LittleCandle Sat 13-Jul-19 09:26:57

You poor girl! All this and at the worst possible time for you!



You need to go to your dad's once you have had DS seen. Your dad will also be remembering your mum at the moment, but I can assure you that he will want to help. He is probably already aware that things are not right with you and your DP and is sitting on his hands, biting his tongue, but ready to help. My DD was in a relationship with a guy I really despised, but I couldn't say a word until she realised that he was a cocklodger of the first water. When she asked for help, I was there and got her away from him.



Would it really be the end of the world if you moved back in with your dad temporarily? No. It will give you breathing space and time to think. Right now, it seems as though moving out is the wrong thing to do, but I suspect that if you have time to yourself, away from him, that you will come to feel as though a weight has been taken off your shoulders. You deserve better. Your DS deserves better.



Go and see your GP, too. All this happening at once means you might need a bit of help to get through it. No shame in that. We all need help sometimes. Allow others to help. I would come and help you if you lived near me, but I suspect you're in England and I'm in Scotland. But my offer is there.