jeysiec:

just-shower-thoughts:

Confidence is not “she will like me”. Confidence is “I’ll be fine whether she likes me or not”

This would mean you should avoid confident guys as much as possible.

Because think about it: Obviously the guy didn’t actually give any shits about you if he isn’t at all disappointed if you reject him.Only someone who didn’t care about you and saw you as just another girl to fuck is going to “be fine”.

Conversely, if a guy had any actual true feelings for you, he’s going to feel at least a little bad if you reject him; that’s how feelings work.

P.S. Seriously, kinda disturbed by the people agreeing with this in the notes. Have these people ever actually experienced normal human feelings?