viceroysam:

taranoire:

Not so long ago it wasn’t controversial to say male/female attraction (heterosexuality) freaks me out. It was understood that men and the male gaze held power and perpetuated unequal dynamics through gender. It was understood that same-sex attraction and couplings were rare, reviled, and punished worldwide. Why wouldn’t I, as a lesbian with bad experiences regarding males, whose family have PLEADED with to “try” men or at “least” be bisexual so that I could have a heterosexual marriage and children, NOT treat opposite sex pairs with mistrust and disgust?

But now I’M the enemy. My trauma and my identity and my oppression are just SAD to you, at best, and worthy of insults and harassment at worst. Tumblr justice is dead.

Having mistrust for Het relationships is fine. I’m sorry your family put you through that, but when you shame and outright hate bisexuals and straights, you’re no better than the people protesting against gay marraige. The reason people are getting mad at you is because you openly bash anyone who’s not gay. No one is invalidating your past, but you are being awfully hypocritical by wanting people to support gays and then hate everyone else.