Having touched briefly on FEMDOM I hope to expand slightly on this subject and maybe throw a bit more light on this particular section of BDSM

If ask people in a vanilla relationship about femdom, chances are they will say something along the lines of “ oohh that’s wimpy men being bossed around by big butch women” and if I am honest, while that can happen, in 85% of the cases nothing could be further from the truth

If you search the term in a BDSM dictionary the meaning is as follows

FEMDOM: A power exchange relationship in which the dominant is female. Often (but not always) used to refer to a relationship between a female dominant and a male submissive.

Just because a man wishes to cede power to a woman in certain areas of his life does not make him weak, in some ways he is stronger for accepting his desires and fulfilling them. There is a certain element of excitement when a man is teased sexually, it heightens the desires, and if you ask a pain slut they will invariably say that the sweet snap of the crop/whip/flogger takes the pleasure that bit further, so why should it be different for a man ? They too can enjoy the pain element of BDSM.

Whilst we know that the majority of BDSM relationships are Master/slave and Dom/sub, more and more men are turning to Femdom as a way to release the tension in their every day life, many are finding that with the pressure of their jobs they wish to have all decisions and control taken from them and to submit to another’s will, indeed, looking at some of the past newspaper articles there have been some famous names associated with Dommes and Mistresses, they might have been paying for the services of a professional but had they taken the time to look around they would have seen that its not always necessary to do that, there are more and more sexy strong women coming into their own and many more men who are only too happy to serve them in what ever way they wish





















