He sent a message asking if it would be too creepy if he left my gift on my doorstep because he was coming to the Pacific Northwest for work this week. I told him "No" it wouldn't be creepy and if he didn't mind not being a secret would he like to go out for coffee? We went to dinner instead! We talked and talked and talked - it was awesome! Oh and there isn't a picture of them but he got me more than what I really wished for - not one but two Toys for Tots gifts! Plus he also got me a gift certificate to my favorite online embroidery site - Sublime Stitching! Thank you so much philoponeria! I had so much fun!

edit: redditor's are soo romantic! but it wasn't a date - he's married!