Why You Should Pick The Most Compatible Person For You

Patience is the main key and you won’t regret it.

My definition of finding “The Right One” is that you can find many people who you can become happy and compatible with, but it’s your decision to select which one of them to become the right one for you. There are many people out there who are just like you.

What I mean by waiting for the right one is that you should show yourself more to the world, become more visible, go on more dates, AND wait until you meet something special who will become your Mr./Mrs. Right.

Waiting for the right one while being home all day and never being social will not help you find the right one, instead, it will make you single for a VERY long time and the waiting will last 30+ years if you don’t take actions to go on dates and become more sociable with people. Waiting forever can risk you being alone. Taking actions to find someone special to spend your life with can prevent the risk of being alone after waiting forever.

Settling down for less will make you feel lonely and miserable. The relationship doesn’t fulfill you because the two of you are on different levels. You’ll regret being in the relationship as you don’t feel like you can be yourself completely with that person.

“But I have tried finding the right one without any luck!”

There is one big thing that prevents people from finding true love: Insecurity. The other person can feel your insecurity around. You won’t be in a happy, fulfilling relationship with someone special if you’re not fulfilled with inner happiness from within first. You will always be unlucky in love unless you start to love yourself and deserving of finding true love. People can feel your energy. They can feel it if you’re insecure and have no love in your heart.

Don’t say:

“I’ve tried to find true love without luck!”

Instead, say:

“I’m so lucky to find true love”

What prevents you from finding true love?

You’re full of insecurity and negativity.

You’re a very jealous person.

You only focus on the person’s negative side.

You have an emotional blockage.

You don’t believe you deserve love.

You have serious problems such as drug addiction.

A messy, unstable, negative person will find a messy, unstable, negative partner. A healthy, stable, positive person will find a healthy, stable, positive person. What you feel inside is what you gonna attract in the real world. We attract the type of people who feel as miserable and insecure as us, or we can choose to attract the type of people who feel as happy and confident as us with high-quality traits. People don’t come into your life randomly, they are here for a reason. People in the outer world are a reflection of your inner world. What you feel inside is what you gonna get outside. If you’re miserable, you’ll match with people who are miserable. If you’re happy, you’ll match with people who are stable. If you’re a messed up person, you’ll match with people who are messed up in the head. If you’re a stable person, you’ll match with stable people.

You share the same energy with those you click with.

What benefits do you gain by picking the most compatible person for you?

It’s worth it in the end.

You can be yourself.

It improves your self-worth

It reminds you that true love still exists.

It makes you believe amazing people do exist.

The two of you have so much in common to share with each other.

You’re both so alike, yet so different (in a good way.)

Both of you get along so well.

The authenticity is real between you.

The relationship is stable and can last long.

The other person brings out the best in you.

You won’t feel lonely anymore.

When you’ve found the most compatible person for you, then you’ll be grateful for waiting than just rushing into a relationship quickly in fear of being lonely. You’ll be proud of yourself for waiting. There will be no regret. You won’t regret selecting the most compatible person for you. It’s better to be alone and happy than be with someone and be unhappy. And when you find that special person, you’ll not feel alone anymore. You’ll feel happy.

It’s okay to have high standards. It’s better than to have low standards and feel unhappy. You want someone who can reciprocate their love back to you. Someone who acknowledges your amazing personality and how you’re such an amazing woman/man. Having a compatible person in your life will make you feel less alone in this world because you’re sharing your life and adventure with someone as special as you.

Isn’t that amazing?

Isn’t that what you always wanted?

“Keep an open mind. The right person coming to you at the right time will change everything you ever thought was true.”

― Kate McGahan.

Don’t listen to people who say you’re “too picky” when selecting the right partner for you. They’re probably the ones who settle for less and still unhappy after multiple failed, miserable relationships of toxicity and lots of cheating. Having high standards doesn’t mean you’re “too picky” it simply means you respect yourself enough to not be disrespected and devalued. They don’t know what’s best for you. Only you know what’s best for you. Don’t let people mind your business when it comes to finding someone who fits your type. Your plan to pick the right person for you only gets ruined when you let other people get involved and tell you what’s right for you.

Don’t listen to others, listen to yourself.

Do what feels right for you and you’ll become happy in the long run.

❤