himteckerjam:

jeankd:

severemunchies: petersaintpeter: jeankd: damnedholyvessel: fightcolorism: jeankd: fightcolorism: jeankd: It influences who they date, marry, and choose to love. Black women do the same as well. Ok well, I’m speaking on the most pervasive aspects of the issue so, you can always feel free to go make your own post about what black women do, but FYI black women choose black men 70% of the time, where are black men choose black women 10% of the time. This is generally in online dating. Not to mention that 75% of interracial marriages are black men and “other’, but black women don’t even constitute 6% of that. Thank you for the stats, I also agree with your original post and was in no way trying to jack this or side track the conversation. When I initially saw this it related to a conversation I was having prior. If my tone was misread, sorry. please just admit when you are wrong and saying “thanks for the stats” is like saying it is required that she break all this systemic baggage statistically in order for it to be validated by you. also you could have researched it yourself or be more aware. it seems like you’re trying to side track the conversation when you say “thanks for the stats” which shows a change in perspective upon being shown statistics to prove something that manifests materially wherever we go so willful blindness must come into play to not see it. the conversation you had prior clearly didn’t dissect the situation enough and made the assumption that black women can be just as oppressive to black men. you’re saying sorry that the person “misread” your tone which is very condescending and patronizing and is really saying “sorry you were too dumb to understand what I was really saying” when you should really say sorry for failing to understand race and gender coming together to make colorism against black women from black men a very serious problem that black men systemically partake in. black women just can’t partake in systemic colorism against black men. it doesn’t work like that since being men, they have male privilege in this patriarchal, white supremacist society. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ False false and false. Stop spreading this bullshit and demonizing black men. ^ they’ll never stop sadly it seems. I see posts like this 150x a day on here. So if you see the post 150x a day, you gonna deny that it’s a problem, because you feel some type of way? Like. WTF is wrong with admitting the issue of colorism and addressing it, because it is very real. I’m not with y’all shits today. For real.

“What about the menz”



But @petersaintpeter​, severemunchies you cant sit there and cry false when @jeankd​ just provided you with the math.

http://abcnews.go.com/WN/Media/black-women-marry-interracial-marriage-common/story?id=10830719

Black men and Asian women date interracially the most. Black men edge out Asian women. Black women date interracially the least.









Take your “demonizing black men” and spin on it. In fact, no other race is as rancid to their femmes as Black men.



I swear any time the shit that Black women face FROM BLACK MEN is brought up, some dude always has to cry about “demonizing” or “Generalizing” rather than looking to his left and right at all his other niggas and knowing damned well he has seen and heard if not participated in circlejerks concerning how horrible Black women are and how dudes are praised for getting a snowbunny or “spanish” girl.