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Being single is awesome. Even though it can be such a pain sometimes. I won’t even go into details about the frustrations of being single. I have already taken it upon myself to write a whole article about it. Click here to read and see if you can relate.

Despite having its own set of annoyances, there is a much more enviable side to being single. The side you should embrace while you can. Being single is so much fun.. and exciting…. and spontaneous… and enriching… and free….and awesome… and… I’m sure you get the idea.

So rather than waste your time sulking because you are unattached, celebrate this time of your life. I assure you, you will never have a season such as this ever again. This is the time to live your life to the fullest since nothing is holding you back. If you are finding it hard to find the silver lining in being single, here are some ways you can celebrate being single.

1. The freedom that comes with being single

How can I talk about how awesome being single is without talking about the freedom that comes with it? Being in a relationship requires working together as a team and involves lots of consulting and compromise. But when you are single, you are free from this. You can make decisions on a whim, use your money on impulse, change your calendar events to your liking, re-arrange your living space as often as you desire, come and go as you please, and so on and so on. The list of things you can do without having to consult your partner is endless. For this season in your life, you are completely free of obligation, commitment, accountability and responsibility towards another adult other than yourself. This my friends sounds like sweet freedom.

2. A time to explore and learn about yourself

To some extent, our relationships influence our personalities and behaviors. Often, people will change who they are just to keep a partner interested. They lack confidence in being liked for who they truly are, and therefore feel the need to pretend to be someone else for them to be liked.

Being single is the best time to explore and learn about yourself without the pressure of impressing anyone. You are more likely to be true to yourself and portray your authentic self when you are not trying to get someone to like you. Being aware of who you are is important for your success both as an individual, and in any kind of relationship, romantic or not. Trust me, getting to know yourself is so much fun. You would never guess the surprises you have in store for yourself.

3. Establish your career

A relationship is work. And so is a successful career. I have heard stories of people who gave up their careers in order to be with their loved ones, and I’ve also heard of people who had to give up their relationships in pursuit of career success. Let’s be real, juggling a career and relationship with the intent of being successful at both of them can be hard. In the end, one of them is going to suffer neglect.

As a single person, this is a choice you don’t have to make. This is the time to establish and build your empire. Put in the effort, work overtime if you have to, take those business trips, attend those networking parties, pursue every single opportunity that presents itself. You have the power to doÂ whatever it takesÂ to establish your career without sacrificing a relationship.

4. Participate in new experiences

You have all the freedom to do whatever you want. Don’t let your life be stuck in a rut…you know… Wake up. Work. School. Home. Repeat. That’s boring. Give your life some oomph. Take up a new hobby, try a new experience, learn about different cultures around you, do something that excites you and scares you at the same time, challenge yourself and do something you’ve never done before, make new friends.Â Life is too precious to let it pass you by like that. Get involved in life. Have a life.

5. Be spontaneous

Okay, I know that I have talked a lot about all the freedom you have as a single person. But don’t you think it would be much more precious to you if you didn’t have to plan every second of every minute of every day? Imagine waking up one weekend morning and deciding that you’ll take a weekend getaway to the destination of your choice. Or that you are tired of living in your current city and would like a change? Well maybe the last one is kind of a big decision to make and would require planning but you get the point. As a single person, you can be as spontaneous as you like, and as often as you like.

6. Travel

Anytime I was ever single, the single most common piece of advice I ever received was, “Travel the world. This is the best time to do it.” And I agree with this piece of advice. There is a lot of planning and compromise that comes with traveling as a couple. As a single person however, you can travel the world to wherever, whenever, for however much, with whomever and for whatever. You can customize your travel experiences to your liking and change plans last minute without considering the needs of a partner. Travel as frequently as you can if you can. Here’s my piece of advice, do not let lack of finances stop you from traveling. If finances are a concern, read my article on how you canÂ travel on a budget.Â

If you can travel during summer, here are some top summer destinations to visit.

7. Expenses are just for yourself

As a single person, you don’t have to think twice about how your spending might affect a partner. All your financial decisions solely affect you and so you can customize your spending habits to suit your needs. One perk of being single is that your expenses are just for yourself. You don’t have to worry about gifting expensive jewelry to your partner or making two car payments, or two dinners at a fancy restaurant, or two airline tickets, or two of a lot of things. You only have to worry about one of everything. Since you are not spending for two, this means you will have more money at your disposal to spend on yourself.

Embrace being single. It is awesome. It is your world. Do with it as you please. And yeah, it is totally okay to be single. But if you feel like you are ready to be in a relationship, here are a few things to consider first.

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