If you're a side chick who wants to keep up a relationship with a person who has a main partner, then it is important to know what to expect. You can't expect the relationship to be more than what it is—a way for both of you to have a good time and not worry about where the relationship is going. Becoming a side chick is risky for everyone involved. Take time to consider your emotions and how you would feel about the main partner finding out about you. To be a side chick, you should learn what to expect, what it takes to be a side chick, and reflect on the implications of your actions.