TammySwansonTwo Wed 22-Nov-17 09:21:58

I really can't think of a feasible explanation for this. Aside from which, if the top corner is ripped it's because it's been torn off a strip - where's the rest?



You haven't been together long, so it's possible it predates you (did you use condoms initially? any reason you're not using them now?) and by some convoluted method it wound up in his pocket (any chance he hasn't worn these jeans since before you and forgot it was there? Most men I know have a couple of pairs they wear non stop so I doubt this but it's possible?)



Ask him in person, don't give him a chance to come up with a story. Watch his reaction closely and trust your instincts.