Fresh perspective on dating issues compiled in consultation with friends in North America, Australia and African nations.

Are you hoping a special girl likes you, but don’t know how to tell if she is really interested in you? Are you looking for hints to tell you what she's thinking? What does it mean when she keeps touching her hair? This article provides 26 things to look for to help you decide if a girl likes you.

26 Ways to Know If a Girl Likes You

The Sign Details 1. She likes talking to you. She's eager to have a conversation and stays engaged with you once she's comfortable. 2. She laughs at what you say. Belly laughs are better than giggles, and it's even better when you're both laughing together. 3. She's afraid to meet your eyes. Some girls are afraid to be caught looking at you if they like you. (Others might confidently meet your gaze—watch to see if her pupils are dilated. 4. She notices you. This might take different forms depending on the girl and the situation. 5. She licks her lips. This is, of course, especially significant if it's not hot out. 6. She smiles at you. It should be one of those real smiles — the one that makes her eyes crinkle up. 7. She doesn't like you flirting with other girls. She may react openly, or she might just slip away so she doesn't have to watch. 8. She hugs you. This could take many forms, but just notice if she's trying to get close to you. 9. She touches you. Maybe she lightly hits you or touches your clothing. 10. Her friends give you clues that she likes you. Watch for their reactions like giggling or sudden silence if you approach, or notice if they ask you what you think about their friend. 11. She seeks you out to talk to. Maybe she lingers around you when other people are leaving. 12. She develops interests in your interests. Has she started listening to your favorite music, or watching your favorite sports teams? 13. She blushes around you. This happens not once, but many times. 14. She plays with her hair around you. This could be an unconscious sign that she's imagining you playing with her hair. 15. She bumps into you frequently. This could be a sign that she wants you to start a conversation with her. 16. She shows off her body. Does her posture or clothing seem to indicate that she's looking for your attention? 17. Her arms are relaxed or wide when she's talking to you. Crossed arms is a sign of being closed off. 18. She breaks away from conversations with her friends to talk to you. This is a great sign that she's into you. 19. She compliments you when you're looking good. If she notices how you're dressed or changes in your clothing, it's a good bet she likes you. 20. She hints that she's single. Or she might ask you if you are single. 21. She's down to hang out. She says yes quickly if you suggest plans and might even suggest plans of her own. 22. She opens up to you. If she's telling you about problems she doesn't usually talk about, that shows she trusts you a lot. 23. She talks about doing something in the future with you. Maybe she mentions seeing a movie or a show in a month or so. You're on her mind! 24. She follows you online and likes your posts. If she's posting stuff and tagging you in it, that's definitely a good sign. 25. She puts away her phone when she's with you. This shows she's trying to give you her full attention. 26. You text frequently. If you're texting regularly, and she's initiating too, then she probably likes you. Especially if you're texting at night.

1. She Likes to Talk to You

Start a conversation with her. If she is happy to chat with you, that's a good sign. Some couples just click from the time they start talking and can talk for hours.

If she's nervous, she might have trouble speaking up. Give her a chance to become comfortable with you. Ask her questions and wait for her to answer. She might need some time to collect her thoughts.

The danger signs are if she looks bored or simply answers your questions with a shrug. Or, even worse, if she grabs hold of a passing friend and allows herself to be dragged away.

2. She Laughs at What You Say

If a girl likes you, she'll laugh in all the right places.

Hopefully she genuinely finds you amusing and isn't just working hard to encourage you. But even if she is trying a little too hard, that's okay. She obviously believes you are worth the effort.

Some girls get the giggles when they are nervous.

But here's the kind of laughter you definitely want to look for . . .

The full belly laugh you both share.

You know the kind. You're both laughing so hard you are almost crying. You feel as though you're about to split in half. The two of you share moments that are simply irresistibly funny.

Others around you think you're both crazy, but the hearty chuckles make perfectly good sense to the two of you.

3. Something Interesting Happens When Your Eyes Meet

A girl who likes you may shy away from looking at you directly. If your gaze meets, she blinks and turns her eyes away. She is not comfortable being caught looking at you. This kind of girl won't want to be seen as 'chasing' you. She waits for you to make the first move and approach her.

But some women speak through their eyes. Lucky you if your gaze connects with a woman whose eyes sparkle and invite you to come and say hello. A confident girl will directly hold your attention for longer than you'd expect before looking away.

If you're making extended eye contact with a woman, that is definitely a positive signal.

4. She Notices You

A girl who really likes you will at least acknowledge that you exist. Even if she's extremely shy, she'll find a way to let you know that she knows you're there.

If a girl completely ignores you, she has no interest in you. But is she really ignoring you, or is she sending you a quiet message that's she's noticed you but doesn't know how to react?

Here's some examples of how a girl who likes you might behave if she's really shy:

She's with a group who engage you in conversation, but she stays quiet.

She nods, or smiles. Just quickly, but it is a definite nod or smile in your direction.

There's a sudden interruption (or end) to her activity as soon as she sees you. Perhaps she stops singing, or dancing, or talking.

Yes, she's noticed you. She's definitely not ignoring you, or she'd just carry on whatever she was doing without missing a beat.

Watch her body language to tell if a girl likes you. Touching her neck or hair could be an unconscious sign that she likes you.

5. She Licks Her Lips

I'm sure you'd like to think that licking her lips is an action that should be interpreted to mean she'd love to kiss you. And yes, she might be dreaming about you kissing her. But don't get too excited just yet.

Licking her lips could simply be a sign of a dry mouth. But you have to wonder—why is her mouth so dry? If it is not an incredibly hot day and she's not just finished running a marathon, I'm guessing she's nervous.

So there's a good chance she likes you.

6. She Smiles at You

A girl who smiles at you, likes you. There's occasionally exceptions to this rule, like the girl who hopes to win some kind of popularity contest and smiles at everyone. But most girls don't bother smiling at someone they don't like.

A shy girl might not grin widely. Her smiles may be brief, but she certainly looks pleased to see you. Sometimes her smile is more in her eyes, rather than plastered on her face.

7. She Doesn't Like You Flirting With Other Girls

A girl who likes you will be uncomfortable if you flirt with other girls. Nobody likes competition. She might react openly, or may just slip away so she doesn't have to watch you giving another girl attention.

Be warned before you flirt with other girls that it might backfire. If you seem to fancy yourself as a ladies' man, she might lose interest in you. How can she trust a boyfriend who is quick to flirt with other girls?

8. She Hugs You

Does she hug you at every opportunity? We only hug people we like. Hugging you could be an excuse to get closer to you and experience the feel of your body.

Perhaps she likes you but can't tell you with words. It may be easier for her to use other strategies like hugging you and making herself very close to you.

Hugs come in different forms. Some girls just wrap themselves around boys they like. It can be a welcoming hug when you cross paths in the street or at the mall. But other girls are more likely to wrap a soothing arm around your shoulder. For instance, if you are seated and struggling with a problem on your computer. She may lean over and give you a shoulder hug, reassuring you that you can solve the problem.

9. She Finds Ways or Excuses to Touch You

She will always find many excuses to touch you or feel your body. Does she touch you when she is sitting next to you? That's a clear hint she's attracted to you. She wants to come closer to you and there is no better way or method for her than touching you on the arms or the hair.

She may pretend to remove an imaginary thing from your arm or hair. Perhaps she brushes crumbs from your chest.

Some girls give light-hearted slaps. Others grab your arm with excitement. If she's touching you, she likes you.

10. Her Friends Give Clues That She Likes You

Her best friends will know if she likes you. Look to them for clues. What do her friends do when you are around? How does she react with her friends?

Do her friends glance at you as you approach?

Do they smile when you approach them?

Are her friends seeming to tease her?

Does she look cross, as though she's afraid one of them might tell you she likes you?

Have any of her friends asked you if you like her?

Best friends can give lots of subtle clues she likes you.

Does she like you? Look for clues. How she responds to you will tell you if she likes you or not.

16 More Hints a Girl Likes You

11. You will learn from her body language if she likes you or not. If she's mirroring your movements, sitting closely to you, finding reasons to touch you, or fidgeting a lot, then she probably likes you.

12. She will get interested in things you do or like. For instance if you are a fan of Manchester United, she will also develop an interest in that team.

13. You will see her blushing in your presence. This happens not once but many times

14. Does she play with her hair when you are around her? If yes, that is an unconscious sign that shows her interest in you. She may be imagining you caressing or playing with her hair.

15. When you are sitting or having a rest somewhere, you will find that she will walk past you a couple of times. Maybe she is trying to get your attention. She wants you to be attracted to her and is probably waiting for you to take the first step and start a conversation with her.

16. She may lean back in a chair or sofa in order to protrude or display her chest area. She will show you 'what you are missing'. That is a sure sign that she likes you and she wants you to fall for her. She is just waiting for you to approach her.

17. Her arms are open wide when she is talking to you and that could be interpreted to mean 'I’m open for you.' In other words it’s a sort of unconscious way to encourage you to approach her.

18. She will break from her friends and come to where you are. When she is having a conversation with friends and she sees you approaching or in a nearby place, she will break from her friends and come to where you are. She wants to be closer to you at all times and that is a sure sign that you impress her.

19. She compliments you whenever you are dressed nicely or she sees you in designer clothing. She always likes to see you looking good.

20. Does she talk about a relationship she had in the past, making it clear that it ended and she is feeling lonely now? If yes, she is probably attracted to you. Don't assume that she's still obsessed with her ex-boyfriend. Consider it an invitation to take his place.

21. She suggests hanging out with you or doesn't hesitate to say yes when you suggest that you two hang out. If she's down to hang out when you suggest something and doesn't even check to see if she's busy, that's definitely a good sign that she's into you.

22. She's opened up to you, maybe telling you about something personal in her life or a problem she's dealing with. Being vulnerable often creates a feeling of intimacy, and girls won't do it with someone they don't really trust.

23. She talks about going to something in the future with you—maybe she mentions that you should go see a movie or a concert together in a month or so. This is a really good sign!

24. She's followed you on Facebook, Instagram, and Snapchat—and she likes your posts frequently, or posts stuff on your wall that reminds her of you. If you're sending each other Snapchats frequently or posting back and forth, there's definitely something going on.

25. She puts away her phone when she's with you. When a girl gives you her full attention and focuses solely on you, that's a good signal that she's really interested in making a good impression on you.

26. You text frequently (and she initiates too). Regular texting is a sign of friendship and interest. This is especially true if she texts you out of the blue just to find out how you're doing.

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I was asked the other day if I mind answering questions from guys who are still trying to tell if a girl likes you. Truth is, I don't mind. But you'll have to leave a comment and be prepared to wait a few days if I'm busy (because I do have a life.)

Be prepared for me to be honest with you. You just have to read the existing comments to see I'm not going to just tell you everything is great and you're destined for success. If I'm going to the effort of answering you, I will be honest.

Life is complicated. If you need help to figure out if a girl likes you, that's normal and okay. Sometimes you just need encouragement or a second opinion, so go ahead and ask me your question if you like. A few clues are always helpful, like your age. But don't give me your full name or hers. Have a bit of tact and discretion. I try to delete comments that will cause people embarrassment in the future if they're seen by others.

To the guy who asked if I'll answer all the questions from his friends if he puts a link to this article on his facebook page, my answer is the same. I'll answer questions if any guy wants more help or information when trying to decide if a girl likes you (but not necessarily reply to people who just leave general comments). There just might be a bit of a wait if I get flooded with questions when I'm busy doing other things.

So, sure. Leave a comment. Ask a question. I'll give you and your friends my honest opinion in the hope that it helps.

Questions & Answers

Question: What if she shows signs one day, but the next she doesn’t? When I am not showing interest she shows interest. What does that mean?

Answer: You've asked so I'll tell you what I think. She sounds like she's playing games with you. Either she's deliberately messing with you, or she's not yet sure exactly what she wants.

So what does that mean? It means you'll be pulling your hair out if you have to put up with her hot/cold, on/off behavior for much longer. I'm thinking you should ignore her and look for someone who is much easier to get along with. Imagine what a hassle it would be to have a long-term relationship with a girl who is so unpredictable.

I think you can do better.

Question: What do I do if I think a girl likes me, but I'm not quite sure?

Answer: Be brave and talk with her. Say "hi" every time you pass each other. She’ll either reply, or she’ll ignore you. If she answers you, she likes you enough to acknowledge your existence. That’s a start.

Then become braver and actually start proper conversations with her. You won’t know if she really likes you until you get to know each other a bit better. So make an effort to get to know her and let her learn more about you too.

Question: How can you tell if she likes you as more than just a friend?

Answer: There’s one really obvious way to establish if she’s interested in being more than just friends: be romantic with her. Treat her as though she’s more special than just a friend. You’ll pretty quickly be able to tell if she shares your interest in being more than just friends.

Or simply ask her. If you are already friends, you should be able to ask her if she thinks the two of you might become ‘more than just friends in the future.’

Question: How do I know if a girl really wants me?

Answer: If a woman really wants you, she’ll find a way to let you know. The truth is, there’s a good chance what you want is not the same thing as what she wants.

Communication is the key.

Question: The barwoman at my local pub laughs at my jokes even when they're not that good. She also takes gives me snacks out of the blue. Does she like me?

Answer: A bartender's job is to make customers feel happy and welcome, so they will often laugh at jokes that aren't funny. From what you've told me, it sounds like she's a nice lady who is doing her job. It doesn't sound like she particularly likes you any more than she likes any other customers.

But if you like her, why don't you ask her if she'd like to go out for a meal with you sometime? I suspect she'll either say that sounds like a good idea or she'll make an excuse why that wouldn't work. Either way, you'll have your answer.

Question: How do I know for sure if a girl likes me?

Answer: A girl can like a guy in many different ways, in a manner of 'degrees' if you like. At first, you just need her to like you enough to talk with you. That's your starting point. The easiest way to know for sure she likes you enough to talk is to make an effort to start conversations.

In this article, I listed 26 clues that a girl likes a guy. If you couldn't find any that match your situation, you have a pretty big challenge ahead of you, but there's no reason why you shouldn't speak to her and see if she's willing to chat back.

But you need to remember she might not like you because she doesn't know you. If you want her to like you, it will take some effort to make contact and give her a reason to think you are likable. It will probably take quite a while before you know for sure.

Question: What should I deduce if she does all the things mentioned above, but doesn't understand what to do because she is scared as it is happening to her for the first time?

Answer: Your question is a little creepy. My straight up answer is 'back off.' Either she's too young to be going out to a movie or skating or bowling ... or you are expecting her to become intimate with you, which is way out of line.

This is a list to give clues about whether or not a girl likes a guy. In case you haven't figured it out yet, I'm here to tell you that a girl liking a guy means she's interested in spending time with him to get to know him. It doesn't mean she wants to instantly make out with him, sleep with him or let him be anyway 'intimate.'

Forget about her 'not understanding what to do' because she's scared and 'it is happening to her for the first time.' That's not the problem. I think you're the one who doesn't understand. So let me make it clear:

If she's not ready to go out with you at all, then back off. Maybe when she's older, she might think you seem like a good guy to date. Or maybe she won't, so don't hold your breath. Just find another girl to ask out.

But if you're trying to get her to kiss you or let you grope her or whatever, and she's obviously not consenting to your advances, then you should certainly back off.

Just because you want a girl to do something, doesn't mean it is going to happen. If you don't learn to respect that a girl has a right to say 'no' for any reason at all, you'll be facing sexual assault charges before you're much older.

So, in answer to your question, you should 'conclude' that you're making a big mistake and need to change your attitude. This is real life, man, not some teenage movie where guys get to grope girls and go home when the credits roll. Treat women with respect, and you'll have a happy life because sooner or later you'll find one who wants to get intimate. But you have to wait to find the right girl. This girl is not the one.

Question: I’ve been speaking to this girl I know for a long time. I speak to her at times late at night for hours. We speak about lots of stuff, and she has taken an interest in a series I watched and finished it in 2 days. Still, I don’t know what to do next. To be honest, I’m scared to ask her out directly. Is there a way I can do it subtly?

Answer: Sure. Keep an eye out for a movie with a similar theme to the tv series you both enjoyed, then suggest you both go see the movie together. Or ask her to help you on a shopping expedition if you need to buy a present for your mother or sister or granny's birthday. (Bit late for Christmas now. Drat.) Tell her you have trouble spotting good gifts for girls so you need her opinion.

If you have some cash to spare and she seems really interested in some particular item, you could ask her if she would like that kind of gift if someone gave it to her ... and then buy it and give it to her.

There's bound to be lots of places you could invite her to, without making it a formal date for dinner. If you speak for hours late at night, surely you can tell her you're going to the football or the markets or you'd like to go tenpin bowling, and ask her if she wants to come with you. Just slide it into the conversation.

Question: What happens if the girl looks at me and she is happy when we look at each other?

Answer: What happens next is up to you. You either talk with her and start learning more about each other so you can figure out if you like each other ... or you don’t.

Question: Should I directly go to her and ask "Do you like me?"

Answer: I think asking a girl "Do you like me?" is pretty lame, to be honest. It puts her in a really difficult position. If she’s polite, she might not want to hurt your feelings and just say yes when she doesn’t really mean it. Or maybe she likes you just as a friend.

And even if she does like you, she may well say ‘no’ because she thinks it is some kind of trick question or she fears rejection or is shy. So even if you did ask her, you wouldn’t know if her answer is sincere or not.

Much better, I believe, to just ask her if she’d like to have lunch together or hang out sometime. If she’s interested, she’ll probably say yes.

Or if you’re brave enough, to be honest, and want her to know how you feel, you could tell her you like her and see what she says. Hopefully, she’ll say ‘I like you, too.’

It seems unfair to expect her to be the first to say how she feels. If you like her, tell her. She might not have considered you as a potential boyfriend before, but she’ll at least give it some thought if she knows you like her enough to approach her.

Question: In my school, it's very hard to tell if people are being friendly or are being flirtatious because they are very cold. Sometimes girls start conversations with me and seem to be attracted. Are they at least a little attracted to me?

Answer: If girls are starting conversations with you, they are definitely showing interest. Nobody bothers chatting with someone they really don’t like. I suggest you make an effort to continue the conversations and take it as an invitation to approach the same girls and start more conversations yourself. You’ll become more confident and get to know them better the more you talk with them.

Question: How can you get a boy to like you?

Answer: Here's another article I wrote that might help you: https://hubpages.com/dating/How-you-can-Impress-A-...

Question: How can I know if a girl whom I met in the past is still thinking about me?

Answer: You’re obviously thinking about her, so just ask her. Ring her up or visit her and say "Hi, remember me?"

Question: How do I know if a girl I have been best friends with since birth likes me?

Answer: Why not just be honest? Tell her you like her, and ask her if she thinks that’s weird ... or if she thinks it might be fun to date each other and see how things work out.

I had a crush on a friend from early childhood but I never actually voiced how I felt. We stayed friends for a long time but eventually grew apart. I’m perfectly happy where I am now though. So give it s go if you want to, but if it doesn’t work out with your best friend, don’t worry. If it turns out she’s not the one, you’ll find the perfect girl for you some day.

Question: What does it mean when a girl’s friends ask her crush to ask her to dance with him at the prom and he agrees immediately?

Answer: I’m guessing he likes dancing and he thinks the girl is okay. How much he likes her is hard to tell.

The girl should figure that out for herself by talking with him and seeing if they get on well together.

Question: There is a girl in 8th grade, and we like each other. I want to ask her out, but she is in a relationship. What should I do?

Answer: I suggest you tell her you'd like to take her out sometime, so you want her to let you know when she breaks up with the other guy. Just state it clearly like that so there's no suggestion of her going out with you behind his back.

If you want to be a bit softer about your approach you could say 'if' you break up with the other guy. But personally, I'd say 'when' you break up with him.

Question: I have been giving signs to my colleague that I'm interested in her and I guess she has noticed it too. Recently she told me that things ended with her boyfriend. We don't text but we talk with one another everyday at work (nothing related to work). What's the next step I should take?

Answer: This could go either of two ways, so I’ll lay them out here and leave you to make the decision.

1) If you wait too long to ask her out, she might be disappointed and think you weren’t sincere in your affection.

2) If you move too quickly, she might not be ready, which could be awkward.

I’m thinking the best way to approach her is to ask her if she’d like to catch a movie with you or go for a coffee (in a nice place) ‘after work one day’. Her answer should tell you what you need to know.

Because the two of you already talk a lot, I’m confident she will be happy to either respond with enthusiasm or tell you she’s not interested in going out.

Ask her quickly, though. If she’s broken up with her boyfriend in the hope you’ll ask her out, she’ll be watching for your next move.

If it is just coincidence that you like her at the same time as her previous relationship ended, I think you’ll get the message.

Make the offer in a friendly way. Don’t call it a ‘date’. But treat her well and see how close she gets to you when you are out. Look for clues when you’re together outside of your work environment.

Question: There's a girl at my school that I like and I think she likes me too. I'm having trouble being able to talk to her. Do you have any ideas?

Answer: Take the pressure off yourself. You don't need to talk to her about how you feel. You just need to talk to her. So start by asking her what her favorite subjects are. What does she do on weekends? That kind of stuff. Tell her about TV shows you've seen and ask if she's seen them too.

We all like it when someone expresses an interest in us, so general conversation that allows you to get to know her better is a great place to start.

Question: She has a boyfriend and I don't talk to her much. She makes sure I see them all the time. What does it mean?

Answer: To me, it means you're wasting your time if you think she's going to dump her boyfriend any time soon. If she was really interested in you, I think she'd be trying to catch up with you when her boyfriend wasn't around. So I think she's happy with the guy she's with now and you should be considering finding a different girl.

Once you let go of the dream of being with her, you will start noticing the good qualities in other girls. Maybe sometime in years to come, you might get to talk with the current girl, and things might change, but I don't see any reason to waste your life hanging around for her right now.

Question: I know a girl that likes me but I don't know how to approach her. What should I do?

Answer: Walk up and say ‘hi’. Ask her, ‘What’s news?’ and continue the conversation from there.

If she says, ‘Nothing’ or ‘Not much’, be ready with some news of your own. For instance, ‘I’ve just heard ... (whatever)’ and give her time to respond.

If the conversation doesn’t flow easily, just smile and say ‘Got to go. See you later.’

Then do the whole thing again when you next see her. And again and again.

If she’s interested but just shy, she’ll have a chance to think up some ‘news’ before she sees you again.

Question: What if I am interested in a girl who is 16 years younger than me. I know her through work. I do the maintenance at the property but she is a tenant. What do I do if pursuing my love interest is risking my job?

Answer: Keep your job. Wait until she’s moved out and then maybe contact her via Facebook. But if you’re 16 years older, there’s a good chance she’s not interested. So I think you should be looking for someone else to date.

© 2012 Daniel Long

Peter on June 29, 2020:

If a girl that like you loose interest in you what shuold i do

Pierre on June 27, 2020:

I have I girlfriend of mine is somehow moody but touches my hands while terrified ,blashes and likes to perform hot fashion show plus wears clothes that show her my body and hates when I speak about other girls. Does she like me

Edward on March 21, 2020:

I met a lady who used to watch me a lot and we eventually became friends but I couldn't take her contact and I later send my contact to her through a male friend and she promised to call but for over three weeks she didn't and doesn't go out too, does it mean she doesn't like me or what

Bob on January 24, 2020:

There is Dr. Who looks after my health, i always mske her laugh. We became so close to eachother that after every session she try to have a coversation eith me. After the session ended in four weeks ehich i was discharged i tried to ask for her number, but she said she is not aloud to give me her number. 3 weeks after i left she wrote to me saying shes just checking how im doing, she keeps writing advicing me if i feel any symtoms i should go and see her. Please is the any sign to push foward? She always vompliment my dressing and the perfum i use.

Clayton on January 23, 2020:

How else do I know if a girl likes me?

don’t want to say on January 19, 2020:

Max Delgado get a new mind set looks aren’t the most important thing In relationships

Daniel Long (author) from All Over on December 09, 2019:

Friends can be hard to find, Help, and even harder to replace.

I suggest you talk with her and tell her you are bisexual. That's a good starting point. Just tell her as a friend.

How she reacts will give you all the clues you need. Give her time to think it through. Maybe in the future she might make a move on you. If not, she's still your valuable friend.

Daniel Long (author) from All Over on December 09, 2019:

Try this, Osman. "I am really flattered that you seem to like me, (name), but I'm not the right guy for you. You need to find someone who can throw his heart into being with you. Because that's what you deserve."

Then just say something like "Take care" or "See you round".

Continue being pleasant when you see her, but not too friendly and certainly never be mean.

Help on December 07, 2019:

So I’m a bisexual female, and I have a crush on my friend, and I don’t know if she’s into girls at all. She does pretty much everything on that list, but I don’t know if it’s because she likes me or just as friends. I really don’t want to do anything that would ruin our friendship or make her uncomfortable, so any advice would be really helpful

osman on December 05, 2019:

when she love u and u dont like the her what should u tell her

rather not say on December 04, 2019:

now i know there are 2 girls at school who like me

Slartybartfast on November 27, 2019:

This is the 21st century, if she likes you she will tell you.

Men shouldn't be approaching, ever, it's harrasment, women are tired of it and have said so publicly and clearly over and over.

If they wanted to invite men to ask them out they would be on tinder.

issac on November 26, 2019:

i really need a girlfreind like now and i think im vegan so....

Mose Adam Truett on November 26, 2019:

She sure likes me.

Daniel Long (author) from All Over on November 17, 2019:

You either trust her or you don’t, J. You have to decide if you are happy being with her or not. I think you should talk with her and make your conversations interesting. Don’t just keep asking her if she likes you or not.

Daniel Long (author) from All Over on November 17, 2019:

If ‘Just another girl’ is sending you mixed messages and you want to know how she feels, I think you should ask her out. She might have been trying to make you jealous.

If she still shows interest in other guys and doesn’t give you special attention after that, it is probably wise to look for a different girl.

Daniel Long (author) from All Over on November 17, 2019:

Yes, Unbrokenheart, if you like her I think you should ask her out.

J on November 15, 2019:

Hey . I don't know if all of that are true but I know a girl I'm I like her and she like's me too in short we're M.U . We're M.U for about 4 months but it's like she didn't want to start a conversation with me , She didn't talk unless I talked first but in other man she is the one who talked first and the one who wants to make a conversation with them and sometimes she's ignoring me , she didn't want to open up her problems on me and she didn't put away my cellphone (cause she's borrowing my phone) Everytime I am with her . Yeah I got jealous to other man 'cause they're lucky my girl wants to make a conversation with them and when she's with me she didn't talk but Everytime I ask her if she really like me and if she really love me she's always saying "yes , I like you , I love you" . This is my question is she really likes me ? Or maybe she's shy to show her true color ? Please answer this . Thanks (sorry for my English)

Help waht on November 14, 2019:

So something my class is really weird around me and laughs at whatever I say. Like very weird laughs. Also she tries to touch me anytime possible and her friend whispers in my ear “When,”. She also randomly glances at me with a dreamy expression.... She is really pretty but... Helpful

Baylei on November 14, 2019:

How can i get my crush to like me if she rejected me already

Scared but confident guy on November 07, 2019:

What if she sees that you are too friendly and see you hugging up on all the girls you see and know but still shows that shes interested what do you fo

nope on November 06, 2019:

so i have a crush on this girl at my school she plays with her hair and stuff and everytime i catch her looking at me she looks away like she wasn´t looking at me and every now and then she asks for a high five from me and she looks at the table when shes playing with her hair and i sit right infont of her and everytime me and her talk her voice goes on a higher pitch and she waves at me everytime we pass at school then she smiles so am wondering should i ask her out because i don´t want to get rejected or hurt so help me out will ya

im a girl talk to her if she tends to do it whens shes with you shes in to you, shes trying to give signs but it is derectid towards you......talk to her if she does it more when shes around you then yea shes in to you....ask her out its worth a try

Just another Girl on October 25, 2019:

Welp, I like a girl :).

She always gives me hugs and tries to hold my hand. There is one thing though, she rubs up on other guys :/ she says she likes me but i'm not to sure. Like it's upsetting that she does this but how do ik if she really like me?

Unbrokenheart on October 25, 2019:

There is this girl that i really lie, and she is hinting that she likes me based on the things written on this website. She always talks to me about her exes, and that she can't get a boyfriend. I've only known her for about 2 months, and we are friends. Should I ask her out?

Mr Unsure Guy on October 17, 2019:

There is this girl that texts me quite a lot, she likes to be around me and she acts a bit awkward around me. She is a tomboy and likes to cross her arms a lot but changes it so that one arm hangs down whenever we hang out like a more open way towards. We used to talk a lot (and we still do but not as much) and she said that she misses when we would waste hours with each other and misses the days when we just got wet in the rain for fun. Everyone (both her friends and mine) both put us together as a couple kind of thing but both of us denied it many times. However, I do like her a lot, but I am think that she believes that we might only be friends What do you think, does she like or does she not like me?

shy dude on October 15, 2019:

so i have a crush on this girl at my school she plays with her hair and stuff and everytime i catch her looking at me she looks away like she wasn´t looking at me and every now and then she asks for a high five from me and she looks at the table when shes playing with her hair and i sit right infont of her and everytime me and her talk her voice goes on a higher pitch and she waves at me everytime we pass at school then she smiles so am wondering should i ask her out because i don´t want to get rejected or hurt so help me out will ya

Daniel Long (author) from All Over on October 13, 2019:

Mr Shy Guy, I just saw your message. I’m happy to make suggestions but I’m not sure I properly understand what you’re saying.

Are you thinking the girl will like you if you gang up with a friend to beat the ‘really stupid’ guy?

What makes you think the girl will be impressed with that? I can’t think of any girls I know who are impressed by violence.

How old is she? Give me a better idea of the situation and I’ll try to help.

Daniel Long (author) from All Over on October 13, 2019:

Hello Mohan. I’m not really seeing any kind of problem. It sounds as though she’s suggesting she likes you.

There’s nothing wrong with her being modest. I think you should respect her for that. Treat the lady like a lady, and approach her politely.

Daniel Long (author) from All Over on October 13, 2019:

Hi AlphaBloodBoy. I don’t see there’s much to be gained from passing a note if you’re still too shy to talk with her.

I think you should try to gain confidence and get used to hearing the sound of your own voice first. Then approach her, feeling ready to have a conversation.

Take a look at the Shyness Remedies article I wrote and see if it helps. (There’s a link to it if you scroll up, near the end of this article.)

Daniel Long (author) from All Over on October 13, 2019:

Hi Noah. Every time you feel like that, I want you to smile ... and congratulate yourself for entering into the same process every teenager on the planet goes through! Yes, we’ve all been there.

It is not the end of the world if your crush doesn’t feel the same way you do. You’re probably still years away from meeting the real love of your life, but I think you should embrace the process and at least try to talk with her.

Say ‘hello’ and nod at her as you pass. That’s a start. Make the effort and see what happens.

Mohan on October 07, 2019:

A woman gaze me and when i saw her she started rolling her eyes plays with her hair touch me when get a chance but only problem is that when i saw her she hide her breast area with cloth (Duptta) ..what does it means

Kindly reply i am totally confused

Please reply soon

AlphaBloodBoy on October 03, 2019:

Um, so, I like this girl, but I'm way to shy/nervous to ever do it, even when we're alone(this girl is in a depressed state of mind and her best friend in the hole world just unfriended her) I'm not sure if this is a sign but, she laughs at my stupid jokes, and always want's someone to comfort her, but since I'm socially awkward I can't ask her, should I write her a note, or tell her in person? I need some advise, please help me with the situation. (btw we are both in the ninth grade)

? on October 02, 2019:

i need a answer

this girl i know keeps leaning back on here just to say hi

Noah on September 25, 2019:

So there is this girl that I like, she goes to my school and is probably the most beautiful person I have ever met yet I don't know how to talk to her because I feel like I will screw it up. I've never been in a relationship, and I don't talk to many girls every time I talk to her I mess up and look like an idiot. I find myself thinking about her 24/7, and I feel like I'm going to die before I ever get the courage to ask her out, or even have a proper conversation with her. Like I feel like every time that she is sad I want to be there to comfort her, every time she is upset, I want to make her happy. I know we don't really know each other, and that isn't a good thing, but every time I'm upset, I remember I'll get to see her again and that cheers me up. please tell me you have some advice

Mr shy guy on September 17, 2019:

I need a answer

So there is this girl in my class that I like and here's the catch, last year she was friend with me the next, we kinda drifted apart,BUT during class she made continues glances at me,well not glances but full on body turns, when she realised that I was picking up on this the glances became less frequent,BUT she still made them but in a less distinguishable way, E.G-so she turns around and pretends to talk to someone she barely knows,BUT what makes it really hard to tell is The glasses, the ceiling light usually reflects onto the glasses making it hard to tell, and then when it is break time she ONCE drifted towards the place where I usually hung out, but at that time I wasn't there because I was on a recon mission(not really but I just made it sound cool because I kind of was on one but that's not the point). Anyways she kind of has a connection with my friend in my group which holds a GREAT OPPORTUNITY for me, see many people think I'm stupid but really, I'm one of the most dangerous people in my class, I was like the level 99 hit man, I have an unatural talent in strategy,war,battles, and guns, so that connection will give me a whole arsenal of opportunities. I chose one which was to write a letter to her, but sadly, I think the letter was intercepted by her parents so I wrote another one debunking the last one, also practically half the grade knows that I like her, there's this really, really, REALLY stupid person who was my main rival, he didn't like this girl he just wanted me to tell the girl that I liked her, also he is practically a human bomb and APPARENTLY he said that he could beat me up anytime, so a solution I came up with is to get him to challenge me to a fight, I accept, a crowd gathers INCLUDING the girl that I liked, so this is where my war strategies come in, I station two snipers at the balcony, with a homemade sniper able to REALLY hurt if hit on the head,2 backups equipped with homemade handheld machine guns (It is REALLY annoying to have it spraying you with little balls of some sort)By the way this kid has a team of two hand to hand combat whereas I was the master of firearms,also I have 2 cardboard machine gun turrets controlled by my friends( By the way All of the snipers and backup are my friend of which I will relentlessly train)

I, myself will have my jacket of which I never take off unless in a state of high distress that I reveal my true self, I will have 2 cardboard pistols,2 cardboard shotguns, about 4 air disruption units(A.D.U- something that I designed myself which causes a large cloud of smoke)strapped onto me by a belt across my chest, ONLY TO BE USED IN REAL STATE OF EMERGENCY a 9V rechargeable battery that is to be wrapped in tinfoil for a devastating explosion, and 1 handheld cardboard machine gun given to me from my friend.

According to my calculations there is a 99.9% chance that I will succeed in defeating that boy.As for the girl, hopefully she will like me.

If you have any suggestions please reply to this comment.

Daniel Long (author) from All Over on September 16, 2019:

Catharina, there’s not much we can do to conceal signs of attraction. That’s why this list is so helpful to so many people.

I believe the only real way to get the married man out of your head is to change your attitude towards him. He’s definitely not a contender in your love life. So get out and start checking out available men! Good luck.

Daniel Long (author) from All Over on September 16, 2019:

It is too early to tell for sure either way, Sami. Sounds to me like you don’t know each other at all yet. I suggest you talk with her whenever you get the chance. Aim to start communicating in the hope you’ll find interests you both share.

If your attempts to talk with her fail, definitely move on. Meanwhile, make the effort to make friends with her.

Myself and i on September 15, 2019:

everyone plays with my hair, it doesnt matter when you have long hair.

Catharina on September 14, 2019:

This is embarrassing. I have a crush on a married man, and he must NOT notice that! ...but I just realized that I have done ALL of these things... *blushing*

Sami on September 14, 2019:

Hi

I actually have a question and I hope I can get a reply because it is really concerning me.

There is a girl I like, but the problem is that she has a boyfriend.

When interacting with her I got two different signs, a positve sign and a negative sign.

The positive sign is that she did stare at me a couple of times and usually smile when we greet each other.

The negative sign is that she ignored me and she acted as if she didn’t see me. That actually happened once.

My question is: Does she have a crush on me or should I move on?

I hope I can get a reply

Thanks

Daniel Long (author) from All Over on September 09, 2019:

Just ask the girl if she wants to go out with you, Darkwah Joshua. Don't put pressure on her. Think of something that would be fun for the two of you to do. You need the chance to make conversation outside of class to see what you have in common and if you get along.

Darkwah Joshua on September 07, 2019:

I have been sitting with a girl in a class for two years and I really love her but I don't know how to proporse to her because of how she is beautiful.She calls me baby when am chatting with her.

Keep it up guys on August 23, 2019:

I get girls ever day I’m just bored righ now

Randall on August 18, 2019:

Theirs a girl at my school she likes to play with my hair does she like me and she blushes at me

Max Delgado on July 15, 2019:

Why do ugly guys get more girls then me

Max delgado on July 15, 2019:

I guess I’m I’m ok but guys that are way uglier then me still get more girls then me soo what the heck

Paul on April 17, 2019:

I've never gotten even one of the signals mentioned in the article. Human dating is based on women choosing men. Since other guys are by default more attractive than I could ever be, I know that I will never be chosen. As such, I never ask women out because doing so would probably be seen as harassment. I'm not angry at anyone and have many woman friends - I just cannot be attractive in *that* way to anyone.

Jipson abraham on April 17, 2019:

Most of these is shown her. But she had brake in 2 months she tells every thing me only she also shares her personal issues with me only she is my best friemd and i too.... Does she starts likes or did she loves me please give me answer

Noah on April 16, 2019:

Hi, I have been into a girl at my school for a long time, and i am just not sure how to tell if she also likes me. We don't talk that much, but when we do she seem genuine. Yet i don't know like every time that i am talking in class she turns and listens while i talk, but once i catch her eye she just turns away. So i am not really sure what i should do.

Anthoni on April 10, 2019:

So there’s this girl in my school she’s in my class but one day she said she liked me but then later in the day she said I don’t think I’m gonna stay until I get in six grade and then next thing you know like a day after that she likes I mean I she knows that I like her now but I don’t know what to do I mean should I avoid her or should I ask her out or should I just Play it cool

kins on April 10, 2019:

After ten years i met this girl that we had vowed to love each other till death,we gazed at each other,it seems she remembers me but i didnt coz she was younger,it was only after sometime a friend gave me a hint. Circumstances made us meet once again but its like i have already hurted her,i realy like her and want her what should i do now?

Elijah Dingua on April 06, 2019:

What will i do if i really like a girl? Even if she does not no anything but just passes by. How do i approach her at first sight?

Beth stewart on April 03, 2019:

She likes me

Nicholas Foy from Washington (WA) on March 28, 2019:

I really need to be love and be love in return

Kyle Johnson on March 21, 2019:

So theres this girl in my school who notices me a lot when she sees me. I dont know how to approach her,she mostly gives me the i like you look.

Tyroon on March 19, 2019:

There is this girl I like in school and she sometimes smiles at me is that a good sign?

beamer boy on March 15, 2019:

im all alone.

Austin on March 08, 2019:

This really helped I'm now a married father now

Cooper on March 06, 2019:

So there's this girl at my school and she laughs at my jokes but she likes someone else always hanging around me so I don't know if she likes me or not please help pickles I actually like this girl

Paliatin on March 06, 2019:

So I'm back and theres a girl i like in my school and i think she likes me back,I've texted her on instagram and she hasnt answered but when i get to school i notice she gives me this sexy kind of look,I'm not sure if i should ask her out or not

Anonymous on February 24, 2019:

What if my ex show some of those signs, plus I miss her in my life and want her back is it a good thing to ask her out again plzz help?

Steve on February 11, 2019:

so this girl in my school first. asked for my number, when we had to do a duty in together i just talked to her and said some stuff that werent even meant to be funny in the first place but she still laughed, then one time while we had to line up in boy girl order, there were about 6 boys in front of me and she decided to stand next to me. now your probably thinking she stand next to me because i was the closest, well no i wasnt she was in front of all those boys, walked all the way at the back where i was, and stood there. now this might sound that she obviously likes me but one time while i was scrolling through my contacts. i noticed that she blocked me, the next day i told her why but she said it was her mom who blocked me cuz she didnt know who i was and that she will unblock me when she gets home. but after a month i was still blocked and then one time she unblocked me for about an hour (she didn't say anything) and then blocked me again. now i dont know whats going on because at first she was showing so much signs but now she changed all of a sudden.. if you can, can you tell me if she likes me or not?

Casey on February 11, 2019:

so before i had no interest in he but one day my friends started shipping me with her and after a month it got into me and said to myself "does she like me too?" because she was the one offering me to take her number, now and then when people ship us she only says "shut up" to the person but what i noticed is that she never denies it and plus one day my whole class had to stand to watch something and then she came right beside me and started playing with her hair, i dont know if she likes me or not but ill just see in the future.

Quinton on February 03, 2019:

I met this girl during the blood moon 2 weeks ago and spent the entire day/night with her in her garden and in her house, we shared a lot of stories and turns out we have a lot in common, told some funny stories had a few belly laughs. After i got home i suggested we do it again and she was straight on it and said she would love to do it again sometime.

Just the other day she was walking around and saw an ad for Astronomy Classes and a Astronomy book and told me yesterday that she thought of me when she saw these.

Also the other day i said i was going to go for a walk sometime to get more fit and healthy and she said she would like to come along when she is free without me having to ask her and she has told me things that she says she hasn't told anyone else. Maybe she is just being friendly and i am over analyzing everything but one thing i have taught myself is not to expect her to reply to every single message so that's a good thing.

Daniel Long (author) from All Over on January 16, 2019:

Hello friend. I get flooded with questions in Q&A and answer them as often as I can. But because I tend to do them in batches, it might take a bit of digging for people to find their answer. (The system is kinda confusing and I'm forced to work 'backwards' through questions from a bunch of different articles. ) Comments are always much easier to keep track of so I'm happy to answer you here. :)

Now here's what I'm thinking. You.might be right and she might be friend zoning you. But I don't want you to automatically jump to that conclusion. Here's why ...

Ypu haven't asked her out so she doesn't know how you actually feel. She might be trying to save you feom embarrassment. You know, make a joke of it so you don't get creeped out and stop being her friend.

So it is time to talk with her about it. Of course you don't want to risk losing her completely, so here's what I suggest.

Say something like 'Everyone keeps joking about you being my girlfriend and it really bugs me because one day we might want to start dating, but that should be our decision, not anybody else's. '

See how she takes the conversation from there. If she says she can't see it ever happening, ask 'Never?'

If she says 'Never', don't freak out. Just say, 'Well you let me know if ever you change your mind. Meanwhile we make a couple of damn fine friends, and I don't want anything getting in the way of us spending tine together. So let's agree we'll not let anyone mess with our relationship, okay?'

Try that out ... and let me know how you go. But remember, she might actually express interest so be prepared for that as well! Good luck.

Annon on January 15, 2019:

Hey Daniel, I posted before on the Q&A, and you didn't get back (it's fine though, I don't even remember what i even said). I have an issue, like most people on this forum: I've been good friends with someone for a while now, and to be honest, I've been crushing quite hard on her. And apparently to everyone but her, it's obvious. It started off harmlessly, with some teacher complaining that we argue "like a old married couple". Now it's too the point where she isn't referred to by name to me anymore, just "your girlfriend".

Okay, so my strategy so far is completely and utterly flawless: just stop dead in my tracks for a sec and then just keep on with what I was doing. Turns out um, that ISNT the best thing to do, but whatever. The thing I want to ask you about is her response, which is usually along the lines of "No! He's my BFF!" or "No I like guys and Annon's a girl!" (That one's a weird one, um, I may not be a meathead or anything, but i'm not too feminine).

I've been reading this post like the freaking scriptures or whatever, and she checks off like 3/4ths of the boxes, but what's really bugging me are her responses, and even just talking between just the two of us she says something like "I know they're jokes but we're like, friends". Is there something there, or are my hormones making me irrational and this poor girl is trying to be polite friendzoning me?

Just you know, respond when It suits you

Daniel Long (author) from All Over on January 15, 2019:

If you feel like there’s a connection between you and the girl, keep being friendly and respectful and approachable. Sounds like you are still enjoying each other’s company so don’t let her friends get in the way.

Yes, it might all feel rushed. And she might have cold feet. But that’s okay. You can wait. Give her time to get confident. Keep enjoying each other, Yannik, and the wait will be worth it.

Zoe criuts on January 14, 2019:

I love a lot of boys

Yannik on January 08, 2019:

Last year me and this girl had an amazing connection, she asked me out one day and then the very next day she called it off due to friends going crazy about it and saying it was all rushed, she also said she'd give 'us' a chance in the future. All her friends said she said she has no interest in me anymore, however she's never actually said that to my face, she's stopped doing some stuff she did in the past, but she's still doing stuff like, touching me, going to my house and just acting happy around me (Most of the time), sorry if this is really obvious that she still likes me or not, but it's left me super confused as her friends keep telling me to move on because she has no interest anymore, but as i said before, she's never said that to me, so has she really lost interest? Or is she still interested in the future?

Daniel Long (author) from All Over on December 11, 2018:

Hi Morgan. It sounds to me she likes you, which is great. Of course that doesn't necessarily mean she's looking for a boyfriend. At your age I think you should stay friendly with her, without worrying about being friendzoned.

Friends can go places together and have a really great time and some day become more than just friends. But when you're young and try being more than just friends, you risk becoming the 'ex-boyfriend' and doomed to never getting another chance when you're older.

So I suggest you enjoy her company and make her feel special and maybe see if she wants to hang out with you outside school ... but think very carefully before you make any kind of romantic gesture. It is near-impossible to successfully maintain a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship when you start so young.

Morgan on December 08, 2018:

I'm in the ninth grade, and our school has a program where students from the next grade up can help students in the grade. So I am part of the program and am helping the Eighth Graders with science. One of the other helpers, Alli, is cute, smart, funny, and nice. She and I are friends, I'm interested in her, but can't tell if she is interested in me. She laughs at my jokes and whenever one of us walks into the room, she walks straight to me to talk to me, but she might not have any other friends in the class. What makes me not so sure is she crosses her arms, and doesn't show some of the other signs, but she smiles at me, talks to me, and looks away when i glance at her. She also came up with a cute nickname for me, that she knows I don't like. Is all of this because she wants to go out with me, or am I basically friendzoned?

chinni on November 21, 2018:

chinni

girl was seeing me for four days when i went for tea stall

her house is opposite to tea stall

she will go to college at 8 am before she is waiting for auto uotside her apartments

Alex on November 14, 2018:

So I met this girl , she’s so sweet and all. She ask me about my hobbies and my type of girl that I like when we were alone and she talk about her ex as well.... but then she doesn’t really reply my message , and try to avoid speaking to me in front of her friends ? I am so confused?

A Confused Dude on November 05, 2018:

Okay I am confused. There is this girl who tells about her life problems and constantly mentions her ex. Anyone know what that means? Thanks I'm really confused.

Tommy on October 28, 2018:

I think I have someone

Malay Ranjan Samal on October 23, 2018:

I know a girl from my child hood . There is a good relationship between two family. That girl is now 21 yr old how can i know that she loves me ? But she was my crush from my 12th. I talk with her but i can't say love her. Plz help me?????

Roy on October 18, 2018:

Helped... now I have a girlfriend

Kayleen on October 18, 2018:

this is exactly what i do ohno

Anton on October 12, 2018:

He said he never ignores messages but haven’t responded in 2 months, but he has been answering for 20 months, so good job.

Alex on October 09, 2018:

There whas a girl who gave me a latter and sayed add me in snapchat and i did bur she never reesponded what dose it mean

Wyatt on October 07, 2018:

This should hellp me a lot!

Matt on October 02, 2018:

So, I am next to this girl in Buisness Information Technology class (I'm in the 7th Grade), and she is always asking me questions on our assignments. She also asks me "How did you remember all of that?" or "How do you type so fast?", where I always reply "I don't know". I have also caught her licking her lips when she talked to me. I am so confused. Should I reply to her questions with a different answer? Is this so obvious that she likes me, and I should ask her out?(I have have gotten rejected before, so I'm not ballsy about it).

Rey on October 01, 2018:

What if both of you are too shy to talk to each other

Noah Martinez on September 29, 2018:

Well it seems i have like 90% of these signs and also we talked for seven hours straight yesterday but i still dont know if she likes me ;-;

Brian on September 27, 2018:

So a girl I like started talking to me two weeks after school started and eventually she asked me to the prom. (Which I said yes to of course) She is beautiful and really fun to talk to, I’m also pretty sure we know we like each other and can talk to each other about things she probably doesn’t talk about too often with her other friends when it’s just us, but I’m nervous to take the next step with physical stuff like hand holding and hugging because I feel that may be taking it too far or something. Any advice?

Trevor on September 24, 2018:

So....this is what happened. As a college assignment, my whole class and I went to a elementary school along with another class. After an hour or so of us learning about music, we got a 15 minute break. In the teachers lounge where some of us were, I saw a pretty brunette girl (who is in my class) siting at the big table next to another girl. I start talking to her, all goes well. Then a blonde girl I never saw before came up to me and started talking to me. She showed more interest so I talked to her instead. I saw that she had a nice smile. We two walked back to the classroom. I grabbed my stuff and sat next to the blonde instead of sitting near the brunette girl. In next group activity with 2 others and blonde, I noticed the brunette looking at me at least 3 or 4 times; even when I first sat next to blonde. I thought about it and lost all interest in blonde and interested in brunette. Towards the end of our lunch break it was just me a couple other people and the brunette.(blonde left for lunch). I sat next to brunette and talked some more. She showed interest in me (or at least it felt that way). She was smiling and seemed interested. Next activity, I sat next to brunette as we all played the Xylophone. I couldn't get the rhythm right(playing wrong keys). After teacher explained the next group activity involving rhythm, I asked her if she wanted to be in a group (together) She said: "I'm going to find a group that knows how to do rhythm." And walked away. (that was Saturday) On Monday after our college class got out, I tried to open the door for her, but she went through other door and walked faster than normal. when we got our math building, I opened the door for 2 girls in front of her and then held it for her. Not saying anything, she looked at me and kept walking. The end. Our math class is 3 semesters long. What does this mean and what do I do?

Devann on September 22, 2018:

We hug and I get that tingly feeling....

Mac Allan on September 20, 2018:

What should I do if were both too shy to make the first move

Clay on September 19, 2018:

I finally asked her and she said yes! This was helpful, thanks

Clay on September 10, 2018:

Dating* And we hug everyday now, and we have a picture war going on

Xplōd on September 05, 2018:

Good but when she said i like You i get nurved and freak out so tis is a good help thanks mate

Anonymous on August 30, 2018:

Today, "Peril" gave me a hug and a lot of people think we are daring

A fellow Human on August 28, 2018:

This is kinda helpful cause i hangout with these 2 girls frequently and one of them admitted they liked me then stopped liking me and the other one said she had a boyfriend but then she said she broke up with him and just said she is now single and her and I text so much, so i wanted to know if she liked me, now i will have to do an investigation, Thank you for this article

Anonymous on August 28, 2018:

Today,"Peril" hugged me

Anonymous on August 24, 2018:

Im in middle school and i think a girl liked me but im not sure. She says she's is a character from a book(Peril) and im a different character from that book(Clay) and they like each other, plus she changed her password to Clay, and i got her to read one of my favorite books, and she changed her password to that so i wouldnt know her password(i figured it out and she gave up on changing it)

internet browser on August 13, 2018:

I am a girl and I am trying to see if I'm doing this and it's noticeable. And I definitely do a few of these. This is very accurate. Except I do cross my arms in front of him all the time, so he might be getting the wrong message... great.

Gary on July 30, 2018:

Daniel, I have the same question as Chance. It would he great if you can give us advices.

Daniel Long (author) from All Over on July 29, 2018:

I never deliberately ignore messages, Peter, so I have no problem with you reminding me. It is hard to promptly answer the many questions I get from all my articles. Sometimes my life gets in the way ... but we all need some time out and a bit of fun!

Good luck with the girl. She’s lucky that you care so much!

Peter on July 28, 2018:

Thanks a lot and I'm really sorry if I sounded a bit rude, I just feel like she's the one, so I'm glad for any advice :-).

Daniel Long (author) from All Over on July 27, 2018:

Hi Peter. Sorry, it must have slipped past me. I’ve been away and when I travel I read and answer with my phone, not computer. Can be hard to keep track when scrolling up and down.

In answer to your earlier question, I don’t think you should be bothered that she doesn’t initiate conversations. It sounds like you both have things in common and get along well.

I’m guessing she’s a little shy and doesn’t yet feel confident approaching you. Keep making the effort to communicate with her and spend time with her because yes, I think she probably does like you.