Hello everyone Mss Tada here!

I’ve been noticing how as I’ve changed things about myself the different kinds of looks I get from people, specifically men.

The things that I’ve changed about me are my weight (lost 45 pounds), my health, and my hair. I’m vegan for about a year now and ever since I’ve felt so much better. My body runs amazingly now. And I went Natural almost a year ago. All of these things in turn have boost my confidence and made my perception of myself a good one.

When I was heavier I didn’t look that bad, I was labeled more “thick”. I had shoulder length relaxed hair that I flat ironed every morning just for good measure. During this time in my life men around the beginning of their 20’s and of coarse the ones in their late 40’s would try and talk to me. They had this childlike quality about them that I never liked. I would get plenty of good looking men but none that were on my level. Most of the men who were attracted to me actually were Jamaican. Haha

After I changed I actually got such a wide range of men trying to talk to me. The ages were all over the place as were the personalities. I actually had tons of white men attracted to me. It was interesting because they seemed to LOVE my hair. They were the majority of the men. I had Hispanic, Asian, Black, and Indian men that were interested as well. It was shocking to me because all this time I thought men loved straight hair. That they hated natural African hair. They were all so in awe of how beautiful my hair was and happy they could touch it and play with my curls, only if I let them get that close.

I’ve met so many people who have complimented and loved me because of my hair. The only people who seem to not like my hair is African American women really. With exceptions of coarse, but this is also just my own experience.

What kind of men have you started to attract lately. ;p