bronwyn11 Mon 01-Oct-18 23:08:27

Thanks for your comments guys.



Blou2 I read your post and I feel for u. It is not nice to be excluded and I don't feel like that mother has dealt with it in a very good way. I was looking for a way to discreetly steer my DS away from these boys without saying directly 'don't play with those naughty boys' because I would never do that.



These boys have just been punching/kicking etc so far YANU no worse like that boy u mentioned, although expulsion has been discussed already in the first few weeks so bad enough. Their families are well known to the school due to older siblings that have been trouble makers & in trouble with police. They live in a bad area where I would not want my son going for play dates. And so yes I am judging 4 year olds partly based on the families they were born into and yes they may grow up to be perfect model citizens (and I hope they do) but so far they are following in their siblings footsteps.



I have no desire to pick his friends for him I would just prefer that he was friends with any of the other 67 people in his year group! When it comes to picking a wife tho I may have to take the reigns for that one! Lol just kidding!