I'm an East Asian/ Germanic Am/Wf happa. I'm over six feet tall and look mostly white (my sisters look mixed and have darker skin tones, but I've never had someone recognize me as mixed race in the continental US). Growing up in Hawaii until my teenage years I have noticed a clear disparity in social aptitude and general happiness between AM/WF and WM/AF happas. My opinion is that more of the WM/AF are fucked in the head more due to their ambiguous appearance and how obvious it is that their mixed; other people's perceptions lead to that difficulty in identifying with one or the other culture.



Looking mostly white (white enough that a non-Asian can't tell the difference. Only real tell is slight chink eyes and Asian facial hair), it's not something I've had to think of more than a few times in the last ten years after leaving Hawaii. My father raised me with Asian discipline, which helped me immensely with my professional life later on, but I'm also very close to my mother's roots in the southern US.



tl;dr most WM/AF happas mental problems are due to ambiguous physical appearance and how most family and strangers react because of it, and their inability to deal with that.



Asian sized penises probably don't help either.