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Not being lame is all about being confident in yourself and not caring what other people think. If you’re someone who always says no to things, try to get out of your comfort zone and do something new. Don’t worry about what other people think about you, since most people are too busy thinking about themselves to notice what you’re doing. Try to make eye contact with people when you talk and speak clearly and loudly, which will make you look and feel more confident. Wear clothes that make you feel good to bring out your unique style and leave any lameness far behind. For more tips, including how to show interest in other people’s lives so they won’t think you’re lame, read on!