I was reading an “advice” article in a shitty magazine (can’t remember which) the other day & a woman said her bf was complaining about their “boring” sex life. What I noticed was 1) they didn’t ask how she felt or if she was enjoying their current sex life & 2) everything they told her to do to “spice things up” was to turn HIM on (strip for him, give him a bj, make him a porn video, wear sexy lingerie, ask what positions he wants to do) but never suggested that she ask for anything in return, nor did they suggest that her bf make any effort to do anything. It also got into some creepy coercion/rape territory (they actually said “try everything he wants once even if it doesn’t interest you, you might like it!”) and not once did it mention that she was not actually obliged to do anything she wasn’t comfortable with. The message that I got from it was “Become his personal sex slave and do everything ever that he wants you to do and if you don’t you’re a selfish frigid cow.” Am I making too much of this or is it actually pretty disgusting?