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If it was part of the self-defense training, then you were right to kick like you did, but it sounds like maybe the second time wasn't such a good idea. He should have been wearing the cup. The situation didn't call to be made light of with a joke, although you probably meant well, best just to leave it alone. A doctor is a doctor, if they are qualified, age and sex should not make a difference. They've seen it all day everyday in any case and aren't really easily shocked. Yes, you should have stayed outside of the exam room. He's 17. At 17, I would have been mortified if my mom came in a room with me, and I'm female. He's almost an adult, mommy doesn't need to be there with him every second. If he was suffering a gunshot wound and about to die, fine, I understand why you would feel the need to stay with him, but something like this? No. It wasn't appropriate for you to be there in the exam room. It was a huge mistake to ask him about something so personal in front of anyone at all, girls or not. Think about it like this, how would you feel if he asked you about your privates in front of people, particularly men? You need to just leave the situation alone. He'll get over it eventually. It's very fresh and he's going to have a wounded ego for a bit, but it'll pass over. It's one of those things you just need to ignore. Too much mothering is not a good thing. He's a teenager, and this crisis will only last as long as it takes the next big thing in his life to happen. PS: Don't mean to sound harsh, just trying to answer all of your questions.