I recently read an article in response to the viral #MeToo Campaign. In this article, I was shocked to learn that this specific ‘feminist’[1] took the male bashing one step further than your basic run-of-the-mill bra-burners typically do. They were not only blaming all the men out there for being misogynistic rapists but even went so far as to blame everyone other man on planet earth for not standing up to the jerks of the world who take cat calling and bra snapping too far.

I’m sorry….what?

So, as a man, in the eyes of women, your damned if you do and damned if you don’t? We’re just going to rake every man we know through the hot fiery burning coals of Hell? For what? A viral hashtag giving you the platform to gain as much social media sympathy from strangers as your notification bar can handle?

This entire asinine approach to equal rights has gone on a tangent and the fundamentals of why women are continuing to protest are being lost.

Women, aren’t you trying to prove to society once and for all that you are STRONG, INDEPENDENT, COURAGEOUS, and all kinds of Sasha Fierce? Well, news flash crying your eyes out online and trying to join this new coveted ‘Victimhood’ society that celebrities have recently glorified (thanks to some recent ‘tricks to the biz’ being exploited) isn’t proving anything to support your cause.

Pro-Tip: If you want to be taken seriously as a woman, stop blaming ever man you see, stop the woe is me bullshit and STAND UP FOR YOUR GODDAMN SELF! Get a back bone! Don’t be scared to tell that drunk frat boy to go fuck himself, you would be surprised how much MORE respect he may find for you that if you just drop your panties and exercise your ‘take-backsie’ skills the next day. Make better decisions and you’ll probably find yourself in a lot less of these “metoo” moments, that’s let’s be honest – sometimes you just gotta do that Walk of Shame; it’s called LEARNING A LESSON and makes you who you are. Unless you’re a feminist, then it makes you a liar and a coward.

Second Pro-Tip: Walk up to the CEO and PROVE why you deserve the raise, promotion, corner office….whatever. Don’t take to social media and whine about how hard done by you are and how wronged you are by all of the men in society. LADIES! TAKE ACTION! If you want to ROAR, then FUCKING ROAR! But do so with the goal of positive reward and potential change, not a new colored ribbon campaign and a cult like following on social media. If you think you’re being forced to take shit and are being taken advantage of, used, abused, hung out to dry, over-looked or kicked to the side. Then DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT. We need to teach the children of our young generation that you gotta work for your spot in the world, nothing comes for free, life doesn’t work on handouts and participation ribbons don’t mean shit. EVERYONE CAN BE EQUAL IF you, do onto to others as you would have done onto you. Hmmmmmm, where did that come from, sounds like a concept that’s been around for a bazillion years. Oh wait, because it has.

Men are not the problem, FEMINISM is the problem. It’s a word full of hate, belittlement, stereotypes, and its going to make for a really rough world for the other 99% of men that don’t just sit in the shadows waiting for their chance to jump someone and rape them for no reason. Look at you fathers, your husbands, your sons….and all the other good men you know in the world. Stop man bashing for sympathy and start standing up for yourself. Educate your daughters to do the same, make good decisions, have respect for one self’s and integrity, work hard for what they want and show a lot of self love. Teach our boys the same, to respect and love women as women should respect and love men. We are all human, nothing should divide us. We can run the world together, we need not be at war with our own kind….

Be a good human, not a feminist.

You can’t be the weak, helpless victim who demands to be treated like a strong, powerful heroine – you can’t have your cake and eat it too.

[1] FUN FACT! Did you know that being a ‘feminist’ LITERALLY means you think the female species is superior to the male species? You know, the same way a RACIST believes their race is superior to another. Yeah…you’re welcome. If you’d like to support equal rights, congratulations you’re a normal basic human…but not a feminist.