Three and a half months post SRS - Update

Yay, it’s time once again to openly talk about the current state of my crowd funded genitals.

So, three and a half months on from surgery, things are finally settling down enough with my new genitals for me to know what’s what, get a good idea of the end result, and assess where things go from here.

First up - Peeing.

So, going from having a penis to having a vagina inherently comes with some new difficulties. With a penis the urethra leads to the tip of the penis, basically meaning you can pee and it just leaves your body, touching nothing, obscured by nothing, and needing next to no attention once you’re done.

Not the same with a vagina.

Put simply, no matter what, there’s now skin between the opening of the urethra and the toilet. Pee is going to touch skin and need drying. Seriously, it takes a lot of toilet paper to thouroughly clean, and some time. Guys wonder why girls take so long in the bathroom, it’s the added time drying up pee from the vagina.



My urethral control is still not 100% what it was, with me fereling the need to pee more suddenly than I used to. I have to act a bit faster when I feel the need to pee. That’s improving over time.

One aspect of surgery relating to peeing I ideally want fixed down the line with follow up surgery. My urethra is at a bit of an angle. It’s hard for me to not pee all over the place in crazy directions. I ideally want to do a follow up surgery some time to correct that.



Next - Dilation and bleeding

I have gone down from three dilations per day to two, cutting out the middle of the day dilation entierly for now. This has made my days run a lot smoother work wise, and also made work travel to other countries infinately more viable. Being able to take a 14 hour flight and not need to dilate in the middle of it is a god send. That would be a nightmare.

I have for the most part stopped bleeding now, but if I push myself a little too hard in dilation I ocassionally cause bleeding. I still don’t feel 100% secure in by ability to interact with my new vagina without doing any damage.



Thirdly - The actual Vagina

So, my vagina itself is much what I expected it to be. Very sensitive still at the moment, folds and clitoris etc where I expected them.



The vaginal opening always surprises me with the angle it’s at.

Orgasms have changed entierly from a quick short moment that’s suddenly over to long drawn out waves of pleasure and full body tingles. Very strange realisation that orgasms would feel so different. Thankful that I have maintained near full genital sensation

Lastly - My leg

When I was recovering from surgery in hospital, I was very aware of a patch of skin on my leg which was completely numb, and occassionally felt like it was on fire.

I was told this was just from how I was on the operating table and it would pass.

Three and half months on the fire burning sensation has finally gone away, and the numbness is lessening but still present. I suspect it will go away entierly by itself over time. It’s probably going to take a while to return to normal.

So yeah, that’s the current state, three and half months on, of my new genitals. Much what I expected. Zero genital dysphoria since surgery.

I tried swimming while at GaymerX. I forgot how much I love swimming. I am currently saving up money to buy a proper new swimming costume with pockets for breast forms.

I’ve been infinately more comfortable with leggings. They’re my new favourite type of legwear.

I feel so much better about my body.

