Tinyhandprintseverywhere Mon 02-Jul-18 00:50:28

I've been having an absolute nightmare weekend with exdp, it's his weekend to have the dcs and as usual he hasn't turned up as he is more interested in spending time with his friends and new gf.



So on Friday morning I called to remind him that he needs to collect ds from his club, as I would be working and wouldn't be able to do it. As soon as he answered he was being vile so I knew from then he wouldn't be having themp, so I hung up and arranged for a friend to collect him for me.



On my way to work in the evening I called him again to ask about the maintenance he was meant to put in my account but didn't,

He told me he would drop it at his mums and I would have to collect it there.

I told him I couldn't do that which resulted in a screaming match, he was basically calling me a stupid woman and every other name under the sun, all the while this is happening I can hear his gf laughing in the background, as if it's all a big joke to her.



Anyway it ended with him saying he would collect the dcs Saturday morning which of course he didn't so I took them out instead, he's then called me @3pm wanting to collect them I told him I was out.



I then started receiving txts telling me I'm playing games, then again today he calls me ranting down the phone blaming me for the way the situation is, again with his gf in the background telling me to get off the phone, we've both exchanged some horrible messages to each other aswell today which totally drains me.



Now my question is how as a woman can you sit there and listen to someone verbally abusing the mother of his children, knowing he hasn't seen them since fathers day and laugh?

I'm sure in the very near future he will want to have the dcs around her so he can play disney dad and I feel very uncomfortable with them being around both of them.