We all have been seeing strong women, listening to them. Who are these strong women? They are the ones who have brought & are bringing change to the world by showcasing their skills to the world. Have you ever wonder how much struggle they faced to reach where they are? They choose to be what they are, not fitting in the pilgrims which were made by society for them. That makes them stand out as tough women.

Being a strong women takes all the courage. Strong women are not made that easy, they are

Emotionally Intelligent

Physically Fit

Mentally Strong

Prioritize yourself. Define each & everything that makes you happy & go for it.

Women like Michelle Obama, Lisa Nichols, Rihanna, P!nk & others. Do you think they haven’t seen a rough time, they did but they choose to stand strong.

Let see things into perspective:

Emotional Intelligence 🙅‍

Women are known to be emotional fools. Because we cry, no. Allow me to explain, most of the times, women tend to make their decision keeping the emotional perspective on. Emotion wins 100% of the time and will likely push you in the wrong direction.

“It is in the moments of decision that your destiny is shaped,” ~ Tony Robbins

You are strong women, you can’t be emotionally weak & your relationships make you that. Your every decision must be based on what you want, not what others want from you.

“ Focus on yourself. Please. Don’t let your world revolve around someone else, because people are temporary. Do your own things; have your own likes. Don’t do things for them. Do things for yourself. Don’t stick around waiting for them, don’t give up your all for them because I guarantee you they will leave. Please. Live for yourself”

Physically Tough 🏃‍

I have seen women saying that they are comfortable in their skin whether they are skinny or fat. Your body shape & size doesn’t define you, how healthy you are that does. One must love their body but I want to ask “ How are you comfortable, even after knowing that you are unhealthy”.There is so much inside in your body, if it’s not good then it will show up outside. I am not talking about losing or gaining weight. Gene is all a different thing, don’t focus on that too. You gotta work-out & deserve your food. If you wanna start, check out this.

I can bet you, a healthy person can achieve whatever he/she wants. Love your body inside & outside. It’s your own. Anyone who can’t take care of themselves, can’t look after anyone else.

Mentally Impregnable 🧠

I can’t emphasize how much your mental health matters. The mind is the master of your body. It controls all of the activities you are going to do. Work on improving yourself. If you are not mentally happy, you can’t even perform the simplest tasks. Our environment, relations, the way we think affect our mental health.

“When your surroundings are shit, your inside gotta be positive” ~ Garyvee

Put your earphones on & listen to positive stuff. Surround yourself with optimistic people. Carry out tasks that makes you happy. Do your work or your hobbies, anything. Do that.

Don’t be like the rest of them, Darling 👩

If you are physically & mentally unhealthy, you will give birth to an unhealthy child & he/she will grow up in a deleterious environment. You won’t be able to spend good time with your loved ones. If you are emotionally weak, people will see you failing & crying, they may help you sometime but will not be available always, they got their work to do.