He wrapped his long, strong arms around my waist and kissed the back of my neck, my shoulder blades, and then interlocked his fingers within mine. With his warm body nestled behind me, and Bill Maher interviewing Seth Rogen on the TV, I was in ecstasy. I’d been crushing on a guy I'll call Adam for a while, and finally, after a few casual hookups, he seemed to actually want to connect with me.

Then he said something I wasn’t expecting.

“I’d love to see you fuc...