NameChange30 Fri 06-Apr-18 20:39:27

YABU to cancel the cleaner, honestly they’re even more of a godsend after having a baby, as long as you can afford it



YANBU to want to share parental leave, I think you need to reopen that discussion with your wife, it’s not really fair of her to insist on taking it all, ideally you would reach some kind of compromise. Bear in mind one of you could use annual leave too.



YANBU to consider finances, but this needs to be a joint conversation and decision. Why not do a budget together and look at things you could cut back on as well as prioritising. MoneySavingExpert has good advice on all that.