Every couple of months a new casual dating app is being released. Their obvious popularity tells us something: people want short-term, noncommittal fun and mostly look for an adventure by means of mobile apps. It would be naive to think these men and women are all single. According to a study published by Match.com in 2015 about 45% of all married people in Germany have had an affair at least once. The general willingness to have an affair lies with 38% for men and 37% for women. Taking into account that not every one is willing to admit their little escapades, in reality the numbers are likely to be higher.

Being open for a sexual adventure does not necessarily mean the relationship in essence is all bad. Some facets might be unsatisfactory, such as the frequency of sex. Another reason people may look for pleasure elsewhere is a difference in sexual interests, the unwillingness of the other one to explore this or the fear of losing a partner when telling him or her about these unfulfilled desires. The increasing societal realisation that many of us cannot identify with a sexually monogamous lifestyle anymore plays a significant role here as well. As a result non-monogamous relationship constructs are booming. Still, it is not easy to open up a marriage or a relationship, for there is always the risk that the other one is not willing to give up his or her (s)exclusivity. Living out ones fantasies in secret can be an option to avoid painful conversations or an unwanted break up.

Leaving the question of morality for another time, let’s get back to the casual dating apps. We all know Tinder, Lovoo, Happn, Secret and the lot. Sweeping through profiles, liking and disliking them, receiving the same old uninspired messages… After a while it can get kind of boring, or? So how about combining playing a fun game with finding the perfect match for a naughty encounter of the flesh?

Fuck Marry Kill in its analoge form is a popular game among american teenagers in which a person gets 3 names and has to pick which one he would want to have sex with, which one he’d marry and which one, well… pulls the short straw so to speak. Now there is also an adult app called ‘F*ck Marry Kill‘, a social experiment game that works with the same principal. After having selected gender, age and location you get to see 3 profiles of complete strangers and have to choose with whom you’d want a one-night-stand, whom you’d marry and with whom you don’t want anything to do with. If the other person has put you in the same category (F*ck or Marry), you are able to contact one another and decide to meet. People being put in the ‘Kill’ category are not being suggested to you anymore.