vriskas88:

Unfortunately, it didn’t make much since. I am not saying people “whacking” off to cosplayers. I am talking about legitimate issues, where two people are in a commited relationship and one person, knowing the other is in a relationship still tries to intrude and make sexual advances upon that person. That is not okay. While I won’t call anyone the S word, most of the times when it is used are in situations like that. If the other person cheats on their significant other with the outsider who has made sexual advances, it is BOTH of their fault. That is where I am getting at with that.

Rape culture is a whole separate thing for me. I am strongly against those who imply that girls who are promiscuous, drink, dress a certain way, etc are asking for it and I especially do not condone that what so ever. Those type of stories DO make me angry, as well as people who joke about such a serious subject.

As far as sleeping around and tumblr sees them equal, that is a good thing, that is how we are supposed to make progress. My standpoint is this, it is okay to not be attracted to someone who is promiscuous. It is okay to prefer to date someone who is not entirely sexual over someone who is very sexual. It is not okay to to shame someone for it. There is a fine difference between shaming someone for their lifestyle choices and being okay with a lifestyle choice but it not being your cup of tea.

I hope this clarifies my opinion on the subject at matter. I will not say anything more other than I do think men and women outside of tumblr should be treated equally on subject matter, and that victim blaming needs to stop all together.