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Living a double life can be hard work, but with the right preparation, you can ensure that your second life stays secret. Don’t talk about your second life to anyone, even if you trust them. That way, you won’t have to worry about the news getting out. Make a habit of thinking before you speak so you don’t accidentally let anything slip. You should also try to resolve issues from your second life quickly so they don’t spill over into your main life and risk people finding out. Make different social media and email accounts, if you haven’t already, so you can keep your lives completely separate. Alternatively, avoid social media altogether so you don’t need to worry about it. For more tips, including how to get help when you’re having an affair, read on.