Piper Published on February 13th, 2020

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This is a special video part of a whole Dating series. Many of you told me you wanted to know how to pick up women in bars. But that question often came accompanied with worries of the conversation to turning awkward, of looking stupid, or of being rejected. Here is my honest opinion on how I would prefer for a man to try and approach me in a bar and what to say. Warning: This might not apply to all women. 1. Find tree girls that are of your taste and rank them! Try to find women that are far away from each other. Now start with the third one or the lesser attractive. 2. Now don't worry about rejection with the two first ones you try. They are your test subjects. You want to build your confidence to be able to talk to your number one choice. But also if the number 2 and 3 say yes, there were still in your top 3, so it's alright to leave with them. 3. Go directly to your third choice, don't even think about it. Walk up to her. Don't use a wingman. 4. If your not a funny guy, like a real comedian, don't use any sketchy lines. Just ask if you can buy her a drink. Do not use all of the most common pick up lines; it will make you seem unoriginal. If she says yes, start a normal conversation. Don't ask questions yet. Just tell her about your day! Don't ask if she comes here often. That just sounds creepy. If she is not interested, tell her to thank you for being polite and to have a good "soirée." Now proceed to your number 2! If you don't get your top choices change bars, maybe you are not at the right place. 5. What to do next! If all is going well, she seems interested and you too. Just remember that people in bars, I mean real bars are most likely looking for a good time. If she is giving you clear signs, like a hand on the leg. You can proceed to ask if she wants to leave. If you think she is the one and you want something more, I suggest you quit will you are in advance. That means, do not get with her the same night. Tell her you to need to leave, but you would love to invite her on a proper date. Exchange phone numbers, text each other right away to make sure you have the right number. Call her the next day to schedule a real date.