"My heart has been broken, and now all I can feel is sadness and pain. J can't seem to make myself get over it because even if I just heard their name, it hurts. Do you think that maybe Eli can try and cheer me up because right now I'm just sad."

ELI: First, I want you to know that I am always here for you. Not just me, but your friends, your family, and everyone surrounding you. There is nothing but love around you.

ELI: Second, don’t you dare think of it as your loss. Whatever happened, and however it happened, it is their loss, and they should honestly be quite upset that they lost such a catch as you. You are a wonderful person, and you should never let anything that happens change that.

ELI: Now, always remember that there are times in your life that outcomes are out of your hands. This is one of those times. I know it’s hard to hear, but sometimes, you cannot stop these things from happening.

ELI: That being said, you shouldn’t linger on this for a long time. Of course, being sad is okay and understandable, but eventually, you must move on. Remember that with or without that person, you are still you, and nothing or no one can redefine you. You are your own person, you are strong, and you can and will make it through this.

ELI: Again, anon, I’m sorry that you’ve been put into this situation. Keep your head held high, keep your mind off of that person, and you will get through. Reach out for those bright days that I promise are coming soon!

