ga2000 Sat 17-Feb-18 12:05:00

I have been in prison for 4 years and while I was in open prison my partner said she wanted a baby and I said we should wait because of the situation. However, my partner came off the pill and became pregnant and advised she told me she was coming off the pill.

I have recently come home and every opportunity she gets she kicks me out of the house and blanks me for days and weeks using my son as a weapon. I knew this may happen so logged my main address at my parents so not to affect my license conditions.

I gave her £500 from money I had saved and lent her money for a deposit to move to a new house. While we have been arguing she planned on selling the pram my parent bought for £1600 and using the money to buy herself a car which in her words it to better our sons life. Furthermore, she is using the money I gave her to buy new items in the new house she in moving into which I lent her because could not afford the bills. She went on holiday in December on a skiing trip and left our baby with me for 5 days and I take him at least once a week even if were arguing or not.

I am trying to start a new business which I made her a director and she is constantly demanding money off me and calling me worthless being abusive constantly. My issue is my partner although being together wants maintenance now and is trying to back date even tho were together. My issue is I am not earning any money at the moment and keep telling her I will start supporting our son once I get some orders although she does not could me paying for haircuts or food supporting as this is not giving her money direct. However, I drive her around and take my son places and put around £40 of fuel in a week in the car but she does not count this as supporting my son. Moreover, when we need nappies or milk I always borrow the money or get money to buy these items. My family have helped us out massively and she fell out with my dad over another issue which is another story, but she constantly calls them and me even tho they homes her when she was homeless. I constantly spend around 15 hours a day working trying to work to get the company moving and earning. Do you think I an being unreasonable or should give up and get a job or go on the dole.