So long story short, I read about haram things as premarital marriage. Then I go on realizing the fact that even masturbation is haram, coupled with having relationships and falling in love is haram. So who the hell am I going to marry? Who do I even marry?

And now, apparently music is haram because "it takes my mind of Allah." I'm sure Allah don't want us to live 100% thinking of Allah, but rather embracing moments and learning stuff that's not only islam.

At this point I'm feeling prohibited to do anything. As if I have to switch up my entire lifestyle just to fulfill the way Muhammad lived and what it says in the Qu'ran. I'm very secular, just to point it out, but I do follow some stuff but not as much as I should, and that's especially showing now.

How do you guys live, what rules do you follow and what should I do? Also how much of this is true?

You can downvote all you want, I'm looking for answers and negative ratings don't affect me when seeking help and guidance from others.

EDIT: I'm sorry if some of my sentences seem hostile and angry, I'm really just confused at his point and a mini-rant is just there to show my concern. I apologize for any wording which makes me seem like an a hole.