You try to help, Larry Burton had said, right there in that magazine article. So how could that same standard not apply to the Burton men themselves? Didn't B.J. have an obligation to Trey, and shouldn't Larry have done what he could to make sure he fulfilled it? Maybe he did. Who can know? Trey is married and has three children, and he said he does everything he can to be nothing like his father, to meet and exceed his obligations as a parent. "The love I have for my kids, how involved I want to be," he said, "I don't think I would have appreciated it as much if I hadn't gone through that."