I don’t really have any first hand experience with dating “rich men” since I’m a single straight male after all. But then I do have a lot of rich friends, so I guess I could take from their experience. Hopefully they won’t hate me after reading this article!

So here it goes:

9. You will never be the #1 in their life.

If you want a rich husband, you have to realize that you will never be the #1 priority in their life. Work will always come above you. Money will be above that. So you’ll have to settle on being #3 at best. Why would you ever want to settle on being #3?

8. They will try to buy your love.

Why would a man display their romantic side when they can just buy their way your heart? They will shower you with gifts, but what will they ever do that will show you that they are even affectionate about you?

7. Who knows what they do on those long business trips?

I mean, what kind of woman can resist a rich man who’s flashing money everywhere in a city outside of their home? You can assume how many women he will have competing for his attention to replace you.

6. They are always busy.

If the guy is wealthy, chances are he works more than 80 hours a week. A partner at a law firm works more than that. A banker? They never get time off. A CEO never gets any free time. So when is he ever going to have time for you?

5. You will never have a functional family.

How would you like to be married to your nanny? He’s always going to be out on business trips and traveling the world for work. He’s never going to have time for the kids you plan to raise.

4. You will forget all your precious life skills.

Having a butler, chef and maid at home, a driver to take you places and a valet to greet you each morning may end up causing you to lose some of those precious skills of survival you once had. What life skills could you ever have when all your responsibilities are outsourced to other hard working people? What in the world are you going to be doing with all your time?

3. You will lose touch with reality.

Most people who end up becoming rich forget where they come from. They become so accustomed to a lifestyle that they forget how it is to be on the other side. What was the bus again? How did it feel to be stranded at home because you spent your last $30 on vodka instead of a tank of gas? What does being hungry even mean?

2. Nothing lasts forever.

Things will be great today, but one day you will be back on the streets alone and single, wishing you were never with him in the first place. Or he will one day make a mistake that wipes out his portfolio. Then when he’s evicted out his home, all his employees turn on him and moving your whole family into subsidized housing with him… You’ll be struggling to get by, wondering what you even saw in him in the first place, aside from his huge bankroll. But now that’s gone, what’s left?

1. If you can correlate with the reality then marry a poor or middle class man who has a vision and a dream, partnered with skill and technique to becomes rich.

Why would anyone want a person who has all these downsides, when you could have me? I mean, I wouldn't have the ability to buy you fancy things or take you out to amazing places… But tell me, wouldn't I just look amazing on your arms?

But then again, I might end up one day becoming that rich husband that you wanted to stay away from in the beginning, so then these problems could arise for us in the future.

But hey, if you were to ask me how to attract rich men, I’d keep it pretty simple.

Stick by and encourage a poor or middle class man who has a vision and a dream, partnered with skill and technique until he becomes rich. The road will be rocky, but if his determination is there, you’ll both get there together. Plus he’ll more than likely stay loyal to you for sticking with him through the ups and downs.

Otherwise, to a rich man, you may just be seen as an option, not a life-long companion. I mean, sure it’s possible to have him, but not that likely.

But in all seriousness, if you’re considering to become rich, you should read this post: Failure is the fucking stepping stone to Success : One of my Failure

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