How To Make A Stand In Your Life

Stand in your life is so valuable. when you want to achieve better in your life, you should always make a stand. According to me, a stand is what gives you a firm point of making your own life principles.People do have principles that guide them in their daily activities. The principles, provide the stand. Without principles, our lives would have been at stake.You have to choose the kind of life you want to live in. Do you want to be a thug? Do you want to be the richest person in the world? Do you want to be someone`s role model? You always have the choice to make a better choice in your life, and this starts with your own principles, that defines your stand.Life principles should be permanent and static. You don`t need to be influenced and change them. If you really know what you want in life, then you shouldn`t live in someones else opinion. Find the right things that work for you, and keep a stand at them.You are grown up, you know what is bad for you, at the same time you can identify what is right for you. Don`t let people influence you negatively, you were never born for anyone`s else purpose. You were never born to please anyone.After all, not all people will appreciate you. Not, all will love you and support you. You have to accept the fact that people are not all the same. So make up your stand.Say no to the people who abuse you, manipulate you, and drag you to their own position. You are not fit for that, brother, sister, mother and father. I`m a young boy still under my father and mothers care. But it does not mean that I can`t see what is good for people out there.I may not be experienced with life as much as you are, but I would like to let you know that, influencers are always there. It may be your own mother, father, sister, brother or even the person you trust to be your closest friend.Always stay within your own life priciples.Life is always about the stands you make. It can be better for you when you know what you really want. How will you know what you really want in your life, yet you don`t have principles that guide you?Set limits. I remember when I was on holiday celebrating with my friends. All of my friends were on drugs. Being honest, God is my witness, currently, I`m nineteen years and I have never used any kind of drug. My father drinks and smokes, I never thought it was a good thing.My uncle neither drinks nor smokes. He is always smart compared to my own father. I admired him. I do remember vividly I was seven years old. That the time when I set my stand that I will never engage myself in using any type of drug.We were parting. My friends were smoking and chewing khat, which is commonly used by teenagers nowadays in Kenya. The only thing I had in my had was my backpack and my phone. I bought a Coca Cola and some crips. I was enjoying myself in my own way.They asked to drink wine. They said it was so sweet, more than the Coca Cola I was drinking. I never accept it. They started mocking me, Trying to intimidate me, scalding me, I never cared, after all, everyone has their own lifestyle they want to live.To finalize, It is so essential for everyone to make stand in everything. Have your principles that you will be abiding by. Never let people try to make you choose how you want to live. Choose the best for your life and you will never regret the kind of life you are living in.Work out on maintaining the best moral values you ever had. Don`t let other people try to make you live off your means. Choose what makes you happy, that is positive.