Boosting Your Libido with Sex Toys

Health and Sex; are they connected? The answer is a resounding YES!

Sex is a natural part of life packed with health benefits that go far beyond the bedroom. A research conducted by Wilkes University found that sex increased an antibody directly related to a healthy immune system in young adults having sex one to two times a week compared to those having sex less often. For women, it improves bladder control and for men it may help in reducing the risk of prostate cancer.

Sex counts as exercise, lowers blood pressure, lowers the risk of heart attack; and according to Barry R. Komisaruk, PhD, Professor at Rutgers State University of New Jersey, sex lessens pain with or without orgasm. Lauren Streicher, MD, says having sex will improve libido and make sex better.

This is all great to hear; but what about those who struggle with low or no sexual desire? The good news is boosting your libido with sexy toys can be the solution.

Losing the desire for sex is common and for good reason; there are very real biological components that exist like stress, lack of sleep, medication, etc. Scientific research conducted by respected organizations and institutions prove the role sex toys play in a healthy libido. A woman’s hormone pattern affects her libido causing her sex drive to differ during her 28-day cycle; and as men age their testosterone levels decrease.

Sex Toys Boost a Woman’s Libido

The vibrator -- it has been around for years and is probably the most commonly used sex toy. A recent study, conducted by author and researcher, Debby Herbenick, Ph.D, M.P.H., Co-Director at The Center for Sexual Health Promotion surveyed 2,000 women for Psychology Today asking them about their vibrator use; more than half admitted to using a vibrator.

Despite the misnomer of vibrators being used as solo-toys, the study shows 41% of women had used a vibrator with a partner during foreplay and 37% used one while having intercourse. The study also found women using vibrators experienced higher levels of desire, lubrication and arousal, and reported less pain during intercourse and more orgasms.

The study’s findings tell us what women who use sex toys already know; sex toys enhance the sexual experience, rather than diminish interest, boosting a woman’s libido and sexual drive.

There are hundreds of vibrators to choose from; small, large, remote controlled, rechargeable and waterproof. One speed, dual speeds and multi-level speeds along with those that just vibrate as their name implies and those that have motion and/or pattern settings all ranging from gentle to intense for a more pleasurable experience. For someone new to vibrators, selecting the right one may seem a bit overwhelming, but with a little information choosing the right one to help increase your libido will be easier.

Sex Toys Boost a Man’s Libido

For men, low testosterone levels as he ages, low thyroid hormone levels, and though rare, the presence of high levels of prolactin and erectile dysfunction can be the culprit of a low libido. For both women and men libido levels can be affected by prescribed medication, other drug use or chronic illnesses. Just like with women, a vibrator and other sex toys such as the ones mentioned below can boost a man’s libido.

Vibrators have many features that allow a woman to stay in her “comfort zone”. They come in different shapes, sizes and colors, and can be discreetly stored just about anywhere, some even in a purse like the We-Vibe Tango Vibrator. The convenience of rechargeable battery-operated models makes it a great sex toy. Depending on choice of preference, prices can be very affordable and for vibrators offering different styles and features, the price increases. More good news about vibrators is they are enjoyable with or without a partner, and make a good choice for increasing sexual desire, lubrication and your libido.

Depending on your and your partner’s comfort level, another very effective toy to increase libido for either of you, or both, is a sex app. Smartphone apps exist for everything imaginable, so it should be no surprise sex apps are available for download at a nominal cost or for free. We pulled together some great suggestions for you in 9 Sexy Apps Worth Downloading and 9 Intimate Apps for Couples.

OhMiBod bluemotion steps-up pleasuring your partner anywhere at any time. A first of its kind makes “vibrating panties” possible with a WiFi or 3G connection. Virtual sex has never been easier or more fun. A Smartphone app controls this wearable vibrator and works by translating sound into different vibration patterns as well as preset patterns. The remote to operate this toy is free for download on iTunes and Google Play Stores.

Not to be outdone, the G-spot has its moment of glory too. Also on the market is the OhMiBod NEX bluemotion G-spot Vibrator with features like preset patterns, motion control, audio controls (yes, this one translates sound into vibration patterns too), an orgasm tracker and options for private and public accounts.

Another couples’ sex toy, is the compact body-hugging We-Vibe 4 Plus Vibrator controlled by its remote control or a Smartphone via a free app. This sex toy allows both partners to experience pleasure at the same time. It delivers strong, intense vibrations to her G-spot and the clitoris while he feels vibration on his penis. There is also a We-Vibe 4 Plus App Only Vibrator that delivers the same pleasure that is controlled by a free Smartphone app.

If you are more of a hands-free (and strap free) lover, the Eva by Dame Couples Vibrator is the sex toy to try for booting your libido. This first of its kind flexible vibrator is unique in that it can be used during intercourse resting comfortably under the labia majora. Its wings help to keep it in place omitting the need for straps or panties.

Strapless strap on dildos and double dildos are also fun sex toys for couples to boost libido. Some are worn and held into place by clenching the vaginal muscles holding the curved bulb in place without a harness. Others can be worn with a harness. They are used by inserting one end into the vagina to stimulate the G-spot and cradle the clitoris for stimulation; with the other end used either for pegging inserted anally or vaginally into your partner.

Whether you are a traditional or adventurous love maker and pleasure seeker, boosting your libido with sex toys is something that can help you rediscover your sex drive and experience more intense orgasms.

The question now is, what are you waiting for?