Whether we approve or not, many people wish (sometimes subconsciously or quietly) to find someone who can be a "breadwinner" for various reasons – so they can stay home to raise children, focus on a dream career that has yet to produce reliable income, or simply for material comfort.[1] And as more women become financially successful, fewer of them are interested in "gold digging", but male "gold diggers" are becoming more common.[2] If you feel that financial security is the most important factor in choosing a partner to share your life with, you can (and should) approach the matter with sensibility and charm.