As is known all, when and how to flirt with a charming woman can be a little tricky, especially if you’re new to the lesbian and bisexual community. Considering the feeling of someone flirting with you, mostly you enjoy the attention and feel pleased even though the person doing the flirting is not your type. So they will most likely feel the same way when you throw subtle flirts their way. Just muster up your confidence and have a try.

Flirting can be obvious (such as walking up and making conversation) or more subtle (such as shifting your body toward her while flashing a faint smile). Lesbians particularly enjoy flirting of the eyes. Though every individual may be different, women who are attracted to women generally seem to flirt in a more subtle way than men.

In fact, flirting is an observation art of human behavior. Here are some common techniques that women flirt with other bisexual, bi-curious women or lesbian.

-Starting a conversation with her

-Complimenting her

-Locking of eye contact

-Glancing down at her lips while you’re talking

-Smiling at her (learning to smile with your eyes)

-Standing or sitting closer as time passes by

-Leaning toward her

-Biting your lips

-Twirling or playing with hair

-Touching her on the arm or leg to make a point

-Picking lint off her clothes (even if it isn’t really there)

If you’re going out on the town and you’re ready to get your flirt on, try these tips to get yourself prepared. The first step is to look and feel good before you get out of the door. Get dressed in something which makes you feel confident about yourself. When you arrive, make sure you hold your head up and walk with an air of confidence. Loosen up and smile. Get out and mingle. Talk to people and flirt when you feel an attraction. See if they respond in kind. But when all else fails, just still walk up and say hi, my name is XX, what’s yours? If you end up in a happy conversation, that’s great. If not, you were being friendly and that’s always nice. This simple approach works better than you might think.

Keep in mind that most women you bump into in a bar or social setting are going to be sitting there waiting for someone to approach them. They probably haven’t read your guide on how to flirt with women. Be bold and show your attraction.