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Member Back to Top Post by docfriend on It's time to collect info on you delicious guinea pigs cool forum people! This time, the theme is (if you haven't read this thread's title yet), "How far should a yandere go?" I've set up a few questions for you to answer, please answer them with complete honesty. You wouldn't lie to me, would you?



In an effort to keep things organized, I'll highlight the questions for yandere-types in red, and question for yandere-victims (or, in some cases, submissive yanderes) in blue. You do not have to answer all of the questions, and you are more than welcome to answer both types of questions, since I know there are some people out there looking for that sweet, sweet double-yandere love.





With that brief introduction out of the way, here are your questions:



Would you ever harm your crush? If so, what circumstances would cause you to do so?



Would you ever take your crush's life? If so, what circumstances would cause you to do so?



Is blackmailing your crush out of the question? Why?



How far would you take your advances on your crush before beginning a true (read:consensual) relationship with them?



If your crush was already in a relationship, what would you do?



What would you do to keep your crush in check?



Would you give your lover permission to harm you? Why?



If your lover were to threaten you, how would you calm them down?



Would you be willing to cut off contact from the rest of society (yes, even the internet), if it meant living peacefully with your lover?



Given the choice, would you prefer a violent or a tame yandere? Why?



Does a Stockholm Syndrome relationship count as consensual?



What circumstances would make you consider breaking up with a yandere?



That's all the questions I have, for now. Have fun!

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Member Back to Top Post by Deleted on I don't have a crush at the moment, but I'll answer the dom-yandere questions.



Would you ever harm your crush? If so, what circumstances would cause you to do so?



I'm a sadist. I'll hurt her if she likes it (<3 masochists), but even normal cuddling is going to hurt a little. I'll stop short of anything permanently damaging to her body. I want her to remain whole and precious as my beloved in my grasp.



Would you ever take your crush's life? If so, what circumstances would cause you to do so?



No. Never. I'd end anyone who tried to hurt her (except me, and even that's a reflection of my love). But I'll try to do it in the most painless way possible, since I wouldn't want to be cheating on her.



Is blackmailing your crush out of the question? Why?



Blackmail is wretched and unnecessary. I don't want to cause suffering, but pain. I would rather make people happy than abuse them, and people treat me like I'm a wonderful person even though I'm almost a sociopath. Granted, I never do anything bad to anyone and even though I don't care about them, I always treat people with kindness. Happy people don't need lies to be manipulated.



Then again, if I had a crush, she'd need to be a self-sacrificing yandere for it to even work. Although I go on about her being good enough for me, she'd have to be the sort that has really low self-esteem for me to be interested to begin with. If she got better, I'd still love her though. I think I went on a tangent, but blackmail will never be necessary with me.



How far would you take your advances on your crush before beginning a true (read:consensual) relationship with them?



I'd be sweet and polite. Once I suspect that they're a masochist, I'd drop hints that I'm an S. If I figured out that they weren't, I wouldn't be interested. I expect a certain quality and compatibility with my crushes, and as a sort of yan-kami-dere hybrid, I'll lose interest if she isn't the type to devote herself to me.



If your crush was already in a relationship, what would you do?



They aren't good enough for me if they're satisfied with someone else.



What would you do to keep your crush in check?





Well... ropes and so on? I doubt she'd need to be kept in check if she's my ideal.

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Member Back to Top Post by magic9mushroom on docfriend said: Would you ever harm your crush? If so, what circumstances would cause you to do so?

Things would have to go pretty far downhill for that to be a possibility. We're talking "haha I stole all your money and am making false rape accusations and I never even liked you in the first place" sort of thing.

Would you ever take your crush's life? If so, what circumstances would cause you to do so?

If they were terminally ill or something, and asked me to, I would. Otherwise, see above.

Is blackmailing your crush out of the question? Why?

Technically I can't really say "yes" to this. A few years back, when I phoned my (then-)crush and one of his relatives said he was busy, I pointed out to her that I'd spent the night in hospital on essentially suicide watch. She caved. I don't think I'd do that to force my crush to stay with me, though.

How far would you take your advances on your crush before beginning a true (read:consensual) relationship with them?

Well, if someone doesn't like me or talk to me I'm rather unlikely to lock on in the first place. I'm a very blunt person; I tend to confess as soon as I know I'm in love.

If your crush was already in a relationship, what would you do?

Judging from past experience, go and cry a lot and then give up.

What would you do to keep your crush in check?

What am I supposed to be keeping in check?

Would you give your lover permission to harm you? Why?

Depends on situation. BDSM isn't really my thing, but I'd go along with most things that wouldn't cause permanent damage if they were really into it.

If your lover were to threaten you, how would you calm them down?

Depends on what they're trying to get me to do. If it's something I'd be willing to do without the threat, I'd point this out and then probably do it.

If it's something I wouldn't be willing to do (or can't do), then things get a little more complicated depending on the nature of the threat (physical threat to me, physical threat to others, social threat to me, social threat to others), the degree and fairness of the threat ("I'll break up with you" vs. "I'll ruin your life") and in some cases whether I think I could rush them.

Would you be willing to cut off contact from the rest of society (yes, even the internet), if it meant living peacefully with your lover?

Hmm. Probably.

Given the choice, would you prefer a violent or a tame yandere? Why?

Non-dangerous > Physically dangerous > Psychologically dangerous.

Does a Stockholm Syndrome relationship count as consensual?

Depends on how Stockholm it is and if there are extenuating circumstances.

What circumstances would make you consider breaking up with a yandere?

Finding out they've been lying to me about something important. Fear for safety. Not much else. Things would have to go pretty far downhill for that to be a possibility. We're talking "haha I stole all your money and am making false rape accusations and I never even liked you in the first place" sort of thing.If they were terminally ill or something, and asked me to, I would. Otherwise, see above.Technically I can't really say "yes" to this. A few years back, when I phoned my (then-)crush and one of his relatives said he was busy, I pointed out to her that I'd spent the night in hospital on essentially suicide watch. She caved. I don't think I'd do that to force my crush to stay with me, though.Well, if someone doesn't like me or talk to me I'm rather unlikely to lock on in the first place. I'm a very blunt person; I tend to confess as soon as I know I'm in love.Judging from past experience, go and cry a lot and then give up.What am I supposed to be keeping in check?Depends on situation. BDSM isn't really my thing, but I'd go along with most things that wouldn't cause permanent damage if they were really into it.Depends on what they're trying to get me to do. If it's something I'd be willing to do without the threat, I'd point this out and then probably do it.If it's something I wouldn't be willing to do (or can't do), then things get a little more complicated depending on the nature of the threat (physical threat to me, physical threat to others, social threat to me, social threat to others), the degree and fairness of the threat ("I'll break up with you" vs. "I'll ruin your life") and in some cases whether I think I could rush them.Hmm. Probably.Non-dangerous > Physically dangerous > Psychologically dangerous.Depends on how Stockholm it is and if there are extenuating circumstances.Finding out they've been lying to me about something important. Fear for safety. Not much else.

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Member Back to Top Post by Vali on Would you ever harm your crush? If so, what circumstances would cause you to do so?

Only in the most extreme circumstances, as in they would possibly die if I didn't. Even then if there appeared to be a chance that an option where I was harmed instead was possible I'd rather go with that.



Would you ever take your crush's life? If so, what circumstances would cause you to do so?

There is not a visible scenario that comes to mind where I'd be willing to do this.



Is blackmailing your crush out of the question? Why?

I'd prefer not to, but if they were perhaps about to engage in something that may endanger them it would be an acceptable means to an end.



How far would you take your advances on your crush before beginning a true (read:consensual) relationship with them?

Until I'm sure of their acceptance I wouldn't do anything.



If your crush was already in a relationship, what would you do?

Remove my feelings for them. If I were to try to talk them out of their relationship, then who's to say someone else couldn't do the same when I'm with them. Meaning if I talked them out of it something negative could happen later on.



What would you do to keep your crush in check?

Know everything about them to the point of knowing what they would do in most circumstances. By this point I'm only likely to accept another yandere as a partner though, so in this case both of us would only be interested in one-another and that kind of keeps things in check by itself.



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Member Back to Top Post by Deleted on Would you ever harm your crush? If so, what circumstances would cause you to do so?



Not unless completely necessary (i.e. "harm her or she dies" or something).



Would you ever take your crush's life? If so, what circumstances would cause you to do so?



Never. There'd be no point if she's dead, and I'd have no choice but suicide.



Is blackmailing your crush out of the question? Why?



Depends. If there's any other, more humane, way, I'd definitely choose that route instead. If it's absolutely necessary, then I guess I'd have to.



How far would you take your advances on your crush before beginning a true (read:consensual) relationship with them?



Hm... not quite sure what this question is asking... I don't want to force anything.



If your crush was already in a relationship, what would you do?



Since she's a yandere, this would be very difficult. But I'd find a way.



What would you do to keep your crush in check?



Once again, I don't want to force anything. I mean... we're on the same side. So, thus, I'm not out to keep her "in check", but rather build and maintain the relationship between us.

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Member Back to Top Post by jenny on Submissive yandere here, so i'll just go ahead and fill out the yandere victim questionerre

Would you give your lover permission to harm you? Why? No. N O. I'm not into the whole fifty shades of grey crap. I mean I let a lover harm me once, and ever since then I've just been soooo straight up no. No offense to anyone who does like this kind of thing, I just personally wouldn't do it.



If your lover were to threaten you, how would you calm them down?



I'm assuming my lover is a yandere here, and if that's the case, a nice long cool down hug with cuddling <3

Would you be willing to cut off contact from the rest of society (yes, even the internet), if it meant living peacefully with your lover?

o.o y you want me to give up the interweb? I really don't think I could do that, I have too many forum rp's and stuff that just, I really couldn't, yandere fury be damned xD



Given the choice, would you prefer a violent or a tame yandere? Why?

Define violent? >.> I like my yandere's violently possessive of me, I like feeling that intense love, but if by violent you mean physically violent, refer to answer 1.



Does a Stockholm Syndrome relationship count as consensual?

Technically yes imho. Regaurdless of the psychology involved, and the fact the victims are often doing it to save their lives, it IS a conscious and consentual decision on the part of the victim to try and bond with their captor, at least that's what I think, if I'm wrong then sorry if my ignorance offends someone ^///^



What circumstances would make you consider breaking up with a yandere?

.....if I was suicidal maybe? I mean seriously, the risk of dying after a yandere breakup are high, and honestly, I enjoy the intense love of a yandere, so if I ever got that (male or female) I'd probably never let them go and love them equally in return.



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Member Back to Top Post by Eirin on Would you ever harm your crush? If so, what circumstances would cause you to do so?

Yes, ranging from firm loving swats with a riding crop, to breaking their legs for relentless, disgusting disloyal, behavior. Thats something I really don't want to end up doing.

I once caught the person I loved in the past lying to me about so many things, for a long time, so I had their crotch branded with my name on it. (maybe that should've been in one of those "most yandere thing you ever did" topics) I admit, it made me very sad that I did something like that to them, but I feel guilty of enjoying it too.

So double yes, I'd do it with love all the way to pure heartbroken yandere levels.



Would you ever take your crush's life? If so, what circumstances would cause you to do so?

Yes, if they keep pushing me to do it. Most likely, I'd do it out of extreme stress if I couldn't keep them. But if they want to leave me without dieing, they need to do it quickly without playing games with me.



Is blackmailing your crush out of the question? Why?

No, some people just don't listen to reason, and the best way to keep them safe is to give them more incentive to behave. Sometimes, it's the only way to keep somebody from doing something stupid without hog tieing them down on a table.



How far would you take your advances on your crush before beginning a true (read:consensual) relationship with them?

The moment I sense they have a weakness for me. They'll be all mine for sure~



If your crush was already in a relationship, what would you do?

I could sit back and wait to strike, then join in, take them away with my charms and then give them some time to say their goodbyes, and then make them break it off. Or else.

If all else fails, there is the weapon of seductive, sweet words, remaining calm, and causing their relationship to eventually fall apart. If I'm certain this crush is the only one for me, the person they're with is going to leave through any means necessary by my will.



What would you do to keep your crush in check?

The usual, stalking, asking questions, and talking with them, and reminding them that I will always figure out if their lying, and even prove that they will never be able to get away with anything. Making it known and deeply established that I'm a lot smarter then they'd be giving me credit for if they thought I won't notice even the slightest thing.



Would you give your lover permission to harm you? Why?

Of course, I'm a bit of a masochist myself. I'm definately not perfect, and may hurt my lover unintentionally, in which case I would give them my permission specifically only if it made them feel better.



If your lover were to threaten you, how would you calm them down?

I'd hold a finger to their lips, tell them to calm down and be quiet, stroke their hair, and kiss them passionately and deeply on their lips to assure they're still my entire universe, and if it takes more then that; Nothing is more reassuring then leading them into passionate sex till they can't even remember being sad or angry. I'd make sure them being upset at me again would be very unlikely. Whatever issue they had with me previously probably wouldn't happen again, I'd learn from it and make sure they're far too satisfied with me to give me problems.



Would you be willing to cut off contact from the rest of society (yes, even the internet), if it meant living peacefully with your lover?

I've done so in the past. I see no reason not too.



Given the choice, would you prefer a violent or a tame yandere? Why?

Both are wonderful, but tame is more reasonable. If she is going to do something violent and impulsive, I rather she be tame enough to consult me about it first, so we can do it together as a team. I'd really hate it if she got hurt or arrested or made a mistake, all alone. It'd make me very sad.



Does a Stockholm Syndrome relationship count as consensual?

I'm quite sure it is even though most people wouldn't see it that way. >.>

In the end, they are giving their consent willfully.



What circumstances would make you consider breaking up with a yandere?

There isn't one. I wouldn't even let death part me from them. The whole idea of breaking up with a dedicated, loving, loyal, yandere seems pointlessly stupid to me. Somebody like that holds lots of value.

Or rather IS invaluable. Pricelessly so.

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Member Back to Top Post by ThereIsNo4thWall on I'm not so sure how much I apply to either, but I answered both!



Would you ever harm your crush? If so, what circumstances would cause you to do so?



I really don't think there's any situation that would make me physically confrontational aside from them actively threatening the lives of my siblings or something equally rude/dangerous. I mean if I caught them cheating on me or something, I'd be very upset, but probably still just focus on making an immediate and efficient peaceful breakup.



Would you ever take your crush's life? If so, what circumstances would cause you to do so?



Same as before, wouldn't ever unless they were about to seriously harm someone I cared about and it was the only way to stop them.



Is blackmailing your crush out of the question? Why?



Yeah, I don't know how I'd feel about blackmailing potential rivals, but I feel if I had to blackmail my crush into being with me, then it wouldn't work out anyway.



How far would you take your advances on your crush before beginning a true (read:consensual) relationship with them?



Heh, I'd probably stalk them just a bit (change my routes to match theirs as much as reasonably possible) and eavesdrop on as many conversations they're having as possible to learn more about them. Also I'd likely stalk the heck out of them on all social media/internet stuff, but that's probably all I'd do before trying to just ask them out.



If your crush was already in a relationship, what would you do?



Nothing, probably continue trying to befriend them because I assume I'd want to be their friend regardless of if I actually get to date them, but I wouldn't do anything to actually interfere with their relationship.



What would you do to keep your crush in check?



Don't think I'd do much of anything. I'd still be pretty clingy (maybe less subtle with all my route changing and eavesdropping) though that would just be to spend time with them, not to keep them in check.



Would you give your lover permission to harm you? Why?



Eeeehhhh probably not. I really don't like pain, and would get pretty upset if they did more than a playful punch to the arm.



If your lover were to threaten you, how would you calm them down?



Calmly apologize and explain myself while telling them how much I care about them and hopefully pulling them into a cooldown hug.



Would you be willing to cut off contact from the rest of society (yes, even the internet), if it meant living peacefully with your lover?



Possibly... I mean, I'd really prefer to stay in contact with my best friend and my younger siblings... I think I'd definitely be willing to cut a lot out of my social life at their request, but I'm not sure about everything.



Given the choice, would you prefer a violent or a tame yandere? Why?



Heh, I think I'd prefer tame, but honestly I find myself crushing very hard when they're in terrifying violent yandere mode. I don't know why, it's just... very attractive....



Does a Stockholm Syndrome relationship count as consensual?



Maybe? I really don't think I know enough to make an informed decision, but if the "captive" is willingly letting themselves be as such without the "captor" actively threatening them, then I think it's fine.



What circumstances would make you consider breaking up with a yandere?



Being excessively violent towards me (like I said, I'd prefer not to be harmed, so if they kept doing it after I expressed my desire for it to stop, I'd probably get a little stern with them), and being rude towards my best friend or little sister (I mean you can say you don't want me to see them often, but at least be kind to them when they're around). If they severely harmed my best friend or my little sister however, I'd probably do a bit more than merely break up with them.

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Member Back to Top Post by clyvette on Would you give your lover permission to harm you? Why?



No. NOPE. if he does love me, then he won't hurt me.



If your lover were to threaten you, how would you calm them down?



I will calmly explain what's really happening, while telling them to calm down, because violence or threatening didn't help to solve the problem. AT ALL.



Would you be willing to cut off contact from the rest of society (yes, even the internet), if it meant living peacefully with your lover?



I don't mind the rest of society ones... but srsly, NO INTERNET?! that's crazy! how can I post my fanfictions and vent all of my frustation through mangas and animes??!! so... not really.





Given the choice, would you prefer a violent or a tame yandere? Why?



uh... I prefer violent type. no offense, but I found that those kind of yanderes are interesting and funny.



Does a Stockholm Syndrome relationship count as consensual?



if they really love each other, then yes. it's consensual.



What circumstances would make you consider breaking up with a yandere?



when they're already gone too far, like for example harming me or doing something else that's already... ugh, too sick. therefore, it's YANDERE we're talking about, so I'll reconsider breaking up with him.

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Member Back to Top Post by aventurine on Would you ever harm your crush? If so, what circumstances would cause you to do so?



Unless it was medically necessary (let's face it, cleaning out wounds and the like can hurt) it'd have to be an accident. Either way I'd be apologizing profusely.



Would you ever take your crush's life? If so, what circumstances would cause you to do so?



No. Why would I want to kill the person I love most?



Is blackmailing your crush out of the question? Why?



Completely. Love isn't build on lies and coercion.



How far would you take your advances on your crush before beginning a true (read:consensual) relationship with them?



Since I don't really start to crush on someone until I know them, friendship.



If your crush was already in a relationship, what would you do?



Be disappointed and move on. If they're happy then I'll accept it.



What would you do to keep your crush in check?



By continuing to improve myself and give them all the love and attention they desire.





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Member Back to Top Post by lovenata on Apparently, I am a Yandere, so I guess I should answer.

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Would you ever harm your crush? If so, what circumstances would cause you to do so? No. Never. He is special, I want to protect him, not hurt him.



Would you ever take your crush's life? If so, what circumstances would cause you to do so? Absolutely not! Unless he asked me to for some reason, like if he was dying in pain.



Is blackmailing your crush out of the question? Why? Of course. If he doesn't truly love me, then there is no point to anything.



How far would you take your advances on your crush before beginning a true (read:consensual) relationship with them? As far as possible. I would follow, observe, photograph, flirt with and invite out my love. Got to spend my time winning him over.



If your crush was already in a relationship, what would you do? Everything I could to turn their attention to me. Anything necessary.



What would you do to keep your crush in check?

'In check'? I follow him, observe his activities to make sure he loves me. If not? I give him all my love, improve myself, seduce him. And if that still doesn't work, he must have someone else. Who I must find and somehow divert his attention from.



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Member Back to Top Post by ~✿♡Bouquet♡✿~ on Would you ever harm your crush? If so, what circumstances would cause you to do so?

I could never hurt my crush unless they asked for it for a good reason.





Would you ever take your crush's life? If so, what circumstances would cause you to do so?

Same as above, I couldn't unless I they had a good reason.





Is blackmailing your crush out of the question? Why?

I don't need blackmailing to get the people I want.





How far would you take your advances on your crush before beginning a true (read:consensual) relationship with them?

I'd stick close to them and when the time feels right I'd confess, of course you need alot of charm to do that : 3 But I'm pretty lucky when it comes to charm.





If your crush was already in a relationship, what would you do?

Become good friends with the person I'm crushing on and wait intill the right moment comes.





What would you do to keep your crush in check?

Talk to them, I don't date people who aren't honest.





Would you give your lover permission to harm you? Why?

Yes, if some type of situation comes where it's either me or my lover I want them to kill me.





If your lover were to threaten you, how would you calm them down?

We'd break up, I don't like abusive relationships.





Would you be willing to cut off contact from the rest of society (yes, even the internet), if it meant living peacefully with your lover?

Yes, as nice as people are as long as I can check in on my family I really don't need anything else.





Given the choice, would you prefer a violent or a tame yandere? Why?

Tame obviously, people who have to use violence to get their way is no better than anyone else.





Does a Stockholm Syndrome relationship count as consensual?

Yes, but it would be boring if you had nothing to do with your lover.







What circumstances would make you consider breaking up with a yandere?

I don't like abuse whatsoever, I also don't want any of my family touched. Anyone else is fair game.







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Would you ever harm your crush? If so, what circumstances would cause you to do so?

I'm a sadist as well as dominant,so yes, I'd like to. I would never harm my lover out of spite, though I will get extremely jealous if I see them having fun with other people, and might give them the silent treatment.

Would you ever take your crush's life? If so, what circumstances would cause you to do so?

No, I would not. If I really love the person, I wouldn't want to see them dead.

Is blackmailing your crush out of the question? Why?

I believe so, simply because if I have to blackmail them to do what I want, they're probably not my type. I have been manipulative in the past without fully realizing it though, which is something I'm working on.

How far would you take your advances on your crush before beginning a true (read:consensual) relationship with them?

I generally need to be friends with the person(or know them very well) in order to develop feelings for them. If that's already in place, I'd try to find out if they're a masochist, if they'd be doting enough(I'm a himedere too), and if they're compatible with me. I'm not going to start a relationship with someone unless I'm sure we're compatible and that it has a good chance of working out.

If your crush was already in a relationship, what would you do?

If they're in a relationship before I start to like them, I won't develop a crush to begin with. If they get in a relationship after I've already decided that I like them, then I'd try to ruin the rival's reputation while simultaneously copying behaviors my crush finds appealing in them.

What would you do to keep your crush in check?

If we're going out, I would hope they'd remain faithful anyway, but do to my paranoid nature, I'll probably stalk them to make sure they're not talking to any one else for too long, look through their social media accounts to see who they're talking to, quiz them on how they spent their day, and try to be in contact for as much as possible, to prevent others of mistaking them as single, and to keep them thinking about me.

Would you give your lover permission to harm you? Why?

I do have my submissive moments, but I'm not masochistic, so no, not unless they really wanted to.

If your lover were to threaten you, how would you calm them down?

Assuming that they're threatening me because they believe I might be unfaithful, I'd spend as much time with them as possible, and probably cuddle with them. If they're threatening me to give them money, etc, then I'd break off the relationship.

Would you be willing to cut off contact from the rest of society (yes, even the internet), if it meant living peacefully with your lover?

Yes, I would gladly do so. It would ensure that no one else gets in the way of our relationship. Removing myself from the internet would be difficult though, so I'd probably request them to monitor me on it instead(as I would do for them).

Given the choice, would you prefer a violent or a tame yandere? Why?

I'm not sure which side I lean on(probably violent?), but I'd want a tame yandere to balance out our personalities.

Does a Stockholm Syndrome relationship count as consensual?

I'm not an expert on the condition, but I'll try to give an accurate response. If the victim falls in love shortly after the event, then it may be consensual. If it happens after a period of time, I'd have to say that it isn't, since the victims mind has already been warped by then.

What circumstances would make you consider breaking up with a yandere?



Threatening me to give them money, or If it seems that we're not compatible after all. If they're threatening to kill me, I'd try to calm them down. If it occurs more than once, and the cause of it can't be fixed, I'd try to get them help and leave the relationship until they're more stable. I'm a sadist as well as dominant,so yes, I'd like to. I would never harm my lover out of spite, though I will get extremely jealous if I see them having fun with other people, and might give them the silent treatment.No, I would not. If I really love the person, I wouldn't want to see them dead.I believe so, simply because if I have to blackmail them to do what I want, they're probably not my type. I have been manipulative in the past without fully realizing it though, which is something I'm working on.I generally need to be friends with the person(or know them very well) in order to develop feelings for them. If that's already in place, I'd try to find out if they're a masochist, if they'd be doting enough(I'm a himedere too), and if they're compatible with me. I'm not going to start a relationship with someone unless I'm sure we're compatible and that it has a good chance of working out.If they're in a relationship before I start to like them, I won't develop a crush to begin with. If they get in a relationship after I've already decided that I like them, then I'd try to ruin the rival's reputation while simultaneously copying behaviors my crush finds appealing in them.If we're going out, I would hope they'd remain faithful anyway, but do to my paranoid nature, I'll probably stalk them to make sure they're not talking to any one else for too long, look through their social media accounts to see who they're talking to, quiz them on how they spent their day, and try to be in contact for as much as possible, to prevent others of mistaking them as single, and to keep them thinking about me.I do have my submissive moments, but I'm not masochistic, so no, not unless they really wanted to.Assuming that they're threatening me because they believe I might be unfaithful, I'd spend as much time with them as possible, and probably cuddle with them. If they're threatening me to give them money, etc, then I'd break off the relationship.Yes, I would gladly do so. It would ensure that no one else gets in the way of our relationship. Removing myself from the internet would be difficult though, so I'd probably request them to monitor me on it instead(as I would do for them).I'm not sure which side I lean on(probably violent?), but I'd want a tame yandere to balance out our personalities.I'm not an expert on the condition, but I'll try to give an accurate response. If the victim falls in love shortly after the event, then it may be consensual. If it happens after a period of time, I'd have to say that it isn't, since the victims mind has already been warped by then.Threatening me to give them money, or If it seems that we're not compatible after all. If they're threatening to kill me, I'd try to calm them down. If it occurs more than once, and the cause of it can't be fixed, I'd try to get them help and leave the relationship until they're more stable.



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Would you ever harm your crush? If so, what circumstances would cause you to do so?

Never once. That goes against everything, even if it was somehow "in their best interest".



Would you ever take your crush's life? If so, what circumstances would cause you to do so?

No. If a circumstance led to such an extreme situation, I'd rather give my life in exchange for hers.



Is blackmailing your crush out of the question? Why?

I think if you openly did this, it would be asking for a lot of trouble. Trust is hard to rebuild once broken.



How far would you take your advances on your crush before beginning a true (read:consensual) relationship with them?

That's a good question. I'm not sure. I suppose I'd get to know them better, and over time get a feel out for their schedule. There's the time talking to me, so obviously there's the timezone to get down. Then there's the feel you'd get for meals and sleeping times, and if there's class or work, you learn about the schedule and keep track of the average time it takes to go from A to B, asking about C or D if they're ever late to popping back on. But it seems a little too normal to me to be considered a yan sort of thing to do.



If your crush was already in a relationship, what would you do?

I wouldn't do anything. If it was an obviously bad relationship, I'd make my displeasure known, but otherwise there's nothing I could do or say that would influence it, I don't think.



What would you do to keep your crush in check?

Like threatening? I wouldn't. Affection is far better than vitriol.



Would you give your lover permission to harm you? Why?

Within reason, maybe. Possibly a finger or arm to chew on or pick at, if it helped. I wouldn't let blood be drawn or anything particularly bad, but if it helped as a way to relieve stress, I wouldn't write it off.



If your lover were to threaten you, how would you calm them down?

By being honest and up front, naturally. I wouldn't have such love for someone if I didn't mean it, and I would hope that I would have a list of things that I have done to put such worries to rest. I understand how little words can mean, so I would try to find a way to make sure I put every cent of my money where my mouth was.



Would you be willing to cut off contact from the rest of society (yes, even the internet), if it meant living peacefully with your lover?

I would have some qualms about my brothers and some family, but I don't think I would largely mind. I would be quite happy with my beloved being my only contact. It's quite comfortable, rather.



Given the choice, would you prefer a violent or a tame yandere? Why?

Tame. Violence can cause complications and problems. If at all possible, I would want to curb any violent urges. That energy and vigor could be put towards more productive uses of time, and the success of that would be beautiful to see.



Does a Stockholm Syndrome relationship count as consensual?

Of course it does. It may not be healthy, at first, but it certainly counts as one.



What circumstances would make you consider breaking up with a yandere?

If she were disloyal or unfaithful. A lot can be worked out, and a lot of older couples have stuck together through working things out. But having someone else in the picture? I've had that happen before. Now, it would make me shut down entirely, like it's some snap killswitch reaction. I don't think I would be able to recover from it. Never once. That goes against everything, even if it was somehow "in their best interest".No. If a circumstance led to such an extreme situation, I'd rather give my life in exchange for hers.I think if you openly did this, it would be asking for a lot of trouble. Trust is hard to rebuild once broken.That's a good question. I'm not sure. I suppose I'd get to know them better, and over time get a feel out for their schedule. There's the time talking to me, so obviously there's the timezone to get down. Then there's the feel you'd get for meals and sleeping times, and if there's class or work, you learn about the schedule and keep track of the average time it takes to go from A to B, asking about C or D if they're ever late to popping back on. But it seems a little too normal to me to be considered a yan sort of thing to do.I wouldn't do anything. If it was an obviously bad relationship, I'd make my displeasure known, but otherwise there's nothing I could do or say that would influence it, I don't think.Like threatening? I wouldn't. Affection is far better than vitriol.Within reason, maybe. Possibly a finger or arm to chew on or pick at, if it helped. I wouldn't let blood be drawn or anything particularly bad, but if it helped as a way to relieve stress, I wouldn't write it off.By being honest and up front, naturally. I wouldn't have such love for someone if I didn't mean it, and I would hope that I would have a list of things that I have done to put such worries to rest. I understand how little words can mean, so I would try to find a way to make sure I put every cent of my money where my mouth was.I would have some qualms about my brothers and some family, but I don't think I would largely mind. I would be quite happy with my beloved being my only contact. It's quite comfortable, rather.Tame. Violence can cause complications and problems. If at all possible, I would want to curb any violent urges. That energy and vigor could be put towards more productive uses of time, and the success of that would be beautiful to see.Of course it does. It may not be healthy, at first, but it certainly counts as one.If she were disloyal or unfaithful. A lot can be worked out, and a lot of older couples have stuck together through working things out. But having someone else in the picture? I've had that happen before. Now, it would make me shut down entirely, like it's some snap killswitch reaction. I don't think I would be able to recover from it.

