thoughtsofablackatheistgirl:

Wow as a black woman I have realized that because of our constant marginalization in society, we sometimes come to believe than only black men understand and can love us and care for us. And that’s ok…maybe but it gets really psycho when black men realize this and start to treat us as such, being disrespectful, unloving, abusive, etc as in no one else wants you anyway so just accept my mistreatment of you because you are at the bottom of the companionship totem pole anyway. Like a beggars can’t choose type of thing.