Anonymous asked: God, you make the trans community look like shit.

disneyvillainsforjustice:

cishits:

disneyvillainsforjustice: cishits: The day I give a shit about a cis anon’s opinion is the day I delete this blog. Then maybe you’ll care about an actual trans* person’s opinion… “God, you make the trans community look like shit.” If you’re so quick to dismiss someone’s opinion (based in fact) because they are cis, that’s cisphobia and sexist. Oh wait you hate sexist shit that’s why you claim shit like misandry and cisphobia doesn’t exist is then you can be a hypocrite, but have your ass covered. Sorry not how it works. And stop misrepresenting a community you’re only loosely apart of. -Chernabog Loosely a part of? Excqueeze me, but what makes Birdie less non-cis than you? Cisphobia doesn’t exist and frankly I don’t know how you think we’re bashing men here but misandry doesn’t exist either. How can an opinion like “you make the trans community look like shit” be “based in fact” when there are no facts to accompany it? It’s literally a subjective qualitative statement. It’s like saying “I like blue” and then daring someone to prove you wrong. We dismiss cis people’s opinions because cis people have no reason to give opinions on the trans community, because they’re not a part of it. I’d dismiss the opinions of a theoretical physicist when it came to fisheries, because in order to have valid quantitative opinions on something, you need expertise and experience. Cis people have neither when it comes to the trans community, so why should we ever listen to them? It’s not their community, they don’t need to worry about how we do things. Yeah, we have our asses covered by sociological fact. Misandry and cisphobia are falsehoods. It can be proven sociologically, and frankly with some simple logic. Not everything equates in real life. Which is why your community is disgusting tbh becaue you don’t care about us, or women, or any other minority, you want to enforce the status quo, aka your imagined state of equality. You want to make sure we don’t get too uppity. Pardon me while I laugh in your face. Tbh you need to try a lot harder.

Yeah loosely a part of. Call yourself Trans… that’s cool. Have you tried to access HRT, have you gone through the parents saying “you killed our son”, have you gone through the pain of being homeless because of who you are? Transition is a HUGE part of actually being trans. Identifying with the community is only a small part. So yeah, all the mods here are only loosely trans. Until you go through the pain and struggles I’ve been through to be myself and continue to go through, yeah I’m going to question your so called trans identity.

Cisphobia/Transphobia and Misogyny/Misandry both sets are separate coins. If you have transphobia, cisphobia is there whether or not you recognize it. Same goes for misandry, if you’re whining about misogyny, there’s misandry.

“We dismiss cis people’s opinions because cis people have no reason to give opinions on the trans community” So would you kindly dismiss your own opinions? Agender is part of the Non Binary community, not the trans* community. Birdie even says in her “about me” “not cis, not trans” why is she speaking on trans issues? And Coffie is Genderfluid… again not trans, just non-binary. NONE of your mods are trans yet claim to be the voice for the trans* community. Stop being hypocrites and practice what you preach.

Why are we disgusting? I care about everyone. Just because I don’t believe in pushing others down to raise myself up does not make me disgusting. Having people recognize their “privilege” shows you only care about looking at someone and judging based on what you see and if their “visible privilege score” is higher than your’s you get pissed off until they lower down to help raise you up. I believe in a state of equality where you can go into a regular doctor’s office and they’ll have the knowledge of how to prescribe HRT to their patients, not this convoluted twist of political bullshit and HBSoC where you have to get a therapist letter that is a severely subjective opinion, then to a doctor to refer you to an endocrinologist (who can also be heavily subjective and biased) and finally maybe you’ll get your hormones if you haven’t used all your money jumping through the red tape. There needs to be medical studies and HRT needs to become an approved medical treatment. I was warned by my doctor when I started hormones just over 20 months ago that the FDA does NOT approve the medications I take for the purpose I take them for. Transition is HARD in America and in other parts of the world it is down right ILLEGAL like my friend in Latvia, he is getting his T under the table from his doc. It is by no means SAFE, but he’s doing what he has to.

The fight for equality doesn’t start with the bickering and arguing over who is more privileged than who, or who is oppressing who, or whether or not you’re willing to admit to misandry… it starts in realizing where the problems are in our society and fixing them in a real way, not by bitching at some anon who rightfully says you are a disgrace to the trans* community.

-Chernabog