How To Win Men Over Before Asking For $$$ (Bumble, Seeking, Tinder)

Ladies, you don’t just go for it and ask for money straight up. If you do that, they’ll insist that you’re a gold digger and just want their cash or something transactional. But at the same time you don’t want the conversation to carry out for too long to the point where they think you are overly interested in them.

What I tend to do is try to start up a conversation with them and play along with it. The more you somewhat play along, the more these men will admire you. I’ve learned that the hard way….. I’ve had men that I have matched with message me out of nowhere, telling me how beautiful I am and how they want to take me to lunch or dinner ASAP. I usually decline and tell them that I am too busy, whether it’s with my courses, exams, work, or just at home relaxing.

The best thing to do is decline their first offer. They want you to be theirs and if they’re really interested in you, they will try to pursue anything as long as it’s with you regardless of what it is. I’ve had quite a few duds and salts agree to take me out for lunch and not keep their word. They would unmatch on the day or not message me until the day after. Try to steer away from these types of men. If they don’t try to contact you the day/night before to confirm, then they are most likely not going to meet you up.

And try to avoid couples as well. Sure there may be a few who do spoil their sb with gifts, trips, fancy dinners, etc. but it’s very rare. I swiped right to a couple and the man seemed interested in what I wanted and had to offer but turned it down because of his wife. Wives will most likely get jealous.

Here are a few examples. I’m still yet to go out with these men:

I also think I’m going to start over and create a new tinder account because out of the 100 and something matches I got, a majority of them aren’t replying. It’s getting annoying. And I’m also thinking about coming up with a new approach. There’s a man I’ve met he’s not as attractive, but is willing to spoil me (as he should). He gave me a ride to my university after I met him up for a brief meet and I thanked him for the ride (because it was raining so damn hard) and gave him a kiss on the lips. He actually asked for the kiss, and it was super quick. I lowkey got him wrapped around my finger. Apparently, he bought me a lingerie gift card, I don’t know how much is on it yet. I haven’t seen him since, but if he only got me the giftcard and expects sex I’m not giving this bomb ass fuego coochie to him.

*I use 👑 for Tinder (“Tinderella”) and 🐝 for Bumble.

This is another tip….

Do NOT get comfortable with these men and do NOT let these men get comfortable with you. The more they see you get comfortable or the more comfortable they become, the lower their standards will be with you. They won’t get you that $800 trench coat you’ve been dying to get and hinting at because they don’t think they have to do much to impress you anymore. They think they already got you. Just play along and stroke their BIG fat ego.

I’m going to tell him that I’m not that easy to please and that he has to try harder to get me to strip down to my panties, all he’ll get is a simple “Aww thank you babe! I appreciate you taking time out of your busy day to buy me this (whatever it is) but….. (excuse).”

⬆️ Use that whenever you want more, but switch it up a bit ⬆️

WE FINESSING THESE MEN, WE MAKING BANK AND WE ARE HIGH MAINTENANCE FEMALES NOT TAKING ANY LESS THAN WE DESERVE ‼️💅🏾

Yours Truly,

Princess K 💋