You should not let your kitten eat your pancakes. First that will not be good for her because of all of the sugar and it can make her sick, but also you are not teaching her good habits. Do you really want her to always get up to your plate and stick her face in your food and start eating it? I don't think that would be a good thing for them to learn. What about if you have dinner guests and she did that to them. I doubt anyone would ever come back. You need to teach your cat manners. No getting on the table, no getting on the table, definitely no sticking her face in your plate, bowl, or mug. But I guess it is your cat so you will do with it what you want.