People like mantras.

They’re a quick and easy way to keep yourself on track. I have a mantra of my own I like to use when I’m unsure of what to do or lack confidence. Here it is:

Honesty to yourself, honesty to others, honesty in expression.

Or something along those lines. I can’t remember exactly what I say in my head but it doesn’t exactly matter. The gist of the matter is to not fool yourself into thinking you’re anything more or less than you are, to tell others the truth if at all possible, and to have your body language and voice and actions convey your honest feelings.

Honesty IS truly the best policy. It both requires very little brainpower and is highly attractive. Now go out and be true to yourself readers. You’ll get the girl, the job, and whatever else you want.