The story of Donald is in many ways a model for the right way to embrace autism — how to work with the "distinct combination of deficits and challenges" autism afforded Donald. Mary ignored the doctor who told her that she had caused her son's autism by "overstimulating" him, and made sure instead that he was educated, included in community events, and later, had gainful employment. Her goal was simply that he be allowed to lead a fulfilling, valued and valuable life.