When she set out to take portraits in Kabul, Afghanistan, Marieke van der Velden started with a simple question: What is your favorite place in your city?

A question doesn’t have to be complicated to yield a revealing response. The result of Ms. van der Velden’s visit, “A Monday in Kabul,” is a vibrant portrait of a place so often represented by photos of aftermath — the shattered landscape of explosions and suicide attacks. When news comes out of Afghanistan, Ms. van der Velden wants us to remember those who live with the story.

And how they live.

Two years ago, she traveled to Baghdad to shoot daily life and portraits of Iraqis. Her project, “Baghdad Today,” was what Michael Kamber called “one of the most intimate portraits of Iraqi life to emerge since the 2003 American invasion.” On that trip, she grounded her photographs in another basic question: How are you doing?

Marieke van der Velden

Ms. van der Velden, 38, lives in the Netherlands. She first visited Kabul in 2005 for about 10 days, when she photographed a story about girls’ education for Unicef. What she found was much different than what she was used to seeing in the news media. She wanted to learn more.

She returned in March of this year with her partner, Philip Brink, and spent about three weeks in the city with the help of a grant from Sem Presser Archive, a Dutch organization. This time, recalling how rushed her previous interviews in Kabul had been, she was determined to learn more about the people she photographed.

But in preparing for the trip, she was troubled by the simplicity of her question. Friends thought it was a bad idea. People are suffering in Afghanistan, they told her. They might not want to talk about such mundane things.

She had similar fears before her trip to Baghdad. “I was very afraid that it sounded too naïve to go to a country in conflict and ask that question.”

But when she asked some Afghans living in the Netherlands what they thought about her trip, they were enthusiastic and shared contact information for relatives in Kabul.

“I thought: In Kabul, I will ask a new question, and I will ask a question where you can give any answer,” she said. Ms. van der Velden expected that while some answers would be enlightening, other people would be less open.

“And that is O.K. for me,” she said.

Answers varied, many likely influenced by the places the team visited. People told her they love the city zoo. They love the mountains behind Darul Aman Palace. They love Qargha Lake, outside of Kabul, where families ride a yellow Ferris wheel and men rent horses to ride along the beach. They love the swimming pool at the Intercontinental Hotel, where only men are allowed to visit. They love the land mine museum. They love their homes.

“I even love the dust of Kabul,” a woman named Roshan said. “This is where my heart is.”

Marieke van der Velden

When it came to finding subjects, she improvised. First, Ms. van der Velden and her team — Mr. Brink, who filmed the trip; their translator, Najibullah; and their driver, Zarif — went to some places that had been widely seen in the news media. While she wanted to avoid those stories, the visits led to introductions.

Najibullah took them to places he thought might top people’s lists, like the zoo. Sometimes, they came across people on the streets. In a video Mr. Brink produced about the project, they chased down a woman who is behind the wheel of a red car.

“We just saw her drive by, calling behind the wheel, chaotically overtaking on the roundabout,” Ms. van der Velden explains in a voice-over, in Dutch.

Najibullah calls out to the woman from the passenger-seat window. She responds, nods and pulls over.

“That’s how we make our appointments, honey,” Ms. van der Velden says to Mr. Brink.

The woman, Shakila, turned out to be a mother of 10 who runs a driving school with her husband. Her favorite place in Kabul, she told Ms. van der Velden, is behind the wheel of her car.

Not everyone was eager to be photographed. Many had trouble saying no, not wanting to be impolite. Some said yes, but later changed their minds.

Ms. van der Velden blogged throughout her visit, first in Dutch and later in English. She included photos, observations and answers to questions that friends, family and Facebook followers asked her to pose to the people she photographed. She could never say for sure whether the things people told her were true.

What surprised her was how many of her subjects spoke of the foreign news media’s portrayal of Afghanistan. “Sometimes I asked the people: ‘What do you think the world needs to know about your country? What is important?’” she said. “And mostly, they said, ‘We have schools, and we’re not the crazy country that is portrayed in the media like this.’”

She hopes to return to Kabul after the elections that are scheduled for next April. Meanwhile, she hopes to pursue other projects inspired by one question, perhaps in Africa or elsewhere in the Middle East.

Her next question will be nearly as simple, she said, though somewhat less optimistic:

What are you worried about?

Marieke van der Velden

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