mcdyke:

I deleted my response to witwitch because I can’t think of anything worse than getting in an argument with her (again) but I’m gonna say this:

1. heterosexual feminists are not victimised because other feminists challenge the choice to engage in heterosexual romance. heterosexuality is encouraged on literally every square foot of the earth, so stop making out a couple of women on the Internet are hurting u *so much* by not really caring about heterosexuality lmaoooo

2. sisterhood is an unattainable ideal when all women have various experiences and disadvantages. “support all women” doesn’t mean “even after they do something you disagree with”, like I don’t know, pretending being with men in anyway is “feminist”. or that het women can at all be even slightly hard done by for their sexuality lmao

3. if celibate heterosexuals are challenging you, maybe listen to them. they are doing a feminist act, after all. and I think the reason you don’t like their existence is because it reminds you it’s alwaaaaays an option. especially when you consider sex is not a human right! wow! stop acting like they’re the majority, like they’re bullying you or anything of the like - they’re doing the OPPOSITE of what’s expected of them according to society - so I think maybe extended time on tumblr has warped your view, but engaging in a het relationship is…. supported…. and encouraged lmao