mirandaadria:

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so ive been told but i got no regrets going there on a lady who readily and casually disregards the feelings of others who are young, naive and in emotionally turbulent places





if anything i really hope her being a massive bitch was the reason her husband left her and not some other horrific valid reason like being a cheating shithead or abusive asshole

I’m going to admit this in public because honestly, this divorce is going to happen regardless of what my soon-to-be ex-husband thinks of me, so…

Yes, actually, he WAS abusive. Emotionally abusive more than anything else, but abusive nonetheless. The breaking point was when he was adamant about getting into an argument with me and wouldn’t leave me alone when I asked him to. He followed me up and down the stairs as I’m telling him to go away and that I “didn’t want to discuss it right now.” Finally, I got angry and pushed his face away from mine because he kept getting into it, and he grabbed my arm. I ran into the bathroom and he pounded on the door, screaming and demanding that I open it and let me in, all while I was crying and more terrified than I’d ever been in my life.

When he finally calmed down, he asked me nicely to open the door. When I finally opened it, he came and hugged me. And you know what he said? “You shouldn’t have made me so mad.”

So congratulations, this is the first time I’ve cried since this entire drama started, because I let a man break me down into a shell of who I used to be. I let him take 7 years of my life that I’m never getting back. A man who never seemed to have any time for anything I was interested in, would blame me for getting angry and call me “overemotional”, who would actually mock me in front of his friends, who no one has seen this side except for me.

Happy now?