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mamamantis:

hello i’m cramp and i’m a queer WOC who’s just decided to fully separate myself from an abusive living situation

i’m fully determined to find a job and a place to live in columbus, a city that i am in love with, away from my emotionally abusive parents. however, when i told them about my decision this morning, they drained all of the money out of my checking account (which is joint ownership between us, but all of the money in the account belonged to me) so now i only have ~$500 to my name, and i only have that because i withdrew as much as i could after telling them bc i anticipated they would do something like that. they’ve also shut off my credit card, which is something i can’t reverse because they are the primary signers on the card (again, even though i pay for it) so this $500 is literally all i have right now.

going back to my parent’s house will undeniably exacerbate my anxiety and self-harm issues and it will be even worse if i have to do so now that i’ve stood up to them - i have no idea what they’ll do if they can get access to me now that i’ve actively expressed a desire to get away from them.

i need help. i’ll need to buy a new phone so that i can have one they don’t have access to, as well as pay deposits on an apartment, buy a bike so i can consider jobs that aren’t within walking distance of my current location, etc. and the school year is ending so i literally only have a week left in my current apartment before i’ll have nowhere to stay, so i have to secure somewhere to live as soon as i can.

if you can, donations to the paypal at fallendire@gmail.com would be really, really appreciated. i can also do commissions, i have a patreon you can subscribe to, and i do tarot readings. i can also print patches, edit and proofread papers, etc.

i’m also anticipating needing a place to crash in the coming weeks so if anyone could let me stay with them, even for a day or two, it would be much appreciated. i can cook, clean, do laundry and housework, etc.

even if you can’t donate, signal boosting this post and the linked commission posts would be deeply appreciated. thank you all so much in advance. i know i can do it with help!