This is my first time asking here so here it goes:

My son is 12 and seems t be going down hill. He doesn't ever want to come to these conventions with me. He says he doesn't want to participate in anything furry because the kids at school laugh at him. Obviously I was insulted and grounded him. He did it just in time for christmas as well. I told him if he didn't dress up and come, I wouldn't give him his xbox for christmas. He has locked himself in his room. He thinks I'm not serious, but I am. He can wait until next year for his xbox and he is grounded until new year. Have I done the right thing?