Kim Yo Jong, the sister of North Korean leader Kim Jong Un, has surprised South Koreans. Credit:AP "I'm curious about her. I wonder if she's married. I think it'll be very meaningful if she comes to the game," Kwon said. She soon got her wish: Kim Yo-jong showed up to cheer on the united Korean team. Kim is "the Ivanka Trump of North Korea" because of her family connections and her ability to be a compelling saleswoman, said Sue Mi Terry, a former Korean analyst at the CIA who is now with the Centre for Strategic and International Studies in Washington. South Korean television drew that exact parallel, noting that Kim Jong-un had sent his sister to the opening ceremony of the Olympic Games, while President Donald Trump was sending his daughter to the closing. Very little is known about the current generation that runs North Korea: leader Kim Jong-un and his glamorous wife, Ri Sol-ju; his reclusive older brother, Kim Jong-chol; and his younger sister, Kim Yo-jong.

Kim Yo Jong and North Korea's nominal head of state Kim Yong Nam attend the ice hockey at the Winter Olympics. Credit:AP We know that the Kims, the children of second-generation North Korean leader Kim Jong-il and his Japanese-born ethnic Korean wife, Ko Yong-hui, all spent several years at school in Switzerland. We know Kim Jong-chol likes Eric Clapton because he's been spotted at concerts around the world, most recently in London. We know that Ri used to sing in a propaganda band. But that's about it. We don't even know Kim Yo-jong's age. The South Korean intelligence service says she was born in 1987; the US government thinks it was 1989. Ivanka Trump, the daughter of President Donald Trump, will attend the Winter Olympics closing ceremony. Credit:AP So when she arrived in South Korea on Friday afternoon, becoming the first member of North Korea's ruling Kim family to come to the South since the Korean War broke out in 1950, South Koreans were enthralled.

If the outside world is puzzled by this regime that threatens nuclear war and deprives its people of food and information, just imagine how strange North Korea seems to those in the South. They speak the same language, share the same myths, love the same food. Yet the leaders are so foreign. The wall-to-wall coverage began even before Kim stepped off her brother's private jet at Incheon airport, west of Seoul, on Friday afternoon. Television cameras broadcast footage of the runway, waiting for her to arrive. They noted that the plane had been given the flight number 615 - a reference to June 15, the final day of the first inter-Korean summit in 2000. It was auspicious. In the VIP room upon arrival at Incheon, television cameras show a smiling Kim gesturing to Kim Yong-nam, the 90-year-old who is technically North Korea's head of state and was technically leading the delegation. Both Koreas are bound by Confucian hierarchical rules that prize age and maleness, and stipulate who should sit where according to seniority. Those rules mean, without question, that a 90-year-old male head of state, should sit in the best seat. But South Korean papers marvelled at Kim Yo-jong's "humbleness".

"Kim Yo-jong is the closest figure to Kim Jong-un, since she also shares the blood of Kim Il-sung," the Dong-a Ilbo newspaper reported, referring to the North Korean regime's claim to legitimacy through divine bloodline. "Some analysts find it impossible to believe that Kim Yo-jong would yield a seat to Kim Yong-nam," the paper said. Then, from the moment she stepped out of the airport, there was a media scrum around her - well, around the four North Korean bodyguards who surrounded her as she walked through train stations and Olympic venues. When she arrived at the Blue House for a meeting with South Korean President Moon Jae-in on Saturday morning, the cameras zoomed in on her high cheekbones and her fine ears. No detail was too trivial to be noticed, commented on. "Analysts say that she looks very much like Ko Yong-hui, her mother, when she was younger," the Dong-a noted. Look at her posture, the commentators said. She sat so upright - maybe she'd been a dancer like her mother - and was so well-mannered.

Look at her unusual handwriting, they said after Kim Yo-jong wrote a message in the guest book at South Korea's presidential Blue House, which - of course - then appeared everywhere. The cross strokes were all angled, making her handwriting look like a kind of calligraphy. "I hope Pyongyang and Seoul will become closer in the hearts of Koreans and will bring unification and prosperity in the near future," she had written. Somehow, Kim managed to pass the whole visit without uttering a word in public. Moving through the crowds, she kept her Mona Lisa face on and her mouth closed. When local journalists asked her how she felt to be in South Korea, she didn't respond. She just smiled. Footage from the meetings she had with Moon again showed her smiling and relaxed, but the cameras didn't catch a single word. "I thought she was really pretty," said Moon Jin-young, a 19-year-old student. But she wasn't sure how humble the visitor was. "She didn't look nice because she kept her chin up all the time, so it looked as if she was always looking down on others." Certainly, Kim Yo-jong, who is under US sanctions for human rights abuses related to her role in censoring information, was treated like royalty during her visit.

The government provided a Hyundai Genesis, a luxury car that media noted could be made bulletproof, to ferry her around. She stayed in the five-star Sheraton Grande Walkerhill hotel on the outskirts of Seoul, which markets itself as "the ultimate place to relax and unwind". For lunch with Moon, the North Korean delegation was served grilled flatfish, soup with dried fish balls, buckwheat crepe with persimmon sauce and two types of kimchi. There was dried persimmon and walnut cake for dessert. Then for dinner, her South Korean hosts took her to a fancy restaurant in Gangneung, on the east coast, before the hockey game. US Vice-President Mike Pence, who was also in South Korea for the opening of the Winter Olympics but studiously avoided Kim, had worried in advance that North Korea would "hijack" the Olympic Games with its "propaganda". Pence and his staff were alarmed by news last month that South Koreans were dazzled by the arrival of Hyon Song-wol, a singer in North Korea's all-female Moranbong Band and a rising political star in Kim's regime.

His worries were well founded. Those who saw Kim at the hockey game were puzzled by mismatch between the gruesome stories they'd heard and the slight young woman before them. "Kim Yo-jong kept smiling, and she seemed nice," said Lee Ryoon-ryong, a 25-year-old man at Saturday's match. "I was surprised because she looked different from the image I had about North Koreans." He figured, however, she must have a strong personality behind that smiling face. Indeed, Terry warned against being sucked in by Kim's good cop routine.

Loading "Kim Yo-jong is totalitarianism with a human face," she said. "She is acting as a goodwill ambassador for a country that has earned no goodwill." The Washington Post