Butt Play and Masturbation

I know that most readers here probably don’t care who the butt players are, who the “bottoms” are or why, because they realize it’s part of our nature as men and as masturbators to explore all areas of our bodies regardless of our sexuality. This article is for anyone who has ever considered touching their butthole, pleasuring it, asking their partner to, but felt concerned that maybe it means something else. “Maybe I’m gay…” Hell, if you can read this then it’s for you! It’s for anyone who is interested or who is currently sitting there with a finger in their ass, hehe! Bet it feels good, huh??

Gentleman, let’s pull off the blindfolds and erase this stigma that surrounds butt play, shall we? For those of us that have tested the waters down there, that enjoyed it or even tried it and didn’t enjoy it, for those of us who cannot reach orgasm without it or do it because our significant other enjoys it, more power to us. We know that it’s just another sexual act that helps induce orgasm. No matter what your sexuality is, it does not define you, like most things do not, duh!

Now, I’m not telling you to put your fingers up your bum or a fancy toy or hell, stuff a random cock up there. That’s not what I’m saying (or is it!?). However, I am being an advocate of any and all anal play and pointing out the joys that come with it without conforming and believing the social stigmas that have been attached to it. assturbateto get sexual gratification through self-stimulation through the anus!Urban DictionaryWe have the freedom to believe what we want, but I can assure you a finger or a toy is not going to “make you gay”, in and of itself.

Many men, straight men, bisexual men – classify them as you will – have this fear that anything in the ass might turn them gay. If their girlfriends/wives find out they might leave, spread rumors, and tell her friends and family that they’ve been with a queer this whole time. This is not true and besides, you know the truth. Anal play, like I mentioned above, is simply another act of sexual pleasure.

Now that that’s settled, let us explore some amazing, orgasm inducing anal pleasures. First of all, we must understand that all men come equipped with what is called a prostate:

The prostate gland is a male reproductive organ whose main function is to secrete prostate fluid, one of the components of semen. The muscles of the prostate gland also help propel this seminal fluid into the urethra during ejaculation.” See “What Does The Prostate Gland Do”, Live Science.

The prostate gland is capable of producing incredibly pleasurable sensations when properly stimulated. It can be massaged from the outside through the perineum or “taint” – the bridge of skin just under your balls to your anus. As the pleasure is heightened, you (or your partner) may want to explore inside your hole, actually massaging the prostate itself. Although it is not scientifically proven, it is said that the more prostate massaging and ejaculation you do, the lower your risk of prostate cancer, so bate and bate and bate some more. 😉

From the methods of anal pleasure to sex toys and partner play, the anus is far from being neglected when it comes to male ass play. I typically enjoy a finger or two once in awhile just rubbing my hole on the outside, teasing it like a clit, my “boy pussy” if you will. Although it doesn’t come into physical contact with the prostate, it sends unbelievable waves and pulses up to it and to your cock all throughout your body, deepening this sexual experience while masturbating. A tongue is unbelievably amazing. Again, no actual prostate contact, but the sensation is absolutely incredible. Who doesn’t like their salad tossed? You’ll need a partner for that, so hopefully you have an open minded, explorative one like yourself and trust me, if you do, you’ll want to keep them around.

You may have heard of the Aneros. It’s a toy specifically made for the male ass to enjoy. Its shape and size is a perfect fit for the male “p-spot” and its unobtrusive design is meant to let you know that it’s not about a penis up your ass, you don’t have to put a cock in it to enjoy the pleasures of “anal sex.” It’s meant for all men of all shapes and sizes and walks of life. I’m desperately wanting to get my hands on one and try it out, write a blog entirely of my Aneros experience and more than likely guaranteed recommendation. I smell a future blog!

Anal beads are enjoyable and come highly recommended by a lot of folks. Again, I’ve never tried them myself, but I’ve heard great things. Then there are anal plugs and prostate vibrators and massagers a lot like the Aneros, but take on different shapes and sizes. There are always dildos too, of course, made to be like real cocks. By all means, have at it. I can guarantee that they wouldn’t make you gay either if you already are not, haha, I just like the idea of these unobtrusive, nondescript toys that lend no specific gender and are made simply for the p-spot pleasure. Alright, now I’m beginning to think even taking a real cock up your manhole doesn’t make you gay. Is this true? Is that possible? I believe it actually is. Am I crazy? We’ll save that for another discussion. We’re talking about toys here folks, things designed for self-pleasuring and the enjoyment of masturbation.

No shame here, but I’m about to get personal for a moment. When I was a lot younger and way more into penetrating my butthole, I would use any old household item that was phallic like and safe, of course. From markers (the rounded, cylindrical type ones; sharpies to be more precise) to the actual handle of a plunger or the handle part of a hair brush. As long as it was round with no sharp edges and was able to be greased up for easy entry, I used it. Fingers are fun, but sometimes you just want something thicker and longer. I’m not suggesting the use of these foreign objects, but since I’ve grown up a bit I’ve “graduated” to the use of and enjoyment of just a finger or two or these more intentional, professional, made-for-butt-penetration type toys.

We all have a personal evolution of our masturbation (and continuing evolution); I think as I do get older, prostate stimulation has become an additional, insane orgasmic, healing remedy while masturbating. Since I understand my cock more and how my body functions and the use of our prostate, it’s more about using it as a means to reach these heightened states of pleasure and orgasm. When I was young, stuffing my ass with these foreign objects (that were maybe potentially harmful) I thought that I was doing something wrong and should feel ashamed, when the truth is, I was experimenting, exploring and I would soon learn in my later years that this was completely normal, healthy and something that all men should do, even if just once. Don’t be ashamed, be acclaimed.

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