I need the young black men I know to realize that most of the white girls that they are dating/talking to/fcking with are using them as a part of their teenage rebellion.

To them, consciously or subconsciously, you are nothing but an accessory no different than a Michael Kors watch. You are a part of the “making XYZ angry” or the “making XYZ pay attention to me” plot.

That’s what you are to them aesthetic. You’re not the love of her life; you’re not the man of her dreams.

You are a thing to have, because she can.

And when she gets tired of you, she’ll move on and forget all about you.

If you’re fine with that?

My brother you need to love yourself.