I’ve had an amazing week. Anyone who goes ball deep into the Matrix of approaching and dating beautiful women will relate to the hellish roller coaster of emotions that is running soul first towards romance. I’ll share a tip: As long as you’re single and playing the dating game, it will not get easier. There will always be rejection, flakes and heart break because ultimately, women have the power of choice. And I’m not whining. I’m sharing an idea that you can be more than a Pickup Artist; you can be a Life Artist. You can be a Philanthropist and a general badass, or an inspirational genius and true leader of men. No biggie. It will only take all of your life’s work and focus.

Power and Status

Women are attracted to power and status (stating the obvious). When a woman decides to date you it is because she see’s the potential in you to improve her life. whether you’re a handsome man she can enjoy looking at, or have big muscles she can squeeze to feel safe, or you have a sense of humour that makes her laugh so hard she squirts, or you wield mad social power she can brag to friends about.

If you want to attract and keep the hottest, smartest girls, you need to develop something other than just the ability to approach

If you meet an American girl on the street, she may think you are good looking and bold, but because you are only 20, and have old shoes, no car, and no job, no hobbies, interests or social circle: she may not date you. She will text with you until you become needy or boring. Then she will move on.

She might meet a not so handsome 32 year old. He hits her with his confidence and wit. He owns a nice car, and manages a team of financial consultants, he also does stand up comedy and plays in a popular funk band. She will most likely choose this guy. It just makes sense.

And you wonder, why won’t she text you back. Hot girls have dick on speed dial, poking out of the ethereal glory holes of her reality.

It is crucial that you develop not only your skills with approaching and seducing women, but your social status, skills, assets, knowledge, talents, resources, and social network.

When everyone is talking about you, she will definitely text you back. When you have great power, artistically, financially, or socially, you will need an unlisted number to ward off the hoards fighting for your love and time.

If She Googles You

In this great and modern era, Google can be your friend. If someone Googles your name, where do you appear? If you Google Anthony Newton, they find out about my job, which can be awesome, or horrible, depending on her. I’d hope that they realize this is how I pay my bills, wake up at 11am, and travel the world, and allow time to write my novels. It is very fulfilling.

In tribal communities a young man proves himself to his society by being a great hunter, a great shaman, or a great warrior. In a tribe of 200 it is not terribly difficult to prove your worth to society. But in the modern era where millions of people live in cities, the only way to prove your status and power is to achieve a level of fame, where you are recognized by thousands, or millions.

It’s because of this vacuum that many men fall into despair and depression, drugs and video games. They have no way to prove their worth. What does it matter if you’re the best mechanic, corporate lawyer, or disc golf champ if nobody knows? This is why we’re addicted to social media. It gives us the illusion of social power, presence, and respect. See the selfie of me skydiving? See me rock climbing? If only she would ask my about my life, she would know.

But she won’t ask. Not at first. That’s where cold approach skill comes in. You have to intrigue her enough with your charm, style, and confidence that she is so mesmerized that later that night she Googles you. Good life stories and wisdom help.

If global fame is too daunting a task, seek small fame. Find a group of like minded individuals, a collective of sorts, and assume a leadership role. Take every opportunity to be seen and heard. Stand up for what you believe in and reap the benefits of your new found respect.

If you don’t have any special skills or talents, or a social circle of like minded individuals, then you need to start learning something, anything, today. Right fucking now. That or go masturbate. Nothing wrong with a life of quiet solitude. It’s just not what this blog is about.

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