fatalefeminine:

i am sick of seeing ‘die cis scum’, why is okay for people to use is, and people who say ‘don’t take it as an insult, it’s a joke’, clearly i’m missing the point.

You are missing the point, and it’s pretty obvious.

you can’t demean an entire gender of people because a few have wronged you. not everyone who is cis is out to hate you, the same way not every trans person is saying this, i understand that.

Wanna know the problem? Weeding out the “good” cis people from the shitty ones who shit all over trans* people. Cis people like you, who tone police and police the words of trans* people, who are sick of being shit on.

you want to be accepted and rightly so, but keep pushing it in peoples faces that you have been altered (i guess), just puts more a barrier between the cis people and the not.

Altered? EXCUSE YOU? Wtf is that supposed to mean? I mean, I’m guessing you’re referring to people who choose to have gender reassignment surgery, in which case, you just erased myself and a shitton of other trans* people who choose not to use hormones/have surgery/what have you.

for example: big brother, a reality tv show in the uk. a guy went on and in the short video it shows day life, what kind of person he is etc etc, but at the end of this video he said he used to be female. now that pissed me off, because if you have felt so wrong in your past body, why always bring it up, and this goes for real life too.

Oh, I don’t know. Maybe because talking about it increases visibility, decreases stigmatizing of people who are trans*, and it tells their story to HELP PEOPLE UNDERSTAND?!

if we are to accept you at face value or what you identify as, then why bring up what you used to be.

Because that’s his prerogative. If he wants to talk about his life, that’s his right. And you have no right to shit on him because he talks about it. Ever stop to think that his life before, oh I dunno, shaped who he is as a person, because he had to live that life? Shut. The fuck. UP.

isn’t putting more labels on us, on other humans, just push you further away from being accepted.

That should give you an idea of how common your argument is. “If you talk about it, it doesn’t go away!” Because that’s worked SO WELL SO FAR. *facepalm* Jesus christ, your ignorance is fucking blinding.

if this was flipped around and us ‘cis’ people was saying ‘die trans scum’, it would be deemed wrong and we would be called transphobic (is that a word, i assume it is).

…Oh my god. I cannot believe you need this explained. But I’ll explain it. Trans* people say “Die cis scum”, cis fee-fees get hurt. Cis people say “Die trans* scum,” TRANS* PEOPLE DIE, YOU DIPSHIT. Nothing happens when trans* people say “Die cis scum”! It’s an expression of disgust, anger and frustration with mistreatment at the hands of cis people who are scum. IT’S NOT DIRECTED AT ALL CIS PEOPLE, JUST THE SHITTY ONES, AND IT’S NOT THE SAME AS THE PEOPLE WHO ARE ACTIVELY KILLING TRANS* PEOPLE SAYING “DIE TRANS* SCUM”!

but i saw a post from a lesbian on facebook saying heterophobia isn’t a thing, but this die cis scum seems to be that.

No, heterophobia is not a thing, and you show your complete lack of understanding once again by confusing hetero with cis. The word you’d be looking for is cisphobia, which isn’t a thing either, as any fearfulness of cis people by trans* people is justified, considering the treatment of trans* people at the hands of cis people.

it feels like we should apologize for being cis, and to be honest, i still don’t see the need for another fucking term to call myself.

No one’s asking you to apologize for being cis, ffs. However, an examination of the advantages you have being cis would be nice. And of course you wouldn’t see the need to label yourself, since you’ve been considered the norm since the beginning of time. You see yourself as “normal”, so why apply a label to that, right? Seriously, this is baffling.

YOU ARE CIS. It’s not a label, it’s a fact. If your gender identity/expression matches your damn body, you’re cis. Plain and simple. Don’t like it? Oh well. It’s not a matter for discussion, it’s fact.

what difference does it make if i call myself female, and not cis female.

I’m not touching this one. If you don’t get it by now, you never will.

now my other post got me hate, which note: those questions were rhetorical, not serious.

I have no clue about this post, and I’m not going to bother looking, because I can already tell from this post I’d want to tear my hair out.

but people said some people identify as neither gender.

Some people don’t. Some people are bigender, or neutrois, or any other number of gender identities.

but it still makes little sense about the some of the trans community.

Then ask respectful questions, read the tags here on tumblr for firsthand accounts, do research and educate yourself. It’s that damned simple.

is trans now considered a gender? because as far as i understand trans, it’s you feel you were born in the wrong gender body, so you would go from male to female, or female to male, so if you don’t say you are either, than what are you, gender wise.

You’ve just proven, once again, you have no clue what you’re talking about and need to shut the fuck up and read. It’s that. Fucking. Simple. For instance, I’m genderfluid. I go between one gender and another. I’m not going to explain it any further than that, because really, I don’t care enough to explain to someone as ignorant as you.

i’ll get called ignorant for this, and actually i’m fucking open minded about everything.

No you’re fucking not, and this post proves it, since you shit all over trans* people in it.

your sexuality or gender doesn’t mean anything to me, it doesn’t bother me.

It doesn’t mean anything to you, but it means a fuck of a lot to me, asshole. Thanks for shitting on me, personally, once again. I don’t need your fucking validation, or you telling me that my identity doesn’t matter to you. Thank you for telling me that it’s nbd. I feel SO much better now knowing that my experiences don’t matter to some asshole online.

but keep in mind, this is the same community of people who say things like ‘my sexuality or my gender isn’t who i am’, so why feel the need to insult ours because we didn’t challenge it growing up.

Go fuck yourself.