My husband's first reaction went like this. "Is she going to open the door for me?" he wondered from outside. I didn't at first, then stood up to open it right as he did, and he comes in and says, "the first thing I see after wondering if you were gonna open the door for me is the word NO." Success! Thank you SO much!

(Video here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VgvsOFXI8uY)