judal-is-my-spirit-animal:

A lot of fangirls really like gay guys, and I have no idea why. It just seems to be the way things work around here.

A lot of it is tied to the way female sexuality is demonized. These young women are coming into their own urges and desires, but they’ve been told all their lives that expressing and exploring said desires makes them evil sluts who deserve to be raped/beaten/whatever. So they get kind of sublimated and expressed instead through pairing up their favorite male characters. The girl herself is usually attracted to both, but one of the pair is generally a proxy for herself. A stand-in, through which to enact the things she wants to express but has had drilled into her head is wrong-terrible-bad.

Does that come across as fetishistic of homosexuality? You bet. Is it intentional? No; most likely they don’t even realize it. So before you go all ‘crazy bitches be crazy they be pairing the men characters up n making 'em fuck how crazy n hysterical’, maybe don’t do that?