I see tons of posts about this from both women and men and both sides are wrong in their description of why women dress in revealing clothes. Here are the common responses from both sexes:

Women: I wear sexy clothes for myself. I like to feel confident and sexy in my own skin. These clothes are a way for me to feel confident and powerful. Plus, during warmer weather, wearing less clothing is more comfortable for the environment. I don’t like it when men stare and it makes me feel objectified and creeped out.

Men: I should be able to look at women’s bodies when they wear revealing clothes. As long as I’m not peering at them like a pervert it’s fine. If women didn’t want me to look they would cover up more. My sexual urges make it hard to avoid glancing at a woman’s cleavage or her ass in tight shorts.

What is ACTUALLY true: Women do wear revealing clothes for male attention. However YOU are not the kind of man she wants attention from. Women aren’t creeped out when Chris Hemaworth stares at her butt in the gym, because those tight leggings are doing exactly what they are supposed to. If she had planned to stay home all nigjt she wouldn’t have spent 2 hours on her hair and makeup that was supposedly “for herself”. Instead, she’s at the bar dressed to the nines hoping a man she is attracted to finds her attractive as well. So when balding billy and his friends stare at her from across the bar, they are creeping her out, because she didn’t do this for them. She did it for when that hot doctor walks through the door and buys her a drink.

Both sexes need to own up to how this really works and stop kidding themselves