AttilaTheMeerkat Fri 19-Oct-18 10:59:04

You are going to have to cut him off stone dead and block him entirely. You may well now have to look for another job. This is going nowhere and if his wife finds out then you are going to come off far worse and not only in an emotional sense, in the workplace as well. This is not an appropriate work based relationship, all sorts of boundaries and lines are being crossed here by both of you.



He is a creep and opportunist who is cheating on his wife and is also lying to you as well re being in love with you. This man is currently having his cake and eating it. You have managed to end it before now, end it for good this time.



It was also very low of him to target you but he did that deliberately as well. The fact that you are at work with him as a single mother and with some underlying anxiety issues made you more attractive for him to exploit and use. You really do need to make a life for yourself without him in it, where are your friends here?. Do you have much of a life outside work and your child?.



What did you learn about relationships when you were growing up, what sort of an example were you shown?. This is in no way a loving and mutually respectful relationship, he just wants to use you and once that is done spit you out.