Anonymous asked: I'm not telling you to lose weight. I'm telling you that if you do, you will look better. Just about any person does unless they go underweight. I also said you'd have more energy and something else. I'm not saying you look bad. I'm not telling you to do it. All I'm saying is that obesity should not be glorified. And if you are diagnosed as obese, you should try to do something about it. But it's your life, so, those are just suggestions. The fact is, obesity will never be a good thing. It's not

even fat acceptance/positivity, it’s a different level. That’s just the truth. Do what you want though. And if you have tried, then I’m sorry for assuming. You would shame anorexia yet glorify obesity? Obesity is no better. Both wreak havoc on the body and health. You have to find a middle ground. Or don’t. I don’t care. All I’m saying is don’t suggest to others to glorify obesity. It’s not a good thing. And not because I’m shallow, but because it’s the truth.

But if I don’t it;s gonna bug me.

-You ARE telling me to lose weight. Like you are, just accept that.

-I will not look better. I will look different. But I look fabulous now and I’d look fabulous at any size.

-Underweight folks look great too. My partner sitting right next to me is “underweight" and he’s fucking gorgeous.

-I have PLENTY of energy now trust me, but thanks for assuming you know that about me?

-You said I’d look better. In order to look better at a different size I would have to look worse at the size I am presently.

-I will continue to glorify my obesity.

-I will not try to do anything about it because it’s just the size I am.

-My fat acceptance and my obesity ARE different things. The latter is my size, the former is the emotionally positive way I feel about my size.

-Nothing you are saying is the truth, it’s your very offensive opinion.

-I have never shamed anorexia, but I have recovered from it and I try to help others recover from it.

-OBESITY AND ANOREXIA ARE DIFFERENT THINGS AND ONE CAN BE BOTH OBESE AND ANOREXIC. AND ONE IS A MENTAL ILLNESS AND ONE IS A SIZE AND I AM SO SO SICK OF SPELLING THIS OUT.

-You know nothing about my health or my body. My doctor does. I’m listening to her.

-You obviously care because you’ve sent like seven messages to me and you made a post in the fat acceptance tag saying petty much the same things.

-I will encourage others who want to to glorify their bodies/their size.

-You are shallow, you’re fatphobic, and you need to get the fuck of my blog with your ridiculousness.