Virginia’s first lady Pam Northam ― whose husband, Gov. Ralph Northam (D), has seen his grip on his office threatened by charges of racism ― finds herself under fire from a parent after she handed cotton to some black students and asked them to think about what it was like to be enslaved.

The awkward exchange occurred Feb. 21 during a tour of the governor’s mansion in Richmond that Northam conducted for about 20 teens who had served as pages in the Virginia state Senate.

Pam Northam, a former middle school teacher, was showing the students a cottage on the grounds that once served as a kitchen. At one point, she held up samples of tobacco and cotton and described the lives of the enslaved workers who harvested the crops, according to The Washington Post.

She then gave cotton to two of the young people, who along with another were the only blacks in the group, and asked them to imagine what it must have been like to pick the crop all day, according to the mother of one of the pages who is upset about the interaction.

Leah Dozier Walker, an official at the state Education Department who oversees its Office of Equity and Community Engagement, said she was livid when her daughter recounted the incident.

In a letter sent Monday to the first lady and state lawmakers, Walker wrote:

“I can not for the life of me understand why the first lady would single out the African American pages for this — or — why she would ask them such an insensitive question.”

Walker, noting that the governor and his wife have been asking Virginians “to forgive them for their racially insensitive past actions,” added that “the actions of Mrs. Northam, just last week, do not lead me to believe that this Governor’s office has taken seriously the harm and hurt they have caused African Americans in Virginia or that they are deserving of our forgiveness.”

The governor’s office said the first lady simply handed the cotton to whoever was nearby, according to the Post’s story.

Pam Northam responded to Walker’s complaints with a statement to Portsmouth, Virginia-based WAVY-TV: