Adding the child element to any wedding means ensuring they are being watched the entire time which never happens and these little demon spawn get into everything. I hear Adults-only weddings are increasingly common, Allowing some of my friends to bring their rugrats and not others will only result in a wedding day bitch fest.

Everyone I know has an opinion about it—usually based on whether they have kids or not, how hard it is to find a sitter, what they did at their own wedding, what their friend’s cousin did at her wedding where she wasn’t sure what to do, or whether they think kids “belong” in certain spaces or not. To much B.S. and it is really pissing me off.

Besides, weddings are generally pretty boring for children. Depending on their age they may not know exactly what is going on or why a whole lot of adults are dressed up an acting like fools. It’s not like they can hit the bar, order some shots and then hit the dance floor. If your wedding ceremony is at a church , like mine, well it’s really going to the bore the crap out of the kids and that's when all hell breaks loose. I don't want to hear screaming while doing my vows. I thought giving my friends a night off from their kids so they can truly enjoy themselves would be great. Hell it would be for me, instead I am getting a lot of blow back . My family and friends and even my FH are giving me a lot of crap about this.

I have been to weddings and these kids are running around all over the place. Where the hell were their parents? At the bar or dancing! What say you?