Dating apps like Tinder and Bumble have made finding someone to go on a date with as simple as ordering socks on Amazon, but besides the ease of finding a potential mate, the dating world, romance, and relationships in general remain just as baffling as before, if not even more so. Swiping through hundreds of potential mates can often leave men wondering if there is something wrong with them, or if there is something wrong with everyone else. The real answer is: they’re going about it all wrong. The world has changed, relationships have changed, gender roles have changed, and the way men engage with women must change too.





Believe it or not, it is possible to be yourself, have fun, court women, get dates, have sex, and have meaningful relationships without acting like a dick. In his new book, Josh Raab will tell you how in this part self-help book, part memoir.





In How to be a Player (in the Age of Feminism) Raab picks apart what it means to be a man in 2019, how to maximize your success on dating apps and first dates, and how to assemble the love life you want and deserve—whether that’s nightly orgies, the suburban dream with white picket fences, or both at the same time!