A Facebook post by Tristan Cartrite Bolen Thursday says, "These men and women paid the ultimate price trying to protect the ones they loved and also trying to protect their lively hood. So while Ashley is joking about BBQ's in the Panhandle maybe you can show her the face of the person who died trying save his wife and unborn child. The face of the young couple in love just starting their adult lives. The father who left behind 2 small children trying to ensure the cattle that they had blood, sweat and tears into would not perish in this horrific fire like the 2 pictured below did. So yes it's been 1 big "BBQ" as she would like to call it."