Agreed with you all the way. I consider myself childfree and I'm kinda nuetral about kids, but the vast majority of the people in the community pisses me off and really do come off as bitter assholes. Like holy fuck, I get it, it's annoying to be constantly asked when you're gonna have kids, deal with awful parents, and all that jazz, but for the love of Christ, calm the fuck down. It's not the end of the world if you see a kid somewhere, and not all of them are brats. Some of them even get pissy at other childfree people who aren't feminists, don't rabidly hate kids, or actually get along with their nieces and nephews. I may not want to be a mother but I would love to be an aunt someday (my sister wants kids later down the road and my brother's on the fence), and I'll be damned if some asshole talks to my niece or nephew this way. Your brother is so adorable, fuck that lady for harassing you two. ^^