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How do I deal with my husband's mistress?

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You may be feeling hurt or angry after finding out that your husband has a mistress, but remember, that it's not entirely her fault. While she may have known that your husband was married when she started a relationship with him, he was also a willing participant and is just as much at fault. Avoid trying to confront the other woman because you may get angry and could potentially get into legal trouble. Instead, talk to your husband about the situation. If you want to try to work things out, ask him to stop seeing his mistress. If you don't think you can trust him again, you may want to look into getting a divorce. You deserve to be happy. Don't let the decisions of your husband and his mistress destroy your happiness or control your life.