categed Fri 14-Sep-18 22:35:21

However a big issues is how late your husband was in picking up daughter. Home time is normally quick, your friend stood and argued with a teacher until they allowed your child to go with her and your husband still isn't on the scene.

Also if friend is picking up from next week you should have told the school. Drip fewding them information means it won't always be passed on in time meaning come monday afternoon they may refuse to allow your daighter to leave with this lady. Think of the upset and distress this is caising your daughter. Be there before bell time, allow the school plenty of notice about who will be picking up your child and the likelyhood of situations like this will be reduced. I genuinely think you have helped to create a situation that you now wish to blame fully on the school.

However do speak to the headteacher, accept your families role, but highlight the fact that someone was able to walk off with your child. But do make sure you did not put your friends name on the accepted people to pick up your child form at her enrolement as if you did the school did nothing wrong.