Welcome to The Darkside

Welcome to Dominant Desires, a kink and BDSM education website created by me, Rajan Dominari, for those currently in the lifestyle and those who are new and/or curious about it.

I’ve been part of this lifestyle for a long time now, having been in and around the BDSM lifestyle for over 20 years now. I’m known in a lot of different communities, and have been considered a pretty solid source of information regarding relationships — Especially within the BDSM lifestyle. I try and educate people as best I can about things within this lifestyle, and believe me, people have loads of questions, all the time.

I started Dominant Desires back in 2011. Before then I used to write articles on a lot of other BDSM and kink websites. I initially created Dominant Desires as a way to voice my opinions on things I found problematic with BDSM. Fast forward a few years, and Dominant Desires has since grown into a (relatively) well-known BDSM education website, one that has reached readers all over the world who ask me loads of questions about things within this lifestyle. I stopped posting articles in 2019, choosing to focus more on my podcast, Dominant Desires: The Podcast, where I try to offer an informative, entertaining, and honest take on BDSM.

With all this said, if you’re looking for consultation, a mentor, a play partner, want me to speak at your next event, or as a guest on your podcast, feel free to reach out.