I have to share this.

It’s minuscule, but to me it exemplifies so much of the (f~~~ed up) dynamic between men and women today…

I was on the patio of one of my local watering holes tonight. It was packed. It’s a smoking patio, and I smoke.

I was having a cigarette and this girl sitting next to me asks – “Can you go OUT OF HERE and smoke that?”. I said – “No. This is a smoking patio”.

Two minutes later, she stands up and is leaving, but turns to me, with a p~~~ed off face on her way out and says – “Are you single!?!”. The implication obviously being that I couldn’t POSSIBLY have a girlfriend if I didn’t oblige to a females demand.

This is the kind of s~~~ that exemplifies why I have no patience for c~~~s. She couldn’t possibly be expected to tolerate the rules of the kingdom – ‘there’s smoking on the patio, and I’m smoking’. She, personally didn’t like it. Expected me to oblige to her own favor, and if I didn’t, then it’s not enough for me to merely tolerate someone else. It’s not enough to simply change her own environment, of her own volition. No. She couldn’t even get up, leave, and in anger state something direct such as – “I cant stand smokers!”. No. What did she do instead? Escalate matters by stating that I must be “single”/i.e. not be able to get a woman because I don’t lie down and do precisely what she says.

The irony in this situation lies in the fact that her statement is a window into the mind of a woman. I was following the rules – it’s a smoking patio; but if I don’t change my behavior at the whim of a woman, then the logical conclusion is I “must be SINGLE/NOT be able to get a woman”.

That, to me is the conclusion. Makes so much sense to me when I hear females say this s~~~. The worst part is, being surrounded by male friends who don’t get it and think you’re an asshole for not obliging.

End.

Rant.