Uhh, yeah... I really don't want to discuss this... at all. So let's start with, we probably won't agree cos this social issue is very heated today, and it is most definitely not black and white. It's not clear as sky. There are no good guys who are right, and bad guys who are literally nazis or SJWs. This is basically the light version of what I just said I didn't like on those social media platforms. Most people don't formulate their disagreements with such manner and respect as you did. Or how I will (or at least try).0. I don't like to break down things like this, cos it sounds like a lecture, but it's easier to reply to each point individually.1. A trap as a character trope, and as people first started to use it, by definition is any male character who looks feminine at first and confuse people. It can be intentional, like a cross dresser, who wants to appear like a girl when they are cross dressing. Or there is a very rare kind of intentional traps, which you described as THE definition, which who actually want to trick man. However in anime that's very rare, almost non existent. It's a hentai sub-trope. Than there are unintentional traps, who are sometimes don't even know they look feminine to a confusing level, even tho they wear male clothes, and openly identify as man. So trap, as you can see is a very loose term. And it is not ment to be a slur. It's not ment to mean literally a person who wants to trick people. But in the recent years, anime culture molded into western culture a lot, and the mainstream got introduced to the trope, and now I'm sorry I have to say this... but people are needlessly offended by it, due to the basic misunderstanding of the trope.Also, I dunno when trap became part of the LGBT community, cos it makes no sense. Why people identify as traps? What that means at all? If it's offensive, why it is part of the community? What is going on? I'm pretty sure, EVERYBODY is confused about traps. Even my fans. When I asked the meme question in a poll "are traps gay?" my trans watchers gave mixed reactions, one was super offended, she stayed a watcher, but we never reached an agreement, some took it as a joke, and some defended me. So there is clearly no consensus even in the LGBT community about this. So what is an insult became super complicated now.2. A lot of things here. A lot of personal perspective and opinion that I not gonna debate at all. Except for milestone in the anime industry. That's not true. Anime had LGBT representation long before anybody else tried. I think.. yeah I won't fact check myself, but it dates back to at least the 80's. Even trans representation. And don't debate me on that one, I'm a professional Basement dweller. I know my shit when it comes to weeb shit. You will likely be utterly defeated by my otaku knowledge.3. Well I don't mind recognizing her as trans. This things don't matter for me at all to be honest, I use whatever pronouns, identification a person uses. I'm not one of those people who started referring to her as "he", just cos her real name and sex was revealed. I just don't like to put identifications on people or fictional characters, without getting a confirmation. That's bad idea, if it's not a fictional character who is not real and you are not offending anybody, you can get people upset like that. You don't need to dress feminine to be a transgender woman. Or you can dress feminine, use feminine pronouns and have a feminine name, while still identifying as a male. Gender is a social construct, sexual/gender expressions are up to the person. And only YOU can identify yourself.4. Japanese culture, still has a sexism problem but I don't know anything about their social opinion about trans people. I never talked about that, nor justified that. I'm talking about feminine and masculine pronouns and gender/sexual expressions in Japan. Which are different from western standards. So it's not clear as sky, what a person means by referring to themselves with "watashi" or "boku". It's also depends on dialect.