When it comes to men raping women, there is no rape culture and there are no rape apologists. I wish I could say the same for women raping men and boys or even women raping other women, but I can’t. I cannot because this society does not take female sexual abuse seriously (along with physical violence). The reality is that female sexual abuse of boys and adult men (yes that is right adult men) is far more common than society thinks it is. To find out just how common, might I suggest people listen to the adjacent video interview with Dr. Philip. W. Cook on female perpetrated sexual abuse of adult men and read the book he published on the subject with Dr. Tammy Hodo, "When Women Sexually Abuse Men". Then consult the adjacent video on female pedophilia. The reality is that female prepetrators are responsible for a substantial chunk of overall sexual violence and not just a tiny fraction. I know men myself, that have been raped by women. Not a single one of these women did time behind bars.

I particularly find it very revealing on just how lopsided our views are as a society on sexual abuse, when we are automatically more predisposed to distrusting men around children and yet a large number of the perpetrators of child abuse are actually women. Time and time again we see female teachers, mothers, aunts or older women and even girls in the news raping boys and girls and yet they receive much shorter prison sentences than their male counterparts or get off with no prison time at all. He was “lucky”, he is a “guy”, he “wanted it”, the excuses come from everywhere in this society. She was “depressed”, she was “lonely” after a messy divorce, she was “out of character” or it was just "inappropriate horseplay". We excuse sexual abuse when it is women committing the crimes of rape or sexual abuse, but none of these excuses are good enough when suddenly the perpetrator is male. Even if the male perpetrator is a boy, suddenly he is magically an adult in the eyes of the law. Speaking of child sex offenders, it is not just adult women sexually abusing boys, girls do it too. Recently this year in 2014 in the state of Maryland in the US, a 16 year old mentally disabled boy was physically and sexually tortured by two teenage girls (see adjacent video above). Here are another two examples for those that have trouble believing that boys are never sexually abused by girls-example 1 with a 12 year old autistic boy from Australia, example 2 with a 4 year old boy from the US (a related critique be RamzPaul linked here).