Besides DH, my blog is the only place where I openly speak my mind sexually…My friends and family were raised in black and white, and definitely without any shades of grey! Therefore, at times it seems lonely, and I feel like a freak! I yearn for the day I can sit around a table sipping coffee or cocktails with friends and have the freedom to discuss anything. In recent years, I’ve gotten glimpses of my friends sexual sides….Giggles and slips of personal information drawn out by alcohol. However, I also see hesitation. The comment flies out faster then they could think it, and the cheeks turn red, nervous giggle, sometimes a cough, head goes down and ‘poof’ change of topic.

So I decided to embark on a mission, of attempting to get my friends to break free of their sexual inhibitions and let loose! But how to commence such operation?!? Through observation, I conceived that the topic of sex usually only arises when yours truly brings it up! Step 1: Easy enough, bring up random topics revolving around sex! Step 2: Booze helps, so supply alcohol! Unless we’re at work….and I need to keep my job, so no liquor there! Step 3: What happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas; set a tone where everyone feels secure and acknowledges that anything said remains within the circle. (All my posts in relation to my mission will be written with complete anonymity, I never mention names) Step 4: Be the leader. Be the first to open up, and express myself (with a filter at the beginning, I don’t want to send my friends into a state of shock). Step 5: Push the limits. With each conversation I’ll push the topics a little further, get a little deeper! (at least that way I can get an understanding of how far each friend is comfortable going).

And low and behold, if all fails at least I’ll have my blog and hopefully great followers who have the same need to share their dirty thoughts!

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