This lay was pretty straight forward. I don’t know if there is much to learn. I felt like we I had to do was approach. It was on Date 1, one venue, one drink and bounced back.

I approached during my very first daygame session on the year on January 10, in Galeria. She was wearing a typical Russian fur coat and had a scarf .around her head.

Not as cute and with blacker hair

I got in with a “Hi” that she looked cute with her scarf around her head, like a babushka. She laughed a reply “Not babushka! Matryoshka”.

I insisted a bit “No babushka” and she would again say “Matryoshka!”. It was playful. Then she asked for where I was from. And we exchanged names. I teased her a bit on her fur coat and grounded the set by letting her know about me. I think at the point we were a bit over 5 minutes into the set when her phone rang, I understand that it had to meet her friend. We exchanged Instagram and parted away.

I messaged about an hour later when I got home. We exchanged a couple of messages and sent the date request. She declined as she said had to work. I suggested another day and she accepted.

We meet on Mayakovskaya a bit over a week later and I lead her to the Howl bar. She was wearing all black outfit, tight jeans, heeled boots, low cut job. I wanted to fuck her.

I sat on the edge of the window, most girls would sit on the chair across but she put her purse there and asked me she could sit next to me. We got 2 glasses of Spanish Merlot. We talked about travel, food, St. Petersburg and the whole time she was laser eyeing me. We were handling hands pretty quickly and soon after her hand was on my leg and shortly after again one of her legs was over my mine.

I just put my hand around her ear, moved it to the back of her neck and pulled her in for a kiss. She kissed me back and put some tongue in. I stopped went back to comfort and drink wine for 10 minutes or so before going back to kissing. All lights were green so far so I decided to go for the bounce back.

“I bought back some South African liquor from my trip to Cape Town. You should try it”

She just nodded. I grabbed my jacket and went to pay that the bar while she was putting her coat on.

At the front door, she hesitated a bit. So I told her that she could anytime. In my apartment, after taking out coat/jackets and shoes off, I gave her the usual little tour. Then so her the view from the terrace before she went to sit on the couch while I was getting the bottle of Amarula. I put some jazz on Spotify.

I showed her some pictures from Cape Town and Lisbon for my recent trip. She did the same but with pictures of her hometown (Samara). Shortly after we were making out, she was very on and started to kiss me harder and with more passion – Full hard tongue in my mouth. Her hands went under my t-shirt. I mirrored it. Soon after, my hands were grabbing her ass. I picked her up and carried her to the bedroom. She took her top first before taking off my t-shirt. Then sat on my laps and kissing passionately again while I unhooked her bra. A few minutes later our jeans and all our underwears were off and we were making sweet love.

As I said at the beginning, it made it easy. During the post-sex talk, she told me that she found me very cute and she decided that wanted to have sex after we kissing at the venue.