DR. @RockyLaBarre 's GAY ANAL FUCKING 101...

(As reposted from 2 hours of tweets at from 2:30 AM-4:30AM Dec 29th 2010





I'll start here:The body has a protective instinct (Fight or Flight reflex) it's tied into the nervous systm. It guards the hole.



The body knows that it can die if the hole is entered, so it tries to be ONLY an exit. But the body wants movement down there.

So the nerves it places there are both for pleasure (To make you *want* to poop and to Close off the poop) and for pain: (to keep out intruders)



If you know this then you know that your job is to stimulate the nerves into sending pleasure to the bottom so he allows movement. For trusted MOVEMENT across those nerves is PLEASURE

Not pain which makes him clamp down to PREVENT movement.

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THAT is step 1. --- Step 2 is Anatomy & Physology. Where are the Minefields/ PLEASURE CENTERS there are basically 4.



OK Anatomy/ Phys: I'll skip the taint. except as a landmark: The taint (Perineum) is a "Road" of pleasure nerves. If a BTTM is on his back..



Trace the taint to the anus. Where the taint "meets" it is approx wher the 1st landmark is. It's slightly in the anus but on that upper wall



I call this lil bundle of nerves the "clit" cuz it's placed "North" in the butt. Playing w it turns the ass on. Guys who eat ass know this.



@hotflesh 25 years Experience plus Anatomy & Physiology class at The Swedish College for Massage Therapy. - Should I continue?



So a good top traces the taint & plays with it and the clit. It's what I call "Petting the pussy". You always get friendly w it first.



Yiou have to gain trust. Tell the guy you don't care, that you will take all the time in the world... and MEAN it. --- Get it wet...



Decrease friction. (I love using silicone lube.) SIDENOTE: #TrimYourNails!!! Every massage therapist and stud lesbian knows this. Learn it!



@adeekkiddo71 teasing is gettig friendly... then when he's relaxed, changing the rythym so it's tickles. Then calm it down again & repeat



OK... I wasn't going to give the Sphincter the #2 spot but I will to keep this linear. The Sphincter is the pucker or butthole that you see.



So far you got the overview that the nervous sys gives pain/ pleasure on the same pathways and you learned landmark #1. Ready for #2?





OK... I wasn't going to give the Sphincter the #2 spot but I will to keep this linear. The Sphincter is the pucker or butthole that you see.



it's innervated by the fight & Flight nervers (which you canNOT control) & the "parasympathettic" nerves which you can control. Simply put

Simply put: you can squeeze and relax it at wll, but when you're not thinking about it, it keeps itself flexed or "tight".

So now, when you're petting the pussy, stay on the upper wall... the "Ceiling" when you first go in. But Later when your bottom is excited..



Then you'll use your finger to start tracing and slightly stretching the pucker. (LOTS OF LUBE) ceiling to floor on the left, then on the right.



get the whole thing purring... keep returning to the "clit" and trace the pleasure around.



Now that bit of info is important now if you found that the hole you put the tip of your finger into feels uniformly tite. "Drawstring tite"



Most buttholes are tight in the beginning buit w experience you'll feel that a guy is "Naturally tight" a Virgin or nervous. All 3 will make



All 3 will make your guy "TAUT". In which case you might want to warm up and stretch that circular muscle in the way I described.



Whew! OK MOVING ALONG: ~~~ Remember that road I talked about earlier? Along the perenium to the "Clit"? IT IS YOUR BEST FRIEND! YOUR BESTIE!



If you do nothing else but stay on that road traveling back and forth as needed you'll probably get in. So WHY am I mentioning it again?



Because we're on it... we're passed the Clit and we come to a BIG bump in the road! What is it??? ... ANYONE???



It's the prostate!



Pleasure spot leads to pleasure spot leads to #pleasure spot!--- Once you get to the prostate WATCH the bottom! Does he relax or tighten up?



If you're not sure if he's enjoyiing what you're doing...ASK. "Do you like that? Would you like more or less? Faster or slower? (Slower)



Your bottom might not know what he feels yet. He might be confused whether he likes it or not. -THAT'S COOL. Slow and steady wind the race.



Whern in doubt, retreat to a place you know he likes. If you gho back & forth betw the "unknown" and the sexy... you'll marry the two.



When I finger the prostate, I tend to trace it I visualize it as a walnut shape & starting at the bottom I trace from the closest point up..



From the closest point upthe right side... then back toward me. Then up the lefty side then back . over and over as if I'm tracing a "U"



Then I'll dip into the middle of the U after a while and slide back and forth. -- If you guys notice one thing here it's that I almost never

Almost never go straight in. It's all very "sideways". Are you all still with me?



~ OK... we're almost at the (tactical) end of this lesson. You have one more hurdle to pass before you're actually GREEN LIGHTED to fuck!



The last hurdle is shaped like a bullseye! Picture Game Time: Imagine this: You're at a carnival and get a bow and suction cup arrows...



You're supposed to shoot at a big bullseye! In the center is a HOLE instead of a black dot...The CATCH? If you hit ANYWHERE but the BULLSEYE...

IT SNAPS SHUT!... And you win NOTHING!



That's what we're dealing with in the anus in what's called the "Secondary Sphincter". It's your bullseye. BUT if you plunge into the side..



into the side of the muscle... it's threaded w nerves that pull it TIGHT like a drawstring. The bottom CAN'T open it and is afraid...

that you will fuck up and push ahead! That's the bottom line of this last hurdle. BUT.. There's #GoodNews! The nerve endings in this muscle

...in this muscle all end in the "inside rim" of the bullseye. These nerves can go #either way... toward wincing pain or ecstatic pleasure!



Earthy Sidebar: These nerves give the primary pleasure that u feel when u give a great big dump. That pleasure makes you push out. But... it can go both ways. --- Are we all clear at this point?



OK Final stretch. You get to the BULLSEYE and its round w am open center... what do you do? You DON'T poke it. You #approach it. take your..



Take your finger and give it a soft yet firm swipe "licking" the INSIDE of the rim. A little swipe as if u were

stealing a drab of whipped cream from inside the rim.

He WILL love it.



You swipe again and again... you can back off and trace on the prostate -if you've made it your friend- & go back. Trace the inside softly...



And as you do... LIGHTLY strech it with your tongue-like finger in all directions. U want it to open so teach it to open by giving pleasure.



At this point you have lit up ALL of the pleasure spots. They're all on ONE GOLDEN ROAD that you can trace on back and forth forever...



But you want to fuck.



So Lessen TWO is HOW TO FUCK.

In a nutshell; You put on a condom quickly (I have a 2 second technique myself) grease it up w more lube...



And do everything I just taught you from Step 1 to Step 4 and back again a few times. (I'm rushing here) The main point being that...

EVERYTHING I taught you in regard to "Opening The Ass" goes the same for fucking. - Your Dick replaces your fingers. Because it's larger..

You have to start "all over again" don't worry, it'll go even faster than B4 because he's warmed up now & wants ur cock & u really want to do it right!



Here's My last piece of advice on this Missionary fuck: Pay attention to the eyes.

Make your bottom look at u in the eye as you diddle them.

Their eyes will tell you GO or STOP and them seeing you acknowledge this will grow the trust needed to open up for you..



The Last Lession I can give you is a lesson which you would teach to your bottom. It's a breathing technique which will relax him &...

Will help you get a better read on him. I'll give you this breathing lesson ANOTHER NIGHT. You All know YOUR friends here, If they miss out..

Copy the lesson for them.



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