It fucking terrifies me that one of my oldest friends, who is otherwise a sweet and reasonable person, cannot see that “but I would be uncomfortable with my boyfriend undressing in front of a woman he might find attractive” should not be a more important argument than “people should not be able to forbid their partners from using mixed-gender changing rooms” and “insisting on single-gender changing rooms depends on cisheteronormative thinking that marks queer people as predatory and tells nb people that they don’t exist”.

