Hey boys, come here, listen

you know that little “ping” of annoyance you get when a woman says “men suck” or “men are horrible”? That ping that makes you jump in an exclaim “not all men!” Yeah, I get that too, totally understand. I used to get it when I’d hear POC say white people or when WOC criticize white feminists. I used to get that little ping and then you know what I’d do? Listen closely because this is gonna blow your mind. Ok, ya ready? Here’s the secret

I acknowledged why and then I ignored it because I am a grown up and I can realize that the oppressed hating or criticizing their oppressors is justified and necessary and that not everything is about me.

There ya go, now you know what to do when you get the ping. So how about you shut the fuck up mmmkay?