

we have control of our minute our houror day or week or month and our year

stop running around being on thereceiving end of whatever people want todump on you you showed up you accept

that invite you invited these people toyour house you're in a relationship with

that man you're in a relationship withthat woman

that's you so how do you feel at the endof your night how easy and how

convenient is it for us to blameeverything and everybody for the things

that we have gone on in our lives thereis a such thing as you being a positive

and a great person with the best ofintentions towards everybody and shit is

rough and you just can't get a break butmost of you most of you are waking up

every day looking for pain dysfunctiondrama unemployment being broke

struggling dropping every excuse in thebook about your childhood and the

problems of dysfunction that you grew upin that's stopping you from becomingsuccessful

you don't like your friends so while youstill you don't trust your managers

agents and lawyers so why they stillthere do you really expect your life and

career to be any different from messingwith the same things people and

situations that's all I'm sayingare the things that you're doing the

people that you're hanging out with andthe places and the circles that you're

traveling in does that reflect a personthat actually loves themselves if you

love yourselfwhy would you put those type of people

you know what they're saying about youbehind your back you know they're

jealous and envious of who you are andthe things that you got going on in your

life in your career you know that theydon't like you and they made it clear

they sent you every sign imaginable thatthey could possibly send you and because

you're so desperatethen how people around you and in your

life you continue to go back youcontinue to show up to everything they

invite you to knowing what they'resaying about you I'm not preaching

separatism I want a bunch of people tojust be alone and home doing nothing

with no friends no family and nothing todo I'm saying that at this point you are

old enough and mature enough tounderstand the difference in good people

and bad people and when you're hangingout with negative dark and dysfunctional

people you cannot expect yourself to goto sleep at night and rest you cannot

expect yourself to feel good about yourday when you're including negative anddysfunctional people in your day

stop being a lazy person that's full of

excuses sitting around on the pity partycoming up with every excuse in the world

as to why you ain't women you are thereason you're not winning you keepmessin with negative evil and

dysfunctional people in expectingpositive results it's time you get off

the pity partystop complaining about being out ofshape when you never go to the gym stop

looking at your stomach when you get outof the shower and your body and

complaining about the way you look whenyou're eating everything in sight andnever go on to the gym you are the

reason you look the way you look you'rethe reason you're unemployed you're the

reason why your surroundings are sodysfunctional and negative you could

still be in the hood broke and living apeaceful life it's a choice we are being

raised in a generation of people thatcome up with every excuse in the book as

to why they are not winning you havethat as a choice you actually do youdon't wake up in the morning and

negativity dysfunction problems andissues just randomly pop up these are

the people that you have decided toinclude in your life so the outcome of

your day your hour your minutes yourweek your month and your year there's

always draining always dysfunctional andalways crazy because these are the type

of people you've decided to include inyour day to day life you got hours in

a day you go to sleep at night how areyou going to feel about your day all

depends on who you decide to include inyour day stop running around acting as

if you don't have a choice you do have achoice excuses sound best to the peoplethat's making them up you got every

excuse in the world that's why you'repainful that's why a nothing change and

nothing will change because you haveconvinced yourself that everything iswrong everything in mega is negative and

nothing will change and guess what itwon't change change your mind and it

will change your life change if nothingaround you changes change the things

that are around you tired of I'mfrustrated with the amount of people

that are not successful because theyhave fought their way to a depression

you have fought your way into negativityand misery you have fought your way into

holding on to a dude or a girl that youbroke up with a year or two ago I just

feel sad and miserable Aidan moved onwith a life it's all in the mind change

your mind and it will change your lifeyou just have to you just have to wake

up you just have to break that negativespirit you have to break through all of

that that you're carrying I don't wantto I don't feel sorry for you you feel

sorry for yourself that's the problemeven when positive people are trying to

give you all this good energy you havetricked your mind to turn every positive

thing that they say into somethingnegative every time they say anything totry and motivate you and inspire you you

you turn every negative thought andevery you turn every positive thought

every positive intention everything thatthey trying to - Boosh

spirits up you flip it shake itmanipulate it and you if you are so

determined to be negative and miserableit's unbelievable so what you grew up

with so what their childhood friends sowhat their family we have a

responsibility to walk in the directionof peace I want to laugh I want to smile

I'm going to enjoy myself actually wantto feel good about the people that are

around because you're inviting medoesn't mean I want to show up because

you're calling me doesn't mean I'm goingto call you back

because you want me to be there doesn'tmean that I want to be there because

we're family because we're friendsbecause we grew up together doesn't mean

that I want to be a part of any andeverything that you want me to be a part

of why because my experience with you asit necessarily made me feel good about

my life or my experience at the end ofevery night because you go to sleep at

night doesn't move your restingshe close your eyes at night and yoursleep physical doesn't mean that you're

actually resting and the reason that youdon't rest is because while you're awake

everything every body that in and aroundyour life so full of issues problems

insecurities dysfunction negativity yourmind is and your spirit is internalissues problems arguments yell exclude

response I want you to stop playing thevictim you are not the victim you

decided that those are your friends youdecided that those are the people that

you want to spend time with you decidedthis is what you wanted to do with your

day when you get invited to placesdoesn't mean you have to show up no one

wants to be alone why spend the rest ofyour life being miserable frustrated and

insecure not really filling as good asyou have a responsibility to feel

feeling good isn't just an opportunityfeeling good is a responsibility that weall have for ourselves and guess what I

actually don't care what you say aboutme I don't remember the last time I lost

sleep over a hater and the thing thatpeople are running around saying blogs

website conversation tweets and I don'tlose sleep over haters why because I

know exactly how I feel about me andeven if something appears to be very

different than what it really is I don'teven mind that you're talking shit about

the things that you're assuming that'sreally going on the question is are you

just going to look at this video anddecide wow that was some powerful and do

the same thing but it's a new day it's anew day



