Thin privilege is talking to a guy and not discovering that he doesn’t want to date you, he just wants to fuck you–because he’s holding out for a thinner woman to date, a woman ‘worth’ being attached to…

…not like FAT you.

And fat admirers are guilty of this shit too. They often take advantage of the above situation and only want sex from fat women but never introduce them to family members or bother with commitment, or even try to learn about some of the shit fat women go through.

I’m tired of seeing FA’s patting themselves on the back for getting a boner from fat women, only to do the exact same things that non-FA’s do–suggest that fat is gross, unhealthy, bad for someone, that fat women are disgusting (but they still find them fuckable), and that fat women aren’t deserving of love or a long-term relationship.

To this, from me:

Fuck you.

FUCK YOU.

I not only deserve a long term relationship, I refuse to ever date, talk to, or walk away from these kinds of people without giving them an assload and earful of why they’re not helping anyone, they’re making the world shit for everyone in it.

I’m tired of being second string, C squad or D squad and being treated like the convenient girlfriend who’s only there when his boner needs attention. I’m just as much of a person as a thin woman. It’s about time I started getting the respect I deserve.

This hasn’t just been one guy, or two guys, or even three guys doing this to me, but dozens of guys that I’ve talked to for barely 5 minutes before finding out that’s all they want from me, ever. I’m not “dating material” to them, I’m “that ugly girl they might fuck sometimes.” So before you complain about my sample size–there you go.

And no, this doesn’t happen to thin women as a group, as a whole. They don’t get men who simultaneously consider them “lesser beings” and search for someone more attractive. They don’t get treated like girlfriends for 30 minutes out of each week while he has an erection–they get treated like girlfriends ALL the time. They get to meet his friends, and his family. They get invited to the parties he goes to–not purposefully disinvited. And when you can’t find a boyfriend for 6 years, your own parents don’t tell you to “well try to date one of those guys” that constantly reject talking to you when they’re not horny. Like it’s your fault for not bringing it up.