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Shape shifters

Posted on Mon, Sep. 28, 2020 at 07:00 am





Love This In-laws Story! ( 16 Loves) Permanent Story Link so lately I have been getting upset at historical issues with my husbands family. I cant even bring myself to call them MY inlaws. They are not good ppl. fil makes up lies about most ppl... including me and its been tough dealing with this. He's the kinda person that shits all over you then announces he's ill so you can't pull him up on anything. mil... she's a nasty... Her bullying is more subtle. She does little things like not remembering your bday when she's the kinda person who remembers the next door neighbours dog year of birth. She will agree a time for dinner with you when she knows you got other family to see as well but changes last minute with no legitimate reason so you end up not seeing your own family. She will ignore my child but around others play the loving grandma. I thought having two brother is laws would be easier then she's. Wrong. Both are waste of spaces and jealous. Add to the mix a wife of the bil who is no better. Manipulative @#$% springs to mind. why oh why, are ppl like this. I dont actually know. I think ppl convince themselves its ok to be nasty to an outsider. that they are all blood and if an outsider has needs such as having every other Xmas with her family then you're trying to steal their son/brother. or when they want to interfer in every aspect of your life they can't understand why you might not want them to. Its much easier to see the daughter inlaw as a two faced cow. This family cant be fair. Its not just me that says this . Im close with my husbands cousins and they say not to take it personally because they don't get on with anyone. Which is true but how is one meant to be happy when they know their inlaws are shape shifters. One minute they are human... the next they are a pack of dogs!

What you failed to realize...

Posted on Thu, Sep. 24, 2020 at 11:16 am





That couldn't be further from the truth.



What you didn't know was that every time we've gone to a family celebration, or just dinner at your house, THAT was because of me. I said that it would be nice for you and the family to get to see him. Guess what? Every time he said happy birthday to anyone, it was because I had to remind him to do so. More than once, actually.



You didn't think about how poorly you treated me. In your mind, as long as your son kept coming to family functions or dinners at your house, you could do anything you wanted.



Oh how wrong you were.



Finally seeing that no matter what you were going to treat me poorly, I decided to stop. Stop encouraging him to go to family functions. Stop planning for us to go to dinners at your house. Stop reminding him to say happy birthday to his family.



He was always bored at those functions, dinners, and didn't care about saying happy birthday to anyone.



So I stopped reminding him about acknowledging you.



Here's what I did instead. I started to tell him all about how you treated me when he was out of the room. Started pointing out the little things you did in front of him, which were very subtle but very plain. I let him read our very long "discussion" we had before I decided to go NC. Told him about one of your golden's wife's treatment of him. Told him everything you have ever done and said to me.



He became very angry at everything. I didn't do any of that, YOU did. For no good reason. I could see if I judged you, or were nasty to you at any point. I didn't and wasn't. Instead, I was very polite, kind, and even bit my tongue in the hopes of keeping the peace. YOU were the ones who judged me, and were nasty to me without provocation.



So you see, MIL, what you failed to realize is that you destroyed all hope of ever seeing or hearing from your son again. Even if you apologized and admitted to everything you've ever done (which I know you won't ever do, because in your mind you didn't do anything), I wouldn't let you back in my life let alone forgive you.



We are done with you. You now have to live with the consequences of being nothing but a huge, jealous bitch.



Love This In-laws Story! ( 27 Loves) Permanent Story Link MIL, I know you like to think that your baby boy likes to see the family, and genuinely likes your company. That now that we're NC, it's because of ME that we don't talk to or spend time with his side of the family.That couldn't be further from the truth.What you didn't know was that every time we've gone to a family celebration, or just dinner at your house, THAT was because of me. I said that it would be nice for you and the family to get to see him. Guess what? Every time he said happy birthday to anyone, it was because I had to remind him to do so. More than once, actually.You didn't think about how poorly you treated me. In your mind, as long as your son kept coming to family functions or dinners at your house, you could do anything you wanted.Oh how wrong you were.Finally seeing that no matter what you were going to treat me poorly, I decided to stop. Stop encouraging him to go to family functions. Stop planning for us to go to dinners at your house. Stop reminding him to say happy birthday to his family.He was always bored at those functions, dinners, and didn't care about saying happy birthday to anyone.So I stopped reminding him about acknowledging you.Here's what I did instead. I started to tell him all about how you treated me when he was out of the room. Started pointing out the little things you did in front of him, which were very subtle but very plain. I let him read our very long "discussion" we had before I decided to go NC. Told him about one of your golden's wife's treatment of him. Told him everything you have ever done and said to me.He became very angry at everything. I didn't do any of that, YOU did. For no good reason. I could see if I judged you, or were nasty to you at any point. I didn't and wasn't. Instead, I was very polite, kind, and even bit my tongue in the hopes of keeping the peace. YOU were the ones who judged me, and were nasty to me without provocation.So you see, MIL, what you failed to realize is that you destroyed all hope of ever seeing or hearing from your son again. Even if you apologized and admitted to everything you've ever done (which I know you won't ever do, because in your mind you didn't do anything), I wouldn't let you back in my life let alone forgive you.We are done with you. You now have to live with the consequences of being nothing but a huge, jealous bitch.

I am tired

Posted on Wed, Sep. 23, 2020 at 08:37 pm





Love This In-laws Story! ( 41 Loves) Permanent Story Link I am just tired. Every time I have interacted with a family member of my dh, something has been rotten in the land of suburbia. I spent twenty years in the military and promised him that I would follow him to his home. Wtf. If I had any idea that I would be in this mafia baboon-ass mafia of a family drinking arsenic laced kook aid from perfectly recycled plastic cups, I would have pierced my aorta with my hunting knife. If it isn’t his lazy, misogynistic, full of themselves brothers and father....then it’s his “cannot lift a finger to cut the grass or shovel the snow show me the money and kiss my ass” sisters-in-laws..... I spent my years serving this country in the belief it was full of good people, and I thank our maker that my in-laws are in no way the sum total of what our humanity aspires to. I’ve been fondled, yelled at, belittled, dismisses for being a female, demeaned for doing dirty work that the SILs refuse to do, and pressured to buy used crap from his family like I married the mother f-ing Sopranos clan. I have bit my tongue and chosen my battles but you disgusting dirty taint sniffing low lifes make me wanna take the lock off my service piece and pop caps in your lily white lazy pristine asses.

Sour grapes

Posted on Wed, Sep. 23, 2020 at 05:19 pm





He brought them home.



Did I eat any of them?



No,anything that grows on her property is tainted.



We saw a baby deer while taking a walk. He or she wagged his tail at us.



It gives me hope about living here getting bettet after his mom died.



Love This In-laws Story! ( 29 Loves) Permanent Story Link Dh picked grapes at his moms house.He brought them home.Did I eat any of them?No,anything that grows on her property is tainted.We saw a baby deer while taking a walk. He or she wagged his tail at us.It gives me hope about living here getting bettet after his mom died.

Cheapskates

Posted on Tue, Sep. 22, 2020 at 05:35 pm





Love This In-laws Story! ( 43 Loves) Permanent Story Link My in-laws are mostly good people. I don't have the hatred for my in-laws that I often see on this website, so I consider myself lucky. That being said, my wife lends out our cars to her family members but we rarely get any money for gas and tolls. Not one red cent. I'm not saying that we should profit off of them borrowing the car. I'm just saying that if you drove 50 miles on the turnpike, you probably used 2 gallons of gas and spent $ on several tolls. Why should it cost me money when someone else borrows one of the family cars? But no, according to dear wife, I'm the cheap one for bringing it up. It's not the money, it's the principle.

You Have No Shame!

Posted on Tue, Sep. 22, 2020 at 10:54 am





Love This In-laws Story! ( 38 Loves) Permanent Story Link Niece In Law you have no shame! A couple days ago you were posting pics of you and much older baby daddy at the beach, taking all kinds of pics of booze and you guys smoking whatever you were smoking. And today you posted that you needed winter clothes for your daughter. I think that beach vacation would have paid for a lot of winter clothes for a little girl. But you want everyone to think you have it rough, you don't fool me and you never have. So get over yourself and you and that old man of yours buy your own kids clothes, not try to get people with kind hearts to give you stuff.

FIL lost his marbles

Posted on Mon, Sep. 21, 2020 at 10:45 pm



My FIL was on very heavy drugs,he hid it from all of the family. MIL cannot say anything or she will be abused. So she enables him. Due to the drugs, FIL hit his head and had to go to the hospital. He raged out saying he doesnt want to live anymore and due to this, he was Baker Acted. MIL cried to my DH, who offically said "i am done with this family for good... i cannot take this shit from any of you anymore." He blocked most of his family members. He does not want anything to do with them and says he is happier that way. He constantly works on his business more now. I haven't heard anything else since.



Love This In-laws Story! ( 28 Loves) Permanent Story Link So, this month has been hell.My FIL was on very heavy drugs,he hid it from all of the family. MIL cannot say anything or she will be abused. So she enables him. Due to the drugs, FIL hit his head and had to go to the hospital. He raged out saying he doesnt want to live anymore and due to this, he was Baker Acted. MIL cried to my DH, who offically said "i am done with this family for good... i cannot take this shit from any of you anymore." He blocked most of his family members. He does not want anything to do with them and says he is happier that way. He constantly works on his business more now. I haven't heard anything else since.

BIL divorced

Posted on Mon, Sep. 21, 2020 at 10:39 pm





Tables turned. She is a felon, a drug addict and a prostitute who lost all custody of her kids. Her mother is raising your kids. Where are you as a father? Oh yeah, you're the father of 1 kid. And you have to listen to what the court says, or you also lose custody of her, thanks to the whore ex wife and your stupidity. You been fighting for 3 years, please stop trying. That poor kid needs to be with her grandparents more than you.



She finally divorced your ass last month! I never seen karma work its charm so good on the one person who needed it the most!



Now, you're living in a garage, because no one else wants you around their house due to your past BS. Your family doesn't like you one bit. My DH hates you the most. And personally, I laugh so hard as you finally got what you deserve in life.



I am not sorry.



Love This In-laws Story! ( 28 Loves) Permanent Story Link Remember how you said you and your whore ex wife would never be apart, when you got married and had kids with her?!Tables turned. She is a felon, a drug addict and a prostitute who lost all custody of her kids. Her mother is raising your kids. Where are you as a father? Oh yeah, you're the father of 1 kid. And you have to listen to what the court says, or you also lose custody of her, thanks to the whore ex wife and your stupidity. You been fighting for 3 years, please stop trying. That poor kid needs to be with her grandparents more than you.She finally divorced your ass last month! I never seen karma work its charm so good on the one person who needed it the most!Now, you're living in a garage, because no one else wants you around their house due to your past BS. Your family doesn't like you one bit. My DH hates you the most. And personally, I laugh so hard as you finally got what you deserve in life.I am not sorry.

Dear MIL....

Posted on Mon, Sep. 21, 2020 at 07:18 pm





Love This In-laws Story! ( 38 Loves) Permanent Story Link Your overbearing narcissistic ways are getting old. You use guilt to control your son and because he loves you, he does whatever you say. YOU ARE A BITCH !!!!!! I hate you so much! I can’t wait to see the dumb look on your face when you find out we are moving far, far away!! HAHA!!!

Today is the day!

Posted on Mon, Sep. 21, 2020 at 04:07 am





Love This In-laws Story! ( 50 Loves) Permanent Story Link I start organizing and packing our house. DH got promoted and we can live anywhere (remote position). Demanding MIL, head flying monkey (BIL) FIL and other BIL who watched this happened (both of you need to grow a pair) and loser, moocher and so jealous buddies from HS...GOODBYE! I am beyond happy, never wanted to visit here much less move here...the nightmare is over.