During the last few years, sugar dating has become really popular among 18-28 year-old girls and women. Several websites have literally exploded with new sugar babes looking for their daddies, and in fact a few articles have demonstrated that up to 3-5% of the 18-28 year-old girls are enlisted as a sugar babe in certain countries. However, most of the girls seem to be completely ignorant about the facts that sugar daddies are looking for and how the sugar dating works.

1. Sugar dating sites are not regular dating sites

Dating websites have a hugely distorted demographics to the girls’ advantage. The female-male ratio can be as imbalanced as 1:8. This is not true with the sugar dating sites, where the this ratio is often practically reversed. You need to unlearn the “queen of the hill” attitude that you have learned from regular dating sites. In sugar dating, girls are competiting for the best daddies, not the other way around.



2. Sugar dating is not innocent

Many girls have a delusion from TV that sugar dating is just about handsome and rich older men buying you stuff and taking you to the high life parties, without anything but your company in return. In truth, maybe a few percent of the daddies want to do it this way, which distorts the demographics even further. For each 100 sugar babes, there are perhaps one to three daddies who are like this. Most daddies are there to fulfill their sexual fantasies and fetishes with younger beautiful girls.



3. There are very beautiful young open-minded girls out there

Remember, that most of the daddies are looking for something in exchange for their excess money. Unless you are really beautiful, young and open-minded, the chances are very, very, low that you will find a daddy who is good looking, very wealthy and wants to sponsor you without return services. Most sugar dating sites have a small percentage of extremely good looking girls who are being cherry picked before anyone will even take a look on the other girls.

4. Bring up your best sides

Although most daddies are looking for the beauties, an average girl can make herself a lot more attractive to some daddies by bringing up their best sides. Some daddies love big boobs, innocent and young looking girls, girls with glasses, girls with braces, chubbies, slutty look et cetera. Make sure that you highlight any of these features in your photos. Taking only a picture of your face if you’re chubby, or not wearing you glasses if you actually wear them pays you nothing. Men are full of fetishes, and those fetishes can often override everything else. Most sugar daddies have a lot of fetishes!



5. Forget about findom

If you are looking for findom, there are perhaps one daddy for each 1000 girls available. Better forget it, unless you are very, very special.

6. Forget your bad attitude and complaining

No one is interested in your bad attitude. Most of the daddies want just easy, fun and otherwise satisfying company. They don’t want to listen your complaining or to be exposed to your bad attitude.

7. Do not tell your opinion on the daddy’s taste unless asked

If the daddy likes something that you don’t, keep that information on yourself unless he asks about your opinion about it. If he does, never be hostile! If the daddy has a fetish or something that pleases him, never say “that’s disgusting”, unless it is that so disgusting that you don’t want to interact with him anymore. Remember, that unlike in normal dating where guys often have to give away their fetishes and other preferences, sugar dating is something where the girls need to make compromises. Good daddies always find girls who are willing to satisfy their needs, were you part of it or not. Being open-minded is the key to success being a good sugar babe.

8. Be an active pleaser

Good daddies are rare, but so are good sugar babes, too. Never be skimpy. Some sugar babes only do nice things to the daddy after the daddy has done nice things to them. Forget this! Please him, surprise him and make him feel great. This makes the sugar dating feel more like a relationship instead of being a private whore (unless that turns you both on) and increases the mutual trust between you.

9. Always be the perfect yourself

Find out what your daddy likes and be like that. Always. You must give an impression that you are a unique perfect girl. Make the daddy addicted to you!

10. Obey

If your daddy wants to know something, tell him. If he wants to have a video or photo of you while he’s on a trip, send that video or photo. Tease him and make him want to take the next flight back to have fun with you!



11. Respect the rules and keep your promises

Most daddies have rules and it is your job to respect them. If you can’t do it, don’t do sugar dating at all. This same applies vice versa. You probably want that your daddy is not having unprotected sex on his trip to Brazil or Thailand, either.

12. Be discreet

Sugar dating is very intimate. Never talk about your daddy or you relationship with anyone unless you have a permission to do it. This same applies to daddies. Keep those photos and videos in a secure place and never share them with anyone without permission.

