I am an Asian female. Is it normal that I don't even give a chance or want to date an Asian man, because all I can think about is "Does he have a small penis?" Everytime I do meet a nice Chinese or Asian guy, all I have in my mind is "Is the myth true that he could have a very small dick?" That thought alone turns me off instantly and then I don't even want to go on a date with an Asian guy. Even if he has a nice personality or if he is the sweetest guy, I just can't get past the first date because I don't want my feelings to progress deeper and then find out many dates later that he has a small penis when we are ready for sex. So whenever I meet an Asian guy, I just can't even go past Date 1, because I don't want to end up being disappointed when we are in the bedroom a month or more later.



I can't just ask a Asian guy if I can make sure his penis is an average or above average size right away on the first date.... so I just don't bother dating Asian guys in general to avoid this problem. One of my Caucasian girl friends started dating a Chinese man for a month, and she really liked him. But when they had sex in the bedroom, she was very disappointed at how small his penis was (even when it was hard) and how badly he performed in bed. She broke it off with him soon, and it ended up hurting his feelings. I want to avoid hurting anyone's feelings. Is this normal to just avoid dating Asian guys because I don't want to find out he has a small dick?