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Anonymous asked: Look, I'm not a terf - I am 1000% for welcoming and accepting trans woman and trans lesbians. They're beautiful and amazing. That being said - I can't do dick. I've been with a trans woman who hadn't had bottom surgery and I just... I really hated it. It's just not something I can do, but other lesbians definitely can. And neither should be invalidated.

translesbophobia:

jaydee-wasnt: romeisroma: vtervs: jaydee-wasnt: And some girls can’t. That’s something they have to work out. And that’s why I asked this in the first place: to find out if the person who posted this had a personal squick, or if they were a terf. Clearly, based on the volume and tone of the response, they were the second one. Why is not liking dick something “they have to work out” Sick. Twisted. Conversion therapy rhetoric. Just stop. Seriously that’s fucked. Lesbians are not going to work out their sexuality to accommodate trans males feelings If you exclude an entire group of people based on something they can’t control, that’s not healthy. If you can’t date someone because of personal issues… that’s still a personal issue. okay so what about gender? assuming you believe lesbians are attracted to people who identify as women rather than those who are actually physically women, then why is it okay to discriminate against people for their internal gender but not their physical sex?

Like why should lesbians not give cis guys a chance, too, by this logic? Cis men can’t control their gender identity, right? Why do gay people even exist at all? Why isn’t everyone just pan if preferences are so exclusionary and bad :///



Women can refuse to have sex with someone at any time and for any reason. Hell, they don’t even need a reason. It doesn’t matter if you think the reason stems from discrimination, if you think the reason is stupid, if the reason hurts your feelings, it doesn’t matter, no means no and women don’t have to “work” on having sex with someone they don’t want to have sex with. The minute a woman doesn’t want to have sex with someone and you try to change their mind you are coercing her, pressuring her, manipulating her, blackmailing her, guilt tripping her into doing something she doesn’t want. You are a rape apologist. If you’re not an actual rapist then you certainly think like one. Disgusting.