At age 12, Kylia Booker knew enough to keep her head down and her mouth shut. Braid your sisters’ pigtails. Get them on the school bus. Walk half a mile to the convenience store to buy groceries with the food-stamp card. Don’t let anyone know you and the babies are home alone ’cause Mama is in jail again. Continue reading

Overlooked As women go to jail in record numbers, who's watching out for their kids? No one.

At age 12, Kylia Booker knew enough to keep her head down and her mouth shut. Braid your sisters’ pigtails. Get them on the school bus. Walk half a mile to the convenience store to buy groceries with the food-stamp card. Don’t let anyone know you and the babies are home alone ’cause Mama is in jail again. For nearly a month, Kylia and her two young sisters lived alone in a rented house in Arlington. No one involved in jailing their mother — not the police, not the courts, not the sheriff’s department — ever checked on them. It was not the first, the last, or even the most dangerous time that the Booker sisters were overlooked by adults who put their mother in jail. “We were really thrown to the wolves, if you think about it,” says Kylia, now 21. When her mother got arrested, she says, “it was always worse for us.” No one in the criminal justice system is responsible for the safety of children whose mothers go to jail, an investigation by The Dallas Morning News has found. Not in North Texas, and not in most communities across the country. While the moms may have committed crimes, the kids are innocent. Most were born and raised in tough circumstances they didn’t choose. When their mothers get locked up, the children often suffer. No agency tracks or monitors the children of people who are arrested, not even of women who are solo caretakers. So no one knows how many kids are home alone because of a parent’s arrest. No one knows how many go to foster care. Or get handed off to inappropriate guardians. Or end up on the streets. Since 2014, the U.S. Justice Department has recommended that police and jailers take steps to ensure that kids are kept safe after a parent is taken into custody, even if the children aren’t present during the arrest. But in and around Dallas, few police departments have adopted policies on how to handle the children of arrestees, they told us in response to a survey. Nationally, a few police departments have, experts say — but most address only kids present when the handcuffs come out. The problem is growing. One 2005 study estimated that almost 250,000 children nationally had single mothers in jail. Since then, the number of women in jails jumped by more than 15 percent, to 109,100 in 2014, according to the Justice Department. In Texas, the number of women in jail has soared by almost 44 percent since 2011, to 5,670 at the end of last year, according to state data. Women now account for about 14 percent of the overall jail population. Women in Texas jails Despite seasonal fluctuations in jail populations, data show the population of women has steadily increased. SOURCE: Texas Commission on Jail Standards Most women in jail — up to 80 percent by some estimates — are mothers, many with more than one child. Many were primary caregivers before they got arrested. “We have to think about the consequences of putting someone in jail — not just the mom, but the consequences for the family and children and community,” says Liz Swavola of the Vera Institute of Justice in New York. To find out what happens in Texas to the children of jailed mothers, The News interviewed lawyers, law enforcement officials and advocates, surveyed hundreds of inmates, and searched thousands of pages of court records. We sent surveys to 760 women from North Texas sentenced within the past four years and serving time in state prison. We received detailed responses from more than 100, who had an average of three children. More than half of the women who responded said that officials did not call in child welfare workers when they were arrested.


Many turned their children over to family, friends or acquaintances in hopes of avoiding the state’s notoriously troubled foster care system. Last year, an investigation by The News found that state workers failed to check on thousands of infants and children believed to be in imminent danger of abuse or neglect. Several imprisoned mothers we surveyed asked for help tracking down teens who had run away from foster homes. One described what has become a common scenario in Texas: Her children had to sleep in a state office until child welfare workers found places for them to go. In North Texas, the children of jailed mothers account for a significant number of kids in programs for the homeless, says Mark Pierce, who manages that effort for the Dallas Independent School District. “I’ve seen it so many times,” he says. “These are great kids, it’s so hard on them.” Kylia Booker (right), 21, relaxes at her sisters’ Denton home and spends time with her youngest sister, 15-year-old Ja’Bria Roland. (Andy Jacobsohn/Staff Photographer) Kylia, with 16-year-old sister Jessicah Roland, shares a close bond with her sisters. (Andy Jacobsohn/Staff Photographer) Jessicah naps while Ja’Bria plays a game at the home they share with older sisters Ciarra Booker and Cenecia Booker, who goes by Neci. (Andy Jacobsohn/Staff Photographer) Ja’Bria holds the phone for Neci as she gets a haircut from Felicia Griffin at Hair Couture Salon in DeSoto. (Andy Jacobsohn/Staff Photographer) Kylia (left), with older sisters Neci and Ciarra, were sometimes left unsupervised, even as very young children. (Andy Jacobsohn/Staff Photographer) Ciarra, 28, with Ja’Bria, remembers her upbringing and that of her sisters in detail. (Andy Jacobsohn/Staff Photographer) An unpaid ticket The voices of these children are rarely heard — which is why the five Booker sisters agreed to tell the story of their mother’s arrests and their own abandonment by the criminal justice system. They told it over months, chatting in a bug-infested apartment complex, sharing Flamin’ Hot Cheetos at a QuikTrip, trying tacos near the juvenile courthouse, driving almost three hours to visit their mother in prison. Kylia, the middle daughter, is the most reflective. Ciarra, the eldest at 28, remembers all the details. Neci, the disciplined 23-year-old, plans for their futures. Jessicah and Ja’Bria — ages 16 and 15 — entertain their older sisters and rarely put down their cellphones. The sisters finish each other’s stories. Like soldiers, they share a tight, tough bond. The Bookers’ lives began in turmoil. Their mother, Malishia, had the first of her daughters when she was just 15 and living in a housing project in East St. Louis. She later had two sons, who were raised by their fathers’ families there. By the time she was living in Dallas in 1997, there were three little Booker girls: Ciarra, just shy of 9, Neci, 4, and Kylia, then 23 months old. They were sometimes left unsupervised; neighbors complained to social workers, while their mom tried to hold down a customer-service job near Irving. But their family’s spiral into outright chaos began with the most minor of problems: an unpaid traffic ticket. The offense was so small that the ticket itself isn’t included in the reams of court and jail records we reviewed over the course of months to help piece together the sisters’ story. On Dec. 10, 1997, Malishia was pulled over near DFW International Airport and arrested on a warrant for the unpaid ticket. She spent at least a day in jail. There is no record anyone asked her about her girls. A concerned neighbor, not the police, called Child Protective Services. Malishia Booker’s frequent arrests resulted in her kids sometimes being kept by their grandmother, sometimes by the two youngest girls’ father — and sometimes on their own. (Andy Jacobsohn/Staff Photographer) Child welfare workers separated the girls. Ciarra went to live with her maternal grandmother. But Lula Booker worked the night shift in customer service for American Airlines and was raising a disabled son; she couldn’t manage all three girls. Social workers placed Kylia and Neci in different foster homes. It took a year, but after the girls pleaded with a judge to be kept together, they were given into the custody of their grandmother — who turned them back over to their mother in the courthouse parking lot. Jail population Nobody’s mother is supposed to stay long in jail, which generally holds people who have been accused but not convicted of a crime. Sometimes, people serve short sentences there for minor offenses. But since 2010, the number of women incarcerated in jails has been growing at a faster rate than any other correctional population in the U.S. Because of the traditional turnover in jail populations, however, researchers looking at female inmates and their families have tended to focus on state and federal prisons, where convicts usually serve longer sentences for more serious crimes. Federal studies of prison populations show dramatic differences in who cares for the kids of male and female inmates. Men almost always rely on their children’s mothers to take care of them. Women turn far more often to grandparents, relatives and friends. Their children are five times as likely as men’s to end up in foster care. Lawyers often advise women awaiting sentences in jail not to discuss their kids for fear they could be accused of child neglect on top of their existing charges. For the same reason, some experts say, women do not always tell court personnel if their kids are home alone.

Where are the kids? We asked women in prison what happened to their kids when they were arrested. Click on the letters below to read a few of their stories. Tell us your story.

x Leslieann Griffin The 12-year-old girl came home from school one day in Garland and her mom was just gone. Leslieann Griffin was in jail. Her daughter had no idea that months before, her mother had pleaded guilty to criminal charges for stealing from her employer. Griffin had stopped making restitution payments for nearly $50,000 worth of clothing, Coach purses and jewelry she’d illegally charged to a company credit card while working for a transportation firm in Grand Prairie. She had violated her probation and was now being held without bond. Neither police nor child welfare workers checked on her daughter while she was in jail, according to Griffin. “If I had been living alone, I’d have had no way to contact her,” Griffin says. “She could have been alone for days.” In fact, Griffin’s boyfriend was living in her home and broke the news to her daughter, who lived with him for at least a week. The child’s father (who lived in a different city) had learned what happened and came to get her. He did not respond to requests for comment. During the boyfriend’s one visit to the jail, he told Griffin what happened to her daughter — and then broke up with her.

x Holly Martin Holly Martin told us that she feared her children had been living on the streets since her arrest in Grayson County in 2015. It was partly true, and finding them took months. The News located Emiley Thompson, her oldest daughter, through court records and Facebook. Emiley’s friends call her “Lil’ Bit.” We traded messages for months, and talked briefly on the phone. She texted: “My lifes not been easy by far and the majority of that is because of fake twisted poor excuse people with a badge.” Emiley is an adult now, and had a handful of people she was able to crash with while her mom was initially jailed, she told us. She eventually went to stay with her dad in a town north of Dallas, near the Oklahoma border. For her brother and sister, both under 18, it’s been even harder. Their father died recently and they had no one else. Her brother got in trouble with the law and went to a juvenile detention boot camp for a while. Everything has been tough since their mother went to prison for drugs in 2011. After her first incarceration, she struggled to find a safe place to live with her kids, Martin says. They ended up living with people involved in the drug trade; she was charged with child endangerment in Grayson County and sent back to jail. The system doesn’t do enough to help women avoid falling back into addiction and criminal activity after completing prison, Martin says. What would help families like hers? “Figure out ways to help people get clean before it gets to the point of no return,” she wrote.

x Yuryana Cornejo Tapia-Juarez Three-year-old Elijah Blu Cornejo was playing in a park in Oak Cliff when the police arrived. They were there to arrest Mommy. Before taking Yuryana Cornejo Tapia-Juarez to the Dallas County Jail on drug charges in February 2016, police allowed her to call her sister, asking her to pick up Elijah. Which she did — and then promptly turned him over to Child Protective Services. What would happen to Elijah now? The day after his mother’s arrest, social workers drove him to a nice home on a cul-de-sac to live with Abby and Matt, a couple who said in an interview that they view foster care as their Christian mission. They spoke to The News on the condition we not use their last name. He was scared when he arrived, and cried out for Mommy. They told him that the Apostle Paul was once in prison, like his mom. “Is Mommy with Paul?” Elijah asked. In the backyard, he pretended to be arrested, clutching a Nerf ball behind his back as if he were wearing handcuffs. Just because people make mistakes doesn’t mean they’re bad people, his foster parents told him. They tracked his mother down at her court-ordered drug treatment program and paid for phone calls between mother and son. A year after Yuryana’s arrest, everyone suddenly wanted Elijah. His foster parents. An old boyfriend who said he was the father (a DNA test proved him wrong, court records show). Yuryana’s aunt and uncle in Florida, Carmen and Isidro Soto. Isidro installs flooring and paints houses; Carmen takes care of their sons, 12 and 17. They passed background checks and home visits, and traveled to Dallas several times for supervised visits and court hearings, according to court testimony. Both the Sotos and the foster parents initially said Yuryana could remain part of Elijah’s life. She had trouble making up her mind who should get him. Matt and Abby went to court seeking permanent custody that would end her parental rights. When the case went to trial this month, they paced the hallway outside the courtroom. Inside, Carmen sat with her hands folded in prayer. Yuryana never arrived —- jail officials blamed a paperwork error — so the pressed blue shirt and black dress pants Carmen brought for her lay slumped on a court bench. The two sides were supposed to argue about Elijah’s best interest. But the foster parents’ lawyer failed to file a key document; the judge dismissed them from the case. Matt and Abby left the courthouse in tears and filed an appeal. Carmen and Isidro were now Elijah’s guardians. This meant another fast goodbye for Elijah, this time to his foster family. He sobbed as a social worker picked him up in a black Nissan, took him out for chocolate-chip ice cream, then dropped him off with Carmen and Isidro. The Sotos left for Florida immediately. They wanted to take Elijah to the beach so he could wiggle his toes in the sand.

x Marlene Gonzales When a stranger left a 6-year-old girl in a driveway in Lubbock, the homeowner promptly called 911. Police and child welfare workers arrived to investigate the case of little Catalina Maree. Hours later on Sept. 30, 2016, officers found the child’s mother, 31-year-old Marlene Gonzales, disoriented and begging for gas money at a Lubbock convenience store, according to a police report. She was holding her newborn son, Isaiah. He, too, went into protective care. Gonzales was arrested on an old drunken-driving charge and transferred to the Potter County Jail. She wasn’t eligible for bail. In a journal, she drew hearts near the names of her children: “Love you guys always. My days seem endless here. Under this bunk I lay here, hoping I haven’t been forgotten.” But where were her other four children? Her parents and siblings, who live in Amarillo, scrambled to find out. Their task was made harder when she died in jail last October. Officials reported her cause of death as hyponatremia, dangerously low sodium levels after she allegedly drank too much water. The Gonzales family is dubious. It took months — and help from a lawyer and a detective — for them to find their daughter’s kids. One was in the custody of child welfare officials in New Mexico, where she had an abusive boyfriend. Three others, it turned out, had been taken in by the families of their fathers. Because Gonzales’ parents have their own criminal records, they were unable to get custody of any of the children. The last time they saw Catalina Maree was when a child welfare worker brought her to Marlene Gonzales’ funeral, to say goodbye.

Rocks in her pocket Kylia wiped the vomit off Malishia’s face as she lay in the back of a police car, handcuffed. It was Oct. 15, 2007, and the police had doused Malishia with pepper spray, Tasered her and arrested her in front of her girls — in front of their whole neighborhood in suburban Arlington. She had gotten into an ugly fight with Jesse Roland III, a drug dealer who went by the street name Cisco. He was also the father of her two youngest girls, though he didn’t live with the family. The fight started, the girls recall, because Jessicah, 7 at the time, had been out with her dad when he thought police officers were about to stop and frisk him. At 7, Jessicah had drugs planted on her by her father, who feared officers were going to frisk him. When her mother found out, chaos ensued. (Booker Family) Jessicah remembers that Cisco hid a little baggie of white rocks in her pocket and said, “Don’t tell Mommy.” She didn’t keep his secret. Their mom went wild. She chased Cisco through the subdivision, threatening him with a knife. Neighbors called police. Malishia had been drinking; she was combative. When police told her they were taking her to jail, she knocked an officer down, according to the police report. She was face down and handcuffed when they broke out the pepper spray. The police report indicates Malishia told the officers that Cisco had been violent in the past — he had served time for attacking her when she was eight months pregnant. But the police didn’t call child welfare to the scene that night; a note in the police report suggested officers send a copy later to state social workers because there didn’t seem to be enough beds in the house. Instead, police left the girls at Malishia’s house — with Cisco. A spokesman for the Arlington Police Department defended this decision in an email to The News: “Officers on scene had responded to a violent call, made assessments about how to handle the call based upon what they were seeing and being told, and decided that the children would be safe with their father for the evening.” If both parents had been arrested, the spokesman said, an officer would have attempted to release the children to immediate family after consulting child welfare workers. The department also has victim’s advocates who can respond to scenes where children are present. The procedures many police departments use to hand off children at the scene of an arrest are haphazard, experts say. Officers must usually call Child Protective Services if they suspect child abuse or neglect, but other cases are left to officers’ discretion. Police often turn children over to whichever adult steps forward to take them, our survey and police reports show. Unlike state welfare agencies, most departments don’t require vetting of prospective guardians, so someone involved in criminal or drug activity — or even with a history of abuse — can take the kids. The police do their best, says Dean Habel, a deputy chief at the Farmers Branch Police Department, which we spoke to as part of our survey of local law enforcement. His department doesn’t have a specific policy on arresting mothers. He recalled one sharp-eyed patrol officer who noticed an empty baby seat in the car of a woman he had stopped on suspicion of drunken driving. He took the time to ensure the child was somewhere safe after arresting the mother, Habel says. But, he adds, “it could have just as easily gone the other way.”


A child in charge Kylia and her sisters did not spend much time with Cisco after Malishia was arrested that day — in swooped their grandmother and eldest sister, Ciarra, then 18 and living in an apartment nearby with a girlfriend. Both were furious that the cops would even consider leaving children in Cisco’s care. He had never had legal custody, and his felony convictions would have made him ineligible to be an approved caregiver under state rules. Once again, no one in jail or court appears to have asked Malishia who was taking care of her kids, records show. Cisco stayed in Malishia’s house for a few days, pawning a television and washer-dryer she had leased. After about a month, a Tarrant County judge gave her five years of probation. All she had to do was stay out of trouble. But soon police were knocking on their door in Arlington again, in January 2008. While jailed, Malishia couldn’t make payments on the rental appliances Cisco pawned. The store filed a misdemeanor complaint for theft of service. Police noticed Kylia, Jessicah and Ja’Bria were home, and because Malishia was so cooperative, the arrest report states, they allowed her to call a friend down the street to take care of them. She was in and out of the Arlington jail before the girls got home from school that day. But a few weeks later, the girls returned from school to an empty house. Malishia had turned up late for a Tarrant County court hearing. The judge threw her in jail on the spot. Authorities said she had violated her probation, so she was not eligible to post bail. She doesn’t recall anyone asking about her kids. That is how Kylia ended up in charge at age 12. Their mother says she assumed the girls would call their grandmother. But they didn’t want to tell Grandma, they say now, because it would have worsened the relationship between the two adults in their lives. And the sisters would rather struggle on their own than risk ending up in foster care. Kylia knew how to fix grilled cheese and get her sisters ready for school, she says. She could call Ciarra if she were scared — but she doesn’t remember being afraid. Left: Top: “We were really thrown to the wolves, if you think about it,” Kylia says. When her mother got arrested, she says, “it was always worse for us.” Top right: Bottom left: Youngest sister Ja’Bria is along for the ride as Neci gets a haircut. Bottom right: Kylia chats with Jessicah as they wait for service at an auto shop in Denton. (Andy Jacobsohn/Staff Photographer) “I always felt like I was a grown-up,” Kylia says today. Later that year, Kylia left a deep-fryer plugged in; it caught fire and burned down the rental house. Nobody was home, so no one was hurt. But now Kylia wonders: What would have happened if Malishia had been in jail then? Suggested safeguards In Montgomery County, Texas, in 2012, a letter carrier discovered siblings — ages 11 and 5 — living in an abandoned, garbage-filled school bus in the woods while their parents were serving prison time. The next year, a mother in South Carolina made headlines when her three young children were found home alone while she was jailed on check fraud charges. Law enforcement officials know kids are being overlooked. In 2014, the Justice Department published a booklet of policy suggestions called “Safeguarding Children of Arrested Parents,” in conjunction with the International Association of Chiefs of Police. The following year, it published additional guidelines for keeping kids safe during arrests, titled “First, Do No Harm.” The suggested policies say officers should ask people being booked into jail for the names and ages of their children, along with contact information for those who will be caring for the kids. Police officers or child welfare workers should follow up to make sure the children are safe. “Is it easy to do? No. Is it the right thing to do? Yes,” says Yost Zakhary, who was president of the police chiefs’ organization when the report came out and is the city manager of Woodway, a suburb of Waco. He says he believes agencies should adopt these policies to help officers in the field who are wrestling with questions about how to handle children: “Do we take the kids? Do we call CPS? Who do you give the children to? “And do we know that they’re any safer with that person than they would be coming with us?” Courts and jails often have information about children — but don’t use it to help them, critics say. Inmates sometimes fill out forms listing dependents when seeking a public defender or when they want their kids to visit them in jail. Almost every time the Booker girls’ mother was jailed in Tarrant County after 2007, she filled out an affidavit of indigency. Each time, she listed her five daughters as dependents, with names and ages. No one checked on them. View note Bad news Despite everything, the two youngest girls ended up back with Cisco after their mom’s arrest in 2009, surviving off Cheetos, their grandmother says, and witnessing him snort cocaine. Malishia’s probation had been revoked after drug tests showed she was using marijuana and she failed a treatment program; she would spend three years in prison. Lula Booker quickly took in the four youngest girls — but she needed help. That is how the girls met Barb Haflich — a.k.a. Miss Barb — the social services coordinator for the Denton Independent School District. Miss Barb couldn’t fix their mother’s legal troubles or their own trauma. But she could get them bus rides, lunches, clothes. She could help them stay at the same school, after they had moved around so much. (Kylia says she attended almost a dozen over the years.) Barbara Haflich, Denton ISD social worker and homeless liaison, helped the sisters stay in the same school while assisting with bus rides, meal and clothes. (Andy Jacobsohn/Staff Photographer) “They were vulnerable,” Haflich says. “What I could do for them is guarantee educational stability.” The reason school districts have a “Miss Barb” is a federal law guaranteeing school enrollment and assistance for homeless youth, including those who have no permanent residence because a parent is in jail or prison. Miss Barb was the one adult outside the family who helped make sure they were OK, the girls say. “School was grounding for me,” Kylia says. “That was our safe haven.” Left: Top: The sisters arrived at the Christina Melton Crain Unit in Gatesville this spring to visit their mother, Malishia, in prison. Right: Bottom: Malishia is serving a 20-year sentence for aggravated assault against a public servant, kidnapping and evading arrest. (Tom Fox and Andy Jacobsohn/Staff Photographers) Responsibility The Booker girls’ mother says she feels both angry and guilt-stricken about what has happened to her daughters. “I hope my children have learned what not to do by my example,” Malishia told The News during a prison interview. “They are survivors. But this has been unfair for my children because they try to fill roles that they should not have to.” Women like Malishia don’t get a lot of sympathy in the criminal justice system. As the chief public defender for Dallas County, Lynn Pride Richardson says she gets really tired of telling judges, jailers and prosecutors that a female defendant needs to get home to take care of her kids, only to hear, “She should have thought of that before ...” A lot of the women her office represents are victims of family violence and trauma, she says. “These people are overwhelmed by so many issues, you need compassionate judges and decision makers,” she says. “It’s not easy to dig yourself out of poverty.” One potential solution she sees to the problem of overlooked kids: getting their mothers legal representation for Dallas County bail hearings when they first enter jail. Women in jail in Tarrant County In Tarrant County, females account for an increasing share of the population. SOURCE: Texas Commission on Jail Standards In Dallas, magistrates set most defendants’ bonds using a schedule that takes into account the seriousness of the alleged crime and any prior convictions — but does not account for a defendant’s family responsibilities or ability to pay. Having a lawyer should help women make their cases for getting out of jail on personal recognizance or bail they can afford. A federal judge in Houston recently ruled that by failing to take into account arrestees’ individual circumstances, the Texas bail system is “fundamentally unfair” to poor people. The lead plaintiff in that lawsuit? A mother heading home to her children who was jailed for an unpaid traffic ticket. Other counties in Texas are starting to use risk assessment evaluations instead of a cash bail system. One recent study found that in Tarrant County, which uses purely cash bail, defendants sat in jail longer than in Travis County, which uses a risk assessment tool to determine who is eligible for bond. Tarrant is also the most populous county in Texas without a public defender’s office. Another change Richardson and other advocates would like to see: Stop punishing women for speaking up about their kids at home by piling on child-neglect charges. “We can’t have a system that turns around and prosecutes them for it,” Richardson says. A new change in the law may make it easier for families to step up and help jailed women. In Texas, relatives who take in children do not receive the financial stipend that unrelated foster parents do. But now low- and moderate-income relatives are supposed to get at least some financial assistance, though less than unrelated guardians.

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