wombleflump Fri 08-Sep-17 13:51:07

Sorry to post again. I am going on mat leave again. We are currently renting and as I wont be working DP wants to move nearer his work. I agreed. I said I wanted to spend less than 2k we are spending at the moment (half each). We live in London you don't get much. He wants to rent this house for 2200! I said no way. He is being nasty about it. Says I don't want to make him happy etc. I am selfish etc etc blah blah. We are supposed to be buying next year with my savings /deposit. We have different approaches to money ( I save he spends!). I see this as a waste. He says he needs the space so he can have his own room to escape to as will be stressed with baby. He is being really horrid. AIBU I am a high earner but will be on mat leave so huge drop and only want to go back part time with two DC. He wants to sell hp his business and live of the rent of his property. Am I being AIBU?