Is it possible that having ‘the Talk’ might actually be a good thing for some people and some couples? If there was a time to finally be honest about the sex we have and the sex we want to have, now is certainly that time. Many commenting on the issue seem to think porn is an all-or-nothing sort of issue, which you are either anti-sex all the time, or letting at all hang out 24/7. But it isn't like that, and there are ways to enjoy porn within a committed sexual relationship. If this is the catalyst for more people learning that truth, then it could be a silver lining.