Danielle Staub’s estranged husband Marty Caffrey told Page Six in response to Staub’s explosive divorce filing on Friday alleging abuse, “I never put a hand on her.”

Page Six reported that “Real Housewives” star Staub’s filing detailed Caffrey’s alleged “extreme cruelty” — including that he “exercised physical control and intimidation by holding [Staub] down and violently screaming derogatory comments in her face” and that he allegedly “repeatedly mocked and harassed [her] for being sexually abused by her father as a child.” The court filing also claimed that on a vacation in Anguilla he “became physically violent… to the point where she became bruised.”

Caffrey told us when reached for comment, “What I would say is that it is so outrageous that I couldn’t even think of what demented mind would come up with these things that are so illogical.” He claimed that three days before the filing Staub was “begging to reconcile… if I was guilty of any of these things why would she want to reconcile?” He said of the claims, “This is over the top,” and that there were “never any bruises. It’s so hysterical. I never put a hand on her. [There were] no problems in Anguilla. I don’t understand what’s wrong with her.”

He further claimed he instead supported her as an abuse survivor and told her she could be a role model, “like Lady Gaga.”

But he claims, “She’s in a panic because I didn’t drop the divorce… She’s like a squirrel trapped and she’s destroying everything.”

He said that the case will be back in court after the New Year, but for now, “I’m gonna take the high road. I am going to have to suffer for a few days…. I’m just going to have to deal with that. I’m a big boy.”

Staub’s seeking spousal support.

She married Caffrey in May but was served with divorce papers in September.

He added, “I feel for her daughters. She brags about how she’s the best mother in the world. This is not cool. This is her way of lashing out, and trying to take me down with her.” Staub’s rep did not immediately get back to us.