Preface: These are scenarios with sexually active couples

Boyfriend advances sexually towards girlfriend. Girlfriend rejects said advances. Boyfriend backs down because society has taught him that no means no (which is true), and to not do show exemplifies sexualization of women, and showing a lack of respect for them as a person. Frustrated boyfriend ends up cheating to get what he wants. Girlfriend finds out, tells friends. Boyfriend is demonized as a scumbag who should have kept it in his pants, who should have done the right thing and either talked to her about their problems, or should have broken up with her first.

Girlfriend advances sexually towards boyfriend. Boyfriend rejects said advances. Girlfriend complains about rejection because society has taught her that men are naturally always horny, and are primal sexual hunters, and to which separates the real men from the real boys. Frustrated girlfriend ends up cheating to get what she wants. Boyfriend finds out, tells friends. Girlfriend’s friends chastise boyfriend because their problems in the bedroom don’t need to be aired publicly; and besides, if he didn’t want her to cheat, he should have been a real man and fucked her the way she wanted.

Do either of these scenarios resemble you?