ambiguterus:

openn-your-mindd: I think I may have given him a black eye. Was it worth it? Absolutely. It was epic. He got to feel a tiny portion of the amount of pain he put me through. Maybe he’ll think before he chips away at my self esteem again. I found out he has a 6 year old daughter. I pray she has a strong sense of… Celebrating violence is pretty appalling. Yes, it’s wrong for someone to be rude and hateful towards you, but escalating the situation to violence is also wrong. Hate and violence solve nothing, they only put more negativity into the world. Violence begets violence- do we really need more of that in our lives?

hmmmm Ambiguterus, True. and I thought “gosh someone is going to comment about the violence thing” the entire time I wrote it. and within 5 minutes of me posting it, BAM here you are :) but honestly, I don’t care. He was verbally abusive and could not care less. i wanted him to stop. and he kept going on and on and on… calling me fat and asking me how I’m in a relationship, making jokes and wouldn’t stop. I was sobbing and ran away. I tried to brush it off. But he kept going on and on in the other room. I could hear him and people were laughing. This was in MY OWN HOME. I marched in and stopped him myself. I tried asking 1st but it took a little more than asking. Sorry I offended you.

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