90 Day Fiance: Before The 90 Days; Benjamin is ready to meet the love of his life and is preparing for his trip to Kenya. He is looking forward to meeting Akinyi. They have been together only for a few months. But Benjamin doesn’t have a doubt in his mind about loving Akinyi. But in this love story, there is a big financial catch. Benjamin has to pay $10-15k as dowry for Akinyi’s hand in marriage. Let’s take a look at how freaked out he is about it.

90 Day Fiance: Before The 90 Days; Akinyi’s Letter To Benjamin

Akinyi has sent Benjamin a letter to help him out with the visa. One letter is just about saying hi. Benjamin was thrilled to see her handwriting and how it related to her personality. He also has a list of cultural notes he is supposed to observe during his travel. It is important for him since he will be meeting Akinyi’s family for the first time. In their last conversation, Akinyi told Benjamin about the bride price.



He has to offer money to his parents to get engaged. At the time, Benjamin was shocked and confused. He did some research about bride price and its cultural significance. It is either money, cows or both to that the groom gives to the bride’s family. Some families can expect a really huge amount up to 10-15k USD. Unfortunately, he doesn’t have the amount.

90 Day Fiance: Before The 90 Days; Benjamin Is Worried About Akinyi’s Family Asking For a High Bride Price

Benjamin is worried about Akinyi’s family asking for a high bride price. Since he is American, they might think that he has a lot of money to offer. But Benjamin has made it clear that he lives a modest life and has already spent a large amount on the trip. He is fretting over the fact that he might face a lack of funds. Since he doesn’t want to be rude to the family, Benjamin is stressing out over his financial situation. He is hoping to make a really good first impression. But if Akinyi doesn’t get her family’s approval, they don’t get to be together.

90 Day Fiance: Before The 90 Days; Benjamin’s Students Expressed Their Concern

Earlier, we saw Benjamin’s students express concern over his decision. They thought that what he is doing is a bit too much. They are hoping for his safety and are worried about the well-being of their teacher. One of his students pointed out what would happen if Akinyi is not the same as she is via texting and face time. Benjamin agreed that it’s his worst fear. But he has stated that she understands him and makes him happy. Benjamin considers Akinyi to be the love of his life.

What do you think will happen if Benjamin isn’t able to arrange the dowry? Let us know in the comments below. Stay tuned for more 90 Day Fiance updates.