I don’t believe anyone sets out in life to be mediocre, ordinary, or “common.” Deep down, we desire more than that, but all too often we give in to the weight of social obligations, others’ expectations, personal fears, and the allure of low hanging fruit.

It goes without saying that “settling” is the choice of least resistance and therefore, the path of the common folk. But despite the odds, there are always some who stand boldly in the face of life’s challenges and temptations. Not surprisingly, they achieve the extraordinary and become exceptional.

It’s not difficult, nor worthwhile, to list the ingredients of the common life. But it’s always beneficial to explore the anatomy of life’s inspirational anomalies. In a few short minutes, I came up with 53 different, but complimentary, factors of what I believe makes a remarkable person.

Among many things, being uncommon means…

Looking at the same things everyone else sees and thinking something different Seeking adventure over comfort and convenience Testing common assumptions Nurturing relentless curiosity Accepting responsibility Understanding that reality is shaped by our perception of it Keeping your word Constantly learning Noticing patterns Learning from losses Eating right Exiting your comfort zone regularly Understanding that direction trumps distance Seeking the unknown Being resourceful Understanding that failure is not trying Creating opportunity, not waiting for it Looking for value Adding value Asking, “Why?” Asking, “Why not?” Cultivating creativity Seeking input from your opposites Knowing what you stand for and what you don’t. And then taking the stand Letting go of the past to shape the future Candidly and regularly assessing your actions and results Knowing the difference between being busy and being productive Taking one additional step when others don’t Understanding that motivation is temporary, but purpose is enduring Asking for support Understanding that the best defense is often listening Appreciating victories, even the small ones Resisting the urge to do what is easy over what is right Choosing your battles Working smart trumps working hard (But still being prepared to bust your ass) Understanding that character is your best marketing Sharing your time with those you care about Embracing fear as a companion, not an enemy Caring for your body, mind, and spirit (yes, all three) Understanding that failure is a temporary event, not a trait Saving and giving money Traveling often Being yourself Beginning with the end in mind Thinking locally and globally Being immersed in the present, but vested in the future Giving spontaneous compliments and consistent support Creating something that outlives you Being able to laugh at yourself, before passing judgment Understanding that your beliefs precede our actions Listening to feedback, but following your intuition Caring (so much meaning in one word) And most importantly… taking action towards the things that matter most to you

And now the most important question…

What does being “uncommon” mean to you?

I sense this list could grow to be much, much longer. Add to it in the comments. I (and many other readers) would love to get your thoughts below.

Stay uncommon,

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