Also, being online right now doesn't mean someone isn't busy. Sometimes you're doing something and take ONE small moment to look at the site, then run back to your task at hand. And you automatically are assumed to be not busy and are accordingly villified.



A little empathy for people goes a long way.



so true! ill have a stack of PM's ill need to reply to while at work, ill check GH randomly for a second while on break and think "i hope these dudes dont think im ignoring them" haha!i ran into an issue with stancato a couple months back when i sent him $$$ for a printed realforce set. Didnt hear from him in 3 days so i messaged him asking for an update, the next day he told me he was having personal issues and would get them out ASAP. Well thats cool, atleast he informed me he was still there. A couple days later i messaged him again to see if he had shipped yet. Let me add he was constantly bumping his classifieds to trade his brobot, so i was getting annoyed feeling i was being thrown on the backburner. After a week of not sending me the caps i pm'd asking for my money back because i got the assumption the caps were never going to be sent. He finally messaged me back saying he would refund my money. 2 days later i still hadnt received my money back, so i messaged him telling him i was interested in buying his HHKB but he needs to send me my money back first. Well sure enough he sent my money back right away, and pestered me every single day to buy his HHKB. The whole ordeal left a bad taste in my mouth and he has been on my ignore list ever since.