I could probably shoehorn my experiences to fit these stages, but I'd rather not.I'm short on time but I'll try to be as detailed as I can in the few minutes I have to spare.Let me start with the most significant dualization experiences I've had. First, there was the ESE from high school. It was so strange - we hung out in totally different cliques, me with the chess club (mainly ILIs, who beat me silly, one other LII guy) and her with her cheerleader friendsbut I felt like it was her and I against the world, we didn't speak much, but when we did, it seemed like we didn't have to. We understood each other in a way that felt like we had known each other for years - a lifetime even. She'd generally avoid speaking to me when her friends were around - they didn't like me much - but if I got her alone we'd sort of go into this bubble, not allowing anyone else into it.I eventually fell in love with her but didn't realise it. Weird, huh? In my mind we were too different, and I was expecting to end up with another introvert. Everyone else on the other hand noticed. They kept on making comments on how "playful" we were in each other's company (which strangely seemed to be PolR based, she'd pretend to be very Se and I'd pretend to be very Ni, which annoyed her, which I found really amusing.) Only after consistent comments from random people I saw that it was only me who hadn't realized the feelings I had for her yet.Gilly mentioned somewhere that Fe dual-seeking sometimes manifests itself by mimicking the behaviors of the Fe ego - that I can relate to. I often shocked myself picking up some of her mannerisms.Secondly, I have a cousin who is ESE, Fe subtype. This will probably be most useful to the other LIIs. I don't see her too often, but now that I'm all clued up on socionics, I take every meeting with her as another opportunity to understand duality a little more. She has similar dreams and ambitions to me, which is awesome, I often consider everyone else's ideals to be incredibly silly. We walked around in a shopping center once (she dragged me there) and she decided she was going to talk about some relationship issues she was having. To cut a long story short, she would spit out the details of random events and then just stop and stare at me. I assumed she wanted me to pat here on the back and say, there there, you'll be okay. I mean, it's what she usually does when I behave in an emo way so I assumed she wanted the same thing, only to realize after reading some posts on this forum that it was probably her Ti-seeking trying to get me to make sense of her situation for her.Another thing she does: if we're at a party, I generally move away from the crowd to a spot which is more quiet, and I put my earphones on and listen to my metal (I hate the rap rubbish they usually seem to play around here) but she will come find me and drag me back into everyone else's company, where the Fe is at. She can't stand the feeling that I'm being left out.She seems to have this freaky understanding of how my mind works. For example, she'd invite me to some sort of shared recreational activity. My focus will always be on the "point" of the activity. For example, knitting. I'd say, but winter is so far away. She won't try to rationalize why we need to knit anyway, she gets that i'm not seeing that it is more about the social interaction than the activity itself, and she will point this out.That's all for now, I'll come and be analytical later.