A MUM duped into sex with a trans lover who used a fake penis told how her life was “torn apart”.

Lisa Evans, 30, bedded Carlos Delacruz, 35, unaware the fiend — born female — had no penis.

7 Carlos Delacruz - who was born a girl - used a fake penis during sex

Delacruz was jailed for the prosthetic attack on her and another partner.

Lisa, of Cowdenbeath in Scotland, said “I’ll never trust another man again” as she opened up on the romps in the dark that left her in excruciating pain.

She was convinced trans Delacruz was a fella as he “brainwashed” her by claiming he was self-conscious about his manhood after it was scalded as a kid.

But in reality he still had a woman’s body and used a “blood and flesh” prosthetic during sex which he demanded always occurred with the lights off.

As Lisa yesterday lifted the lid on their shocking ten-month relationship, she revealed Delacruz had an op to have his boobs removed — but tricked her into believing it was surgery for his burn scars.

And she only discovered he had no penis when cops strip searched him as his sick deceit was finally exposed.

7 Lisa has been left 'torn apart'

The mum-of-one said: “When we had sex for the first time he demanded we do it in the pitch dark — I just went with it.

“I was so brainwashed into believing it was because of what happened to him as a child.

“He told me about being embarrassed in front of kids as he got changed for PE at school.

“I felt so sorry for him. His stories pulled at my heart strings.”

The strange thing I can’t get my head around is that he pushed for it — he would act all manly and bravado about wanting to have sex Lisa Evans

Lisa thought she’d met her “dream guy” when the workmates started dating in July 2016.

He claimed his chest and genitals had been severely disfigured when his mum spilled boiling water on him.

Lisa told how sex with him left her in agony.

7 Delacruz lied to her repeatedly

She revealed: “It was really painful and felt like sandpaper, it was really rough.

“And he was holding it but I thought that was because of the way his injuries were, because of the scar tissue.”

Lisa said they tried to make it more comfortable.

She added: “But it wasn’t getting any easier. I would bleed really heavily afterwards and a nurse said I had severe friction burns.

“I begged him to go to the doctors but he wouldn’t."

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She continued: “It came to a point that if we were going to have sex, I would choose a night where I was off work the next day.

“The strange thing I can’t get my head around is that he pushed for it — he would act all manly and bravado about wanting to have sex.

“I had to just grin and bear it — I didn’t want to upset him as he was finally comfortable to be physical with me.

“Afterwards I just thought to myself, ‘well we won’t be doing that often’.”

Delacruz even had a double mastectomy during their relationship — but again hoodwinked his partner with a convincing story.

Lisa said: “I found out later he had been wearing restrictive vests underneath his shirts the whole time.

“He went to Birmingham for the operation and when I saw him five days later, I even saw the scars but a mastectomy obviously didn’t even enter my mind — why would it? I thought he was a man.

“I thought he was getting scar tissue removed but now I know the truth, it’s just awful.

“He was transitioning right under my nose.”

We previously told how Delacruz, of Banknock, Stirlingshire, caused “physical and psychological harm” to Lisa and another woman — who can’t be named for legal reasons.

He was jailed for three years after admitting the assaults between 2013 and 2017.

The Spanish delivery driver’s gender is now officially male but he has not had full reassignment surgery.

Lisa has never discovered exactly what devious Delacruz used to have sex with her — but the fake manhood was described in court as a “flesh and blood” prosthetic.

She added: “Our relationship was a lie. He still had a vagina. I thought he was a man.

“He looked like a man with his stubble and burly physique, dressed like a man and acted like a man.

"I just felt so unbelievably stupid. The alarm bells should have been ringing with the sex issues but I was just so duped by his sob story and I was in love.

“Everything else was great in our relationship, I just ended up thinking, ‘maybe you can’t have it all’.”

7 Lisa now has trust issues

But the cracks started to appear in January last year when his other victim — a previous partner he’d also duped into believing he had a penis — contacted cops.

By this time the couple were living in Lisa’s home.

She said: “I drove him to the police station and sat waiting for him for five hours.

"He didn’t tell me what it was about until he came out.

"He was laughing and saying she’d accused him of rape and being transgender.

“He was going on as though she was an absolute nutcase and I was so brainwashed at this stage I believed him.”

7 Lisa thought she had met her 'dream man' in Delacruz, pictured

But a few months later she dumped the sicko after he spent all their joint savings.

Lisa booted him out and when they got into a row Delacruz twisted house keys against her chest.

In June last year the truth began to emerge when the Spaniard branded himself a “monster”.

She said: “It was at this point that he would tell me he was transgender. He was saying nobody understood him and I just came out with it and asked him.

“Then it was like a jigsaw and it all pieced together. I was stunned, shocked and completely betrayed.

“But at this point he told me that he was fully transitioned.”

But then a couple of days later, a letter arrived for a ‘Miss Carlos Delacruz’ from a hospital.

She said: “Although I didn’t open it, I could see it was from the gynaecology department.

“Why would he need that if he was fully transitioned? It all hit me like a tonne of bricks. By this point I was furious."

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She continued: “He was asking me who I was going to tell and I told him I planned on telling everybody that needed to know — for example if he got into another relationship.

"That woman would have a right to know. At this point it didn’t hit home that I’d been assaulted. I panicked and called 101 to ask for advice.

“The woman said not to worry and I hadn’t done anything wrong.

“But an officer was sent to chat to me and when I explained about the key, they said it was assault and they would take it further. He admitted it.”

Lisa tracked down his ex on Facebook and messaged her.

She said: “She phoned me straight away and asked, ‘Can you 100 per cent say that what he was using was attached?’

"And it hit me that of course it wasn’t — he was holding it.”

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When police were called in to investigate, Lisa got the final shock.

She said: “He was strip searched. It’s just horrific.

“I’d slept with a woman who was holding something.

“I was completely broken. I was hysterical and just broke down. My world just collapsed.

“His other victim was with him for three years and didn’t have a clue — he had absolutely mastered the art of lying.

“But nobody is going to understand unless they go through it.”

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