So you’re all geared up, lubed up, amped up, and ready for some pegging fun! Suddenly, you realize you don’t know what position you and her should even try. There are plenty of options for pegging positions, all of them incredible in their own way. Here are a few of our Pegging Advisory Board members' favorites to put some ideas into your mind.

#1. On His Back

A benefit of this position is being able to have constant eye contact with your partner, which can amp up how intimate the moment feels. It also allows some cock and balls play to be thrown in the mix, which is an added bonus. More sensation anyone?

Face to face. It allows eye contact, the ability to stimulate the cock and balls without a reach around, and I can touch her as she is fucking me.

-Dave

If she finds that pegging her man while on her knees is not stable enough, there are other options. You just have to position yourself on the bed in just the right way. Here’s an example from a reader:

Give a choice, the position I prefer is with me on my back, right at the edge of the bed (we have a tall bed) with my feet up and my wife standing. This allows full and easy penetration as well as access to my cock by my wife. We can also see each others’ faces (she can better control how close I am to coming if she can see my face) and I also get to enjoy her breasts bouncing while she fucks my ass. That way she can control things better and that makes me happy.

- Richard

#2. Doggy Style

This seems to be another favorite amongst the men! This is definitely a vulnerable position for a lot of men, and taking away the eye contact with your partner requires a lot more verbal communication, since you’re not able to read each other’s face. Never fear, though! An added perk of doggy style is that she is better able to see what she’s doing as she thrusts.

It’s tough to pick a real fav but Doggy with my chest mashed to the floor is probably my favorite. Then I can spread to take it deep or I can pound back into it meeting her thrusts.

-BiCowboy

Doggy style to start with, to help the initial penetration and foreplay to get into the zone. After that to slowly collapse forward and get into the prone position. At this point I enjoy the weight of my partner on my body. It’s both so intimate and submissive. She would then move slowly letting me feel the full length of the toy. This gets me out of my head and totally relaxed so I can feel each movement and able to coach her to move just where I need it to feel the most.

- Tootallthree

Again, there are variations of this position, as our readers above made clear. Face down/ass up, hands and knees, and again, the woman can be standing or kneeling.

As the recipient I prefer to be bent over while my wife takes me from behind. The position affords her the best view and makes it easier for her to enter me. From an emotional perspective it's very much a power exchange. I'm put into a very vulnerable position that way, I can't see her or anything going on behind me. Which toy will she use? Is she going to go slow or force it in fast? All I can do is wait for her to do what she wants.

-KC

There is something very delicious and satisfying of not being able to see what’s going to happen next. If you like a little teasing or mystery, doggy style may be your favorite option.

#3. Man on Top

A great way for beginners to explore pegging, as it allows for more control – you are able to better control the depth and speed of the toy while you’re on top. There are several varieties of being on top, as well – reverse cowboy, facing your partner, or also straddling her while she’s seated in a chair!

I personally love to be on top simply because it makes it easier to work the dildo how I want. I get to feel the exact sensations that work for me, which makes me orgasm that much easier.

-JohnSJ

Being on top of my girlfriend when she’s pegging me seriously blew my mind the first time we tried it. Not only was I able to maintain a sense of control (I’m still a newbie!), but the sensations were totally different, as I was able to lower myself even deeper onto the dildo than in other positions. Our personal favorite now is reverse cowboy, just because the angles feel so damn GOOD!

-stefan4

#4. Spoon and Peg

A little romance never hurt anyone! This is a very sweet and simple position, again great for beginners. You get the benefit of regulated depth control, as well as feeling skin-on-skin contact. This is also a great position for those who need a little break from the cardio workout that pegging can be!

I love when my wife spoons me with a strap-on! It’s so relaxing and easy, just laying against each other and feeling her slide inside. We get to have our bodies close, and I love that.

-MrHL

EDIT/UPDATE: #5. Prone Bone

After publishing this article, we heard from a lot of readers who were heartbroken we didn't include their favorite position: "prone bone". Prone bone is where the man lies flat on his stomach with the woman laying on top of him. It's a very intimate position and (when done right) is really good for hitting the prostate.

In Conclusion...

You’ll hear us say this many times on this site – there is no one position that is better than the other! Part of the fun is experimenting and seeing what works for you and your body. So put down your phone, and go get on your knees! (or backs, or sides, or stomachs. . . )