Bruce123 Sat 31-Aug-19 11:59:47

Wanted a bit of advice. My 17 year old daughter has small breasts and feels self conscious about them. My sister in law has taken it upon herself to take her to GP to get consultation about breast enlargement, against my wishes and accuses me of not supporting my daughter. I am quite happy with my daughter going to GP, taking charge of her own health and making her own appointments (she's done it since she was 15 anyway) but I feel like sister in law is coercing her into having surgery at too early an age. Why not wait till she is 18 and can make up her own mind? I should add, both my sister in law's daughters had breast enlargement surgery under 18. At doctors appointment sister in law did all the talking and requested that GP refer my daughter to her daughter's consultant for a further investigation. Any thoughts? Is she over stepping an unwritten boundary? Or just supporting my daughter?