When you purchase something using our links, FoE gets a kickback and can keep this site up.

When you purchase something using our links, FoE gets a kickback and can keep this site up.

When you purchase something using our links, FoE gets a kickback and can keep this site up.

When you purchase something using our links, FoE gets a kickback and can keep this site up.

This is not a dating site. We ask for you name and email to send you our monthly newsletters.

This is for you! Welcome to the lifestyle! If you are new or thinking about joining the lifestyle, take a look around at our Swingers 101 page. We hope that will answer all your questions. If not, join our Discord Chat and ask to your hearts content. If you are already in the lifestyle, well, the same goes for you too. If you are a couple or a Unicorn, Join us at our next Meet and Greet! See you soon! -John and Tiffany.

Welcome to the Swinging Lifestyle! We are based in Spokane, WA but have Friends of Ellis in Seattle, CDA, Idaho, Portland, Washington, Canada, INW, The Northwest.... But the information on this website is for anyone in, or looking to start in The Lifestyle.

We are a group of Swingers that started chatting on KIK. KIK is a mobile chat program that limits groups to 50 people. We we moved over to Discord, another mobile messaging app. Discord is also available on PC too. So, we decided to claim a corner of the internet and invite anyone else in the area and beyond to our group. We have daily picture themes, notify everyone else of hot dates and more. You must be 21+. We also have MONTHLY Meet and Greets! Every single month! If we have enough donations, we will throw a bigger party, like a takeover somewhere.

We have members that have have managed events at The Idaho White Rose, Multi-hotel takeovers around the Northwest. Others are professional counselors, in the BDSM Lifestyle, some are plain vanilla. This is the group to be in if you want to be part of The Lifestyle!

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Take a look around the site. We have set it up for the newbie in The Lifestyle. The owners have been doing Swingers 101 for years and are active in The Lifestyle. If you are experienced, you might learn something new in the lingo, rules, or next steps.

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If you have any questions, feel free to email and we will get back to you.