…I’m ready to play!

My daughter, Morgyn, is getting ready to start softball! This is a very exciting time for us. The weather is getting better here in Illinois, the temperatures are rising and it is time to be outdoors after a long winter of being cooped up on the sofa with the electronics. Morgyn has been playing softball for 6 years and it has been amazing to watch her learn and develop her skills.

Morgyn and I often talk about being a leader on field. Demonstrating leadership doesn’t require a title, an age, or permission. Morgyn has team spirit, a positive attitude, and cheers on her teammates. She sets a good example for others by showing up early, attending all games, and respecting her coaches. Most importantly, she has a great time!

In the past, Morgyn struggled with good sportsmanship. She was what you would call a sore loser. It is great to want to win, winning is fun, however, winning is not everything. As she has stuck with the sport she has discovered that sometimes you learn the most when you fail. Reflecting on your mistakes can help us do better next time.

When she first started pitching, she wasn’t very good and she wanted to give up. Many people saw potential in her and we all worked together to encourage her to keeping working hard. She was embarrassed when she didn’t do well and was very hard on herself when she cost the team the game. We are so thankful for the amazing coaches she had that continued to work with her and bring out the best in her.

As her skills improved, she was able to utilize her experience to help others. I love the cycle of the leadership most. Leaders aren’t meant to create follows, leaders are meant to create more leaders!