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If you want to manipulate people to get what you want, be charismatic and confident since people are more likely to give in to someone with these characteristics. To exude charisma and confidence, make eye contact when talking to people, smile more, and ask people questions about themselves. When you want someone to do something for you, first ask them an unreasonable request followed by your actual request, which will then sound more appealing. For example, you can ask, “Can you come in early for the next few months to lead this new project?” and then when they reject the idea, you can follow up with, “Okay, but could you come in early tomorrow to help me with this report?” For more tips, including how to use guilt to manipulate someone, scroll down!