@Daimyo Nintendo: I am neither "insurmountably cool NOR ugly" and if my sig/other wanted to play with Legos, I am all for it, at any age. A very harmless hobby, and likely keeps him out of bars or other situations that might prove threatening to a serious relationship. Eventually you will learn (hopefuly) that varied interests in a partner is good for a relationship. Too much togetherness is a bad thing in the long haul. Be yourself and let her love you for who you are, not who you want others to think you are. Stay true to yourself man, you cant EVER go wrong being who you really are.