Hombre Libre wrote: This is so damn liberating!

A soon as I saw the title, that’s exactly what I thought. We have been socialized since the crib to think female approval matters , but female approval is just as worthless as their disapproval. I’m not even saying that to be funny.

It just doesn’t matter if a woman likes (or doesn’t like) something.

As soon as you figure that out, it’s like wearing a Superman outfit.

THE PROBLEM with it all, is the way women behave like we should care – either way. They will actually have the nerve to tell you what they like (or don’t like) as if you should give a f~~~ at all. What kind of arrogance is required for that? How off-the-chart full of herself does a woman have to be to say something like:

“I like you better without facial hair”.

Do you know how many times I heard that in my life? Like every time I shaved after letting it grow a bit. Damn near every woman will say something about it. Even the coffee shop girl. Coworkers. Relatives. In laws. So I now I just have a stock response for it……

“You know, I like you better without facial hair, too.”.

They never mention it again.

Women actually think we “grow” a beard, and I have to correct them on that too.

“Men do not GROW a beard. When we have a beard, we just didn’t chop it off.”.

It never ceases to amaze me how women walk around starting conversations by telling you what they like or don’t like, like you’re supposed to care. The problem is less about whether you care (or not) than it is about them behaving like we SHOULD care.

Big congratulations on not caring, but that’s not even half the battle. It’s still a constant (daily) struggle to get them to stop behaving like their approval or disapproval matters in the first place. Whoever planted that into their heads needs an earful from a man. Pronto.