The Paradesi Synagogue hosted a Tefillin ceremony for the first time in decades

One of Kochi’s oldest monuments, the Paradesi Synagogue, built in 1568, came alive last Friday after lying more or less dormant for nearly four decades. For the first time since the 1970s, it hosted a Tefillin ceremony in preparation for Bar Mitzvah, a religious celebration that marks a Jewish boy’s initiation into the rights and obligations of adulthood.

Located in Mattancherry’s Jew Town, the synagogue doesn’t even have a warden these days though it is open to tourists. But last week, it brought cheer to the last five Jews — all in their twilight years — still resident in the locality. For them, it was an occasion for a rare reunion with their kin who had migrated to Israel in the years that followed India’s independence. For the Bar Mitzvah boy, Yonathan Finkelstein, it was also an opportunity to retrace his ancestry. “He will be a full member of the community when he turns 13 soon. It was a blessing that he could connect with his roots and had his pre-Bar Mitzvah at the same synagogue as his forefathers,” says Yonathan’s father, Yaakov Finkelstein, who is the Consul-General of Israel in Mumbai.

Like hundreds of Mattancherry Jews, Yonathan’s grandmother and Yaakov’s mother, Becky, had left Kochi for the ‘Promised Land’ in the 1950s. Becky and her brothers Meir and Igal Ayalon, who had left Kochi as young children, were now back in their place of birth, thanks to Yonathan’s first holy service.

“It was an emotional reunion for everyone,” says Yaakov. Yonathan had the Tallit, the traditional prayer shawl, draped around his shoulder, and the Tefillin, leather boxes of parchment inscribed with verses from the Torah, tied to his arm and head as he attended the ceremony. “We celebrated it with great aunt Sarah. Her memory failing and it was tough for her to summon up old faces. But she soon recognised my mother. We are happy that she presented Yonathan with a kippah (scullcap) that had been specially made in her embroidery shop in Jew Town,” Yaakov says.

Queenie Hallegua, an elderly Mattancherry Jew, remembers Becky as a frolicsome child in Jew Town. With her own children having settled overseas, she thinks such occasions of togetherness bring back memories of the community’s heyday in Kochi.