Let’s get one thing straight, or as straight as my crooked little life will allow. I have a lot of dildos. I like them. They’re pretty. They’re diverse in texture, size and shape. They feel good in my hand (as well as in more important and interesting places). And by the way, they are not a substitute for cock. They’re definitely not a substitute for YOUR cock.

I’m hearing an ever increasing whining among people who possess a biological cock, to the tune of, “ohhh, look at all those dildos, now I feel inadequate and you hurt my dick’s feelings.” What? Because I have inanimate, nonbreathing pieces of silicone, glass, wood, or steel to shove in my cunt and give me a few orgasms YOU feel inadequate? No. Just … no.

I’m all for assuring a partner that I adore his cock. I’ll even say it twice. But people, I’m not going to coddle your cock and your ego simultaneously. My hands and mouth are only so big. They can only do so much.

My dildos are for me, (and you, sometimes too, but mostly for me). They’re a part of my self-expression and sexuality. They reflect my many moods and varied tastes. They came from different places, some from past partners, and they tell a little sexy story.

Your cock is yours. And chances are if I like you, I’m going to like it because it’s part of you. And you better believe that if I’m on my knees asking you to slide it into my mouth, letting you find that sweet spot at the opening of my throat, urging you to fuck my face until I am covered in drool and my hair is a hot, happy mess, then you can probably assume your cock is more than adequate.

True, it’s not made of a cool material, it didn’t cost a stupid amount of money, and I can’t keep it by my bed for anytime the urge strikes. But then, with a dildo, I get none of that feeling of hot steel skin, of pleasure mirroring my own, of the knowledge of giving someone joy that gets me higher than anything.

So, to me, cocks and dildos are no comparison. I love them both.

Differently and equally.

This post was written by RebelHummingbird a Fetlife user who gave permission to post here