That appears to be what happened in Etter's case. The first-year music teacher responded to some first-graders' questions about a bouquet he received for Valentine's Day. Etter said the flowers were from his husband, and he made a few brief comments about respect, tolerance and how some kids have two moms or two dads. One parent complained, according to school officials, who said a meeting with the teacher followed, the issue was resolved, and that Etter's job was never in jeopardy.