sweetbabyhamsters:

O boop my anon friend.

Virginity and purity is so much more than just a intact hymen. We all make choices that we come to regret later. Sadly we live in a society that teaches us that we are somehow tainted and broken if we don’t walk into a marriage as a virgin.

Like our God isn’t big enough to cover our sin and mistakes. As if Love cannot cover a multitude of sins and as if our God cannot restore and heal us.

I realise that there a quite a few of my followers that don’t necessarily view premarital sex as sinful, but for those of us that do, messing up in that area can cause a huge spiritual crisis. We get almost force fed every Sunday to remain pure and when we don’t, its like our salvation hangs in the balance.

But God is faithful, regardless of our choices and sin. He wasn’t caught off guard by your one night of passion, its not like He didn’t see it coming. He still loves you, He always have.

When we know better we do better. Next time you will probably make different choices. Accept the forgiveness extended to you by Christ and at the same time extend grace to yourself.

No amount of beating yourself up is going to make you a virgin again, but purity is a choice, its a state of mind, a way of living and has nothing to do with whether you have had sex or not.

Love love

C