I do think talking about sexual frustration might give a wider perspective and improve genders’ communication. I don’t expect that what I m saying will be understood, most likely due to cultural deficiencies, however I am still alive and I can still express myself while waiting for death. From where do I get started? Alright, I would like to start this article by saying human beings are social animals, this means we do need to socialize no matters the gender, since it’s part of our nature, it’s very easy to understand. Now, socialization includes females and males, they are both important and they both need each other to regulate the chemistry of their brain, otherwise they would go crazy (see the results in prison). Females and males need each other as human beings, sexuality doesn’t play any important role here, the fact somebody wants to hang out doesn’t mean is sexually interested, it means he has pleasure spending time with you as a person, but it’s not necessarily related to your genitals. Genitals are very important, but they aren’t life itself, they are part of it, by this I mean it’s not everything about sex. Sexual frustration brings social frustration, it is something we need to solve, since this creates unnecessary unhappiness.

What does happen to the brain when the level of testosterone raise too high?

When testosterone levels raise too high, the brain sends signals to the pituitary to reduce production. A high level of testosterone affects men behavior increasing: road rage, fighting, and violence.

Problems associated with abnormally high testosterone levels in men include:

Low sperm counts, shrinking of the testicles and impotence

Heart muscle damage and increased risk of heart attack

Prostate enlargement with difficulty urinating

Liver disease

Acne

Fluid retention with swelling of the legs and feet

Weight gain, perhaps related in part to increased appetite

High blood pressure and cholesterol

Insomnia

Headaches

Increased muscle mass

Increased risk of blood clots

Stunted growth in adolescents

Uncharacteristically aggressive behavior (although not well studied or clearly proven)

Mood swings, euphoria, irritability, impaired judgment, delusions

What happens to females when they are sexually frustrated?

Having sex releases the hormone oxytocin and endorphins into the body. These neurochemicals can help manage the effects of anxiety or stress. Oxytocin has the additional benefit of helping you sleep. If you do not have sex regularly, your body may release these hormones less often, which might make it more difficult to cope with stress.

Desire starts from the brain, thanks to a favorable chemical state regulated by sex hormones (estrogens, androgens).

Sexual frustration brings to a chemical unbalance of these hormones this effects our nervous system, so women experience: anger, depression, frustration, obsession, inability to think properly, and emotional instability.

They become socially dangerous due to their hysteria. It’s the misery I swear, if I think about it, I wanna go back inside my mum’s vagina and be aborted.

So both men and females become socially awful if they don’t get laid, make sure the quality of your sex is high, to act socially sane.

How to solve sexual frustration?

First of all, admit it, this is a very important step, second talk about it to look for an appropriate solution, if you are sexually frustrated, you will have an unbalanced behavior due to the instability of your hormones, this creates suffering in you and in your lack of social understanding, it hurts, it’s destructive. What to do? Let’s change behavior towards sex, let’s understand that is something normal we all need, and doesn’t have anything to do with our social status.

Men should understand that it’s not all about sex, try to be sexually satisfied as much as possible, and understand that females are first of all human beings, then beings with who to have sex. So everybody should be able to separate the lack of affection from sex, human affection is something natural that all of us need, and doesn’t have anything to do with sex, the lack of understanding of this concept generates loneliness.

Females should understand that their vagina is not gold, nor particular, or fantastic, it’s just a vagina basically a hole with hair all around, pretty ugly to see, but nice to play with, and there is nothing wrong with getting laid easily, if you girls are horny and want it, you shouldn’t take care of insignificant hypothetical social judgements. So having sex should be much easier, take care of your genitals it cures your hysteria, get fucking laid often, it’s socially important, I m not joking, this will improve our life and change the environment we are surrounded by, increasing the quality of life.

What if you are ugly as fuck and nobody wanna fuck you?

No worries, you are not the only ugly person on earth, there must be other ugly person like you. So my idea is to connect ugly people on earth through an app or events and give them the possibility to meet similar mates make each other happy. In particular situation as for example handicap people, or people differently disable, or who are forced to live certain circumstances in life, the idea would be to give this people a service that allows them to have sex with legal sex workers, I am talking about legal prostitution. What do I mean by that? Legal prostitution is a free choice based on paid volunteering through your body, basically you become a sex worker, and you take care of people who can not have sex for whatever reason and you engage yourself in taking care of their sexual satisfaction. You don’t have to do that just for the sake of earning money, it’s more based on human sanity, you do it because you relate to their suffering and you want to help them trying to make them happy, and you have pleasure doing so, it’s more like a gift for which you will get paid. It s more based on the understanding of human needs, and be sympathetic. This service can be offered for both sex, and all genders, as I said it’s a service based on human needs, so it’s for everybody.

What is it sexual attraction?

Sexual attraction is nothing romantic, it all depends on chemistry. So if sexual attraction doesn’t occur, don’t take it personal babe, there is nothing wrong with you, it’s just based on chemical reactions. When somebody is not into you, this means that the chemical reaction didn’t occur, and this is life, it’s not because of you. I will try to be more clear: instinct leads us to select partners who have a nervous system with a similar chemistry compatible with ours. The reason is very simple: it is a kind of innate natural selection, we would hypothetically reproduce human beings whose brain’s chemistry is similar to ours, to feel more understood and create an environment linked our inner world, the world we have in our mind.

The possible results of a happy sexual life

If we improve sexual frustration we will improve social frustration, which would be amazing. We would be able to understand the difference between being naked and sexuality, between romantic love and simple affection, and live more peacefully. This would make us able to create more balanced relationships and a more enjoyable environment, in which we could understand each other much better and be in harmony, without trying to give the priority to our needs without understanding somebody else’s needs, talking with honesty about what we need would solve a lot of misunderstanding. Understand your needs and the needs of others, act sane towards the world, we need it, we need your mind to feel alright. Your suffering generates suffering, be responsible of it.