When I'm invited to a wedding, I forget to send back the response card and the bride—or her pissed-off mother—usually has to call me twice to ask if I'm coming. When Barack and Michelle Obama are invited to a wedding, they not only RSVP on time, but they write a damn note on their own letterhead (chic) to the couple who, I should add, are presumable strangers.

Twitter user @96_brooke posted a tweet of the reply her mom, the bride, received from the former First Couple after inviting them to her wedding. “MY MOM DEADASS SENT THE OBAMAS A WEDDING INVITATION BACK IN MARCH AND JUST RECEIVED THIS IN THE MAIL. I'M HOLLERING," she wrote.

After seeing the tweet, I started wondering a few things about the former First Couple's preferred wedding behavior. Namely:

Would they get in line for chicken-margarita shooters during cocktail hour? Would they choose the Chateau Briand or the sea bass? Would they drink the signature cocktail or would they stick to top-shelf? Would they partake in the Viennese Table if one is present? Would they get more excited when the band plays "Twist and Shout," "Uptown Funk," or "Sweet Caroline"? Would Michelle gossip with the girls at her table if a cousin shows up wearing white?

Alas, I'll never know because the classy-as-fuq couple replied with this note:

Congratulations on your wedding. We hope that your marriage is blessed with love, laughter, and happiness and that your bond grows stronger with each passing year. This occasion marks the beginning of a lifelong partnership, and as you embark on this journey, know you have our very best for the many joys and adventures that lie ahead.

The Obamas have a history of being more polite than anyone you know and sending responses back to other couples who've invited them to their wedding—it happened in 2014 and again last year.

So far, more than 40,000 people have retweeted Brooke's tweet, and almost 200,000 have liked it.

Wanna invite B and M to your event? Here's the address she said her mom sent the invite to. Pro top: Include an insert with your registry, and maybe they'll send you an ice bucket.

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