Peace and love to those who are suffering.

Ella Trager

New York

To the Editor:

The coronavirus has disrupted my life like a California wildfire. I am a public school substitute teacher. Since the schools are closed, I cannot teach. If I can’t teach, I don’t get paid. If I don’t get paid, I can’t pay my bills or buy food and other necessities.

Because of the coronavirus, two of the most endearing institutions in my life are also closed: the library and the church. I am a writer. Since the library is closed, I can’t check out books, consult with library staff or use the internet. Without the church, I can’t enjoy fellowship with other congregants, listen to heavenly spiritual music or hear the preacher preach.

I cope by asking friends and family for financial assistance and using the last of my money to buy food.

Kathryn L. Harris

Washington

To the Editor:

My 93-year-old mother, who has Alzheimer’s, is on hospice care in a nursing home that is closed to visitors. The staff members keep me updated and have assured me that I can be with her if she is close to death. I know that my mother is well cared for. I have spent a lot of time with her over the past few years as she has lost her cognitive and bodily functions. I have said all that needs to be said and done all that I can do. I have taken care of her. If she dies now, and I am not there, well, I have to be OK with that. I have no regrets.

What regrets do you have? If you’re waiting for the perfect time to say “I love you” or “I’m sorry” or “how can I help?,” that time is now. Life gets disrupted and you may not have another chance.

Kathleen Thies

Bedford, N.H.

To the Editor:

March has always been the month of birthday celebrations in my family. My late father, mother, me, brother and son. I started self-isolation on my son’s birthday last Saturday, March 14. I will be alone on my 74th birthday. I sadly accept that I cannot visit my mother at her assisted-living facility when she turns 97.

Every time I wash my hands following the “Happy Birthday” rule, I sing to one of these people whom I love so much, very thankful that we are alive and well.