Mr. D. and I had a second experience with the same hot single guy recently. It had been about six months since seeing him before. The first time we had met him at a bar to check him out and see if he was the real deal and if he was hot. Then we used Priceline to find a hotel and we were on our way. This time, Mr. D. said, “Let’s just meet him at a hotel room.”

I greeted him at the door in sexy lingerie. We had a drink and quickly got down to business. We don’t have much in common with him intellectually so we wanted to start what we DID have in common as quickly as possible. And we did. And it was good.

Midway into our play session, I was feeling comfortable enough that I decided that I wanted to try DP for the first time. Double penetration is a common porn scene where the girl gets fucked in the vagina and the anus at the same time.

I was already on top of my single guy so it was Mr. D’s job to join in the fun at the back door. I didn’t realize how difficult DP would be logistically. The angles for vaginal fucking are quite different than the angles for anal sex. So doing both at the same time requires awkward positioning for someone.

Mr. D. seemed to be having a good time as the guy on top. He had plenty of room and started to really go at it. He is a well-endowed swinger. My single guy is a delightful size, but not big like Mr. D. With Mr. D in the backdoor, I couldn’t feel anything else. I got to thinking that perhaps having the larger penis in the vaginal space makes sense. I couldn’t tell when my single guy was “in” and when he was “out.” So, the experience didn’t last too long.

My single guy said after that he has tried DP with a few other couples. He has always been on the bottom. He says it seems like it only benefits the girl. He mainly tries to stay in there. Mr. D. reiterated that he enjoyed himself on the top.

A while later, we tried to reverse roles and give the single guy his chance on top. However, both guys were on round two at this point, so maintaining a hard enough erection for such a complicated maneuver proved to be too exhausting this time.

I wonder if successful DP takes practice like anything else in the lifestyle. Or if it is just overrated and looks better on TV.