"Out of this debate there are no winners or losers, but there is benefit to us all because through this difficult time we have grown to understand one another better and put ourselves in the shoes of others, and I think that's what brings our community together because at the end we are one 'ohana. We are one family and if we're going to overcome our greater challenges down the road we're going to need to join hands and come together," Lee said, describing the hope many have expressed about the need to heal after such a divisive issue.