50 something seeks Friend Lover Partner ** This is not my picture !!Thank you for stopping to read my ad. Since divorcing 4 years ago I have tried several dating services and fix ups by friends and chance meetings at social or public events. I had one longer term relationship that I thought was the one but when it came to crunch time things never materialized. So here I am on slist seeking someone from Southern California who can become the woman of my dreams and hopefully I can become man of hers also. One thing for sure is that it requires the passion and commitment of two to make it happen.Who am I? I am a lbs with brown hair(and I still have most of it) and brown eyes. I am clean shaven and have no tattoos or piercings. Some find that boring and yet others find it endearing or even sexy. I am athletiy built and I am very active and chances are good that I can keep up with you. I like the outdoors a lot and love doing things that are fun and active. I also like staying in as well and hanging out or being "us". One of the best inventions of the past 25 years is the VCR/DVR. I love many things on TV but I hate having to give up a perfectly good Saturday or Sunday to watch it live. I would rather watch at a time that still allows me to enjoy a terrific day and also see my shows. I have a good sense of humor and I try to not take myself too seriously. I work full time in my own business and that does give me a certain amount of flexibility in my time and work schedule. I have but all of mine are grown. No pets and I dont do and I drink very moderately. Do I have any vices? Sure .I have high libido and Im probably a little kinky when I close the bedroom door but then again arent we all? One persons "no way" response is anothers "oh boy".Who are you? You are a 50 something white woman (or maybe late 40 or early 60) who is attractive with a slender or very athletic frame. Hopefully some of what I am writing touches something in you to respond. But both you and I will make a determination of how attracted to one another we are when we exchange pictures and/or meet. That doesnt mean that you or I are unattractive but we may not have the same attraction to each other. I hope that you are very intelligent and charming. I love stimulating conversation and I love humorous banter and teasing. Laughter is a must. Its good for the soul and is stress relieving. I hope we share common interests and yet have come to them through unique and different past experiences. Perhaps you have been married and divorced or have loves found and lost so that you know what you dont want in a relationship. Im not looking for someone emotionally beat up or needs rescuing but who has learned that it is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all. I am hoping that you seek and enjoy intimacy. I hope you like sex too but thats not what Im talking about blondes wives seeking casual dating married seeking. Im talking about that place emotionally where you are able to vulnerable and open with a partner and be bold about sharing all of your hopes, dreams, fears and concerns.If I have potentially piqued your interest enough to write please know that I am looking forward to hearing from you. Please write word "Future" in the subject line when you do write. Please write and talk to me like we are old friends. Ask anything you would like and I will do my best to answer your question. Please do not write and say "Hey Hun text me at 624-xxx-xxxx" because those will be deleted. If youre from Louisana or New Jersey and soon to move to the area pass me by because Im looking for someone in Southern California. And for the record, I will respond to all who write a real and thoughtful response. But please understand that while I may connect with and meet several people initially, I am only looking for one relationship. Monogamy is really sexy !! I have not asked you for a picture initially because I understand that many are reluctant to send a picture to a blind ad such as this. When you write and connect with me, and I return your I will send 4 or 5 very recent pictures of myself so that you can see if there is an attraction or your part. If after we have exchanged and if you feel there may be some attraction to me on your part I would then ask you to share some pictures of yourself. Then we can go from there. I do look forward to hearing from you soon