The Fastest Way To Find Love

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Are you a fast learner or are you a slow learner?

This question is of the upmost importance. I want to show you the fastest way to find love.

Now, you might be thinking, “Kam, what has this got anything to do with finding love?” Well, it has EVERYTHING to do with finding love and building a great relationship, family, and life.

I can tell you right now, self education and learning fast is how I got into a relationship with the girl I wanted to be with.

Self education is by far the fastest way to find love. There are very few people who understand this principle. So if you do, you my friend are on the path to success.

There’s no question about it: Self education and massive action are the key to success.

Not to sound harsh, but trust me, people are dumb. Actually they’re worse than dumb, they want you to be dumb too. I see it all the time. Remember, don’t be like everyone else.

Trust me, it’s being done. People are reading a lot, learning a lot, getting ideas, letting those ideas bounce off each other to create and give birth to new ideas.

The rewards for self education are massive. More than you can ever imagine.

Here’s a few practical ways I accelerated my learning curve to find love faster:

1 How do you learn best?

How do you learn best? — Kamey from SBS (@SBSKamey) September 20, 2016

Everybody learns differently and that’s why knowing yourself is so important.

People learn in 2 ways: the hard way or the easy way. That means learning from reward or pain. Unfortunately most people, including myself, only really learn from pain. Which means most of us doom our life to always making big mistakes.

Here’s what I’ve found: Learning by doing is good, but remember what Warren Buffet says, “It’s good to learn from your mistakes, but it’s better to learn from other people’s mistakes.” That’s why I read, have mentors and go to workshops, seminars and conferences. I learn by doing, but more so, I learn from other people’s mistakes. It saves you years of making the same mistakes yourself.

2 How much time do you spend on personal development?

How much time do you spend on personal development? ??? — Sabeen from SBS (@SBSDating) September 20, 2016

I make time everyday. Even if it’s 15 minutes.

As Warren Buffet says, “Go to bed smarter than when you woke up.” Everyone is busy. Look, I get it. But you must make time. There’s a reason why flight attendants ask you to put your own oxygen mask on first in an emergency. You can’t help anyone if you’re dead. Now apply the same concept to love and life. A relationship is about supporting each other. I want you to develop yourself first, because only then can you develop the relationship.

3 Do you have mentors you can learn from?

Do you have mentors you can learn from? — Sabeen from SBS (@SBSDating) September 19, 2016

Learning from everyone is great, but there’s nothing better than an in-person mentor.

Here’s a great way to think about it: use the Robin Hood mentality. Robin Hood stole gold from the rich and gave it to the poor. I want you to do the same. Steal the knowledge (gold) from the rich (people with wisdom – these people become your mentors) and give it to the poor (you). Learning from everyone is great, but having an in-person mentor is by the fastest, most effective way to reach your goals.

4 How often do you read?

How often do you read? ? — Kamey from SBS (@SBSKamey) September 19, 2016

I vow to read everyday. Does that mean I spend 60 minutes reading? No. Sometimes I’ll read the book summary. Sometimes I’ll read the whole book, back to front. There’s other books where I read one chapter and I’m like this is enough. My recommendation to you is, try different approaches, shake it up a little bit. Don’t be afraid to experiment, because when you try five experiments, one will be the winner, then you can build upon that one. You should always be mixing and matching. Remember, humans always do a lot better with recipes that have variety. Variety is definitely the spice of life.

However you learn, however much time you spend on self development, whether you have in-person mentors or not, whether you read or not, I want you to learn faster. Accelerate your learning curve. Massively!

Self education is BY FAR the fastest way to find love.

I’ll catch you on the next one

Stay strong,

Kamey