GetOffTheTableMabel Thu 09-May-19 08:15:39

I assumed OP used “boyyyyy” as an indication that she is aware that this is rather a schoolgirl-y question and that she is being lighthearted- while also interested in opinions.

For what it’s worth OP, I don’t think you should ask him out. I think you should enjoy the crush and keep going to the gym. This crush probably makes going to the gym more fun. Maybe it makes you work a little harder? If you ask him out and it transpires that he’s not interested, you might feel embarrassed about going. If he really likes you, he might ask you anyway and, in the meantime, I think you should just enjoy having the extra spring in your step. (If you never get embarrassed, then just ignore me and ask him of course.)

(Note to vipers: this is lighthearted advice from someone who struggles to motivate herself to get to the gym.)