If attracting women means being something men don't want to be, they may simply pass" its soo true im the kind of guy that is a nice guy no tatoos or pircings or any of that sh*t. But i do try 95% too be as congruent and not give a F*ck if a girl liked what i like doing. Lots of times i have been able to "get" a girl by my confidence face too face and know how too talk too them but its a hassel lots of time and sometimes dosent work why? becose i dont have tatoos or been too jail or any of that BS but i got money but i dont show it why? i tell them 2 things : 1.OK your good looking just like me and the 99% of girls in the world, club you best have something else im going too be tired of you if not. With that lots of times if the girl REALLY wants too know me will prove her self and we got the GAME going if not they dont and i dont waste my time with a preaty face girl. Oh and i do tell them that that is not going too last they get angry with me and leave or insult me or they prove them selfes too me with other qualitys. 2.Never tell them i have cash i dont want a golddigger.