farfirifirefly:

justsjwthings:

meeresbande: This should be obvious, but in a rape culture like this, it isn’t. If there’s a switch, that means you have to negotiate consent anew with a new person – if at all appropriate. this headmate shit needs to fucking stop before they start using their special snowflake syndromes to start sending innocent people to prison.

….This is false rape charges waiting to happen. And yet part of me wants to see this go to a court like one time, just so I could imagine the scenarios.





Judge: Alright, explain it to me again.

Girl: So my one headmate was totally about to have sex and gave consent, but then there was a switch and he didn’t get new permission!

Judge: But he did get permission initially?

Guy: All green, 5 by 5, take your pick. I got a nice clear go ahead.

Girl: OMG YOU RAPED MY HEADMATE THO!

Judge: Do you have multiple personality disorder, miss?

Girl: NO I DON’T, I HAVE HEADMATES, STOP SHAMING ME YOU FUCKING SHITLORD.

Judge: And just what is a headmate?

Girl: OH SO NOW I HAVE TO EDUCATE YOU?

Judge: No further questions. Defendant ruled not guilty on the grounds of bitches be crazy.