It’s not enough for you to BELIEVE in equality. You have to act it as well. So when a marginalized group talks about their life experiences, listen. Your first response should not be “(oppressive group) has problems too/why can’t we all get along/we all bleed red” etc. Because you’re not listening. I don’t care what you think the world should be like, ideology is not the same as reality. And if all you wanna do is spout this almost sanctimonious bs about what your ideal world should be like, rather than actually acting upon those principles, then you’re not really for equality at all.

You’re a wolf in sheep’s clothing.