​Factors I consider when rating a vibrator The #1 ​factor to consider is PERFORMANCE - Does it hit the spot? This is the big one, does it give you an orgasm or does it give you an OMG ORGASM!!! ​Types of vibrations? ​When it comes to stimulating the clitoris, there's one massive factor you have to take in​to consideration: are the vibrations "buzzy" or "rumbly"? Rumbly vibrations are what you're after, they're deep and penetrating and give you a better orgasm.​

​Buzzy vibrations will generally leave you numb if you use them for a long session. They're also a pain for your hand because after using one your hand gets tired and feels like you've been writing all day. They're fine for a quick session but rumbly vibrations are much better and kinder to your clit. 95% of your clit is actually under the surface, sort of like an iceberg... The rumbly vibrations stimulate the clit at a deeper level than the buzzy type which seem to just stimulate the visible part of the clit. You want to have as much fun as possible!

Material Obviously you want something safe but some vibrator materials﻿﻿﻿ just feel better than others. Price ​​If one option costs twice as much as another option but they have the same performance, obviously I'll prefer the less expensive option.​​​ Having said that, you usually get what you pay for. The other factor to consider is some just don't want to spend $100 on a vibrator!​ Noise level My pet hate with vibrators is the noise level. I really don’t like loud ones. Sometimes you're 80% in the mood, not 100% in the mood but think hey, I'd like to kill some time or get some frustration out and in those cases having what sounds like a couple of bees buzzing in your ear can be a massive turn off. You might also draw too much attention to yourself at the wrong time.

Power source Another preference I have is for rechargeable vibrators instead of battery operated vibrators or vibrators that get plugged into a power socket. The reason I don’t like battery operated toys is because they can run out of batteries or lose their power at the WORST time which leaves you furious. And I do mean furious. Hell hath no fury as a woman who's vibrator has died on her mid-session. I hate having my sessions interrupted, let alone batteries dying on me. I’m not a massive fan or corded toys as well because the cords just get in the way. With USB or rechargeable toys, after you use and then clean your toy you can just charge it to full charge again and never have to worry about running out of power at the wrong time... And it’s more eco-friendly to not throw batteries into land fill. Even my orgasms should be eco-friendly! Discretion Not so important to me but I understand it can be very important to my many. Some have fears that this might happen...

Ease of cleaning I take hygiene very seriously but I don't like cleaning, I've got better things to do with my time. So I want a product that's easy to clean, preferably water proof so that I don't have to be too careful when I'm cleaning and can get the job done fast. Aesthetics I'm just not a fan of plastic, cheap looking toys. I have a preference for stylish items.

​Types of vibrators

When buying a vibrator, the first thing you have to figure out is what type of vibrator you want, one that stimulates the:



Clitoris - best for beginners

G-spot - check out the g-spot vibrator buying guide

Both the clitoris and the g-spot - Check out the rabbit vibrator buying guide

​This is a really good short clip by an Australian lady discussing all the different kinds like simple clitoris vibrators, g-spot, rabbits, couples etc.

​Below is a table going over all the different types of vibrators

​Clit vibrators - ​Eggs and Bullets

Clit vibrators - ​Pocket rockets

Clit vibrators - ​Magic Wands

​G-spot

​Rabbits

​Other ​Egg vibrators and bullet vibrators are designed for clitoral stimulation and are quite small but fairly strong considering the size. Not only are they discrete, but they also are quite affordable (starting at around $5) for first-time users. There is a wide selection of designs, speed range, and vibrating patterns. ​ All of which are easy to use, which makes them great for the inexperienced or those that just want to try a vibrator but are really unsure about it. Most of these types of vibrators are "budget" options though and provide very buzzy vibrations instead of rumbly vibrations so if you can spare a few extra dollars, you're much better off going for another type of vibrator or at least go for a high end egg or bullet.

Pocket Rockets are a best seller when it comes to small clitoral vibrators. They resemble a small pocket flashlight, which makes them discreet, easy to use, and affordable (usually around the $10 mark). I personally like them more than eggs and bullets since they’re easier to use and hold. A basic pocket rocket only has one speed, but is usually strong enough for younger women. I prefer multi-speed pocket rockets because they have more variation so you don’t outgrow them. The Pocket Rocket Plus by Doc Johnson is a decent clitoral vibrator that I personally recommend for the budget conscious. ​The Hitachi Magic Wand is the strongest and most popular vibrator ever created, but is usually much too strong for a first-timer. However, body massagers have more speed variations, are smaller, and are amongst my favorite type of vibrator. The biggest benefit of this type of vibrator is discretion. Technically it's meant to be used for neck and shoulder pain, that sort of thing but many have found that it can be used on other places. The biggest issue with this type of vibrator is that they're just too powerful for delicate areas. Think about it, if it can help by massaging sore spots on big areas like your shoulders, it's probably got too much power for most little delicate areas. ​G spot vibrators are basically vibrating dildos that have a curve to help stimulate the G spot. Most beginners find it difficult to stimulate their G spot, so these aren’t recommended as a starting point. When you're ready or feel like giving one a try, OMG they're amazing. It's a different sensation when you have something inside you and you're orgasming. There are two types of rabbit vibrator: Stimulate the clitoris and the other part of the vibe is just so you have something inserted in you. Stimulate the clitoris but the other part of the vibe is curved and is designed to vibrate and stimulate the g-spot. ​Vibrating cock rings or love rings are perfect for beginner couples who are looking to explore together. They’re usually disposable, inexpensive, and can be a fun addition to sex. Since we’re mainly discussing self-pleasure and masturbation, we won’t go into detail about that. Phallic and classic shaped vibrators are ideal for penetration but not so great for clitoral stimulation. Vibrating panties and strap-on (butterfly) vibrators aren’t comfortable, aren’t strong, and are difficult to position. Couple’s vibrators, such as the We-Vibe, cost a lot of money, aren’t very strong, and although they can be fun, they’re not ideal for beginners. Luxury vibrators often look beautiful and discrete, but are extremely expensive and are usually lacking in power. There are also anal vibrators but that area of expertise is not up my alley.

​The top 9 vibrators for 2020

Masturbating can be one of life's great pleasures but how do you know if you are experiencing it as well as you could be? Lucky for you I've done many vibrator reviews to find the best vibrators for women. These top rated vibrators will certainly help you to get to know yourself just a little bit more.

​#1. ​Nea 2 by Lelo The Lelo Nea 2 has everything you want and need. It's super stylish and elegant, it's vibrations rumble giving a deep and intense orgasm, it fits perfectly in your palm, is really quiet, is easy to clean because it's completely waterproof, has all the power you need along with 8 different vibration settings, great for beginners and the more experienced user and comes with a 1 year warranty. Check out my full review of the Lelo Nea 2. ​What we liked The performance is outstanding

​Deep, intense rumbles

Super stylish

Fits nicely in your palm

Very quiet ​What we didn't like Nothing really and that bugs me that I can't find a fault. ​ ​Check price

​​ #2 . Tango​ by We-Vibe We-Vibe make some of the most popular vibrators on the market. The We-Vibe Tango​​ has 8 different levels of vibrations, 4 different intensity levels (Low, Medium, High, Ultra) and 4 patterns (Tease, Wave, Pulse, Cha-cha). Even though it's small, it has all the power you need. You generally need a big motor to make big vibrations which is why I generally don’t like bullet vibrators but this toy is different because it has all the vibrations you need.​ ​ Even though it is super powerful, it's really quiet. The power is incredible for something so small. Yes it’s more expensive than other vibes but you get what you pay for. This vibrator will give you those throbbing orgasms you love so much. It has enough power, but are its vibrations rumbly? The answer to that is yes, Yes, YES. The lipstick end allows for pinpoint accuracy 🙂 but the flat side side allows for more subtle vibrations, perfect for foreplay. It even has a memory function, when you next turn it on it starts off at your previous setting the last time you used it. It even has a low battery indicator. The light in the base will blink on and off when the Tango is low on power and needs to be recharged. ​What we liked The performance is outstanding

​Deep, intense rumbles

Low battery indicator so you don't get caught out

​A bit cheaper than the most Lelo products



Very quiet ​What we didn't like Nothing really ​Check price

​#3. Soraya​ by Lelo ​This vibrator is absolute luxury. Check out my Lelo Soraya review. ​What we liked The performance is ​excellent and you can have a blended orgasm

​​Two independent batteries

​Adjustable arm to suit your own anatomy

​​Very stylish. So many rabbit vibes are just plain ugly and cheap looking



Even on the highest speed is still fairly ​quiet ​What we didn't like The price. However it's hard to buy a rabbit vibrator that works well so if you find one that does, you have to pay up ​Check price

​#4. Happy Rabbit 2​ ​Getting a good rabbit vibrator is really tough. They can be quite complicated little pieces of machinery. Seeing as we're all different shapes and sizes and our special spots aren't in exactly the same position for everyone, you need a rabbit ​that can be adjustable to suit your particular body. The Happy Rabbit 2 shaft and the bunny ears are adjustable. The bunny ears can be angled so that they perfectly surround your clitoris and the head of the shaft also has some flex to it. The Happy Rabbit 2 is waterproof and has 15 functions, three for the ears and twelve for the shaft. The three in the ears have varying levels of intensity at constant speeds. The shaft has the same level of intensities and speeds but also has nine patterns to choose from. The shafts first three functions are constant, rumbly, vibrations, just the way I like them. Both the ears and the shaft have great, rounded vibrations that will travel well throughout the entire shaft. ​You can use the ear and shaft functions at the same time or you can just use one or the other. As the toy has two motors, one for the ears and one for the shaft I was expecting it to be a rather noisy toy. I was wrong, I’m pleased to report that it isn’t as noisy as I thought it would be even when on full power! I would recommend a bit of background music though to help with the mood because any type of vibration sound can be off putting. Considering how much power the toy has, it makes little noise. With all that said, I loved this toy. I find it really hard to find a great rabbit ​and now I finally have one and it's decently priced. ​What we liked Great price and is perfect for those who want to test a rabbit



The performance is ​​really good​

Two independent motors​

​​​Heaps of functionality



Even on the highest speed is still fairly ​quiet

Adjustable so that it can better suit your anatomy ​What we didn't like ​The performance isn't as good as the Soraya but it's much cheaper

​Not noisy but not as quiet as the Soraya ​Check price

​#5. Lelo Mona 2​ My first Lelo vibe was the Mona 2 and I wasn't sure how good it was going to be. Although I was skeptical and thought that LELO was overrated with its simplistic designs that probably wouldn't work as well as other brands. ​I couldn’t have been more wrong about the performance. The Mona 2 was so impressive, with a wide range of intensities (which is more than a lot of other brands I’ve seen). The Mona is shaped to stimulate the g-spot and does extremely well to deliver. The vibrations are rumbly and deep, and are stimulating enough that you don’t need to rock or thrust it in order to get enough sensation. The pulsation and vibration modes are fairly standard, but the random mode is a real treat. The random mode is great since you don’t know what to expect next. Overall, the quality is great and LELO offers good warranties on all their products. The Mona 2 is pretty much perfect as a g-spot vibrator! If I could only choose one vibrator to own, I would definitely go with the Mona 2. ​

​What we liked ​Perfectly shaped​



The performance is ​​really great

​Rumbly and deep vibrations

​​​Heaps of functionality



​Stylish

​Waterproof

​Big buttons for easier usage ​What we didn't like ​Price. I wish it were cheaper but considering ​how the product gets used, I'd rather pay up for quality



​Not noisy but not as quiet as the Soraya ​Check price

#6. LoveHoney Desire Luxury The performance is spectacular. It has really deep, rumbly vibrations which will make your whole body quiver. The only problem is the noise level. It's LOUD. If it bothers you you'll want a bit of background music and maybe stay under the sheets! The thing is, I have to go back to the performance though, it's great and the toy is reasonably priced. ​What we liked ​Perfectly shaped​



The performance is ​​fantastic

​Rumbly and deep vibrations

Price. It's great value



​Stylish

​Waterproof ​What we didn't like ​The noise level. It can be a turn off for some

​Check price

#7. Lyla 2 It’s a bit costly, but with a stylish design and enhanced features, the Lelo Lyla 2 is worth every penny. Cheaper vibrators stop functioning sometimes within a few months of use, so it’s not hard to justify investing in a superior vibrator. So why do I love the Lyla 2? A big reason is because of its wireless remote. The vibe can be used externally or internally while using the wireless controller to adjust intensity and speed. The Lyla 2 is also rechargeable, waterproof and comes in many colors. It is expensive but it is worth it. ​ ​What we liked Can be used in public​ via remote control



The performance is ​​fantastic

​Rumbly and deep vibrations

​Can be controlled without the remote



​Stylish like most Lelo products

​Waterproof ​What we didn't like ​​Someone who hasn't used it before might find it a bit uncomfortable



As a standalone clit vibrator, it works really well but there are better options. You buy it for the fact that it has a remote control and the benefits that come with that ​Check price

#8. ​Magic Wand ​The ​Hitachi Magic Wand has been around for a long time. It was originally designed in the 1970s for those recovering from sports related injuries. Before long, women found a new and interesting use for the magic wand. With a reputation of being a fantastic vibrator for over 40 years, you know that the Magic Wand is doing something right. Although you need to have it plugged into the wall in order to use it, the extremely powerful motor and two vibration speeds make up for that. ​Not as discreet as a homemade vibrator though. This toy is for external pleasure, especially for vibration for the clitoral region. The big cushy head and nice design makes this the Cadillac of vibrators. It's also very discreet so you won't end up in a situation like this... If you’re looking for a powerful vibrator with lots of sensation, the Magic Wand is for you. It’s great to use alone or with a partner. If you want my personal opinion of the Hitachi Magic Wand, I’d say that it’s a must-have if you’re looking for lots power and sensation. It’s highly adaptable, you can use it in a variety of ways, and it will become a favorite in no time! Read the full review here. It also comes with a bunch of Magic Wand attachments so that you can vary your experience! After all, variety is the spice of life. ​What we liked DISCREET​



Massive amounts of power​

​Many different attachments can be purchased to spice things up​

Can be used on other parts of your body like a regular massager​

​What we didn't like Too powerful for many​​



Zero points for style​ ​Check price

#9. Doc Johnson Pocket Rocket Plus This vibrator is an improvement on the Ori ​ ginal Pocket Rocket. Check out my review here. ​What we liked ​Is a classic vibrator​



Better than the original pocket rocket​ ​

​Will get the job done

Good option for beginners on a budget​​

​What we didn't like The vibrations are too "buzzy" which doesn't allow for deep orgasms



Zero points for style​ ​Check price

​Wrapping up

Vibrators and sex toys have been around for a long time but they're certainly better than they used to be.