Anonymous I'm a male server (not that it means anything) is there anyway I can stop being an oppressor? Or anywhere I can start to help. I just stumbled onto Radical Feminism recently and agree with what I've seen.

1. No, there is no way you will ever stop being an oppressor as you are male and therefore part of an oppressive class. However, you can make conscious and dedicated efforts to be less misogynist and advocate for women.

2. Read, read, and read some more. Read about radical women’s experiences, our theories, etc. Read books by us. Read blogs by us. Visit radfem.org for some good, free resources on this subject. Remember: shut up and listen.

3. Listen some more. Do not speak over women, do not chide or debate with radical feminist women. Instead correct your fellow men. Listen to what we say and the problems we pose with men and masculinity. When you see men behaving in a misogynist way, advocate for women and correct their behavior.

4. Do not ever expect anything in return for this. Remember: you are not doing us a favor. You are merely being a decent human being by advocating for the class that you oppress, a class that suffers so you can be afforded privileges.

Does anyone want to add to this? Other mods and followers alike. If you have some other good tips, add them and I will reblog them here.

-r4df3m