he/him and they/them lesbians are so valid and important but i hate how pronouns has become an issue specifically focused on lesbians instead of, y’know, specifically trans people (even if many he/him or they/them lesbians are no) — a lot of the people i see rbing posts about how valid he/him lesbians are still the kind of people who call trans women by “they/them” when they disagree with us. it is so frustrating that this has been abstracted as a TME lesbian issue when so many trans women are still shafted and treated like shit in regards to this issue within the same community.