Bluekoalabear Fri 28-Dec-18 23:05:32

DH and have been together for 10 years and have 2 DC. We've had our fair share of ups and downs as any couple does but for the most part we are great and he is a great dad. He tells me he loves me and we enjoy eachothers company. The only issue is that he likes to go round to his friends house to drink beer, play games and generally chill. Around 3-4 times a week. He normally goes out at around 6pm so before the children go to bed and gets home any time between 11 and 12. His friend lives with his long term girlfriend and they all hang out together often with other friends. I have no issue with him seeing his friends at all but I can't wrap my head around how he can not want to be at home so much. He tells me he is going out and asks if I mind and to be honest I end up just saying yes whatever as I feel like he should want to be at home with me in the evening and not forced. I'm happy to spend the evening alone watching netflix and am not pining for his company but I just find it strange. Is it strange?