I read your post about having sex with a radfem, and honestly I don’t view women as having to be submissive in bed or playing a role in pleasuring me and just me. In fact the opposite (I would much rather pleasure her). If theres one thing I love it’s a woman with character that doesn’t put on an act, a woman who I love for what she stands for, a woman that I admire for all the things she does with me and around me. A woman that I can spend time without limit and still enjoy being around. You said that entering the bedroom with a radfem would make you feel human because you aren’t forced to comply with your gender role, in layman’s terms you described what would be an absence of a gender role. I completely agree, sex is supposed to be an intimate thing, with out expectations or preconceived notions. It’s supposed to be a moment when love and respect is there, and any desires or physical features go un-judged (perhaps features are worshiped) and both partners have desire for each other and a moment of intimacy. But honestly if there was a word that equates what misogyny means to women for men your post would be accurately described by it. While I’m not disgusted, I am offended. I honestly don’t understand whats wrong with looking at pornography. Whats wrong with fantasy? All humans are lustful, it’s in our nature, it’s part of evolution. I know plenty of women who watch pornography. With out this luster I don’t think the population would be as high as 7.25 billion. Sexual pleasure isn’t the point of a relationship but at least be a human, and humans have imperfections.

From me:

Dude, what’s this? What’s wrong with fantasy? First off, I cannot read all those dude words, but beyond that, this is all you need to ask yourself:

If you and a woman are in the bedroom together and she gets out a big ole strap on and wants to do you up the butt with it EVERY time ya’ll have sex, and you will never, ever penetrate her, and there’s a chance that through her penetrating you, you will end up pregnant with a baby at which point she might leave you, would you be totes cool with that? I mean seriously, strap on + your butt every single time. You chill bro?