AS we're sure many brides will agree, trying to pick just one bridesmaid outfit for all your friends to wear on your wedding day is no small task.

But when one of your best friends has just recovered from cancer, you'd think that most people wouldn't mind too much if they didn't look identical to the other bridesmaids.

5 The bride used a spa day celebrating her friend's remission to try to get her to wear a wig to her wedding Credit: Getty - Contributor

However, one horrified bridesmaid has revealed that her bridezilla kicked her out of the wedding party for refusing to wear a wig.

Sharing her experience on Reddit, the woman explained how her good friend - who was also her maid of honour at her wedding - got engaged 18 months ago.

Over the past year the woman was diagnosed with cancer and had to undergo radiation and chemotherapy.

She wrote: "My hair fell out and I am recovering but my hair is still very short."

5 The woman asked if she was 'overthinking' the matter on Reddit Credit: Reddit

Describing how she is "very active in the survivor community", the woman claims her friend - who works as a nurse - "has been super supportive" of her fundraising and public speaking.

To celebrate her remission, the bride surprised her friend by taking her on a spa say for some treatments and pampering.

But what should have been a nice, selfless treat turned into a nightmare as the bride ended the day by taking her pal to a specialist wig shop.

The woman wrote: "I am a little taken aback by this because Karen knows that a lot of the work I have been involves psychological treatment in cancer patients and avoiding the shame associated with hair loss for instance.

"I politely go through the appointment and even try on some wigs although I was quite upset honestly. I politely decline when she offers to pick one out and try to forget the whole ordeal."

After she refused to wear a wig, the bride then called the woman up the next day to tell her she was being dropped from the wedding party.

I politely go through the appointment and even try on some wigs although I was quite upset honestly. I politely decline when she offers to pick one out...

She explained: "She tells me that I can't be in the bridal party any longer because the minister stated there are too many people in the bridal party.

"This completely floors me because basically I am her number 2 girl after her sister (who she barely gets a long with)."

Aware that there was more to the story, the woman then called her former fellow bridesmaids.

She added: "Although some of the other bridesmaids are reluctant to tell me anything hint at the fact that Karen was worried about how the pictures are going to look with someone with a bald head."

With only two weeks to go to the wedding, the user turned to the forum to ask if she was "overthinking" the matter and claims she is considering not going at all.

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5 Other users rallied around the woman and encouraged her not to go to the wedding Credit: Reddit

Unsurprisingly, other users have rallied around the woman - and blasted the bride's behaviour.

One wrote: "I hate the fact bridesmaids are to some extent treated like props for photographs rather than what they should be.

"Congratulations on your remission. Focus on yourself and what makes you happy."

Another added: "You are not overthinking this. I think she is only as supportive as it doesn't interfere with her life, otherwise she would know and understand your feeling on this.

"I'm not sure you are as close as you think. I'd send a message that you have a good idea what she's really thinking and that she owes you the truth. I honestly wouldn't go if she insists on the wig or the lying..."

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