In 2016, Nsekhe donated tickets to Dallas police and their families to attend the Cowboys-Redskins game on Thanksgiving. He had watched his TV in horror as five officers were killed and nine others were wounded – a short drive from his home – following protests against the police killings of Alton Sterling in Baton Rouge, La., and Philando Castile in Falcon Heights, Minn.

He then went Christmas shopping for the daughter of Diamond Reynolds, Castile’s girlfriend.

Nsekhe said he wanted to support his community, but “didn’t want to pick a side.”

On the morning after the Bills’ fourth preseason game, Nsekhe provided backpacks, school supplies and haircuts for nearly 1,200 children, he said, at the Buffalo Niagara Convention Center.

He said the money came entirely out of his pocket.

“I found joy in making people smile, making kids smile,” Nsekhe said. “Because I’ve been there. I’ve had no hope. And to be that little beacon of hope for that little moment, that’s a beautiful thing.”

He understands that his past, and the shame that’s haunted him, and the support of friends, family and coaches have fueled his endless determination, molding him into the hardworking and wealthy man he is today.