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If you want to fantasize about someone, understand that there are no right or wrong fantasies and that it can be a healthy way to understand your own wants and needs. Relaxing is important for fantasizing, so find a private place where you’ll be comfortable and think about what turns you on or makes you feel excited. Once you’ve thought of an interesting scenario, like being on a beach or in a cabin, place the person you want to fantasize about in that scene. Pretend that it’s a movie playing out, but you’re the director and you can change what happens at any time to please your curiosity. For more help, like how to avoid fantasizing too much, scroll down.