I’m so damn sick of the tired old phrase: “what two consenting adults do in the bedroom is none of my business!!!”

Why are we pretending that “the bedroom” is some mythical land where no information or experiences go in or out. Those two consenting adults are walking into that room with a lifetime of experiences each. They’re walking out with a new experience to add to the list. It’s experience that shape our interactions with others. It’s through experience that we understand the world. When you come out of that room, you carry your experiences with you.

If what you do in the bedroom affects how you treat women in daily life, it becomes my business. It’s every woman’s business. Plain and simple.