I’ll make this brief. I’m 20, in college, not a virgin. Whenever I’m attracted to a girl it’s always 1-sided or she finds someone better. I’m always someone’s back-up plan or not even an option. Always been the ugliest member of any friendship group I’m in. Believe me, I’ve improved my body, haircut etc. I can talk to females pretty easily and can fake confidence. I’ve had months where I’ve had genuine confidence too. But at the end of the day I’m an ugly dude & people probably find me intimidating cause I’m black. I really just came here to vent more than anything tbh, might give up and turn asexual.

I pulled this off Reddit. A young guy figures he’s too ugly, and black, to attract the women he desires. You guys have no idea how many handsome guys I receive for bootcamps that figure they are ugly, or short, or stupid, or broke, or asian.

So I take them shopping. I get their eyebrows plucked. I make them join a gym. This helps, but the biggest improvement to their self-esteem is that they do eventually get dates. But it takes work, and belief, and balls.

Validation is powerful.

I help them, and demonstrate, hot to approach dozens , hundreds of women until they get a phone number, or a kiss, or a lay. And wow, these dudes don’t feel so ugly after that.

You were given a body you can build, a mind you can improve, confidence you can grow. But what if you have a big nose? Or a giant mole. There are ways to cosmetically fix these, or you can take the other route:

Stop focusing on what you can’t, or are unwilling to change.

Quit fucking quitting!

Women aren’t attracted to looks the way that men are. Of course, women love a buff, tall, handsome man. But women also have a special filter, a filter that screens for value in areas other than your looks. They screen for confidence, charm, humour, status, and game; that magical ability to stimulate emotions.

Women are attracted to men that give them emotions.

This is where the, “Hot girls just like jerks,” meme stems from.

I remember one of the hottest girls I ever slept with. I picked her up right off the street corner by telling her she was cute. Weeks went by and I just couldn’t get her to meet up with me. She was what we would call a nine: Young, fat butt, long legs, dark hair down to her ass. She definitely had more dating options that I did.

I’d been texting her for weeks, and she just wouldn’t commit. Then one day I texted her to meet up, and she was on the fence. So I said, “But, I put on underwear today.”

She lol’d, and agreed to the meet, and I banged her. It was awesome. Such a little waist, such a round ass.

I’ve never been one to promote, “Lines,” or, “Gimmicks.” But there is power in language. Especially language that coveys a little bit of, “Push.” Not all pull, like, “I really think you’re beautiful. I would do anything to have a date with you.”

Gross.

“But, I put on underwear today.”

What does the above statement say about me? It say’s I’m willing to break rapport. I’m not so desperately afraid to make a mistake. I’m a bit of a goofball. This is, “Push.” This is game.

I’m not that good looking. I have a decent face, but I’m pudgy, short, hair receding, crooked teeth, bow legged. Yeah, but I’ve slept with a lot of hot girls because I believe that game was created for the average guy to have an advantage over the tall good looking guys. These guys though handsome, usually don’t have game. They rely on their looks. Game is the great equalizer.

What’s your best strategy as an average looking guy?

Approach more women!

Work harder than them.

Go out as often as you can. Get more phone numbers. Meet more women.

Go to the gym.

Dress smart.

Become a man that is worth more than his looks.

Learn game.

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