Oakland is on its “last chance” huh? That’s some tough talk from Raiders owner Mark Davis.

The frustration over the lack of action makes sense. For the Raiders to put the East Bay atop their wish list, while the Warriors and A’s eye greener pastures, is refreshing to hear.

But, please, chill with the threats. They are not only unproductive but also borderline insulting.

“I don’t want to call it a last-ditch effort, but it does seem to be the last chance that Oakland is going to get,” Davis told the San Francisco Chronicle. “We can’t continue to play in that stadium, with the baseball field and all of that stuff.”

Everybody knows you ain’t going anywhere. The Raiders and East Bay go together. They both have issues, which is why they click.

Like most, Davis can’t stomach that monstrosity of a stadium. But it’s part of his family legacy. The Coliseum should be a reminder of how committed this area is to this franchise. That Ocean’s 11-esque hustle that Al Davis pulled on Alameda County is worth more patience, if not respect for the rabid fan base, if not action to ensure the team stays.

And if it doesn’t, then such threats should at least be muffled by the shame of consecutive dismal seasons. You’ve got to make the playoffs or something before you get a license to start poppin’ your collar.

This is a marriage with war wounds to prove it, with so much invested that moving on will be extremely difficult for either side. And the maniacal fans in these parts know one thing for sure: No one’s going to love you better.

Yeah, you left before. But look where you ended up. How does the saying go? “If you love something, let it go, and if it comes back to you …” Yeah, this is where you belong.

“Where else will fans take out a second mortgage to buy a PSL?” said Jim Zelinski, co-founder of SaveOaklandSports.org, which just received nonprofit status and is willing to help fundraise to help pay for stadium costs. “Because that’s what happened here when they returned in 1995. Nobody supports the Raiders like Oakland and the East Bay. And nobody will.”

Plus Oakland is on the rise. If this thing is pulled off, whether on the current site or at the waterfront, the Raiders will have the best of all worlds: a die-hard fan base, a big market and a growing metropolis.

Sure, the city is a bit clunky on major projects such as arenas and stadiums. But the payoff is worth the wait.

So instead of intimating about a divorce, how about reassuring fans how the Raiders are going to spend that $65 million-plus in salary cap space? How about vowing to do whatever is possible, and then some, to make sure it gets done? Especially since you don’t have the deep pockets to go build your own, or another city pining to steal you away.

And in the meantime, get a quarterback your fan base can ride with.

No doubt, the city politics need a kick in the tush. More than that, they clearly need expertise and guidance in managing such projects. The track record is less than spectacular. Feel free to step in and just make stuff happen instead of accepting being put off, off, off, off.

What is not needed is more 91 Supreme poured onto the combustible stadium situation. What is not needed is to point out Oakland’s flaws while you’re still in between championships.

That’s not how you treat someone who loves you.

Contact Marcus Thompson II at mthomps2@bayareanewsgroup.com. Follow him on Twitter at twitter.com/ThompsonScribe.