The Beatles famously crooned, "all you need is love." But they were wrong.If you think all you need is love, then it's very possible you'll end up in a situation where the only thing you try to have is love. If you find yourself truly plunging into the depths of despair over your oneitis, then this may be why. I've spoken to countless guys about their depression and oneitis, and for the most unhappy of them, they always say the same thing: "You don't understand. She's all I care about."Have you ever said these words? If you have, then your oneitis is not the problem. It's a symptom. A symptom of you being deeply unhappy with your life, and you've used your infatuation over a woman as an escape to fantasize about a brighter future. This is why your oneitis is so crushing. You thought all you needed was love, and since you don't have it, you feel you have nothing.Is this you? Review these areas of your life. If you're rich in these areas, then your oneitis is something you'll be able to easily overcome because you'll realize there's much more to your life than infatuation over a single woman. But if not, it could explain why you're feeling so depressed, and you'll need to do something much more constructive than "go out and fuck 10 other women."

1. You're Depressed Because You Can't Talk to Your Friends

2. You're Depressed Because You Have No Idea What You Want to Do Educationally/Professionally

3. You're Depressed Because You Hate The Way You Look

Treat the Problem, not the Symptom