Fetlife has had its privacy issues, just like Facebook has. But it also has a positive history in listening to and bending the the every whim of its members. There are dozens of options for genders, relationship types, and power dynamic roles. You can also link your account to as many other people as you like, with individual descriptions for each relationship.

If Okcupid wants to please the polyamorous and the growing Kink communities, they are going to have to play catch up to Fetlife. And Okcupid knows those alternative sexual communities are on the rise.

Okcupid just released a report stating that 58% of users thought about participating in bondage, and a whole bunch of them would rather be tied up than the one doing the tying. (Isn’t that the truth. Feels like every community is overrun with submissives and far too few dominants.)