Yeah, did you know there were six types of love? Perhaps you can think of more. But these are the main ones. So, which category does yours fall into? Or better yet, what type of lover are you?

Love is a tricky thing, it sneaks up on you when you least expect it. It sucks you in, it makes you invest and sometimes it can bleed you dry just as easily or sometimes love truly does conquer all. But look back into your past, or even your current relationship if that applies to you and have a think about which category you fell or fall into:

Eros

A type of love that adheres to the standards and stereotype of romantic love. This love encompasses romance and unflinching passion.

Ludus

A type of love often compared to sport. It’s seen more of a “game”, with conquests, jealousy and playfulness that can have many “players” involved.

Storge

A type of love that initially began as a friendship, with the romantic feelings coming later on. A bond turning from one thing to another based on similarities.

Pragma

A type of love that allows the head to rule over the heart. Perhaps you were with your other half because it’s smarter to be with them than without them. These lovers have high ambitions and work as part of a team to achieve their goals.

Mania

A type of love fuelled by obsession. Great emotional ecstasy and depression as well as jealousy. A dangerous love that’s both rewarding and all consuming.

Agape

A type of love that is selfless, often called “unconditional”, caring for each other. Putting their needs entirely above your own.

These many types of love are constantly with us in some form or another. Be it through friends and family or a partner. All of the love we experience impacts our present, our future and how we remember our past, you could say that it shapes and moulds the person we become.

Who is the person you have become since experiencing love and/or heartbreak?