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While scrolling through my Instagram feed last night, I came across a major announcement from my former co-worker, Tiffany*. Apparently, just a few days into the New Year, she and her new husband decided that they would fly out to Vegas and elope. Curiosity got the best of me, so I clicked over to her profile to see who the lucky guy is. I was somewhat surprised to see that it was her longtime boyfriend, Harold*.





I wasn’t surprised because Harold is a bad guy or anything. From what I’ve gathered, he’s a cool dude who absolutely adores the son that they have together. But Tiffany has always had one particular complaint about him: he’s terrible in bed. Sure, sex isn’t everything, but it seemed that Harold’s bedroom issues were driving Tiffany crazy. During our time working together, she was quite vocal about how Harold fell short between the sheets and it made everyone uncomfortable.





Once, while on a company retreat, I overheard her repeatedly telling one of our married co-workers that her man wasn’t handling his business and that he didn’t know what to do with a chick like her. I could hear the nervousness in his voice as he let out an awkward chuckle. Clearly, he didn’t know how to respond to her comments.





“What’s good with your girl?” he pulled me aside and asked hours later. “She’s all up in my face, rubbing on my arm and telling me that her man ain’t handling his business. At first, I figured she has a twisted sense of humor, but now she keeps giving me the eye. She knows I’m married.”





“I don’t really know what to make of any of that,” I told him. “It sounds like she’s waiting for you to catch whatever she’s throwing at you. I’d maintain my distance if I were you.”





The drinks were flowing freely that night, so there’s a chance that she was a little tipsy. However, you know what they say about a drunk man speaking a sober mind. Also, this wasn’t the first time she complained about Harold’s shortcomings. Either way, this brings us to the serious question of the day: Would you marry a man who couldn’t please you sexually?