Look. Weed can affect your love life. No, this isn’t an intervention. In fact, if you think an intervention would ever happen over a blog post, you’re probably high right now. Back to the point: weed is a dating deal breaker. And as weed is becoming decriminalized and de-stigmatized, we wanted to see how serious of a deal breaker it actually is.

To find out, we looked at various questions about weed, sex and faith. Each of these questions were asked to at least 1 million OkCupid users between 2012 to 2017. So sit back, light up a bowl (or not — toootally up to you) and check out how and where weed intersects with your dating life.

Weed + Your Partner

First thing’s first: we discovered that — when it comes to dating — people are okay with their partners smoking weed…if they’re not currently using it.

The most popular response was preferring their partners to have experienced the ~crazy effects~ of weed in the past, but not currently partake. Seems like you should puff, puff, pass for good.

Weed + Sex

Our data shows that when it comes to sex, though, weed smokers — past and present — actually have higher odds of getting off.

Weed smokers of all types (past, and both varieties of current) are significantly more likely to have orgasms than their never-smoking counterparts. So if finishing is a priority, inhaling might be too.

We also compared how people responded to weed questions and how they responded to the question “Are you looking for love or sex on OkCupid?” What we found is that, in it’s own special way, weed is a gateway drug (to sex).