So much gratitude for this line. As a Christian, this one gets me. People define others by whether they have or have not by the time they are in their 20s or 30s or whatever. The thought should be reclaimed regarding sexuality — holding off as a desire to please God only, not holding off to impress anyone else or be used as something to lord over people who have not held off. Too much legalism about sexuality has kept so many in bondage and that isn’t what life is about or what God wants. It’s just no one else’s business.