I'm answering my own question, yay! This is my attempt to answer my question despite my lack of familiarity with much of the medicine. I therefore stress that I am not guaranteeing this answer, it's meant to be a very rough estimate and shouldn't be considered exact. Perhaps others will comment on things I missed and allow me to make it better...

First, Here is a quick link that discusses the concept: http://blog.inceptsaves.com/blog/2010/10/27/donor-recruitment-how-can-one-pint-of-blood-save-three-lives/

So there are three types of products that can be produced from whole blood, and each is divided into a nice 'unit', a base number used to define how much of a product is ordered by a hospital. However, one whole blood donation does not make up a full unit in any of these three. So what we get is:

Red Blood Cells(RDC): little less then 2 donations per unit Platelets: 5-6 (I've seen both numbers, 6 seems more common) donations per unit plasma: less certain, I think about 2 donations per unit?

Thus for 10 donations of red blood cells you will have produced 2 unit if platelets and 5 units of RDC and Plasma. If one unit was required to save a life then you will save 12 lives with those 10 donations, or 1.2 lives per donation.

However, it looks like many units are required per operation/transfusion/emergency.

Red Blood Cells

in 2010 on average 2.75 units were used per patient. This is not anywhere near an accurate estimate of units needed per 'life saved', but I'm trying for a very very rough estimate. So for now lets say that each transfusion saved a life, and thus it took roughly 5.25 whole blood donations per 'life saved' via RBC. In actuality the odds are not every patient was in a life critical situation, so we should look at the number of units used per patient who was in a life critical situation, but I don't have that number. Since it seems likely that those in non-life critical situations would likely require less RBC then those in a life critical situation I would assume the units used per life-critical operation are higher, meaning the overall lives saved per whole blood donation is lower, but I don't have statistics on this.

Platelets

I know it can take up to 30 units for a single organ donation; but that's probably a high estimate, to stress the importance of donations.

Bone marrrow transplants used 54 PC in the 100 days post transfer, where a PC is defined to be the amount of platelets from a single donation of whole blood, but was also defined as requiring 9-6 PC to make a full unit; so a slight discrepancy from other numbers. I would put that at an average of 5 units per bone marrow transfer?

The average pre-transfusion platelet count was 32,055 with a healthy platelet count being 150,000 to 400,000. One unit should raise platelet count by 30,000-50,000. If we assume they would transfere enough platelets to get someone up to close to the lower end of 'healthy', 150,000, then they would need another 3-4 units per transfusion. This seems in keeping with other math I saw, with all surgeries looking to require 5+ units. Going with a favorable comparison lets say an average of 3 units per life-saving transfusion. I'm not at all confident with this number, but it's the best I've managed so far.

With that number were looking at 15-18 whole blood donations per one life saved with platelets.

Plasma

I give up and throw up my hands here. Plasma is broken down into many different products, and trying to get averages for all those products to expand on the average units used is just too much.

for now, until I get around to doing better research, lets be extra generous and assume every unit saves one life. I highly doubt this, I would say it's likely that it's at least a minimum of 2 units per life saved, but I'm trying to stay on the generous side; and lacking any statistics I can at least say that they define units as a minimal quantity likely suggests they don't expect adults to ever need less then 1 unit per transfer which implies at least one is needed per life saving intervention.

Giving that likely generous presumption were looking at 1 life saved per two whole blood donations via plasma.

Other products

There are other products that can be made out of whole blood. None of them are nearly as useful as the above, and rarely are collected, but at least some of them are utilized and would add to overall lives saved by a very small amount. I don't feel like adding them up since it sounds like they are such a minimal affect, and won't. That's because I think any lives preserved via these methods is counteracted by...

Waste and outdating

Just under 5% of all blood products go unused due to waste or being too old. I figure this waste more then counteracts the above other products, so I'm going to ignore both and just pretend they two affects perfectly countered each other.

Final assessment

This is all very very rough math by a layman, so I am not swearing to any of it. I was trying to error on the side of presuming maximum number of lives saved per donation; though it's entirely possible I missed an important factor which caused me to underestimate these numbers; feedback is welcome.

However, as the math works out we have:

5.25 Whole Blood Donations per life saved (HBD/L) for RBC

15 HBD/L for platelets

2 HBD/L as a very generous presumption for plasma.

This works out to .757 lives saved per donation.

so a little less then 1 life saved per donation at my most generous; though I fear my being lazy and not doing a plasma calculation likely raised that number higher then it really should be. Assuming I haven't made some obvious miscalculation; which is quite possible!

So every 2 whole blood donations you make will save a life! I've been donating for about 10 years now at about 1 donation per 2 months, so that still means more then 30 lives saved. Still not bad considering how little it really costs me.

I welcome feedback from anyone who has more knowledge about this then...well a geek googling random statistics who may be able to point out factors I missed. This is definitely not definitive; but it's nice to have at least a rough rule of thumb.