Tbh I never found something, some people, like the ones I met here in SUPERNATURAL, each place has it’s goods and bads, and the luck of meeting the right people just as in person is still a thing, good you found somewhere else too. Supernatural is not a trap to me, it’s home and someway I feel safe, I wish I was more immune to the pain caused by toxic people or A-holes, whatever the fandom, whatever place really