If something is good or comfortable for you, you accept it without a doubt. Yes, you accept it, and it doesn’t matter whether it is something good or bad. If you feel comfortable and something is easy and pleasant for you, then you turn it into a friend … “up here.” Our connections are very much like a reflection: If you look in the mirror, then you will see your face … “up here.” It is similar with feelings. If you look at feelings, you are closer to them, you can meet and connect with them, and you can make yourself happier. If your feeling and someone else’s view are not close but in discordance, it causes aheadache. If you push and push, more grey hair will grow, and this makes you more and more angry - then you fight. If you are the leader of a nation, you can even make war.