Couples can read all nursing books and ask all the parents they know, but one can never be fully equipped for all the life changes that come with having your first baby.

Caroline Olling Anderson, a new mom, found an amazing way to deal with those sleepless nights – writing poetry.

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Speaking about her husband, she told Bored Panda: “My husband is a fantastic dad. He is an amazing primary school teacher, and he has always brought a lot of fun and humor to our relationship, which he now also brings to daddyhood.”

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My latest 4 a.m. poem titled, “Daddy’s Asleep:”

I love your daddy, I really do,

After all, without daddy, I wouldn’t have you.

But from midnight till sunrise, it’s just you and I.

And as each hour passes, I’m not gonna lie:

Mommy’s love slowly fades, becomes angry and weak,

Because no matter what, your dad is f**king asleep!

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It all starts out lovely. We kiss each other goodnight.

We look lovingly down at you dear, such a beautiful sight.

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An hour later, mommy wakes with a start.You’re twisting and turning, you’re starting to fart.You’re gesturing for food. Mommy is therewith a bottle or breastDaddy is snoring away, the way he knows best.

Mommy burps you, and holds you and rocks you with care.

You spew foul smelling yogurt on mommy’s freshly washed hair.

As mommy changes her shirt, and mops vomit off the floor.

Your daddy farts, rolls over, and continues to snore.

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Mommy’s maternal alarm goes off, it’s not even three!

You’re stirring again, you’re hungry and staring at me!

“I think she is hungry” your daddy offers, pulls duvet over his head,

Mommy sends him a death stare and rolls out of bed.

Mommy comes back, tired and drained and what is this I see?

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Your daddy has taken over my side, doesn’t give a f**k about me!

Mommy kicks him and pushes him angrily away.

“What’s up love?” He moans in a lovingly way.

Your daddy has no clue he is under attack.

He wraps his arms around me and kisses my back.

And just as my love for daddy is back on the rise,

You start to coo in your crib and open your eyes.

And daddy gently nudges me to attend to your need.

I give him the finger as I prepare for a feed.

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But as the sun starts rising, the slate is wiped clear.

I’m back to full love for your daddy and for you my dear.

I forget that daddy sleeps while you cry and you poo.

It’s back to kissing and hugging and doting on you.

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Soon you’ll grow up and be daddy’s little girl.

You’ll not remember me cleaning up sh*t and vomit hurl.

Whilst you sit on his lap and he sings you a song,

You’ll love him and think daddy could do nothing wrong.

But my sweet love, here is a poem for you to keep,

So you know that all those long nights, dad was f**king asleep.

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Her poem made headlines on the internet. One person commented: “Thank goodness I had a partner that helped!”

Another wrote: “This is adorable, but such a stereotype. My husband got up and helped and did feedings. He even requested that I not breastfeed so that he could get up and feed our son. Still a cute poem though and probably many women’s truth. Just not mine.”

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