 07:45:37 No.19339707 Report Quoted By: >>19339699

>If this behavior is periodic or seems like a symptom of a larger problem then I'd start worrying



Just like all your "accidents"? Just like all your "accidents"? Post

Report Anonymous Fri 09 Mar 2018 07:47:06 No.19339710 Report Quoted By: >>19339209

This. This. Post

Report Anonymous Fri 09 Mar 2018 08:11:28 No.19339746 Report Quoted By: >>19339506

Is OP’s husband behind this post? Is OP’s husband behind this post? Post

Report Anonymous Fri 09 Mar 2018 08:25:30 No.19339771 Report >>19339776 Quoted By: >>19339356

Wtf is wrong with you.



>It's not a man vs woman thing. It's a human vs. moron thing.



Let me guess, you're not the moron here and have an iq of 300 and watch rick and morty? OPs husband is an asshole, I could never yell at my SO if that happend to them and call them stupid. Wtf is wrong with you.Let me guess, you're not the moron here and have an iq of 300 and watch rick and morty? OPs husband is an asshole, I could never yell at my SO if that happend to them and call them stupid. Post

Report Anonymous Fri 09 Mar 2018 08:28:05 No.19339776 Report >>19339790 Quoted By: >>19339771



You and the other white knights still don't get it, do you? She admits she does this ALL THE TIME. It isn't being klutzy or accident prone or having poor eyesight. It's a behavior pattern she's long used to garner sympathy and attention. You and the other white knights still don't get it, do you? She admits she does this ALL THE TIME. It isn't being klutzy or accident prone or having poor eyesight. It's a behavior pattern she's long used to garner sympathy and attention. Post

Report Anonymous Fri 09 Mar 2018 08:29:14 No.19339778 Report >>19339797 Quoted By: >>19339506

No serious psychiatrist would diagnose someone online over one scenario, not implying that I believe that you are one either No serious psychiatrist would diagnose someone online over one scenario, not implying that I believe that you are one either Post

Report Anonymous Fri 09 Mar 2018 08:31:21 No.19339782 Report >>19339797 Quoted By: >>19339619

Im Stephen Hawking, and you're an idiot. Im Stephen Hawking, and you're an idiot. Post

Report Anonymous Fri 09 Mar 2018 08:34:35 No.19339790 Report Quoted By: >>19339776

Wow, you seem to know OP on a deep and personal level. How did you two meet?



And I dont see where she "admitted" that she does this all the time, and it being intentional too. You're clearly projecting your own ideas here so that you can have something to complain about. Wow, you seem to know OP on a deep and personal level. How did you two meet?And I dont see where she "admitted" that she does this all the time, and it being intentional too. You're clearly projecting your own ideas here so that you can have something to complain about. Post

Report Anonymous Fri 09 Mar 2018 08:37:54 No.19339797 Report Quoted By: >>19339778

>>19339782



You're right. This isn't a clinical or admitting setting and there are observations which simply much in person.



That being said, her OP contained huge red flags to someone with my work experience and her subsequent posts contained red flags too. She listed several excuses for a continuous pattern of self harm. She also backtracked on her original claims regarding her husband's lack of concern to now claims he bandaged and comforted her.



Her story doesn't add up and the pity party most in this thread are eager to throw her isn't the kind of help she needs. You're right. This isn't a clinical or admitting setting and there are observations which simply much in person.That being said, her OP contained huge red flags to someone with my work experience and her subsequent posts contained red flags too. She listed several excuses for a continuous pattern of self harm. She also backtracked on her original claims regarding her husband's lack of concern to now claims he bandaged and comforted her.Her story doesn't add up and the pity party most in this thread are eager to throw her isn't the kind of help she needs. Post

Report Anonymous Fri 09 Mar 2018 08:48:21 No.19339822 Report Quoted By: >>19339186

Yeah, leave him. He's obviously damaged your self esteem and you're being treated in a way I wouldn't treat my enemies. The fact that you're even questioning whether what he did is okay speaks volumes about the dynamic of your relationship. You can spend the rest of your life being treated like that, or get some self-respect and find something good for yourself instead. It's your choice.



>>19339635

If this is a one-off thing, maybe forgive him. If not, you're in an abusive relationship and should get out asap. Reacting that way to your wife seriously injuring herself is not normal in a healthy relationship, regardless of what kind of day you've had. I can't imagine acting that way to anyone, let alone someone I love



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Y O U A R E A R E T A R D Yeah, leave him. He's obviously damaged your self esteem and you're being treated in a way I wouldn't treat my enemies. The fact that you're even questioning whether what he did is okay speaks volumes about the dynamic of your relationship. You can spend the rest of your life being treated like that, or get some self-respect and find something good for yourself instead. It's your choice.If this is a one-off thing, maybe forgive him. If not, you're in an abusive relationship and should get out asap. Reacting that way to your wife seriously injuring herself is not normal in a healthy relationship, regardless of what kind of day you've had. I can't imagine acting that way to anyone, let alone someone I loveY O U A R E A R E T A R D Post

Report Anonymous Fri 09 Mar 2018 09:16:26 No.19339881 Report Quoted By: >>19339619

>I'm an admitting nurse in the emergency admissions ward at Butler Hospital in Providence RI.

haha, nurses always think they know more than they do. protip: if you had the knowledge, you'd have the credentials. haha, nurses always think they know more than they do. protip: if you had the knowledge, you'd have the credentials. Post

Report Anonymous Fri 09 Mar 2018 09:50:30 No.19339922 Report Quoted By: any of you medfags still kicking about? Post

Report Anonymous Fri 09 Mar 2018 11:08:37 No.19340021 Report Quoted By: >>19339186

divorce this guy asap



I can not believe how awful some of the people in this thread are divorce this guy asapI can not believe how awful some of the people in this thread are Post

Report Anonymous Fri 09 Mar 2018 11:12:46 No.19340029 Report Quoted By: >>19339209

This, but room temperature water. Ice cold water will damage the tissue further. Your husband is worthless. This, but room temperature water. Ice cold water will damage the tissue further. Your husband is worthless. View SameGoogleiqdbSauceNAOTrace mustard.jpg , 27KiB, 450 x 450 Post

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Download Anonymous Fri 09 Mar 2018 11:20:25 No.19340039 Report >>19340448 Quoted By: >>19339186

Yeah you need to read him your original post if you want things to last.

I may have acted like your husband before starting my ssri.

Though I handed my wife a boiling cup of water that exploded onto her arm. (She asked me to hand it to her.) And I reacted before she did.

Also Cheap mustard can help alleviate your pain. cold out of the fridge. Yeah you need to read him your original post if you want things to last.I may have acted like your husband before starting my ssri.Though I handed my wife a boiling cup of water that exploded onto her arm. (She asked me to hand it to her.) And I reacted before she did.Also Cheap mustard can help alleviate your pain. cold out of the fridge. Post

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Btw, Anon, there are people on the other side of the internet. You could try not being a colossal pile of shit to people already having kind of a rough day. Okay well, thanks all. I took >>19340039 ‘s advice and pretty much read him the thread. He explained he’s been depressed from a bad cold and had a terrible day but he also was pretty horrified when I pointed out which Anon he sounded like so I guess even the things that make you feel horrible have a purpose.Btw, Anon, there are people on the other side of the internet. You could try not being a colossal pile of shit to people already having kind of a rough day. View SameGoogleiqdbSauceNAOTrace 1519749478929.png , 500KiB, 481 x 720 Post

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Download Anonymous Fri 09 Mar 2018 16:02:11 No.19340620 Report Quoted By: >>19339403

I am a husband of 10 years myself and I have reacted like a stupid ass for things my wife did to herself in the past. I was quick to appologize for getting upset and didn't blame her for it at all. I was upset because she was injured and I got scared. I reacted poorly and should have been more in control but I thought she broke her leg and that adrenaline got my nerves up. He needs to appologize and treat you right and I suggest telling him exactly what you wrote here. Hopefully you're getting that burn treated and that you heal up. Boiling water to the stomach? Yeah that fucking hurts. I am a husband of 10 years myself and I have reacted like a stupid ass for things my wife did to herself in the past. I was quick to appologize for getting upset and didn't blame her for it at all. I was upset because she was injured and I got scared. I reacted poorly and should have been more in control but I thought she broke her leg and that adrenaline got my nerves up. He needs to appologize and treat you right and I suggest telling him exactly what you wrote here. Hopefully you're getting that burn treated and that you heal up. Boiling water to the stomach? Yeah that fucking hurts. Post

Report Anonymous Fri 09 Mar 2018 16:05:51 No.19340627 Report >>19340685 Quoted By: >>19339506

I am shocked at how incredibly stupid everything you said is. You sure you're projecting here sounds like you need some psychiatric help if you think this. I am shocked at how incredibly stupid everything you said is. You sure you're projecting here sounds like you need some psychiatric help if you think this. Post

Report Anonymous Fri 09 Mar 2018 16:33:08 No.19340677 Report Quoted By: >>19339506

Psychiatrist are idiots who give out pills like candy because they went to med school instead of getting a phd, PSYCHOLOGISTS are the ones who actually work with what's in your head. You're clearly a moron who doesn't know why they're talking about Psychiatrist are idiots who give out pills like candy because they went to med school instead of getting a phd, PSYCHOLOGISTS are the ones who actually work with what's in your head. You're clearly a moron who doesn't know why they're talking about Post

Report Anonymous Fri 09 Mar 2018 16:38:05 No.19340685 Report >>19341664 Quoted By: >>19340627

Anon has some valid points. Not every woman is like that but, there are some just want attention and not getting what they want. The spouse is tired of playing the game. They need to seperate. Anon has some valid points. Not every woman is like that but, there are some just want attention and not getting what they want. The spouse is tired of playing the game. They need to seperate. Post

Report Anonymous Fri 09 Mar 2018 22:45:59 No.19341664 Report Quoted By: >>19340685

Sorry but that’s really not the case in this situation. Sorry but that’s really not the case in this situation. Post

Report literally Hitler !!dwVVLdyqwrT Fri 09 Mar 2018 22:51:50 No.19341677 Report >>19342152 Quoted By: >>19339186

> Is this just an example of how men and women react differently to suffering? Or have I just invested 10 years into someone who doesn’t really care two shits if I exist?

Sounds like the latter. I can guarantee you did something really stupid to get into the relationship, as a personality like his isn't easy to miss.



Your husband is an asshole for doing that, but you probably have both a warped perception of him thanks to premature pair bonding + sunk cost fallacy and an overly submissive personality. Thus, the most likely outcome is you rationalizing whatever he did. Sounds like the latter. I can guarantee you did something really stupid to get into the relationship, as a personality like his isn't easy to miss.Your husband is an asshole for doing that, but you probably have both a warped perception of him thanks to premature pair bonding + sunk cost fallacy and an overly submissive personality. Thus, the most likely outcome is you rationalizing whatever he did. Post

Report Anonymous Sat 10 Mar 2018 02:02:17 No.19342152 Report >>19342179 Quoted By: >>19341677

You for sure hit the nail on the head. I’ve never heard of premature pair bonding before but it seems apt. You for sure hit the nail on the head. I’ve never heard of premature pair bonding before but it seems apt. Post

Report literally Hitler !!dwVVLdyqwrT Sat 10 Mar 2018 02:14:59 No.19342179 Report Quoted By: >>19342152

It's more of an ad-hoc description.

We don't have full human studies on it because ethics, but all indications point to hormonal regulation of attachment, created through sex. And testosterone is a known suppressor of one of the main hormones involved, oxytocin, which explains the gender difference in bonding (women have lessened bonding capability as they have more partners, with men it is almost constant--only turbo-manwhores show lessened relationship success, and that's almost certainly because of their choice of lifestyle). It's more of an ad-hoc description.We don't have full human studies on it because ethics, but all indications point to hormonal regulation of attachment, created through sex. And testosterone is a known suppressor of one of the main hormones involved, oxytocin, which explains the gender difference in bonding (women have lessened bonding capability as they have more partners, with men it is almost constant--only turbo-manwhores show lessened relationship success, and that's almost certainly because of their choice of lifestyle).