If you're here you either know Tiffany or know someone that knows her. That's usually how this works. Either way, you are probably wondering why I have set up a GoFundMe page for her and for her legal fees... well, let me tell you. Buckle up because her roller coaster is bound to make you nauseous.



I have known Tiffany and her family for the better part of 5+ years. I had an immediate respect for her before even getting to know her, simply because of the kind nature and calmness she exuded. You just knew you could come to her and no matter what it was, she’d take time to help, talk, research, debate about whatever it was. And you always left the conversation or encounter better for the time spent with her. She deserves to have a force of compassionate and sympathetic people surround her and help her fight this battle she was blindsided with against the man she once called her husband. And currently, the best form of help is financial relief from the burden of legal fees.



Now for for the roller coaster...



Tiffany is of a strong christian faith where her vows were something she held dear and didn’t take lightly. Her husband wanted her to quit working and be a stay at home mom to their oldest son over 10+ yrs ago. And that was another position she took pride in. And continued in that role in their home when they added two more children. Meanwhile, her husband had taken a liking to talking to other women and having various spells of infidelity. Through the pain, she stayed true to her vows and continued trying to work on their marriage and raise their children and take care of the home.



Fast forward to years down the road, where even though he has a good paying job, he manages to continuously put them in a financial crisis so Tiffany began to build a successful business from home. Always struggling to make sure she had money to buy groceries to feed her family. And she excelled at it every time. Because that’s who she is, resourceful and determined. He eventually started his old habits, infidelity and frivolous spending. And that’s when she found out just pieces of the things going on.



credit cards she knew nothing about

funneling money away from their account

taking out loans from his 401k and life insurance

taking out a title loan on HER vehicle

talking to young girls and sending inappropriate photos

just to name a few....



THEN he blindsided her with divorce papers, and that he had already paid for his attorney with THEIR money. Moved his paycheck to his own account and left her with absolutely no way of providing for herself. She has been forced to find employment after 10+ years of not working, pay for an attorney and all the astronomical fees of mediation and the courts. And to top it off, the lawyer she retained is now being disbarred leaving her worried because he and his lawyer are fighting dirty based on the premise that she hasn’t found employment yet. She has applied for over 200 jobs and they all give the same response....not enough experience/work history.



He has continued his erratic behavior in his care of the children on his weeks. Sends the kids to school sick bc he refuses to leave them with Tiffany. Has told them it is unhealthy for them to sleep in her room, and caused much unneeded emotional stress on everyone in the home.



While shes been struggling, he has been living the single life. Bought a new BMW. Buying whatever HE needs. And won’t even buy groceries for the kids on her week.



This is just pieces of her terrible dealings in living through this. And she needs help paying for a new attorney and the psych evaluation while she frantically tries to find work. So please, if you find it in your heart to help, send whatever you can. $1, $5, $100, whatever. It all adds up. And may God bless you for your generosity in helping someone through a rough time at no fault of her own.

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