A child needs father figure and a roles, especially they which begin teenagers. Unfortunately, the presence of the father in most families do not feel psychologically though physically he was present in the house. More parenting role of assigned to the mother. As a result, when the signs of puberty comes to children (especially boys), they do not have someone to talk to and did not have a role model to behave according to their gender role.



A child needs father which can embrace since he was a toddler, including when monitoring the growth of puberty. Children will have an open attitude to the parents, if the parents have to build closeness with the child since the child was a child.



If the parents had split roles since the child was born, the child can find roles father and mother. The division of roles starting as early as possible, when toilet training . Father served teaches boy, and mothers teaches her daughter. Proximity which built early on to make a child will open at a later date to the father or mother.



Communication and father-child relationships which built since childhood will affect the development of the child. When teenagers and puberty, a child which is close to his father would not hesitate to talk about his problems.



Children will come to the father or mothers according to their needs, if they knew since childhood roles her parents. The boys, when facing problems of puberty, will be more open to talk with the father and not his mother. As well as with the girls, would be more comfortable talking about menstruation to her mother. This is where the importance of the division of labor in parenting father mothers since childhood. Therefore the father should start talking to the child as a friend, as a dictator month. A family needs a male figure, in this case the father, as a role model. Especially boys role models in the family, so that he could learn how to think of men from his father, and gender proper behavior.



When a child enters puberty, the need for a father figure is needed. Father needs to start a conversation with a child, following a change in the child, including psychological. Parents need to talk with the heart, with love approach, that the dad also needs to talk to the children according to their needs by making the teenagers as friends.