Note: Am not much of a writer , so it may sound like rant but the issue is real!.

Before getting started, here is a little background: I suffer from small penis syndrome myself (i even have a small one tbh). And for past few weeks like any other normal human would do, i’ve been searching a lot about how is a life with a small penis!!. I decided to write this after going through a lot of forums, posts, and some really weird experiences from people and yeah… things that pretty much motivate a person to commit suicide.

Basically, small penis syndrome is a condition in which a person believes he has a small penis (or even has one) and is so anxious about it that he spends most of his time thinking about something that can’t be changed (no… screw those medicines, screw those devices. There is no proof that they work and can have really bad side effects, do your research before buying anything guys!).

So, here is the thing, I thought it would be something new when i post it on a forum or website, but wew! i found out that internet is already full of people crying about their size and those who are trying to help them but fail because of some really whorible humans i guess! (PS: don’t visit the link if you are going through sps right now.). I’ve done my research, i’ve been depressed for so long now and i think i can give you the summary.

I believe internet is one of the biggest cause of the anxiety, people are under the impression that whatever they read on those forums and blogs is the ultimate truth, women want big penis (most do maybe, i get the point), women are only satisfied by big ones, women will leave you if you have a small one, you should be ashamed of your small size…. yada yada yada…women women women…. wtf! just get that out of your mind people. Now, the post that i’ve linked above, will make you believe all these things. But here is what i found out:

Men care more about their size than women .It matters a lot to some women and i don’t blame them unless it matters so much that they become one of those whorible creature that i linked above(ahem… Bailey, Kelley, Janet). All the real women that i personally talked to/asked for help have said that in a relationship, intimacy matters way more. All of them say that confidence and skill matter more. Most of them say that PIV isn’t all and mostly is the least exciting part, what matters more is foreplay and the “clit”. I can’t emphasize enough the importance of that organ, no matter what a woman prefers big/small or even no penis at all, they all love clitoral stimulation and clitoral orgasms. Being positive or negative about it is your choice. Feeling ashamed or okaii about it, your choice. Letting people laugh at it and feeling sad about it or not giving a f**k, your choice.

If the above points do not make much sense have a look at this. Same website, real people, and a post that makes point. It is always clit,confidence,oral,foreplay…. how many women have to repeat that? I know there is one mentioning length and girth but, like i said everyone has preferences. So that’s it for motivation.

Back to bitching about internet.

Small penis shaming is one of the weirdest and easily accepted form of body shaming (at least on the internet). How casually do you find small dick jokes on the internet or crack em in a group of friends without noticing that someone is faking their laughter. People don’t know how that feels and it is a rather rare issue so.. yeah they don’t care much. Why is it weird? humans are supposed to feel ashamed about their wrong deeds right? why shaming based on something that a human has got naturally.

“It’s their turn of body shaming” as claimed by one of the “bitch” in the post above. (PS: She said “call me a mean bitch” so.. ok… i hope that gives you an orgasm bitch!). No it is not! to be really honest i don’t see small boobs jokes on the internet that often (my fault eh?) and how about that: boobs do not contribute in the actual “action” (why boobs coz that’s the only defence they’ve got afaik… “people shame our fat body/boobs and all”). So yeah women… you are not shamed that often. I know, Icould have gone for far better examples and I might get some hate for the last point but the “real point” is body shaming is a real issue and needs to be stopeed no matter whether it’s a male or female. And about comparing it to fat people, there is indeed a difference in what can be done to get rid of body fat may be and getting a big penis, coz the answer to latter is “nothing”.

Is it only affecting men? no no no no…. i believe it has a great impact on women as well, one of the crucial factor that leads to an orgasm is to feel aroused, agreed? I can tell coz i have PE and i have experimented various things, distraction/doing it casually like it is a no big deal always helps in holding the orgasm. That is exactly what is going on with women i guess, unless you want an orgasm you can’t have one and internet is doing a great job convincing them that they “can’t have orgasm” with a guy who has a small penis. Most of their stories start with: “I was disappointed”. Yes! because you are supposed to be disappointed by that according to the people around you, you’ve been taught that small penis is no good, ffs stop thinking like that!

For men, it is rather a mental harrassment. Enough of ranting, let’s take another story to prove my point.

Enrique Iglesias claiming that he has the tiniest penis in the world and that he can’t last more than 8 minutes. I don’t wanna say much about that before you give this thing a read.

I dunno if that’s true or not, some said he was joking but what am trying to focus on in this post is: “ Not only does he have a small member, but apparently the dude can’t even last more than 8 minutes. Poor Anna Kournikova!” and “ Sorry Enrique, but I definitely liked you better when I thought you had a big, juicy penis. “Tonight I’m f’ing you,” will never be the same for me …”

Poor Anna !!?? These writers need to… just… mind their own business i guess. Before writing that, they don’t give thought to:

How about: Anna is a different person/has different way of thinking about things or may be truly loves the guy and all that he has (unlike the author of the post who thinks that men are dicks, that’s it. I recommend them to fill their homes with sex toys and gtfo of men’s lives). What if it’s just you who is more of a “cow”!? If she can call his wife “poor Anna” for being with him, yes! i have the right to call her anything i want as well. Why would a guy feel the need to share this thing in public again and again ? may be because he is not feeling well about it himself and reason behind it? of course! people like the author of the linked post. Instead of helping them feel better what does the internet do? destroys them!

The image of a woman being kind/ more humanly/ sensible that is created by the world… is destroyed by such people.

I can keep adding to the list: apps launching small penis emoji, people discouraging others on reddit threads, quora posts, PORN, yeah… the biggest one of them; post might get very long so am not discussing that but that is indeed one of the biggest source of “the wrong message” that sex/love is all about sizes and that too big sizes (both in men and women, but again, mostly men).

I’ve seen people asking questions like: will i be able to satisfy my woman, should i even get married, should i die and much more. I really don’t blame them because the society is forcing our brains to think that way, i had (still have ups and downs during a day and yeah i think about these things again and again) same questions. Love == sex == size !? What can i say? Everyone is contributing in making that equality look true. Stop it!!

People are doing it openly, people find it funny, it needs to be stopped, it is mental harrassment and it is INDEED A BIG ISSUE.

If you have anything positive to say, thoughts are welcomed. If you have something negative to say… f**k off! am already frustrated to saturation!!