Would You Like To Learn Why Women Cheat On Men?

This question has evaded men for a long time, luckily, because of trial and error as well as getting cheated on myself before, I finally figured out why women cheat on their boyfriends and why women cheat on their husbands.

In fact, in the article, I’ll reveal 25 reasons why women cheat.

The reason why you should take my word for this is that when I got cheated on 12 years ago, it motivated me to go out and understand what attracts women and what repels women.

Years later, I finally came up with 25 reasons why women cheat in hopes of many men who been hurt like I was when I got cheated on.

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Through the years, I’ve been able to keep women from cheating and breaking up with me.

The only time we’ll break up is unless I broke up with them and even then, they still didn’t want to break up.

Being cheated not only happened to me, but it also happened to many of my friends and guys good with women I know.

What I learned was that you shouldn’t feel bad if a woman cheated on you, it just means that you were making mistakes you didn’t know about.

Trust me, the worst thing you can ever imagine is the woman you did all those exciting sexual things with doing the exact same thing with another guy.

Yes, it does hurt the majority of us men who’ve gone through it.

That’s why I created this article to tell you the cold hard truth reasons why women cheat on men.

I used to question why women cheat on good men, why women cheat on men they love supposedly, and for a time even became bitter until I realized something about women you must realize as well.

What You Must Realize:

Women don’t cheat instantaneous, they cheat because of a multitude of reasons.

That’s why In this article, I laid out 25 reasons why women cheat because it can be one thing and/or a combination of other things.

When you read this, open your mind, and take full accountability for your actions and think about ways you can change for the future.

Yes, it’s very true the women play a role as well in cheating, but as a man, you must take full accountability for your actions that led to her wanting to cheat just like I did.

I understand it may hurt and this may not be something you want to hear, but I believe it’s my purpose to empower men, so they can have relationships that they’re truly satisfied with.

Hopefully one day, I can change the world for the better.

I’m not saying I’m an expert but from my experiences, research, and relationships I’ve seen last till death, these all had these reasons all in common.

I was bitter when I got cheated on and even went on a rampage approaching and having sex with multiple women.

During this journey, I discovered 25 Reasons why women cheat and it changed my life.

Now I can never be bitter because I’m in control of what happens now because of this list of 25 reasons why women cheat.

Not all of these will apply to you but some will or a combination will be the main reason why women cheat on men.

These are the 25 reasons why women cheat on men:

1. You stop improving yourself:

The truth is, women love a man whos always trying to improve.

Whether that be physically, mentally, or socially. I know how tempting it is to get a job and relax, but you should always look to improve your situation.

A lot of times, men get with a woman, and they stop doing everything they were doing so the can babysit the girlfriend.

This can turn a woman off if you don’t stop doing this in time.

Women may not say anything, but her emotions will become aware of your weak behaviors.

Over time, she’ll look for a man who not doing weak behaviors, even if the guys worse than you, that’s how serious this is.

2. Stop caring about how you show up:

When you met her you dressed nice and clean. Now that you’re with her, you don’t care how you dress or how you smell. What happened? Sex happened and you became complacent because you were able to have sex that way, so hey, it doesn’t matter how I dress or how I smell. Embed from Getty Images

The greatest men with women I know, always dress to impress and smell good.

They know that you never know when you’ll have to get close, so you want to make sure you leave a great impression.

I’m not saying dress to impress every day while you’re in a relationship.

What I am saying is that you should have as many good days as bad, if not more good days than bad.

That’s it.

It’s optimal to have as many good days as possible to always keep in her mind your clean and fresh.

Most women don’t want something stinky and smelly going in their mouths, so think about that.

3. Always available:

Women hate men who don’t have a life or anything to do.

Every time she calls, your there, or worse, you call her constantly.

These are both spells for disasters.

When your available and around all the time you take the mystery out of your relationship.

Women in my experience become unattracted to a man who never gives her space and always around.

When a man is no longer mysterious, this makes a woman think no women want you, ironically, turning her off.

The truth is that women are attracted to men that other women want, and when your available 24/7, you never allow her to feel that way.

When you’re around 24/7, women don’t believe other women out there like you.

4. You Let Everything Slide (even if she disrespects you):

Embed from Getty Images Yes, it’s okay to be a nice guy, contrary to what most think about the nice guy versus bad guy topic but when you let a woman disrespect you, you must address it immediately. If a woman disrespects you and you let it slide, you make it okay for her to disrespect you.

Overtime a women will lose all respect for you as a man and be compelled to cheat with a man who wouldn’t allow her to disrespect her, no matter his status or where he comes from.

You have to be swift and consistent if she disrespects you.

If she keeps disrespecting you, it means you need to give her space and let her call you.

5. Acting Jealous About Other Men:

Yes, it’s good to have your women’s back but getting jealous about men only highlights the man and makes him more attractive.

When you’re around other men, be real.

You don’t have to act a different way because your women’s around.

It just shows your actually jealous and weak if you have change who you are because of another man around.

Take it from me, when you don’t worry about other men, she doesn’t worry either or comes on her radar because she knows when you don’t change, it shows you the boss.

6. Trying to control her & stop her from doing what inspires her:

A woman is an individual who has passion and pursuits of happiness just like everybody else.

If somebody tried to stop you from what you wanted to do, would you follow there order or rebel?

Knowing men, we’ll rebel and you have to think the same for women.

If you do this too much, over time it’ll become unbearable and force her to look for somebody else that lets her be free.

7. No longer following dreams since relationship:

If you’re on a path to doing something, don’t ever stop because you got with a woman.

The worse thing I see lots of men do is get with women and stop follow the dreams, it’s sad to see.

I know guys who messed up school, their jobs, property and died because of women.

The worst thing you can do is put all that on your women.

In her heart, she’ll say, “ You stopped all your dreams for me, wow, I really all this guy can get.”,

“He so low value, and unattractive.”

Then all of a sudden, she’ll start automatically start to become unattracted to you and be less interested in sex.

8. Not a challenge to her:

When men get a woman they like, they can sometimes become overwhelming on the women.

They can say I love you too much, and always tell her his every whereabouts, leaving no mystery in your love life.

Yes, it’s very important to give your love to a woman, but if she not doing that to you, don’t do it.

This is a weak behavior and can make you appear more women than men.

weak behavior and can make you appear more women than men. Engagedinthegame.com

The truth will set you free just like it did for me.

I thought relationships were like in the movies when I had got this woman I really liked.

It turned out to be the opposite after she cheated on me.

Now I stand by these words, the game never ends.

The game never ends. Engagedinthegame.com

You might have thought it ended, but you’ll learn the hard way when she cheats as I did.

Stay a challenge and only give her love when she gives you love and you’ll be alright.

9. You don’t make yourself different (Self Education):

We’re living in a society where everybody wants to think about how everybody else thinks.

I had to realize if everybody around me has a bad relationship, poor or doesn’t live the life I want, I have to look for someone outside of me and learn from people with more experience in the field.

Learning from these people will not only make you different but also see that success is possible for you or anybody who embarks on the journey of mastery.

Learning from the experienced can inspire us to do what they did or better.

Learning from the experienced can inspire us to do what they did or better. Engagedinthegame.com

Continuous improvement has always been the key to a man keeping his attractiveness until old age.

Want to be happy, why not learn from experts, want to be healthy, why not learn from experts, want to be wealthy, why not learn from them.

This gives you optimism nobody can take away from you because you see the world differently.

10.You love to argue:

Although women love men who respect themselves and state their opinion on matters.

Don’t be the man who continues and continues to argue for hours.

Don’t be the man who continues and continues to argue for hours. Engagedinthegame.com

If you keep doing this for too long, she begins to attach to this emotion, overall making you more unattractive.

Over time, she’ll be pushed just like anybody who felt they kept arguing constantly.

ring up the same issue can feel like it just happened for women, and can be stressful to bear and can cause her to cheat.

11. Don’t Know How To Walk Away:

As a man, the greatest superpower is your ability to walk away.

Most men make the mistake of taking a women’s abuse and then more.

Most men make the mistake of taking a women’s abuse and then more. Engagedinthegame.com

What I learned is that when a woman in her emotions, there’s no way to win an argument with them.

All it does it cause hate and resentment among each other.

The sex after some time can literally feel disgusting if you don’t know how to say what your truth and walk away.

If she’s wrong, she calls you and tries to talk to you.

Don’t ever sit there and argue of sooner or later her biological nature will make her look for a male who says their truth and can walkway.

The man who can walk away is the most attractive man in our society from experience and a woman’s eye.

12. You Lost Your Passion:

You stop doing what made you happy and depended on her to make you happy.

We’ve always been taught that we should give our all to women from movies and television but the truth is women love a man with passion.

This characteristic not only attracts women but also attracts people to you.

Be passionate about living a life you want to live Is More Attractive Than Money Or Materials.

Being passionate about living a life you want to live Is More Attractive Than Money Or Materials.

Don’t let a boss or world dictate your future.

Having a passion to succeed at something will attract women whether your poor, rich, or wealthy.

Passion is what keeps the women excited and wondering what will happen next.

Never put all that pressure on a woman to make you happy, this is unattractive and overbearing.

13. Not Sexually Liberated Enough (sexually aggressive):

Women love men who don’t judge them and aren’t afraid to do nasty things to them.

One woman I talked to told me she left her boyfriend because he gripped her soft ass and was afraid to spank her.

When you’re in a relationship and had sex for a while, don’t feel afraid to say nasty and freaky things.

The truth is women love sex, and we have just been conditioned to believe this is not true.

When you hide your truth, women will hide theirs too.

Slut and whore were words created by insecure men who had to create a word to shame women for sexual deviance.

In reality, if you act like women don’t like sex, she won’t like sex with you.





14. You Show No Or Little Interest:

You’re never around, always focus on something else, or take her calls.

This happens when your busy and are used to being alone.

Sometimes when life is going to fast, you forget women need quality time as well.

Women are born to love sex, but they also look for companionship as well.

If you’re not there to fill her void, she looks for it somewhere else.

15. You Tell People Your Business:

When you take your relationship, over time it can have dire consequences and is a weak behavior biologically to women. Not everybody was taught that keeping your relationship private is key, but it is. You have to learn how to control and manage your relationship. Nobody knows your partner like you do, don’t act as they do. Embed from Getty Images

It will help sometimes, but over time the lack of being able to manage your relationship will not be able to succumb.

It will then get to a point no matter how many times you call your friends and family and their friends and family, nothing will work, it’ll only get worse.

16. You Don’t Trust Her:

No matter how sexual or kinky your woman is to you, you have to trust her.

Men think because she’s freaky to them, they fear she’ll be equally freaky with them.

This is your insecurity that will come true if you believe and act on it enough.

If you keep calling her and questioning if she’s cheating, she’ll sooner or later do it.

Women over time will lose respect for you especially after she told you or confirmed she was with through sex but your insecurity has her seeing you as weak.

Overtime this notion of her cheating will be a self-fulfilling prophecy because what was once wasn’t on her mind now is on her mind.

17. You Lack Social Value:

Being an attractive male is not about looks, or material, its about social value.

It will be times when men will be talking to you and you women will see how you hold yourself down.

You have to understand, being good at communication requires practice because of its a skill.

Listen and practice your communication with others.

Listen and practice your communication with others. Engagedinthegame.com

Everything you do social adds value to your ability to handle certain social situations.

You have to be the best, but you should be able to have a chill conversation with your women around and be able to move around with ease.

This does take practice but if you stay consistent, you’ll be good, then one day great.

Having this ability makes you more attractive in her eyes and shows your a leader. Women want a man, not a pussy to be frank.

Everybody can become a great man with practice.

18. You Don’t Lead Her:

Yours always looking for her to tell you where to go instead of you taking the lead and deciding.

When you do this you put the women in the masculine role and women are not masculine, so it’ll overtime make her see you as feminine.

She will start to test to see if you’re the man you are and call you out on it.

To avoid all this together, learn to lead and make a decision.

Her: Where you want to eat?

You: Subway.

Her: How about Panda Express?

You: Cool.

As long as your decisive in what you want to do and assume she’ll come you’ll be fine.

Also, make sure you always walk ahead of her, never behind her.

If she wants to go somewhere else where you both mutually benefit, go there.

The problem is that when you let women lead all the time, she’ll start not seeing you as a man.

19. You Don’t Court Your Women:

I understand if you have been in a relationship for a while so going out ain’t really on the agenda but going too long without going somewhere will make your relationship lack fun or excitement.

Yes, sex is fun, but women are excited by men who like encountering new experiences.

Who better to experience your new experience with than her. Engagedinthegame.com

Who better to experience your new experience with than her.

This brings excitement back into a dull relationship that hasn’t seen much courting in months or years.

Even pimps take their hoes out sometimes Engagedinthegame.com

Even pimps take their hoes out sometimes.

20. Long-Distance Relationship:

Long-distance relationships all fail. Yes, you can hold out for a while but over time you both will feel tired about the relationship. If not you, she’ll become tired of a long-distance relationship. There are some that do, but most long-distance relationships are stressful and lonely and lead to somebody cheating. Embed from Getty Images

If you are in a long-distance relationship and she cheated, don’t feel bad.

It was bound to happen, don’t feel sorry or feel like you we’re good enough.

It just that loneliness is something a woman can’t succumb to.

21. You Have Bad Hygiene:

Embed from Getty Images If you don’t know, because women have more cells in the olfactory bulb – the area of the brain that is dedicated to a sense of smell. Which means women have a higher sense of smell than men. Therefore, if you’re not taking care of your hygiene, women well smell it before you do.

Also keep in mind, although women may accept a day or two of you not being at your best hygiene, over time, consistent will make her begin to view you as a man with bad hygiene and one who doesn’t care about himself.

Remember, women love men who care about themselves and well being. Bad hygiene is a sign you don’t care about yourself or well being.

You don’t want her to be thinking about your stinky feet, breath, body, or armpits when she’s imagining having sex with you.

Most women will be turned off; although, there are some women who don’t care.

22. You Watch Too Much Porn:

What happens when a man watches porn can affect the way you communicate in your relationship without you realizing it. In fact, research shows that when you watch porn, porn can take satisfaction out of sex and make sex less desirable. It has also been linked to damaging communication in the relationship in regards to sex. Embed from Getty Images

For example, when you watch porn, you start to desensitize yourself to different women, get instant gratification, and give you an unrealistic expectation of sex with your female partner.

This can have devastating consequences on your relationship when you start treating your partner like a sex object.

The truth is, there are women out there that do have sex like it’s porn, but the majority of women are normal.

Therefore, you must accept a woman for her sexual style.

When you watch porn, you’ll always be comparing your sexual partner with the porn, making sex less satisfying is she doesn’t perform in that way.

When your less satisfied women will feel it and start to resent having sex with you.

23. The Attraction Is Based On Material Or Monetary Value:

The majority of men make the mistake when the meet women by displaying their material or monetary value.

Whether that be telling women about your house, cars, money, or other materialistic assets.

When you do this, the attraction starts off being based on material and monetary value.

This means, if your not supplying material or monetary value, your not sure if she would be attracted or not.

Over time, women will begin to gravitate towards men they genuinely attracted too.

The messed up part is a woman can stay in a relationship forever not attracted to their partner because of monetary and materialistic reasons.

Once the material or money is gone, the honey is gone.

24. Too Needy

Women hate men who can’t live or do something by themselves or for themselves.

When you do this, women consider it as being needy.

At first, women will let it slide, but over time, women will begin to see you as weak.

This is one of the reasons women will start to disrespect you.

Women love men who can live with or without them.

When you’re needy, you doing the exact opposite of what turns her on or attracts her.

25. Don’t Maintain Approach Skill:

The greatest men with a woman always had the ability to approach women.

They weren’t afraid of rejection and women can sense it when you approach and when you don’t approach.

They weren’t afraid of rejection and women can sense it when you approach and when you don’t approach. Engagedinthegame.com

The ability to approach women is a feeling and gives you a presence that doesn’t go away only unless you stop approaching women or building social value.

When your afraid of rejection, or going after what you want, it’ll reflect on how you show up in the relationships.

This doesn’t mean your cheating or a player, it just means that if she does something bad, you won’t have a hard time getting another woman.

This is what makes women want to keep you for a lifetime no matter how you look or how much money you have.

Conclusion:

All these on this list can cause a woman to lose interest and cheat.

You must realize that men are responsible for the direction of the relationship no matter how much she played a part in cheating.

Men are responsible for the direction of the relationship no matter how much she played a part in cheating. Engagednthegame.com

When you take full accountability, you never blame anybody else for your mistakes and you learn to correct your mistakes.

Women are attracted to the way you make them feel and doing things on the list, you go against her biology.

Avoiding these 25 behaviors, you won’t make her see you as low value, unattractive, or compel her to cheat.

If you’ve been cheated on, take it as a learning experience, and don’t blame yourself.

Just blame you had a knowledge gap, I hope this article filled it.

Much love