About: This blog is, simply put, a place for lighthearted gender humor, made by and specifically for trans people of all genders.

Q: Who runs this blog? What are your pronouns?

A: A white genderqueer person, so yes, I am trans. That’s all the info I feel like giving out about me personally as I prefer to run this blog anonymously. My pronouns are they/them but you have permission to use whatever pronouns you like with me. I feel the need to point out that my flexibility with pronouns is not reflective of trans people as a whole and if someone has specific pronouns they want you better use them.

Q: Why are you making fun of trans people?

A: First of all, I am a trans person. I’m not making fun of anyone, and if you see it like that, you’re looking at it the wrong way. Trans people have the right to make jokes about gender if we want, for some of us, it’s very refreshing and fun. If gender is a big humorless deal to you and you don’t like making jokes about it, well, this blog is not for you. Get tumblr savior or xkit blacklist and block “genderofthe”.

Q: How do you feel about cis people reblogging your posts?

Well I’m ok with cis people liking posts and following the blog, or recommending it to friends, but I’d really rather they didn’t reblog, because it sends a different message. When a cis person does it, it looks like they’re making fun of trans people. When a trans person does it, it’s making jokes about yourself, which is fine. The context of who’s doing it makes a huge difference.

Asking cis people not to reblog is not “discrimination” or “cisphobia”. It’s simply asking that we can have one little thing just to ourselves, since trans people as a group are not afforded rights, compassion, or respect in society at large.

Q: I’m cis, I just found out you don’t want us reblogging your posts, and I’m about to send a message to you personally to apologize for reblogging your posts in the past.

A: Oh my god PLEASE DO NOT DO THIS. PLEASE. I beg you, please resist the urge to to this. It honestly didn’t bother me at first, but nowadays I get these messages constantly and it’s eroding my will to keep running this blog. I DONT CARE! I don’t know who you are, I didn’t even know you did anything until you came to me with this message. How about instead of sending me this kind of message, you write something publicly on your blog so your followers see it and you can help educate your cis friends instead of harassing me with apologies for things I didn’t know you did.

I’m not here to ease your guilt. Please don’t do this.

Q: I’m cis, and screw you, I’m going to reblog your posts anyways cause they’re funny.

A: Good for you, you’re transphobic.

Q: I’m cis and I have a special/particular reason for wanting to reblog one of your posts, would it be ok? What about the posts that aren’t gender humor related?

A: Yeah, if you’re reblogging it so someone else can see, or if theres some other good reason (like maybe you had something to do with the content of the post), thats ok. I guess as long as it’s not something you make a habit of, it’s ok. The posts that have nothing to do with gender humor are perfectly fine for everyone to reblog.

Q: Is it ok if people who are questioning gender stuff reblog? How about binary trans people, nonbinary people, agender people, genderqueer people, etc.

A: Absolutely! As long as you are not 100% cis it’s fine with me. If you have any doubts the answer is almost certainly yes. If you are questioning gender stuff and find enjoyment in the posts on this blog, feel free to reblog.

If you have to ask, the answer is probably yes.

Q: How long does it take for submissions to get posted? Was my submission rejected or accepted? What was wrong with my submission that made you reject it? Are there any ways to get feedback?

A: Unfortunately, there is no way to know if your submission was added to the queue or rejected. The queue is currently at the time of this writing at 261 submissions, with 12 being posted automatically each day, so at most, it will take somewhere between 20 to 30 or so days for a submission to be posted most of the time. Occasionally I will manually post a submission, or I will advance particularly good or topical submissions to the front of the queue.

Possible reasons your submission may have been rejected include (but are not limited to): Inappropriate content, it might have been more appropriate for genderofthenight.tumblr.com, it just wasn’t very interesting or funny (this is entirely subjective to me), you didn’t bold the text properly, some other text formatting/spelling/capitalization issue or unnecessary punctuation or exclamation marks, I have no idea what your submission is a reference to, if I feel that your submission may have other issues such as being racist or transmisogynistic, or any number of other possible issues.

Q: Something you posted struck me as racist, transmisogynistic, ableist, etc

A: Please send me a fan mail and I will review the post. I take these kinds of messages seriously.

Q: You posted art or photography that belongs to me and I would like you to remove it or add a source.

A: Send me an email (genderoftheday@gmail.com) or fanmail detailing which post you are talking about and let me know and I will remove it/add a source immediately.

Q: I’m thinking about gender stuff. Am I trans?

A: *shakes magic 8 ball* Sources say Yes

Q: I need advice about gender stuff

A: Sorry, this isn’t really an advice blog, I don’t really feel qualified to give advice on anything.

Q: What do you think of truscum?

A: Truscum and their ideologies are terrible and limiting to trans narratives and experiences. Anyone who wants to gatekeep other trans people or police other people’s genders needs to rethink their idelologies.

Q: Will you promote a thing for me? Like this charity, or this kickstarter, or this group I’m making, or my new tumblr blog, or whatever else?

A: No. I don’t know you at all, I have no idea what your thing is about and I have no time to research your thing to see if it’s any good.

Q: Will you answer questions privately?

A: No, not on tumblr, because of a serious tumblr error that can reveal someone’s main blog when you answer questions privately on a side blog. You can contact me at genderoftheday@gmail.com and I will be happy to have a dialog with you there.

Q: Why are asks disabled?

A: Most of the questions I was receiving are answered in the FAQ. Some people were using asks to “suggest” genders like “hey can the next gender of the day be _____?”… It’s not that hard to just find a picture and submit one like everyone else. If you need to get in contact with me, I have an email address (genderoftheday@gmail.com) where I will be likely to respond. I can’t respond to fanmails.

Q: Are you really the same person as genderofthenight?

A: Yes.

Q: Who made the avatar and blog header?

A: depressotogo! Thank you so much once again!