"This dad told me: 'My wife had gone through 20-plus hours of excruciating induced labor, most without anesthesia because the only anesthesiologist on call was tied up in a long surgery. There was a complication placing the epidural that caused her to start leaking spinal fluid ... pain on top of pain! Here, before her C-section, I was thinking about the three pregnancy losses we had prior and all the hurt and pain we felt. I thought about all the things that my wife had to endure physically, emotionally and mentally up to that moment. It felt like a streak of bad luck. So I was angry, and I was sad because I wanted my wife -- my best friend -- to win. I wanted us to win!'"