whiskersonkittens:

Things that don’t make you less of a feminist: Being in a loving relationship.

BDSM.

Being submissive.

Wearing makeup.

Being a housewife.

Wearing dresses.

High heels.

Shaving.

Considering the other things on the list are rooted in misogyny/reflective of patriarchy, I’m guessing that “being in a loving relationship” is a euphemism for “being in a heterosexual relationship”… Participating in these things doesn’t mean you cannot be a feminist, but please do not pretend that they are feminist actions.