"Honey.....You're Not The T!"



Let us know who's ........

NOT THE T!



Oh really...

if this was true Coco is really spilling the MGA T..... but according to my very

good source...this is not true...and comes from an official in the MGA system...

SOMEONE, VERY HONEST AND HAS COMPLETE INTEGRITY..... WHO

KNOWS WHO THE

WINNER IS BEFORE

L&T EVEN DOES!



WOW...

so.......Coco is

telling me

Alyssa NEVER

won.....



WOW.....really?



Wow....so Alyssa DECEIVED

all of us........

hummmm





Funny thing...

Alyssa asked Coco if

I had ever done anything

to her or anything....

and Coco said NO..

But she heard we

all were gonna throw

tomatoes at her at Miss Texas.....



and Alyssa asked...

did she...and Coco said

no.....

And I was even in the bar

the first night...did not say a word to Coco.....nothing...no reading....just told everyone....



"Well no...... MGA 2010 is in Mesquite Texas teaching a room full of chi'drens....." LOL..



Girl I love Tomatoes...wouldn't waste'm on anyone!



So I am just in shock..thinking......"wow..."... I have never said one thing about Coco...

I don't even know her to say anything...nor would I have in inclination to read her about personal issues. She has always seemed like a sweet person.......and I have only met her Once in my life.........



Well after much and thought about posting this information on line, I came to the decision that because of all the ugly comments that were made about me, the threats of bodily harm and the inaccurate accusations, I really need to be able to defend myself.



It is no secret I speak my mind. It is no secret that I love female impersonation: and it is no secret that at times I have seemed quite pushy about my thoughts and beliefs. To those who know me well.....you know my thoughts and passions. You know my underlying criticisms are generally based on perceptions, ideas, experience and an overall expectation of excellence from all entertainers who enter the realm of pageantry.



I note this....."realm of pageantry" because.....when girls put themselves in the spotlight of pageantry...they are putting themselves out there to the wolves. Only a few survive unscathed...only one survies completely satisfied......we all know this. When you enter a pageant...you head is basically on the chopping block for all to "whack" at..and it generally boils down to what 5-7 or so peole feel about your "package"....huh...yeah..that's what they say anyways....



So feelings are often hurt..things are often said....and I have always said...if you got the balls to say it..then you better be able to tell a girl to her face.........it can be hard to do...but if your gonna read, be able to read'em to their face and don't ever seem fake.



Many never learn this lesson.....and for most of us..it is or was a learning process.



Being helpful........and being ugly are two very different things..........



But it is actually the perception of the one being critiqued....that makes the difference:



DISCLAIMER......I don't speak for anyone except myself. I never have and my thoughts are only a reflection of MY thoughts.



I will point blank tell anyone to their face.....I have never said anything what so ever about Coco Montrese's character, personality, habits, life or anything remotely close to any accusation below.



What I have said since January of 2010, is this........



and I quote.....my exact words from time to time.....



"Coco is NOT Miss Gay America 2010 and will never will be.! OPINION

"Coco Montrese did not WIN Miss America 2010, Coco Reigned!" FACT

"Coco Montrese was an exception MGA......!" FACT

"Coco Montrese was not at fault in any way because of what happened with Alyssa Edwards"... FACT

"Coco did not have to take the reign as 1st Runner Up." FACT

"Miss Gay America did not perform at Miss Texas America.....Coco Did..." OPINION...



yet some of these comments might anger some....what Coco Montrese has represented below is:

UNPROFESSIONAL AS A FORMER NATIONAL TITLEHOLDER

UNBECOMING OF A FORMER NATIONAL TITLEHOLDER

PARTICIPATING IN MALICIOUS GOSSIP AND RUMOR MONGERING

NOT EXEMPLYFYING A MGA ATTITUDE

IS MISREPRESENTING THE BRAND MGA BY DEMONIZING OTHERS AND WISHING HARM

AND UNDUE HARDSHIPS AMONG OTHERS

NOT BEING A LEADER

PARTICIPATING IN BULLYING AND GANG RETALIATION

THREATENING BODILY HARM



AND MOST IMPORTANTLY



BY POSTING ALL OF THESE HORRIBLE THINGS ON A PUBLIC - NON-PRIVATE- FORUM, COCO HAS SUNKEN TO THE ABSOLUTE DEPTHS THAT SHE HAS CHARGED ON ME......WHICH WERE UNFOUNDED AND INACCURATE.



AND SO IT GOES.......WITHOUT SAYING....



On Wednesday, I received a text from a friend telling me to call him ASAP...so on my break I called...and he told me to go to Coco's Facebook Page...(not private....I was not a friend...)...and that she was reading me and all these people were letting me have it.... over and over and all these things she was posting that she was gonna do.......and this is what I came across...



Wow..and then..I was like...this is serious....it keeps getting worse...and gosh...some of

these people I have know...or chatted with.......then I thought ....WOW......a MISS GAY AMERICA PROMOTER..... WOW....how professional is that...............all this hate and violence...... posted on a public website.....



And then finally....one SANE post....Thanks FranDiva.... wow all these two-faced people...



But I just sat STUNNED at what I was reading...



and I swear on my GRANDMOTHER'S GRAVE....I have never said one thing personal

to take away from one ounce of Coco's Character and Integrity.... this makes no sense!!!



so here was my response to her.....



and her response that I was completely STUNNED by........the mere fact that she was reading Alyssa, yet just a few weeks prior .............cheesecaking and being girlfriends while taking pics at Miss Gay USofA at Large.....Really?............. and to have never top post this to me................with the most absolute

grandier attitude.......all the while really trying to believe what she has typed.............



Wow....



so...this is what really being MGA is about?



Coco had a chance of a lifetime GIVEN to her....and she still sweeps the actual winner under that carpet...............and one of her good Judy drag friends........wow......



..................................................................................................................................



So....as a day passed and I thought about it....it seemed like I caught myself thinking...is it really worth all this............ Is having an opinion..........worth..people making up stuff about you...........



Is seeing posts from people that hug me...and smile and say hi........UGLY posts.... worth it?....



and I was like....well OF COURSE...LOL...



I completely understand that this issue is divisive because of the people we really love....



I love Alyssa Edwards (and most of you don't even know that Alyssa and I were not speaking because of a personal disagreement for 4 months before she won........and did not speak till after the January mess......) but I love her not because she wins a bunch of stuff..... Alyssa stands for more than almost....no...wait... MORE THAN ANY national titleholder ever has.........and it is that simple....so yeah...she will always be OUR MGA 2010.....I got the video to prove it............and she has the crown.......



But that is what Friendship does...we take sides....AND THAT IS OKAY



So I am realistic...each have our sides...and people on them.....so no t....



And to those that have wrote repeatedly............"girl let it go..."... "Your beating a dead horse..."

I say this to you.... I STAND FOR WHAT I BELIEVE..AND I CHALLENGE EACH OF YOU....THAT WHEN YOU SEE AN INJUSTICE YOU TAKE A STAND AND STAND BY YOUR DECISION. YOU DON'T WAVER BASED ON PUBLIC POPULARITY.... WHEN SOMETHING IS WRONG IT IS WRONG. THE MISS GAY AMERICA PAGEANT SYSTEM AND L&T ENTERTAINMENT TOOK STEPS THAT ETHICALLY, MORALLY, PROFESSIONALLY AND PERSONALLY EMBARASSED AND DEMORALIZED A DEAR FRIEND OF MINE. I WON'T STAND FOR IT, NOR WILL I SETTLE FOR WHAT MANY HAVE LET SLIDE.



BUT KEEP IN MIND.....I HAVE NEVER BEEN A FAN OF THE MGA PAGEANTRY SYSTEM....IT HAS ALWAYS HAD A COULD OF SHADE SURROUNDING IT........FROM THE COCO YEARS.......SO IT IS NOT LIKE I AM WAVERING...I AM BEING VERY CONSISTENT....



All I can say from this is..............Coco is dead wrong.....I never did anything to warrrant all these threats...AND HATE.....and this is a bit over the line...



The EXCELLENCE........really??? This is the MGA example??



Coco promised Alyssa to make a public apology and to remove the posts and as of this morning, Friday, October 22..... it is all still up for anyone to read..........



.........COCO......no hard feelings boo..... we all say things that sometimes we wish we would have thought before we do them.... you're young....I've made the same mistake.... but remember...sometimes those "bargains" as you call them are not what them seem..... I don't deserve this defamation.......so just remember..

......ADVICE.from your own mouth....

"becareful who you attack....because it just may cost you more than you bargain for...."

great advice COCO.!



FOLLOW DIRECTIONS COCO.....PLAY NICE....



So to you COCO.......



"TWO THUMBS DOWN AND A SNAP.....YOU ARE NOT THE T!"







Oh...and a side note.... I LOVE IT WHEN L&T GIVE CREDIT TO THE WINNER OF MGA 2010.........



SO...........DO YOU KNOW SOMEONE WHO IS

"NOT THE T?"



eMAIL US THE REAL TEA!



YouAreNotTheT@aol.com



AMEN....YES INDEED...LET US GIVE THANKS!!!



Really...

in THE MGA

CROWN???

REALLY???



Really...

in THE MGA

CROWN???

REALLY???



Wow...now

that's a true symbol of

excellence...

in her MGA

CROWN!



MGA

PROMO....

reading.....

