It’s generally acknowledged that there aren’t really any decent-sounding, casual terms for female-assigned genitals. “Vagina” isn’t something you want to say in bed, “pussy” sounds silly and undignified, etc. Is this considered a form of sexism? It leaves people with these genitals with few positive ways to refer to their own body parts. The exception is, of course, the people who feel comfortable reclaiming the word cunt, but I feel that, if the only two ways to comfortably talk about your body are to either avoid specific mention of those parts (with words like “bits” and “down there”) or by taking a fairly radical stance by using a word that is generally considered extremely crude and developing a positive relationship with it despite that, then this says an enormous amount about how these parts are treated in general.

Mod note from T: I see what you mean. Slang for female-assigned genitals is generally not particularly appealing to the ear, and using vagina or such sounds really clinical and not-sexy. It’s a pretty subtle form of sexism, imo.