Cottontaill Tue 19-Dec-17 01:50:52

Hello. DP is on his thirties. We are together for three years and the relationship has its ups and downs. But his behavior when he plays computer games creeps me out and makes me feel exhausted. He will shout and smash things if he gets upset. He takes a lot of pride on his game "achievements" and he gets upset if i dont praise him enough. It seem so stupid that i have to take a game so seriously. The most disturbing though was something he said recently. He said that he makes friends in the games with people who done something wrong (as far as i see it he perceives wrong where there isnt any) so he can revenge them later.He has a notebook where he writes what they did to him so he can "get back to the feelings they caused him". Apparently he also holds something against me(in game) and he waits the right moment to revenge .He said that this is how he operates in real life too and made an example that if i ever cheat he maybe forgive me and we can move on to have a great life, kids etc but ten or twenty years down the line he will still remember and perhaps one day he will take revenge for what i did to him . I though that it was some sort of joke but he is serious.I mean its a game and in real life i dont plan to cheat but i find all that very disturbing