I wanna talk about my family for a second…..

Okay, I just had a long harrowing talk with my dad, and I’m annoyed as all hell because he’s trying to shove his new black mindset at me and I’m not having that shit. Have you ever had a talk with your parent, who is also a POC and they are trying to tell you whites can experience racism too. And you have to do a double take like, Are you on that stuff again?????

I can’t even…I have such a headache…Like what the fuck dad. Stop talking to me about this. If you can’t understand that whites aren’t the same, that they will never be the same because they have put themselves in a place of advantage, where they are appropriating other cultures, and claiming we are all one race when its not their race bleeding on the streets and suffering through discrimination, then go away. Go be New black with them and leave my shit alone.

Stop telling me that blacks can be racists or bigots to whites because we don’t like the color of their skin, and get the fuck out of here for ignoring me when I was telling you that the numbers speak for themselves when comparing who dies because of racism white or blacks, and you have the balls to say that black people will kill their own for any stupid reason, and how much of those numbers are black on black crimes when it comes to race crimes. Like we’re just gonna ignore Ferguson, and Mike Brown then? Are you supporting Darren Wilson too Dad?.

….. he doesn’t understand. And he’s still preaching about we need to look forward and not dwell in the past….And how the state I live in is a fluff state with no racism.

Seriously??? Last I checked I lived in Arizona. Yunno Joe Arpaio’s state where the cops will racially profile you for any reason under the sun…. We have an overwhelming white majority, and last I checked they didn’t really give a crap if you think they experience racism. They will put you in jail for being a POC no questions asked….Remember when they pulled over my grandmother??? Your mother? on bullshit claims of her driving erratically when she was on a one way street driving legally in a residential area? I remember. I bet you forgot though huh….

Hey dad, you’re full blooded black, half of who I am came from you, but I’m starting to see you. What you see and what I see are not the same. You say whites can experience racism, I say show me your fucking receipts,… At what what point did another race take away white dignity, white rights, and white privilege? When has white supremacy not been the norm? I must have missed it…..

Conclusion to this talk: You wanna defend whites, and campaign for shit they already have an overabundance of, fine, do so. But stay the fuck away from me. I don’t have time for you. I have real shit to deal with that comes with being a POC, And I’m not gonna defend people who are already in the majority and casually forget who I am like you do. Why am I gonna fight for people who already have equality??? And my own people are getting targeted by gunfire or casually made invisible or white washed into oblivion….Fuck off with that.

Does anyone else go through this with their folks????