The lewd fan banner depicting Graham Arnold in a sex act has made the Sydney FC coach's daughters reluctant to attend any more A-League Sydney derbies.

Four days after members of Western Sydney's active fan base unfurled the offensive banner during Saturday's 1-0 loss, Arnold revealed he had not received even a phone call from the Wanderers, who are facing significant punishment from Football Federation Australia over the incident.

"I would probably have liked one by now," Arnold said.

"I haven't heard from them for four days so I don't want one now."