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It can be difficult not to fight with your siblings, but by talking to them and giving them some personal space to cool down, you can get along just fine. If it feels like you’re about to fight, take a deep breath, and count to 10 to help you manage your anger. Use the time to think about why your sibling is frustrated, since understanding what’s bothering them can help calm you down. Once you're calm, try talking to them about how they upset you, then listen to what they have to say to you. Make sure to give your sibling space if they're still angry, which will show you respect their feelings. For tips on how to involve your parents to help manage your fight, keep reading!