So I was in Wisconsin a couple winters ago, snowing like crazy the second day of my trip. I went out to my rental car to clean it off and parked next to me was a black guy about my age doing the same thing. He had a big overcoat on and a suit and said he was never getting to his meeting at this rate. I said I was in the same boat and considering canceling instead of trying to drive in this storm which was set to go well into that night.

I called it and said fuck it I’m going back in and having breakfast and make some calls he said he was going to give it a go. After being bored and rearranging my trip for the next few days I made my way down to the bar and found a seat to watch the snow and answer emails. After about an hour I heard a voice say “I made a mistake I should of stayed here like you”. I laughed and said come on over I’ll order you what I’m having, coffee and Bailey’s, he happily agreed. He said his name was Nate and he was from Ohio. We made the usual chit chat, ate some wings and before you knew it it was late afternoon and we were both pretty buzzed as we had switched between beer and the coffee all afternoon. Nate was married but said he wasn’t sure that it would last much longer, the k**s were older and she did her thing and he did his and travel got in the way much more these days. I said every marriage goes thru rough periods but just hang in there and it will be okay. I said that if his travel is taking him away more than he has to be able to have some fun with it and live a little. He said does that mean looking for sex in hotel bars like this? I said not every time but sometimes if your open to it it just happens. But you have to be open to it. He said okay what does open mean? I said well it depends on what you want, your not gonna be able to get laid every time but getting head after a few drinks is much easier to make happen.

Nate said he can’t lie he’s had a few women while traveling, but its rare that it happens. I said matter of fact like that his odds would improve if he were open to more than just women. He looked shocked and said I thought you were married with k**s? I said yes indeed and I’m not gay, but blowjobs are blowjobs no matter who was giving them. He thought about that for a second and said he never thought about giving one, I said but you like getting them? He said of course, he loved a good blowjob more than pussy. I said there you go, now your chances of getting one have doubled if you are open to a guy doing it. We laughed more and drank more. Finally he said, have you ever given one, I looked at him and said “many”, starting when I was a teenager. I told him I am not attracted to guys at all and that I have never done anything with a guy but blow them. He said do I like the taste of cum? I said sometimes, not always.