Wake up 8:00 – check text messages

• two girl friends text

• 5 guys, 3 of which she met last night have text asking “hey, what’s up”, “long time no talk” “you are so beautiful” and “we should go out soon”

• 2 missed calls but she doesn’t know the number

8:30 – check Facebook

• only 37 likes on last self bathroom picture

• 7 emails from guys saying, “hey, what’s up”, “long time no talk” “you are so beautiful” and “we should go out soon”

• 43 new pictures from friends. How did her picture get more likes than mine?

• awwww, mom said hi – hi mom

• hits like button 9 times

• comments on 3 post

9:10 – check Instagram

• 5 new followers

• slutty picture of her and three guys at the bar added

• 4 new messages saying “hey, what’s up”, “long time no talk” “you are so beautiful” and “we should go out soon”

• oh I want those boots/skirt/top/nails/ring/car/lipstick, etc.



9:45 – check email

• 152 new emails – 29 are notifications from social media sites

• one past due notice

• 47 are special shopping deals on boots/skirt/top/nails/ring/car/lipstick, etc

• 1 old ex boyfriend wrote to say “long time no talk – we should go out real soon” – ughhh why can’t he move on

• 3 emails from other guys including the 60 year old self proclaimed photographer that wants her to model for him – she can have the pictures free if she does

• 1 email from old boss saying “long time no talk – we should go out real soon”

10:20 – hits the shower to get ready for class

• hair – 37 minutes

• makeup – 22 minutes

• looking for clothes to wear – 49 minutes

• putting on shorts and tank top – 30 seconds

• 300 garments left around the room

12:08 – hungry but nothing to eat

12:09 – checks text messages, Facebook and Instagram

• 1 text from guy saying “why won’t you text back”

• 5 text from guys saying “hey, what’s up”, “long time no talk” “you are so beautiful” and “we should go out soon”

• Jenny wants to party tonight

• 9 new likes on slutty bar picture

• 3 new followers



12:10 – drinks a Redbull and eats 3 crackers

12:30 – makes math class

• 3 guys say “hey, what’s up”, “long time no talk” “you are so beautiful” and “we should go out soon”

• 1 guy keeps starring at her but when she looks at him he looks down

• professor keeps looking at her tits

1:25 – checks text messages, Facebook and Instagram

• 2 new guys text “hey, what’s up”, “long time no talk” “you are so beautiful” and “we should go out soon”

• Tracy got new boots – she wants new boots – mood ruined for 15 minutes

• 4 new likes on slutty bar picture

• takes self shot sitting in class, post to Facebook and Instagram “School is sooo boring – Margaritas tonight”

1:30 – Feminist Teacher Arrives

• Spends the next hour learning why all men are dogs, assholes, liars and rapist

• Natural conclusion – if we get rid of men life is better

• hates men – mood ruined for 45 minutes

2:25 – checks text messages, Facebook and Instagram

• 2 text from guys saying “why won’t you text back”

• 1 text from guy saying “hey, what’s up”, “long time no talk” “you are so beautiful” and “we should go out soon”

• 12 new likes on slutty bar picture – mood better

• 1 new follower

• only 5 new likes on self class picture with 3 comments of “hey, what’s up”, “long time no talk” “you are so beautiful” and “we should go out soon”

3:45 – gets ready for work

• hair – 14 minutes

• makeup – 10 minutes

• looking for clothes to wear – 22 minutes

• putting on shorts and tank top – 30 seconds

4:30 – makes work at local bar/tavern/restaurant

• checks Facebook, Instagram and Text messages 57 times

• 4 text from guys saying “why won’t you text back”

• 7 text from guys saying “hey, what’s up”, “long time no talk” “you are so beautiful” and “we should go out soon”

• 3 guys she gave her number to at work that night text saying “hey, what’s up”, “long time no talk” “you are so beautiful” and “we should go out soon”

• 14 new likes on slutty bar picture

• 3 new follower

• 7 new likes on self class picture with 3 comments of “hey, what’s up”, “long time no talk” “you are so beautiful” and “we should go out soon”

• 27 guys at work say “do you have a boyfriend”, “I would treat you better than him” “you are so beautiful” and “we should go out”

• 1 guy offers to take her to the lake on Saturday

• 2 guys offer to take her on a motorcycle trip on Sunday

• 1 guy offers to take her to dinner Friday night

• 3 guys offer to tip her very big if she will – pose for a photo/give her number/go out with them

• 2 guys want her to go to a party when she gets off work and smoke 420

• 1 guy offers her X

• 1 guy says to give him her number so he can get her NFL tickets

• 1 guy offers to let her drive his vette

• 1 manager pinches her ass

• 3 guys pinch her ass

• 7 guys touch her in a creepy way

• 27 guys try to hug her bye

• 2 waiters say “hey, what’s up”, “long time no talk” “you are so beautiful” and “we should go out soon”

• 1 other waitress is mad at her because she wore the same black high heels and it was supposed to be her turn – mood ruined for 15 minutes

• gives her number to 7 new guys – 5 so they would leave her alone and stop asking, 2 because they were cute – mood is better

• has her picture taken 31 times by customers and staff

10:30 gets off work – heads to club with friends

• checks Facebook, Instagram and Text messages 57 times

• takes 17 new pictures – post 1

• 1 text from guy saying “why won’t you text back”

• 7 text from guys saying “hey, what’s up”, “long time no talk” “you are so beautiful” and “we should go out soon”

• 2 new likes on slutty bar picture

• 3 new followers

• has 18 offers to buy her drinks

• accepts 5 offers because she was empty

• has to signal girlfriend to save her from creepy guy that bought the last drink and keeps saying he can “see his children in her eyes”

• 33 guys stare at her

• 21 guys approach her and say “do you have a boyfriend”, “I would treat you better than him” “you are so beautiful” and “we should go out”

• 1 guy offers to take her to the lake on Saturday

• 2 guys offer to take her on a motorcycle trip on Sunday

• 1 guy offers to take her to dinner Friday night

• 3 guys offer to tip her very big if she will – pose for a photo/give her number/go out with them

• 2 guys want her to go to a party when she gets off work and smoke 420

• 1 guy offers her X

• 1 guy says to give him her number so he can get her NFL tickets

• 1 guy offers to let her drive his vette

• 3 guys grab her ass

• gives her number to 7 new guys – 5 so they would leave her alone and stop asking, 2 because they were cute

Goes home and before she closes her sleepy eyes at 2 am she checks text messages, Facebook and Instagram

• two girl friends text

• 5 guys, 3 of which she met that night have text asking “hey, what’s up”, “it was nice meeting you” “you are so beautiful” and “we should go out soon”

• 2 missed calls but she doesn’t know the number



Many of you may think I am exaggerating, and you would be wrong. This is the reality of any 20 something girl that I know who is in college or has a job where she interacts with people in a social setting. This is the amount of male attention she gets every single day.

And this is good news and bad news. The bad news is if you aren’t overly confident, radiating raw masculine sexuality and creating attraction feelings in her, you become just one of the 100 men a day who feed her ego with little to nothing in return. She “likes” that you text her, and send her little jokes, tell her she is beautiful, and offer for her to do things. But she doesn’t fuck “likes.”

The good news is just by realizing this as her reality, you can now standout from the crowd. Do something different, in a good way. Challenge her, verbally spare with her, tell her no and give her those sexual tension feelings she wants.

Truth is, she wants to find a guy that has higher value than herself, someone to make her FEEL attraction and sexual tension. And with so many guys, day in and day out, telling her she is beautiful, hot, sexy wonderful and asking her out or for her number – over and over in every corner of her life: school, work, social media and social she becomes oblivious to it. She literally becomes immune and that type of attention doesn’t even register on her radar. You may think just asking for her number makes you stand out, but if you do it exactly like everyone else you aren’t even going to register in her conscious mind.

I know many guys do not have much confidence. It takes a lot of courage for the average man to even try some of this stuff. So I have one little easy task for you to try. The next time you go to eat and the sexy waitress takes you to a table and says, “How about this one?” Look her in the eye and say, “No (pause) I would rather have that one.”

You aren’t likely to see attraction, but you will likely see respect. That is how little a man says “no” to a girl in our society. Try it, let me know what you see.