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Song of the Day

Change – Deftones

I watched you change

Into a fly

I looked away

You were on fire

I watched a change in you

It’s like you never had wings

Now, you feel so alive

I’ve watched you change

I took you home

Set you on the glass

I pulled off your wings

Then I laughed

I watched a change in you

It’s like you never had wings

Now, you feel so alive

I’ve watched you change

It’s like you never had wings

I look at the cross

Then I look away

Give you the gun

Blow me away

I watched a change in you

It’s like you never had wings

Now, you feel so alive

I’ve watched you change

Now, you feel alive

You feel alive

You feel alive

I’ve watched you change

It’s like you never had wings

Sometimes.. I like to set a song to one of my posts.

Due to some actions of people over the past couple days,

I have decided to start taking the advice I receive from, “veteran bloggers” more seriously.

I love blogging.

It is not about what groups I am in…

It is not about what people “give” me..

Of course I am grateful for anything and everything but,

I want to have fun again while, blogging.

From now on and, this should be every bloggers moto,

if things get to stressful or, there are unrealistic expectations,

I am just going to leave a group instead of getting so upset.

It is not healthy for anyone to get so stressed out over blogging or,

anything for that matter having to do with SL.

Now this change in me will take time..

I am not weak but, I AM a creature of habit.

I thank the bloggers support group and,

some very helpful people on plurk for making me see that,

I am a good blogger, I do a good job and,

that I can stand up for myself without fear of being rejected.

For bloggers out there that are having a difficult time…

I know you… I know your situation…

And if you want help then,

I suggest that you apply to the, [SL] Blogger Support group.

They have a variety of resources for you.

How to make a great blog..

Tutorials.

Lists on what designers are looking for bloggers and,

most importantly…..

A whole network of people that have dealt with the same issues that you are going through…

Which equals…..

A lot of advice!

Here is their website.



[SL] Blogger Support

To all those people out there that,

helped me through a confusing time for me….

Thank you for giving me strength and knowledge to try and better myself.

To make myself a stronger more confident blogger..

And a better person in the long run.

I hope that you have enjoyed this post..

And I hope that other bloggers take the advice…

It is well worth it.

Styling

Shape –So Hawt SL Shapes -Rowne – Nc/M/T – Erotigacha

Hair –~Tableau Vivant~Andree Hair – Summer – Fameshed – August

Eyes –{D.A} Nebula Ice

Skin – Lara Hurley-Fae natural pale – Uber Event

Note: Please try this skin, it is gorgeous.. I used a black and white filter but, the skin it’s self is amazing.

Hands – Slink Avatar Enhancement Hands – Relaxed

Feet – Slink Female Feet (AvEnhance) XS – high

Ears – (UNISEX)_[MANDALA]Simple_ELF_Ears

Teeth Alpha – PIDIDDLE – Cosmetic Fair 2014 Gift

Outfit – OrsiniRed Kiss In The Rain Noir/ Blush – We heart RP – August

Shoes – REIGN.- LC HEELS- Past GROUP GIFT

Bindi – #F Matangi Bindi (Black Gold) – Trend Fashion Fair

Sword – .tsg. Kawaii Katana – Black – New Release

Leg – [Keystone] Xani Jewels – We heart RP – August

Pose – Various Del May Poses