"So if it's a friend I've known for a while, I'll try to give RM150 to help cover the costs cause weddings are not cheap (although we once ate Nando's at my friend's wedding). If I don't want to give angpow I just try to not attend the wedding at all – no need to think so much.

"It can be very straining if you have multiple weddings to attend in the same month." – Jia Le, 25