Question

I still don't know how to be cool. Any ideas to help me?

Community Answer

There is no definition of being cool. The idea of 'cool' is unique to everybody and not everyone has the same idea of what it cool. To one person, being cool is liking reading and going to concerts, whereas to somebody else the idea of cool may be parties and drinking. You can't live your life wanting to impress everybody. It's sad and a complete waste of time to get upset over someone not thinking that you are cool. ,So long as you are always yourself, and as long as you do what you want to do to be happy then that's the most important thing. When you have children and they ask how to be cool, are you going to tell then to "follow the crowd and be live everyone else"? Just be yourself.