Today I want to share some practical tips on how to get a girls phone number, email, Facebook, Twitter, or whatever.

I’ll also give a few tips on how to kiss a girl.

Nothing magical today from your favourite Vancouver seduction coach. Just some nuts and bolts.

Oh btw I also teach in Montreal. If you live in Montreal, give me a shout.

Anyway on today’s seduction tips.

How to get a woman’s contact

There are plenty of ways to get in touch with people. Imagine your grandfather firing up the Ford Model T and chugging four miles to knock on a girl’s door. And you had to marry the woman just to get some love. Now we just tweet, text, Facebook that shit! Booty calls! Yeah.

Don’t “ask” for a number. I have a dozen methods but most go something like this:

“Hey you’re cool. We should chat later. What’s your number.” Notice it’s a question, but there is no question mark. This reflects the inflection in your voice. A neutral, dominant tonality, not an approval seeking tonality. Not like a beggar “Can I pleeeeaase have your number?”

“Hey. What’s your number.”

“Give me your number.”

“What’s the best way to keep in touch?”

“What’s your Facebook.” (For girls I’m not sure about.)

My favourite move is to just open the add contact page on my phone, and put it in her hand. She’ll do the work for me.

If you get the “I don’t give my number out in bars” nonsense, it just means she isn’t sure about you yet. You need to up the charm. Not sure how to be charming? Go out and approach two dozen girls, then come back and read more of my blog.

And there you go. Make sure that the close is solid. Text her on the spot, or repeat the number and have her confirm it. Try not to appear needy or overly aggressive. You need to be smooth. That takes practice. Study Zen.

Some chicks will give you a fake number, even if she likes you. She may just not like you enough, or she likes you enough to not reject you completely. However I’ve caught girls giving me fake digits and corrected them, pretended it was an honest mistake, and through solid text game arranged a date. So be smart and make the contact close solid. Assume success. Assume she wants to give it to you.

How to kiss a girl

Again, assume the girl is in to you and kissing her should be really easy. The biggest mistake men make is they don’t try. They are waiting for the girl to give them blatant indicators of interest and when this isn’t apparent, (like she isn’t throwing herself at you,) you give up.

Get her warmed up. Use lots of touching. Hold her hand, touch her lower back, pull her close to your body, put her hands on your chest. This will pump her sexual state and make her a horny. She can’t help it. It’s biology.

Use triangle gazing. Look at her lips, her eyes, her lips, her eyes. She will get the point.

Sneak a kiss on her cheek or neck. If she doesn’t run away screaming, the next kiss will be on her lips.

Women will usually deny the first attempt. So don’t give up after the first try. They just need to be warmed up to the idea. Most noobs will simply lunge at their face and scare the Jesus out of the girl. That or they won’t do anything.

Club and party game is a bit different. You can get really fast makeouts with girls quite easily but it’s difficult to explain exactly how without seeing it for yourself. Just understand this…makeouts don’t mean shit. It doesn’t mean she loves you, or wants to be your girlfriend…it doesn’t mean she’s going to fuck you. These are all possibilities, but just enjoy the makeout for what it is in that moment: Fun.

I’m going to write more of these practical tips posts so there are plenty of fundamentals. It’s all about fundamentals. Once you have them down, the advanced stuff will happen on its own.

Until next time, peace. And guys, please feel free to leave comments or ask questions. I reply to all my messages.