It is just a game. When you are in the team it feels like the most important thing in the world. I felt that way. But it is important to listen to people out of it. In four or five years some of these players will look back and think that, for example, Pietersen turning up late or wearing the wrong kit did not lose them a game of cricket. They are not fighting in the army. It is not life and death. But I heard them say last winter playing in the Ashes was like a war. They will realise in time, yes, there should be mutual respect in a dressing room but there are ways of dealing with it so you do not fall so far you have to dump someone as good as Pietersen.