Don’t slack in spoiling yourself! A ruined orgasm is somehow different from the other methods because it allows the orgasm to take place, but make sure it ruined the released orgasm so as not to derive any enjoyment from it. Submissiveness is required to be pushed beyond the limit at which orgasm is unavoidable to attain success. It is at this moment that stimulation will stop, the pain will be experienced, and further release will be blocked. It does not feel pleasurable like the other conventional orgasm. Source: Kinkly

In some cases, less or no contractions can be experienced, and the feelings do become powerless and dwindle quickly. Also, take note that there is a chance of continuous stimulation after the ruined orgasm which allows a sequel to the subsequently ruined orgasm.





Consequently, there is a possibility of more than one ruined orgasm during a single session. Hence, do not wreck your chances, and read further to learn the different ways of achieving your aim:





1. Apply the brakes:halt every stimulation at a point where orgasm becomes inevitable. This way is the most convenient method to ruin the orgasm.You will be able to understand your body system, and know the right time if you love to enjoy your play by yourself. You have the control to halt them or push them aside with one further touch of stimulation. It is an excellent approach for the first-timers; nevertheless, some impish subs can make the stimulus proceed for long. Take note that immediately you began orgasm control; it is always hard to stop.





2. Enjoy a real pain:this method must be well-thought-of before you start. However, it is a brilliant means of delivering a ruined orgasm. You can begin by slapping or flicking the clitoris, testicles or glans at the correct spot. This method, apart from being painful, it can give you a pleasant shock. You have to hit hard to create real pain, or else, you are just catching fun, which can lead to the opposite result of what you want. Hence, it is unadvised for those who can’t bear a real pain.





3. Switch when possible:few people do choose to force the little swimmers back to where they are coming from. This act is possible in three ways; through squeezing the penis beneath its base, under the glans or placing your finger on the urethra at the point of orgasm inevitability. It is vital to hold on pending the time the muscle spasms will stop, and orgasmic feelings will end. By the time you remove your hand, some handful amount of semen will troop out, while the remaining ones would have moved back to the bladder. You will release all the rest with urine next time you visit the toilet – you will notice a cloudy appearance. This method is mostly known as blocked orgasm.





