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I can’t anymore. And I tell my students, “At the beginning you say ‘yes’ to everything, until you can’t say ‘yes’ to everything anymore.” Then you have to start choosing what you want to say “yes” to and start turning things down, but that’s your first world problem. But until you get to that first world problem, you say “yes” to as many opportunities as you can. I’m not saying if a drug dealer comes along and asks me to be a mule I’m going to say “yes,” but if somebody asks me to write a popular book—and I think, “Oh, I’m an academic at UCLA, I can’t do that, what will people think?”—I don’t go down that path. I say “yes” to the lit agent who out of the blue shows up and says, “I think you should write a popular book,” and I say, “Okay.” I realize that I need to go there and do something that I’m afraid of, and I will learn something new by doing it.