Thinking hurts your game.

It’s true.

A huge problem with most of my students, is that they try to “intellectualize” seduction, mostly in their verbal game. They need the perfect witty comeback, the best gambit.

Of course, every newbie should learn a method. Think of it like learning a guitar, or a sport. There’s a time to practice method, but your goal is to become “unconsciously competent,” because the real game isn’t a drill, and you will need to rely on experience more than theory.

And now for some intellectualizing.

Women are creatures of emotion, and logic. But their emotion will always trump their logic when it comes to attraction. You want to get to into a girl’s pants? It won’t be because of a witty intellectualism. It will be because you gave her a variety of emotions.

This is why they like bad boys over nice guys. Bad boys are naughty, dangerous, interesting. Nice guys are logical and boring. Bad boys know how to give women the emotions they crave like a crack head craves…crack.

Here are four emotions to spike attraction in women:

Humor

There’s a big difference between being funny, and being a clown. A clown is all about entertaining a crowd by belittling himself. Riding on a tiny bike, tripping over his own big feet. While clown game can spike attraction in women (think of the drunken baffoon standing on the bar with his shirt off singing hobbit songs) the truly funny man doesn’t try so hard. He just points out the obvious taboos that others are too polite to acknowledge. “Did you fart…again?” (Sniffing the air around the hot girl).

Awe

Remember the first time you saw something that blew your mind? For myself, it was my first trip to an air show. Wow, those F-18’s doing near mach 1 upside down flybys, Harrier jump jets, helicopters doing loop-de-loops. That shit blew my mind! If you can create a sense of awe in a girl, she will associate that feeling with being around you. This is what women imagine when reading books about flying in helicopters with rich sadomasochistic billionaires. Though, you can give them the same emotion by taking them to a remote beach, or even a great movie. (Movies are bad first dates unless they’re while spooning on a couch).

Fear

Fear, when combined with other more positive emotions, can be very, very seductive,. Think of a roller coaster, or a scary movie, or your s&m dungeon, taking a girl snowboarding, or rock climbing, or almost drowning in a river in Laos (a true story from my novel) will spike that attraction. “He just makes me feel so alive!” Some girl’s even like being choked while fucked, or tied up and spanked, because it creates a little bit of fear (Consensual of course).

Lust

Ever watch those clips of women swooning over a celeb like Ryan Gosling? Yes, women also feel lust, and possibly on a deeper level than men. This is one of the more advanced parts of game—creating lust in a woman. If you’re not in a cool band, or one of the most popular guys in your social circle, then you’ll have to resort to mastering game in order to create lust. You can start by going back in time, to before you were born, and altering your genetic code.

I jest. You can create a lot of lust by employing physical game; touching her in just the right ways, or dropping those subtle innuendos that get her dreaming of being in bed with you. “I’d love to fuck you in the alley, but I’m on probation.”

Emotions not Logic

The best seducers are those who know how to spike a girl’s emotions, through multiple channels, in a short amount of time. Take her from laughter, to awe, to fear, to lust, and she’ll be yours.

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