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"Every time I'm having an AB/DL [adult baby/diaper lover] session, they all tell me how they end up that way, and it always starts out with, 'So when I was younger, my mom ...'"

But it can be any combination of trauma/fetish that triggers it: "Whether a tooth was pulled when it wasn't ready, an aunt or uncle had you on their lap for too long, you walked in on sexual acts ... even experiences of younger siblings having their shitty drawings higher on the fridge than yours can spark fantasies that will [make you] want to relive it."

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Some people are into ass play. Others are into being mocked for their fucked-up houses and ugly stick figure dogs. It's a wide range.

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These scenarios can often be the most challenging from a creative standpoint, because the clients' requirements are very, very specific: "These fetishizers want a full reenactment of the scene. Sometimes I've been allowed to ad-lib, but most of these men have been doing this for over 10 years and are stuck in their ways."

For example, "One client likes to be put in a diaper, and he likes to pee and sometimes poop on himself. His mother had a short temper and wasn't patient during the potty-training phase. Also, she was very stern with him, so when he'd wet the bed (as any kid under 10 does), he'd get punished and embarrassed in front of his friends and family instead of trying to work out what the root cause for the accidents were. So when we session, I have to embarrass him. I bring in other girls sometimes and I humiliate him as they all laugh, point at him, and push him around. He'd been spanked by his mother when he'd pee or poop, so I spank him. He'd been put in time out, so I put him in a cage. His mother made some remark like he 'must be a dog because they go whenever they want,' so I say that too, and put a collar and leash on him and make him fetch and roll over."