







You would expect another fancy motivational post about success in life and managing you time yada yada yada, but this post is a little bit different. It's a tweaked version, it's about the inner success which alot of people seem to ignore.

Inner success, what a fancy term it is !

What people sometimes deliberately hide is their real human being, just imagine yourself locked up in a cell with just a small beam of light getting through the cracked walls, the walls you are building so hard to isolate your real self from life. That light beam is the only hope your true self is latchingon to take back control again.What you don't really understand is that creature you are locking up won't keep his sanity for long. He will scream day and night to find his freedom, but his voice is just so incomprehensible, it's like you're clogging your ears on purpose.

Society .... Fear of what other people are thinking, fear of how you appear to others. It's also that fear that held you back from helping that homless woman on the street thinking how the other people walking would perceive your actions. It's that fear of speaking up the truth would make you unlikable.

Fear of letting yourself literary go loose, always confining your thoughts and emotions, like a soldier who's obliged to join the army, forced to act so disciplined that he is literary screaming from inside while looking firm and calm on the outside standing at attention.

That's what you're doing to yourself by hiding the real you, by doing what the society would expect, by concealing your emotions to get to look more confident and strong. An important fact you are overlooking is that the real you inside won't be satisfied by what you are doing. One day those cell walls will crack down and your real self will start to come out, to show himself up, but he won't be the same as when he was forcibly pushed into that cell, both mentally and physically, you'll find him so depressed, so anxious. Your new made up firm personality will try to convince you that this old you doesn't deserve to live, that he is too weak to take control over your body.

Just imaging your brain as a big room with alot of buttons and controllers to control your body and behaviours. Also imagine that your made up personality is locking up your real you inside a cell in that room to be able to take full control, and whenever that real you try to get out, the made up you will call the guards to throw you back again in the cell.

There's only one thing I can assure you after letting that made up me take control for three years, a never ending depression, substance abuse, and a life full of anxiety and suffering.

I'm now becoming to realize that all human beings are naturally feelers and emotional. That those people acting firmly and harshly all the time are just hiding their true selves inside for some reason, and solving this reason I believe is the biggest ever success they can achieve in their lives.

So, the real takeaway of all that blabbing is, was, and will always be this : FUCK WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK !

It's that simple, a five word phrase that will change your life, or may I say, bring your real life back.



