The importance of a sofa day

I am one of those people who try to pack as much living in as I can. The one thing I seem to struggle with is how to include rest into this life of mine. This week I learnt a powerful lesson.

I plan my life and try to pack in as much work, play, socialising and self improvement. I laugh about the fact that I have a real job and my hobby jobs (blogging and crafting). I know I need to rest but, there is a part of me that simply loves life. The famous line from the Dead Poet’s Society lives in my brain – Seize the day!

I landed up at the doctor this week literally shaking with fatigue. Four days later I still hadn’t stopped and gave myself a bit of a fright when I realised that I was literally too tired to stand up. It is scary enough that it took four days for the penny to drop.

The Doctor kindly explained that people who are dealing with what I am dealing with, couldn’t do what I do. The word she used was comobidity (I had to google it when I got home). Basically it means dealing with more than one disease at a time.

I suffer from a number of conditions including diabetes, arthritis and pernicious anaemia, all which contribute to my tiredness. Methotrexate treatment doesn’t help either, nor pain which makes me tired too. There are weeks where I am in pain every day.

Using my rational mind I can understand why we need to rest, however, I find it very hard to do. I just have this burning need to pack as much life in as I can. This week I learnt a hard lesson. I pushed myself until I literally stopped.

So today, a Sunday I have rested. I wanted to share a few lessons that I have revisited some thoughts about rest that I need to remember.

We all need to rest. Don’t forget that. True rest is for the mind, the body, the spirit and emotions. It is ok to switch your phone off and take time out. A TV marathon never killed anyone Meditation is a mighty powerful form of rest If you can, prepare for your day of rest by stocking up on snack (healthy is good, but a little indulgence isn’t the ned of the world either. Drink lots of water – it gives your system a rest An early night is a good idea Listen to your body Spend a little of your rest time contemplating the good things in your life. Your friendship circle, your beautiful home and the joy of a day where you can simply do nothing.

I am sure that my day of rest will set up for the rest of the week. All I need to do now is remember to include rest in my schedule. Please feel free to share, especially if you know people who forget the importance of rest and relaxation.

Kerry xx