



Anonymous asked: "Hey, I'm a 19-year-old searching for a little help identifying. Usually I don't bother with labels, but lately I've been getting more and more confused. I had been identifying as asexual for a while; I don't masturbate and I just kind of laugh at sexual things. But I still get sexual urges and sometimes I can picture having sex with another person, but I never really actually want to. Am I right in thinking I'm asexual?"

You are right! You are asexual. Having sexual urges can still mean that you’re asexual, because it doesn’t have to do with actual sexual attraction to people. And just picturing having sex doesn’t mean that you’d actually be sexually attracted to the person you’re picturing having sex with.

Hope that helps!

-Anaxan