tw: self-harm, suicide

So, I just wanted to clear up on some things for people’s health’s and well-being’s sake. There have been several times I’ve witnessed men subconsciously using the fact that misandry is justified as an excuse to hate themselves and self-harm. And these were men that “got it”, you know? They understood what feminism, misandry, what all of this is about, but they instill in themselves the concept of misandry and think that since they’re men they deserve everything bad that happens to them, all the harm caused to them, and I’m talking real harm, things that noone deserves to go through.

This is no fault of the concept of misandry itself, the unfortunate way they perceive it is unique to each of them, but the fact remains that there have been several instances where they were told by other misandrist to “kill themelves” or in other ways harm themselves, when they came to their inboxes. I know they did nothing to provoke, but regardless of what they do, it’s NEVER okay to tell someone to go and kill/harm themselves, you don’t know the state of mind that person is in. Even if they’ve been complete jackasses to you, you can say whatever you want, call them names, I don’t care, but just remember to NOT go there, to not throw around suicide and self-harm like that, because it is dangerous.

The rules of misandry are something many men go by as well, to protect themselves from male on male violence, the point being, the really do “get” what we’re saying here, why we feel the way we do, they’re not being some sort of male tears machines, it’s just that when you already are in an unstable state you can start to subconsciously misinterpret things to feed your selfloathing, which is very NOT OKAY, and I just want to make sure the misandrists on here don’t promote that kind of unhealthy mentality or behaviour.

/end of rant