A womans urethra is much shorter than the males.

You can possibly find it by looking under the clitoris but before the opening to the vagina.

It will appear as a tiny dimple or a hole in that smooth area right before it.

This is where they would insert a catheter if you were about to go into surgery.

Do not try to insert anything into there, the urethra even if visible is very fragile, and can be damaged and believe me the complications of not being able to pee can be very bad.

This is also the little opening that hurts sometimes if you are trying to pass a kidney stone...this is part of the agony that people have to go through that have them.

Nobody should be p-ing out of thier vagina or anus. EVER...it only appears that way because the opening can be very close to the top of the vaginal opening. Also, the muscles that control the flow of urine when exercized (kegles) can cause a greater orgasm, they are the same muscles and sometimes women do p when they ***...your own urine is chemically balanced and sterile for your own body, it can be reingested if you are in a survival situation, but should be washed from your body if you are one of those women who release some when you orgasm. There is a separate lubrication released from the vagina, a pre-*** just like a guys...when you get excited...I believe its called locchia, go to wikipedia for proper words, that is different, and you may release some before or after a period a discharge that resembles clear hair styling gel from your body, it can be a little pink or brown but generally should be clear to off white and should not smell. If you have anything that resembles cottage cheese or you get a very foul or sweet odor you need to go see an OBGYN doctor. I know its alot of info but I figured if you cant find where you pee out of you need to know a few more things. Good Luck sweety.-Rachel.