The "emotional trauma" shit needs to stop. It's just whining. So why would I address it or appease it? As for dealing with real emotional issues, people absolutely should. But you getting dumped by your girlfriend hardly qualifies as emotional trauma or emotional baggage.



I honestly believe you're trolling right now. You're not a wounded dog, or maybe you are. But some of us are fucking men, and when we are dealt a bad hand, we fold the cards, and we don't walk away from the table, swearing off the game altogether. By minimizing the time we spend crying, we get back to the best parts of life, the things that enrich our lives. And believe me, no one spends their final moments on their deathbed wishing that they had spent more time bitter and jaded. They wish that they had spent more time doing the things that they love with the people that they love. Is this seriously hard to grasp?



Call this for what it is: It's a support group for a bunch of guys that have been dumped by their girlfriends and wives, and they are looking for a group of guys who will commiserate about how evil women are with them. But like I was saying, by minimizing the amount of time we waste, we are free to devote more of it to the things that actually matter and make us happy. That's why I keep calling this tough love: I'm trying to push, shove, and drag you guys back into the real world so that you can start going after the things that actually matter. If you don't want to get married, fine. But closing off a portion of your life just because you're scared isn't a healthy way to live.

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