Look out, honey, ’cause I’m using technology Ain’t got time to make no apology The Stooges, “Search and Destroy”

For the last year or so, I’ve made a conscious effort to stop apologizing for bugs in my code.

Apologizing for bugs is very tempting. I used to do it a lot. When my code was involved in a failure that screwed up a coworker’s day or caused a user-facing problem, I’d say “Whoops! Sorry! I should’ve thought about that.”

The motivation for apologizing is sound: you want to do your best for the team. In principle, you could have prevented a problem if you’d just done something slightly different. Through this lens, apologizing for bugs may seem innocuous. But it contributes to a bunch of cultural anti-patterns:

It reinforces the idea that any one person or piece of code can be blamed for a given failure. Short of malice, this is never the case.

It gives the impression that, when you wrote the code, you should have written it better. This is a counterfactual that rarely holds up to examination.

It positions shame as the correct emotion to feel about bugs in your code: if you were a better engineer – a better teammate – the bug wouldn’t exist.

If you’re a more senior engineer on your team, the effects of these anti-patterns are magnified: people see you apologizing for bugs, so they think that they should be striving to write bug-free code. They may feel ashamed if their code has bugs.

Even if you don’t intellectually believe any of these fallacies about bugs, the act of apologizing reinforces them. Your teammates can’t know what you really believe; they can only know what you say and do.

Everyone knows that all code has bugs. Code is written under constraints. Deadlines. Goals other than quality. Imperfect knowledge of the future. Even your own skill as an engineer is a constraint. If we all tried to write perfect, bugless code, we’d never accomplish anything. So how does it make sense to apologize for bugs?

This rule I’ve made for myself forces me to distinguish between problems caused by constraints and problems caused by my own faults. If I really think I caused a problem through some discrete action (or lack of action), then that’s something I’ll apologize for. But if I wrote code that got something done, and it just so happens that it didn’t work in a given situation, then I have nothing to apologize for. There was always bound to be something.

Make a resolution not to apologize for bugs. Especially if you’re in a leadership position. It’s a simple way to tweak attitudes about mistakes and failure in a positive way.