There are two very different camps when it comes to spanking: those who are for it, and those who will never, ever discipline their kids that way.

So what do you do when you don't physically reprimand your kids, then you find out a family member DID?

In this case, these parents left their 5-year-old and 2-year-old kids with their cousin while they went out of town (they normally leave the kids with him if they travel - he also has a kid.)

Now, these parents don't spank their children, but just found out their cousin spanked their 5-year-old when she stayed with them.

What do you do?