“We need an Indian, perhaps subcontinental, truth and reconciliation process. Muslims would acknowledge and disassociate themselves from the bloody and horrific history of the conquest of India. Hindus, in turn, would let go of their hurt and pain that can turn into retaliatory rage.”

The bloody and horrific history of the jihad against India is recounted in immense detail from Muslim sources in The History of Jihad.

“So, is Hinduism a part of heritage and identity of contemporary Indian Muslims? Why is the question never framed in this manner? Why is the onus only on Hindus to accept Muslims and not the other way round?”

The same question could be asked all over the Western world. Why is the only always solely on non-Muslims to accept Islamic tenets and practices, and never on Muslims to adapt to the mores and values of the non-Muslim societies in which they live?

“Why is the onus only on Hindus to accept Muslims and not the other way round?,” by Makarand R Paranjape, Firstpost, February 4, 2019 (thanks to Vikram):

Defining the issue we are debating may itself be part of the problem, the symptom of the malaise. Let us consider the first question posed: is Islam part of Indian heritage? A commonsensical response would be what kind of a dumb question is that. Muslims have been hereabouts from the very inception of the religion. What is more, much of India was under Muslim rule for more than 600 years.

Today, India is home to one of the world’s largest Muslim populations. If you add Bangladesh and Pakistan, there are more Muslims in the subcontinent than anywhere in the world. This situation makes the answer to the question obvious. Yes, Islam is very much a part of Indian history and heritage.

The second question — should Islam be a part of the modern Indian identity — is more complicated. One could respond with a counter-question: can anyone fix or define what “the modern Indian identity” is, let alone impose it on others? We could ask a similar question about Islam. What do we mean by an Islamic identity? Who’s Islam? The Jihadi kind, the liberal kind, or something-in-between?

Moreover, the word “should” indicates what is desirable, even obligatory. Should, in that sense, any religion be a necessary or required part of the Indian identity? If such questions are open-ended, so would the answers be.

Now to the third question: what is the legitimacy of the claim that Muslims should be a part of the Indian milieu? This query, one would imagine, is subsumed in the previous two. There is only one added angle, that of legitimacy. But who will determine legitimacy?

If we go by the Constitution, then all religions must be treated equally, despite faith-specific personal laws. Our experience, however, is that all religions are not equal. Some are more equal than others. Majorities do matter, especially when they are effectively mobilised, sending their representatives to power. On the other hand, the so-called minorities also have all kinds of protections, if not privileges and advantages.

Of course, Muslims should be—are—a part of the Indian milieu. Who can doubt it, especially these days when every other Muslim asserts identity with a skullcap, a burqa or a headscarf?

That is why the questions obscure rather than uncover what the real problem is: Hindu-Muslim relations in India and the subcontinent. This is the elephant in the room. Why don’t we want to talk about it? Why is the “secular” and “Left-Liberal” intelligentsia and media obscuring it?

Why must we not speak of the Islamic conquest of the subcontinent, often violent and savagely destructive? Why must we downplay, if not deny, this history?

It is this “denialism” that has resulted in a backlash, bordering on rage or worse, counter-narratives of “victimology” or “demonology.”

Hindus, to put it bluntly, feel victimised in a Hindu-majority country. Some even want to turn India into a “Hindu Rashtra.” In turn, some demonise Muslims, most of whom are descendants of victims of the conquerors and forced converts.

But history cannot be undone or set right by revenge narratives. Then what is the way out? How can Hindus and Muslims live in peace?…

We need an Indian, perhaps subcontinental, truth and reconciliation process. Muslims would acknowledge and disassociate themselves from the bloody and horrific history of the conquest of India. Hindus, in turn, would let go of their hurt and pain that can turn into retaliatory rage.

So, is Hinduism a part of heritage and identity of contemporary Indian Muslims? Why is the question never framed in this manner? Why is the onus only on Hindus to accept Muslims and not the other way round?