

I've been dating my girlfriend for nearly a year and have had silly issues with her that have, for the most part, been my fault, and I've realised before they became real problems. I've been concerned with the amount of casual sex she's had, who she's had it with, and even over a really dumb thing - a bit of facial hair she has.



These things used to bother me, but I think it was when I truly fell in love with her that these things didn't matter anymore. I'm so in love with her, I don't care about any of those silly things anymore. However, I've now found out something else that is also probably a silly thing, but I'd like other people's opinions just to see what you think.



So, 6 months or so before my girlfriend started dating me, she had been seeing someone else she used to work with. They had only been having sex, but he was leading her to believe that it may become more than that, and that's what she wanted. However, she saw that nothing was ever going to happen and gave up on the hope that something might happen, but still ended up having casual sex with him until a month or so before she met me.



So, fast forward nearly 1 year. We've just moved in together. I'm madly in love with her. I don't want anyone else. Everything is great. Unfortunately, another silly little thing is bothering me.



I logged onto her laptop (with her permission) and went to Facebook. I thought it had been me online last, and that it had been me who was logged on to Facebook. I clicked on the search thing, and quickly realised it was her who was logged in as this guy came up in her search (they are still friends on Facebook for some reason). I was curious, so I went to her search history (I know I shouldn't have, but I couldn't stop myself) and found that she searches for this guy roughly every 3 weeks.



Is this something I should be worried about? I can honestly say that I've checked out a couple of exs a few times on Facebook, but roughly one time every year or so, and never while being in another relationship.



Is it normal that she looks him up so regularly? Should I be worried that she is still interested in him?



I know logically that it's most likely just her being curious, but I'm still a bit concerned. Does anyone else have similar experiences or any advice? Anyone's advice would be much appreciated, thanks.

My girlfriend searches for someone she used to have sex with, and wanted a relationship with, on Facebook. Should I be concerned?