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If you want to break up a couple, get the process rolling by asking innocent questions about the relationship that might lead to flaws that you can exploit. For example, if one of the people in the couple is upset one day, ask why and encourage them to keep talking about their feelings, especially if their partner is the reason they’re upset. However, don’t openly criticize the relationship, as this might make them feel defensive and more determined to make things work. As they continue to open up about the cracks in their relationship, avoid saying something like “you deserve so much better,” since this will make you seem suspicious. Instead, act confused and ask them to keep talking about the things in their relationship that upset them. Eventually, position yourself as a reliable friend and the person that they would rather date instead. For more help, including how to react appropriately if they break up, scroll down.