Ehem

Women can be toxic.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=BeS_Y8q9kcY

Women can think that they as women can force parenthood on a man. That parenthood (not even pregnancy) is their decision alone to make for them and their spouse (notice how the women clap and agree while the men do not).

https://youtu.be/kkmanLIAdXI

How about women (talk show with all female panel and mostly female audience) laughing at the genital mutilation of men while taking coincidentally taking issues women face seriously. (Their apology was forced on them and it shows since they laughed through the whole thing). I could argue that women lack empathy for men and will laugh in the face of even extreme situations provided men are the targets.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=wUKEbMDIR08

They can assault people and then get overwhelming support from other women. (She was considered a “strong woman” after this).

Harass and men and boys using a system that they know gives them the advantage and a society that they know will take their side. Making men go through so much for such petty reasons. Because they can.

And when women enforce gender roles on other women and police their behavior, it’s called “internalized misogyny”. But when men do it it’s “toxic masculinity”.

Why not “internalized misandry”? Because that would be admitting victimhood and gender roles in men.

Why not “toxic femininity”? Because the term is supposed to be insulting and generalizing and we cant have that for women.

You mentioned a lack of emptional sensitivity, encouraging violence, sexism (you said misogyny, but i will sub that with misandry), and although i didnt mention it, if you think women do not or have not made lesbian jokes to each other in the absence of men, youre lying to yourself. All of these have been shown. Women do all of these things.

“Toxic masculinity” is just associating any and all bad behavior to masculinity, completely ignoring that women do them too. It doesnt have a recognized female equivalent because it isnt actually meant to be good for men. It isnt meant to be activism. It’s just thinly veiled popularized misandry.

This is called a double standard. When you go out of your way to make the same behavior seem worse in groups you dont like or arent a part of. And it is that kind of behavior that perpetuates the apparent need for society and even entire governments to treat toxic and violent behavior from women with more leniency.