Omg Ritana I'm so sorry you went through that. Aside from the satisfaction of telling him what an ass he is I don't know as upbraiding him would have accomplished much; someone that narrow minded is certainly not going to change just because a patient teaches him something. I'd bet that that response was motivated out of anger that he'd not clocked you, i.e. he was reacting to his own ignorance with anger.



This to me is comparable to the nightmare of a sex partner reacting badly to finding out someone is trans after the fact, and equally inexcusable.



So I'm in agreement that your best option is to complain loudly to whatever organizations this idiot belongs to. Of course I don't know if you're living in an area where his behavior would generally be considered excusable -- where I live and especially in the medical practice I go to I can promise you that would be a firing offence.



Most of all hugs and accept my wishes that you may find a doc who will treat you with the compassion we all deserve.