Arielle Musa received an insane text rant after choosing not to hook up on a first date. (Picture: Courtesy of Arielle Musa)

And this is why we’re a bit wary of online dating.

Arielle Musa (side note, she has a really cute dog) met a guy called Endri on Tinder. He seemed totally normal, so they went on a date at a bar at Rutgers University, in New Jersey.

‘He seemed normal and trying to be respectful,’ Arielle told Metro.co.uk. ‘Trying to compliment me, had normal conversation about ourselves.’

But Arielle didn’t end up feeling romantic towards Endri.


‘I felt creeped out by him and his personality and the way he looked at me,’ says Arielle.

Arielle met the guy on Tinder. (Picture: Arielle Musa)

So at the end of the date she made it clear that she didn’t want to hook up. All fair enough, right?



Except Endri didn’t feel that way. He sent her a text saying how much he wanted to hook up, and when Arielle apologised, he decided to get personal (the swearing was not starred out in the original messages, just to be clear).

(Picture: Arielle Musa)

‘You seem like a girl that seeks pleasure so why don’t we just hook up?’ he wrote. ‘Why are you stuck up? Why do you think you’re better than me?’

From there, he went on an insane text rant, telling Arielle she’d be ‘alone forever’, that her family doesn’t love her, and calling her a ‘low life’.

(Picture: Ariel Musa)

He also asked her to pay him back for the money he spent on tolls, petrol, and drinks. Because if a girl doesn’t want to have sex with you, she ‘owes’ you money. Riiiiight.

(Picture: Arielle Musa)

Arielle screenshotted the texts and sent them to her friend Tamara, who summed up our feelings perfectly with the tweet: ‘Y’all, my friend went on a date with some psychopath. This is why I rarely go on dates. Men feel so entitled.’

And no, Tamara does not mean ALL men are entitled or insane. It’s just that this texting rant is one example of a wider attitude – and many women have likely experienced something similar.

Y'all, my friend went on a date with some psychopath. This is why I rarely go on dates. Men feel so entitled. pic.twitter.com/nRSQ49LW2L — tamara (@araferal) April 12, 2016

Of course, Tamara’s tweet was then flooded with responses with cries of NOT ALL MEN and blaming Arielle for not picking up on the guy’s true self. Great job, everyone. Way to focus on the issue at hand.

Arielle told us that the last text she received from Endri was him asking her to delete his number and never text him again.

(Picture: Arielle Musa)

She was more than happy to oblige.

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