Bt100200 Sun 29-Sep-19 15:38:01

Thanks everyone xx good to know I'm not completely overreacting.



I did speak with him this morning...he said he had absolutely no idea just how drunk he was until I was stood in front of him, obvs stone cold sober, bsolutely gutted and saying, "omg...you're drunk". He said he didnt realise how smashed he was...but he couldn't stand, was slurring his words....staggering....and he absolutelt stank of booze.



It wasn't just that.



Rude and loud when we went out to eat and we were sat next to kids who heard him swear (he shouted it). I was embarassed and told him to keep it down twice.



Rude and slightly abnoxious to bar staff.



The whole time we were together....he was drunk.



At the end of it all, I said...well I will go and get my train...should I just leave you sat in this bar getting p*ssed? He said YES and so I just took myself off lol.



I can't believe this has happened. I've been lucky so far on dates...never really had an unpleasant one.



He is deadly quiet now....I think he is thinking...oh boy....she was gutted and I have ruined everything. He said this morning...that he thought....I've blown it with her and that he just wanted to go home with his tail between his legs after messing up so royal. He also said everything I said to him about how out of order it was, was correct.



Anyway...thank you so much again for your advice and views. Lessons learned! Why on earth he thought that was a good idea....I have no clue xx sadly our careers prevented us from meeting sooner...otherwise i would have met him a lot sooner!!