New Yorkers have developed a reputation for being able to handle whatever life throws at us, but let’s face it: we all get overwhelmed at times. The good news is with everything else going on at any given moment in the city, crying is not a transgression that many people will notice—so if you’re feeling frustrated, or sad, or angry, it’s okay to weep in public. (There’s even a website, NYC Crying Guide, that’s been chronicling the best and worst places to do so since 2014.)

Below, we’ve compiled a list of some of our editors’ picks for the best places in the city for a good sob session, from the Staten Island Ferry to the fancy bathrooms in Bryant Park. Got another spot where weeping openly won’t elicit odd stares? Let us know in the comments.