laserlightcannon:

vexednature:

stargenderprincette: ok back to ableism: “what’s your damage” is ableist (literally implies that ur mentally or developmentally disabled/brain-damaged) soooo hmmm don’t say it perhaps a great alternative is “what’s your problem” !

actually no that’s not an alternative at all it’s the same thing

it’s still implying that the subject of the response has a mental “problem” so its still like, not great

really you can’t find an alternative way of saying it bc it all means the same thing: the person the statement is directed at must have some kind of problem or issue, mental, physical, or otherwise, bc they are saying or doing something i don’t like or understand

it’s just a shitty concept and there isn’t a way to reword it that makes it nicer ok