So I just start this blog with something that my Girlfriend said to me earlier today which I think she was really just giving me a hard time.

Well I hope so anyways, "I know you are busy and you have a job and that I am just a girl from the internet"

While some of that statement were true, which I am busy and I do have a job, I am not the best person at replying to text or whatever, the false information is that she is not just a "girl from the internet"

You may ask,How can I back up my point?

Well let me start by saying that our relationship is not base on lust, which 99% of how relationships in the modern word starts now,just like this simulation from below

Some "Dance clubs" somewhere

Man A with a Few of his "Bros"

Girl C with a few of her friends

C is looking really beautiful and she makes sure that people around her sees that by wearing a super tight dress that highlights her curves and constantly checking around the room and see who is checking her out and who is worth checking out

A is looking his best, freshly iron shirts, new shoes, carefully styled hair paired with his high dollar cologne that smells amazing. He makes sure that his shirt is a muscle fit so the shirt hug tightly on his body so he biceps muscles will show through the shirt.

So that's basically what's going on, men and woman around the world going out of their way to "sell" themself to a complete stranger, convincing them that they are everything that they been looking for, showing all the things the opposite sex wanted to see. But not who you truthly are.

A&C locked eyes and they both like what they saw.

A likes curves on a woman and he is a sucker for tight dresses

C likes muscular man with a nice biceps that she can wrap her hands around.

They have no idea at this point even the name of this person but lust is what is driving them, if A or C didn't do anything to look their best or if they are just wearing what they went to bed in, they both wouldn't have notice each other at all.

All A can think about is how much he wants to have this girl tonight in his bed and all C can think about is what would it be like the let A have her.

Sure I am not saying that's everyone but this is the truth, we are animals and we live in a society that have a standards on how people "should" look

It is sad that we judge so harshly on what's on the surface, maybe A have a horrible job that he is living paycheck to paycheck or maybe C is having issues with the law but at this very moment, non of those issues matters to either one of them because they are driven 100% by lust

My point is that would A and C still talk next week after they both discovered each others short comings in life? Maybe, maybe not but that's when this kind of relationship gets tested

My relationship with my gf started with me thinking she is someone worth talking to, I wasn't thinking lust, sure she was pretty and beautiful but she was an ocean away so that was not on my mind, the good thing about LDR is that you would really get to know a person, the good, the bad, and the ugly, and you will be tested every single min of your life while you are in this LDR that if you are worth the other person, you will constantly question yourself "what am I doing?" "Is she really going to wait for me?"

To me, personally I wouldnt trade my relationship with my gf for one that's base on lust.

I enjoy knowing that she knows my short comings and that even after everything that she decided that I am worth it, there's not a single thing on this world that I need to hide from her, I can be 100% honest with her and I wouldn't have to worry about her seeing my flaws and that she might stop talking to me and to me that's worth more than anything to me