Now this is where the story starts:

I was sitting in the airport having a glass of red wine waiting for my plane. The waiter (male) kept staring at me. I was ignoring it, drinking my wine, typing away at my computer and waiting for my boarding call. By this point I was use to men staring and I was in relaxed mode so I didn’t care I ignored it.

Now I have never really experienced sexual harassment or anything similar. My boarding announcement was called I called the guy over to pay my bill, this is how it went down:

“I want to kiss you”

“Um.. no thanks, I have a boyfriend”

“That’s okay” he said

“I think I’ll just pay the bill now”

Then he put his hand on my bum softly and said “We can go around the corner your boyfriend doesn’t have to know”

When I realised what was happening I was too shocked to say anything

“No I’m not going to do that” I said still in a bit of shock

I just didn’t expect this and whilst it isn’t as big of a deal as some instances of sexual harressment I couldn’t seem to get my thoughts together. He kept his hand there, staring, moving it slowly to let me know thats where his hand was and he had a right to do it… he would stare and try and convince me to kiss him and I sat in silence.

I quickly regained my thoughts and got up and left.

This is my problem with what happened…