Italiangreyhound Sat 29-Feb-20 00:39:31

Misunderstoodcheese YANBU to think this is rude and unpleasant. Of course this 'friend' is entitled to not invite your kids but personally I would not go. Wish the family well, meet the friend for non-child events/pub etc if you want to. but personally I'd just say a simple no to the invite.



"Yes my older child has SEN this may be an issue. They are good kids but by some people's standards they are a little extra. I can't help feel hurt and rejected there are other friends kids invited but mine are excluded" That's totally understandable.



"...and will be very upset when I tell them." I personally would not tell them unless you have to. Just do something else nice on the day.