I know this isn't the be-all and end-all solution, but let me say, hey kids (yes, especially you doing the walk-outs, fearful that shootings will happen in your school, too): Did you know that many of these people who create your worst fears and tragedies start out being mocked, turned away, ridiculed or left out by others? It may be innocent enough -- you're playing catch with friends and don't notice the quiet kid hanging out in the shadows watching you. Maybe it's the girl who talks with a funny accent or fails to wear what are consider popular clothing. You don't understand her so you just don't include her. Yes, they're a little weird, a little different. You too are a little weird and different, or at least I hope so.

Take a deliberate step to be a friend. Let them know they can make it through that horrible home life, the class they just can't succeed in -- or so many other problems that aren't so big, but feel huge when you don't have a friend. While politicians and adults scream, debate and drag their feet to action, take this tiny first step entirely within your power. Be the kind of friend that makes life a little better for someone who desperately needs a friend.

-- Brenda Somes Schaffer, Forest Grove

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