OK, I get it. It might sound a little odd. And some people reading might have a few reservations. Let’s discuss.

First, let’s dispell a few myths…

You can’t pee while hard.

Yes, you can, actually. Anybody who has ever woken up with morning wood knows you absolutely can.

It may be difficult at first and may require some practice. You may need to relax for a moment or two, but it will come.

This is unhealthy.

From everything I’ve read, it’s really not. It’s said that urine is mostly sterile. The biggest issue would be the possibility of messing with vaginal pH levels. So it probably shouldn’t be done regularly. According to sexual health expert Madeleine Castellanos, M.D.

“If [you] want to do it every once in a while, it probably wouldn’t be a problem especially if she’s not that susceptible to infections,” says Castellanos. “But if it’s done very frequently, some women might find it irritating afterwards.”

So as a sometimes thing, I see no problem with it.

However, be aware that you could pass an STI to your partner this way, so please make sure you and your partner are fully aware and open with each other.

STIs are another concern, since anything that could be passed along through sexual contact could be passed when urinating inside your partner. “These do not come from the urine or bladder itself, but can be passed along from the inside of the urethra or prostate during urination,” says Castellanos, since urine passes through prostatic tissues on the way out. This could even be an issue if you’re peeing externally and you have an STI that could infect regular skin, like herpes or HPV. It’s highly unlikely, but it’s possible that traces of the virus could be carried along from the urethra, says Castellanos. But if you and your wife are mutually monogamous and have recently been tested, this wouldn’t really be an issue.

EWWWW! This is sick!

It’s not. It’s actually totally normal, and we need to change the way we think about this.

I’m no longer ashamed and weirded out by my fetish, and you shouldn’t be, either.

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