It's true, I was forbidden from eating at Olive Garden as a kid. I didn't do anything to deserve this cruel punishment. It was actually all my dad's fault—he didn’t allow our family to eat at Olive Garden, or any other chain restaurant.

I can probably count on one hand the number of times I’ve eaten out at popular chain restaurants. I think I ate at Texas Roadhouse once, but my dad was not present.

Sound harsh? I thought so, too. As I got older, my friends started telling me about all these delicious restaurants they would eat at with their families. One had warm, cheesy biscuits you haven’t lived until you've tried (not that I would know).

I know not being able to eat out at all the same places as my peers isn’t the end of the world, but it made me feel strangely isolated. People found it weird that I had never been to Olive Garden and told me I was missing out.

The cool thing about growing up without all these places was that I was living in an ignorant bliss before my teenage years. I really wasn’t aware of their existence, and you can’t miss what you never had.

But, as soon as I was told about this unlimited breadstick thing Olive Garden had going on, I begged my parents to let us go. I couldn’t understand why we never frequented places the rest of America loves.

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My first visit was my last visit because it made me realize that not eating out as a kid didn’t deprive me of anything. Eating sub-par Italian food completely changed my perspective of who was really missing out on something spectacular.

The real reason my dad never allowed us to eat at Olive Garden is because he is much too proud of his Italian heritage and cooking skills to allow his family to eat somewhere that completely disgraces good Italian food (his words, not mine).

Instead, I learned how to make homemade pasta, sauce, and meatballs with my dad. We bought a pizzelle maker so we could make the Italian Christmas cookies together. We had homemade pizza nights up to once a week when I was young. It always turned into a competition and ended with flour all one victim involved.

My parents decided that cooking for their kids was more important than them experiencing the part of American culture that can be found at Red Lobster. Any night one of my parents was free, we were in the kitchen cooking something. I always jumped in to help, even if the only help I could be at a young age was grating cheese and prepping salads.