SweetDaddyDom420 wrote: Yet STILL!!!!! It is not enough!!!!! I

OK, STOP.

The problem is not that you’re “not good enough”.

The problem is — >> you still think you need to be.

Just let that sink in for a minute.

If I went strictly by apparent female approval and there was no such thing as a mirror, I would think I looked like Shrek! But I don’t.

… until one day, I was out hiking, and the answer came from meeting a DOG. This older looking dog was approaching about 20 feet ahead of it’s female owner. It was walking slowly and had a “sad” way about him. He walked straight up to me and I didn’t step aside. I bent down and stroked his head … he sat and enjoyed….. and his owner said “OH OH! HE doesn’t react well to tall intimidating men!!” like she expected him to start growling.

I said “Well as you can see, he’s not intimidated at all. We’re friends already.”.

I smiled and continued on.

And that explained it.

She thought I was “tall and intimidating”. The dog didn’t. But a woman thought he should be “afraid” of me – because SHE would be.

You follow?

Don’t ever forget . . . women actually pretend to NOT be attracted to you, when they ARE. Like little school girl crushes, they pretend they don’t “like” a guy for years. And then years later they tell you they had a crush on you.

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So if you are using ^ THAT S~~~ ^ as some kind of a measure of you not being “good enough”, I’m afraid you’re f~~~ed ad you’re going to be grossly misled.

Women need to be “good enough” for YOU — and not the other way around.

SweetDaddyDom420 wrote: I just can not find a female that is worth my time.

That doesn’t say anything about YOU.

It says everything about THEM.

Very different from “I’m not good enough”.

SweetDaddyDom420 wrote: In the last year, I have been in NUMEROUS situations where I lowered my standards.

Why?

However LOW you LOWER the floor of expectation for a woman,

you can always count on her to fall BELOW it.

I have walked into dating situations expecting nothing but civility and basic manners and was STILL disappointed. She didn’t even have the courtesy to show up on time or text that she was going to be late. You think I’m gonna give a f~~~ if I’m “not good enough” in all other ways?

It’s the other way around. SHE’s not good enough.

So don’t get confused.

SweetDaddyDom420 wrote: The women whom I know damn well are on my level…. won’t commit to a relationship even after we have AMAZING sex.

This is MGTOW – Men Going Their Own Way.

Not “Men Looking for a Relationship”.

And what are you even doing wanting a “relationship” in less than 9-12 months of knowing her and plenty of good times with her first? I wouldn’t want a “relationship” with you based on that alone! You don’t have sex and “POOF!” you’re in a “relationship” now.

The criteria for sex is based on one thing only: ATTRACTION.

The criteria for a relationship is based on a mile long list of things that are worked on and earned over time – by both of you. You are 10,000 times more likely to meet a women you want to shag, than one whom you will want to spend significant amounts of time with, date, sit across from, listen to, eat with, live with, or marry.

I don’t even understand how you can think you have a problem.

The only “problem” here is =- >> you think you need to be “good enough”.

SweetDaddyDom420 wrote: And it occurs to me…. even with all I have going for me, I am still miserable. What could it be like for other guys who are not so lucky?

Lol.

You’re “lucky” when a woman DOES NOT want a relationship with you.

And you don’t even know it!

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/women/sex/9126265/Research-finds-women-feel-happy-when-their-husband-or-partner-is-upset.html

SweetDaddyDom420 wrote: I know that I will never be happy living alone.

Then you’re LYING to yourself. You have bought into the “happy” LIE.

Chasing “happy”is the first best way to be miserable.

CONTENT is where it’s at.

When a man is content, happiness is sure to follow.

Men can’t even be “content” living with woman, because she won’t let him.

You don’t think you’ll be “happy” living alone because you think you’re “not good enough” for a woman…. and that is an indicator that you don’t even prefer your own company. People who can’t be happy living alone don’t LIKE themselves.

/video/alone-is-far-from-lonely/

SweetDaddyDom420 wrote: I just can not believe that this is how reality really is.

That’s really too bad.

SweetDaddyDom420 wrote: I am sick, tired, and disgusted with the whole situation, yet going completely without females simply is not an option for me.

I find this hard to say without sounding condescending, but I feel sorry for you.

SweetDaddyDom420 wrote: The urge is too strong.

That’s what they are counting on.

And they will exploit it.

SweetDaddyDom420 wrote: I have no clue how to proceed.

The problem is not that you’re “not good enough” for a woman.

The problem is — >> you still think you need to be.

SweetDaddyDom420 wrote: The ridiculously high, unattainable standards of women

…. are a meaningless barometer for nothing.

I don’t NEED to be a millionaire, famous movie star, or powerful hotel mogul because THOSE guys are “not good enough” too, and she will want to f~~~ him over more than me. Its time you for you thank your personal god you’re “not good enough”.