With a new year comes new resolutions. We all make the standard resolutions that include going to the gym, eating healthier, spending less money, learning another language, etc. But coming up with parental resolutions can be a bit tougher. Here’s our list of the most important new year resolutions for any parent.

Stop Trying To Be A “Perfect” Parent

There’s no such thing as perfect. No one is perfect, even the parents who you think are perfect. Everyone struggles in one way or another. Let go of feeling like a failure because you don’t live up to the image you’ve created in your head. Just focus on being your best self; remember your kids don’t need you to be the perfect mom or the perfect dad, they just need you to be mom or dad.

Become More Present

Let’s face it, we all have long to-do lists and keep our phones by our side 24/7 which often makes it difficult to be present. As hard as it can be, being fully present is not only good for us, but our kids. In 2018 commit to silencing your phone and forgetting your to-dos for 30 minutes a day to spend uninterrupted time with your kids.

Don’t Neglect Me Time

Me time is seriously important as a parent. Being the best parent and you that you can be doesn’t mean forgetting your needs. Taking time out for yourself, even something as little as 10 minutes a day, will make a huge difference for both your mood and your energy. Make self care a priority in 2018.

Create A Routine

A schedule is good for everyone in the household, especially kids who need a sense of normalcy and structure. Create, or improve on, a morning routine, after school routine, and bedtime routine for not only your kids, but for yourself as well (instead of after school routine, create an after work routine). Reinforce your routine by setting reminders on your phone and for your kids, by posting a schedule in your kitchen or in their rooms.