

I'll be moderating comments, with special attention to deleting comments that seem pointlessly mean-spirited or that are obviously attempts to make up creepy or mean rumors about people.



One of the things I deeply value about the confessional is the opportunity to say hard things, but it's important to me that they be productive, so please refrain from mean comments without substance.



If there's a comment that seems primarily to be about character assassination, I also encourage everyone not to engage with it. Rise above it and don't feed the trolls! I will try to delete that sort of thing in a timely fashion, but of course I won't be watching the comments all day every day.



If there's any comment about YOU that you'd like me to remove, please email me so I can do so.



Remember that all those anonymous voices are people, some of whom you know and like, and all of whom are people like you.

Tell me a secret! Tell me a not-secret! Whisper sweet somethings in my comment box. Express your maddest crush or deepest curiosity! Expound upon the fabulousness of your friends or lovers or would-be friends or lovers! Or people you know or want to know. Do it anonymously or with your name attached; anonymous commenting is on and IP logging is off.You know you want to!The link to read most recent comments first: http://aroraborealis.livejournal.com/1005067.html?format=light&view=flat#comments