In this write-up we discuss about quarantine effects on relationships. First, we consider when you are single and then we’ll go into people who are in relationships. What I’ve noticed about it is it’s pretty actually and pretty problematic at times.

One of the things that I want to bring up for single people is, this is a great time for dating apps and conversations with women. It is really getting good at conversating with women. Online dating is a really crucial step because how many of you are really thankful for the internet right now during quarantine, right?

It’s given me so much a different level of respect for just the Internet in general and sometimes we’ve been able, we’ve probably taken it for granted. I need to do the social media break but then it’s also like there’s also beauty and things right and it’s really important that we look at this as a beyond; a conceptional mindset and just thinking of it as like okay this is a great time for me to just really talk to women and see what’s out there, have conversations with women because this is how we connect. With men it is like conversations; how does he going to make me feel comfortable? Do we have things in common and then imagine when quarantine is over and you guys can’t wait till we see each other, your connection is going to be so much more knighted, then it would be than just a three day and then see each other on a date and then maybe you’re connected or not. This is a valuable time to do so.

Another thing is identifying what it is that you want in a relationship or and work on embodying this right. So, for example, a lot of times there’s men that are telling me I’ve never but dated before, there are men that have dated plenty of women and it just can’t find the right one and there are times where I ask men that and it’s a happen.

Often, I ask men like what is your type of woman and typically we go into the physical level right away and this is so. So, what’s the word I’m looking for so? So, like understandable. I could say for men and it’s because if we don’t understand how the human mind works for a man then we just don’t understand man and it’s so important that we understand that when it comes to attraction and love.

A lot of men operate from the prefrontal cortex which is vision. How aesthetically how was a woman right? That’s the first way that a man gets turned on or sometimes attracted to a woman. Aesthetically women are completely different. At times, typically when they’re younger, they’ll like a very attractive good-looking guy or they’ll you know look at a good-looking guy but it doesn’t mean that that has to be our boyfriend because they’re good-looking. It’s totally different.

What it’s really valuable for men to do and this is when you start getting good at identifying the group the better. Women for you is understanding and identifying what it is that you want. So, standards are really important values.

When you go into dating and relationships, all right let’s see if this woman has been honest with you since day one, is she open-minded, does she think and does she tell you what she’s thinking, is the mindset of men. At times, there are women out there that do.

Next, identify your values so you can get clear in them when you wouldn’t. Next, is being comfortable with yourself. We can’t fake an attraction like that’s the thing. What’s really important is that we understand in a mind of a woman when we feel a little off, we can’t connect and you’re kind of like withdrawn a little bit and we stick back right. So, getting comfortable with yourself is really important.

Now, in regards to relationships, let’s go into that now. What does this mean for your relationships? Many couples are getting in so many arguments right now with their loved ones, with their spouses and this is a time for us to challenge each other because we’re so used to go 9:00 to 5:00; my husband’s not home, but I’m home. But, now he’s here and now he’s trying to control my normal routine and it just throws us off right?

So, communication and relationships are going to be key. One of the biggest things couples don’t understand here is that in our relationships, we should get a schedule and what we do here at home is I have a set time where I’m typically in my office, I come out, I’ll do lunch. If he’s doing lunch, I’ll do lunch with him and then we go back to our separate rays like separate sides of the home, different rooms.

Whatever the case, maybe if you can do that and then at night, we come together right, so it gives us that time to really focus on other people, to focus our into machines, to focus on ourselves, to focus on my business and it really works. We don’t work out together as much unless we are not spending as much time together. Then, we’ll start working out together. So. I would really recommend to for some days when you’re in quarantine, to go out with your partner and work out with them. But, then some days to do it by yourself as well it’s really important.

I think during this time that we get okay with our own oneness right and we have that time alone and that solitude also too a lot of times we can lead to expectations and I want you guys to remember as you know because I work with them a lot and we men operate differently instinctually and so women kind of are really an emotional state of like I have to protect my family, I have to protect my children, I have to protect, I have to protect, I have to protect and when they get there, they want the man to feel like alright, you’re right honey; we have to protect but also to and the masculine presence sometimes a man can be like don’t worry sweetheart everything’s going to be okay and I’m sure a lot of you are really connecting to what I’m saying right now and then she gets mad at you for doing that.

This is happening so much even with my friends and their marriages and things like that. You have to understand that women are totally different than a man’s operations of thinking. Sometimes, it takes a man a lot longer to get into that nurturing aspect. That’s his way of protecting things and then a woman sees it as you’re not taking it that seriously right?

It takes men time. Women do get emotionally triggered in times like this. So, when it happens in your relationship or if it happened in your relationship, find out why.

When you get in the argument, sweetheart I know you’re upset with me right now, but help me understand why and how I’m making you feel this way. So, if we can understand that when we get into an argument with our partner usually it’s because our other partner not only pissed us off right but also it’s because we just want to be heard. A lot of times when people argue they’re in that state. It’s because they feel like they’re not being heard. So, the best thing that you can do is offer because then when you offer than she’s going to hopefully hear you out as well and there’s a lot of things that can happen with the children and schooling at home.

So, there is a lot of pressure I would say get on a schedule and try to chime in also to do things like tic-toc videos, board games with your children or if it’s just you and her and you’re just in a life where you’re just your dogs and no children. This is a time to also do so right and experience those fun things together. Cooking together, putting on music, starting your day with music instead of the news.

Another thing I want to talk about is like for example, if there was somebody that was dating somebody and you really like them and then all of a sudden that’s happened and you can’t see them again and you’re like is attraction going to be lost and this person going to love me? Am I going to really lose this person? If we get into that fearful state, then you will lose that person because then we’re going to start overcompensating and calling FaceTime and we’re not going to let that woman breathe because we’re in a state of lack and we’re not asking authentic.

This is probably the moment where she can actually sit back and be like damn, I really like this guy because she can’t even date anybody else. She’s at home. We as humans want attention. We thrive from connection. We want the affection. We want to feel validated. We want to feel loved at times. So, what makes you think that she will lose attraction for you unless you get into flight or fright mode when I talk about into the scarcity mind it and you don’t come from abundance then this is when we can kind of kill the relationship because you were also a rock for her as well as she should be for you.

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