'She left me because I'm bankrupt': Tila Tequila's baby daddy Thomas Paxton Whitaker reveals 'she's already dumped him'



Just days ago Tila Tequila's baby daddy was revealed to be struggling musician Thomas Paxton Whitaker.

But the expectant father has already been dumped by the former reality star due to his financial history, according to reports.



Whitaker filed for bankruptcy seven years ago and the 32-year-old star is said to have split with him because of it.



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New revelations: Tila Tequila is said to have already split with baby daddy Thomas Paxton Whitaker, pictured in her pregnancy announcement on Facebook on April 18

The struggling musician told RadarOnline: 'Even though I had nothing negative to say about Tila in my comment to you [last week] and the two of us are soon to share a child with one another, Tila and I are not together as a couple and we are no longer pursuing a relationship with each other.'



'She definitely isn’t living with me. I was trying to remain cordial without adding to her already notorious past,' the father-of-three explained, 'and now I am now experiencing the fallout from my generosity.'



Adding: 'Somehow because I went through hard times like a lot of other people when the economy took a decline, and had to file for bankruptcy, I’m somehow unsuitable to be connected to in a relationship.'

Financial woes: Struggling musician Whitaker, 42, says Tila dumped him because he filed for bankruptcy seven years ago



Whitaker went on to claim: 'If the media could only the hear the kinds of comments Miss Nguyen makes about them as individuals behind closed doors.



'I doubt she would ever get a drop of news coverage again for the rest of her days, but then Hollywood is a lot about deception and manipulation…isn’t it?'



Meanwhile, Tila shocked fans when she announced on April 18 that she's expecting her first child

- possibly even twins.



And after keeping mum - pun intended - on the identity of her baby daddy, RadarOnline exclusively discovered that the man in question was Whitaker, 42.



'We are all very happy about the arrival of a new edition to our family, and about the blessing of the birth of a child into the world,' he told Radar at the time.



'I'm already starting to get the "pregnant face" so early!' The petite Singaporean-born model joked that at 'barely even 5 ft tall how am I not going to just topple over soon?' in a selfie posted to Facebook on Monday

'Tila is right around 10 weeks into her pregnancy, and yes ma'am I am the father of her/our baby,' he added. 'Tila has a wonderful relationship with my daughters Sierra, Jenna and Brianna... and they love each other very much!'



The eloquently-spoken dad, who describes himself as 'an American songwriter, musician, rapper and music producer', touched on the subject of his partner's recent struggles in her personal life as he revealed his utter joy at seeing her come out the other side and finally realise her long-held dream

of being a mom.



'Tila has finally reached that place in her life which will define her as the person she truly is... a strong but fragile woman with a purpose in this world who deserves to be loved just as much as any of the rest of us,' he said.

The only possible spanner in the works in the road to happily ever after for the couple is the fact that Whitaker is reported to have filed for Chapter 7 bankruptcy in November 2007, according to Radar, while he has had three liens and judgements against him to the tune of $6,407.



The 32-year-old Singaporean-born bisexual model - real name Tila Nguyen - who rose to fame on MTV dating show A Shot At Love, has also opened up to Us Weekly about her journey to get to the happy and healthy place she is today.



'I truly feel that my baby has saved my life': The star took a break from social media as she focused on getting her life back on track in recent months, returning on April 16 just in time to share her thrilling news with fans, gushing, 'Surprise!! I'm 10 weeks pregnant! I just couldn't hold it in any longer'

Following the tragic death of fiancé Casey Johnson in 2010 due to diabetic ketoacidosis, the star attempted to take her own life, which resulted in her suffering a brain aneurysm, and subsequently led to a rehab stint in 2012.



She's now proud to report that she's enjoying her 'newfound happiness with sober living'.



'My side of the story has never been truly told over the past five years, as I have kept so much bottled inside of me,' she tells the publication of her decision to step away from the spotlight to focus on her wellbeing.

'It has been quite a painful journey for me, and I never thought I was going to make it out alive. So to be able to do a total 180 and finally be blessed with my first child gets me so emotional that I can barely even handle it.



'The only difference is that now these tears I cry are of joy, and no longer of sadness,' she adds.



The star credits her unborn child with saving her life, saying she feels 'finally healed' following 'so many traumatic years' as she excitedly looks to the future - which she hopes will include many more children to come.



'I truly feel that my baby has saved my life, and I will do whatever it takes to give my little baby the whole entire world! I know I'm going to cry so much when the baby is finally born later this year,' she gushes.



'I never knew such a love like this could exist, but I guess motherhood can truly change some people. I know it has definitely changed me, and I'm already thinking about having more,' she continues.



'I never knew such a love like this could exist, but I guess motherhood can truly change some people': The 32-year-old says of her unborn child, 'I just want my baby to be proud of me and to know how much I love him or her' - pictured here in April 2012

'I just want my baby to be proud of me and to know how much I love him or her. To love someone else unconditionally is one of the best feelings in the entire world, and I hope I will have plenty more pregnancies to come.'



The petite brunette took to Facebook to share her joyful news directly with fans last Friday, accompanied by a selfie in which her protruding belly is unmistakeable.



'Surprise!! I'm 10 weeks pregnant! I just couldn't hold it in any longer as this brings me so much joy and happiness to know that there is a baby Tila on the way!' she wrote.



'May God bless my little bundle of joy on this Good Friday! Yayy! I'm gonna be a Mommy! I Love you sooooo much little baby!!'



The photo, in which she appears to be showing much sooner than most at such an early stage of pregnancy, has led to speculation the couple could be expecting twins - something Tila herself also seems to think may be the case.



Claim to fame: The bubbly brunette model rose to fame on MTV dating show A Shot At Love, which ran for two seasons from 2007 to 2008

She added: 'Dear Baby, are there 2 of you in there? Some people think so! I guess we'll find out soon enough! You ARE pretty big though, baby! I love u!'



For his part, Thomas says he finds it 'very rewarding' to see just how happy his girlfriend is at the prospect of becoming a mother for the first time.



'There's a deep satisfaction which comes along with seeing someone reach that kind of a place within themselves,' he adds. 'Most especially for someone who has been waiting for that release in and from life, but has had yet to experience it. I get a lot of satisfaction out of seeing people make it to that point because many never do.'



On April 20, the mom-to-be penned a sweet and poignant letter to her unborn child, which she shared on Facebook, clearly over the moon to be embarking on this new and exciting chapter

in her life.



'Dear Baby, I used to write you letters like this all of the time,' she begins. 'I have waited so very long for you to come into my life, and I want you to remember that no matter what people out there say about us just know that you are a gift from God.



'It has been quite a painful journey for me, and I never thought I was going to make it out alive': Following her fiancé Casey Johnson's death in 2010 due to diabetic ketoacidosis, the star attempted to take her own life, which led to a rehab stint in 2012, though she is proud to say she's now living a 'sober life'

'You saved my life sweet baby! That is more than a miracle, and I love you so very much! Daddy loves you very much too! You are so very special, and never ever let anyone tell you otherwise! Always know this ok? You are my everything! Love Always, Mommy.'



She also took the opportunity to thank fans for their love and support while also apologising for her behaviour in the past, which she describes to Us Weekly as 'hurtful, embarrassing and sometimes erratic'.



'I am so very excited about the baby and I do also want to apologize to anyone that I have ever hurt in the past. I hope everyone knows that it was never my intention. What matters now though is that

I have changed, and have finally been able to forgive myself,' she writes.



'I hope that you can too and allow me to move on with my life. If not, then there is not much I can do about that, but my #1 priority these days is my health, and of course the baby! I'll be sharing with you all the baby's first sonogram soon! I'm just over the moon with all of this! I'm officially joining the new Mommy club! xox -Mama Tila.'

'I'm officially joining the new Mommy club!' The thrilled mom-to-be penned an open letter to her unborn child, which she posted to Facebook, as she and Thomas eagerly await the birth, writing, 'I love you so very much! Daddy loves you very much too!'