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To get to know a girl better, try spending time with her doing something together, like finding a private place to sit for a chat or going to a coffee shop. When you're having a conversation with her, ask questions about her opinions on important issues, such as what she wants to do in the future, rather than just talking about bands and school. You also need to show you're interested in getting to know her by opening up and talking about your own feelings and goals. If she asks you questions, be yourself instead of trying to impress her by acting cooler or smarter. If you want to learn more, like how to find something you have in common or get to know her family, keep reading the article!