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It's not actually because she can get sex very easily. Even in the extremely rare case she can't get sex, like if she has Down Syndrome, Neurofibromatosis, and six toes, she still won't be an incel because sex is the very last thing on any female's mind.



Sex is extremely important to a man, it is a crucial part of his life. But for women it is an afterthought, and if she says she "likes sex" she means in the same manner she likes putting on colorful nail polish, that's how relevant to life she sees it.



While to men the vagina is a heavenly beautiful thing. To women a penis is some useless ugly appendage, they couldn't care less if it was there or not. Think about how 90% of women start laughing and cheering when they hear about a man's penis being cut off, it's funny to them cause they don't see what the big deal is. While for men it would be worse than death, women see it as the equivalent of losing a fingernail, they will even double down with "All this fuss over his junk?" In fact I've seen some women become sudden psychologists, coming up these stupid theories about why cutting off a penis is such a big deal to men, like "It may be because of cultural conditioning."



A man sees his penis as the core of his gender identity. He also needs it cause he needs sex like he needs air. In fact it's instinctive: The thing most prepubescent boys fear is something bad happening to their penis, this despite the fact they have no idea what sex is. There's something most people don't notice: men always refer to it by "penis" and "cock" whereas women refer to it by "junk", "weiner", and "weewee". These are actually terms that women made up, they are used by women to deride the penis and lower its importance.



This is why a women can't be an incel. Women only want a man for romance and cuddling, sex is the reward they give him afterwards. Whether they enjoy it or not and whether they orgasm or not isn't a big deal to them; they just want the intimacy and romance.