When I am at Social Island I typically wear a group tag satting “Sex Mentor”. I thought that to be funny.

Of course sometimes people ask me about it. Same this week. He was a so typical noob. He didn’t even know we could actually have sex in Second Life.

“How does that work, can you explain me please,”he asked.

I am sure I can.

“Well first of all you need a penis, as the standard avatar doesn’t come with one,” I explained.

First Stop: Shopping for a Penis

Yes, I know how that sounds without context.

I gave him a notecard on which I have listed several low cost or no cost penises and simple mesh bodies for noobs. These are links of Second Life Marketplace, a website where you can buy virtual stuff, such as cloth, furniture and genitalia.

It’s the “Amazon” of Second Life. Designers and shop owners upload their stuff to the site, exposing their goods to a huge audience. In return Linden Lab charges a small commission on ever item sold.

You pay with Linden-Dollars which you can buy on secondlife.com using paypal or a credit card.

Those penises are at very low cost, below 10 L$. Obviously those are not as good or realistically textured as the Aeros penis, but ok to get started.

Links to Second Life Marketplace:

https://marketplace.secondlife.com/p/Hugsies-Penis-36-BOX/14028626

https://marketplace.secondlife.com/p/Penis/5038073

https://marketplace.secondlife.com/p/Valo-Penis-v40/13547120

https://marketplace.secondlife.com/p/Penis/3555931

https://marketplace.secondlife.com/p/Complete-Male-mesh-body-men-avatar-bento-head-hair-almost-free-limited-time-offer/16567815

https://marketplace.secondlife.com/p/META-Male-Mesh-Body-BASIC-Bento-Hands-Fitted-Mesh/16432257

Next Stop: An Adult Sandbox

Noob and Jessica in my Favorite Adult Sandbox

What’s a Sandbox?

Sandboxes are regions in Second Life where the owner allows people to rez stuff and build. There are plenty of those around in Second Life. Just make sure, if you want to unpack adult items to choose an A rated sandbox.

Sometimes you need such place, because many items you buy in SL are what we call “boxed”. Which means several items are put into one single prim for easier transfer. It works similar to zipping files.

Those boxes (zip files) need to be rezed in world in order to open (unzip) them and to save them in your inventory. This process requires rezing permission. Hence you can only do this on your own and or such a sandbox.

My noob understood quickly how to rez a box, open it and transfer stuff into his inventory. No big deal. Also wearing the penis and the corresponding hud was not difficult to learn for him either.

Next Stop: The Animations

Sex animations are typically built into furniture or in a hud. You simply sit on the furniture, click it anywhere and a menu with the available animations pops up.

Simple!

But it is worth your while to get to know the different menus and animations. Once you know what is where you can play those in a realistic order.

There are some animations available on that adult sandbox we went to. But they are pretty outdated and lame. I decided to invite my noob to Caroline’s penthouse, up in the sky above the SLA Media office. The apartment is full of recent quality animated furniture.

I noticed he got a little nervous when I asked:” You want to see some animations in action?” At the same time I started taking all my cloth of other than a sexy piece of underwear.

I invited him to do the same and sit on the bed. He promptly followed.

Sex Bed in Second Life

Next Stop: Emotes and Sexual Roleplay

Before I joined him on the bed I explained him the concept of emotes and rp (roleplay) during Second Life sex.

An emote is basically descriptive text in third person. You describe what your character is doing, how he/she does it and maybe even what he/she feels doing so. This enhances the animated action.

In most viewers /and in other games) you use the command /me in order for format an emote in italic.

This is the formula:

erotic text + sex animations = Second Life sex

My noob got that one immediatly. He was one of the clever kind of noobs apparently.

Next Stop: Have Fun

And we did. My noob knew by then all he needs to know about how to have sex in Second LIfe. He just needed to experience it.

Instead of just playing some animations as a demo kind of thing, I went straight into sex play. My noob was a bit inhibited to start with, but got into the swing of things after a while.

Second Life Sex

He was himself very surprised how much this did excite and arouse him. Of course, I made him cum.

Second Life Sex

“Was this what you did expect from virtual sex?” I asked him in the afterglow.

“Oh my god, this was way more that I ever would have expected,” he answered.

I smiled. It’s great fun to take a noobs virginity.

I gave him a couple of landmarks in case he wants to explore the sexy side of Second Life. I especially recommanded Cafe CumCum. He can practise his sex skills with the waitresses for free.

I recently wrote an article about the most popular Second Life sex destinations.

Are you new to Second Life as well?

Leave your username in the comments below in case you need some mentoring about Second Life sex. I will get in touch – promised.

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See ya inworld.

Jess