I’ve mentioned before that I’m somewhat surprised at the idea of a drawing a battle line between gun owners and doctors. There’s no reason we should be opponents, but we are, and that won’t change anytime soon.

However, it seems some see these lines as natural. For example, an attorney writing for Harvard’s website seems to think that doctors should be permitted to speak to their patients about guns–a matter I tend to agree with. I don’t like the government telling people what they can’t say or who they can’t say it to–but that they probably should talk about them.

The author brings up the case of a suicidal individual as evidence of when a physician may need to talk about guns, and I’m fine with that. For example, if one of my kids was feeling that way and his or her doctor was talking to me about it and mentioned the need to make sure guns–as well as any other weapon, to be sure–are out of reach, that would be fine. That’s a prime example of a doctor doing it right.

Where things break down, however, is the idea that guns in my home are the business of anyone other than me and my family. The statistics claiming that having a gun in the home will raise your risk of being shot has been debunked countless times in countless places. It’s not true. The sheer number of law-abiding gun owners in this country who have never been injured, nor has anyone in their family, is a testament to this fact.

The truth of the matter is that doctors need to understand that whether or not I own a gun isn’t any of their business. A pediatrician mentioning safe storage of firearms in passing without inquiring whether I own a gun or not is fine, but interrogating me to find out if I have a firearm so I can be lectured about the dangers of said firearm isn’t. Frankly, if a doctor did that to me, I’d walk out of his office right then, but many won’t. They view doctors as authorities and will meekly accept whatever the doctor says.

And since doctors can be as full of it as anyone, that’s not always good.

When it comes to guns, physicians need to remember that some things are none of their business.