We recently got a very good & important question from a user of ours. We felt that instead of replying just to him, we’d make a new post. This is a question that many guys looking for TS/TG Girls ask...





"To whomever could advise....

I am a 32 yr old bi-sexual man in the closet and with the simple minded family i come from will have to live my entire life closeted. However, having failed relationship 1 after another with both men and women, i've always found myself waiting, looking, and/or hoping to find a transexual girl to have a relationship with for i find myself more attracted to women physically, but actually prefer men sexually. So the dilemma here is i love a beautiful woman, but they don’t have the parts i need to be happy in a relationship. I find it difficult to find a transgendered girl that has all the qualities even hopes and dreams that most women have as far as their man is concerned. what i mean with that is, like how do i go about pursuing or even locating a transgendered girl that looks, sounds, maybe even behaves like the majority of women, that wants a man/spouse, with the secrets i have and have to keep, that just wants a man to love her, work hard for her, and mostly a long happy life with a man, that would want her to keep the taboo (if u will 4 sake of ppl who cant handle or accept ppl for being born the way we r) of our lives to us. I've always been attracted to transgendered women ever since i figured out i was bi, and at times fantacise of becoming transgender girl myself, but as i said earlier, that will never be an option for me because of my situation. I am very masculine man, that even gets told often by my fellow gays that they would never assume or much less even approach me in a flirting or curious manner because of my appearance is intimidating. Never the less here i am, and am who i am, and know what i want and all that can work for me is a transgendered girl, who can appreciate, and sympathise, love, and stand by her man(myself) in my particular, but i'm sure very common situation... Thank you for reading my plea for advice in what to do about my unfortunate position...

Curt, from illinois"







By Seditio