Fem guys get a lot of undeserved flak in the dating world. Many gay/bi men are only interested in “masc” guys. A real “manly man” who spends his free time chopping firewood while drinking whiskey, neat. While there’s nothing wrong with a man like that, there’s more to masculinity than hair, muscles, hand grip, and an inability to cry. So I challenge all those "No Fems" men to expand their mind, and stop being, well … basic. Here are 11 reasons you should date a guy who identifies as fem (in case you needed reasons).

(And of course, as you'll see in the imagery ahead, 'fem guys' all have different vibes, styles, and looks!)