I’m what I would call a barely fat. I weight 144 and am 5 feet tall, but I’m decently proportioned. I didn’t realize how much privilege I had until after I went up to 170 and then came back down. At this weight, guys look at me. I get things free/discounted. I also assume the role of alpha female quite easily and guys do what I say. When I was bigger I got no such treatment. I felt bad about myself for not being able to turn heads like I used to. And now I only get praise for losing the weight again. No one thinks or even asks about how. It was from a medical condition FYI. Thanks for the concern everyone.