10 Things That Happen To You During Motherhood

1. A deeper voice

2. Forgetting things more

3. Always tired

4. Always sleepy

5. Always worried

6. More grateful

7. Become more patient

8. Value little things even more

9. Pray more

10. Make more sacrifices

Motherhood is like a school where you must attend the course yourself in order to understand it. There are many assumptions and corrections we make before we become mothers and then we discover a bunch of other things that we didn't expect. Though some of these things may not happen to you, here are ten things that come with being a mother - whether you like it or not.I think I am experiencing this one. I just feel my voice has changed ever since I gave birth and guess what? It's deeper. I think it comes because motherhood needs an authoritative tone to go with it, lol. Or we are too tired to form small voices, lol.A deep voice is a common change in motherhood. Some women may love it while others don't but it is something to be expected.Let me share an example; I go to get something and upon reaching there, I forget what I wanted to get. And this happens so many times a day. Sometimes I forget completely what I did just yesterday. It really surprises me how I forget things.In my opinion, it is caused by tiredness or the fact that we work like robots as mothers. When you've got a list of things to do, it's easy to be forgetful. That's why it happens often.Even when I'm just getting out of bed I'm already tired. Thinking about what I have to do during the day makes me tired already.Moms never sleep enough BTW. There's so little time to rest and so much to do. It's even hard to get two hours of sleep without interruption.I worry about a lot of things and all of them are centred around how my baby will be affected. Even when I worry about my wellbeing, it's mostly because I know my baby needs me to be in the best of health so that I can take better care of her.These and more can get you worried even in your sleep. You may not even want to leave your baby alone for fear that anything can happen to them during the one second that you are away.Yeah, I'm more grateful than I was before. I just feel grateful for life and health and everything good that happens daily no matter how small it is.Seeing your baby grow little by little is something to be grateful for every day.Motherhood has a way of testing your patience. It has made me more patient. I still do get angry quickly but I have to swallow it most of the times and apply patience instead of reacting without thinking.Little moments matter even more now. The best moments are those we spend smiling; laughing, cooking, eating together. These moments create the best memories and as a mom, I tend to cherish it the most now.I pray more for my baby myself and my family. I pray anytime, anywhere. I have conversations with God like I'm talking to a friend and I love how close I have become to God.Being a mother comes with sacrifices. You sacrifice your time, energy, health and sanity to be a good mother every day. And though it's sometimes difficult, these sacrifices are just one of the best things to give your children.There are other things that happen during motherhood but these are the most common and the ones that I have experienced so far. Are you a mom or a to-be-mom? Please share your experience in the comment section below.I hope you enjoyed this post. Thanks for reading and see you in my next one.Ngumabi.