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ashypinky: feminismordeath: illusionarysilvercrystal: clitulhufhtagn: delicately-interconnected: Wow this is the most disturbing bit of rape culture I’ve seen all day This is so fucking repulsive this is seriously a fucking tip sheet for abusers holy fuck no MAKE SURE THEY CRY AND THEN GIVE THEM ALCOHOL AFTERWARD SO THEY THINK YOU STILL LOVE THEM this is fucking disgusting what the FUCK I think I’m gonna be sick “Make sure it ends in tears.” That’s not love. kill me “aftercare” is literally grooming your abused, emotionally traumatised partner into a state of comfort so that you can abuse them again i hate this world

“Rape culture” “abuse” “trauma" ???????? ?? ? ?? ? ???? ? ?

Are yoU FUCKING KIDDING ME?!!? This is a guideline for couples who ENJOY spanking in their relationship, for a wide variety of reasons, like the fact that it’s a KINK!!!!!! IT’S CONSIDERED A PART OF BDSM CULTURE!!!! Notice the very first image says "CONSENTING ADULTS ONLY!!!” THIS IS NOT ABUSE, THIS IS FETISH!!! IT EVEN SAYS TO “SPANK RESPONSIBLY”, THIS IS ALL ENJOYABLE TO BOTH PARTIES!!!!



THE “AFTERCARE” THAT YOU ARE BITCHING ABOUT IS A **N.E.C.E.S.S.A.R.Y.** PART OF ANY SCENES OR PLAYS THAT A COUPLE PARTICIPATES IN!!! IT’S LITERALLY WHERE YOU TAKE CARE OF AND LOVE ON YOUR PARTNER THAT WAS PUT THROUGH ANY STRESSING ACTS DURING THE SCENE!!!! IT’S A VERY IMPORTANT THING THAT EVERY HEALTHY BDSM RELATED SCENARIO SHOULD END IN!!!!!!!!

OH MY GOD, CAN SOMEONE THAT HAS A MORE EXTENSIVE KNOWLEDGE OF ALL THIS EXPLAIN IT IN MORE DETAIL FOR ME PLEASE?? I AM TOO ANGRY TO FIGURE OUT HOW TO DO IT!!!!!!