Does anybody know of a subreddit or alternate community where you can be self-ironic and bitter about your life without going toxic? I refuse to go Inceldom or RedPill (I am banned from /r/MensLib), but I don't like all that false positivity of encouraging to seek help, because it is trivial, and sometimes you really are FOOBAR and nothing can help it. I work almost full-time and get along fairly well in spite lack of friends - I just want to compare my own problems to other people's problems in an honest way without offending people, because I come from a broken family with abusive parents, so strengthening bonds to family emotionally is not an option, although they sometimes help me financially. (It's complicated hate-love-relationship.) My mom is poor and cold, my dad is better off and warm, but coercive and creepy,and I really despise his attempt to control my life completely. They divorced 17 years ago and fought a lot, I was in a vulnerable age, and it has severely impacted me in my adult life. I was bullied in school and even today, I have no education. Fortunately I have no physical disabilities and I like challenging myself through hard work. I am not lonely nor hateful, but socially inept and very isolated. My past has made me very chynical. I live in a trailer right now, because I can't maintain working nightshifts every day and living together with others without becoming stressed and taking on all burdens on myself, since I don't like to boss around anymore with lazy stoners for not doing their share of the housework, so we split off recently. I save up and hope to afford a house one day to live all by myself in a forest to take back power and be independent of people with lesser standards than me. Some would probably jokingly call me a MGTOW, but I see my struggle completely unrelated to combat women and their liberation. I don't want to burden them with all my emotional load (have bad experience with that) - that's why I just want to satirize about my bitterness with other people in similar situations, who survive but don't take hardships so seriously. 28M