As they write in their book, "Mob Adjacent: A Family Memoir": "Once Michael and I started paying attention, the veneer that wrapped around our family fiction cracked, and there was no putting it back together. One day you're a kid learning to read; the next you're reading the newspaper, and there's an article about the man who came to dinner last week. Pictures, too. Yup, that's him. The newspaper said he'd been indicted for running a suburban gambling ring and was looking at five years in prison."