I’m so fucking sick and tired of hearing shit in hetero media about how all gay guys have “perfect” bodies, work out constantly, and must obsess over thinness, as if there’s no WAY a fat guy can be gay. Shit like “straight thin but gay fat” and “you’re too fat to be gay.” I’ve heard this shit, personally, and it’s ridiculous. And if it’s not bad enough that straight people perpetuate this stereotype, we do it to ourselves as well. On dating websites meant for heavier gay men, you’ll see things like “no obese,” etc. There’s just no escaping it. Ugh.