On the Wish List screen be sure to click Manage list from the ••• More dropdown menu and change the Recipient, Email address, and Description fields to match your kinkster pseudonym. If you wish to receive gifts around your birthday then also change the Birthday field to a fake date close to your actual birthday.

While only the Recipient and Description fields are publicly visible the Email address can also be used to search for Wish Lists. Be sure to remove all traces of your vanilla identity. After all, you don’t want sweet Auntie Anne sending you an Ass Destroyer t-shirt for Christmas!

Additional steps

Luckily, the publicly-visible Recipient is totally separate from the Name field on the shipping address. So your legal name (or a name that won’t be questioned by your Postmaster) obviously needs to be on your shipping address. Caveat: I haven’t actually received an Amazon Wish List gift yet so I don’t actually know if Recipient is printed on the shipping label as well as Name.

It should be safe to use an honorary with legal first name while omitting your last name. For example Miss Kay.

But I’m not sure what the Phone number is used for outside of the scope of shipping. It’s possible that it may be used for search and I’m fairly certain that Amazon uses all data at their disposal to link identities together for advertising purposes.

So I’d take it a step further and use a Google Voice or dedicated kinkster mobile number for the Phone number field when adding a shipping address. After all, you do have a dedicated kinkster mobile and you don’t mix your vanilla identity and kinkster pseudonym on the same smartphone, right?

Tinfoil Hat Thinking

As an oldschool hacker my mind dives deep down rabbithole scenarios. The Third party shipping agreement checkbox jumped out at me.