Et tu Abel?

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you're surprised by this...?

he's a drug addict who made his millions shamelessly fetishizing (to put it nicely) women

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He's so tiny. 😝Like a little leprechaun. Just put him your pocket and carry him around.😙



I am wondering if lipstick alley was right when they claimed he only likes White women. Who knows, life is life and people like people.



Edited at 2015-09-09 06:09 pm (UTC)

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is there any truth to the rumor that he was having this party at a club and asked that the bouncers turn all black woman away?

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Ewwww. I actually hope that's not true.

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nah, there's not, it was denied in the lsa thread too.

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someone would surely have receipts for this

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That has always been the word about him

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Bella and Gigi are only half white.

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Me too, lol. I also thought she was at least 21

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Your icon. I had the hugest crush on Demetri around the time that photo was taken.

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ME TOO, he's 25?!! the fuck???

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Yeah, me too. He needs to moisturize or something because he looks much older than 25.

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omggg I'm older than him

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Looks like girlfriend shops at American Apparel

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Now that store is overpriced ;)

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Not as bad as UO tho

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gross, abel

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She's 18, there's nothing wrong with this?

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she literally just turned 18. this is jsut like kylie/tyga.

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No she didn't. She'll be 19 next month.

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any guy who waits around drooling for a girl to actually hit that sweet, sweet 18 is just as creepy as the scumbags who say fuck it and go after her before 18

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ONTD's obsession with infantilizing legal adults especially when they're women is so creepy.

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It's not technically, but I mean, a 25 year old dating a teenager definitely earns some of the shadiest shade in Shadetown. Well-adjusted adults don't date teens.

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I think the problem here is that 18 year olds usually lack maturity... especially rich Hollywood raised ones. Bella is probably a mess and Abel takes advantage out of it. These kinda relationships usually are what I call a trainwreck waiting to happen.

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This shit is just sad to me. Every girl I know who dated 25/27 around 18 ended up in an abusive relationship so I never support age gaps like this

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Ditto. Experience makes me very wary of grown men going after very young women. I don't have an issue with actual grown adults (fully developed brains, have spent a few years being independent and coming into their own and learning about the adult world) having age gaps, I'm just so not here for the potential abuse and the kinds of guys who deliberately target young women for their inexperience and naïveté etc. Been there myself, watched so many others go through it. Never seen a healthy relationship between a teen and a guy old enough to have graduated from university and built a career.



Edit: oh, and the age of consent where I live is 16 and you will quite often see grown-ass men going after literal schoolgirls because it's ~legal so why not. Yes, many teenagers are mature and smart and confident, but they're still teenagers and a world apa from grown adults.



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Yeah a 45 year old dating a 25 year old will receive massive side-eye from me, but I'm not in fear for her safety (depending on the power dynamics of that relationship) as I am for teenage girls.



Never seen a healthy relationship between a teen and a guy old enough to have graduated from university and built a career.

SAME, I never have and I've seen many of those relationships. it makes me feel sick inside whenever I meet a very young woman who's dating a 25+ creep

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true. when I see people defend their ex-partners who were clearly abusive when dating them with a 18/25 age gap...it makes me feel awful for them. I guess it is traumatising to unpack abuse that that couldn't see clearly while it was happening :////

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This truth.



I dated a 30 year old combat veteran when I was 21 after I had been sleeping with a 28 year old guy I met when I was 19. Who I 'cheated' on him with, and by cheated I mean that 28 year old guy assaulted me and I couldn't even process what had happened because he was 'my best friend'.



It legit took me years to get ever that mess.

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same

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Exactly, this happens all the damn time. When I was 18 all I wanted was to have a boyfriend, someone who wanted me and cared about me, it was possible I would have taken anyone without judgement. Glad it didn't happen! My biggest nightmare is being in an abusive relationship... there's way too many fucked up, creepy men out there.

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Dude I get so shaded out by it. I was 14 dating a 20 yr old and thought I was so ~~~kewl. I introduced him to my parents and told them he was 18 and a senior in high school and they were like, no way- too old and made all these efforts for me to not see him. I'm really glad they did that looking back, when I turned 21 (we dated until I was 15 and he was 21) I was like, I can't believe I did that, it was so fucked up. And now I'm extra salty about people 21 and older dating anyone younger.



The rule of thumb should be, if you can get into a 21+ club and they can't- don't date them. Including 21-18 year old relationships. It's weird. And I hate it.





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that's not jennifer lawrence?

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I see Leelee Sobieski

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I can kind of see it. Leelee whatever the hell disappeared though - I wonder if she still acts…

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Ugh. Go ahead, ONTD. Tear him apart (.gif)

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Awkwaaaaaaaaaaard.



But I'm loving the fuck out of the new album. No shame.

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I don't understand why so many of y'all make a huge deal of age differences. She's an adult, stop trying to police her choices. My boyfriend is 28 years older than me, and we are super happy. He didn't neg me, or manipulate me to be with him. I, actually, was the one who made most of the first moves.

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Lol god, stfu

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k

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mte. my boyfriend's 80 years old and everyone was sideeyeing me when he took me to prom but listen, the things he can do with his dentures...

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literal lol

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lmao

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i cackled

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Lmao

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i'm sorry your boyfriend is a creep

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Mte. I just can't at people assuming that if you date someone older than you by more than like 1-5 years it's because that person is a pedo. Liiiike...

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Is this satire.

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Twenty eight years older than you? What the fuck? Are you Celine Dion? Get that grandpa peen boo!

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And you met him through your parents, after they suddenly showed up in a new car?

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How old were you when the relationship started?

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This non-100x100 comment rn.

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how interesting

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LOL



Get paid, bitch!

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Wait can you tell me everything about this relationship before I judge

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I understand that but it can't be said that it will be the same situation for all other age gap relationships, and in most cases, it's not.



Edited at 2015-09-09 06:41 pm (UTC)

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Wait what are your ages?

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LOL

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"I, actually, was the one who made most of the first moves."



You sound like you have father issues.

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So then why are you mad about this? If everything is so super in your relationship why are you trying to derail discussions about how gross this one is? That doesn't make sense tbqh.

Your feelings are valid but that you came in here and willingly announced all this to 'prove' something suggests that maybe you should think about why you felt you had to do that.

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lmao

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yeah but how old are you? guys who date teens are creepy

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oh so we're gonna talk about sugar daddies now?

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"My boyfriend is 28 years older than me" enjoy the soggy D sis.

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What D:

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So glad I missed whatever story you're referencing lol

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i'm gonna need more information

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she needs to do some seriously "soul surging" lol

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honestly they're perfect for each other lmao

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Ewwwwww D:

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awww girl, yikes!

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Yeah, this relationship sleeves me out a little because she's not only 18, she seems to be about 12 in terms of looking after herself and dealing with responsibility :/ welp, hopefully she learnt from that and she's now ~super-mature and so there's nothing weird about her dating a 25-year-old. Hopefully.

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These makes the whoel situation even worse, he's not only creeping on a teenage girl but he's actively going after a girl who has severe addiction issues and maybe even unchecked mental health probelms.





This is disgusting, I might just have to adblock his face. This is really sick. There's no way he doesn't know about this and didn't explicitly pick her because of her problems. Someone needs to save this girl and get her help.

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Yeah mte



And you can't really use the ~she's so mature for her age though argument in this case as she evidently either has issues that she needs help with or is childlike when it comes to adult responsibility and taking care of herself.



So...nope. Nope to this.

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Tbh, if this letter is any indication of the kind of parenting she received, I can see why she is a mess. Who in their right mind would think now is the time to alternately belittle and guilt trip your daughter?

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yolanda sounds fucking unbalanced as hell in that email. Anwar's life is going to be terrible because his sister had a dirty car??

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17 yo girls on the verge of 18 & freshly turned 18yo r such a fantasy for so many sadult tr8 men, can't trust them tbh

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It's not a straight male thing. Creepy old gay dudes love their 18 year olds too.

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I was talking about teen girls tho and I'm 100% sure gay guys aren't into that

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I was talking with a lesbian and a straight girl and the topic of age gaps in relationships came in. The lesbian mentioned that big age gaps aren't really common with lesbians and its more of a gay guy thing. And as a gay man with experience in those things, I agreed.

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i know a dude who only dates guys that are in the 17-19 age range. and he's in his early thirties. i fucking despise him.

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Lmao @ sadult...idk if its a typo but it is so very appropriate here

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