Our newest cam girl question was about anal sex, so naturally we turned to anal sexpert AleishaLewis for the answer. Our cam performs often specialize in one thing or another, and we’re happy to let them share their skills with you on questions about cam sex, real sex, technique, sexy myths, and more.

So we asked AleishaLewis this. What is an anal orgasm and how do you cause one in a woman? She was thrilled to answer our question!

I would pick anal over vaginal any day of the week. In fact, make that for the rest of my life! The only way I can have multiple orgasms is by anal sex. In my experience, an anal orgasm is better than a g-spot orgasm, and we KNOW those are mind blowing!

These directions are for “doggie-style.” When inserting a penis or an object in her ass, you’ll want to point in toward the naval. I find this to be one of the better positions for anal sex orgasms. Ideally, you’ll want to make contact with the other side of her vagina wall. Start slowly and work your way to a faster pace. If you’re worried about hurting her or she wants to be in control, have her back up on you, controlling the motion and pace.

Remember, LOTS OF LUBE! Anal is not a slam it in and pump type of activity. Work in with your fingers and lube, slowly until she’s opened up enough to comfortably take you inside her. Anal sex should never ever hurt…. Ever!

What it feels like for men, because I’ve asked! Males can feel the pulsating after an anal orgasm. Though, it’s not nearly as strong as through vaginal. There is no constricting or “tightening.” As far as your anal muscle, its hard to control after you have a gaping hole. Men have also said it’s not as smooth as a vagina, it’s more ribbed. That, and it doesn’t have the same texture. Obviously the tightness of the ass is a big draw.

Lastly, if you’re going to do extended anal fucking, take small breaks to add more lube. When you put lube on a vagina, it might pick up and produce more lube, so you don’t apply as often. The anus is not self lubricating. It will always need more periodically.