sausageandrashers Mon 04-Mar-19 11:07:35

OP this is so sad and I'm sorry you're going through this. As others have said, he isn't a very nice human for giving you an ultimatum like that and tbh i don't think I could stay and raise any kids with a man like that. As there have asked, would you manage without him? Do you have other support around? How old are your other kids?

If he wasn't willing to accept that pregnancy might be a consequence of sex then he shouldn't have been having any.

He can't force you to do anything and if you are pushed and feel you have to abort do you think you can have any form of relationship with him after it? From the way you are talking it sounds like a no.