MickHucknallspinkpancakes Thu 26-Apr-18 10:53:49

I'm so sorry you had to go through finding that out my lovely. I guess if they had visited with him, it'd be in the marital bed? Utterly utterly grim.



I'm sorry but I think he's lying. He withdrew £200 - so where is it?



I'm concerned for your physical safety first. Assuming you might have been intimate during your alone time in the US - please get an STD check?



I know - it's like a whole other kick in the stomach but you need to prioritise yourself.



I forgave my exH for being on adult websites 8 times. Every time he promised he was only looking.



The trust was totally destroyed. It made me sick, physically sick, with stress. Every time he disappeared with the phone, every time I opened the browser history...I just felt sick and anxious.



Coupled with the fact that it completely ended our sex life. I tried, but would have panic attacks as soon as he tried. He physically repulsed me in the end.



It's no life.



Life is a struggle sometimes alone, but I can breathe deeply for the first time in years, and the feeling of freedom from that stress is like being born again.



Please don't be me. It won't get better. Get some legal advice, ask for support from friends (it's his dirty secret, not yours) and take some time to think about how you want to live your future, in peace, with trust and with happiness.



Sending you all the virtual strength I can.