I never thought I would ever be a mum, I was petrified to have a boyfriend as I didn’t want to infect anyone.

When I met Jay seven years ago in the pub, I did already have my eldest son who I knew didn’t have HIV.

I fell completely head over heels in love with Jay but I was scared he might reject me once he found out.

He handled it so well, and we used a condom to ensure he was safe while he helped me accept that I had HIV.