Or rather, the Kevins. Kevin Nguyen and Kevin Krieder.

Mainly, my response is to Kevin Nguyen’s article.

Before you read my response to the Kevins, read the essential reading if you have not already.

There is little point calling for unity, if legitimate criticism towards AF is deemed to be “shaming”. We are not shaming interracial dating. We are criticizing internalized racism and white worship.

When asian females/males come together to talk about racism all kinds of things come up but the one thing that always the most difficult thing to talk about is the big elephant in the room: the totally abnormal and unprecedented WM/AF rates that are destroying the community. Until asian men and women can come together and actually talk about this issue we will never come close to some kind of solution.

Kevin Nguyen’s conclusion:

“It’s merit based, if you are a good man with substance, character; if you are honest with your words and bring value to others, it doesn’t matter which race you come from. People are going to date and marry good people. The end.”

78fivealive of Plan A Magazine explains why this conclusion is wrong:

“Let’s take that at face value then. Asian men outmarry about as frequently as other POC. the two outliers are asian women, and black women. Asian women are by far the most likely poc group to marry white, black women the least likely. This @yendegreez suggests we conclude black women just don’t have the same merit as asian women. Asian men have about the same merit as every other group. And asian women are phenomenal. @yendegreez’s conclusion is obviously wrong, though maybe he stands by these unavoidable inferences drawn from his conclusion. Who knows what some asian guys on Twitter believe these days.”

The dating disparity between the genders has almost nothing to do with attractiveness or merit and everything to do with white supremacy, the Three Bears racial Big Lie of white supremacy, internalized white supremacy, and self-hate.