dear gay transmen

you arent the only straight females who find heterosexual fucking problematic.

most men arent even any good at it, but thats the least of the problems with either males or intercourse. that is to say, its only part of the story.

in a nutshell, heterosexual fucking is boring, repetitious, dangerous, deleterious to women and supportive of male power.

often, straight men only want to fuck you every once in a while, just enough so that you always think youre pregnant but never enough to make it worth it for you. thats because heterosexual fucking is not about sex for men. if it were, they would want to fuck you all the time, and do all kinds of other pleasurable stuff too, but thats not what they want.

conversely/perversely, other men who want to fuck all the time want to fuck many different women one time each, just enough to bring fear of pregnancy into the equation (for her) but never enough to give her any real pleasure. these allegedly hypersexual men frequently do not want to fuck the same woman over and over. UNLESS SHE DOESNT WANT IT, then it becomes imperative that she be fucked constantly. thats because its not about sex, its about power, and harming women, and giving all women the exact opposite of what they want, sexually. reproductively, we all get what we dont want too: pregnancy scares. constantly.

many, many, women report the same things about straight men, and how they use sex, and how its no good for women. its not just you. its a real thing, and its political.

in conclusion, try reading a radical feminist book sometime, like dworkins “intercourse”. you might learn something, and books will never, ever give you an STD.

thank you.

PS. none of this makes you a gay male. even though you want to fuck male-bodied persons, and have that be about sexual pleasure (for once) rather than it being about men dominating and harming you as a female, it doesnt mean you are a gay man. it means that heterosexual fucking is problematic.