We literally say Love is like air,food,water etc etc.

Hope you guys know that these days a breakup is very common and can’t even guess one would have crossed how many boyfriend or girlfriend in life. Relationship are getting worse for many matters and sometime a next relationship is like a nightmare to many people .

Things to Know in Love before breakup

The killing thought that prevents you from loving someone by giving them a second chance in life comes with a great question.

“Am i his rebound girlfriend ???…..” “Am i her rebound boyfriend ???…..”

Trust me people this is the worst question to deal in a relationship for anyone. The other person even if they try hard again and again they will get fed up of proving themselves .

Now the second most root cause for breakup comes in the form of next set of questions . Huh, i should say this is more worse than the other .That devilish thing is a miscommunication .

“You see it’s not working between us , we need to break up .”

But why – “You don’t love me and i am fed up of loving you by putting great effort .”

Hope many of the readers have come across this lines in different ways but all together the sum up meaning will be same.

We will be fed up as you don’t understand what exactly the other person mean by the love and what kind of love they are looking for . Sometimes you will even go mad without a clue what more you have to make them understand you love them.

Are you going to google on tips to impress . Go ahead i don’t say that it is not worth reading , it will give you many ideas on how to love your partner in different ways . But our topic is focused on why we breakup for these two major things .

We need a change in our thoughts of love before we breakup and what is that is all we going to say.

So from the first line with which which i began i would like to change your thoughts of love before breakup .I was thinking that all these elements – food , water ,air are something which is necessary for survival or whatever we call it as ‘existence’.

Act of Purification and forget the form at first instance

Can we think about using these three elements when its impure . Suppose say you need a glass of water you would choose for clean .So as if love is one such element then why not make it “PURE”. Instead of that what we are expecting is it should be pure when we get it . Here some controversy may come like love is always pure and the person we love is not necessarily pure always . If there is no person there is no love like if there is no body where the soul can reside to make you alive.