It's been more than two weeks since the "open secret" about Harvey Weinstein landed in The New York Times and then the New Yorker and then just about every media outlet in the country. Two exhausting weeks for women.

We've been publicly sharing our experiences of harassment or assault - some of us for the first time - using the #MeToo hashtag. Privately, we've been communicating with other women in our industries, comparing names of men to watch out for.

We've been having nightmares, wincing as we open Twitter, crying on each other's shoulders.

We've been texting our friends who are assault survivors to make sure they're OK, especially those we know who couldn't bring themselves to use the hashtag.