radfeminist:

Any sexual activity that you do not really want to do, but feel you have to, means you did not meaningfully consent. Oral sex, PIA, letting a man come on you are all sex acts that you might feel pressured to take part in, but do not really want to. So yes if you do take part, you have not…

Just because you’re expected to do something, you’re not really, meaningfully consenting to it?

I’m expected to get a job and work to earn a living. Am I not consenting to do so?



I’m expected to feed and walk my dog. Do I consent to do that?

Did I consent to go to college? To let my hair grow long, down to my waist? To wear high heels? What if I genuinely like those things? What if I love them? The way I look, the way they make me feel?

What if I tease my boy until he begs and then say to him, “Fuck me right now.”

What if I tell him to fuck me like I’m a dirty little slut? And that I love that? And it turns me on?



Also, on what planet is oral sex not sex? It’s definitely expected. On both ends, mind you.

Does anyone else find it really fucking insulting to women to claim that we can’t consent to vaginal sex?



Fuck you, I LOVE to have sex. Don’t you dare try to tell me I don’t consent to it. Where do you get off?

(Apparently… you don’t)

(Source: radfeminist-blog)