The author says chaos 'erupted inside the West Wing' following Biden's comments. Book: W.H. scrambled after Biden gay marriage comments

Vice President Joe Biden really did get ahead of President Barack Obama on accepting gay marriage in 2012 — and the White House really wasn’t happy about it, despite the two leaders’ many attempts to claim otherwise.

That’s the story laid out in Jo Becker’s new book, “Forcing the Spring,” which documents the past few years of successful efforts to expand the legalization of gay marriage, according to an advance copy obtained by POLITICO.


Speculation that Biden’s comments on “Meet the Press” in May 2012 were meant as a trial balloon, Becker writes, came from people “not privy to the chaos that erupted inside the West Wing after an emailed transcript of the interview landed in the inbox of the White House press team.” A furious Valerie Jarrett, Becker adds, accused Biden of “downright disloyalty.”

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Becker describes the months leading up to that rushed moment as a scramble to weigh the political dangers of backing gay marriage against the expected push to add marriage equality to the Democratic convention platform. And Becker says Obama senior adviser David Plouffe reached out to an unexpected ally: former Republican National Committee chairman Ken Mehlman, who came out as gay himself in 2010.

In a private lunch at the White House, Mehlman advised Obama that backing gay marriage could reassert his character strength from 2008, appealing to young people, Republicans and independents and beyond by seeming to take a bold stand without regard to the political consequences. On Nov. 10, 2011, Mehlman sent Plouffe a full write-up of how the president should announce his support — in a joint interview with the first lady, conducted by a female journalist and “all 3 should be sitting. Soft lighting” — as well as a full suggested script for the president to use.

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That script wasn’t far off from what Obama eventually said as he went public with his “evolution,” and though he did the interview solo, he did do it with as Mehlman advised, with a female interviewer (ABC’s Robin Roberts).

But he did it six months after Mehlman sent Plouffe the email, and only after Biden forced him. The first lady and Jarrett, Becker writes, were pressuring Obama to pull the trigger, but his own personal and political anxieties held him back.

Then came Biden. “I think you may have just gotten in front of the president on gay marriage,” his communications director, Shailagh Murray, told him on the car ride back from the studio.

Reflecting on the moment in an interview a year later, the vice president said, “I didn’t go out volunteering a position, but when asked a question … I had to respond to it.”

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That, followed by Education Secretary Arne Duncan saying when asked in a “Morning Joe” interview that he also backed gay marriage, made the White House realize it was going to get caught in an inquisition that wouldn’t stop until the president went public.

After spending months waiting, the White House moved very quickly. Robin Roberts was invited to Washington. David Axelrod put the first lady’s communications director, Kristina Schake, in charge of prepping the president. He did the interview, hedging enough to say he was “probably” going to come out for gay marriage before the election anyway.

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After all that, several top Obama advisers wanted him to come down hard on Biden. He refused.

“Forcing the Spring” is due for release next Tuesday.

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