It appears Darcey Silva and her hunky Dutch boyfriend Jesse Meester, 25, have split. The volatile stars of the 90 Day Fiancé spin-off series Before the 90 Days have had their fair share of fights, but it seems like maybe the two finally had enough.

The 43-year-old took to Instagram to share a selfie and wrote in the caption, “New beginnings is [sic] the best feeling… Time to shine again! Keeping my eyes on the prize!” Hmm… not to mention, she deleted all traces of him on social media.

The pair has had a tumultuous relationship since they got together. Most recently, a fan commented on one of Jesse’s videos promoting the show, writing “I love you guys. Looking forward to today’s episode #curious ?,” according to Starcasm. In a now-deleted comment, Darcey allegedly responded saying, “Maybe you guys got something special. If u want him then just ask him.” After a little more back-and-forth, Jesse chimed in accusing Darcey of being an alcoholic. “Sorry for that!” he wrote. “She knows she has a problem with alcohol and shouldn’t do this. She knows she needs help and shouldn’t randomly attack or accuse people when she drinks.”

“This has been going on for over a year now and again she turned herself to the public attacking fans who just stated they were excited and happy to see us,” he continued. “This just gets worse and I’ve done nothing but be receptive and helpful (which wasn’t aired) and kept a lot to myself because it is something she needs to overcome. But now she is the one putting herself out there by attacking people here. This was just embarrassing. We can only hope and pray this is THE wake-up call.” Finally, the comments were deleted, and both Jesse and Darcey removed all photos of them together on their social media and unfollowed each other.

It wasn’t that long ago, however, that Darcey shared a sweet snap with her beau in Amsterdam. “Our love is golden… Every time I’m with you I fall in love with you deeper all over again,” she wrote on Jan. 8. “Our soul feels the love wherever we are…together in love, life and spirit…❤️✨ @ Amsterdam, Netherlands photo credits @pd_fotografie ?❤️#powercouple #photoshoot #love #beauty #beforethe90days #tlc.”

Despite their ups-and-downs, Jesse and Darcey always seem to come back to each other. This time, however, we’re not so sure.

Watch the video below to see the couple during happier times!