The Overly, Eager Man Gets Nothing But Disappointment

Hormones and lack of sexual contact makes men do some crazy things to get sex from women. Women know this, and it’s sometimes very entertaining for them. The more over eager a man is to sleep with a woman, it shows in how he interacts with her. This makes him vulnerable. He will jump through hoops for a woman in hopes of her finally giving him the ass.

More than likely, his thirst is a big turn off to these women, and they have no intentions of sleeping with this dude. So instead, she will toy with him, make him run errands, buy her shit, and the list goes on.

Your Thirst Leaves You At Her Mercy

Let’s take an actual person who has been walking through the desert with no water. Their throat is dry and they would do anything for an ice cold glass of water. If a person had a cooler full of ice cold water, the thirsty person would do anything to get just a sip of that water. The person with the cooler calls the shots and the thirsty person is at their mercy.

Don’t expect a woman to have a kind heart and say,

“This guy wants some pussy. I won’t exploit him. Instead, I will give him what he wants”.

No, if she’s not interested in you, she will tease you to the point that you may end up begging her for just a kiss.

NEVER LET YOURSELF GET THIS THIRSTY.

If you want to successfully sleep with women, you must be a man who interacts with women from a position of power. I don’t care if you look like Napolean Dynamite. You want to be the guy who will not beg a woman for anything. Instead, you want her to make the offer.

“What if she’s a 10 on a scale of 1-10? She won’t want to sleep with me”

She may or may not, but you increase your chances by interacting with her from a position of power. This means you have to stop putting her on a pedestal and you have to normalize her.

A Very Horny Man Is Very Easy To Manipulate

“But I want to fuck her now!”

When you’re horny, your rationale and self-respect goes out the window. Your body goes into flight or fight mode. You either get really aggressive or you act really shy. In both cases, you’re not in the power position. The only time a man should be aggressive is when it’s in the heat of the moment in sex. Even then you may need to slow down so you bust too quickly!

When you interact with a woman, you want to have a clear mind. You want to be able to talk to her and listen to what she’s saying during the conversation. The moment you put too much value on sex, you’re at her mercy. When you devalue the sex, and place a huge emphasis on getting her hornier than you, then things move in your favor.

Here’s what I mean.

Let’s say there’s a woman who’s sexy as fuck who likes teasing men. If she tries to tease you, instead of having a porn play out in your head, focus on staying grounded. You know she’s trying to tease you. With that knowledge, don’t fall for the thirst trap. Whenever she tries to tease you, either change the subject or cut the interaction short. As a matter of fact, the less you interact with a woman, the more she wants you. This is a bit of a tease for her if she likes you.

Self-Control And Delayed Gratification Leads To The Bedroom

Self-control takes a lot of practice. As men get older, their hormones aren’t jumping all over the place. So when an attractive woman is practically throwing herself at him, he’s not as excited as he was when he was a teenager. This is why younger women are attracted to older men. Younger guys are so aggressive and eager to have sex with her that it turns her off. An older man who is a bit seasoned interacting with attractive women will treat her like a normal person. He’s not putting her on a pedestal. If she’s rude or disrespectful towards him, he doesn’t have a problem checking her behavior.

This makes this man a bit more interesting than the younger men. Even if he has gray hair on his balls, she won’t mind lickin’ those gray-haired balls because she’s interested in him to the point that it turns into sexual attraction.

Young guys who see young women chasing older men get confused. I was confused when I was younger, but as I got older, I got a better understanding because it started happening to me. I notice more younger women checking me out now than they did when I was a younger man.

It’s Like The Seasoned Hunter And The Young Hunter

This is a story about two hunters. One hunter is young and inexperienced, the other is seasoned and hunted for decades. Anyway, the seasoned hunter is teaching the young hunter how to hunt for food with maximum efficiency. A lot of waiting is involved. A lot of slow movement is involved. Well, the young inexperienced hunter feels like he has something to prove, rushes out of the bushes and charges the prey. The prey gets startled and runs away.

The seasoned hunter laughs and tell him,

“You have to control your urges. You have nothing to prove. Relax and take it easy”

The seasoned hunter demonstrates why patience is important. He tells the young hunter to watch and learn. The seasoned hunter sets his traps. He uses the direction of the wind to avoid the prey from picking up on his scent. When the moment was right, he was able to capture his prey.

“Wow, that looked effortless. How did you know?” the young hunter asked.

“Once you understand how your prey thinks, what it likes, and what it really wants, it’s like the prey wants you to capture it” the seasoned hunter explained.

Become The Prey And She Becomes The Hunter

When a man is too eager to get laid, he will have a look of thirst that will either scare the women away or have her mercilessly exploit his horniness to get as much as she wants from him. When the woman becomes the eager beaver (pun intended), it’s like she becomes the hunter and you become the prey.

Women are the ones who choose. If a woman doesn’t want to have sex, you can’t force her to have sex with you. That’s a crime! However, if you want to have sex with her, it’s your job to spike up the urge for her to want to have sex with you. Young men don’t understand this concept. To them, they feel the need to beg, plead, and negotiate the ass. A seasoned man is attractive to women because they build up that desire in the woman so much that she practically throws herself at him.

Keep in mind that some women are shy and reserved, while others are more bold and direct. However, a hunter will strike nonetheless. Once she is eager to the point that she is inviting you over to sleep with her, that’s when you can enjoy her body the way you want to.

This concept seems passive and weak, but actually it’s very active. Men make the mistake of being too aggressive to get laid. I should know, I was once a young, over eager man. As I got older, I noticed that in order to be successful with women, you have to get them more interested in you than you are of them. When she is overly eager to have sex or be in a relationship with you, there becomes a power shift. The ball is in your court. You have home court advantage. She can start dealing with you on your terms.

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