1 .If you aren’t having any luck that night, instead of giving up and pouting, burn the place down. Go for a last ditch effort and approach every single girl in the bar, regardless of boyfriends (it’s her cousin) fat friend cockblockers or general social pressure. It’s usually when you feel the furthest from success that you find it. But you can’t give up. If you’re about to leave the bar anyway, leave with a bang.

2. If the girl isn’t telling you to go away, escalate. Instead of talking to her, pull her in and go for a kiss. No words. If she turns her cheek, kiss her on the neck. Let her feel your dick on her thigh, pussy or stomach. Take her to the dance floor and get physical until she is horny and then makeout with her. Of course, she must be attracted to you for this to work.

3. Sometimes it’s better to not makeout. But brush your lips across her ear, her neck, her cheek. The sexual tension will drive her mad. She will wonder what your kiss will be like. Then when you have her alone, in your lair of seduction or whatever, you can escalate.

4. Sometimes the best approach is to stay in one place. Find a nice spot at the bar where girls have to order drinks. Or a seat near the path to the bathroom. Any high traffic location. From here you can open your sets without looking like a vulture seeking out carrion. As girls enter your vicinity you can chat them up. This will also help you screen for girls that are receptive to meeting a guy without approaching their groups.

5. Group approaches can be powerful. Say you approach a ten set, and nine of them are unreceptive. It only takes one girl to be receptive to turn the entire group into allies. It shows a lot of guts to approach a group when you’re an outsider. It’s a very attractive quality. Usually the girl that is impressed/attracted will make it known. Once one girl likes you it will become a feeding frenzy of competitive jealousy.

6. If you have a pretty wingwoman that will help you pickup, life will get a whole lot easier.

7. It’s always the next approach. Don’t give up.

8. Don’t start drinking until you’ve talked to three pretty girls.

9. If you talk to men, be prepared to have a thirty minute conversation. Most guys are bored and too afraid to approach women so they will latch onto anyone willing to talk shit with them. But if he’s cool and you’re rolling solo, he can make for good interference if you need an instant wingman.

10. If the general vibe of the bar sucks, like people are grumpy and unreceptive, leave and go somewhere else. Emotions are contagious. It’s not your job to boost the spirits of an entire club. It’s a lot of work. If you go to a club where people are laughing, kissing, and having fun, it gets a whole lot easier to pickup.

11. A girl standing by herself is your best bet.

12. Always ask “Who are you here with?”

13. With groups, always ask “How do you all know each other.”

14. If you’re feeling grumpy, down, low state…go outside and get some fresh air. Force a smile. Then go back inside and start again.

15. Seduction is not all on you. The girl is doing fifty percent of the work. If she’s not doing any work, move on.

16. If a girl isn’t holding eye contact with you, bring it to her attention. If she still won’t hold eye contact, move on.

17. When you shake her hand, hold onto it for as long as she will let you.

18. Talk about sex. If she gets embarrassed or avoids the topic, move on. She won’t bang you tonight.

19. The prettier they are, the easier they are to pickup.

20. Some girls need to be insulted. Blame western culture. Blame feminism. Being nice is sometimes seen as a weakness.

21. A light ass slap will create more attraction than a thousand beautiful words.

22. If you’re not being complimented on your fashion, you have no style.

23. Read books. They will help your verbal game.

24. Going out and approaching women will do more for your inner game than hypnotism, therapy, drugs and self-help books combined.

25. Hire a good dating coach. It’s worth the money. You can make more money. But if you aren’t getting laid, you have a problem.

26. Not all women are bar sluts.

27. It’s ok to buy her a drink if you want to. It displays many attractive qualities.

28. There’s nothing wrong with the odd routine.

29. You should develop at least one talent that puts you on stage or increases your influence: Dancing, singing, guitar, writing, acting, promoting, juggling, and so forth.

30. Lose the fat. Shave your head. Dress well. Stand straight. Speak loudly. Hold eye contact. Groom yourself. An average looking man can go up a notch in attractiveness by following these simple steps.

31. Go out alone if you want to learn quickly. Go out seven nights a week if you want to be a coach.

32. Don’t preach to your friends. Lead by example.

33. Whatever you feel, she feels. If you doubt yourself, she will doubt you. If you feel creepy, she will be creeped out.

34. She probably does have a boyfriend. But don’t let that stop you. Ask her how it’s working out for her. Get her contact anyway. Meet her friends. Ask her to hook you up.

35. Day Game is super fun and not as scary as you think it is. Go try it today.

36. All women secretly want to be sluts. The next time you are inside one, ask her if she is. I’m yet to hear a girl say “No!”

37. Good sex and an emotional roller coaster create feelings of love.

38. Dating is the act of delaying rejection.

39. If she doesn’t return your texts right away, wait. Do not send her a stream of angry messages. If you ask her to meet up and she ignores you, delete her number and go meet more women.

40. Lift weights.

41. Keep detailed notes on every night out. This will help you internalize your lessons.

42. If you stretch your arm out and you can’t reach her, you are too far away. You should be about half an arms length.

43. Most men have no approach game. Women are incredibly frustrated and horny. Even if they say they don’t like being hit on, they’re lying. They love it. They go home and tell all their friends. They blog about it. They masturbate at night imagining being picked up.

44. In bed, do not make love every time. Spank her, bite her, pull her hair. Mix this with sweet talk, dirty talk, and then be gentle. Mix it up. Encourage her to be imaginative and communicate with you. Always wear a condom unless you like babies and std’s.

45. A coffee shop is the best pickup bar in town.

46. If you aren’t having fun, then do something else. Pickup isn’t for you.

47. The best pickup artists get rejected more than most men will ever approach.

48. Don’t worry about making people like you. You’re doing this to make yourself happy, not them.

49. It will take you several years to get good. Enjoy the process more than the result.

50. Many women will fuck you in ten minutes in the bathroom, but they won’t go on a date or answer your text messages.