PipeTheFuckDown Sun 19-Aug-18 15:21:26

Donning my hard hat for this one.



ExH and I split 7 years ago. We’ve always coparented well, he pays child support and extras, sees them regularly, takes them on holidays, and helped out last year with after school care when I attended college. We have a DD10 and a DD7.



However. In the last 18 months it’s all got a bit bizarre, and things weren’t quite adding up, but only in the last week have things been revealed that make it all slot into place.



It started off with Flat Earth. Then Anti Vaxx. Then lizard people and the Illuminati, big pharma shills, how I don’t need my medication (Major Depressive, CPTSD, clinically anxiety - I really fucking do need it) That Autism etc don’t exist (me and our second DD going through diagnosis at the moment; suspected Aspergers) Dont trust Doctors, only eat raw vegan food as that fixes everything. Turns off my Google Home when he’s here because they’re listening. There’s no space, we live under a dome. There’s more but this is just a brief idea.



At first I just laughed it off, but he’s started getting our DC to watch these videos on YouTube and is going on and on and on. At present the DC are rolling their eyes (I’m a Biology student so they just think Daddy is a bit thick and doesn’t understand basic Science) but obviously I’m seriously concerned about this now.



It’s also been revealed that he is smoking a lot of weed. Hes single, worked for the same company (and been promoted many times) for 20 years, stable income, stable life, so I’m baffled by this bizarre behaviour.



I’m not entirely sure what to do. My gut tells me that I have to stop contact due to his drug use and the fact that it’s damaging his mental health. We’ve never been to court as we’ve never needed to but I’m not sure how else to protect DC from this, or where I’d stand legally on it.



AIBU?!