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Stylish sex parties are taking Ireland by storm with up to 150 horny revellers ready to attend another one next month.

While it may sound like something from 50 Shades Of Grey, they’re in full swing here with the next bash at a secret country manor house set for October 5.

Killing Kittens is a London-based online community that organises the lavish orgies around the world at €150 per couple, RSVP Live reports.

In an exclusive interview with the Irish Mirror, owner Emma Sayle reveals that:

They have an open door policy where members can watch other couples get it on

More and more younger women who attend are interested in being with other women and,

Members can arrange to meet up and get to know each other before deciding if they want to get down and dirty.

Emma, who is an old school pal of Kate Middleton, explained: “There is a main party area with a bar and a DJ with access to playrooms where attendees go for fun.

“We’ve an open door policy, none of the doors can be shut so anyone can walk in at any time – some people just like to watch while others like to have sex. This is where we differ from swinging parties, with us sex is the by product, if you want to do it, you can, but there is more to the party. Some people come just for the vibe.”

Emma said her company believes in challenging the status quo as it aims to change the way people think about sex and dating.

She insisted the parties are about empowering women and ending “slut-shaming” for those who enjoy sex just as much as men.

Emma said: “In Ireland we see a lot of single women coming on their own and we’ve seen a huge increase in the numbers of divorced women.

“Many women have spent their lives looking after their children and their husbands and they want to do something for themselves and get their confidence back.

“Our members tend to be high-flyers, the women tend to be independent and free thinking who know just what they want and come to us to get it.”

Emma explained that while most people who attend are in their 30s, some younger women who enjoy the parties are often keen on experimenting.

She said: “Groups of girls come in their 20s who tend to be more fluid about their sexuality, they don’t seem to care about whether it is a man or woman they are flirting with or having sex with.

“They don’t seem to judge as much, whether it is a one night stand or whether they want to sleep with a woman. We are seeing more women-on-women with the younger generations.

(Image: Killing Kittens/Emma Sayle)

“Some people just like to wander around and enjoy the party, some are complete exhibitionists and like the idea of being watched having sex.”

All KK members are vetted before they’re invited to a party via an online registration, which is strictly examined and controlled.

In a bid to keep seedy sex pests away, the company doesn’t allow men who aren’t part of a couple to attend, while women must also always make the first move. And members have the opportunity to meet socially in pubs ahead of the parties to check out if it is really is for them.

Emma said: “If you are not quite brave enough to come to the full parties and you just want to meet other members, then the socials are great. They are hosted by our community Kittens – our ambassadors, we started them in London and New York and now we host them regularly in Dublin too.”

When asked about safe sex Emma added: “Everyone is a consenting adult, we are not going to go around with a flashlamp.”



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She also revealed 150 people are expected to attend the KK party, adding: “Up to 70% of the customers who attend the Irish parties are regulars and it is very much an Irish scene, whereas in other countries you get a mix of nationalities.

“In a soiree of roughly 150 we will have about 30 single women and the rest will be couples. The online chat rooms have also seen a huge jump in the amount of single women joining.”

Asked how the parties differ in Ireland from those in the UK or US, Emma added: “Well people are people and sex is sex, the main difference is the bar spend, it’s much higher in Dublin than anywhere else in the world.”

Leather And Lace is the theme for the sex party orgy on October 5.