@girls that aren’t sure if they can be a lesbian or not: most people who identify as lesbians now once dated, crushed on, and even loved boys. you can still be a lesbian if that’s the case. most lesbians also once related to “I’m attracted to boys but don’t want to date them” as a part of compulsory heterosexuality. you questioning your identity or trying on the lesbian label is not “problematic” or lesbophobic. you’re allowed to not be sure about these things and you deserve support and respect.