Question

What can I do if my husband wants to spend more time with his friend than me?

Community Answer

Tell him his preference for spending more time with his friends makes you feel like you don't matter as much to him as they do. Remind him that in a marriage you must put each other first. Be positive, but do get the point across that big problems in a marriage start with seemingly innocent behaviors. Remind him that you love each other, and you don't want that love to ever be in jeopardy. Tell him, and show him with your actions, that love must be nurtured, worked at, and NEVER, EVER taken for granted; else it withers and dies.