In this post I would like to talk about what has in the last few months truly inspired my mind to believe and understand that life is truly what we all make it.

We are responsible for all we are and do in life.

That’s right I will say it again it is your state of mind that can make you who you are or want it to be in the future.

That being said, I would like to touch briefly on the people that seek to take your power and energy away from you.

Recently my wife was speaking with a women as to helping her achieve her life’s goals and gaining confidence while doing so in her life goals.

My wife is the sweetest and most giving person I have ever met and she wears her heart on her sleeve. Many times giving of herself to others at the cost of her own time.

Now you may say I am judging her so kind because I am her husband. However that is further from the truth. It is that untamed heart and giving spirit that has drawn me to her.

Now that being said. Yes, as her husband I see many things others do not or will ever see or understand .

I see the things that most by speaking for the first time with my wife or seeing her will never take the time to learn or find in her.

However it is this above all that makes me see where my wife in many ways is truly a god given angle placed on the earth.

Because she has never thought harm or wished ill will to any who have tried to destroy that wonderful quality that makes her so loved by family and friends alike.

In the business we are in and have chosen for our life long desires.

It is a sad fact that many people we seek to mentor or guide will be at a point in life where they are uncomfortable with others or being told there is truly a better way to be successful or a new life.

These people are looking for the fight or catch that will cost them money time and above all work to achieve what many of these type people are hoping just falls in their laps. They are of the mind that if work or any kind of true effort is involved than they may not or would not be willing to invest in themselves.

It is this type of person that my wife was speaking to the other day.

The women was clearly not willing to see any faults of her own.

While seeing the faults in others so clearly.

In her responses she was seeking to destroy or rent space in my wife’s mind and take away my wife’s power by speaking negatively and things that really had nothing to do with the betterment of my wife’s life or the goals of our success in helping others.

It is for this reason that my wife straight away began her self talk and removed this negative person from her focus and vision.

It is one of the first things we learn in Mentoring for free.

Keep your thoughts on your dreams and goals, and keep them off of the things and people that cause you stress and negative emotions. This is not easy, but it’s very important.

By self talking my wife was able to maintain her adult response and keep her power of positive mind.

When others seek to destroy you or say you are not as good or able to achieve your desires and goals. Remember that it is how you respond to them that can either break your spirit and empower them or let what they speak out of their mouths to just be what it is, rubbish and negative energy vampire draining emotions.

Removing them straight away from your space and your light of the positive keeping your power and gaining more by understanding that you are ok just the way you are and it is none of your business as to what others think or speak of you as to what you think and understand of who you are yourself.

Preserve your emotional energy by staying calm and positive in difficult situations rather than allowing yourself to be upset or angry.

Be above the realm of the so called thinking patterns as to reactions hoped to have been gained by these type people.

Take ample time to rest completely so you can recharge your physical and emotional batteries. Well drinking lots of water to hydrate and refresh the mind and soul.

Before going on to the next person you seek to help or mentor too, so as not to carry on the weakened energy to them.

The better rested you are, the more effective you will be in your business and relationships with friends and prospective people really needing a helping hand.

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Mark Cowell