The government sees the low birth rate as a potential source of instability and is doing all it can to encourage marriage

Young Chinese women have been urged to lower their sights in marriage and settle for a “more or less OK” partner rather than holding out for a soulmate.

The recommendation in state media is part of an official effort to increase the birth rate amid concern about a rapidly ageing population.

“Marriage is a process of tolerating each other, and it’s impossible that everything goes your way,” said an editorial which first appeared in the regional party-run newspaper Sichuan Daily, and has since been distributed by the more influential People’s Daily.

“Change your attitude, return to the reality. Maybe there’ll be some imperfection, but your life will be full for it.”

The government wants people anchored by family and sees the low birth rate