DEAR DEIDRE: I HAD too much to drink and had sex with four different guys.

It was totally crazy and fun but now I’m pregnant and panicking.

3 I'm happy and frightened that I'm pregnant but I know I'll be a good mum Credit: Getty - Contributor

I’m 17 and just started a BTEC at college. This summer has been really boring for me, as there isn’t a lot going on in town.

Then my mate said she had met a hot guy in the pub and he had invited us both to a really big party a few miles away. I told my mum I was spending the night at my friend’s then we got on the bus.

It was in a huge house and there was no one else there of our age — everyone looked older, in their twenties.

I felt nervous and had a few drinks to help me relax.

3 I don't which of the four men could be the dad or how I'll ever find them again Credit: Getty - Contributor

A good-looking guy smiled at me. The music was loud and he shouted: “Let’s go somewhere else so we can hear ourselves speak.”

He led me upstairs and said I looked hot. We talked for a while then he kissed me and stroked my bare leg.

He shared a spliff with me, which made me feel funny. He pushed me gently down on to the bed and we had sex. I fell asleep for a while, then he woke me with the noise he made leaving the room.

He never came back but some other guy opened the door and asked if I was OK. We chatted. I felt safer upstairs in the bedroom than in the downstairs rooms, which were noisy and mad.

3 I'm panicking that I'm pregnant because I'm only 17 and just started a BTEC at college Credit: Getty - Contributor

This guy seemed really nice and he wanted sex, too. It felt exciting and kind of unreal, like this was a movie and I was just watching myself from the stalls. Two other guys then came in and seemed to be friends of his. The rest of the evening is a blur but I know I had sex with those guys, too.

My friend woke me up around 4am, asking what had been happening. I got a bus home with her in the morning feeling really hungover and weird.

I’ve now found out I’m pregnant and that makes me happy but frightened as well. I know I’ll be a great mum but don’t know which one of the guys is the dad or how I’d find them.

I don’t think I could even find the house again.

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DEIDRE SAYS: I’m very worried for you. That was such a risky night out. Those guys should never have had sex with you in that state. In the eyes of the law, it was probably rape.

If you want to talk over your feelings about this, contact Rape Crisis (rapecrisis.org.uk, 0808 802 9999).

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But the pregnancy is your most urgent problem. You’re just 17, still at college and still living at home with your mum. Do you really think you could cope with a baby? Have you thought about how it would change your whole life?

Please don’t let more time drift on by without seeking advice.

I’m sending you my e-leaflet Unplanned Pregnancy, which explains your options.

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