http://www.side2.no/underholdning/sophie-elises-strste-frykt-er-a-ikke-bety-noe/3423272076.html

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Still, Sophie Elise never felt good enough. “The feeling of not mean something is the worst for me,” she writes in the book.

What do you mean?

– I’m afraid to score in the middle of everything. When one is not very pretty, not very ugly, when one is not very stupid, or not very smart – then you know anything. It was one of the worst for me. Everyone has their complexes, but for me it was thing. It was worse than being hated.

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The worst thing for a woman isn’t to be hated, it is to be ignored. And she spells it out directly! (I used google translate FWIW).