I once had a guy tell me he loves me. Not all men are assholes, but they will be if you try to make them seem like it.

You’re saying words, but all I see is, “You’re asking for it.” Take your gross victim blaming elsewhere. Or, you know, stop doing it entirely.

For the record, I get tons of these. I get it - a lot of you love your boyfriends/husbands/random dudes in your life, and they love you. Awesome. It doesn’t change the fact that we live in a misogynistic society. Please stop offering these up like they’re some dazzling new truth that has somehow been overlooked, because they aren’t, and I’m just going to delete them anyway.