Hello, this is my first post on here as I’ve never really looked to post anywhere about this. I’m a 23 year old male but also a bedwetter, I haven’t been all my life but around about 17/18 bedwetting became a thing for me again and has been on and off ever since. I never did tell anyone about this not even my family as I managed on my own and wanted to keep it that way .I did have this all checked out and tested and there isn’t nothing deeply wrong with me but in the end it got out down as secondary nocturnal enuresis.

More to the point I’ve been in a relationship nearly a year now and everything is great! I told her about my bedwetting a good few months into our relationship and she couldn’t have been any better about understanding it .. we sleep together at hers or at mine on a weekly basis and I just struggle to bring myself to wear any form of protection around her just feels embarrassing after all these years of no one knowing ect to know someone there if that makes sense? However she brought it up to me the other day and we spoke about it a lot more then we was to start with and today she got me some more protection to wear as she just wanted to help out with it all in little ways she could. Basically what I’m trying to say is has anyone been there in a start of a relationship and had to introduce wearing around there partners ? How did it feel? How did you ease it into normal day to day life? Does anything make it easier or do you just have to break the tension and face it ?lol

Thanks for reading.