When guys say they want a girlfriend it is very similar to when most people say they want a job. No one wants a job. They just want money. In this world though most of us earn money by getting a job. It is the same with wanting a girlfriend. No guy really wants a girlfriend. They just want a girl in their life but in order for most guys to have a girl in their life they need to commit to having a girlfriend.

What does it mean to have a girlfriend? In most cases it is basically the same as marriage. You have to speak to or see this person everyday. She is pretty much your #1 priority during available hours and possibly even unavailable hours. There are probably other rules you have to follow outside of not being allowed to beat her. It’s pretty much like a job and no one really wants a job. No one likes commitment because no one likes to do something when they don’t want to but they will if they have to.

If you are a guy, chances are you are not that good looking and not that rich so your only method of having a female in your life is to get a ‘girlfriend.’ Since there are no shortages of your type you have to show your commitment to have any chance with her. Unless of course you don’t mind having someone who is much uglier and poorer than you are.

Tiger Woods thought he wanted a wife until he realized how much vagina was available to him. Once he started ‘cheating’ he wished he had never gotten married. That’s why really rich guys don’t get real girlfriends. They can bypass all that commitment crap and still have the girl. Committed relationships are like regular jobs to them. Any guy with a boat load of money thinks regular jobs are for losers.

Yes there are really rich guys out there who try to be in a monogamous relationship but that’s because they are stupid. Rich guys tend to believe they can achieve anything but their monogamous relationships hardly ever last.

There are guys out there who would say, “I love my girlfriend and wouldn’t trade our relationship for anything.” It is true that there are guys who are satisfied with their committed relationship. That’s because they don’t have better options available to them. It’s like an immigrant from a third world country with no skills or education saying they love their job at McDonald’s.

“But he truly does love me and wants to be with me.” Of course he has to make you believe that. Do you go to work and tell your boss how much you think your job sucks? Of course not, otherwise you’ll lose your job. Maybe you liked your job at first but now it’s getting kind of old and stinky but you still need money and have nowhere else to go.

Sometimes guys will be devastated when their girlfriend dumps them. That’s because they don’t have any females saved up in the bank. It’s like losing your job. You only give a shit when you can’t get another job very easily or don’t have much money saved. Now you have to go out, search, apply, interview for a new girlfriend and pass your probationary period like an average schmuck.

That’s why some guys just get hookers cause finding and maintaining a girlfriend is too much for them. It’s kind of like how some people would rather be on welfare than work a regular job. They would rather have more money but working is too much for them to handle. Being on welfare is like the equivalent of dating an inflatable woman. It’s easy and even less work than getting a hooker.

Happy Valentine’s Day