

A few weeks ago, I connected with a transgender guy named Kelly.

Though we were working on a video about knowing if you're gay, trans or -- like Kelly -- both, he felt really passionate about creating a video on another topic: How to approach sex with a transgender man.

My palms instantly starting sweating.

The reality is, most people (myself included) are vastly uneducated on the subject, and good resources are far and few between. Yet, it's a situation that many gay guys (myself included) have found themselves in -- especially on hookup apps.

For example, a handsome guy approaches you on Grindr. You're interested. You notice that he identifies as trans in his profile. You have questions, but aren't sure what to say.

So here's Kelly's advice: