You are so brave. I am a fat guy and I have just deleted pics of my face so many times without posting or even snap chatting. I wish I had your confidence.

That’s terribly kind of you to say, but it doesn’t feel brave to me. Not compared to the risks fat women take just posting any photo of themselves.

Look, this takes time. For me, it took years of confronting myself with photographs of myself to start being okay with myself and its a process that is still going on. You’re taking those pictures. That’s a big step right there. Give yourself time. Things can get better.