Jona70 Tue 12-Feb-19 09:20:18

Been with my partner for 4 years, we live together with my 2 teenage daughters and up to about 3 months ago have had a fantastic life (even with drama from ex wife etc..). So I paid him an unexpected visit while he was in work, just dropping off some goodies for him and his workmates, all of which he has always said are men! Whilst chatting outside a woman walked out and glared right at me, walking past and going to the building next door, when I asked who she was he just shrugged it off and said she worked in the office. In all the time we have been together he has never ever mentioned a woman working there. It’s only a small place so I know he would have had to interact with her most days. Anyway she then walked past again strutting her stuff and glared again!! It really made me feel uneasy and I’ve just not been able to stop being suspicious. I’ve since found out that she is a single parent and very flirty but my partner insists he has nothing to do with her! Things were going ok, just tried to ignore it but then I found viagra hidden in his jacket in his wardrobe while putting stuff away. I was gobsmacked to say the least and did confront him as we have never had a problem, we have a very healthy sex life. He claims he’s started to loose feeling and was taking them to get some sensation back, anyway he promised to go the doctors but never even attempted to make an appointment. Last week his wallet was on the top and I know I shouldn’t have but I checked and found his card from the chemist showing how often he’s getting this, he’s using them like vitamins? I just don’t know what to think. I’ve had so many doubts and arguments with him but he just clams up and says it’s personal. Maybe it’s just me but the woman in work and now the viagra, making me think something is goin on? Would really appreciate some honest advice.