Guys ask me, how do you attract women? How do you go from approaching a girl at a coffee shop to your place in the same day?

There’s a myriad of things I could tell you, but I’m going to start with the single biggest thing that you need to understand in order to attract women and to have women see you as a sexual person who they want to have sex with.

Oh if only men knew this, there would be far less suicides and the world would have a restored sense of masculinity. Men across all parts of the world, uniting, for the great myth of attracting women has been solved. Rejoice!

To attract women, you must completely change your views on sex. Sex isn’t “sacred” it’s not something that should be cherished, sure, enjoy it and make sure she does too but it’s nothing special. You must see sex as something thats readily available, sex has to ooze from your veins and you must not be afraid to act this way…here’s a secret.

Psst.

Are you listening?

Women enjoy sex, and women love sexual men.

GASP

But here’s the thing, they’re only going to show this side of them if you are okay with being sexual. That means, at some point in the conversation you should approach sexuality, you must look at her and not be afraid to lock with her eyes until she looks away (women love this), talking about your family and what you do is not going to make her wet and it sure as hell isn’t going to make her want to go back to your place for a drink.

Society tells us sexuality is bad and that you shouldn’t show it, you should hide it until you find that special someone. That’s a bunch of bullshit. Complete bullshit fed to you by society. Approaching a girl is considered “creepy” and you wouldn’t want to creep her out. Fuck that. You may rub a few women the wrong way (consensually), but you’re going to also rub a lot of women the right way if you approach them with the intent of sex. Don’t hide it.

Men who play by the rules, and are afraid to break them or experience new things don’t fuck many women. Men who play by society, don’t fuck many women. It’s the outliers, the men that don’t care about rules, do their own thing, which may at times seem “wrong” but they don’t care. These are the men that get laid, the ones that women think about when they’re laying on their bed contemplating if they should download Tinder or not.

The question is, how do you go from someone who is afraid of sexuality, to someone who embraces it and sees sex as something that’s completely normal and something that you shouldn’t be ashamed of. Remember, there’s nothing wrong with wanting to fuck a girl.

My answer to this is that you must get a little weird, you need to change your perspective on the world and what is truly possible. You must re-wire your brain, remove societies bullshit programming. And the best way to re-program you brain is through film, literature and nature.

We live in our own little bubbles, only experiencing the things that fit inside that bubble, never truly knowing the possibilities that are out there and what you can do in this world and get away with. The only way to expand that bubble is through learning others perspectives and views, which is the sole purpose of literature and film. I’m talking classics, from honorary men who have been through tough times and have truly lived. Authors like Herman Hesse, Ernest Hemingway, Kurt Vonnegut and Charles Bukowski they all have lived incredibly interesting lives and their work is just a reflection of their passion for life. Films are the same, they’re a reflection of the minds of great directors. Some of the best directors to help free your mind and see the world as what it really is, instead of what society tells you it is are Robert Altman, David Lynch, Werner Herzog and Stanley Kubrick.

Things like Star Wars, Lord of the Rings and other mainstream films are not going to challenge your thinking enough. They’re designed to be easily consumed, which isn’t a bad thing but you won’t grow as a person through watching them, they fit in with the rules of society instead of shattering them.

The final remedy I will recommend is observing nature, go to a forest or park and simply observe the little critters, animals and birds. Look at their behaviour, watch how the birds glide through trees, hopping from branch to branch. The spider, calmly navigating the crevices of a tree, hiding, waiting for unsuspecting pray. We aren’t much different from the spider or the bird. We like to think we are, but that’s just society telling us that. Most people never truly connect with nature, understanding the critters and creatures on a deep level. Which is a shame, because you can learn so much about yourself and your own nature from doing so. The wild animals are masters of their nature, they don’t ask themselves who they are. They are our greatest teacher, in a world so corrupt and fucked up beyond belief.

I hope you were taking notes, these three things are the key to fucking women and life. The key to making her wet with a single glance. The golden key that removes the shackles that you are born with. It’s nice to be free. Roam the world, make it your fucking oyster, it’s yours and don’t let society tell you otherwise. Listen to the advice I just gave, follow it and you will never be shackled again.