Alas, I am a mere crossdresser. And a part-timer at that.

Best to just listen to what they say. But I can comment on how people have reacted. I think the reactions are pretty telling of where we are really at - at least in the online world.

To start with, when I shared the article I posted it with the following statement from myself :

"It could also be said that the goth subculture is a bit of a "safe space" of sorts for trans people, many who want a place where they can blend in and become invisible. Good for some, not for others. Depends on their motivation and experiences.

One good point says its hard to tell if are they recognised for being trans or for being goth. Also acknowledging how invaluable the goth subculture is for many as it helps in coming out/transitioning.

I can't say I really have an opinion on this either way. I'm not going to spout hate as I have seen in a few places where this has been posted. I'm not going to spout unwavering support either as I don't necessarily agree with every statement. But I am listening (well, reading) to see what they have to say.

People feel how they feel. You can't tell people how to feel but you can try to understand why. I'm looking forward to hearing Cemetery Confessions covering this soon."

Rather than repeat and cherry pick quotes, I have posted screen captures of the comments in APPENDIX A at the end of the article. I think they speak for themselves. Its easy to take statements out of context so make of it what you will.

Later I do this again for Cemetery Confessions in APPENDIX B and C. Everything on the table as is, unedited, laid bare. No one can cry foul as I blocked out the names and it was all posted publicly anyway. I'm just highlighting it because it needs to be seen in its entirety no matter how long and unweildy it may seem. Plus its the internet so it is a tad entertaining. Bring popcorn if you must.