Detailed Description

INFJs use their intuitions about the future to guide their behavior. Because of this, they’re capable of surviving in the most difficult situations. They quickly see through lies, hypocrisy, artifice, and insult. They often act as if they have plenty of time to spare and put things off until tomorrow. They’re inclined to optimism and believe in a bright future. Pictures and visions that they create in their minds are usually much more attractive to them than everyday life proves to be. They can calm people down, instill hope, and inspire them by telling of coming changes for the better. In conversation, they dislike focusing on mistakes of the past.



The INFJ is well versed in nuances and the concerns of emotional life. They’re able to discern when a person is in a good mood before turning to them with a request; therefore, it can be difficult to turn them down. They graciously respond to the humor in life. They tell jokes and anecdotes, act silly, and tease those close to them, evoking positive emotions in different ways. They’re sensitive to fights between people who are close to them. They seek reconciliation and readily agree to compromise. They’ll willingly sacrifice themselves to settle conflicts. They’re internally troubled. They go through a lot, but hide their agitation and bad mood behind a soft smile.



INFJs invest effort to look after their appearance. They know how to dress with style and good taste. Their graceful, aesthetic movements are pleasing to the eye. They’re flexible and adaptable. They don’t impose themselves on anybody. Instead, they put in the effort to adjust to the habits and tastes of the people around them. Sometimes they complain about their health, mistreatment, and apathy toward them; however, in extreme situations they’ll pull themselves together and suppress their pains. In a comfortable environment and around familiar acquaintances, they gain confidence and strength. In such situations, they may even allow themselves to give orders.



INFJs are not inclined to save up money or keep strict track of their finances. They may spend substantial sums on, from their point of view, aesthetically pleasing items that aren’t always useful. If they fall into financial difficulties, they know whom to turn to for help or find something that they can sell. In long-term relations, they don’t forget to account for pragmatic considerations. They have poor relations with people who force them to work at a pace or rhythm that’s unusual or uncomfortable for them. They hope for leniency, indulgences, and “smoke breaks” at work.



INFJs get along with people who are sure of themselves, strong, and determined. However, they don’t allow their relationships to turn into oppression – in such cases, they will openly assert the stupidity and primitiveness of blunt force. They have a good sense of which kind of force to apply to achieve their goals. They resort to forceful methods themselves only when they feel a physical threat to themselves or their loved ones. If they’re in a constant state of discomfort, they begin to behave provocatively, rudely, and aggressively; they do this to hide their soft nature. In the absence of strong leadership, INFJs become relaxed and disorganized to the point of carelessness. It’s easy to knock them off the right track or to tempt them with something that promises pleasant experiences. They easily acquire bad habits that take a lot of effort to get rid of.



When a situation is unclear and ambiguous, the mood of an INFJ spoils and they feel lost and confused. Chaos, disorganization, or a lack of support plunge them into despair. They start acting enthusiastically when they can rely on a thoughtful, logical plan, which is aligned with a clear end goal in sight. They need a variety of designs, schemes, and methods. In extreme situations, they become cool and unemotional. Their thoughts become clearer, and they find it easier to undertake informed decisions. They dislike strict, meticulous control. Constant firm discipline is not for them.



Life values and ideals are one of the weak points of an INFJ. They feel very worried if time passes, compromises and concessions become delayed, and still no resolution has been found. They’re intolerant of oppression and of having their or others’ abilities undermined. They live by the principle of non-interference into the internal world of the individual. However, they can give valuable advice on achieving one’s potential if asked. INFJs are usually very critical of their own abilities and often underestimate them. They’re afraid of being incompetent, useless, or unnecessary. They need compliments and encouragement. They’re good at choosing the most promising of several ideas. They search for an occupation that corresponds with their ideals of service to others.



INFJs support their attitudes with actions. INFJs can do a lot for the people they love. They’re adventurous and enterprising if they feel that they have the approval of others. They regularly perform their duties only when their team has an established system of interpersonal relations. They warn that personal hostility and discord will lead to the collapse of the project. They try to ensure that their professional relations are also accompanied by favorable informal ties. They contribute a harmonious beginning to a group. They persuade people and manage relations in a manner that seems most beneficial to them. They successfully relate to their acquaintances and use personal charm.