willurl:

just a reminder not to bring your kinks into public, especially with BDSM. that stuff stays in the bedroom. like queerness, BDSM is nothing to be ashamed of. UNLIKE queerness, BDSM is inherently sexual. please don’t get someone to chain you up to a bike rack or tug you around on a leash near taco bell. sex positivity is good, but make sure you’re still practicing sex safety - and that includes making sure children don’t get exposed to stuff that’s legitimately confusing and hard to understand!



except bdsm is not inherently sexual! There are plenty of kinks that have nothing to do with sex and if my Sir wants me on a leash then you’re gonna have to actually talk to your kids for once and teach them about individual expression



(Source: momma-rose, via polarity-princess-deactivated20)