What the Hell are you even saying? Gaslighting is twisting information into your own favour. All I did was read you the definition of a word that you yourself twisted into your own favour to attack someone, rather than calmly telling them to use a different term.

Did you even for one second before replying to that post think of the intention behind the character or ask the person about the character? No, you directly went to calling them ableist, based on the fact that they used a word you didn’t like and they didn't even know was offensive and when they asked in curiosity how it was offensive, to know why they shouldn’t use it in the future, you kept to calling them ableist and claiming to not have enough energy to explain, rather than simply saying why it was offensive.

That’s not a healthy way to go about things.