Now, and always, there are big things happening in our communities and in our world. Sometimes those big things hit close to home, or are brought home, and we wonder how to discuss them with our kids.







Warning: If you speak candidly and honestly with your children, and you encourage them to do the same, you will likely get stared at and verbally abused by strangers. But, you know what? It's worth it! it!

It was fantastic! We shared, considered, reflected, suggested.... and more. As some of you know, my family is almost unbelievably colorful (seeing us walk down the street kinda looks like a transparent ad for diversity, except not all of us dress well enough!) so the race issue hits home. It's something we talk about, think about, and evolve on in our home and with our friends.It's important to talk about sex, equality, freedom and other "big" issues with our kids. And it's also important to respect their interest and ability to understand. My youngest son (who is mixed race) has been asking and learning about racism and privilege since a young age. Because he's experienced and wanted to understand it all. My oldest son didn't learn much about it until he was in eighth grade and people were calling him a terrorist.However, importantly, I've always been open to discussingwith my boys. Mostly it's Family Guy, movies, dance moves and favorite foods. But sometimes it's rape, bullying, prejudice, climate change, sexuality, mental health--theses are just a few of the topics I comfortably discussed.So, if you're wondering how to talk about Michael Brown and Ferguson, Bill Cosby and allegations, Robin Williams and suicide, New York and Eric Garner, Uganda's Anti Homosexuality Bill and the reality of prejudice around the world , or any other topical and important "big" issue with your kiddos, I suggest letting them lead you regarding their ability to understand, while you play a bit on the edges.We can (and I believe should) talk about these issues (and more) will all of our children. It's a beautiful way to connect while practicing the important skill of thoughtful introspection.It's not just practice for our kids, but practice for ourselves.