I think a lot of it is cultural, when she said that. How she grew up. She was in a situation where every day there was family around eating sunflower seeds and just talking. And that was what she saw as a little girl, so yeah, of course she wanted this lively, communal family setting. That was her American dream. When she moved here, she sacrificed so much and part of the reason she stayed with my stepfather for so long was it allowed her to get her citizenship; I didn’t get my citizenship until I was 14. We would have had a much harder time even getting our green card if that marriage hadn’t happened.