Compared to some of my friends, I'm thin (still overweight, but that's a different story). I don't look down on them for it, because they're all gorgeous and/or sexy and I love them dearly. However, I have very strict standards for MYSELF about my weight, and I have a bad habit of calling myself fat whenever I'm above the weight that I want to be. Is there something that I should stay instead, because I really really really don't want to offend anyone, but I need a way to express my displeasure.

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fuzzlechan

I don’t really have any other suggestions for you, since I’m not really comfortable with telling someone the best way to speak negatively about their body. There are enough blogs that will gladly tell you how to you how to do that. This isn’t one of them.



Also, this isn’t the place for you to come and ask fat people how you should talk bad about yourself / your body / your weight. We are reminded enough that our bodies are considered bad and society thinks we should change. Even trying to say that you are only talking about your body ignores that you don’t live in a vacuum and those thoughts came from living in a fat phobic society.

-FBP