“When I say ‘I hate men’, I actually mean…”

Stop.

If you’re not a complete idiot, then you know what you’re doing.

You know that it refers to men in general. If it didn’t, it would be worded more specifically. It’s intentionally broad.

You know it’ll be received negatively by men regardless of whether or not they fall into your postscript qualifiers, which should’ve been in your original statement in the first place.

You don’t care that it bothers innocent men. Because you’re sexist. Whether you actually genuinely hate all of them is irrelevant if you’re directing hatred to all of them.