Ladies, how hard do you think it is to get the man of your dreams? Most women will say that they haven’t found that elusive Mr. Right as yet. Some will say yes and in a few years say they simply fell out of love. While the age-old excuse, “what does men want” is asked again and again by others still. Let’s clear a few things up right now. If you’re out shopping for the tightest, most colorful, sexiest dress you plan on wearing to a club, stop. The art of attracting the right man is something all, or, at least most women are born with. And no, you don’t have to go spend a ton of money at Macy’s or any other number of stores. You don’t have to dress in those extra tight extra short dresses either. Getting the man of your dreams is much simpler than that. Let’s delve for a second. What you ladies have to remember is that men, yes I a man, am about to say this, men are simple.

Put away the money and the extra makeup and realize for once what you have. The minute you walk out your door at least five guys see you. Even if you decided to just walk out in dress that reached to the floor and reveals nothing. It is that simple, men like women. It’s not to say that we don’t like when women look good, it’s just to let you know the extra mile is not really necessary.

I will be honest. The false advertising I see going on everyday is astounding. Think about this for a minute. A woman wants to attract a man or get and keep a man. She will put on the sexiest dress she can find knowing she wants a man that pays attention to her and not how she looks. The end result is she got exactly what she went looking for and not what she wanted. The extra visual effect will cause men who are not attracted to you to be attracted sexually. In essence you never really give the man a chance to get to know you before things get steamy. What happens here is, you lose. After a while you start pushing for what you really wanted and he starts pulling away because you start changing the terms of what he saw from the advertisement in the tight dress. Lesson here is, be you. There’s no need for that accentuated swing to your hips either if it’s not normally there. You want to be as much you at all points as humanly possible.

What you as women need to realize is that at all points when you’re out there’s a man looking at you. We don’t need the extra incentive because we saw you and we like. If you have to go the extra mile or miles to attract a man then that simply means that man is not attracted to you personally but sexually. What that means is that when the sex gets old the man gets gone. The seriousness of today is that compatibility just equals mental and physical attraction. And no, it doesn’t matter what job you’re working. Just because you work in the same field doesn’t mean your mental and physical attraction will be compatible. A Doctor and a sales clerk could be perfect for each other and never know because they spend their whole lives looking for someone on the so-called “Equal Yoke.” To be honest, that’s the most idiotic term I’ve heard when it comes to relationship needs.

So here it is in the most honest context you can understand. To attract the man of your dreams just be you. Don’t pretend to be something you’re not. As a woman you have a attractiveness that captures a man’s attention. There’s no need for the fluff. The second part of that is to be opened to the possibilities that your Mr. Right may not be someone who works in the same field as you or even make as much as you do. It is that simple to find Mr. Right. Try these simple things and see what happens. Don’t force anything, don’t over or under dress, and don’t do things you’re not accustomed to. Just be you, just dress as you want, just do what you want, and be willing to negotiate. Aside from those things I will only stress again that the lengths through which most of you go now is unnecessary.

About Kevin Allen

I am an up and coming freelance writer / Marketer. One of the things you will notice is that I love to play with words. I can create anything and unravel anything for you. If you have a project you feel I can help you with please feel free to contact me – metawriter@yahoo.com. You can also IM me at kinev2010@yahoo.com or follow me on twitter@ metawriter