Being a girl is just something obvious that toxic people will cling onto and attack you for.

Same with loud high pitched voice children,

Same with men with higher pitched voices.

It’s the only information they know is true so it’s what they’re going to attack first regardless.

I find being a team player will a) make everyone on the team besides the toxic person be on your side. And b) make the toxic player less likely to attack you to begin with because they’re aware of a.

Anytime I’ve been the target of toxicity it’s from someone who’s doing poorly. I just point out why they’re bad and turn the witch Hunt in on itself. Works everytime.