In Weathering with You, Hina is overjoyed every time she is able to make someone’s day better by praying the rain away. Not only is she making money and has a new friend but she’s happy to make others happy. But eventually, she runs herself ragged and starts literally fading away from using her power too much.

Here’s where we can start seeing the parallels between Hina the magical sunshine woman and reality. Much like Hina, there are many women—more so in some cultures than others—who, at a relatively early age, decide that all they want is to make others happy and fix everyone’s problems. Naturally nurturing, women are more likely to fall into this frame of mind as they are usually the caregivers in the home and the ones everyone runs to when they need love, a hug, or a shoulder to cry on. Of course, there are also men who feel this way and all they want in life is for everyone to be happy and help people avoid feeling sadness or pain if they can.

While that is a noble way to live, as selfless as it is, it can have negative effects. Just how Hina starts fading away, sunshine people can wear themselves out always worrying about others and overworking themselves for others while ignoring their own health, needs, and wants, sometimes to the point that they end up hospitalized or in abusive relationships in which they get taken advantage of.