My boyfriend just bought a PSP. Now it seems like hes dating his video games instead of me! Should I try to join in on his new hobby or tell him how Im feeling?

And this is surprising because...? Believe me, youre not the first girl whos had to compete with a handheld device for her mans affections. Video games can be addictive to a guy, I think, because they combine everything he loves: competition, excitement, fantasy, technology, and total, utter destruction. After a hard day at work, sometimes its nice to just veg out in front of the TV and blow up stuff.

The big question is, just how much time does your boyfriend spend with his new toy? If its a few hours here, another hour there, I dont think his hobby is a problem. In fact, its healthy for you not to spend every waking minute together. But if the PSP completely replaces PDA and hes more worried about his high score than scoring with you, you need a game plan yourself.

Start by asking him to teach you how to play, and see if you like it. Whats that phrase? Keep your friends close and your enemies closer. You cant fight the PSP, you might as well try to embrace it.

The next step is to insist on some one-on-one time. Tell him its cool if he plays for an hour or so, but then he has to it off. Helpful hint: Its easier if you things away from the PSP vicinity, like to a restaurant or a game.

If he cant  or wont  accommodate you, then you might want to reassess his character. After all, its just a game.

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