Don`t listen to them. Listen to God. Don`t try to appease people who just want you to conform to what they believe.

On this kind of silly stuff, don`t let people tell you that you are wrong.

It could be wrong for them, but okay for you.

Just like credit cards are bad for some but okay for others.

This stuff is trivial. I love R&B myself and God has not made me feel at all like it is wrong for me. God will let you know.

I used to listen to really Heavy Metal music. When I got saved I listened to the lyrics and got sick literally. If you truly want to follow God He is going to put you on the right path.

Follow God and The Bible.

God Bless you and give you Wisdom