I’ve had both my dad AND my mom tell me that boys will like me more if I grow my hair out. I cut my hair years ago as a way for me to leave the past behind and forget my emotionally abusive ex-boyfriend. When I did, I felt more confident to be myself and I don’t hide behind my hair anymore. These days it’s so short it looks like a boy cut. Despite that, I have more guys want to date and hang out with me more now than when my hair was long.

(submitted by anonymous)