It's great when you have a life without regrets but sometimes regrets are inevitable. This is because we live just once and time lost can't be recovered. But if you want to minimize the amount of regret you may have in the future then this ost is for you.



Being twenty or twenty-something feels great. It's the peak period of your energy, beauty and many other things. But you have to learn how to maximize these things so that you can reduce the things you regret doing or not doing in the future. That's why I put together this post sharing with you things other women regret doing or not doing so that you can learn from it and build a better future for yourself.









They have been divided into various categories to help you understand them better.



Things Older Women Regret Doing Or Not Doing In Their Twenties

Personal / Career/ Ambitions

- Show respect to yourself and you will be treated with more respect by others.

- Do things that benefit you the most without being extremely manipulative

- Never lower your standards.

- Put yourself first and hold yourself to high standards

- Follow your intuition and don't let fear lead you

- Follow your passion and do what you love.

- Start working on your passion early so that you fail early and move on.

- Network and keep good connections

- Travel.

- Don't pick a career just because it will be well received by others - the best ways to make a living are by the things you actually enjoy doing.

- Stay close to God.

- Have an idea of what you want your future to look like. For example, your values in a job, what you want from your home, partner, children and then work to make that happen.



Intellectual

- Show respect to yourself and you will be treated with more respect by others.- Do things that benefit you the most without being extremely manipulative- Never lower your standards.- Put yourself first and hold yourself to high standards- Follow your intuition and don't let fear lead you- Follow your passion and do what you love.- Start working on your passion early so that you fail early and move on.- Network and keep good connections- Travel.- Don't pick a career just because it will be well received by others - the best ways to make a living are by the things you actually enjoy doing.- Stay close to God.- Have an idea of what you want your future to look like. For example, your values in a job, what you want from your home, partner, children and then work to make that happen.

- Study hard and be smart. It's admirable.

- Invest in your self-development; learn skills and take classes in etiquette.

- Read more books and spend less time on social media.

- Finish your education

- Don't be too hard on yourself while you are learning and developing yourself. We all make mistakes and that is how we learn.

- Take a class that would teach you what society actually needs.





Health





- Visit your dentist often and take care of your teeth.

- Eat healthily and go to the gym.

- Reduce alcohol intake.

- Sleep well and don't stay up late for no reason.





Skin Care





Looks

Social





Finances





Relationship





Family

Ngumabi.

- Use as few chemicals on your skin as possible- Wear sunscreen and Moisturize- Treat your skin- Avoid extra piercings and tattoos. You may regret them later.- Invest in durable outfits. It will save you money and make you look expensive.- Party as much because you may not be as carefree in the future when you have more responsibilities.- Have fun and socialize but protect your reputation. Don't do things that you may regret doing in the future.- Choose good friends.- Do not feel obligated to stay with a crowd who are not on the same wavelength.- Drink only good alcohol. It will make you drink less.- Have impeccable manners.- Don't get drunk in public.- Surround yourself with people who want to lift you up not bring you down.- Careful what you post on the internet. It may hunt you forever.- Learn about how to do financial investments.- Save part of your paycheck every month for an emergency fund.- Invest- Don't buy expensive stuff that you won't use often.- Don't risk falling in love with a man whose vision of life does not align with yours- Date older guys (at least eight years older). You'll learn a lot from them.- Don't date men who are rude, low class or hoping to change. It''s a waste of time and energy.- Do not have kids unless it is with a high net worth man whom you are married to.- Invest your love, attention and energy only in men who invest in you.- Don't focus on getting a man. There is enough time for that. Enjoy your life first. Have fun and learn as much as you can before you commit.- Get to know yourself before you get into marriage if it comes in your twenties.- Don't over-invest in a man.- Don't waste your time on cheap men who make you feel worthless- Don't believe a man can change if he is bad.- Don't join your finances with that of a man.- Spend more time with your grandparents if you still have them. You will learn a lot from them- Love & honour your parents.Note that you must not do or not do all of these things but just find the ones that resonate the most with your life''s objectives and goals.I hope that you found this post very useful and enjoyed it as well. Thanks for reading and spending time here.I'll see you in my next one.