What is teen suicide?

Suicide is when a teen causes his or her own death on purpose. Before attempting to take his or her own life, a teen may have thoughts of wanting to die. This is called suicidal ideation. He or she may also have suicidal behavior. That’s when a teen is focused on doing things that cause his or her own death.

Suicide is the third leading cause of death in young people ages 15 to 24. The CDC reports that:

Boys are 4 times more likely to die from suicide than girls.

Girls are more likely to attempt suicide than boys.

Guns are used in more than half of youth suicides.

What causes a teen to attempt suicide?

The teen years are a stressful time. They are filled with major changes. These include body changes, changes in thoughts, and changes in feelings. Strong feelings of stress, confusion, fear, and doubt may influence a teen’s problem-solving and decision-making. He or she may also feel a pressure to succeed.

For some teens, normal developmental changes can be very unsettling when combined with other events, such as:

Changes in their families, such as divorce or moving to a new town

Changes in friendships

Problems in school

Other losses

These problems may seem too hard or embarrassing to overcome. For some, suicide may seem like a solution.

Which teens are at risk for suicide?

A teen’s risk for suicide varies with age, gender, and cultural and social influences. Risk factors may change over time. They are:

One or more mental or substance abuse problems

Impulsive behaviors

Undesirable life events or recent losses, such as the death of a parent

Family history of mental or substance abuse problems

Family history of suicide

Family violence, including physical, sexual, or verbal or emotional abuse

Past suicide attempt

Gun in the home

Imprisonment

Exposure to the suicidal behavior of others, such as from family or peers, in the news, or in fiction stories

What are the warning signs of teen suicide?

Many of the warning signs of suicide are also symptoms of depression. They are:

Changes in eating and sleeping habits

Loss of interest in usual activities

Withdrawal from friends and family members

Acting-out behaviors and running away

Alcohol and drug use

Neglecting one’s personal appearance

Unnecessary risk-taking

Obsession with death and dying

More physical complaints often linked to emotional distress, such as stomachaches, headaches, and extreme tiredness (fatigue)

Loss of interest in school or schoolwork

Feeling bored

Problems focusing

Feeling he or she wants to die

Lack of response to praise

Another warning sign is making plans or efforts toward committing suicide:

Says “I want to kill myself,” or “I'm going to commit suicide.”

Gives verbal hints, such as “I won't be a problem much longer,” or “If anything happens to me, I want you to know ....”

Gives away favorite possessions or throws away important belongings

Becomes suddenly cheerful after a period of depression

May express weird thoughts

Writes 1 or more suicide notes

These signs may look like other health problems. Make sure your teen sees his or her healthcare provider for a diagnosis.

How is a teen diagnosed as being suicidal?

Threats of suicide are a cry for help. Always take such statements, thoughts, behaviors, or plans very seriously. Any teen who expresses thoughts of suicide should be evaluated right away. Talk with your teen’s healthcare provider.

Any teen who has tried to commit suicide needs a physical checkup first to rule out life-threatening health problems. He or she should then get a mental health evaluation and treatment until he or she is stable. This often will take place at an inpatient facility to make sure of the child’s safety.

How is a teen treated for suicidal behavior?

Treatment will depend on your child’s symptoms, age, and general health. It will also depend on how severe the condition is.

Treatment starts with a detailed evaluation of events in your teen’s life during the 2 to 3 days before the suicidal behaviors. Treatment may include:

Individual therapy

Family therapy. Parents play a vital role in treatment.

An extended hospital stay, if needed. This gives the child a supervised and safe environment.

How can I help prevent my teen from attempting suicide?

Learning the warning signs of teen suicide can prevent an attempt. Keeping open communication with your teen and his or her friends gives you an opportunity to help when needed. Also take these steps:

Keep medicines and guns away from children and teens.

Get your teen help for any mental or substance abuse problems.

Support your teen. Listen, try not to offer undue criticism, and stay connected.

Become informed about teen suicide. Resources include the public library, local support group, and the Internet.

Know the warning signs for depression: Feelings of sadness, hopelessness, or loneliness Declining school performance Loss of interest in social and sports activities Sleeping too little or too much Changes in weight or appetite Nervousness, agitation, or irritability



Teens can take these steps to help prevent suicide if they see warning signs in a friend:

Take their friend’s behavior and talk of suicide seriously.

Encourage their friend to seek expert help. Go with the friend, if needed.

Talk with an adult they trust about their friend.

When should I call my teen’s healthcare provider?

Call your teen’s healthcare provider right away if your teen:

Feels extreme depression, fear, anxiety, or anger toward him or herself or others

Feels out of control

Hears voices that others don’t hear

Sees things that others don’t see

Can’t sleep or eat for 3 days in a row

Shows behavior that concerns friends, family, or teachers, and others express concern about this behavior and ask you to seek help

Call 911 if your teen has suicidal thoughts, a suicide plan, and the means to carry out the plan.

Key points about teen suicide

Suicide is when a teen causes his or her own death on purpose.

Suicidal ideation is when a teen has thoughts of wanting to die.

Suicidal behavior is when a teen is focused on doing things that cause his or her own death.

Normal developmental changes combined with stressful life events may cause a teen to think about suicide.

Many of the warning signs of suicide are also symptoms of depression.

Any teen who expresses suicidal thoughts should be evaluated right away.

Next steps

Tips to help you get the most from a visit to your child’s healthcare provider: