Wives Quick Guide to Prostate Massage Orgasm

What is missing from your sex life? Do you want to take it to the next level with your husband, but you’re not sure just how? The answer is easier than you think. Prostate Massage. Many women need that one thing that will blow their man’s mind and this is it! When you are ready to take on this challenge, there are some steps for you to follow. These prostate massaging methods will allow you to give your husband the night of his life!

Beginner’s Guide to Hands Free Orgasm

The Prostate Gland

There are men who are not afraid to try new things so this will not be a shock to them. However, there are men who may be skittish for you to touch them anally. Not to worry, there are some simple steps that you can follow that will leave your husband more than happy. It all takes place near the prostate gland. This gland is responsible for being the male reproductive organ. When it is stimulated, a man can have one of the best orgasms that he has had in life.

The prostate gland is stimulated in quite a few ways. One of the most popular ways is through the rectum which can cause some of the best orgasms that a man has ever had. The prostate is also responsible for secreting semen along with a milky fluid at ejaculation.

Where is the Prostate Located?

The prostate is located 3-4 into the anus or approximately the second knuckle on most middle fingers. This is the “middle finger” he will like you to give him!

Prostate Massage: Getting Started

Heard enough of the technical jargon? Here’s how you can really make your husband’s night end in satisfaction. You will need to keep a couple of things in mind before you do the deed. The first is to make sure that your fingernails are trimmed so that nothing gets scratched or scraped. Secondly, you will need a lot of lube. Men are not used to having anything near their prostate let alone in it, so it’s a great idea to get a big bottle! It helps to get your husband in the mood, some nipple licking and biting will get most men highly aroused.

The Stroke

The stroke method is like using your index finger to say “come here stud!” Slowly use this motion when you have found your husband’s P (Prostate) Spot. Do not use the tip of your finger, use the pad part. Remember that this step is called the Stroke so make sure that you are not poking your husband. That could turn this into a very unpleasant experience. Communication with your husband is the key to a good experience. Let him know you want to him to lay back and savor it. Be sure to start off very slow and and lightly if you see that he is enjoying it. Slow light pressure moving the finger all around the prostate, circular motion can be effective, either small circles or large circles. You can speed it up and you can add one more fingers depending on his comfort level.

The Tap (slower) & Pulse (faster)



The Tap is a very popular prostate massage technique. The main idea of this technique is use the same amount of pressure that you would when you type on a computer. Let him know that you can change up the pressure and the speed. The Pulse method is the same as the Tap, but just faster. Put your index finger in his P Spot and start moving the pad of your finger up slowly. He should start to feel aroused in no time. Again communication with your partner is regarding what you are doing will create a loving and sexually powerful experience.

Simulated massage inside view

Bonus: Prostate Orgasm!

It is possible for your husband to have a wet or dry orgasm (Exciting!) with JUST prostate massage. The key is NOT touching his penis. The entire focus should be upon teasing the prostate via massage. Stimulating the penis will result in a traditional penile orgasm, (nothing wrong with that!). But if he is enjoying the experience, simulating the prostate to the point of orgasm is quite possible. If you can make your husband orgasm with just a prostate massage it will bring your sexual repertoire to a whole to level!