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If you want to ask a girl out, start by having a specific activity in mind for the date. Also, try planning out what you want to say to her ahead of time, which can help you feel more confident. For example, you might say, “I got tickets to the Taylor Swift concert in August. Would you want to come with me as my date?” If you’re nervous, try practicing in front of a mirror several times beforehand. When you're ready to ask her out, try to catch her when she's in a good mood and by herself so that you don't have an audience for the conversation. Then, smile, make eye contact, and go for it! No matter how she responds, react in a positive way and try not to take it personally if she says no. There are other fish in the sea! For tips on how to figure out if the girl is interested in you, keep reading!