"We Need To Heal Us After The Affair(s)"

"Life throws us curveballs...but this is by far one of the worst pains a person can experience." - Lenna T., client

It can feel like you don't know your partner. Sometimes affairs last for days, sometimes, years! You may question everything about yourself and your life while the affair was going on.

Healing takes place in two ways - internal and external.

You must dig deep to heal the hurts inside yourself and also with the relationship EVEN if you don't want to stay married or together... healing with your partner is helpful no matter what you decide.

It may sound counterintuitive. We understand. But consider this...

If you want to know why the affair(s) happened ask the right questions to the person who had the affair.

If you want to know why the affair(s) happened ask to the person who had the affair. If you want to make sure betrayal doesn't happen again examine what led to it by understanding both perspectives.

If you want examine what led to it by understanding both perspectives. ​If you have kids with this person you'll have a relationship with them forever as co-parents...so the relationship is important.



We hear people make the common mistake where they think..."they need to work on themselves before we can heal"

That's a dangerous place to be for several reasons:

Okay, sometimes it's not possible to work together. We understand.