The vulgar videotape and allegations of sexual misconduct being raised against Donald J. Trump have touched off an avalanche of conversations about the persistence of sexism and sexual assault in American workplaces and life.

We'd like to hear about how these conversations are playing out in people's relationships.

Are men asking their wives and girlfriends, Has this ever happened to you? What kind of responses are they getting? Has a conversation proved eye-opening and positive or has it just revealed a gulf between men and women? Men, have you been surprised to learn how often your partners may have experienced abusive, sexist behavior? Does this change the way you talk to each other or treat each other? We would like to hear from men about what they think their responsibilities are to confront sexual abuse and harassment, what they are hearing from partners, spouses or friends and how it is affecting them and their relationship.