My boyfriend is the first guy who has ever seen me naked, and likewise I'm the first girl to see him unclothed. We were each others first everything and we are very in love but I'm still very hesitant to get undressed. He's 20, about 5'11" 160 lbs and I'm 18, about 5'3" 230 lbs. I used to weigh around 280 lbs and I have been losing weight but I still feel just as uncomfortable being naked as before. And when he asks me to sit on his lap or be on top I try to avoid doing so. Any advice?

Asked by Anonymous

I would love to, if I had first hand advice. However, I ride the virgin express and am without beau at the present time. In past relationships I was always hesitant to get undressed or anything while playing around, I think it reflects the fact that I haven’t yet accepted myself as I am. Comfort was not something that was readily present in those relationships either, all I can say is that time might make a difference. This wonderful man has given himself to you, and you’ve done the same for him, I hope you overcome your uncomfortableness in time, as I’m sure it must be such a great and freeing moment when you can, I hope to also experience this in the future. Good luck, and any followers with advice, please feel free to voice your advice :)