Focus solely on love.

There is a certain interplay of judgement that goes on in your relationships where you are weighing each other up, trying to figure out what the other wants from you or you from them. Let the play and judgement go, just be love. Love to yourself and love to them; let go of the games.

You will notice that some of these games are unconscious, they are roles that you just slide into because of habit. They may be unconscious games of one man-up ship, for some reason you may be feeling that you need to impress because you are feeling a little insecure in yourself or because the other one intimidates you by their `success`, or you imagine criticism coming your way and, as a result, retreat into defensiveness. Let it go. Just be love to yourself and love to them.

It is not helpful to try and figure out why these games arise. Do not try to decipher, decode or rationalize the behaviours of others. You will never really get to the bottom of it because the bottom of it is simply human conditioning. You have conditioned yourselves to think these ways because you have grown up in competitive societies where the survival of the fittest thinking still prevails.

So instead of just surviving, THRIVE in the simplicity of love. As you see the games arise, enjoy letting them go and just love. Love through yourself and outwards to all. Have deep compassion for the human conditioning and reach endlessly, joyously and continuously for ALL THE LOVE THAT YOU ARE.