Dildos are a huge plus in terms of sexual self discovery and satisfaction in the bedroom (and beyond). They are typically one of the first types of sex toys that people choose, because they are simple, realistic and versatile too. And due to their simplicity, they are also highly affordable and easy to obtain online. Actually, there are literally millions of dildos available, but the best realistic dildos will be from quality websites that choose great manufacturers.

Sometimes, it can be hard to find the best dildo, and the one you like most of all. We’ve researched over 1000 reviews and done comprehensive online research to come up with the 5 things you should consider that make a dildo fantastic. Keep reading to find out just what characteristics set a great dildo apart from the rest, and then you’ll know exactly what to look for while shopping for your own.

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What are dildos?

To put it simply, dildos are pretty-much phallic objects that provide sexual gratification when used internally. They mimic the sensation of a real penis, and so the dildo goes into your vagina or your anus, depending upon your preference.

So, what are the features that define a great dildo?

Personal choice and variety are always different from person to person. Most people will have varying likes and dislikes because, in truth, everyone is unique in what they perceive to be hot (or not) in terms of getting turned on. So, whether you like hard/soft, big/small, realistic or dildos that looks like unicorn horns, personal preference is key to the perfect dildo.

Number 1: Size Matters

Most love the humble dildo because it can be used as a substitute for the real deal. And let’s be honest here, a dildo is a great way to stay sexually satisfied whether you have a partner or not.

When it comes to size, some may like it small, or some may like it huge, and then there are those who, like Goldilocks, like it somewhere in between, where it is “just right”.

Number 2: Softer Exterior

The vaginal walls are delicate and soft, so a softer material and head may be preferred. Softness is a key element for pleasure for some, especially if they normally feel pain during intercourse. Use lubrication too, especially for anal penetration as the anus cannot lubricate itself.

Number 3: Rigidity

While the exterior may be nice soft, the interior, or spine or inner core of the dildo should be rigid, for satisfying penetration. For realistic dildos, they may have a slight bendable nature, but still stay firm. Some people prefer very hard dildos however, like those made from glass or metal.

Number 4: Realism

“Alluring, sensual, life-like, sexy, and just like the real thing.” An online description from a reviewer who enjoyed the realism of her new dildo.

Actually, a whopping 80% of surveyed women agreed that a realistic dildo was what visually drew them to it and turned them on way more than other styles. Realism might include: skin color, flesh-like materials used, whether or not there are balls at the base, and even veins for more realism.

Other types of non-phallic dildos might focus on features like the color, materials it’s made with, or whimsical features and shapes.

Number 5: Suction Cup Heaven

The suction cup is a relatively simple feature that adds extra possibilities to your overall love play, especially during solo play or to tease a partner. You can add it on a smooth and flat surface, or even in wet areas (be careful there), and utilize it for doggy style or wall-mounted adventures. You can even perform (or practice) oral on it to tease your partner or to get used to giving blowjobs to your lover.

The suction cup addition gives added value for money too, because now it can go almost anywhere there’s a flat surface to stick it too. Try cowgirl or reverse cowgirl, and ride it to your heart’s content. Your partner may like to watch you do this, too.

Oh, and then there’s anal penetration, but that’s a whole other article!

In Conclusion

At the end of the day, whatever makes you and your partner happy is what’s important. But if you can’t choose, there is always the option of getting two or three (or more) for different types of penetration and sex play, and to add a bit of variety to your toy box.

Dildos are a great option for penetration, either for solo and/or partnered use. So the only thing left to do now is to decide which one(s) you want to buy!