My wife never caught me cheating. Over three years, I texted, kissed, dated countless girls, and I kept it all secret from her. I’m not an advocate for cheating, and I’m finished with it since I ended my marriage. However, if you have to do it, like I did, then DON’T GET CAUGHT! Here are my five simple tips on how to not get caught cheating.

1 – Create an alter ego

The biggest mistake most guys make is to use their real name, phone number and email address when cheating. Having a completely different identity for cheating purposes is my best advice on how to not get caught cheating.

The problems with this are:

It is not possible to stop your wife from seeing your regular phone and email. She might need to read details of that rental car you’ve reserved for an upcoming trip. You make it easier for the person you are cheating with to contact your wife. You never know how an affair is going to end, and if it ends badly there is a chance you could get outed to your wife. Your side piece might call or text at inappropriate times.

When I cheated, I had a separate email account purely for cheating. When I registered on any site that I used for my cheating, I used a fake name. I never gave out my phone number, and used anonymous messaging apps such as Kik. I muted all notifications on the messaging app.

Never conduct cheating business without being in incognito mode on your web browser.

If you need to SMS text or place a phone call, get an alternative phone number with Google Voice, and use your web browser.

2 – Keep it simple

Tell the smallest lie possible to your wife to facilitate your cheating. Don’t make up an elaborate story, and try to do what you said you were going to do. I think this is one of the biggest mistake that guys make when they are trying to cheat. Their lies get out of control, and they fall over.

The secret is to have a series of very small lies that you can easily keep track of. My story was always watertight, and I always found it easier to talk about something that I actually did. That way, I could just choose to omit details from my story, rather trying to spin a completely untrue tale.

My go-to excuses were:

A colleague from out of town is visiting, so I am taking him to XYZ. Then I actually visited XYZ, but I took a date with me instead. The important part was that I was out with a friend she didn’t know, and wasn’t in our social circle. I refuse to get my friends to lie for me. Where possible, I concentrated my cheating to when my wife was out of town. This isn’t an option for some people, but it worked well for me. I’m off to the casino for the evening. Trust me, this one is genius because you have an excuse for spending money, there’s fun nightlife for a date and the casinos are usually surrounded by cheap hotels.

3 – Use prepaid credit cards

The most stupid mistake to make is to pay for a hotel room, or a fancy gift, using the family credit card. I have no clue why guys do this!

The trick is to slowly accumulate cash, and use it to purchase a prepaid credit card. That way, all your transactions are completely anonymous. You can buy a prepaid credit card from almost any pharmacy store, and they can easily be registered online.

Most lower budget hotels will accept prepaid credit cards. Typically, they don’t take a deposit when you check in. Unfortunately, you will not be able to take your piece to The Four Seasons, but you will get to fuck her.

I also found that the prepaid credit cards worked well at the nicer hotels that weren’t part of a global chain.

4 – Don’t be greedy

When you have a good thing, you want more of it. It’s easy to get addicted to seeing her, and to take risks to have more of it. DON’T TAKE RISKS.

You will know when you are pushing your wife’s limits. My wife knew that I would never go out more than once a week. Hence, if I suddenly tried to go out three times in a week then she would notice.

I found the sweet spot was to go on a date once every couple of weeks. If she was out of town, then I would place no limit on myself other than being available to take her calls at the regular times.

This also extends to not getting hooked onto one person. The more time you spend with someone, the easier it is to fall in love with them, or for them to fall in love with you. Then it turns from a sexual relationship into something that could end your marriage.

This happened to me, and I have no regrets. However, if you are looking to remain with your wife, then it is a bad idea to get too close to another woman.

5 – Find someone in a similar position

The easiest person to cheat with is another cheater. Their interests are completely aligned with yours, and they aren’t going to want you to leave your wife.

They won’t feel bad about being your little secret, because you are their little secret too. They know you have other commitments, and they can’t ever be at the top of your list.

I didn’t follow my own advice on this one, because I fell in love, and left my wife for another woman. However, I believe that this is the best type of affair to have.

How to not get caught cheating?

In summary, here’s how to not get caught cheating:

Create a new digital persona solely for cheating, and stick to it Tell the smallest possible lie to get what you want Keep your transactions secret with prepaid credit cards Don’t let lust make you take too much risk Find another cheater to cheat with

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