Devastated13 Fri 26-Jul-19 22:42:42

Long time lurker but need your help tonight. My husband has had a two year online affair (skyping sex the lot) after we have been together for 17 years, 3 kids etc. Trying to get through this as we have a disabled child who needs lots of care and we both work full time. He thinks he wasn't unreasonable to send a photo of me on my wedding day to his OW with my face scribbled out/blanked out. Apparently this might be the sort of thing any normal person having an affair might do. I might not understand this because I don't know that many people who have had affairs. So he has asked me to ask the internet. AIBU to think this was a particularly unkind thing to do? Or is this normal affair stuff I'm not getting because I have morals?!