Not Poly, Not Single, Not Yet

We’re not dating, but we’re still sleeping together three years after breaking up. Sleeping — not having sex. So we’re married? Ha. We can date other people if we want. So, we’re open? No, “open” implies a relationship. Are we poly? No. Single? Technically. And we have no desire to date? Not at the moment. We are more than friends but less than partners. Maybe not “less.” This girl is my soul mate. Would I someday like to marry her? Someday. Maybe. When we’re like 60. Sometimes if feels as if we already are. — Chris Gilmore