What the 'bigoted feminists’ achieved was to bring women into the labour market, so they no longer have to survive by the favour and kindness of men. We are big girls now, and can choose how we live, and if Mr Raab feels the need to burn his underpants, far be it from us to stand in his way. Had he argued that women are just terribly good at seizing the moral high ground, at making men feel they’ve behaved badly, I’d be with him all the way, not just part of it. I think what we hearing from him is an understandable cry of pain.