9:36 PM - [Me]: Hey so you reblogged a post from this person

9:36 PM - [Me]: who also said this

9:36 PM - [Me]: http://floozys.tumblr.com/post/74482263165/straight-boys-are-weak-and-pathetic-queer-girls

9:35 PM - [My girlfriend]: yeah

9:35 PM - [My girlfriend]: and?

9:35 PM - [My girlfriend]: The point they make there is perfectly valid

9:35 PM - [My girlfriend]: although their language s kind of bad

9:37 PM - [Me]: >straight boys are weak and pathetic

9:35 PM - [My girlfriend]: and demaning

9:35 PM - [My girlfriend]: yeah \

9:37 PM - [Me]: That's not a good point

9:37 PM - [Me]: That's horribly bigoted

9:36 PM - [My girlfriend]: okkkkkkkkkayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

9:36 PM - [My girlfriend]: well i don't want to get into this

9:36 PM - [My girlfriend]: but

9:36 PM - [My girlfriend]: okay

9:36 PM - [My girlfriend]: sure

9:37 PM - [My girlfriend]: So I just told my friends all whom are straight white boys and read this to them

9:38 PM - [My girlfriend]: and all they said were "that's completely true what's wrong with it"

9:38 PM - [My girlfriend]: So

9:38 PM - [My girlfriend]: Just saying

9:38 PM - [My girlfriend]: they can see the point in this and not be offended

9:40 PM - [Me]: "Women are weak and pathetic. They walk around conventions commenting on how all the showy cosplays look."

9:40 PM - [Me]: Sure she makes a point but she's still a bigot.

9:42 PM - [Me]: also >implying lesbians don't look around either

9:42 PM - [Me]: I mean come on

9:43 PM - [Me]: Whatever, let's not get into this.

9:42 PM - [My girlfriend]: They're saying that you're not even looking at the point and being the bigot

9:44 PM - [Me]: what

9:43 PM - [My girlfriend]: They're saying that you're getting offened by somethign that was ment to make a point that was completely true

9:44 PM - [Me]: And men don't say innapropriate shit, people know that's a dumb thing to do

9:44 PM - [Me]: this is pure strawman

9:43 PM - [My girlfriend]: Uh yes they do

9:44 PM - [Me]: I've never experienced this.

9:44 PM - [Me]: Literally ever.

9:43 PM - [My girlfriend]: Just because, you don't do it, and it doesn't happen to you, doesn't mean it doresnt happen

9:43 PM - [My girlfriend]: IT HAS OVER 400000 NOTES OBVIOUSLY IT HAS TO OTHER PEOPLE

9:43 PM - [My girlfriend]: JESUS

9:45 PM - [Me]: Tell me when it's happened to you

9:45 PM - [Me]: Holy shit there's a bunch of notes calling out this person too you know.

9:44 PM - [My girlfriend]: I literally was walkign past these mexican wokers while down town and they yell "wow your ass is pretty cute"

9:45 PM - [My girlfriend]: WHen I was in new orlens a homeless black man said "damn you're pretty hot i'd do you but only a little hot, only a little"

9:46 PM - [Me]: That is not a changing room. That's cat-calling which is horribly fucked up but that is not at all the situation they're talking about.

9:45 PM - [My girlfriend]: Yeah but they're talking about how boys get boners in class over shit like low cut tops

9:45 PM - [My girlfriend]: and short shorts

9:47 PM - [Me]: That doesn't happen, they get boners fucking randomly.

9:47 PM - [Me]: Either that or lewd thoughts. You don't see short shorts and get an insta-boner

9:47 PM - [Me]: Dude, I know what happens to dudes more than you do.

9:46 PM - [My girlfriend]: BUT the system blames the fact that boobs and butts are the reason for that and why we need to ban those clothes

9:47 PM - [Me]: Okay okay wait hold up

9:48 PM - [Me]: You realize that dress codes are just as stern on dudes, right? Shit, here it's even more strict for guys. It's becuase it's unprofessional and distracting. The whole point of school is to prepare students for the working world and working areas don't allow that clothing. Not to mention it can be distracting when people push it.

9:47 PM - [My girlfriend]: Omg you're fucking stupid

9:47 PM - [My girlfriend]: im so done

9:47 PM - [My girlfriend]: IM SO DONE

9:47 PM - [My girlfriend]: YOU HAVE NO IDEA

9:48 PM - [My girlfriend]: JESUS CHRIST

9:49 PM - [Me]: You being real right now

9:49 PM - [My girlfriend] is now Offline.

9:49 PM - [Me]: Are you jumping to insults when I provide a counter-point

9:49 PM - [My girlfriend] is currently offline, they will receive your message the next time they log in.

9:49 PM - [Me]: You're better than that.

9:50 PM - [Me]: http://pastebin.com/QhBeCdR4

9:50 PM - [Me]: Read over the log

9:50 PM - [Me]: tell me exactly like

9:50 PM - [Me]: eh whatever

9:50 PM - [Me]: let's not argue over this.

9:50 PM - [Me]: Just a bit disappointed you juimp to insults.

9:53 PM - [Me]: Also you described two separate encounters of really shitty people. It's not right to generalize an entire population based on the actions of a few. That's kind of messed up. I've seen women at cons lift up men's kilts while laughing and in public commenting on people's looks. Christ, I've been called a "rapist creeper" simply for sitting on a bench outside a lady's bathroom. Yet I don't say "straight women are weak and disgusting" because those are individuals who do shtity things, and it's wrong to say that everyone like them is awful.

9:54 PM - [My girlfriend] is now Away.

9:54 PM - [Me]: How exactly am I 'fucking stupid'?

9:54 PM - [My girlfriend]: everything

9:54 PM - [My girlfriend]: every point

9:54 PM - [My girlfriend]: trying to be made by people

9:54 PM - [My girlfriend]: everything has to be about you

9:54 PM - [My girlfriend]: im done

9:54 PM - [My girlfriend]: i can't do this

9:54 PM - [My girlfriend]: anymore

9:55 PM - [Me]: The fuck? How did I make it about me?

9:54 PM - [My girlfriend]: i've had a horrible day

9:54 PM - [My girlfriend]: and i've been so sick

9:56 PM - [Me]: I'm sorry to hear that.

9:54 PM - [My girlfriend]: and people have been so shitty

9:54 PM - [My girlfriend]: and im don

9:54 PM - [My girlfriend]: e

9:54 PM - [My girlfriend]: done

9:55 PM - [My girlfriend]: IM so done

9:55 PM - [My girlfriend]: you make about the fact it offened you

9:55 PM - [My girlfriend]: always

9:55 PM - [My girlfriend]: ALWAYS

9:56 PM - [Me]: It didn't offend me for christ sake, I said the person was pretty fucking bigoted.

9:56 PM - [Me]: I wasn't offended.

9:55 PM - [My girlfriend]: obviously id offened you fi you said that

9:55 PM - [My girlfriend]: so

9:57 PM - [Me]: Well yeah, because I know you're above that

9:57 PM - [Me]: It's like if I quoted a red-piller who thinks women are disgusting sluts.

9:56 PM - [My girlfriend]: SEE BUT WE'VE ALWAYS HAD THOSE PEOPLE

9:57 PM - [Me]: I'd think you would point out I'd quote the person and I would go "oh shit, you're right. I didn't notice."

9:56 PM - [My girlfriend]: THEY STILL EXSIST AND YOU FOCUS

9:58 PM - [Me]: How the fuck does that even matter

9:56 PM - [My girlfriend]: ON THE ONES

9:56 PM - [My girlfriend]: THAT OFFEND YOU

9:56 PM - [My girlfriend]: BECAUSE

9:56 PM - [My girlfriend]: THEY

9:56 PM - [My girlfriend]: STILL

9:56 PM - [My girlfriend]: ARE

9:56 PM - [My girlfriend]: ALIVE

9:58 PM - [Me]: And you focus on the ones that offend you }:l

9:56 PM - [My girlfriend]: Oh my god

9:56 PM - [My girlfriend]: No:??

9:57 PM - [My girlfriend]: I focus on the shit that UPLIFTS woman

9:57 PM - [My girlfriend]: god damn

9:57 PM - [My girlfriend]: you'll never understand

9:58 PM - [Me]: What the hell are you talking about, like seriously, both these types of people exist and they're just different sides of the same coin.

9:57 PM - [My girlfriend]: I can never

9:57 PM - [My girlfriend]: NO NONO

9:57 PM - [My girlfriend]: N O

9:57 PM - [My girlfriend]: NO

9:57 PM - [My girlfriend]: NO

9:57 PM - [My girlfriend]: NO

9:57 PM - [My girlfriend]: THEYR "ESA

9:57 PM - [My girlfriend]: EVERYWHERE

9:57 PM - [My girlfriend]: LITERALLY EVERYWHERE

9:58 PM - [Me]: Holy shit, far from it.

9:57 PM - [My girlfriend]: MY GOD YOU'RE BLIND

9:57 PM - [My girlfriend]: YOU

9:57 PM - [My girlfriend]: ARE

9:57 PM - [My girlfriend]: BLIND

9:57 PM - [My girlfriend]: Stop

9:57 PM - [My girlfriend]: im done

9:57 PM - [My girlfriend]: im so done i can '[t do this

9:57 PM - [My girlfriend]: i'll never be able to get you to realize

9:58 PM - [My girlfriend]: im so done

9:58 PM - [My girlfriend]: i can't anymore

9:58 PM - [My girlfriend]: i can't argue

9:58 PM - [My girlfriend]: it

9:58 PM - [My girlfriend]: 's

9:58 PM - [My girlfriend]: so draining

9:58 PM - [My girlfriend]: because you can never understand

9:58 PM - [My girlfriend]: EVER

10:00 PM - [Me]: You're getting emotional. I didn't realize this would cause such a problem, I mean, holy shit. I'm sorry you had a bad day.

10:00 PM - [Me]: You can never understand anythnig but your perspective

10:00 PM - [Me]: You are seriously lacking some self-awareness here.

9:59 PM - [My girlfriend]: you are one to talk

10:00 PM - [Me]: Okay, here:

10:03 PM - [Me]: You keep saying I'll never understand your life - same to you. You keep explaining what it's like to be a dude and get boners and you seriously, SERIOUSLY don't but you never actually realize this. You don't know what it's like to be in a very close-knit circle of guys who talk guy shit, nor do you know the fears that guys express to one another. You only ever realize your perspective and don't seem to grasp that I see life differently. I may not notice as much misogyny as you do - but you do not notice as much misandry as I do. You experience cat-calling, and you ignore my experiences of horrible bigotry for just being a guy. They're both serious issues but you never really actually care about what I see.

10:03 PM - [Me]: That's what I mean by lack of self-awareness. You only see your perspective, but you don't realize that.

10:03 PM - [Me]: You may realize it, matybe, but you don't grasp it.

10:02 PM - [My girlfriend]: See no

10:04 PM - [Me]: Stop.

10:04 PM - [Me]: You immediately dismiss me without even reading the whole thing.

10:04 PM - [Me]: This is what I mean.

10:02 PM - [My girlfriend]: I READ

10:02 PM - [My girlfriend]: THE ENTIRE THING

10:04 PM - [Me]: I mean I always feel like I have to walk on eggshells around you. Take a deep breath.

10:03 PM - [My girlfriend]: Literally every other guy in here is saying that you're seriously not even ttrying to pay attention

10:05 PM - [Me]: Who are you talking to, then?

10:05 PM - [Me]: The same people who say "help me cyber with this girl?"

10:04 PM - [My girlfriend]: 7 guys all playing cards with me

10:04 PM - [My girlfriend]: No lmao

10:05 PM - [Me]: You mean people in Texas with you right now?

10:05 PM - [Me]: AKA the South?

10:04 PM - [My girlfriend]: no

10:04 PM - [My girlfriend]: People from all other

10:04 PM - [My girlfriend]: EVEN

10:04 PM - [My girlfriend]: IF

10:04 PM - [My girlfriend]: IT WAS JUST THE SOUTH

10:04 PM - [My girlfriend]: IT STILL FUCKING MATTERS

10:05 PM - [Me]: I'm not saying it doesn't

10:04 PM - [My girlfriend]: STOP FUCKING DISMISSING

10:04 PM - [My girlfriend]: YES

10:04 PM - [My girlfriend]: YES

10:04 PM - [My girlfriend]: YES

10:04 PM - [My girlfriend]: YOU ARE

10:06 PM - [Me]: Calm the fuck down. You get so fucking emotional.

10:04 PM - [My girlfriend]: BECAUSE I CARE

10:05 PM - [My girlfriend]: BECAUSE IM SO TIRED OF YOU NOT SEEING HOW FUCKING MUCH OF A CRY BABY YOU

10:05 PM - [My girlfriend]: ARE BEING

10:06 PM - [Me]: You're seriously spamming and you closed off your mind to new perspectives. I can't talk to you like this. I don't want to have to walk on eggshells around you.

10:05 PM - [My girlfriend]: LIKE OH NO YOU GET CALLED SHIT

10:06 PM - [Me]: Wait, you're seriously calling me a crybaby?

10:05 PM - [My girlfriend]: im done

10:05 PM - [My girlfriend]: im

10:05 PM - [My girlfriend]: do

10:05 PM - [My girlfriend]: ne

10:05 PM - [My girlfriend]: iim done with you

10:07 PM - [Me]: Wait, wait, wait. This is what I am talking about. I get called shit that's very hurtful, but I'm not saynig the same about you getting catcalled.

10:07 PM - [Me]: Have some damn empathy :l

10:07 PM - [Me]: I realize that words hurt.

10:07 PM - [Me]: You do too, but only to you.

10:06 PM - [My girlfriend]: yeah because that's all you'll ever experience

10:06 PM - [My girlfriend]: you've never been groped and called a fucking slut

10:06 PM - [My girlfriend]: NEVER

10:07 PM - [Me]: You're seriously so apathetic it's staggering.

10:07 PM - [Me]: I've been groped :|

10:08 PM - [Me]: I kind of mentioned that already.

10:08 PM - [Me]: It's very hurtful but I never spoke up.

10:09 PM - [Me]: Like, you're so intent on this being women having things a lot worse that you never open your mind to what it's like on the other side of the fence.

10:08 PM - [My girlfriend]: no you always make it about you

10:09 PM - [Me]: Now I'm gonna not send any more messages because you're extremely upset and talking right now will get nowhere.

10:09 PM - [Me]: Oh stop.

10:09 PM - [Me]: You keep saying that without backing it up.

10:08 PM - [My girlfriend]: And I can't ell you how I feel because then you'll be like " a mean feminist on the internet called me names and then blocked me waaah waaah "

10:09 PM - [Me]: The only times I make it about me is when I say "we experience that too."

10:09 PM - [My girlfriend]: You sent that thing to me

10:10 PM - [Me]: Now, I won't send any more messages. Also I've been changing for the better but you still haven't kept your side of the bargain, what with communication. Have a good night, I sincerely hope you feel better. Talk to you later, alright?

10:09 PM - [My girlfriend]: because it offended you

10:10 PM - [Me]: No it didn't. Stop putting words in my mouth

10:09 PM - [My girlfriend]: no i don't think so

10:09 PM - [My girlfriend]: im done seriosuly

10:10 PM - [My girlfriend]: i can't deal with these anymore because you'll never know ANYTHING about it because you neever listend

10:10 PM - [My girlfriend]: bye