We all assume to be independent at a certain part or at a certain point in our lives! Independence can be seen and sensed in various forms, maybe physical independence, emotional independence or economical independence. But does independence of merely one kind be termed as absolute or complete independence? NO. By independence you should be one and all that is omniscient in every domain be it emotional independence or economic independence. Have you ever given it a thought while jabbering about your independence?

Are you really independent? Are your thoughts and emotion in your own control? When someone says anything to you, is your inner state not perturbed or agitated? Does that not cause disruption to your inner peace? Don’t your atoms lose control? Yes, they do. In the majority of the cases, they do. This clearly reveals the truth of you being non-independent. Your inner self is controlled by the external factors maybe by the people around or maybe the situations in which you are grabbed or standstill in. They play a very important role to control your mind. A mind that is the greatest to mankind as well as the greatest weapon for the society under the shackles of slavery. Isn’t it the slavery of utmost order?

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You talk about independence when your brain itself is a slave of engulfing situations and surrounding people. People affect you on a magnanimous level. This ruins the very existence of your brain. This is the chief cause when you turn up with turmoil caused. This is the reason of taciturn and abrupt behavior. Now let’s dive into the meaning of “being independent”. In today’s century, youngsters find it very cool to murmur this phrase very frequently without knowing the in-depth meaning of the same. They do not pay heed to live and look at the wider and broader perspective of things. They start earning money at a point in their life and easily chatter around calling them “very stable and independent.”

Independence is a state of mind in which you have full control and authority over your mind and heart and you are not overwhelmed or defeated by external causes. Your inner self is not dominated by the forces of the surrounding. Our thoughts are not governed and changed with external influence and problem. If you allow your brain to be agitated, frustrated or in any condition then your brain is under utmost slavery. Isn’t it the slavery of the pinnacle level? So before you call yourself independent you should delve into your inner self and keep at constant check on your stability?

Now how can this inner stability be achieved and how to be independent. This question which was the core of the above argument remains unanswered.

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Every time the world was dominated by one thing or the other always. But today we are dominated by our won mind. The brain which took several million year to grow and develop to what it is today. Our own brain is not in our control today. Maybe it has grown enough to become its own enemy. It is time to look within and realize the direction of your own thoughts. A person who has a strong direction and is completely audacious to walk alone and strong in all turns of life can be termed as an independent. A person who is not offended by others and by the circumstances and has full control over his/her emotions and turmoil can be called as an independent person. Slavery of the very own mind is the slavery of the highest order.in order to be independent and one in all, you need to do inner healing. Until and unless the atoms within you at peace, you won’t ever be able to tackle well the situations and difficulties you are surrounded with. The mind will be in constant conflict of the noxious. This constant conflict will eventually result in frustration, more make-believe, wrong decision and much more harmful destruction to your personality.

From ages, people have worked hard to enhance the power of their brains in terms of intelligence, analytical thinking, reasoning, and retention. And from apes to human we have reached a stage when our brains are developed to a great level. Whether you believe or not, this is just the beginning and road to the human brain’s extension is still miles and miles to go. So after enhancing and upgrading the brain to such a level if we are at loss to tackle various problems then futile is the use of such advancement and such development. Today we stand in a time that we all have turned hypocrites, unknowing the harm we are doing to our own personality. Many people do various things to control their brains? Much cool stuff are present on social media as well as the internet on large with super cool and exciting headings which attract people to go through them. They pretty much are full of ideas of freeing the mind from all-cause of harm. Now they provide us with various methods or ideas probably this varies along doing meditation to listening to music. They furnish people with very many pretty cool ideas to manage their diet as well as their mood. Large numbers of people in this world are following them to abate the inner conflict and know them better. This is also assumed to be the path of gaining self-confidence and mustering self-independence.

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Independence has always been the long-cherished desire of every earthling, though India got independence long back the humans are still bounded in shackles of slavery, mainly not the slavery from external sources but the slavery of their own mind. Maybe that is why we say independence is never absolute because we fail on the zero ground to master ourselves. People have been trying to control for many decades and those who achieve success reach the pinnacle of success in their life.so before you call yourself independent, you need to look within yourself and introspect to know the real you. When a thought or a desire doesn’t agitate you, disrupts your peace of mind, compels you to take a wayward decision or maybe excites you enough for the purpose then you can call yourself independent.