More than anything, she just thinks it’s a “shame” that people could be missing out on relationships because of their narrow viewpoints, or insecurities. She tells me that she’s noticed many men choosing to date white, skinny women who are either blonde or brunette: “Some guys want candy on their arm. That’s partly down to a guy’s insecurity because they want approval. They think, if I have got what everyone 'wants' then that’ll make me look good.”