Shilling, a 27-year-old from Green Lane, Montgomery County, was sexually assaulted four years ago by a man she'd met through mutual friends, but she said it was the process of going to the police that "retraumatized" her. Those "victim-blaming" questions – "What were you wearing? How much did you drink? Are you sure you didn't lead him on?" – are why she attended Saturday's second Women's March on Philadelphia.