Let's talk Easter first. When given a choice between buying a live bunny or a plush rabbit toy for a young child, parents need to go with the plush toy (or chocolate bunny). Rabbits are not easy pets to care for and need adult caregivers to thrive. They require as much care as a dog or cat -- and cost as much as a dog to care for over their lifetimes, according to the House Rabbit Society.



In addition, rabbits can become aggressive around sexual maturity, if not sterilized. And, they can live eight to 14 years. Today's impulse gift for an eight-year-old child could still be in the family long after the child has finished college.



Rabbits are a "prey" animal, which means they will bolt in fear if they think their lives are in danger. Kids or animals in the home who are loud, lively and longing to chase them, can literally scare a rabbit to death.



During humane society summer camps, I used to teach kids how to behave around rabbits by having them sit in a circle to quietly observe the rabbits sitting in the center. If the kids startled the rabbits, the observation was over until the next day. To their credit, most kids can sit still for 20 minutes, but they also get tired and lose interest quickly. The next day, the kids got to feed the rabbits, which sustained their interest a little longer, but not by much. Kids will lose interest in their pet rabbits, too, which means rabbits are often neglected or given up altogether.



While rabbits are the third most acquired pet, they are also the third most relinquished -- and euthanized -- pet. Sadly, people may dump their pet rabbits in the woods thinking they can survive, but that's a death sentence for them. Unlike wild rabbits, pet rabbits have no survival skills and can quickly succumb to starvation or become a food source for other animals if abandoned.



Very few animal shelters accept rabbits, so most homeless rabbits are cared for by rescue groups who try to find good homes for them, which brings me to my second point. Rabbits are actually great pets when placed in quiet homes with the right people. They are affectionate with their families and can be litter box trained, like a cat, so they can hop around the house.



If anyone reading this is serious about getting a rabbit, talk to rescue groups, like the Long Island Rabbit Rescue Group, about rabbit care. They may even let you foster a rabbit to see if it's the right type of pet for you.



If you do your homework, are ready to make a decade-long commitment, and decide a rabbit is the best pet for your family, then you might be what these rabbit rescue groups are looking for in a rabbit parent.



Visit the House Rabbit Society at rabbits.org for more information and to find rabbit rescue groups in your city or state. Please don't get a rabbit just because it's Easter.



Dear Cathy,



When I change the water from my fish tank, I toss the dirty water onto the lawn, not into my sink. The question is, will this water be good for my indoor plants? -- Bart Varacchi, Holbrook, N.Y.



Dear Bart,



Absolutely! If you have a filter on your fish tank and the ammonia levels in the water are normal, go ahead and recycle that fish waste by dumping it onto your lawn and plants. Your plants will love it.



Cathy M. Rosenthal is a longtime animal advocate, author, columnist and pet expert who has more than 25 years in the animal welfare field. Send your pet questions, stories and tips to cathy@petpundit.com. Please include your name, city, and state. You can follow her @cathymrosenthal.