This is just another rant on $unts; so if you’re one of these rainbow and butterfly types, who can’t handle negative $Hit, discontinue reading. I am NOT looking for a solution here; simply venting and want to know that other guys experience this.

This elderly lady I know from the neighborhood had her birthday party tonight at the local watering hole. I was not invited, for reasons to be stated soon. One of the “ladies” who was present (in my age bracket who was a guest), was someone I met at a bar, and had a one night stand with – we met while drinking out over 2 years ago, and we ended up making out at the bar, then when I was leaving she promptly said –

“I’m going home with you”.

Had a one night stand, and she played the whole attached thing with me (i.e. the next morning wants to go shopping and buys tooth paste, and other such items and wants to leave them at my pad with the caveat of “I HOPE no other girl uses these”).

She was leaving her *mark* in order to show that we were an ‘item’; which would be fine, but we were NOT yet an item. I just met her 24 hours prior, and she was being a slut having a one night stand with me.

Needless to say, it didn’t take me long to end this relationship.

Back to the point – I knew several people at this birthday event, and took the birthday girl ( a lady in her 70’s) to the bar to buy her a drink. Birthday girl said – “You shouldn’t come to the table, *she* (the one night stand girl whom I met all of them through) doesn’t want to see you”.

This chick I had a one night stand with (over 2 or 3 years ago) is now married. Who gives a fu$k if I am at the table? I’m still single, she’s the one who is married, she should feel comfterable! Her “hubby” isn’t there, because he’s in jail for his 3rd fu$king DUI.

Where are all of these strong, independent, women?

If women are so fu$king strong, then why can’t they handle me being at their fu$King table for a birthday party for her friends, which I know?

I texted one of the girls I know from the party tonight and told her precisely that-

“you’re friend is married now. We had consensual sex. What is the fu$king problem if I’m at the table? Where are all of these “strong, independent, women” I keep hearing about? She definitely isn’t one of them!

I also told her, that her friend is acting like a petulant child; and she needs to grow up.

I am *so* sick of this kind of BS. They are not strong, nor independent. They are petulant children.

They are insane.