hello frien. it me, doctor Elly cat docto.

im get many question, todaylately, abut ending. “what do when belov thing am over?” “what do when, heartbroked?” “what do when loss?” verr difult human question.

I, prestigus Cat Doctor, have very smal Superior Temporal Complx. Therefor, do not understand Time or Endin. For me cat doctor, Thing happning, or thing not happning. Scrambleyellin around apartment goin EOWW RREOWOOOO RRROOOOO with crazy eyes OR asleep.



But. Im hav extensiv clinicals experince with human pepl. And I say this. Most importan thing about endin is, NO RIGHT OR WRONG WAY 2 FEEL. Human espclally human in positshun of relativ global privleg always think: “ok bad thing happen. time to make best of it. time to Process and Come to Terms.” but actully, this very backward way 2 deal with diffuclt emoshun. Because then u r always say: WHY IM NOT PROCESSIN FASTER? WHY IM NOT COMING TO TERMS FASTER??? WHY IM STILL ANGRYSADS? WHY IM WANT TO LIVE IN BED WITH PAW OVER MI FACE EATING ONLY CORN CHIP FROM BAG?

Here is cat doctor fact. Proces and Come 2 Terms With and feel happiness and gratitude as well as sadness is function of only on e thing: Time. This frurstating for smart n self aware human, because yur think: I’M GOOD AT STUF. I’M SMART PERSON. IM CAN LEARN 2 SPEAK ENGLISH GOOD OR DO A MATHS. WHY IM CANT LEARN 2 HAVE GOOD EMOTIONS FASTER? because this not how works. that why. sry. is fact of life like mi big fluffy ruff and teeny pink nose.

Again im have no experinc or understanding of Time because, live in momnt. But here is whtat im advise: Forgive yuself for sufferin. Forgiv yu self if not feel correct emotion, not able to have gratitudes, not able 2 balance happysads. Forgiv yuself for get wrappet up in “what ifs.”

Here is plan. When yu brain do these things, yu do not have to try to comfort yuself or say “it is ok” or “will be ok.” yu say 2 yuself only: “this my brain. this what brain is doing.” then, eats a corn chip, or watch a Natflax movies. Clean yu bathtub. Hate everything. ONLY TIME WILL BRINGS HEALIN AND THAT IS NOT PARSONAL FAILURE BY YU. For tempotatry cure I advise find softcat and pet.

look how much soft. can yu believe. im softest doctor.