There are unused samples lurking in every box. Also: how much of this do you think I can fit in that as-yet unassembled drawer unit? Because I am about to find out, and I think like many things in this post, I'm going to find out the hard way.

In this post:

Buying all the things

Ignoring skincare triggers

Testing all the things - at once

Buying 'cult' products that don't suit your skin type

Avoiding or Hoarding Samples

Writing off all K-Makeup

Treating makeup as sun protection

Buying all the things

Ignoring skincare triggers

Testing all the things - at once

This is the #1 piece of advice I have for beginners.

Buying 'cult' products that don't suit your skin type

Avoiding or

Hoarding

Samples

Writing off all K-Makeup

Treating makeup as sun protection

Figure 29-5 from Cosmetic Dermatology:

Principles and Practice, 2nd Edition by Leslie Baumann,

as referenced on kindofstephen.com

All products with an SPF or UVAPF are tested at the exact same amount, 2 milligrams per each square centimetre of skin (2mg/cm2). If you’re just dusting on your foundation or powder with SPF, to matte the skin or provide minimal coverage, you’re not getting the SPF/UVAPF on the label.

This weekend's post is going to be fairly short and sweet, because I am determined to finally unpack and put away the entirety of my product stash, and it's going to a monumental task requiring lots of coffee or possibly adult beverages to survive the endeavour, but it needs to be done. And purging- of the skincare, not skin, variety - does anyone reallya mountain of uninteresting samples of unknown vintage?Clearly since most of my samples are unused and cluttering up my stash, the answer for me is no. Naturally this has me pondering some of the mistakes I've made, and seen others make, over the years.Some of these I'm guilty of, others are things I've seen crop up time and time again as things that people have done and regretted, or are doing currently and don't realize that it's something they need to reconsider.This has to be the first mistake I see almost all beginners make; caught up in the powerful lust for all things cute, new, elegant, or most importantly, trendy, they buy a tremendous amount of products all at once, instead of plotting out what products they are missing or are ready to replace . This is part of what makes K-Beauty so attractive and easy to love - there is something for everyone.Do you want cheap, effective products? One of my staples is the $5 Mizon Snail Recovery Gel . Do you want product packaging that will look gorgeous on your vanity? I emptied a $20 bottle of Sooryehan Hyo Biyeon Concentrated Brightening Essence just because it looked like this:Do you want products that have compelling ingredients? Ingredients backed by science? Experimental ingredients? No-nonsense packaging? Packaging so beautiful you want to keep it forever? Budget options? Luxury options? Do you want things that are popular due to word of mouth , not because their brands have plush marketing budgets?How about technology innovations like BB creams, which swept up the internationally beauty community with their blend of sunscreen, skincare, and makeup (more on that later), or the Cushion trend, which been trending hard for the last year on the strength of ultra-thin, ultra-pigmented makeup that applies with a puff that gives a finish so amazing I've hijacked it to apply other products K-Beauty has immense and varied appeal, so it's easy to be swept up in the hype and buy products without mindfulness . One of the things I appreciate the most about the K-Beauty blogging community is the awareness, promotion, and thoughtfulness on the topic ofpurchasing. There is nothing wrong with taking care of yourself and treating yourself to things that you can afford and can use, but. This was one of the big themes in the international K-Beauty blogging community in the last year, touched off by UK bloggerin her postIf you'd like to read more on this point, including some of the other blogger points of discussion, check out:Another post of adoredee's that I recommend people read is, which is another classic mistake that many make, and it leads to massive amounts of wasted money, the mistaken belief that K-Beauty "just doesn't work" for you, or most horrifyingly, acne scars and visible damage.. In, I explain how I stupidly avoided sunscreen my whole life until my face was so aged and damaged that I was forced to start exploring sunscreen alternatives. Why did I avoid what is arguably the first rule of skincare ? Because my skin just. I'd apply it and within hours, sometimes within 20 min, my skin would start breaking out in tiny inflamed whiteheads, it would burn and itch and feel so angry and irritated that I wanted to claw my own face off. Every sunscreen, ever. I wasted so much money trying one "highly recommended" sunscreen after another, and eventually, I just gave up. What's the point of wearing sunscreen toskin damage if it makes my skin explode in painful, horrible acne? I was damned if I do, and damned if I don't because the desert sun was marching across my face like a 5 year old crushing ants under his feet.When I started using BB cream out of desperation for sun protection (which was a terrible idea as I'll explain later) I was mystified as to why some BB creams broke me out, and some didn't? They all contained sunscreen, so what was the difference?What I didn't know, is thatfor me.I discovered that BB creams that contained only physical UV filters did not break me out, and the ones that contained chemical UV filters did. Mystery solved. I switched to physical-only sunscreens and haven't looked back since- and I haven't had to. I can now wear sunscreen every day.So how do you know if something is triggering your skin? How do you tell if it's the product, and not the fact that you haven't been sleeping well, your job is stressing you out, or it's that time of the month? The answer is: by testing things properly, which is the next mistake that people make.Honestly, this is probably the most common mistake that beginners make. I get the appeal, really, I do. I get the appeal of slathering all my new goodies on my face as soon as I get the out of the box, and I feel this temptation so deeply I developed an externally-controlled testing process that generates a schedule for me to introduce new products, just so I won't be tempted to try all the thingsAs Kerry from Skin & Tonics points out, skin renews itself every 28 days , so I tend to test things for at least a month before I review them, but more importantly, IIf you do nothing else, do this.By introducing only one new product at a time, 2 weeks apart, you will be able to judgeproduct your skin is reacting to. My skin tends to break out from products within days, so when that happens, I immediately stop using the product, return to a base routine that I know works for me until my skin is recovered, and then test it again if I'm not sure that it was the product. Acne can be caused by hormones, a compromised skin barrier disrupted acid mantle , overexfoliation, harsh cleansing, diet, poor sleep, stress, exposure to bacteria through dirty fingers, pillows, and phones, etc. It can also be caused by products, but if you aren't isolation testing, you will have no idea which product caused the breakout.It breaks my heart when I see people say "Asian beauty products didn't work for me" and then I read that they threw 5 sheet masks, 4 essences and serums, 3 creams, 2 cleansers, and a partridge in a pear tree at their face. Now they're writing off Asian skincare completely as a fad, or just hype, or something that will never work for them, when it may only beof their giant list of products that is triggering a reaction.That's not to say that every product will need 2 full weeks of isolation testing; I only test new cleansers for a week since I'm not looking for a long-term effect- if it doesn't cause breakouts, cleanses well, and doesn't leave my skin feeling tight, dry, or stripped, I'm good. Products like point makeup (eyes, lips, cheeks) may not need isolation testing at all, although I would recommend isolation testing any base makeup (foundation, BB or CC creams, cushions, etc) as they are a common culprit.People also don't always stop to consider whether a product is right for them, and whether it might be breaking them out because it's simply not suited to their skin type.Word-of-mouth is a powerful and useful tool when you are looking to build your own customized skincare routine ; I may have items in my closet ranging from bathing suits to winter coats, but that doesn't mean I'm going to wear every piece of clothing I own at once. However, having a range of skincare options is actually a good thing, in my opinion, because it populates your wardrobe with options that you can mix and match depending on the 'weather' that day.Where I see people go wrong is filling their 'wardrobe' with options that aren't suited to their skin type. I have dehydrated combination-oily skin, so rich, occlusive products like heavy creams, balms, and oils are a nightmare for my skin. My routine is something like 90% hydrating products, and then one or two token 'heavy' options that I can apply sparingly if my skin suddenly demands it, or just simply mix in a small amount into my existing products to power up the richness of what I already have.The best recommendation that I have for people looking at an empty skincare closet is to find a blogger that matches your skin type, and then check out their routine. What do they use? What do they like and not like? Why did it work/not work for them? I have had readers with opposite skin types tell me that they follow my blog to find out about products that most likelywork for them. It's all part of the best practice of researching products before you buy them.If you're looking for your blogger "skin twin", I've got a list of bloggers by skin type with links to their routines here:So say that you find something that your skin twin likes, but does it mean that it will work for you? In short, no, there are no guarantees and bloggers are not medical professionals nor should you treat them as such . Unless they'remedical professionals in addition to being bloggers, haha!There are no guarantees, but you can, and should "try things on" before you buy them, and that's the next mistake people make: samples.Samples are great, don't get me wrong. I've used them to get the same amount of product as a full size for 88% less than the cost of a full size (you can check out the math here ) and K-Beauty is notorious for having a huge number of products available in sample sizes.Moreover, you can purchase them in packs of 5, 10, 20 or more; this is perfect for a 2-4 week testing phase if you are looking to determine if buying a full size is a good investment. This is especially relevant for some of the more luxe brands, such as Su:m37, Sulwhasoo, or History of Whoo. Many brands also offer travel sizes, which are affordable while still giving you enough product to use over a period of weeks or months.: some people avoid samples, because they'd rather buy the full size, and that's fine if it works for them. I notice that the people who do that and are successful with it are also people who are very aware of their ingredient triggers, what works for them and what doesn't, and know their skin and its needs intimately.But don't befriendly with them, which is the other side of this mistake.: deep at the bottom of every K-Beauty fan's stash is a shameful litter of unused, unloved, and unidentified samples. It's so easy to just throw a few sets into your hauls, because they're so cheap and they weigh almost nothing, and it looks good so yooolooooo and in they go. Or we breathlessly admire the generous heap of free samples we received from a seller and seeking out samples, never really stopping to consider whether or not we're actually interested in trying any of those products. Every now and then you'll luck out and your samples will rock your skin and blow your mind and you'll fall in love, but sometimes people get caught up in a "collecting and hoarding" pattern where they have a ton of samples that they've never used, and they never will. Samples also do not usually have expiry dates printed on them, so they're a bit of a gamble.The key is moderation, and mindfulness. Before you buy that $2 set of 10 Su:m37 cream samples because it has "Rose Garden" in the name (guilty!), consider whether or not you have room in your testing schedule, whether you have room in your routine, and yes, whether you could afford the full size if it ends up being your HG. $2 is still $2 too much if you never end up using them, eh? On the other hand, I've had great success with some products that I tested in sample size before buying a larger size, such as the Sulwhasoo Snowise EX Cleansing Foam The full size of this cleanser is expensive, so I wanted to test it out; I was able to get 80ml for less than $20 from Amazon Prime , and just recently rebought it in the 30ml travel size off ebay for less than $10 , because I've finally worked my way through all my samples and wanted it in a pretty tube. If it had only been available in the full size (which is almost $40!) I would have noped right out of there. You just never know about some things until you try them, which is why samples are excellent- in moderation.Frankly, K-Makeup has a bad reputation for being sheer, unpigmented, and ... bland. We're used to using intensely pigmented products and then relying on the skill of the person applying it to dial it back into a subtle look, but for those of us who are unskilled or uncomfortable with makeup, it can be really intimidating.Recently I have been exploring Korean makeup in addition to my usual fare of skincare, because I am woefully unskilled with makeup application and my makeup collection is very sparse ... or at least it would be, if I got around to throwing out all the old, expired products. (Hopefully I'll be doing some of that when I finish this post.) I'm a very minimal makeup user- my "full face" of makeup consists of using a Cushion base, spot concealer over blemishes, defining my brows a bit, and a subtle lip stain. If I'm reaaaaally going all out, I might attempt eyeliner and a tubing mascara. Shadows? Contour? Highlighter? Blush? Way out of my my comfort zone- and skill level.I've gotten away with it, because the drive of. This emphasis produces beauty trends that favour ultra-natural looks, where makeup is skillfully applied and enhances features without being particularly noticeable. My favourite Korean makeup artist,, is a great resource to check out for examples of this style, such as this video Jung Saem Mool isgreat resource for anyone looking to adopt the Korean natural look and just enhance their natural features without trying to emulate something that doesn't suit more than a few eye shapes, for example. (It's definitely a look where the skin is just as much a part of the look as the point makeup. Korean makeup, as a result, has strongly leaned towards a light-handed approach: sheer base makeup, sheer shadows, sheer lips, sheer blush. Western brands such as MAC are popular in Asia, if expensive, and I suspect the combination of subtle overall makeup trends + availability of highly-pigmented products for those favouring a stronger look has resulted in the dearth of strong K-Makeup options. Recently, I was chatting with Joan from the blog Kinseng about K-Makeup and she pointed out that although many people (including her) may have historically 'ignored' it for being not as good, really it may be more a matter of taste. After all, sheer is not necessarily bad, if you are aiming for the kind of ultra subtle look I linked above.I've been reflecting on her observation, and I agree with her- experienced makeup users who favour intense looks- or are skilled enough to use intense products and still produce a subtle, natural look- may not be satisfied with the more sheer K-Makeup products, but they're also more forgiving for beginners.And; my favourite lip product this year is the Clio Virgin Kiss Tension Lip in #7 Some, which works as a subtle stain, a gradient lip, or a full-out bold vampy lip. You can check out lip swatches of it on a range of skin tones here:Not only is the colour itself an intense pink/red/purple wine, it's very pigmented, has a smooth formula, leaves a beautiful stain on the lips, and looks great on lots of people. (Photo proof in that post!) Also, as Indian-American K-Beauty blogger Me Lub Beauty ( @melubeauty on Instagram) points out, although there is a serious lack of base makeup options for deeper skin tones, that doesn't necessarily mean that all K-Makeup will have the same issue as base makeup. Considering how incredible this lipstick looked on her NC35 skin, it's a good point.K-Makeup lip tints and stains in particular are excellent, with intense, non-drying stains with great staying power and natural fading, and there are even peel-off lip masks that leave behind a long-lasting stain. Many people swear by the 'auto brow' type brow pencils for their cool, ashy tones, dry formulations, and angular lead shapes. And let's not forget the base makeup; BB creams, CC creams, and Cushions have taken over the world, leaving western brands to scramble onto the hype train.So, don't hate on K-Makeup before you try it, but be aware of what you are looking for and make sure what you are buying is the type of product you're expecting. Many products are, and if that's not what you want, you're in for disappointment. And on that note,Double as sun protection.I know your BB cream or Cushion says SPF 50, PA++. I know, and mine does too. Do not, for a moment, believe that applying that makeup, gives you that level of protection.Likewise, that mineral makeup? Or that finishing powder with SPF? It's not as effective as we think, as explained in this post from cosmetic chemist Stephen Alain: " How much powder foundation you need for the labelled SPF ", in which he references an image which illustrates just how much is actually needed vs what people actually use:As he explains, the amount of product that most people use is nowhere near the density of what is needed to achieve that level of protection:Now, apply that logic to the amount of Cushion foundation most people apply.The entire appeal of Cushions is that you are using very, very little product which has been applied in a blended, even layer through the ingenuity of the puff. Since the formula is so very thin and very pigmented, you need such a tiny amount that it give the illusion of bare, ultra-natural skin, rather than an obviously made-up look.Even BB and CC creams; are you applying half a teaspoon of BB cream to your face each time? Becausecertainly not- I tried it one time just for science's sake and I found that half a teaspoon is at least four times as much product as I'd actually use.So please, please do not rely on the included SPF/PA in makeup to protect your skin, even if it's a DIY blend of sunscreen + makeup, because the amount you'll actually use will fall far short of the required volume to achieve the level of protection on the label. The safest approach is to use a stand-alone sunscreen for sun protection, and leave makeup as makeup.Lastly, if you have made any of these mistakes, or others, don't feel badly because you are not alone- we've all made them and developed more knowledge as as result. (ღ˘⌣˘ღ)