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To get a man to leave his wife, withhold sex from him until he leaves to show that you don’t want to be just his mistress. You can also avoid texting or calling him to put pressure on him to make the decision. While you’re waiting, spend time getting to know him on a personal level so he’ll fall in love with your personality as well as your body. Try to figure out what his wife is doing wrong, such as making the decisions for them both or not giving him enough credit. Then, try to give him what his wife doesn't to show him that he needs you. In the meantime, you can also date or hang out with other guys, which should make him jealous and want you even more. For more tips, including how to figure out why a man won’t leave his wife, read on!