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Getting a girlfriend if you’re autistic may seem hard. However, there are many ways to overcome shyness and use your personality to your advantage. Try to find a girlfriend who is into the same hobbies or interests you like, which will make conversation easier. For example, look for a group online or at your school that focuses on your favorite activity. Give the girl you like a small smile to show you're interested or make brief eye contact with her. Since autistic people often find it easier to explain how they feel in writing, you may have more success by trying online dating. When you meet someone you like, try to be casual when you first ask them out. You might say or write something like, “Hey, would you like to go see a movie on Saturday?”. When you're on a date, let the girl talk around half of the time, like by asking questions about her hobbies or interests. Make brief comments, like “That's interesting,” while she speaks to show you're actively listening. For tips on how to explain your autism to your girlfriend, keep reading!