tooiconic:

itsahardlifewithoutyou-freddie:

If you defend BDSM of any kind, please do yourself a favour and search “race play” on tumblr in unlocked mode (DON’T do that if you are a minor// extreme images warning). While scrolling, keep in mind this is all consensual.

If you see no problem in this, congrats! now you excuse racism, which makes you a racist too. If you feel disgusted by this, ask yourself: why you condone it when it’s men-on-women? Why isn’t wrong for you that someone getts off on violence?



Race play and bdsm aren’t the same thing. I have no idea why you’re comparing them. It is a completely separate kink. What people do when they consentually fuck shouldn’t matter to you honestly.





No healthy person in bdsm is getting off on violence, same goes for race play. It’s all a power dynamic. The idea of having someone take control is arousing to subs. The idea of someone letting them take control is arousing to doms. It’s not always painful either btw. The pain is just a sensation in bdsm, it might as well be neck kissing to us. There is emence trust and fun in play (bdsm scene). Not every bdsm person is the same either, we all like different things. Bdsm can be violent and abusive when done incorrectly, sure, but that’s not proper bdsm, that’s abuse. You should do more research, hope that helped though.