LoveYourHome9 Tue 25-Jun-19 01:22:05

Oh wow OP, I cannot believe that any parents would do this!



Just so they can buy a second holiday home! Did they not think through this when they gifted the money. They are asking you to sell your home, pay estate agent fees and then rent somewhere to live?? Just so they can buy a holiday home! That is unbelievable!



Do you have children? Will this affect their schooling/friendships etc having to move?



Tbh despite being your parents they are treating you beyond badly. It’s financial abuse.



I would invite them over and calmly explain how this impacts on you and what they are asking you do. You need to spell out to them exactly what they are asking. Who is paying the estate agent fees? Where is the money for deposit coming from? You need to tell them you don’t want to leave your home that they have allowed to be possible etc.



If they still want to go through with it then you ultimately need to decide whether you want a relationship with these people. And get some legal advice.