Though they can be amicable or even pain-free, oftentimes, breakups are absolutely devastating. No matter how long you were dating or the state of your relationship, it can be tough to get over a significant other that meant so much to you. Just as falling in love can take time, so can falling out of love with your ex.

If you're living in limbo and questioning whether you've truly moved on, there are some red flags to look for that might indicate whether or not you're actually over your ex and the pain of your breakup.

No matter where you're at in the process of moving on, it's important to remember that everyone moves and feels differently. Don't be hard on yourself if you're not over someone.