“When the court found that the evidence presented by Stephanie supports a finding of sexual assault/rape, committed by James Cummings, only to then find that text messages sent by Stephanie threatening to disclose his years of abuse, both sexual and emotional, somehow has parity with his sexual deviance so as to support a finding that both Cummings and his wife should be viewed in the same light as primary aggressors, necessitating mutual restraining orders, that conclusion is lost on me,” he said.