*Note: I am re-vamping this blog, because some readers took offense and I meant no ill will to anyone. However, I can see how my words could have been perceived in a negative manner. If ever I write something that you find offense, please feel free to ask for clarification! My blogs are written based around my personal experiences. I may in fact generalize, but I’m doing so in the compounds of my every day environment and from cultural background.

As some of you may already know, I have an obsession with the male anatomy. I personally think the penis is perfect, powerful, beautiful and a God’s gift to me! Therefore, it should be no surprise that my fascination of the cock extends to oral sex! It’s actually difficult for me to describe how deep my passion for giving head extends….

I personally don’t know a single man out there who doesn’t love having his rod sucked down to the last drop (however I am sure there are men who don’t feel that way)! Unfortunately, I do know many women who don’t love performing oral sex and it makes me kind of sad. I feel this way for a few reasons. Now these are by all means not the only reasons why women may not want to perform fellatio, there are many, but within my social group, these are the main contributors…1. A lot of my female friends were raised with such a negative attitude towards sex, that the an act such as giving head is seen as dirty and in essence becomes a turn off to some. And that sucks, and not in a good way, because if that barrier of thought could be torn down I guarantee more women would see the possible pleasure in getting a man off with her hands and mouth! 2. Women can (including myself in the beginning) feel very intimidated. Many man started pleasing themselves way before they were ever touched by a woman, and that notion can be very nerve-wrecking. It leaves us to feel we’re not doing it right, we don’t measure up, and it becomes discouraging. And when we become discouraged, we give up. Now there is nothing wrong with that, if that is what is right for you.

However, for myself it is different. My man takes a long time to cum, and I’m in no way, shape or form complaining about that! But when it comes to giving him oral pleasure/hand job it’s almost impossible to get him to his peak without assistance. This was and sometimes still is a massive blow to my ego. But it’s not about me and I’ve come to accept that. But I’m also very stubborn and not being able to get my man off alone was not part of my vibe, so I spent countless hours online reading about the art of sucking and hand jobs, watched videos and so forth. Now I will brag, because I got over myself, marched on and I am the only woman who has ever gotten my man to cum alone without any help!!! It may be gloating, but it was important to me, because it’s something sexually that only I got to do to him. It separated me from his past lovers. May be silly, but it wasn’t to me.

Lastly, I feel bad for some men (and to clarify, I mean the men who NEVER get it, and I feel just as bad for women who NEVER get oral sex from their partners~that will be another blog!). So, I personally know women who never (and when I say never, I mean it does not happen at all) give their husbands oral sex. And I am not saying in anyway, that these women are bad wives, girlfriends or lovers. They just won’t do it. I’ve asked some why? Most responded, it’s disgusting I hate it. I’ve even heard: that’s what hookers are for! So like I said before, to me these are imbedded ideas of an action that is not a negative thing, but is being perceived as one. Therefore, I’m simply think that when it comes to oral sex, it sucks (pun intended) that an act that is such a great turn on for so many men is not being met.

So back to my love for suckie, suckie!!! I think that I give amazing head (hubby is shaking his head yes!). Did I always, NO! One of the main reasons I think I do now, is simple….because I LOVE TO! WHEN I love doing something, I pour my heart and soul into it. And let me tell you, when I suck my man, I go the distance. And practice makes perfect and I’ve had 17 years to perfect it! And I don’t plan to ever leave him, so I gotta shake it up! Just when my man thinks I can’t get any better, I do! I would in all honesty give my man head 2-3 times a day if work, family and responsibilities didn’t come into play. But that’s not realistic! But I do try to blow my hubby as much as I can! And that is as much for my pleasure as it is for his. As written above, I love doing it. I believe you can even call it a fetish. I become extremely aroused just thinking about my hubby’s manhood and how it feels in my hands and mouth. So can a blow job be for a woman just as much as it is for a man. Yes, I think it can. I don’t even remember the last time my guy asked me for head. But I know I ask to suck his dick quite often. It’s late and my man is sitting in front of me and all this talk is….well….turning me on! So I have to go now cause my mouth is yearning for a nice juicy cock!

Just to be a little tease cause I’m feeling frisky, CUM back tomorrow and I’ll let you in on what went down……!

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