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Pegging seems to be the new way for guys with NMS to express their self hatred and desire to be women. I have an online dating profile, and the frequency with which guys messaged me, no matter how approachable or hostile my profile was from week to week, never reduced until I added this to it:

“If you need things inserted in your ass, please find someone else for that. I am not interested.”

Bear in mind, this is an Israeli dating site that is a known “meat market”. People feel free to be very explicit even above the bounds of this being a “dugri” (read Klingon like) culture.

Why would a woman not being willing to shove dildoes up guys’ asses make her *less* attractive?

I believe that it is because pegging has become the new thing that so-called progressive guys do. The guys one meets on the street aren’t really into that, and most of them aren’t very actively picking up online. The guys online with any consistency, are the ones using a lot of porn instead of actually getting laid, so they are being influenced by that more than by actual real life women.

Exploring this issue, and looking around at various forums and blogs, it seems that guys are under the impression that this is something all women like to do, or would like to do if they gave it a chance. Feminists have made it a “thing” by promoting the idea that pegging will bring a couple closer together. Indeed it may if the guy is a latent homosexual or near asexual who can’t be stimulated enough through his penis, and doesn’t mind his wife going out to shag more masculine men. For most people who’ve tried it though, it has just made the woman less satisfied with the relationship, and the man left wondering why a woman he basically pressured to be the man, is no longer as interested in him.

Look, dudes…if you need a dick in your ass, you are Gay (or Bi). Stop kidding yourselves. It’s not the end of the world. Though very few guys are 100% Gay or straight down the middle 50:50 Bi, sex is such a pressing need for men, that many of you are flexible enough to “make due”.

I learned a lot about masculinity by watching my cats. The non neutered ones in my yard are built like little tanks. They were well loved, so they are well adjusted, so life is all about mating and defending mates, relatives, and the territory they live in. The neutered ones, you might think turned into something like females, but no.

When the females were spayed, they stopped liking too much attention and petting. Some stayed somewhat affectionate, but nowhere close to the neutered males. The neutered males often still did mating-like behaviors for years after they were neutered, and their need for physical affection and petting *increased*.

I’ve heard similar things from others with pets and farm animals. Males need physical affection much more than females. One male cat I knew didn’t even need to be neutered until he was mid-life because his keeper would just pet and hold him through the heat times. He was alone and domesticated, so he didn’t know what mating he was missing, just that he needed to be held and touched for some reason.

Whatever your moral beliefs are about homosexuality, that’s your business, but you should understand something: females are not males. We are never going to be males. We can’t be. So if you want a happy woman, don’t try to make her be the man.

If you have a moral problem with homosexuality, add this to your list of burdens that you must bear for the sake of your religion. You won’t be able to soothe whatever urges you have by trying to make women do the job. So you either have to find a man, or accept your fate. Become a monk, or just decide not to have sex with anybody until you find a woman who truly enjoys pegging, if you must.

…but I will tell you something. If you have no problem with fornication, you shouldn’t have a problem with homosexuality. Forget religion, just speaking in Nature terms, having sex with a woman with no regard for her feelings or her future is, essentially, homosexual. You are asking a woman to emotionally be a man.

I’m not saying that you’re Gay if you have pre-commitment or noncommittal sex. I’m just saying that, in real world terms, you are offering her nothing, and only pretending that you are not taking something from her. Sex between men and women is not an equal exchange of services.

The origin of the idea of non marital sex as sinful is not just to ensure paternity as much as possible, but to protect women from exploitation. This is why religious women go along with it (at least publicly) despite hypergamy pushing us towards the most alpha.

The way the men who could sexualize other men in ancient times found to balance this social obligation vs. need for physical affection to be healthy and happy, and stay invested in their society, was to shag each other. They leaned on each other, just as many other male animals do, unless or until they could get a female, and in the case the females they could get were less physically affectionate than themselves.

The vast majority of women can’t get into fucking men because we are built to be receivers of penises, not givers. We don’t have a penis, and don’t know what the urge to fuck is even like. We can’t connect to that. Also, a dildo has no nerves in it. We’re not feeling it. It’s just a dead inanimate object in our hand or strapped to our lower torso.

Have you tried shagging with a softie? It doesn’t even give us what that gives you.

So please, let’s stop this nonsense. There are not hordes of women out there dying to shove dildoes into guys. Demanding this from us just convinces us that you are Gay, Bi, or worse, in denial or a pussy.

A man of courage who likes to take it up the butt, goes out and finds a man to do the job. Pussies try to trick women into it so they can stay in the closet. A man of courage builds strong relationships based on honesty and trust. Pussies get a woman to fall in love with them, and then pull out the dildo and emotionally coerce her into having to deal with his feces and blood or lose him.

You are not fooling anyone. Come out.

Now IF (and it’s a big if) you are one of those extremely rare exceptions (I actually found one and only one, five pages into Google, and I suspect he’s one of those very masculine top-straights who may occasionally sexualize feminine men and just not tell anyone) who does not like any sexual contact with men, never fantasized about sex with men, and never imagine while being pegged that it is a man shagging you, I recommend that unless your wife/girlfriend is really into pegging, you get the strap-on or anal action from a prostitute. These are women who get paid to do whatever you like, and it has no effect on your normal relationships unless you are attached to a sadist who likes it when you are deprived.

My whole point in this article is that bringing “alternative” or gender-vague activities into your relationships can be a big disaster, and seeking this from women who do not advertise that they are into that will earn you a lot of rejection. It’s just not something most of us are into.

Update: July 16, 2014

As expected, a commenter has told me that I should kill myself. This seems to be the go-to response when someone has told a little too much truth these days, so I’m keeping it.

It does go to show though, the pressure and coercion that goes on in the bedrooms of many women who have been drawn into the world of kink against their higher will. Technically, they may be consenting, but they are consenting under emotional duress.

Some may say they deserve it, or that they don’t have a “case” because nobody would actually hit them if they refused. However, dragging one’s kids through their parents getting divorced, or the threat of infidelity is not something that can be easily dismissed. The heart is not a court of law, and many women do things to keep their family together, or keep the man they are in love with, that personally disgust them.

In the Black Dominatrix post, I explained why I shifted from props to Primal. I understood that what was expected of me became what was demanded of me, but it wasn’t who I was. I respect those who are into whatever they are into, but I am not going to do things that I’m not into, or encourage other women to sell their souls to do things they’re not into.

I am also not going to join the mainstream in the lie that what a person likes sexually, has nothing to do with their orientation…that a man fantasizing about a big penis thrusting in and out of them is not Gay, just because the person with the big penis has breasts. They certainly aren’t fantasizing about anything happening with her vagina.

In fact, in every case I’ve seen, the pegging ends up overshadowing her vagina until pegging the only sex the male partner is excited to have. I do not know and have never even heard of a couple that has gotten into pegging, wherein the man still wants to shag his wife or girlfriend just as much as before. The long term result of bringing pegging into the relationship is almost invariably her needing to get the cock she needs elsewhere.

This may be acceptable to some people, but it is not acceptable to everyone, or I’d bet even most people.

Gay men and men who prefer to have sex with men or sex that mimics sex with men should go have sex with men. Stop trying to turn women into men.