When I was 13, my boyfriend asked for sex. I declined, not wanting to do anything like that yet.

After he broke up with me (not long after explaining that to him no less) He began spreading rumours that I had let him do stuff to me.

When I was 15, I had a crush on this guy in school.

Now, 3 years after finishing highschool, I have found out that he spread rumours around school that I wrote him a note to give him a blow job after a lesson

No wonder I was called names.

Male privilege is when guys can spread false sexualized rumours about girls for self gratification, whilst tarnishing their reputation.