A woman who claims she slept with 18 men in one night, opens up about her experience.

Louise is in her mid-30’s, she works part-time, is happily married with two children and lives in Western Sydney, not far from where she grew up in a close-knit religious family.

“I grew up in a strict Catholic family where sex outside of marriage was not even considered and even then, it was just to procreate. I did the right thing and my husband was the first person I had sex with, but that didn't mean I didn’t have fantasies about sex with strangers. So as a mum with a young family and a husband away for months on end, I yearned for adventure and the idea of being wanted. My local sex shop offered sex classes and one of those was about swinger’s clubs. I messaged my husband that I was going and off I went.”

Louise told the Sex files that she has the full blessing from her husband. “He always felt like I had missed out, going straight from living at home to living with him and not playing the field. He was really supportive and loved that I was fulfilling a fantasy. When he returns from a trip, I tell him about my adventures and he gets really turned on hearing what I’ve been up to. It always leads to amazing sex for the two of us.”

Fast forward several years and Louis really wanted to ramp up her sex life and have a gang bang, where she would have sex with a number of men straight after each other.

“When I mentioned this to my husband his expression was classic! I am pretty picky about the men I have sex with, so he gave me this double take! He was really excited for me but only after I assured him I would make sure I was always safe.”

“The first time I did it, it was with 10 guys and it felt amazing. Yes, the sex was great but knowing that these guys are here for me and me alone is really empowering” and her husband’s reaction? “Once he saw the smile on my face I assured him I was ‘all good’ he sat me down and wouldn’t let me move until I had told him every little detail.”

On Louise’s second adventure she went from 10 guys to 18. Once again, her husband was there handing out the condoms and keeping an eye on things. “Most of the guys I’ve never met before, so it’s nice to have someone there for my security. My husband loves to watch my facial expressions, he is like a kid in the candy store! He jokes that he is happy to lend out his toys but only if they are returned in the same condition he lent them.”

During her interview with the Sex files Louise said “It gives me a real sense of empowerment and accomplishment, these guys are here to service me and me alone. I guess there is a sense of control and having my husband watching is also a turn on, we have a very open and honest relationship and it’s really gratifying for both us.”

So if Louise is allowed to sleep with as many guys as she wants, are there any rules in their relationship? “Safe sex always and constant open communication, the biggest rule we have in our relationship is absolutely no secrets.”

One of the aspects that Louise loves about gang bangs and sex clubs is the anonymity “Part of my fantasy is that I don’t know these men, they’re random strangers so there’s no expectation or judgment. There’s nothing hotter than seeing a bunch of guys lining up waiting to penetrate me and not even knowing their name, sometimes not even seeing their faces. We don’t swap numbers, they don’t know my name and we never see each other again, there’s no emotion attached, it’s all on my terms.”

Does Louise have any regrets? “I love trying new things and life is too short for regrets. Would I do it again? Sure if it was the right time and right place.”

She also has advice for others who would like to experience group sex “It’s all in the planning, making sure you communicate clearly what is OK and what’s not. When everyone is on the same page it works so much better. Gang Bangs are about quantity rather than quality. You instantly know the men that know what they’re doing and those that don’t. Always watch them put the condom on and don’t be surprised if some go soft it’s pretty daunting having to perform in public so I feel bad for them.”

“I’m happy to go out on a limb here and say that I think most women have this fantasy, but they’re not confident enough to go through with it. It’s actually the best thing I’ve ever done for me and my marriage; it’s something you need to experience for yourself to understand it. Like many adventures I have had it’s added a new dimension to my marriage and we still talk about my gangbangs.”

*not her real name Listen to Louise’s full interview on the Sex Files on Acast.

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This article originally published on whimn.com.au and appears here with permission.