I love my partner of four years dearly. But for the first year we had sex only three times because he was a heavy porn user. He stopped and our sex life improved. But he started using online comment sites all day and night instead. I lost it over how anti-feminist much of the comment was (although the site was supposedly progressive) and felt I could not hold his attention.

We broke up for a month, but leaving him was unbelievably painful. He agreed to limit his time online and as he did not have an internet connection at work, our relationship was good, especially sexually. Now he has gone back to using porn again with the same results. He has declined to watch it with me but seems unable to stop. We get on well but does this relationship have any future?

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