If, like me, you are in your teens or early twenties you have been born in the most prosperous, least violent time in human history. You are literally in the top 1% of most privileged human beings to have ever lived. As awesome as the world is in 2014, great times are great softeners. Our generation has become entitled and want instant results handed to us for the least work, we crumble underneath the slightest adversity.

We give up easily, and worst of all we never. stop. complaining.

Nothing will make people dislike you faster than being a constant victim.

Do you have the flu? Does no-one appreciate your untapped potential? People may politely listen to your whining because they’ll feel guilty if they don’t, but the truth is no one cares except your mom and your doctor. And even your mom is probably getting sick of your shit. Moaning makes you appear self centred and miserable. You may get sympathy but don’t expect any respect or loyalty.

From now on, make it your resolution to never complain, never whine, never act like a victim. Don’t ignore problems, fix them or accept them. Respond to all adversity and discomfort with cheery grit. Be grateful for the things you do have. Be genuinely grateful that your life is as good as it is. Always have a cheerful piece of news or development in your life to share with people around you. Watch how much better people will react to being around you over the next few months.

Over the past 2 years I’ve gone from almost complete recluse to having pretty decent social skills. I’d love to hear if you agree/disagree or have any questions. Shoot me an email at aeddo48@gmail.com