A Facebook User Kills Himself

A facebook user name as Alviss Kong post message to his own wall "Count Down For 45 Mins" before he kill himself. He kill himself because he is sad about broken up with his gf. His gf's name is Bin This is his last message that he posted on his facebook wall before he kill himself :

This is the comments he posted on his own facebook wall before he kill himself : "devil bin this is the way how i love,perhaps ppl will think it was crazy

I've never tried to put down my pride my dignity my ego-ness on my first but u were totally diff,i put down my pride my dignity my every shit

just to beg u….but i failed…as always im just a failure in a relation

but that's just me,i'll only do the things which i think its worth

will i became ur memory forever ? who knows..since u were already special when the first sight i saw u.

perhaps,u'll just fucking laugh at me, i bet there's plenty of ppl will laugh too =) but who cares ?

that's just me that's the way i am.

the last thing

i do appreciate everything about us. U were the light in my life..u given me determination for my future, but everything is gone, i don't blame u actually.

Because 爱情是自由的 ~ so just wish u'll have ya happy life in d future

ILY : IMY ~ sorry that i couldn't brings u to walk until the end of the day

希望你会记得在你的生命中,曾几何时有个一个那么爱你的人出现过 <3 P/S : Please do not blame her....Im the one who decided this..she's just the one given me the motivation n courage.....to my FAMILY,please..i beg of u all,don't ever blame on her... To her future BF : IF U DID ANYTHINGS THAT WOULD HURT HER..I FUCKING SWEAR I'LL FUCKING HAUNT U DOWN EVEN IM JUST A SPIRIT =) !"

"first time i take a pic when i were crying..looks sucks…anyway thats the last pic of mine b4 i gg =)"

The facts:

A 22 year old (Born 22nd May 1988) , ALVISS KONG (Jiangshi Feng (IT staff) committed suicide by jumping off the 14th floor of Ketumbar Heights, Cheras.

Before commiting suicide, he posted a note to his Facebook profile page. Prior to jumping, he took one last photo and even posted a message 45 minutes before.

From the note, it can be inferred that he no longer wanted to live after his girlfriend broke up with him.

Alviss Kong ’s body damaged a car upon impact, and he lay bleeding until emergency services took him to the hospital.

He was pronounced dead at 9AM on the morning of December 10th.

He lived on the 5th floor of the same apartment, and has a brother and a sister

Prior to jumping off the 14th floor, he went to a tea stall near his apartment.

Both Alviss Kong and his girlfriend had blogs.

They had been together for 4 months, and this was Alviss’s second and last relationship.

From a source on FB, I found out that Alviss Kong used to work in Berjaya Times Square. He also used to go clubbing a lot, and he liked to wear a plaster on his face as a fashion statement.

People~ please respect the late Alviss Kong,4 months doesn’t mean that the love is not deep,respect by not saying him dumb or what,n fr u guys who wanna scold or slap the girl,for what?it’s not even her wrong n we outsiders will never know what’s the real prob between them~

Wondering how they start dating? He did blog to show how he start relationship with her :

Alviss Kong’s blog is closed now, but the Google Cache is available http://webcache.googleusercontent.com/search?q=cache:XlRM3e787ZoJ:alvisskong.blogspot.com/2010/08/unforgettable.html+lowyat+alviss&cd=6&hl=en&ct=clnk. Screenshot of his blog : It’s quite sad reading about Alviss Kong’s perfect day with her (clubbing, school, etc) especially knowing what happened.

Alviss's Pictures : Media * The suicide note on Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/note.php?note_id=181668725179222&id=754228704 * Alviss Kong’s Facebook page: http://www.facebook.com/alvissk * Alviss Kong’s blog (private): http://alvisskong.blogspot.com/ * The original ChinaPress article: http://www.chinapress.com.my/content_new.asp?sec=malaysia&dt=2010-12-10

Blogs * A personal friend of Alviss Kong shares the experiences of her time with him: http://yiingbaobei.blogspot.com/2010/12/rip-alviss-kong.html * Another friend of Alviss Kong shares her experiences: http://playboy-mayc.blogspot.com/2010/12/rip-my-beloved-friend-alviss-kong.html * GooGoo1Nee.blogspot’s article: http://googoo1ne.blogspot.com/2010/12/rip.html * JoshuaOngYS: http://joshuaongys.com/2010/12/19-yrs-old-malaysian-alviss-kong-jumped-off-building-committing-suicide-after-leaving-facebook-message/

My Opinion : She don't like him, don't love him at all. How I know? Simple! He did propose to her for 5 times and all fail. It mean she don't like him at all. After that she accept him just because of she feel pity on him or just something else. She just accepting his love, she never pay love to him. That's why she don't care of him, she can easily broken up with him, she doesn't care how much he love her. He is sad, the pain inside his heart is very painful until he feel the pain on his body is just nothing, that's why he dare to kill himself. 心里的痛，很痛很痛，痛得让我觉得身体的痛根本只不算什么。那怪会有人那么勇敢割脉，跳楼，跳海，吊颈。Next time if you want to find a gf, please find the 1 who like/love you a lot. DO NOT find those who can accept your love only.

Everyone has a real better-half. Who is your real better-half? So many people in the world and only 1 is your real better-half. You think the 1 who standing in front of you is your real better-half? Impossible!!! It is like 0.0000000000000001% possibility that the 1 standing in front of you is your real better-half. Please imagine there are 99999999 sour oranges and only 1 sweet apple in a big black box, you are closing your eyes and use your hand insert into box to grab a fruit, how many chance that you can get the sweet apple? It is 0.00000001% chance, the chance is so low. If you want to increase the chance, you have to learn how to differentiate the skin of apple and orange, the same as in real life, you need to differentiate the characteristic of you real better-half and other all people on the world. How to know the characteristic of your real better-half? It is easy, you just need to find out what is the perfect match of your :

1) English Horoscope - http://ye5.blogspot.com/2009/11/horoscope-compatibility.html 2) Chinese Horoscope - http://ye5.blogspot.com/2009/11/horoscope-compatibility.html 3) Chinese 5 elements - http://ye5.blogspot.com/2009/11/horoscope-compatibility.html

This is particularly depressing for me given that Alviss is quite likely someone I have probably met or seen while clubbing. Someone that I have 15 mutual friends with on Facebook. And he’s a blogger. A girl in my Facebook list wrote on her wall about how she was very happy to have been his friend, as she used to club with him and he always had a “cute plaster” on his face, and spend late nights talking on the phone with him and sharing secrets. It’s especially sad knowing that Alviss was a fashionable, good looking guy, had lots of friends and people to talk to (judging from his pics, Facebook profile and blog posts) - but still chose to commit suicide.

Before you want to kill yourself, please see read the sentence below first :

"I won't sad or angry or hate the current situation, because I know there are many other beautiful situations will happen on me on next seconds. Let's say there are 1000 situations happen on you today. 999 situations are good, only 1 situation is bad, so why you so mind about the only 1 bad situation? Think about the other 999 good situations!!!"

Please do give them a call before you do anything - this is a counselling/suicide prevention hotline :

Phone : 03-79568144 or 03-79568145

Website : http://www.befrienders.org.my/ Email : sam@befrienders.org.my