I don’t feel any sympathy for any of you TERFs but No is No and you don’t owe any explanation or reason to anyone… actually, if you are a TERF keep your reasons to yourself PLEASE. You don’t like dick, fine, still you don’t have to make feel shitty to anyone for it, it’s like when you reject someone because “you don’t like fat people ” or “black people ” etc… you don’t go saying “No, I don’t like black people ” and hope no one calls you a stupid racist. Look, even if that’s true and have a preference with skin color or in this case genitals YOU DON’T FUCKING SAY THAT OUTLOUD, for respect and decency. You don’t know what to say? Just say: Sorry no, you are not really my type, I don’t feel the same/ I’m not looking to be with someone right now / I don’t really feel the chemistry between us / actually I have a crush on someone else and it wouldn’t be fair for you/ etc so many things to accompany with No that doesn’t sound blatantly transphobic/racist/stupid IF you need to say more than NO. I think they shouldn’t have pressure you to date that girl, that was SO WRONG. But if you are a TERF they did well in asking you to not assist anymore, not because you didn’t date her, but because your reasons are shit and they don’t need that kind of trash in their community.

Chuck knows I have been superficial too and rejected a guy because he was plain ugly for my taste, I wasn’t going to date for pity but damn I didn’t told him that he was ugly to his face just told him that I wasn’t dating anyone at that time because of stress, and it was enough…And I didn’t say any homophobic shit either because that is just so uncalled for even when my own friends pressured me so hard to give him a chance, but if you don’t wanna you don’t wanna, No is No no matter the reasons.

But still You know what? Hope you fall SO MADLY IN LOVE with the most beautiful girl to ever girl and just waaaaay later in your relationship you discover she has penis, a big one actually, that of course didn’t tell you about it at first because she doesn’t have to and obviously you wouldn’t be able to tell, but you are so in love (actual love and desire too) that that fact crush your heart and or you learn to accept that beautiful and feminine girls also have penis or just die alone and hated for being a TERF and give her shit for something she can’t do anything about it.

But if it’s really that bad your preference for genitals and you realize that it’s not okay to say transphobic shit outloud then use a tshirt that says “my diet is strictly pussy” or something that only specifies that of course you have a strong preference with those genitals only, nothing wrong with having that preference, all wrong using that to awfully discriminate the ones that doesn’t have it saying or implying they are not women. Even if you have penis aversion like truly it terrifies you maybe you need therapy to not suffer that bad, I mean for own sake. But if you just don’t like it then no, just don’t be a dick (lol!) about it . In other hand if you are a TERF… you go to a trash can where you belong.