My stepson is three and his parents broke up before he was even two because she left him for another man that she said could support her better and that made more money. But she eventually wanted my husband back and has been playing little games for over two years.

She says that my stepson has been telling her that my husband beats him, that he's scared of his daddy and that he doesn't like coming over to our house. Funny thing is, when he gets in the car with my husband, he is happy, thrilled and can't wait to do fun things with daddy.

Last night, he told us that daddy was a bad man because he wouldn't buy his mommy a new car. Then he kept saying all night that daddy was bad and his mommy was good.

She's also told him that I hate him and will kill him when I get the chance, so he's scared of me also. He won't eat at our house, he disrespects me all the time and he won't mind me. He also bosses me around, such as, he'll get his dirty clothes and throw them on my lap and demand that I need to wash them and he's always telling me my house if filthy and nasty and I need to clean it, which isn't true at all. I am so tired of it, I don't know what to do. I try to ignore it the best I can but the older he gets, the worse his behavior because his mother encourages him to act up with us. One day, when my husband was picking him up, she bent down and told him that he didn't have to listen to me, my husband heard and they got into a fight.

Anything we can do? We have no court order for visitation, we are just at her mercy to be able to see my stepson.