Understanding how to finger a girl is not easy, but with a little curious exploration of her body, you’ll discover that fingering is as complicated as a high form of art. Giving her an orgasm with your fingers requires patience, careful attention, and a little bedroom creativity.

Experiment with different finger movements. There are many ways to finger a woman. Finding the right type of stimulation sometimes requires you to try various techniques and movements to find out which one makes her moan louder.

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1– Use light, grazing touches.

For the external parts such as the clitoris and the labia. Light touches to sensitive areas is a good way to turn her on and make her wet. Plus, it gives her anticipation making her receptive to aggressive fingering later.

2– Use the index and middle finger for penetration.

Start off with the middle finger as it is the longest and has the farther reach especially when stimulating the G-spot. Using both fingers is recommended for G-spot stimulation as it covers more surface area than one finger alone.

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3– Start slow and build up rhythm later.

If you want to know how to finger a girl right, don’t start aggressively. Starting slow allows her to appreciate the feel of flesh on flesh. This is the part where you pay attention to her reactions as it will give you a cue when to change your pace.

4– Start touching everything except the clit and vagina.

Don’t go for the sweet spots immediately. Build anticipation and make her beg by teasing her external genitalia and deliberately missing the sweet spots.

5– Multitask while you’re fingering her.

The more sensitive spots you stimulate, the quicker you lead her into an intense orgasm. While your fingers are working on her lower parts, plant kisses on her neck, nibble her earlobes, whisper dirty words, or suckle her nipples. This surely drives her crazy.

Learn to sustain fingering at the right moment. A common mistake for most is to stop right at the moment when she’s building up for an orgasm. This is frustrating for her and probably asks for a longer fingering session than normal.

This is why it is important that you pay attention to her reaction. When you notice she’s nearing climax, concentrate on the part where she feels the most pleasure until she cums.

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Follow these 16 steps for Fingering Her Until You Make Her Feel Fireworks

1. First things first, make sure your nails are cut short and are soft around the edges. If they’re long and rough, then she’s going to push your hand away. Prepare those nails before you see her.

2. You should also make sure you wash your hands before touching her down there. You don’t want to end up giving her an infection instead of an orgasm.

3. Even if you want her to go straight for your crotch when she gives you a hand job, that’s not what she wants. Start by snuggling up close to her and kissing her on her lips, neck, and breasts. Get her as wet as you can before you even take her jeans off.

4. When you do take her jeans off, do it slowly to tease her. Then move your hands up and down her thighs, avoiding her pussy completely. Wait as long as you can to actually touch her between her legs. The teasing is the best part.

5. Before you stick your fingers inside of her, start by rubbing your hand against her clit. Try going back and fourth, and then try moving your fingers in minuscule circles. Pay attention to her reaction and do more of whatever makes her moan.

6. If she still needs extra lubrication, you know what to do. Take out the lube. It doesn’t mean you’ve failed at turning her on. Some women are just naturally dryer than others.

7. Don’t start by shoving as many fingers as you can fit up there. Start with one finger, and if it seems like she’s enjoying it, then you can use two fingers, and maybe even three.

8. Don’t shove those fingers in and out of her over and over again. That won’t make her orgasm. You have to bend your fingers once you’re inside, so you can find her G-spot with the tips of them. Your best bet is to use your index finger and middle finger at the same time and use a “come hither” motion until you hit the rough patch that makes her moan.

9. Despite what most men think, women have an easier time orgasming from clitoral stimulation than penetration. So if you have your heart set on fingering her, make sure you use your other hand to keep rubbing her clit.

10. If she has a vibrator, ask her to go get it for you. You’ll still have to find the right patterns to move it in, but you’ll save your fingers a lot of work.

11. If she’s a sucker for anal, then you should play with her asshole with your pinkie finger. Just make sure that you always use different fingers for different holes. Otherwise, you might end up transferring bacteria and giving her a UTI.

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12. Be patient. It takes most women a while to orgasm, and if she can tell that you’re getting annoyed by how long she’s taking, then she’s going to get anxious and won’t end up orgasming at all.

13. Multitask. Instead of just sitting next to her while moving your hands, lean in and kiss her. The more places you stimulate at once, the faster she’ll cum.

14. Take your shirt off. Give her something nice to look at, so she doesn’t have to close her eyes and fantasize about fucking your brother.

15. Some women think male voices are a bigger turn-on than the male body, so talk to her. Tell her how hot she looks and how sexy her moans sound. Then ask her if she likes what you’re doing, so you don’t end up wasting time with a move she can’t stand.

16. After you make her orgasm, remove your fingers from her and stick them in your mouth to suck off the juices. That way, she’ll know how much you love her pussy.

This book manual below will also make you be able to convert any woman’s movement and internal force into stimulation and stability. Also the techniques are helpful for staying on course to her orgasm.

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This manual is a plain-and-simple, instructional guide on how to give women orgasms. This Book is something that you can refer to time and time again. The information is intended to help women achieve orgasms and have a more fulfilling sexual relationship. It contains details of female orgasms, along with the overall “system” or “strategy” you’ll employ. Also included are techniques to illustrate what needs to be done, and when.

It can be looked at as the “toolbox” of techniques. You’ll find a variety of different sexual techniques you can use to “plug-and-play” into the overall system of making a woman achieve an orgasm. In this book are the keys needed to open the doors for a woman’s sexual fulfillment ready to be given to as many lovers as those who desire to possess them.

OK, enough talk… now open the book and let’s get down to business!

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