Heterosexuality is not inevitable.

You don’t have to put up with men’s shit, ever.

Stop loving the dudes, stop putting your energy into them, stop settling. They will never make you truly happy at best and at worst will ruin your life beyond any redemption.

Instead think of all the other things you could be putting your time and energy into. How much you can achieve, what positive choices you can make for yourself.

Women often respond to hearing that they don’t have to be heterosexual with fear and exclamations that they aren’t attracted to women.



You don’t have to date women, unless you want to. Heterosexuality is an institution designed to squeeze out as much of your energy and emotional labor as possible. Simply refuse to capitulate to this system.