Now that I have your attention with that headline, let me be a bit more specific about what I mean. Obviously, the vagina and vaginal sex are a natural part of a woman’s body and of the reproductive process. While it’s not impossible to get pregnant without vaginal sex, that remains the standard process for reproduction even within most anal only relationships.

But the reality of human sexuality is that we’ve evolved past it existing primarily for reproductive purposes. Our urges aren’t just for having children, they’re for intimacy, trust and bonding with a partner, for pleasure and relaxation, for dominance and submission. Reproduction rarely, if ever, comes into it the vast majority of the time.

The vagina, however, is fundamentally optimized for reproductive purposes, and in order to use it for our non-reproductive sexual purposes we have to fight its true nature as a means of getting pregnant and giving birth, through the use of condoms—which are awkward and unenjoyable for most people, though they certainly have their place in situations with new or untested partners—or hormonal birth control—which can cause a variety of health problems for many women, though it can also very much benefit and help other women with certain conditions.

Anal sex, in contrast, is a completely non-reproductive act, and that in and of itself makes it more naturally suited to recreational sex. The fact that it’s also more intensely pleasurable, can more easily trigger orgasms for women, is more innately attractive to many men (and women too!), boosts arousal for women compared to vaginal sex and clitoral stimulation, and is commonly reported to lead to a significant increase in intimacy and trust between partners further solidifies its role as the ideal and, indeed, natural primary sex act for humans.

Why constantly fight vaginal’s true nature and risk pregnancy with imperfect and often harmful artificial birth control methods? Anal is natural birth control, optimized specifically for sex without pregnancy, with far more intense pleasure and satisfaction for everyone compared to vaginal. Introduce yourself to anal pleasure and the anal only lifestyle with our guide to anal sex and anal only!

Related Posts