Clay pretends he is with his sweet Kandi but he is really a man-thief. He stole Steve away from me and it doesn't stop there. He lives a closeted life with his girlfriend while stealing men away from other men. He uses his self-hate to preach anti-gay messages on his radio show, The Free American and The Morning Brew. I know the truth Clay! I have these Skype screenshots to prove it! And now Kandi will, too.