If you search Niteflirt.com or Clips4Sale.com for ‘cock control’, you’ll find the term being used nearly interchangeably with three other terms: chastity, triggered erections, and jerk off instructions (JOI). But in my opinion, only triggered erections (through hypnotic dissociation) are true cock control. Chastity and JOI are separate activities.

Hypnotic Dissociation

I first discovered the concept of cock control in the old usenet forums. A user posted an account of a domme named Bianca who had covertly hypnotized him and conditioned him to get hard only when she wanted him to. She created a dissociated state where she could make him feel that his cock belonged more to her than to him. It responded only to her sexual control. She conditioned him to get hard and simultaneously go into a trance so that she could distract him with intense sexual arousal while covertly manipulating him further into her control. Over time and after several hypnotic sessions, She conditioned him to believe that his erections only had two purposes: One, to bring him back to her, and two, to make him susceptible to her sexual control.

This wasn’t the first time I’d read about a hypnotist creating a hypnotic dissociation to manipulate just one part of a person’s body. Stiff arm and floating arm inductions have long been common methods for inducing trance and demonstrating hypnotic suggestion. In the stiff arm induction, the hypnotist gets the subject to imagine their arm is a steel rod. It’s so stiff that they can’t bend their elbow. In the floating arm induction, the hypnotist has the subject imagine balloons tied to their arm. They picture the balloon lifting their arm, which causes the arm to rise over their heads. Both inductions create a dissociative state where the subject feels like the arm is moving (or not moving) on it’s own outside of the subject’s conscious control.

But Bianca’s story was the first time I’d read about a woman covertly (and deliberately) creating such a dissociated state with a man’s cock. In the poster’s mind, Bianca seemed to have true control over his cock. It rose up hard and insistent whenever she wanted it to. When he was alone and got hard, his erection seemed to insist that he return to her. When he was with her and she triggered his hard on, it felt like it was holding him there in her control and helping her manipulate him. She never had to touch him (although she sometimes did), and she never let him touch himself. Yet she continuously demonstrated that she could get him hard and make him cum whenever she wanted. (It wasn’t until years later that he realized that when she triggered his hard on, she also triggered him into a trance.) This was true cock control.

JOI

JOI, or jerk off instructions, are something else. Instead of creating that dissociated state, the domme tells her sub what to do. She tells him when to stroke and when not to. She tells him how fast or slow to stroke. She tells him when to hold back and when to cum.

JOI can, and often are, used to reinforce feelings of submissiveness. Masturbating on command, if done often enough, can create a psychological link between the domme’s command and the subject’s sexual pleasure. This increases their desire to submit and obey, while conditioning the submissive to respond sexually to the domme’s authority.

But even when the submissive is hypnotized, this is still behavior control, not true cock control.

Dommes often talk down to their subs while giving JOIs. They may tell him that he’s worthless, or remind him that he can’t control himself. These suggestions, of course, imply that the domme is superior to him, and reinforce the suggestion that he obey and/or worship her. But this is attitude conditioning, not cock control. (Also, it’s not that enjoyable for men who aren’t true submissives)

Chastity

Chastity is refraining from sexual activity. For some men this means preventing a man from getting hard. For others it means getting hard but refraining from masturbating or having intercourse. Chastity can be accomplished through discipline, through access denial (i.e., chastity belts etc.), or through hypnosis.

Hypnodommes often combine suggestions for chastity with suggestions for cock control or JOI. This is to suggest, or reinforce, the belief that the domme’s control is the submissive’s ONLY source of sexual pleasure.

But again, this is still behavior control, not true cock control.

Erotic Hypnosis MP3s with Cock Control

Consensual Non-Consent cock control is very popular. Between inraptured.com, niteflirt, and clips4sale, it’s easy to find more one hundred dommes offering cock control. But creating hypnotic dissociation requires a good deal of skill. (Remember Skill is Sexy). And I found only a few hypnodommes (and only a few recordings) skillful enough to achieve this effect without JOI:

Hypnotic Dreams’ femdom files, Held, Manipulations and Sympathetic Magic

Mona Blu’s A’Provocateur, Dangerous Curves, and Snake Charmer I & II.

Kasha Shakti’s Ache for Goddess, Intimate Confession, Sexual Touch, and Irresistible Urge

Amethyst’s Obedient Body and Obedient Cock.

Tessa Field’s Tough Guy

Hypnotic Dreams’ approach is to have you imagine (visualize) a provocative domme seducing you into a trance. Every word adds a detail to help you build your mental image and the feeling of being seduced. As she makes builds this image in your mind, you simultaneously become sexually aroused and go into a trance. This makes every sexual suggestion a covert hypnotic suggestion, while also connecting the feeling of getting hard to going into a trance.

Naturally, I recommend all of Hypnotic Dreams’ femdom MP3s (since I wrote them). But the files mentioned above are specifically designed to create the hypnotic dissociation that makes you feel like the domme is hypnotically controlling your cock (and using your cock to control your mind).

Mona Blu has been offline for a few years. But in the recordings mentioned above, she lulled you into a lite trance with her sensual voice while suggesting that your cock is hypnotized by her overwhelming sexuality. She weaved multiple voice tracks to create a link between the trance and being hard, conditioning your cock to get hard whenever you start to go into a trance for her. Most of her other files seem more focused on creating submissive emotions. But these three MP3s are designed to create the dissociate state.

Kasha Shakti employs a more provocative style of sexual hypnosis that gets you aroused first, then uses your arousal to seduce you into a trance and accept her suggestions. Her voice and suggestions keep you aroused while she creates an association between being hard and being hypnotized. She often follows this with reframing suggestions, i.e., she reprograms your subconscious to believe that the ache in your cock is the need to listen to her voice and obey her suggestions. Many of Kasha’s MP3s are designed to create this hypnotic dissociation. But in my opinion, the files mentioned above seem are the most artfully written.

Amethyst’s and Tessa Field’s files employ direct suggestion to implant hypnotic triggers. To me, the technique is not as erotic as Hypnotic Dreams, Mona or Kasha’s, but some men still find it effective.