Halloween is approaching and every year I tend to see a few posts along the lines of “If I see a guy in a ______ costume, I’m gonna act like I don’t know what it is / tease him / make fun of him”

And I know that dudes dressed up as pickle rick or the joker or whatever have made a reputation for themselves

But remember this little uncomfortable nugget: Reading posts about a group of people online, getting angry about that group of people, and deciding that you’re going to do something mean to someone in this group in the real world

is incel behaviour