Despite her domestic violence claims, murder suspect Barbara Sheehan was actually living the high life, jet-setting for years on exotic vacations with her husband before she shot him dead with two guns as they prepared for another trip, prosecutors said today.

Refuting Sheehan’s testimony that she feared going away with Raymond, her ex cop husband, prosecutor Debra Pomodore, during her cross examination, ran down a list of destinations that could fill a glossy travel magazine: Las Vegas, the Dominican Republic the Bahamas, Lake George, Disney World and the Jersey Shore.

Earlier Sheehan, 50, had testified that their worst trip had been in 2007 to Jamaica, where she said Raymond smashed her head against a cinder-block wall.

But a month later, Pomodore pointed out, they were in San Diego, reenacting the famous V-J Day photo, where the sailor is kissing the nurse in the middle of Times Square.

“Isn’t this the kind of life you had with your husband?” Pomodore asked.

Six months later, Raymond was dead. Sheehan says she shot him in self defense after he pointed a gun at her during an argument in their Howard Beach home. She was charged with murder and is free on $1 million bail.

Pomodore steered the questioning to Sheehan’s testimony about Raymond’s kinky sex life. Sheehan had claimed Raymond never raped her, but made her uncomfortable with his women’s clothes and diaper stunts, which she said she was forced to watch.

Pomodore suggested that Sheehan knew and approved of Raymond’s lifestyle because they shared an email address that was used to solicit kinky sex dates.The prosecutor asked Sheehan if she suspected her husband were having an affair.

“I didn’t care that he wasn’t sleeping with me,” Sheehan told jurors. “If I could have found out he was having an affair it was easier for me to get out of the marriage.”

Pomodore struck quickly.

“You’d leave if he was having an affair,” the prosecutor said, “but you wouldn’t leave if he were beating you?”