TopazPearl Mon 04-Feb-19 06:19:05

Oops, posted far too soon.



At about 7pm my breasts were fully engorged so got my pump out and went to take myself to the grotty toilets so sit on my own for 20 minutes.



My best friend told me to stay where I was and express in the bar we were in, I was on a circular table with 7 of my friends at this point and discreetly put the pump under my bra and wrapped my dress around and zipped my pump up with my coat so nothing could be seen.



I pumped for all of 9 minutes before I had a full bottle.



During this time the future MIL of the bride approached one of the friends on the table and said I was being disgusting and bringing shame on the group...



I was absolutely mortified and took myself straight to the toilet and proceeded to avoid her the rest of the night.



This escalated into drunken debates across the whole group and completely ruined the night - in which the mother in law stormed into our bedroom at 11pm and grabbed me by the wrist whilst shouting her head off about who has been ‘talking about her’.



I think the whole thing is completely ridiculous, and I do think she’s fully entitled to her opinion and maybe I should have resigned myself to the toilet but feel this went way way out of control over something so simple..?