You took responsibility away from these women. You blamed their actions on something else entirely. And you reached pretty far to do it.

A child of any gender would want to avoid their parents knowing that they are sexually active.

Both men and women can be in positions where they do not want to pay a bill.

Both men and women can cheat on their partners and not want it to get out.

Both men and women can want attention.

We are talking about people who resorted to accusations of horrible crimes (without proof) and who apparently had no qualms about destroying the life of another person.

The reason that false rape accusations are rare when they happen to women is that literal rape definitions do not recognize female on male rape. Evidence or not, the woman would not be charged with rape unless she added very specific and rare actons to the process. Child abuse can be done by either gender and both sides have been known to make false accusations to get back at the other or other petty reasons, but rape is gendered by definition where i live and where you live, so false accusations against women are virtually nonexistent.

“Personally i think it’s because there are limited ways to lash out.”

Well definitely not in first world countries. That is a terrible excuse for their actions. You dont want to pay a cab bill so you cry rape because “there are limited ways to lash out”? A guy rejects you so you cry rape because “there are limited ways so lash out”? No! These people did so because it was easy, not because it was hard. The victims of these accusations were treated and punished like criminals based on zero evidence. You treat rape accusation like a last resort or tough choice for a tough decision, but in reality, people do it for petty and shallow reasons. They don’t do it because they have to. They do it because they can. And they have people like you to back them up.

You honestly think galse rape accusations are really taken seriously? The heavily publicized US mattress girl case still has more people on her sode than against it. This woman lied about rape with no evidence, and was immediately believed. She received feminist awards, got magazine and television interviews, got the support of her school, all over an incident where there was more evidence against her than the accused. The accused was proven innocent time and time again, yet it is she who is receiving the support.

People think feminism does not care about male victims because feminist actions have supported this. In the US, the UK, India, Israel, etc, feminists have opposed gender neutral rape laws, opposed government funded abuse shelters for men, opposed gender neutral issues being treated as gender neutral. And this is a topic that many feminists, especially on tumblr, tend to pass off as unimportant or non existent.

I always try to gove people chances, even feminists, but i do not really see you as separate from the group. Not really. Not based on your actions. You believe in “toxic masculinity”, but take responsibility away from women’s bad actions. You view feminism as an absolute “either youre a feminist or you don’t believe in equality” (according to many posts kn your blog), you play identity politics, blaming white men for things that do not even involve them, and are waaaaaaay more critical of men’s actions versus thise of women. You have multiple posts of men doing bad things or being accused of it, only to generalize men as thinking or acting the same. Yet you get so angry when an issue (that due to crime definitions is almost entirely made up of women) is specifically soeaking about women. You came on this post to defend the women mentioned, when they clearly werent the victims here.





Tumblr keeps erasing my responses to this, so i will just say this:

You are not a disappointment. I take that back. You have shown to be well within the expectations of the common internet feminist. For you to take responsibility away from women and blame everything on misogyny is well within my expectations of you.





Please change your concept of equality.