In this day and age too many people want to find their soul mate by clicking a button. I am on a dating site looking for new friends. I am not trying to lead anyone on, I'd like to get to know these women before going on a date with them. Unfortunately after a few messages back and forth, they don't respond. They don't even explain why they aren't talking to me.



I at least will give the person some closure. Something like I appreciate the time we spent talking and I hope she finds what she is looking for. Etc. I think women get discouraged because I haven't read her mind about when the perfect time to ask her out is.



I think that if women would simply ask questions, perhaps they would get real answers as to why guys do things and don't do things. Then they would tell their friends and those friends would also ask men directly. Don't worry, I lost hope too.