IS HE LEGIT? HOW TO TELL

We have all heard the stories of men posing to be sugar daddies, when they really have only debt to their name. Not all sugar daddies are who they appear to be, and it is important to flush out the phonies from the real sugar daddies. Here are a few ways to ensure that your potential sugar daddy is legitimate.

Actions speak louder than words: It is easy for any man to talk big, but do his actions back it up? If he only ever talks about all of his grand vacations in Italy, but he does not offer to take you there with him, chances are his only Italian experience is at the pizza parlor. Yes, he may always talk about how he is friends with Governor Schwarzenegger, but why is he not invited to the fundraising dinners? Make sure that all of his bold statements are backed up by actions.

Real estate really matters: There are thousands of men who drive fancy Mercedes Benzes, yet they live in a studio apartment. Do not let his shiny car lure you into thinking he’s a real sugar daddy. Even the most expensive cars can be leased for a mere $1000 a month, but that is a long shot away from being a millionaire. If the sugar daddy is not hitched, do your best to see his property. Real estate is hard to fake, and that is a great indicator of his value as a sugar daddy.

Generosity speaks volumes: There are two types of sugar daddies…the ones that got it, and the ones that don’t. The ones who have the ability to be a sugar daddy will lavish you with real gifts, such as fancy dinners, rent checks, Gucci shopping sprees, and chauffeured dates. The wannabe sugar daddies pretend to have the cash to spend, yet they frown when you order vintage wine, and they meticulously inspect the dinner bill. Steer clear of the penny pinchers, but instead find the real sugar daddies that have generosity to spend on you.

When you analyze the fundamentals of the situation, it is easy to sort the phonies from the real sugar daddies. Tangibles count, but words are worth nothing. Do not get swayed by a charismatic tongue that does not have the wallet to back it up. With these evaluations in mind, go out there and get your legit sugar daddy!

This excellent article comes to us from “Marrying a Sugar Daddy”, another helpful website:

http://www.marryingasugardaddy.com/2007/11/how-to-tell-if-your-sugar-daddy-is-legit/

WATCH OUT FOR THE #1 TACTIC OF A FAKE SD:

Never, ever, EVER agree to have sex with someone claiming to be a Sugar Daddy until you feel SAFE and comfortable doing so. NEVER let a guy convince you to have sex BEFORE he has provided an allowance. (Some of these losers want you to “audition” first and “if they like you enough,” they will “pay you later.” DON’T FALL FOR THIS SCAM!)

Just as in traditional dating, you may want to wait several dates with a man before agreeing to share your body with him. However long it takes…days, weeks, months…for YOU to feel comfortable sharing the most intimate part of yourself with someone, NEVER let a man pressure you into sex until you are READY. Just because he is providing you an allowance does NOT give him the right to demand sex now…or ever. That’s YOUR choice! The allowance he provides is only to help you with your expenses and to guarantee your availability to him when he wants to see you.

You are a SUGAR BABY, not a prostitute. NEVER let any man treat you like a hooker. A REAL Sugar Daddy will respect your choice to wait until the time is right for greater intimacy. If he can’t wait, he’s not legitimate. Give him the phone number of a local escort service and tell him he can find what he’s looking for there.

*Please be sure to read the “Personal Safety for Sugar Babes” page for tips on how to date safely in the SD world!

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