Anonymous wrote: Or if you don’t feel like being a home wrecker and put a good guy through the gut wrenching hell of divorce…and the children too, ignore her like it’s the wind passing past your ears. Invisible head phones.

That is what I did 100.00 % of the time. Never did I bang a customer or the wife of a customer in my 18 years of active work.

This exposes you to false accusations, loss of respect, jealous husbands making your life dangerous, baby traps and getting a bad reputation in the surrounding areas.

After all, MOST “customer” women hit on you for getting a price discount or a free meal ticket on your work time.

Hooking up with them or entering their friend zone holds NOTHING BUT DISADVANTAGES for you.

I always played the monk that is so wrapped up in his work that he doesn’t have time for a relationship…

“Oh that’s so bad/sad” and they feel sorry for and give you less of a hard time… And they stop approaching you.

That was my stealth secret.

And it always gave me “the exit” by looking at the clock and saying: “Oh, I am late, the next customer is waiting and it’s 30 km to get there…”

“I promised to help him restore the cable service tonight!”

Of course, “30 km away” so people would not ask “who”… They knew each other well in these villages here.