Moving in together is a big step. It can make or break your relationship. There are many pitfalls to watch out for. One of the biggest problems new couples have is finding it hard to deal with their significant others living habits.

Maybe they leave things out? Don’t tidy up after themselves? This stuff might seem small, but let it fester and it could spell the end of love.

Well, worry no more! We reached out to a series of interior design experts and have compiled a list of the best tips and tricks to help turn your house from a potential source of conflict to a relaxing space that can provide a comfortable abode to spend time with your loved one.

Happiness Author Gretchen Rubin says “moving offers an opportunity for a clean slate – use this time to free yourself of clutter.” Take pictures of sentimental items and let them go. Thank the person who gave you a gift you don’t need, and let it go. When you can find and put things away easily, it makes living with someone better! – Erica Leigh Reiner, owner of E. Leigh Designs

Two great books to get you going are:

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