Now when I look back at the last 200+ days I can only smile. I can honestly sit here and write that if it wasn’t for updating this blog I cannot recall the last time I even thought about the ex and the shitty situation I once found myself in. For awhile after I thought maybe I should just fly solo through life, I didn’t want to be let down again. I reminded myself that not every person is a cheater and I just happened to fall for a rotten one. I knew if I did ever get into a new relationship that I couldn’t hold stuff that happened in my past relationships against someone else. But for the immediate time being I knew that I just needed to focus on myself and that things would fall into place.

To those who are still battling with NC keep fighting. Things will get better. Keep your head up. Thank you again to those who have reached out to me with advice or with their own questions. I have learned a lot from writing this blog and I hope it can continue to help others.