The results of the Iowa caucus are still rolling in, after the results reporting turned into an omnishambles of tech malfunctions and phone queues. But the real winner is this precinct captain for the Pete Buttigieg campaign, who is seen here being incredibly patient with a caucus-goer who's somehow only just learned that Mayor Pete has a husband, and is not thrilled about it.

The woman is wearing a sticker and button supporting Amy Klobuchar, but appears to have caucused for Buttigieg. At the beginning of the video, she's just learned a new detail about the mayor of South Bend, Indiana, who was on the cover of TIME with his husband last year.

"Are you saying he has a same-sex partner? Are you kidding?" she asks incredulously.

"He's married to him, yes," says the Buttigieg campaigner.

"Well, I don't want anybody like that in the White House," declares the voter. "So can I have my card back?"

The caucus-goer has already cast her vote, and the campaigner is a little stumped as to whether it's even possible for her to have a redo. She's also understandably surprised that the woman has missed this detail of Buttigieg's bio.

"How come this has never been brought out before?" demands the voter.

"It's common knowledge."

"Well, I never heard it."

Both women say they're Christians, as does Buttigieg himself, and a familiar argument about "what the Bible says" ensues.

"I guess I would just like you to dig deep inside and think, like — should it matter if it's a woman or if it's a man, or if they're heterosexual or homosexual, if you believe in what they say?"

"It all just went right down the toilet, is where it all just went," replies the voter.

"I think we're just interpreting [the Bible] differently, and that's OK, because everybody gets to have their own beliefs," says the campaigner, putting her hand on the shoulder of the boy standing next to her. "But what I teach my son is that love is love, and we're all human beings."

No matter who you're backing this year, this patience and calm in the face of a fellow voter who's not quite on the same page is something that everyone will need to practice.