Love is a gift. There are several types of love: one that you fall into; one that is dominated by passion; and one out of habit, among others. You have come to God, you have found your road to the church; in fact, it is the Lord who is the source of love.(Matthew 7:7). Today you don't notice how beautiful your partner is, and you don't love him or her because, in general, that person does not love anyone, too. Everyone is beautiful. Look at your partner not as you usually do but trying to discover his or her real beauty. Ask God to help you to love this person. And maybe you will see a totally different person. Maybe, if you notice his or her inner depth, you will be able to perceive him or her in a different light. You have Someone to pray to, Someone who has come to save man, Someone who has come to teach us to love. You need to have a dialogue with your partner. You need to try to understand him: what he lives for and how he lives. You can find in everyone something to pity them for. You can accept your partner as he is. Your effort will certainly come to fruition. God's blessing of your marriage is extremely important, too: through the grace of the Holy Spirit, the Sacrament of Matrimony gives a new feeling, helps to see things differently and perceive the beauty that you will have to struggle for throughout your life. However, if we spare ourselves and keep dreaming about people who would love us with zeal and passion, these dreams will prevent us from living in today, from the real life; they will isolate us from the people who are around us.