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As a gay man, it can be a struggle to find someone special, but you can up your chances by putting yourself out there and approaching guys you're interested in. Attend LGBTQ events in your area, since this will make it easier to find someone who is passionate about causes you care about. When you’re looking for a guy, make sure to exude confidence by having good posture, smiling, and making eye contact. If you’re in a public place and want to grab someone’s attention, make eye contact with them and if they smile back, go introduce yourself! While the fear of rejection might hold you back from making an introduction, push yourself to say “Hello.” Even if you get rejected, at least you made an effort! For more help, like how to keep your man once you find one, scroll down.