“Consider how hard it is to change yourself and you’ll understand what little chance you have in trying to change others.”– Jacob M. BraudeFocus only on what you can control. and change. You! You can, if the time is right, have some influence over others. You can have an impact on a situation. Yet, spending too much time on these areas, where your control and ability to change things is limited, zaps your energy and attitude. Invest in changing your thought patterns and response to people, circumstances and yourself. That, in turn, will change you.