A lot of people think I am selfish because I am polyamorous. I find it pretty damn selfish that a person expects one individual to fulfill every single want and need they have. A lot of people think I am lazy because I am polyamorous. It takes an infinite amount of love, patience and care to create, harbor and value various relationships and understand each unique dynamic you have with a person. A lot of people think I have a self esteem problem because I am polyamorous. It takes a huge amount of communication and confidence to to entrust partners to value your emotions and mental well being while also being intimate with others. Polyamory is not “taking the easy way out”. It is understanding the complex multiple layers of love and having the bravery to explore the infinite possibilities it can provide.