Over the past year or so, I have befriended a retired man. This is HIS story.

He had a long career as a Scientist, and made pretty good cash along the way. I don’t know any of the details, but he made enough to support a Wife, couple kids, and retire at around the 60 year mark with enough assets he had planned to last for decades. His beloved lil Cupcake was good at continuing her education over the years and receiving various degrees, but NEVER actually working. Does this sound familiar ??

Him being a scientist, He methodically plotted out “their” retirement, and how they were going to make their CASH last the both of them the rest of their lives. He told me that part of THEIR plan, which She AGREED to, was that HIS WIFE was supposed to put some of her degrees to WORK, that HE had PAID for, and GET A FULL TIME JOB.

In other words, since he PAID for EVERYTHING for a LIFETIME, it was NOW HER turn to PARTICIPATE in the work force and GET A JOB so THEIR retirement savings, that HE MADE, INVESTED, AND SAVED would last the REST of THEIR LIVES.

Guess what, HIS resident lil sweetie is NOT gainfully employed, and it appears that she is in NO rush to JUMP into the wonderful world of work, and it’s been more then a couple/few years since HE retired. BIG F~~~IN SURPRISES HERE !!!

He was CRYING on My SHOULDER that they are SPENDING MORE MONEY then they are supposed to be, and at this rate it will be GONE MUCH SOONER then HE HAD PLANNED.

AGAIN, BIG F~~~IN SURPRISE HERE !!!

Like so many MEN, his retirement future is becoming SERIOUSLY f~~~ed, and he has to sweat money ISSUES because HE MADE A COMMON BLUE PILL MISTAKE; HE TRUSTED THAT A WOMEN WOULD KEEP HER WORD, GET A JOB, AND CONTRIBUTE BACK JUST A PERCENTAGE OF HOW MUCH HE FINANCIALLY “INVESTED” OVER A LIFE TIME.

HE FOOLISHLY TRUSTED A WOMEN. HE HAD TO LEARN THE HARD WAY: ALL WOMEN LIE, AND MOST ARE INCREDIBLY LAZY !!!

If HE had divorced this PARASITE after the youngest kid was 18, about 10 +/- years ago, yes, he would have to give her 50% of the assets, and either alimony or a large one time payment, but HE would be so much better off financially FOR THE REST OF HIS LIFE.

HE wouldn’t of HAD to BUY a retirement house for Him and His beloved which has been a LARGE additional financial drain. From what he has told me, He would have been happy buying and living in a multi-family, and HE would no longer be required to PAY for ALL of her SPENDING habits while she CONTRIBUTES ZERO, BUT SUCKS OUT MUCH.

He is a low key “average” Man, and between his low personal expenses, lower living expenses of a multi-family, rental income, and what was left of his retirement investments, after paying her off, Money Wouldn’t be a CONCERN TODAY, TOMORROW, or EVER !!