"Trump's anti-establishment message clearly shows that people like them have failed to deliver the Republican Party any real electoral advantages in decades."

This isn't the first time we've seen this kind of scenario in the GOP. After President Richard Nixon's historic trip to China in 1972, conservative elites led by National Review publisher William F. Buckley angrily removed their support from Nixon and actively supported an insurgent candidate against their own Republican incumbent in the primaries.

To say that little ploy didn't work would be an understatement; Nixon won 500+ electoral votes and more than 60 percent of the popular vote that November. No one's going to get 500 electoral votes this year, but Trump has already won an historic numbers of votes in the primaries, and has a great chance to win the White House. I suspect even the most outraged Trump enemy within the Republican fold knows this.

So the question has to be asked: why try to play the role of party pooper? If people like Paulson, Singer, and ring leader William Kristol, really don't like Trump, why not just quietly refuse to support and vote for him? Why make such a public scene of it all like that crazy aunt at the rehearsal dinner?

The answer can be found by looking at a map. Where exactly do people like Singer, Kristol, and the late Buckley live and work? Hint: it's not in a red state like Texas. No, they mostly live in intensely liberal strongholds like New York City and Washington, D.C. That's more good news for Trump, as Republican votes basically don't count in those areas anyway.

But, as anyone who lives in those areas can tell you, Trump supporters are getting more than just the silent treatment right now. The steady comparisons of Trump to Hitler are ubiquitous in deep blue America. These anti-Trump GOP elites publicly opposing him may be trying to save face just like the rich aunt embarrassed by the groom is trying to save face among her snooty friends at her country club.

But more importantly, they are miffed that Trump's anti-establishment message clearly shows that people like them have failed to deliver the Republican Party any real electoral advantages in decades. In their minds, the Republican voters have run off with the wrong man even though that nice Scott Walker/Marco Rubio/Jeb Bush was so perfect for them. And, they're pushing violently against the reality that no one really cares what they think anyway.

Trump is indeed blowing up the Republican Party. Despite Clinton's best efforts, the Democratic Party has been also been blown up, in this case by Bernie Sanders and his socialist progressives. The only people who don't seem to be aware of it are the extremely rich core donors from both sides. In the Democrats' case, those powerful interests were still able to shove their favorite into the nomination while the Republican powers failed. Either way, they've both already lost. The next 13 days until the GOP convention will only make that fact more obvious to everyone.

Commentary by Jake Novak, supervising producer of "Power Lunch." Follow him on Twitter @jakejakeny.



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