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One of the ironies of relationships is their success depends on your ability to not have a relationship. While mastering the art of intimacy is essential, you need to be comfortable with yourself first. This demands a level of healthy independence, and how you deal with being alone is clearly indicated in your chart. If the thought of not having a partner drives you to make desperate choices, this will impact the quality of your relationships. But if you’re so terrified of getting close to someone that you construct emotional walls, this will impact your love life as well. True security consists of accepting the fact that you are just fine as you are, single or paired up.

Alone But Not Lonely

All signs are capable of being independent, but it’s easier for some than others. Strong Aquarian/Uranian signatures in your chart mean you are more likely to embrace independence. Aquarius is the sign of liberation and detachment, and in balanced doses it enhances healthy individuation (which is not the same as numbing yourself as a defense mechanism). Aquarius on your 1st or 7th House cusp, or Uranus in aspect to your relationship planets (Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars or your 1st/7th House rulers) or in your 7th House will impact your love life. Being single feels natural, and is often preferred. Even if you’re in a happy relationship, there are significant chunks of time when you’ll want to do your own thing. This has nothing to with your partner; you just function naturally as an individual. Keeping in mind that unacknowledged 7th House energies are often projected onto others, if you find that you’re drawn to unreliable or distant partners, know that this is your unacknowledged desire for independence. Natal Uranus/Aquarius relationship planets, in your 2nd House of security or 8th House of intimacy, can also indicate comfort with being alone. But (depending on the aspects and planets involved) Uranus in these houses can sometimes signal childhood trauma or disruption of security.

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