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So, there’s this movement called taking “The Red Pill", and it’s saying that it’s some magical relationship truth that society denies. When I went to a support site for these beliefs (http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/) I found it was all just women hating. That women’s inferiority has caused all the world’s problems. That women pushing to be treated equal has somehow created every problem in the world. It says that relationships are just some sort of power struggle, that men need to have the upper hand in or else women won’t find them attractive. Basically, as a man your goal is to fuck as many women as possible using any method you can, and if that method hurts a woman’s feelings, well it is because you’re winning at the game and she’s a sore loser. Forget that people have feelings, forget that breaking someone’s trust can be damaging. Have I gone mad? Is this real life? Do people actually believe this dribble? It feels like all these men have had their feelings hurt by a woman they once held dear, and now all women are to pay for someone else’s mistakes. And women themselves have started believing this nonsense (http://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/). It’s all slut shaming and body shaming,rape culture, hate against lesbianism, saying lesbianism doesn’t exist yet male homosexuality does, hate against even other males just because they are homosexuals, and just a whole bunch of fucking hatred. Women are told to be submissive to their husbands, look how your future husband might want you to look, be what will attract the mate you think you need, and that we are biologically wired to be submissive. I will have you know as a woman, it is not my job to be submissive. My kindness is not doing your bidding, it is because I love you that I am kind. Relationships are partnerships. Women will hurt men, and men will hurt women, but we can’t blame that on gender. it is the fault of the human not of their labels. Life is all just a game of procreation, and I must say if that’s all that life is then count me out. I don’t want to be alive, not saying I want to die, but damn I’d rather just exist than be alive by these standards. I’ve even found posts here that think spousal rape doesn’t exist, that you own your spouse and if you want sex consent is irrelevant because the wife is an object. Is this real? How can anyone believe this is healthy? The fact that we can even question our mating habits proves how beyond we are from the whole “biological instinct" thing. Society is evolving, so are relationships, so is everything. I mean this when I say love each other, if you find a person who you love, you love them to your fullest extent. Love yourself, because you can’t truly love without loving yourself. If you get hurt, do not resent the person who hurt, rather marvel in the beauty of how real your happiness was with them, and forgive them for their human error. The fault is not within our biology, the fault is within our choices. The wish for equality that stirs within all living things with sentience is not a poison, it is hope.