I’d even go far as to say that anyone who says she has been abused in the past is off limits. That’s complete unfair, but utterly necessary for your own protection. The abuse may have been legit, and she may have made a full recovery, but do you want to hang around to find out?

If she has called the cops before, then she won’t have any hesitation to do it again.

She will claim that she’s damaged now and expect you to help her recover. Whatever triggers her, no matter how normal it is, will be your fault.

Possibly the worse, she will believe that abuse is normal. Meaning she sees no issue with verbally and physically abusing you. She can’t get off unless she dominating or being dominated.

All s~~~ you want to don’t want to deal with. Again, maybe she’s recovered, but not worth the risk. Besides that, if she’s recovered, she won’t have a reason to bring it up in conversation.