We’ll miss saying "20-bi-teen," but we're excited to embrace the New Year! Lots of folks like to set resolutions, but do they work? How can you make them more effective? What about making a queer resolution? Rose and Annie dive into the internet and each other’s minds to help you select and set your goals (Uhm, keeping them is on you…). Did we miss something? Wanna share your resolution? Email us at hellogoodbis42069@gmail.com or follow us on Instagram @HelloGoodBis. REFERENCES History of New Years Resolutions https://www.history.com/news/the-history-of-new-years-resolutions Some Stats on Effectiveness of Resolutions https://www.inc.com/peter-economy/10-top-new-years-resolutions-for-success-happiness-in-2019.html Yup, people vote the most during the presidential election https://www.fairvote.org/voter_turnout#voter_turnout_101 Our coming out episode is #3 called The Good The Bi and the Ugly https://anchor.fm/hellogoodbis/episodes/The-Good--The-Bi--The-Ugly-Coming-Out-e4so7t Sober Pride Resources https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/7xgevd/how-to-party-at-pride-if-youre-sober https://myslutbox.com/out-proud-sober-how-to-have-fun-at-pride-without-liquor/ Straight Edge https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Straight_edge Our episode about finding someone to love is #10 called Dating Bi-os https://anchor.fm/hellogoodbis/episodes/Dating-Bi-os-e9ad2k When Brooklyn Was Queer (the book Annie forgot the name of) https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781250169914 Clementine Morrigan, physical consent https://www.instagram.com/clementinemorrigan Figure skater Amber Glenn comes out as bisexual/pansexual: ‘I don’t want to hide who I am’ ’https://www.outsports.com/2019/12/17/21024753/amber-glenn-figure-skating-bisexual-pansexual-olympics-texas-team-usa Former MMA Fighter Jason Ellis: Let Bi Men Like Me Into the Community https://www.advocate.com/commentary/2019/12/10/former-mma-fighter-jason-ellis-let-bi-men-me-community Saying Bi, Bi, Bi to a Decade of Increased Bi+ Visibility https://www.hrc.org/blog/saying-bi-bi-bi-to-a-decade-of-increased-bi-visibility Vaping ads often target bisexual women of color, study finds https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/vaping-ads-often-target-bisexual-women-of-color-study-finds-130533558.html Quit Like a Woman, Holly Whitaker https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781984825056 The UK has elected the ‘gayest parliament in the world’: 8% say they’re gay or bisexual https://www.lifesitenews.com/news/the-uk-ha-elected-the-gayest-parliament-in-the-world-8-say-theyre-gay-or-bisexual What you need to know about the Olivia Nicole Duffin TikTok biphobia drama https://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/love-sex/sex/a30292626/olivia-nicole-duffin-tik-tok-biphobia-ex-boyfriend-liam-casey/ Julie d’Aubigny https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Julie_d%27Aubigny Two Bi Guys https://www.twobiguys.com/ Jen Winston http://instagram.com/jenerous TIME STAMPS Our Resolutions 00:49 How to Set Resolutions 9:13 History of Resolutions 12:08 Uh, Do Resolutions Work? 14:55 How to Keep On Track 15:49 Queer Resolutions 19:11 Listener Mail 39:56 Bilights (Bisexual News) 41:18 Bi History 46:04 Adbice 50:18