So, this is Christmas. And Fox News host “Megyn” Kelly is determined to have a “White Christmas.” Kelly set the internet ablaze when she insisted that the two biggest names of the season — Santa Claus and Jesus — are absolutely white.

I can’t really blame Ms. Kelly. Her earliest image of Jesus was probably similar to mine. I don’t remember how old I was when I came across a dusty, framed image of Jesus while exploring the old things in my grandfather’s house. I remember being impressed by it, because it was a 3D picture that changed when I moved it back and forth.

I learned later that it was a reproduction of Christ at Heart’s Door, by Warner E. Sallman. Sallman also painted The Head Of Christ, which is probably the most popular image of Jesus. It’s been reproduced over 500 million times, since Sallman painted it in 1941. If you’re African-American, you may have grown up seeing one of those reproductions hanging on your parents’ or grandparents’ walls — right between John F. Kennedy and Martin Luther King Jr.

The first notion that I had that Jesus could be anything other than white (and blonde, and blue-eyed) was around 1974, when the “Black Jesus” episode of Good Times aired. The Evans’ family hung J.J.’s painting of a black Jesus on the wall, and everyone had a sudden run of good luck.

It blew my five-year-old mind, at the time. While Megyn Kelly probably grew up images of Jesus looking like someone likely to show up at her family reunion, it was the first time that I even had the notion that Jesus could look like someone likely to show up at my family reunion.

That’s probably at the root of both Megyn Kelly’s “White Christmas” outburst, and theSlate post that inspired it. Aisha Harris, the author of the Slate piece, described a conversation that would never have taken place in Megyn Kelly’s house, when Harris’ father explained why Santa was white everywhere else but her house.

Seeing two different Santas was bewildering. Eventually I asked my father what Santa really looked like. Was he brown, like us? Or was he really a white guy? My father replied that Santa was every color. Whatever house he visited, jolly old St. Nicholas magically turned into the likeness of the family that lived there. In hindsight, I see this explanation as the great Hollywood spec script it really is. (Just picture the past-their-prime actors who could share the role. Robert De Niro! Eddie Murphy! Jackie Chan! I smell a camp classic.) But at the time, I didn’t buy it. I remember feeling slightly ashamed that our black Santa wasn’t the “real thing.” Because when you’re a kid and you’re inundated with the imagery of a pale seasonal visitor—and you notice that even some black families decorate their houses with white Santas—you’re likely to accept the consensus view, despite your parents’ noble intentions.

Kelley would never have asked what color Santa was, because it was just understood that Santa was white. (As Kelly emphatically insisted, “He just is.”) The answer is as pat as the unspoken affirmation in the silence that follows it: “Santa Clause is white … just like us.” Harris knew that the black Santa in her house wasn’t the “real thing,” and was “not as good” as the white Santa she saw in her friend’s homes and just about everywhere else.

Like the children in the classic “doll experiment” conducted by Kenneth and Mamie Clarkbetween 1939 and 1940, which was cited in Brown v. Board of Education as evidence of how segregation harmed children, Harris prefered the white Santa in the shopping malls and her friend’s homes to the black Santa in her home. Almost 50 years later, a similar study designed by child psychologist and University of Chicago professor Margaret Beale Spencer found thatwhite and black children are still biased towards lighter (white) skin.

That’s because, even in the era of a black president and an Indian Miss America, children are still inundated with images and icons that portray the good and powerful as almost exclusively white. It does something to a child to look at the world and see so little of her own reflection in anything; especially anything positive.

That’s why African-American parents like Harris’ father have had to serve as an “interpretive wedge,” as Dr. Spencer described.

The tests showed that white children, as a whole, responded with a high rate of what researchers call “white bias,” identifying the color of their own skin with positive attributes and darker skin with negative attributes. Spencer said even black children, as a whole, have some bias toward whiteness, but far less than white children. “All kids on the one hand are exposed to the stereotypes” she said. “What’s really significant here is that white children are learning or maintaining those stereotypes much more strongly than the African-American children. Therefore, the white youngsters are even more stereotypic in their responses concerning attitudes, beliefs and attitudes and preferences than the African-American children.” Spencer says this may be happening because “parents of color in particular had the extra burden of helping to function as an interpretative wedge for their children. Parents have to reframe what children experience … and the fact that white children and families don’t have to engage in that level of parenting, I think, does suggest a level of entitlement. You can spend more time on spelling, math and reading, because you don’t have that extra task of basically reframing messages that children get from society.”

Defenders of white Santa and white Jesus are likely to fall back on the argument that, “It doesn’t matter what race Santa or Jesus is!” That naturally leads to another question: They why is it so important that Santa or Jesus be white?”

That Kelly was disturbed by the possibility of Santa being any other color than white is part of the disturbance many white Americans feel in a country where demographic changes mean that white is no longer the norm. More and more of our icons — political leaders, celebrities, sports heroes, beauty queens, etc. — are people of color. As anti-racist author Tim Wise puts it, “We can no longer take it for granted that we (whites) are the dictionary definition of an American.”

The possibility of that loss of primacy — the feeling of being “primary, preeminent, or more important” than other groups — extending to Christmas, and even to Santa Claus and Jesus, was probably too much for Megyn Kelly (not to mention the Fox News demographic). She needn’t worry. It’s as unlikely that Kelly will have to drive her children around in search of a white Santa or white Jesus, as it is that she’ll have to drive around looking for un-confiscated nativity scenes.

But it’s more and more likely that Kelly’s children will come across the occasional non-white Santa, and they may ask Kelly the same thing Harris asked her father. I guess we know what Kelly’s answer will be.

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