CONGRATULATIONS! Finally you have decided to cross the line of doubt, fear, misconception and social taboo that surround the whole idea of pegging and are now looking for a pegging partner. Great going!

With this comes the next big question - where can you find a pegging partner?

Unfortunately, there are no places where women run around with fake cocks just waiting to sink into the butt of any interested male.

So, is it that hard to find a pegging partner?

No, it's not. However, it is hard to find a woman who enjoys fucking a man’s ass and is ready to peg a stranger. It’s logical of course – just because she likes pegging, that doesn’t mean she will be ready to peg a complete stranger (read: you ).

Pegging is an intimate sexual act. It involves warm and intimate penetration. The approach to find a pegging partner should be exactly the same way you would approach finding a relationship. You need to be clever, fun, interesting, and charming whether in-person or online when approaching a woman.

Remember: always treat women gracefully!

Women don't just peg butts - they peg real men. Women just don’t see the body part; they see the real person connected to it. Remember, there’s a real woman behind that strap-on so respect her and treat her gracefully.

You may not find many women who are into casual pegging but there’s always the exception. If the guy is charming, hot, fun and trustworthy she might go for it.

So let’s get back to the basics – how can you find a girl to peg you?

Try out the kink clubs

So, where do the lovely and fun women who love pegging go for some casual play? Where do all those lovely ladies congregate in person? Your best chances are within the kink community. You should try out the BDSM groups and kink clubs in your area. The landscape around ‘kink’ has changed drastically and kink has become more acceptable. As a result, the kink community has grown and kinky social events are now quite easy to find. Remember, people in those groups may have all kinds of kinks, not just pegging, so keep your eyes and ears open and check your judgment right at the door. Once you get close with the women in the group you may approach them and talk about pegging.

For the uninformed, fetlife.com has online social groups as well as in-person meetups to find people into pegging. The kinky social networking site boasts over five million users.

Go to the specialized forums for long-term pegging relationship

For long-term relationships, try out some of the more "specialized" forums. With members from all over the world, you will never be too far away from another like-minded user wanting enjoy some strap on action.

One great forum like this exists on Reddit where there is a specific subreddit to find a pegging partner. Here’s a link: /r/RandomActsOfPegging/.

Consider the Craigslist ads

I am sure, most of you have used Craigslist for things like searching for an apartment, used furniture, a job or maybe you’ve had something to sell or offer. But did you know men and women often post ads on CraigsList as Peggers or Peggees? You may find a pegging partner through Craigslist Ads in the “Casual Encounters” section of the Personals.

Try the pegging-specific dating sites

So far, these sites appear to possibly be bullshit, but they’re out there, so we’re mentioning them. These pegging-specific dating sites may come handy if you want to indulge in some cheeky strap-on fun. The sites claim to contain a discreet and desirous community of Peggers and Peggees all looking to make contact for pleasurable encounters. The ones we’ve found include: peggingdates.com , femdomfantasydate.com or casualfornow.com. The reason for the warning is that although there are plenty of effective adult dating sites with millions of singles to choose from, there are still a sizeable amount of bad online dating sites full of empty promises and fake profiles.

Paid adult dating site

You may also try out Adult Friend Finder, which is much more reputable, but has a monthly fee. This seems to be the top place for casual hook-ups online, though it doesn’t have a pegging-specific slant.

If you are not interested into casual dating and looking for a more meaningful relationship, you may want to subscribe to a paid site such as Match.com, eHarmony etc.

Free dating sites

If like many you are also looking for a no string attached meet up with a fun female who likes pegging, then it’s high time that you try out the dating websites.

The free sites usually offer flexibility for different types of relationships, including casual hookups and other sexual relationships. For instance, OkCupid matches you with others based on your browsing activity and on the way you answer a number of introductory questions. On the other hand, PlentyofFish (POF) allows you to specify exactly which type of relationship you’re looking for, from a hookup, to friends, to casual dating, to a long-term relationship to marriage. The latest to join in the foray of free dating sites is Tinder.

Even more dating sites

You will find millions of single men and women looking for love. The regular dating sites such as blinddate.com or flawlessdating.com may give you a good chance to meet someone you find amazing, attractive and compatible.

When you are searching pegging partner online these easy tips will increase your chances of getting pegged by a lovely woman -

Be active on the site: Don’t just create an account and start approaching women randomly. Take time to fill out your profile in its entirety, upload a picture (do not upload dick or ass shots), join groups, follow and interact in discussions

Talk about yourself: Take the time to fill out your profile in detail and talk about yourself. Talk about your likes and dislikes in both sexual and non-sexual activities. Stay away from uploading dick pictures or ass shots as your default image!! If you’re discreet, that’s fine, but when it comes down to your display image, please show something other than your dick or ass.

Take interest in her profile: If you find an interesting lady, read her profile carefully. Read her likes and dislikes and see if she’s at all interested in meeting up for new play partners. Keep in mind; women want more than just a pegging partner so go through her post history to find out her views regarding pegging.

Connect with her: Women can only build up some kind of connection when they feel secure and when they can trust you. Don’t just talk only about sex. Instead talk to her like you would with any other girl you met off line.

Think about her pleasure or keep it neutral: Obviously you want to get the utmost pleasure through pegging but if you talk about pegging, pegging, and only pegging and if you are only concerned about you and your pleasure, then she’s more than likely going to think you’re a selfish jerk. Ensure that you communicate well with one another to make sure that you both are on the same page. Focus on what she will get out of the pegging experience as much as you.

Do not limit yourself in relationships. Try and find a regular partner and talk to her about pegging.

Possibly you have heard stories about women who want to try out pegging with a stranger. You may even find stories about rave pegging parties where women with strap ons look for guys to have some butt fun. Are these stories true? Could be Yes, could be No. Are such situations common? The answer is always a loud and resounding NO. Finding a pegging partner is more than just about finding someone to peg you. It’s more about falling in love, building a connection, and nurturing a healthy level of sexual communication. So do not limit yourself in relationships. Try and find a regular partner and talk to her about pegging.

Learn how to how to tell your partner you want to try pegging. If you are a man asking your lady to peg you, introduce the term at the right moment, tell her why it’s hot, give her some time, follow through and then make a pegging plan.

Keep in mind, women are not the fetish-delivery-system and she may simply drop you if you treat her like that. Stay away from bringing your sex toys for a show-and-tell about pegging right on the first date.

Good luck in your search!