Why Should Our Differences Separate Us?

Our difference may be so great since we have different origin and background. We all have different beliefs that drive our motive in this life. Our different may be based on so many dissimilar areas. We may be different in our physical appearance and our emotional existence too. In terms of physical appearance it is all how everyone is. What you can see from the folks you glimpse around you that is what I prefer as physical appearance. One may be fat or slim, tall or short, black or white. These are the physical factors that are tangible.



















The emotional different is where everyone feels different on certain things that may arise feelings to everyone. We have people who will be very sorry for when you will have lost your parents. They will there for you and to console you so that you feel comfortable. They will do that because they know how it feels like losing someone so essential in your life. At the same time we have people who care nothing about how you feel but only take their feelings to be the priority factor. Have you ever come across such kind of people? These people will make an effort to please your feelings and emotions when they will find out that it will also bring a gain to them.













A good example is here; one will work hard to make you smile because he or she knows that when you are happy you can share every fortune with him or her. These people will console you because they know if you are at your best feet you can be able to do anything for them. Have you now understood how it goes? People are such different indeed.



















I have been in different places and met a lot of people with different character. I met people who had brilliant minds and other people with dull mind. Some people were great thinkers; folks who would help you move from one step to another. You will not know how deep people’s feelings are until you have time with them, interact with them share your past with them. When you decide to do so you will realize how important it is. You will get to understand why people live the way they do.













Our differences may raise diverse feelings on how we look on one another. We may even take away the people in our lives just because of how they behave around us. We may consider ourselves the better than the others just because of how we look at their differences. It is the opinion that we have over people we meet that makes them so different. We may meet people are talkative and so interactive. Here, we will define such person as a go getter. We may see someone so silent and self centered, and we will end up suggesting that such kind of person is very worst to have as a friend.



















All these differences I have talked about on the above paragraphs crop up from the people we live around them. You can categorize some people according to your own feelings. You might choose whether to interact with them or keep yourself far from them. You can do anything that you feel about them since you feel different about them.









I do admit that I also have such kind of character. I will decide to interact with anyone based on how he or she behaves. It is very important to look factors that make you to interact with anyone you feel like. Being choosy isn’t bad at all. We were blessed with brilliant brains to choose whatever we feel fits ourselves. The decisions that we make every day in our lives are all on those choices we make on different things that surrounds us. Choose whatever way you want to live, kind of people you want to involve in your life; after all it is your life.













I talked of the difference in first place to make you aware of how different people are. The main purpose for that is for you to appreciate the existence of different beliefs, characters and physical appearance of every individual. I wanted to show you how people differ so that when you decide to make your own selfish move you would have known why you made so.



















Yes! It is very true we may differ in so many things apart from what I have mentioned above. Something you should understand about yourself is that you are a person and you were made for people. The main idea I want you to understand is that you were made so that you interact with people around you without considering any internal or external differences. You should not separate people just because of their religion, political matters or race. No matter how far our differences may be we still have main co goals that exist in our lives.













We all want to live happily and peacefully. No one wants to live his life full of tragedies and disasters. Something you ought to do is also to make other people’s life comfortable. Do not let our differences divide us. Let not your mind develop a hatred for the people who are different from you. We all do have feelings and wishes. We all can cry when we get hurt. We all do care on some things that matters to our purpose of existence. At one point or the other we all have common agenda in our lives. Why should you throw some people away out of your life just because of the difference you see in them? Why mistreat other people just because they differ from the things you feel are of value to you?



















We should not let our difference split us. If we require a good place to dwell peacefully and harmoniously then we should recognize that everyone has his or her opinion on how they look on certain matters in their lives. The way you take into consideration your affairs don’t expect someone else to do the same as you do. If you love your religion don’t expect someone from the other faith also love your religion, because it won’t work. Live with the things that you believe are worth for you and know that it is not everyone will consider them worthy as you do. Don’t base too much on yourself and forget that people are different out there.













I decided to leave my home town in which I was so fond of so many people. I truly loved the people I lived around with. They made me feel loved and welcomed. Every morning I would walk along the road stretching my legs. Everyone who I met on the way was a good Samaritan to me. I would greet anyone, smile for anyone, laugh with anyone or share anything with the person I found standing next to me. I believed we were from the same home town, a town that we born in and raised in by our parents. These beliefs that we had made us united and became very caring of each other.



















For so many years I have been in one place. This made my mind intact to such a place. A few months later I moved somewhere very far from where I used to stay. Everything that I had in my mind changed. I met new people who had a different approach on everything. Some people I came across are so different from the people I used to see in my home town. You will have to keep yourself high if you would want to be considered. It was so different from where I came from. I realized after some weeks that the place I moved in comprised of people from different background. Everyone considered his own self as the best individual in the group.













They never knew who I was except the boy who they have been seeing around. In such a strange place everyone with high view on his or her own self. The very great differences that are among us I tried to fit in without segregation. I never look down upon anyone. I gave them what made them feel better and loved. I made them believe they are the best as they view themselves. This allowed me to capture their feelings and heart without separating anyone because of their beliefs. I managed to get them all without separating them based on their beliefs.



















I would like to let you know that let not the differences that exist in people makes you separate them. Do not choose a friend based on his race, tribe or religion. We have differences in which we believe differ in some extent, but do not make yourself superior over other people’s belief. Doing so will only bring in separation. Learn to appreciate every slight difference that you see in people. Live peacefully with everyone. Why should our difference separate us?





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