The hands-free orgasm – HFO for short – is the act of reaching the climax of your sexual arousal with the use of methods other than hand stimulation of the body. Many first-time HFOs success stories involve using the mind alone, which is the reason some find it hard to reach orgasm without using their hands.

The Prostate Massage

The most powerful way for a man to orgasm is through massaging the prostate. The prostate is the organ that can be accessed through the anus and it’s known for its function of shooting out semen, filtering it, giving erections, regulating the testosterone and so much more. The truth is: engaging in prostate massage could completely revolutionize your sex life. The conventional method of getting a hard on and then stroking with your hand until orgasm is fun, but it has gotten really old. Prostate massage, however, adds just enough spice to keep things interesting. It also allows you to have a full-blown “Super O” as they call it, as well as to experience multiple orgasms.

A good prostate massage has both physical and spiritual benefits. Spiritually, it is soothing for the soul. The orgasm produced through prostate massage provides a fantastic sense of well-being. A sensation of calmness and relaxation follow suit almost immediately. Thus, as an individual – or a couple – that is ready to try new things, this is a great way to explore.

Physically, prostate massage feels very good, because having an orgasm is always awesome. However, orgasms from prostate massage are even more intense. There are loads of scientifically proven benefits to be garnered from it. It increases energy and lowers your chances of depression. It is a way of making life more fulfilling and pleasant. You cannot be too old or too young for prostate massage. It can be enjoyed by anyone as long as you have a prostate, whether you are eighteen or eighty! It is even more helpful for older men, because, as men grow older, it becomes a lot more difficult for them to get and maintain erections.

If you are already an experienced player or you are just beginning to rock your prostate for the first time, we highly recommend using a prostate massager.

How do I find my prostate?

This question is easily the most difficult questions that beginners tend to ask. It might be a bit difficult at the beginning, but with a bit of practice, you will realize that it’s quite easy to find.

Here’s a step to step guide on how to locate the prostate with a finger.

Have a bowel movement. This might sound irrelevant but it is actually a way to ensure that your rectum is clean and ready for action. I would recommend taking a bath or shower as the second step to take. You can wash your butt-hole with a cloth if you find taking a shower rather stressful. Having a full on shower is better because it helps you to relax, thereby making the rest of the session much easier. Lay down on a flat and comfortable surface, preferably a bed. You can also lay on your back with your knees bent and feet pulled back toward your butt. Placing a pillow under your buttocks may also help with the angle. Apply lube. Inserting a toy into dry butt-hole is obviously not fun or even pleasurable at the very least. You can purchase up a good anal lube for easy and pleasurable penetration in our shop. Insert your index finger between your legs and gently stick it into your rectum. You can also get your partner to help with this. Ultimately, it will prepare your butt-hole for the toy. The toy will then be inserted into your butt-hole, and then curved towards the penis. Gently nudge the stimulator into your rectum. It is already anatomically designed to hit all of the right spots. The toy will probably make you feel uncomfortable, and might be hard to get in at first. You have to relax at this point, wait for a second and then try again.

Prostate toys, generally, have a larger end that tapers down. This makes you feel comfortable once it’s in. It might, however hurt a little while you are trying to get it in all the way. That is totally normal. If the pain is however becoming unbearable, you should consider stopping at that moment and trying again another time.

The Hands-Free Orgasm (HFO) Made Easy

Physical stimulation of the prostate is a much easier way to reach a hands-free orgasm and there are a number of devices that can be used. While getting a suitable prostate massager might seem intimidating at first, you can read our extensive reviews of the best prostate massagers or dive run into our prostate massager store. We have some amazing products that can be used in diverse ways for your HFO experience.

One such products is the Lelo Hugo Remote Control Prostate Massager which can make you reach orgasm effectively with its sleek and smooth form which is made bigger specifically to make you get the pleasure you desire. Not only that, but its bulged, curved tip that massages the P-spot is remote controlled allowing for hands-free pleasure.

The Nexus RevO 2 Prostate Massager with Revolving Head is another useful hands-free product. The RevO 2 has two shafts – one for the anus and the other for the perineum. You can also adjust the intensity of the stimulation as you wish. The Nexus Revo 2 delivers combined prostate and perineum stimulation, the likes of which you've possibly never experienced before. Most importantly, the RevO 2 features an independently rotating head that offers a deep, precise hands-free prostate massage for out-of-this-world orgasms.

Massagers like Aneros Helix Syn Male Prostate Stimulator and Lelo Bruno Vibrating Prostate Massager are shaped in such a way that the user can effectively “ride” them for a more tantalizing sensation. Possessing this product will not only improve your HFO game, it will change it entirely for the better with every usage.

The "Contract and Release" Method

In addition to using a motorized device, you can also use the “contract and release” method with a non-motorized massager. This involves flexing and releasing your pelvic floor muscles. It will feel like you are lifting your groin muscles. These are the same muscles that starts and stops your urinal flow. Keep doing the contracting and releasing for as long as you can. You can hold the contract for a few seconds, then slowly release. Endeavor to keep repeating this simple process while the massage is ongoing. Take a deep breath while contracting and then exhale slowly while releasing the contraction.

When you are doing this exercise, the rectal wall muscles are slightly drawing the toy in and out, causing it to bump against the prostate. The harder you contract, the harder it bumps. This is what creates the good feeling, thereby leading to climax.

The longer you keep at this, the closer you are to getting your prostate orgasm.

As a beginner, it might be difficult to keep at the exercise as your pelvic muscles are not yet trained for the activity. With practicing, however, you tend to improve over time. Remember, it takes a lot of practice to get off through prostate massaging.

The Aneros Helix Syn is a simply to user, non-motorized product that is perfect for the “contract and release” method.

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