For the past 33 years, Pasadena’s manners-maven, Pamela Hillings Tegtmeyer, has been inviting nominations for a yearly list of the Most Well-Mannered Persons in Pasadena.

Pam knows a thing or two about the value of minding your p’s and q’s. She is the daughter of the late Phyllis and Rep. Patrick J. Hillings, who succeeded Richard Nixon in Congress. After years of socializing in political and diplomatic circles in Washington D.C., she and her mother co-authored several books on etiquette, and Pam is a highly regarded, professional etiquette consultant.

Keep in mind that this is a list of local folks who have been recommended or that she has personally encountered. There are undoubtedly countless pillars of rectitude among us whom she has yet to discover.

Anyway, Emily Post, the iconic doyenne of decorum, probably defined manners best: “They are a sensitive awareness of the feelings of others,” she said. “If you have that awareness, you have good manners, no matter what fork you use.”

This year’s list arrived last week, and I always look forward to sharing it with the readers of the Star-News. Therefore, dear hearts, I commend to you the Hillings 2019 honor roll of the 10 Most Well-Mannered Persons in Pasadena. The comments are from those who nominated the honorees. All of the honorees received multiple comments.

Timothy Sloan, CEO of Wells-Fargo

“Tim is as gracious as he is generous.”

“He has a patient and thoughtful approach that embodies courtesy and respect for others.”

“He puts those around him at ease, not because he has to, but that is his nature.”

“Whether in sports, business or the community, he always has an ear for others and their concerns.”

June Banta, philanthropist; community volunteer

“So well-mannered; a role model for all of us.”

“June treats you like you are her best friend. She never misses sending a thank you note.”

“There’s a kindness and warmth about her. She touches so many people, in many positive ways, with her involvement in the community.”

“So complimentary.”

Megan Katerjian, executive director, Door of Hope

“She pays attention to you and makes you feel so special when you volunteer.”

“Megan is absolutely dedicated to helping families and children experiencing homelessness to rebuild their lives.”

“She is the best communicator with her phone calls, personal thank you notes and more.”

Allison Reed Dietrick, founder/chair, Young & Healthy Alliance

“Allie is so welcoming, warm and smart. What a gracious hostess!”

“She is a real gem in Pasadena! Very creative.”

“Has worked wonders for the Young & Healthy Alliance and is so dedicated to its mission.”

Michael Healy, senior vice president, financial adviser, RBC Wealth Management; community volunteer

“Michael is such a generous man who is truly kind to all. His passion to help people is infectious.”

“He always keeps things fun!”

“Excellent communicator, returns phone calls and emails in a timely manner.”

“Incredible volunteer in the community.”

“Such a genuine person.”

Katie Darnell, Heritage Monograms and design, community volunteer

“A wonderful role model of excellent manners.”

“One of the best hostess I know.”

“Very thoughtful and caring.”

“Knows how to work well with others, whether in her business or in her volunteer commitments.”

“Gracious and elegant.”

Peggy Stevens, owner, The Apple Cart, La Canada Flintridge

“Peggy greets everyone in her store as though you walked into her home.”

“She’s warm and friendly. Always wants to know how you and your family are doing.”

“Spends time to make certain she finds the right gift for you. Extremely welcoming. So helpful.”

Joann Saraceno, checker, Von’s Market at Orangewood Center

“Always personal and friendly.”

“Customers look forward to being in her lane! Joann sees hundreds of people per day yet always has a smile on her face and is so helpful.”

“Low key, but genuine.”

Lisa Hausler, community volunteer

“Her impeccable manners are displayed everywhere she goes.”

“She has a gentle and warm manner that brings a smile to everyone.”

“Lisa has given tirelessly to her family, friends, community and always with a smile, hug or even just an all-around positive manner.”

“Always helping those in need.”

Scott Nesbit, board member, Cancer Support Community, Pasadena; mentor for Union Station Homeless Services

“A gentleman’s gentleman.”

“A loyal friend and loved by all who know him.”

“A great role model to his children as a father and as a genuine human being of great character.”

“Extremely personable.”

“Very polite and a delight to know!”

By the way, Pam ever so politely requests that if you should see any of these recipients, please say hello and congratulate them. And if you have a recommendation for her next list, you can contact her at pamelahillingst@gmail.com.