Personally I don’t care for them because in my experience dildos are too stiff to be receptive to the contours of my vagina? I’m not sure what you’re asking here anon.



-gothicpoptart

Any other mods want to take a whack at it?

To a certain extent, I think dildos can be imposed on lesbians due to heteronormative socialization. Like we know that we are lesbian, but the way we have sex has still be shaped by society. Even through internalized lesbophobia, we may even ridicule ourselves with questions like ‘am I even having SEX?’ because PIV has been the image of sex forever. Therefore, strap-ons can be heteronormative and a sign of lesbian socialization including heteronormative beliefs. Although, because lesbians are oppressed based on sexuality, it is not their fault for enjoying dildos and strap-ons, as it was what they were taught 'feels good’.

- Ash