The Value of Consistency:

I believe being consistent is necessary, otherwise you will hit a plateau. If one really intends to hit the next level with anything, then he must submit to it completely. You can’t put anything before that goal or you’ll never get any better than you were after gaming for a month or so and stopping.

You can’t be more focused on the next Call Of Duty or sitting on the couch/bed watching reality T.V. or Game of Thrones, etc, etc. You can always do that with a beautiful woman next to you in the future.

Furthermore, if you have the idea that pick-up will ruin your life if you get overly invested in it, you are wrong… It will improve it and open up pathways that you didn’t even know were available. The truth is that you are developing a skill that will allow you to advance, not just with women, but with people in general. Over-all, I think the majority of us become better leaders and develop a sense of empathy for everyone that is just starting out; in short, you become more attractive to people in general.

You have to be passionate and like all people with passion; we eventually get what we want. You need not get discouraged at the constant rejection and BS that some women dish out. It’s a long battle of pain and hurt, but that’s what will make you a better PUA and the rewards are well worth it.

There will be times where it seems like all the women are rejecting you, especially in the beginning, but eventually you’ll make it over the hump. You’ll begin to get hotter and hotter women and you’ll develop a completely new sense of self-value.

Especially for those that are just beginning, you’ll under-go a period of overcoming approach-anxiety and it can be one of the hardest struggles in this journey. The key is just to go for it and understand that after a good amount of rejection, then you will just become used to it; which is quite a humbling experience. It will feel that much better when you finally meet a beautiful woman that is interested and even better, when you meet the following after that.

I think many of us get stuck in our head and try to think of ourselves as the ‘top-dog’ and that all women should want us. When taking this perspective for so long, it can be earth-shattering to some people’s egos when they realize that not all women feel this way. I guess for some it is easier to live within a sheltered delusion, rather than accept the reality.

With others it might just be a feeling of inferiority that is bitterly difficult to overcome… Yet for those that want to actually do something about it and escape their delusions; I personally think you need to go out at least 4-5 times a week for at least 3 years to get there. You need to make sure you live in a densely populated city as well. After that amount of commitment and hard work, then you can start getting a sense for what it means to hit a new level in “Game”. That’s what it takes and if you don’t have that work ethic in you then you aren’t gaining zilch.

You can’t be afraid to approach and you can’t be afraid of rejection. It’s vital to get comfortable gaming alone. I know it might be hard for some of you, but these are things that are going to hold you back and keep you from achieving success.

So there it is and I hope I was able to get through to some of you.

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I wish you all good luck.

-PUA Redsky