Whirlwind romances intoxicated with powerful emotions allure men into a sense of wonder and awe. For it’s that woman who represents a beacon of hope, that maybe you are worthy of being happy. That your time has come to finally reap the benefits of true love. After all the rejection, pain and bullshit you had to go through. But that it was all worth it just for this one moment that led you to meet this incredible woman staring back at you besottedly. She feels it too. Does she? She must. So you must embrace and entwine yourself into her, for you both are to drown yourself in a sea of codependency. It’s that comfort after all that you’ve been searching for your whole life. It has to be right? Everyone else talks about how precious and rare it is. And here you are. You’ve found it. You won.

Feeling sick yet? The mind is incredible at eliciting strong emotions. It’s a deadly form of hypnosis in which portrays the woman as a mirror reflection of your true desire. You know it’s a risk and yet you continue to ignore all the red flags. You’re drugged up on lust. You’re pair bonded and your logical mind is intoxicated. You’re an addict unable to grasp the error of your ways. Every MGTOW man has experienced this and I bet reading this it truly sickens you. But it strikes a chord with you because you too have suffered from the fabled ‘oneitis’. You’ve also probably come out the other end and found that after months or years of being with this woman, you were led down a dark twisted path that only ended up in tragedy. That tragedy being the total loss of your time and money.

All relationships have a price and yet some men laugh at the idea of paying for sex. The mere mention of paying for an escort is met with, “Oh I would never pay for sex! How sad! You’d have to be so desperate to do it.”

They mock any other man who would consider it but happily sit at a restaurant with their ‘significant other’ and buy her a three-course meal in hopes that maybe, just maybe, she’ll put out that night as a reward. As if there is some kind of subtle agreement that the sex is not transactional. Guilty of the very thing they mock. At least paying for an escort is a more honest approach and guaranteed to be the most proficient way of getting sex. In a relationship, you’re never guaranteed sex. There are too many frustrated men on the DeadBedrooms subreddit to know that truth. But men must be shamed for their sexual desire in a relationship and it is the woman that decides if sex is on the cards. First he must pay the price as must any man deep in a coma of codependency.

I’ve been that guy. It never starts out that way but eventually sex with your partner becomes a battle. First, the pussy is free and plentiful to lure you in. You fuck like rabbits. She gives incredible blowjobs. You start to believe that she’s a NAWALT. But then after a few months, she cuts you off. Now it’s apparent that the sex is transactional. You are rewarded with pussy if you please her and if you don’t do as she pleases you are punished by a withdrawal of sex.

The Red Pill teaches you that women are the gatekeepers of sex. They lure you in with what seems like genuine desire. It feeds your male ego and there’s nothing wrong with that. However, once you are committed and ‘the honeymoon phase’ has worn off, the sex becomes purely negotiated and transactional. This confuses you, and that’s natural. Confusion makes you easier to control. It’s common to find yourself 5 months into a relationship in what is known as a dead bedroom in which you try to communicate the lack of sex and negotiate for her desire. She then reveals to you that she’s just not that into sex. She might even shame you for being such a sex pest. The more you try and understand it, the more you just push her away. It only leads to resentment on her part and losing attraction.

“Chad doesn’t have to deal with that!” My fellow Red Pillers may say. Yes, Chad may ignite genuine desire within a woman. She might fuck his brains out endlessly for the first six months but even he must get with the program. He too has to pay. It’ll be subtle for him at first, she may complain that he never takes her out to dinner or she’ll try and negotiate for his commitment. Once Chad agrees to commit, the further down the rabbit hole he goes. Eventually, he ends up in the exact same boat as Billy Beta Bucks.

Women Are Chameleons

A woman is a blank canvas at the beginning of a relationship. They hold up a mirror to your desire and aspirations, they learn what you are about to become what you love. You really like spending time playing games? She loves games. You enjoy watching football? She’ll watch it with you. Women open themselves up to new experiences. You love having sex? She wants to fuck you all the time.

The PUA gurus would have you believe it’s because women need to feel a roller coaster of emotions to bond and for the most part, it is true but I think it’s because they want to win you over. They want your attention. They want to be your world. They need it and so they take on any form to get it. Why? Rihanna said it best, “Want you to make me feel like I’m the only girl in the world. Like I’m the only one that’s in command.” Women want power over you and to know they have you under their control excites them.

You cannot hate them for it. They do not necessarily act with malicious intent (though towards the end they can.) The feminine imperative compels women to seek power over you because it’s in their best interest to do so. To secure your resources in the form of your time and money. It is their primal instinct to ensure that they lock down Billy Beta Bucks so that her future is secured. The matriarchy encourages it just as much as they encourage hypergamy. The best way to ensure your commitment is to manipulate your desire so that you willingly accept the deal. The best way she does that is by offering up her pussy and becoming a chameleon.

Tradcon thots are notorious for appealing to men’s political interest. When most women appear to virtue signal leftist feminist bullshit, it’s the anti-feminist that stands out and gets applauded by right-leaning men. They create a powerful following of orbiters just by denouncing feminism and appealing to men’s logic. But they don’t do it out of the passion of politics, but out of the need for attention and resources. The need for you to sign up for her Patreon. The need for you to agree with any conservative drivel she comes up with to give her attention. The need for you to adore her. How is she any different than the feminist who tries to appeal to liberal men? She is not. AWALT.

Continued in Part 2….