It doesn't matter who The Bachelorette's Becca Kufrin hands her final rose to — America's heart has already been captured by "Venmo John," this season's unlikely heartthrob

It doesn’t matter who The Bachelorette‘s Becca Kufrin hands her final rose to — America’s heart has already been captured by “Venmo John,” this season’s unlikely heartthrob.

Like night-one castoff and regulation hottie “Grocery Store Joe,” John Graham didn’t quite win Kufrin’s affections, shocking viewers who appreciated his good looks, easy-going personality and steady job (he’s a software engineer who helped create millennials’ favorite money-sharing app, Venmo). Fitness models and social-media influencers promising sob stories and horseback rides into the sunset may come out on top in the Bachelor-verse, but in the real world, Graham’s exactly what women want. Even Chris Harrison called him “the most successful guy we’ve ever had on the show”!

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Hopefully, though, he meets his match on Bachelor in Paradise, which premieres next month.

“I was very excited about the opportunity for Paradise because it’s an opportunity to find love, and if it’s not working for me in San Francisco, why not try a crazy adventure in Paradise?” he tells PEOPLE.

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In the meantime, the 28-year-old has invested in a new app, Ense, dubbed “the Instagram of audio.” Users record voice memos that they can post publicly or send private to their friends, and PEOPLE conducted our entire interview with Graham through the platform.

“I just like to use Ense because it’s an easy way to share thoughts and to share audio clips,” he said. “What’s cool about Ense is that I can use it casually or in a slightly more professional setting like this. … What’s nice, too, is that it’s in real time, so that other folks can instantly listen and get involved if they want to and provide their thoughts.”