When someone says this, Do NOT say this:

Is your husband still in prison? – Yes, you idiot, I just told you he is serving 10 yrs

Don’t you get to see him on Christmas? – That is a dumb question! Would I be HERE if I could be there?

Are you still with your husband? – Why do you care, you nosy, judgmental…

Well, I could go on and on—but you can see my point. Saying the first thing that comes into your head, will just add drama and trauma that you don’t need.

Decide how you will manage crazy questions and stick to your script no matter what. Responses like, “thank you so much for your concern, but I would rather talk about something else,” go a long way to keeping peace.

Dealing with family can be tough; be prepared and make this a wonderful time of celebration together.

I am rooting for you!

Cathy