We unfortunately live in a world where men are hated and women are incentivized to deprive children of seeing their fathers.

The less the children see their father the more child support the mother gets. The original divorce itself is of course a bonanza of money taken from the father and given to the mother (and some lawyers and judges along the way).

Many women also get a sense of revenge or power over their ex-husbands by depriving him of seeing his children.

In a legal sense I would almost urge you to give up. You will never win via the official channels. Let the feminists have their false victory and read on.

So what can you do in this situation? First of all you should join our organization as we intend to change this system, stop the self pity and channel that anger: /v/emergencynation/2130938

Second what you can do is arm yourself with patience. The role of women is to turn toddlers into children and the role of men is to turn children into adults. It sucks that you will miss their childhood and you will feel intense feelings of parental alienation and depression, but you can still be there for them when they get older.

When they get older they will have their own agency and it will no longer matter what the system or their mothers say. In fact with all the anti-male and anti-natural-female propaganda they will likely grow up to hate all these people.

What you can do is that you can go to their institution or school and tell them that you love them and that daddy will always be there for them. Tell them straight out that you love them, but the system will not allow you to see them.

You will do this as often as you think you need and can get away with without them putting a restraining order on you.

When they get older staying in contact via letters and electronic communication is also a good idea. (but keep in mind the mother will hide letters she intercepts)

When your kids reach puberty they will now hold an increasingly powerful hatred towards the system and their mother's lies instead of blaming their "absent" father. At this age they will start to wonder about the opposite sex, future careers and what is right and wrong.

At this age no one can stop them from visiting you on their own.

It is at this age that you tell your sons that men are not monsters and that open relationships are bullshit. That they should use protection and/or focus on their studies and careers until they can afford a woman. Because yes; women are something you afford to start a family. That gender roles exist. Warn them against feminist laws and marriage which in the current environment would destroy them.

It is also at this age you tell your girls that slutting it up might be fun, but will ruin their lives and chances of having a happy family. That their fertility window will end and that starting a career might be better after having children. That being a feminist bitch will not attract a good man and that Tinder lays are not the same thing as a man actually committing to you.

It is also at this age that you may teach your children some of your skills whatever they may be. Maybe you fix cars or do wood working. Maybe you know how to use a computer. Whatever it is you should try to teach what you can as a fun activity.

And yes explain to them your political views. What you consider right and wrong and the concept of honor. Tell them socialism never worked in history and just how many people it has killed.

Your children might as rebellious teenagers reject everything you say. That is okay. At least they will have something to fall back on when they face the world and something to hold all the propaganda against for comparison.

As a man you are a rock. The feminists may have tried to destroy you, but you are a rock and a rock does not move. It is always there no matter the storms that come.