This is a tough one. Most of us men do not find this scenario arousing.



+1 to Sarah in all respects.





However, 'rape' fantasies are very common with women. I think its more about a desire to be 'taken' by their man whenever the urge strikes him (random from her perspective)....no asking permission....so consumed with lust and desire he just take her on the spot - any time, any place...and do so with hunger and intensity.



I would make it known to your man that you are available for him 24x7 whenever the urge strikes him - you want to feel overpowered by him - so he is not ask you, but to take you and have his way with you. Your body is his gift to use at his discretion whenever/wherever he wants.



Get rid of the word 'rape' and explain it to him similar to above and I doubt you find him to have much issue with that! Of course, if he is not the assertive take charge type of guy, you may have problems getting him to play the part to your satisfaction