Bisexual Married Men of America



The first and foremost rules on this list are privacy and respect.



Some of us are bisexual, some of us are gay, and some of us are trying to figure out who or what we are. Most of us are married, some of us are engaged to be married, some are separated, divorced or widowed.



Why an email group? As bisexual and gay married men we face unique challenges in life unlike gay or bisexual single men.



We are glad to find that we are not alone. It is a relief to share with other men who are working out their own answers to some shared questions: Am I gay or bisexual? Can I be married and sexually active with others? Do I want to do this, given my wish to be loyal, feelings of guilt, frustration etc.? How can I meet men? Should I come out to my wife? How? How about my children? My friends and business associates? How can I deal with other people's feelings about me?



We do not judge one another or offer advice that hasn't been asked for. We try to learn how to listen to one another more deeply. And we try to talk more honestly, trusting that the person we really are will be truly heard and honored.



Messages posted by email to BiMMA are read by all of our members. Joining an ongoing conversations, or begin a new "thread" of your own.



This BiMMA Group site is used for frank talk, heartfelt support, authentic friendship in a comfortable living room environment.



We all have different ways of managing our lives, and we try to honor the differences. Some people are entirely secret about their sexuality; others are as open as possible. No way is the right way.



Some basics..

* No Flaming, (Respect other people's opinions. If yo

* No Spam (Advertisements and extra long signatures.)

* Chain Letters, (Those forward to 10 people things)

* Cross-Posting, (Sending mail to more than one list at a time)



And lastly, civility is always worthwhile! Be polite, Be polite, Be polite!