This week, we made full use of technology to reach around to Canada and speak to John Martinuk, who is no stranger to a bit of tech.

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He works for the app ‘3Somer’, which is designed to help people find threesomes.

We wanted to find out if it worked.

Well, we also wanted to find out some of the juicy ins and outs of how one would go about finding a threesome, how you would approach your partner, and just what have been John’s own perils and pitfalls when it comes to bringing people together.


Bibi Lynch: Do you think threesomes have become more popular?



John Martinuk: I don’t think it’s so much become more popular, as it is more accessible. When you think back to 20, 30 years ago that sort of thing was part and parcel of the old key swap parties and such.

With the internet gaining traction and everyone basically being online, instead of nervously asking or approaching somebody about assisting in spicing up your love life, it’s a lot easier to vet somebody by chatting with them online, and see what their personality is like before you continue.

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Miranda Kane: Do you have conversations with your partner about what you would or wouldn’t feel comfortable about?

John: Yeah, I think there’s that level about being open with your partner about exactly what you’re looking for.

It’s not to say ‘hey you’re not exactly doing it for me so I need somebody else’. It’s more of a ‘I want to kind of explore this side,’ or ‘why don’t we try something different and see how this goes?’

There’s always that level of excitement when you’re doing something that’s ‘taboo’.

For the full interview, listen above through Soundcloud or you can subscribe on iTunes.

Next week we’ll be talking fat sex and body positivity with Athena Mae, sex goddess from BBC’s ‘Too Fat For Love’.

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