ok so there is this guy that i have liked for awhile. and pple keep saying he acts like he likes me. he works at a club and he kept staring at me when i was dancing with my friends. two of my friends and his friend went up to talk to him and they asked him why he kept staring out and he said he was "crowd controlling" but he stayed in one spot and they all said it was towards me. and he told me he had a girlfriend but he told his friends that he doesnt know if it was serious or not. then later on that night he texted me saying it was nice to see me again and that he misses the times him and i spent together and when he is with his girl he thinks about me... but yet he wont dump his girl. i told him off saying that if he liked me just show me or tell me... if u wanna be my friend treat me with respect... if neither then screw off. then he ignored me the next day then after that he still kept staring... he noticed me in a huge crowd in the hall... and i was in the middle of the cafeteria surrounded by alot of pple and he still found me cause he was making this little face to get me to laugh like he always does. (its this thing him and i do that we started last year) and wednesday he walked me to my class and when i asked for a hug he gave me one and he tickles me. and this is all after i told him off... so idk what one he chose...to show he likes me or to just be my friend. if he is with his girl he acts like he keeps wanting me to see them together but when im with another guy... he doesnt even look at his girl his eyes just keep darting over... pple say he likes me hes just probably to scared to tell me or he doesnt wanna ruin anything cause him and i have an interesting history but idk... but he wont text me anymore... he only texts me every now and then and i dont get that if its just to see if i will keep texting him or chase him or be all over him or what but he only texts me every now and then but in personn ya i already said what he has been pulling... and when he was in gym he kept pointing at me and watching me play basketball... and on facebook when i re added him (cause i took him off one time) HIS DAD LIKED IT HIS DAD. my friend said that means he talks to his dad about me then cause his dad didnt llike any other friendship thing. and she also said guys go to their dads first before their friends but idk... gah i need help!!!

oh and his friend told me that he said if he wasnt dating this girl he would probably go after me and when i asked the guy if that was true he just said haha and he wouldnt say anything else. then his friend said: he said you two liked eachother for awhile now just not at the same time. and i asked him about that and he changes the subject aand wont answer about that. cause i asked him when did that happen since he told me no when i asked.. and ya he wont answer!! gah im confused!!!

does he like me or no??

if he does why wont he leave his girl if he keeps doing this crap??

okay so that was from another message to show what he has been doing. okay then i posted something on facebook saying: im done stressing over you its not worth it. i try to work something out but u just ignore it. im not trying to say i dont want you cause i definately do all im saying is im done chasing after you. then the next day i told him off saying i think im done talking to him i am done with him thinking im obsessed and always talk about him and im done with pple stressing me out and telling me crap. and then he didnt answer (like always) and the next day he kept staring like always in gym and after class i came out and him and his friends all turned around and kept staring at me. and then at lunch he walked by his loner self and kept staring at me and did his little eyebrow raise he does to me (only me i never see him do it with anyone else and his pupils went huge and he gave me that look this certain look i havent even seen him give his gf.) and then i found out he dumped his girl finally but it was the day i told him off... and later i texted him apologizing for drama ive caused in the past and sorry for blowng up just been in alot of stress and monday i will be different and start over. he didnt answer again.

how can i get him his intrest?? hes confusing me and my friends. how can i get the chasee to become the chaser?? i know there is a way to get his attention and interested again ive done it before but idk how...

plz help NO RUDE COMMENTS its called help not critisize him cause no one knows him they say he is all bad but if he was bad would he keep talking to me and staring and tickling me and hugging me if he hated me or was creeped by me??