She's 30 years old, an elite athlete and works extensively with the nonprofit organization To Write Love on her Arms, which aids people struggling with addiction and depression. But, it's not hard to see in her the young girl who idolized Tony Hawk and is described in her U.S. Soccer bio as a rule-breaker who always tried to prove she was tough enough to hang with the boys but once smacked a bully across the face with a catfish carcass she found on the beach for calling her a boy.