7 Importance Of High Self-esteem

I want to talk about the importance of self-esteem today. I know you know that last day I gave you 5 Ways To Increase Self Esteem. . If you have not yet checked it out, then do so. I wanted you to know the ways in which you can increase your self-esteem so that you can work on increasing it. I believe that you have put into practice the ways that I gave you. It won’t be helpful if you read anything and leave it behind, you have to ascertain that what you learn you apply it that is all how you will benefit from Life Blogger









Self-esteem is of two dimensions. The first dimension is of low self-esteem or it can be called negative self-esteem. A person having this kind of self-esteem is likely to suffer so much from depression, anxiety and stress. Low self-esteem is all about having a negative view on your own self image. When someone has a negative view on his or her own self-image he or she is likely to suffer social rejection and live a kind of life that is only dependant on other people’s attention and opinions. Having a low self-esteem makes one lose confidence and trust of his own self existence. When this happens it can be a very great barrier for one to make his own firm decisions on which kind of life he or she want to live.















We have so many problems associated with people of low self-esteem. All these problems arise from within. This is because it is in someone’s mind. The thoughts that you have about yourself, the voice in you that tells you who you are before anyone, can play a big role in determining the kind of person you will be. So it very important we stay away from feeling low of ourselves, because this has a lot of negative impacts in our lives than you may think. Let no one make you feel so unworthy of yourself. You may having nothing in your life, but don’t go to an extent of losing your own self-esteem.













The other dimension of self-esteem is high self-esteem or positive self-esteem. This kind of esteem is associated with positivity of your own personal view. A person with a high self-esteem is likely to be more successful in life than a person with low self-esteem. You want to know why? Then stick with me. When a person has a positive view of his own image, he/she becomes optimistic. When one is optimistic he/she finds everything that comes in his/her way as an opportunity, since he/she believes he or she can always succeed in anything no matter what the challenges. There are many benefits for a person having a positive self-esteem. I’m going to tell you all the benefits of why should people have a high self-esteem.











Do you want to know why self-esteem is very crucial in a person? Today I’m going to share with you how important is high self-esteem to an individual. I will give you 7 benefits of increasing self-esteem.





1. You Be Your Own.





Having a high self-esteem is very essential when it comes to your own believe and thoughts of which kind of person you are. Having a positive view of your own image gives you confidence. You will never have to worry of how people will think about you. You will live your own life. People’s opinion will never demoralize. You will always consider yourself sufficient enough for your own life. You will never live in the course of someone else. What a beautiful thing! Nothing is more pleasing than living your own life without depending on anyone else’s influence.













You will be able to decide which kind of person you want to be without anyone’s influence since you believe that you alone you are enough for yourself. This will enable you to develop a stand in your life. Every weakness in you will become strength. This is because the first thing for anyone one to make a step in his/her life is believing in his/her own being.























It is important for one to increase his/her self-esteem because it is the only shoot for anyone to make worth of him/her self. If you cannot be your own; living in people’s shadow, pretending to be a person you are not, it is obviously that you will not be able to make your own decisions without considering your own opinions. You will not be able to make a step on your own without someone else’s support. You will live in a life out of your brackets. Nothing is worst like this.













You now have an idea of how self-esteem is very important on determining whether you are going to live on your own opinions or you are going to live in people’s shadows. Increase your self-esteem and live the kind of life you want to live without anyone’s influence since you will be believing in your own being and appreciate the kind of the person you are. Nothing will make you deflate you as you will be your own kind. You will not live in other people’s identity. You will be original.















2. You Will Be Ready For Anything.

High self-esteem will make you to be ready for any challenges that you will face. Having a positive view of your own self will make you stronger and more confidence. We live in a century that we are faced with many challenges. The things that we face in our daily life can really have an impact on the kind of the person you will be. If you have low self-esteem the challenges that you face will dishearten you and make you weak. When you have low self-esteem it is a fact that you will never see the positive side of your own being.

















You will base yourself in a group of failure simple because you don’t have internal motivation. When you increase your self-esteem you will have a positive view of yourself. You will be ready to face any challenges since you believe that no challenges that will break you down. The best thing of having a high self-esteem is that you will never put yourself below anything. You will gain the courage to face anything; you are optimistic. You will always try new ways to get what you want. You will never be afraid of the results. You will never be scared of the failure.



















With such a trait, a person will be able explore every kind of ways to get what he or she wants since he/she ready whatever comes in the way. The positive view will enable you to have no fear of what will befall you. The moment you believe in yourself you will always be ready for anything that comes your path.





3. You Can Stand On What You Believe Is Right.





Increasing your self-esteem will enable you to stand firm on what you believe is right. The moment you have high view on yourself you will always stand for what you believe is right for you. You will guide and protect what you believe is right for you. You will not allow anything or anyone to look down upon what you believe. This is what actually determines the kind of lifestyle you want to live in. That is why we find out people living as gays, thieves, terrorists, womanizers and all sort of negativity they involve themselves in. This happens because they do believe it is right for them to live such kind of life.























Something to note! We may end up believing in things that are wrong if we are not principled. The examples I have given above are based on the negative side of live. The people who chose to live such kind of life they did so because their self-esteem allowed them to believe that that is right.













High self-esteem will make you high opinion of yourself. When you have high view on yourself, obviously you will have the courage to stand for what you believe is right no matter what people will talk about it. As self-esteem is all based within yourself, you will be able to trust your own course without any people’s influence. This can make you decide on the kind of life you want to live. It is also a great influence on the kind of the decisions you want to make in your life. Making decisions sometimes it can be a very hard thing for anyone to do, especially when one has low self-esteem.















It will be very difficult since one does not believe or trust his or her own instincts about everything that surrounds him or her. A person with high self-esteem will trust his own believes and he/she works to keep himself/herself by what he/she believes it is right to be done.









4. You Will Never Fear Failure Or Disapproval.





People with low self-esteem will never explore every way to find out what suits them because they have the believe in them that they are not good enough to try anything without any help. They will fear to try out anything alone because they are scared to fail and being laughed at. Having a low self-esteem cuts all the connection of possibilities of succeeding in life. Folks with low self-esteem have no hope of succeeding in anything this is because they just based themselves on the scale of negativity.









The people with high self-esteem are at a higher chance of succeeding because they explore every possible way they find. They are the kind of people who are never afraid of failure. They are optimistic; they see every chance as an opportunity of success. They don’t under estimate their own capabilities. These are the people who are never afraid to fail or being disapproved on anything. The chances that they get and fail, they consider them as a chance of learning from them.



















Increasing self-esteem is important as it connects to your own individuality. In within yourself you believe you are the best. You believe it that in your world you are the best person ever have existed. You will never fear to get disapproved by anyone. You will always conduct yourself in a best way knowing that there is no fear in you; of failure or disapproval.









5. You Stay Committed To Your Course.





High self-esteem increases confidence in an individual. The more confidence one has the more committed to he will be to his course. Increasing self-esteem develops trust and internal motivation within and individual which will make one committed to his course. The aspect of being optimistic within an individual makes one fully committed to his course. If you have hope that everything that you put your hands on will succeed no matter what may come on the way. It is obviously that this will make you committed to what you want.



















The positive view that someone has on his own image will make one have an internal motivation factor. Having an internal motivation factor is very important to every progress in any activity. It is the internal factor that will encourage someone to keep moving on. Life sometimes may be so harsh. A lot of discouragement may have come through your way. You may have faced so much failure since you started what you are currently doing. If you have low self esteem it is very easy for you to give up on what you are doing. Low self-esteem will always tell you that “you are not good enough to handle it”





This can be cause of you leaving your course. You will give up and walk away because of your low self-esteem.









An individual with high self-esteem is likely to keep on going since he/she has an internal motivation factor. When you are optimistic and internally motivated, this trait can help you move a mountain. If you will have the ability to move the mountain from one place to another will you fail to move on with a course of your passion that you are committed to?



















6. You Gain More Confidence.

Increasing self-esteem also increase your confidence. Self-esteem has all to do with positive self image. The more you have a positive view on yourself the more confidence you will be. Confidence arises from what someone feel is capable of. When you trust yourself that you can ride a bicycle and you put an effort in trying it, then you will never be afraid to try it when someone tells you to try it out. Another aspect comes from being optimistic which is also connecting to high self-esteem. When you look at every corner of your life with a positive view and believing that you can succeed in everything you try, it is obviously that you will increase your confidence.

















Confidence, which is a very crucial thing to anyone when it comes to social interactions. Confidence is mostly determined by how you look at yourself. Low self-esteem which has a voice that is against your own capabilities will never enable you to have any confidence. As it is known that self-esteem is connected to an individual psychology which in turns control every feeling of an individual. So, if esteem will be low then it is going to affect your confidence.









7. You Keep Firm To Your Principles.





Increasing your self-esteem has a lot to do with your life principles. The moment you realize your worth you will never allow anyone to degrade you. Principles are the key to the guidance of one’s life. People with high self-esteem are principled since they are aware that they are the best people ever existed. If you value yourself you will not allow yourself to be dishonored by anyone. High self-esteem people believe that they are better, so anything that they will conduct have to be at a better level. That is where firm principles are outlined.













I remember when I was in high school. I was performing so awesome, this made me increase, my self-esteem more. When I recognized myself as a performing student is when I set more firm principles so that I don’t fall where I was. I set the principles so that they can continue to guide me to be at better step. It is the same that you would do. When you have high self-esteem you will consider yourself as valuable person, and you wouldn’t want to lose the best part of you. To protect that, you will have to come up with rules that will keep you on the right path.





The points I have given above are not exhaustive, we have so many benefits of high self-esteem. Increase your self-esteem so that you will gain the internal peace, motivation factor and great value of your own self being.











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