Ummm no. A marginalized person hating the dominant group is NOT racist, sexist, etc. because they don’t have the institutional power to hurt that group. Redefining words to reflect the reality of racism, sexism, and other forms of oppression is necessary to create movements that actually address the roots of these problems.

Yeah, feeling like someone hates you for being white/male/straight/cis feels shitty, but maybe your brief discomfort will give you some perspective on what it’s like to be hated for your identity AND live in a society that denies you equal access to education, resources, jobs, safety, and basic human dignity because of who you are. Because if you’re part of the dominant group, you don’t have to deal with the second part.