What Marie clarified for us:

1. Start with your wardrobe. While clients call us in to work on a variety of rooms, every time we begin with that person's wardrobe the entire process is clearer, the results more impressive. This is because our clothes are the foundation of our relationship to the material world: it's our second skin, protects us from the elements and offers a means of self-expression. And this is why we have an amazing resource for your wardrobe coming out in April!

2. Knowing what you don't have feels good. For me, one of the ultimate highlights of the book was Marie's response to the most common fear our clients have: “I might need it some day.” The truth is that we rarely "need" these things we haven't used in years (often never used at all). The problem with rarely used items is uncertainty: we never know where they are or if we even have them. We must search our house for extended periods of time, frustration growing with each passing moment. But when you've done a thoughtful and thorough decluttering of items that don't bring you joy (including, eh-hem, all the fear based "I might need it" items), you'll end up knowing exactly what you have and don't have in your home. You save so much time by not looking for something that is not in your home and can instead start the process of making something else do or borrowing an item.

Where we agree:

3. Highly impactful decluttering requires a commitment. The process that Marie refers to as “putting your whole home in order” is to us synonymous with decluttering your space. Whether you own a large home or rent a bedroom in a shared apartment, this process will take everyone at least 2 full days to complete -- 1 day for your wardrobe, 1 for the rest of the items in your bedroom, 1 for each room or category beyond. Anything short of touching every single item in your space simply will not produce deep and long-lasting results.

4. The results of decluttering are life-changing and magical. After we've worked with clients, they tell us how much lighter, happier, more free they feel. They spend less time on errands, are far more selective about what new items they let in their home, and find that packing, hosting and cleaning is a breeze. But even beyond those obvious benefits are the mystical and miraculous ones: clients clear out their closets and then get engaged; they sort their kitchen and lose 10 pounds or their skin clears up; they get their bedrooms in order and then quit their jobs to travel the world/start a new business/start a family. By removing the heavy and stagnant items and their energy from your space, you open yourself up to a world of possibilities.

5. Complicated storage systems are an excuse hoard. By doing a thoughtful decluttering of every item in your home, a natural organization will emerge. All of the bins and baskets and color-coded binders that supposedly create organization are just pretty ways of holding excess stuff, aka: clutter. See if you have any of our top 7 biggest offenders in your home.

6. If you don't need it, your family doesn't either. During about 50% of our sessions, a pile of unneeded items is created for the client's mom/brother/friend. By "gifting" these items to other people in your life, you're simply deferring the decision of what to do with said item and passing the guilt onto the receiver. Our rule: don't pass things on to others unless they have a specifically stated need or desire for the exact item.

7. Do it once. Do it right. Then never do it again. Like Marie, we have never come back to do the same space twice. This is because we don't skimp or cut corners on the process. We clear every single bobby pin from each junk drawer and touch every single item in your space. It absolutely takes less time initially to buy a storage tray and pack your stuff in (the time you spend searching for things and organizing that drawer don't emerge until later...). But by investing time into this process upfront you don't just get a clean room once, you finish with an understanding your relationship to your stuff, a clear sense of what is important to you, and with the habit of being far more selective about what you allow in. If you do it right, once is enough.

What //NM does differently:

8. Donate, don't trash. Among our top values at New Minimalism are: the environment (honoring it, treading lightly where possible) and our community (sharing, being compassionate, adding value to those around us). While it's true that most people have too much stuff, just dumping everything in the trash is a short-term personal solution to a much larger problem. Our clients are amazing people -- they have clutter because they don't want to be wasteful by trashing things that still have life and value left. By donating these same items, not only does your space feel better, but you feel better knowing that the items will be used by people who need them.

9. Over the top cleaning. We never want to create a system too complicated or time-intensive for a client to actually use (ie: hanging your dish sponge to dry on an outdoors clothesline after each use, bringing all plates and dishes outside to dry in the sun, completely clearing out and drying off your toiletries after every shower). Don't let yourself get bogged down by small processes; a thoughtful decluttering of your space is the bigger, more important work.

10. Good design makes a huge difference. In addition to decluttering, we value and execute thoughtful design in every space we work on. Without good design, a room can feel sparse and impersonal. With good design, the same items feel calm, intentional and inspiring.

What do you think? Have you read "The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying" yet? Did it help you with your own decluttering process? Please share below in the comments!