Yo, y’all ever wondered the kinda nigga or shawty your soul should crave?

Ayyyye, even though most times we don’ end up getting the kinda girl or guy we actually want and would have to accept they ass for they imperfections and shit, but yo, Imma still gon help y’all with some qualities you should look out for..

1.SARCASM

Is they sarcasm games lit or nah?

Heyyyyyy, your partner doesn’t understand sarcasm?, oh my dayyyysss, you people prolly won’t get along with each other for the rest of your lives, only if you’d quickly discover they don’t fvck with sarcasm and you mind the way you joke with em..

This once finished my relationship though. I got no slight idea she didn’t understand sarcastic languages and I was consistently using em, trying to lighten things up and stuff, but hey, shawty done tagged me uncool and a pretender who’s feigning to be a cool guy, that I was always trynna boss on her and make her look stupid, lmao, like wtf!😂

Then one day, I woke up to a long epistle on my WhatsApp, she dumped my ass right there on a text , dammn..

Flee from me girrl if you don’ do sarcasm lol..

2. MATURITY, SORRY, I MEAN IMMATURITY

Anyone of y’all ever had that bossy partner who feels he/she above they girl or guy especially when there’s some kinda age difference or a lil or large differences in social status?

Yeah, if you ever had one, let’s open a WhatsApp group and weep together on the group so no one would see us lol 😂

These kinda partners would not help but finish your self esteem, reduce your ego deep down the level below the “Id” and leave you wondering if life is really worth living or nah..

I hope y’all who never got into any relationship for once in your lifetime don’ start up with this kinda partners ’cause they would legit leave you negatively fixed and dump your ass with that wrong impression bout relationships for the rest of your life. Sadly, I can only pity your subsequent relationships 😔 😔

3.YO, GET YOURSELF A KID…

Heyyyyyy, how much I love this, gawwwd..

Don’t y’all just dig the kinda happiness and joy you feel deep down your soul when your partner turns a lil kid for you?, I mean I’d turn a 2yr old boy just for my shawty alone and she do the same, how sweet 😢 😢 😍 😍

Yo, you two should legit be ready to turn babies and spoonfeed each other up like todlers, or y’all still don’t get me huh?

Hey outchea, you don’t wana miss trying that out if you not been trying, you’d hit me up with a thank you text later..

4. GET YOURSELF A SERVANT…

What y’all thinking when you read “servant“?, you thought right anyways..

Get yourself a partner who’s ready to stand by you in times of trouble, a partner ready to help and contribute to your life no matter the little they got, not necessarily financially, don’ read me wrong..

Be ready to offer a helping hand when things go wrong for your girl or that guy you claim to love so much..

These people are the best set of humans on the planet earth..

5. SEX ALONE?, THEN YOU GOT IT ALL WRONG ..

Your relationship shouldn’t be all bout those sweet bed games alone and enjoying those day lights and late nights soakings you two swim in..

There’s more to being locked together as partners than that fuck shit..

Offence on you both if y’all don’ help each other grow and spur your partner to achieve they dreams..

You both should be able to put heads together to get to your destinations and not y’all only getting drenched in the rain all the time and lose your sanity and vision..

Relationships is what it’s called, you two not sex tools, you dig?

6. WILL YOU ACCEPT ME FOR WHO I AM?...

We all humans, we all have our lil flaws, no being on earth can boast of perfection, it’s priceless, y’all can’t just afford it on gaaawd, imperfection is inevitable, trust me…

Yo, you’ve got to accept that nigga or shawty for who they are, accept them for how they configured..

Show them you’re ready to love them no matter the circumstance, not minding the ups and downs, believe me, they’d change for you when they see how committed you are. I’m not promising y’all the change would be drastic, spontaneous or whatever, prolly might take a while to attain, but trust me, the amount of love you show and the time you invest would legit habilitate or rehabilitate them when they see your effort.

I understand it’s a whole lotta job to do, but yo, you gotta do it for love, you ain’t down for this, your not then down to love…

If your lover sticks around to watch you change, omg, that ain’t love, that’s much more than love…

7. HOW BOUT THOSE LISTENING EARS, THEY DEAF OR NAH?

Yo, get yourself someone who got those functional listening ears, someone you can always count on like “123” to share with whatsoever it is weighing you down at any point in time and they’d legit be there to listen..

Are they really down to listen or they just pretend to listen but only see you sound yo ass out like the basset hound?, that’s your question to answer anyways..

Hey, y’all know ordinarily having someone who’s always ready and not tired to listen to your boring ass complaints is therapeutic?

That alone is enough to kick your sorrows, trust me..

Hey, I wouldn’t know it all cause I ain’t Alessia Cara, trust me, Alessia doesn’t even know it all…

So, feel free to add yours in the comment box, your legit gon help a soul…

Keep dripping finesse and everything saucy 😍

Yours, Adahcole 🌹