SCIENCE OF SUCCESS

Allowing Yourself to be Intentional

Intro

Would you like to be a happier version of yourself? How would you like to win more?

How would your life change if you had more successful interactions throughout your day?

As a Tulsa Business Coach, Private Consultant, and Motivational Speaker, it has been a fascinating and fun roller coaster discovering how to frame my message of Self Empowerment and Intentional Living into a digestible format for my audience. As I have been trying to enable others to Be Their Own Hero, I have been surprised to find so much hesitation from a handful of my followers to embrace self love and self development without framing it as:

A) Not worthy of their time (unimpressive)

B) A selfish mentality (lacking empathy)

C) Not effective (They screw up the step by step process, and blame me)

It seems that certain people can not allow themselves to be Intentional. They can’t or won’t give themselves permission to first consider their own agenda even if that agenda is to help others. People believe that by Preframing the Outcomes they want and by focusing on their own goals and intentions FIRST that they are somehow being selfish.

Let’s just think that through. That mindset is a psychological pretzel that we need to get ourselves out of in order to optimize how our individual lives are going to turn out; if not in results, in mental peace and serenity by giving us more control over our circumstances. If you want to help others and create an atmosphere around you and a buzz of empowerment, you are going to have to be intentional about that and as a Business Coach and Private Consultant, I have watched this shift take people from Zero to their own Hero!

Arrogance

The first and primary cause for this misappropriation of perspective is from arrogance. Firstly, people think they know the best way to think.

No, no they do not.

I have found that most people think according to when life happens to them as reactionary rather than focusing on the best way to think proactively; I have spent my entire life studying Psychology, Neuroscience, Language, and animal behavior trying to change my way of thinking to maximize my results and get more outcomes to look like successes.

Have you? Have you been intentional about trying to optimize how YOU think by first realizing that it isn’t optimal and can and should be optimized?

Probably not, most people think that other people and the way they think are their problem. Ok. You might have dabbled and read a self help book or two, but that is not researching, and it is arrogant to think you have done the hard work of observing and experimenting with your hypothesis in the same way that scientists and psychologists dig through data to arrive at applicable methodology in order to demonstrate their findings.

If Arrogance has prevented you from reaching your goals, it is a good time to see if maybe you should change the way you think and adopt a mindset that can empower you to Be Your Own Hero.

Misinterpretation

The Second reason people don’t adopt the methods I am presenting is because they don’t understand the agenda behind what I am telling others to do, or they have intentionally misrepresented it to themselves based upon some bias or misinterpretation of the information I am sharing. This typically occurs when someone misinterprets my agenda or intentions in sharing these Mind Empowering tactics due to some childhood training that is not conducive to adulthood.

I don’t know why or when, but somehow it has become instilled to demonize anyone who has an agenda even if that agenda is to help others. This is an abhorrent belief system that imprisons people to a reactionary mentality. The act of intentionally Preframing outcomes comes from a mindset that desires better, more well-defined outcomes rather than emotional reactionary outcomes.

If your misinterpretation of someone’s message is holding you back from adopting a mindset that can empower you, it may be a good time to adopt a new mindset.

Application of Methodology

I have a 9 year old son; Have you ever shown someone how to do something and then saw them attempt it, but execute terribly? As a father, I see my son constantly fail at the actions I tell him how to do. Most of the time, if he slows down and watches me closely, he can replicate the behavior easily and efficiently, however, when he doesn’t pay attention and skips steps, its as if I had not shown him how to do it at all. It is a failure that looks the same as if he had no teacher to teach him AT ALL.

The third and final reason people don’t adopt a new mentality and intentional living format is because they don’t know how; here is the formula:

Obtain Consent to Change a Mind (Self or Others) Determine a Well Formed Outcome Activate Mirror Neurons Confirm the new Pattern

Conclusion

That’s it, but you don’t know how to do it. I have provided the outline and can demonstrate how anyone should use this formula to be more intentional and to produce the optimal results in your interactions and circumstances, but you still need someone to show you how to do it for it to be an effective method for you and that is why people hire me to empower them and people just like you to Be Your Own Hero.

JAMES PESCH WELCOMES YOU BACK!

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