A refresher: Pegging is when you wear a strap-on dildo and penetrate your guy (or girl! Pegging also works with a girlfriend — via either lower hole. Just don't mix and match between holes. Instate a firm "one toy, one hole" policy.). Most of us finally get that a guy being into pegging does not = gay. (I know. So stupid.) It's just a great way to muck about with gender roles, power play, and the pleasures of prostate stimulation for him. Always make sure he enthusiastically wants to try pegging first, and then if he's still a little nervous about being Dominated by The Tool of Male Oppression or whatever, start with a dildo that's specifically designed to look non-penis-like and has a nice little curve for perfect P-spot stimulation (like the Right Spot.)

Also — v. important! — make sure you get equipment that's going do something for you too. Try a harness with a spot to hold a bullet vibe against your clit (like a Corsette.) You can also try a double dildo, but they require a highly Kegel-toned Super Vagina to hold them in, and if you're wet at all (which is kind of the point) you need to hold it with your hand anyway. Whatever you want, sister. You're the one wearing the big ol' fake penis. You get your way today.

Here's your mantra for the five perfect pegging positions below: Be gentle, but act like you mean it. Oh, and use lots of lube.