yoni-araza:

thisisfemaleprivilege: bitterlittleharlot: What he is saying: Why are you accusing me of being a rapist?

Why does being male automatically make me rapist? What he isn’t saying: I should have the right to rape

Women are here for my enjoyment

It is always the victims fault

Women should not have the right to feel safe Stop being ignorant. If you go around point the finger, screaming ‘stop raping’ at every man you come across as your own pathetic attempt to end rape culture then you are only really making yourself look like a bigoted idiot. I shouldn’t really have to say it but it seems to have slipped most of you minds so I will… believe it or not if you start screaming ‘you’re a rapist’ at people, they are going to get offended! A nice bit of psychology for you:

If you keep telling someone they are something, they are going to believe it. If you keep telling someone their fat, they’re more likely to get an eating disorder. If you keep telling someone they’re stupid, they’re more likely to under-perform. If you keep telling people they’re rapists, you know what they’ll eventually think?

“Well, people keep telling me I’m a rapist and I’m already being blamed for being a rapist so I must be a rapist” - AND THEN THEY ARE MORE LIKELY TO RAPE. If you make men feel like rapists (even when they aren’t), they are going to be rapists, don’t you get it? I am tired of this, HOW can these people say being a violent sexual aggressor is the same as having an eating disorder? How can these people in one breath say “IT’S NOT HAPPENING” then in another tell women it wouldn’t happen to them if they didn’t drink, wear things, talk, go out alone, at night, in certain area’s or even EXIST! Again it isn’t men’s fault they rape, it’s clothes, actions, again it’s women’s fault we get raped.

Again it isn’t men’s fault they rape, it’s clothes, actions, again it’s women’s fault we get raped.

So, you are playing the ‘if it’s not his fault, then it’s her fault game’? You haven’t even realised that you aren’t even helping abolish rape culture you are just transferring the blame from one innocent person to another and one that could even be a victim themselves?

You seem to believe that if we don’t blame the male gender as a whole, for rape, then we have to blame the victims without taking into account the other reasons that people… yes people, rape?

This is why I will never take this feminist idea if rape culture seriously. You have created a culture, not in which rape has been normalised, but in which the only type of rapist are those who pray on innocent young girls because of the way they have dressed or there state of mind then being so intent on not placing any place on the victims you have turned to point the finger at the only group of people who fit your stereotype of what this rapist is.

You will never take into account that there are rapists out there that don’t care about clothing or alcohol consumption, the majority, because that would involve acknowledging that bad people exist and taking some responsibility of looking after yourself against the rapists who don’t care about your rights a women, and will just be looking for an easy target.