DANA POINT — Robert Berry Sinclair, a highly decorated Marine Corps aviator who served in World War II, Korea and Vietnam, was celebrated during a burial at sea Monday, Aug. 13. Sinclair, of Dana Point, died July 14. He was 96.

About 60 family members, friends and military veterans gathered aboard Dana Wharf’s Dana Pride, which took the group two miles off the Dana Point Headlands where the ceremony took place.

With her mother Patsy Sinclair at her side, second from left, Leslie Greve, center, tosses flowers out onto the ocean in honor of her father Robert Sinclair in the waters near Dana Point on Monday, August 13, 2018. Sinclair was a Silver Star recipient who served in the Navy in World War II, Korea, and Vietnam. (Photo by Paul Rodriguez, Contributing Photographer)

Don Hansen, right, owner of Dana Wharf Sportfishing, shakes hands with Michael Sinclair in Dana Point on Monday, August 13, 2018, after a memorial service at sea for Michael’s father Robert, a Silver Star recipient who served in the Navy in World War II, Korea, and Vietnam. Hansen was a good friend of Robert. (Photo by Paul Rodriguez, Contributing Photographer)

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Robert Sinclair’s Silver Star was worn by his daughter Leslie Greve at the memorial service held at sea in the waters near Dana Point on Monday, August 13, 2018. Sinclair served in the Navy in World War II, Korea, and Vietnam. (Photo by Paul Rodriguez, Contributing Photographer)

Leslie Greve, center left, and her sister Kathleen Caid, center right, thank members of a Marine Corps Honor Guard who honored Leslie and Kathleen’s father, Robert Sinclair, in a memorial service in the waters near Dana Point on Monday, August 13, 2018. Robert Sinclair was a Silver Star recipient who served in the Navy in World War II, Korea, and Vietnam. (Photo by Paul Rodriguez, Contributing Photographer)

A Marine Corps Honor Guard and the family of Robert Sinclair are taken out to sea in the waters near Dana Point on Monday, August 13, 2018 for a memorial service for Robert Sinclair, a Silver Star recipient who served in the Navy in World War II, Korea, and Vietnam. (Photo by Paul Rodriguez, Contributing Photographer)



With her daughters, Leslie Greve, third from left, and Kathleen Caid, right, Patsy Sinclair, second from right, receives a flag from a Marine Corps officer honoring her husband Robert Sinclair during a memorial service at sea in the waters near Dana Point on Monday, August 13, 2018. Robert Sinclair was a Silver Star recipient who served in the Navy in World War II, Korea, and Vietnam. (Photo by Paul Rodriguez, Contributing Photographer)

As members of a Marine Corps Honor Guard stand by, the family of Robert Sinclair raise flowers as they prepare to toss them onto the ocean in the waters near Dana Point on Monday, August 13, 2018. Robert Sinclair was a Silver Star recipient who served in the Navy in World War II, Korea, and Vietnam. The service was held aboard a boat provided by Dana Wharf Sportfishing owned by Sinclair’s friend Don Hansen. (Photo by Paul Rodriguez, Contributing Photographer)

A Marine from Camp Pendleton holds the flag used in the memorial service for Robert Sinclair, a Silver Star recipient who served in the Navy in World War II, Korea and Vietnam. The service was held at sea in the waters near Dana Point on Monday, August 13, 2018. (Photo by Paul Rodriguez, Contributing Photographer)

Leslie Greve, center, distributes flowers to her siblings, John Sinclair, Michael Sinclair, Robert Sinclair and Kathleen Caid, from left, for their father’s memorial service aboard a boat from Dana Wharf Sportfishing in the waters near Dana Point on Monday, August 13, 2018. Their father Robert Sinclair was a Silver Star recipient who served in the Navy during World War II, Korea, and Vietnam. (Photo by Paul Rodriguez, Contributing Photographer)

USMC (ret.) Gen. J. K. Davis, a four-star general and naval aviator, of San Clemente, attended as did Dana Point Mayor Rick Viczorek, a lieutenant colonel in the Marine Corps Reserves.

“He was a great American, a great Marine and Dana Point resident,” Viczorek said. “In the Marine Corps, we’re all about history and those that have gone before us. This is a Marine from World War II — a member of the Greatest Generation who fought in three wars. I’m thankful for them allowing me to be part of it. He won the Silver Star.”

Sinclair was awarded the Silver Star for action in Korea for “superb airmanship, daring initiative and exceptional courage.”

Family members — each wearing one of Sinclair’s many medals and awards — distributed his ashes into the sea. The ceremony also included a reading of a military poem, dedicated to aviators, by one of Sinclair’s son.

Following the ceremony, a Marine Corps Honor Guard from Camp Pendleton carried out a 21-gun salute. A folded flag was given to Sinclair’s wife, Patsy.

“Today’s ceremony was not only a beautiful and moving tribute to our father but also a testament to his long and distinguished military career as a naval aviator, ” said Leslie Greve. “Robert Sinclair enjoyed his life in Dana Point for the past 40 years, and today his ashes were scattered (outside) Dana Point Harbor as a perfect ending to a well-lived life.”

Sinclair, who served in the Logistics Branch for the Division of Aviation in Washington, D.C. and was commander of the Fighter/Attack Group in Yuma, Ariz., left the Marine Corps in 1975 as a colonel and chief-of-staff for the 3rd Marine Aircraft Wing, when it was based at Marine Corps Air Station El Toro.

He flew combat missions during World War II, the Korean War and in Vietnam. In addition to the Silver Star, he was awarded two Legion of Merits, the Distinguished Flying Cross and 18 Air Medals during his tours of duty.

Sinclair’s Silver Star, the nation’s third-highest medal for valor, came as a surprise to many in the Sinclair family and others close to him.

“Most of the time, the guys don’t talk about their service,” said Don Hansen, of San Clemente, who was friends with Sinclair for more than 50 years. “We played golf and he never talked about it.”

It wasn’t until after Sinclair died that his family began looking through hie service records. They and Hansen had been working on getting some type of military honors for the burial.

“We had a heck of a time until we found the Silver Star,” Hansen said. “Then things jumped together in a hurry. Bobby went down to the ground guns blazing to save his commanding officer. That’s how he got the Silver Star. When he landed on the (aircraft carrier), the flight crew came out and saw the mud and said, ‘Where have you been?’

“I don’t think Bobby ever told us he got the Silver Star. Those guys (Marines) don’t talk about that, it’s just what they did.”

Hansen started Dana Wharf Sportfishing and Whale Watching in Dana Point Harbor in 1971. Having his friend’s memorial on the Dana Pride, he said, meant a lot to him and their longtime friendship.

“I was happy they asked me to do it,” Hansen said. “The ceremony was beautiful. I think Bobby would have been honored. Knowing him, he would have thought we went overboard.”

Sinclair is survived by his wife, Patsy Ellis Sinclair, five children (Leslie, Kathleen, Robert, Michael and John), eight grandchildren and three great-grandchildren.