Anonymous asked: "I have a question. I can be attracted to people without the emotional connection, but that attraction evaporates when I start to get to know them, and then it might redevelop depending on how I feel about them. So, pretty much, I can find strangers hot based on appearances only, but in terms of actual sex and ultimate attraction, I'm pretty demi... Does this mean I'm demisexual? Would I fall under that category?"

Possibly. I myself find random people to be attractive from an aesthetic point of view, but I don’t actually have any sexual desires for them unless I have that emotional connection, which sounds similar to your situation. It sounds like you would fall under the demi spectrum if that’s how you choose to identify. Just remember that sexuality is fluid and changes as we change, so even if you find you don’t fit into one particular category, that doesn’t mean there’s something wrong with you. You’re sexuality is entirely your own.

~staggsy