cis people, would you just, like, stop? will you please fucking remember that not all women have boobs, not all men have penises, and will you please stop centering your conversations around cissexist notions? whether you’re talking about bodily functions, clothes, things people say and talk about, behaviors, what have you…just fucking stop.

stop talking about being pro-women and then talking about how pro-choice you are. AHEM, NOT ALL WOMEN HAVE THE CAPABILITY TO CARRY A CHILD. or have you forgotten about trans men? yes, you fucking have. inversely, not all people who can carry a baby are women. *cough* people like me?!!??! *cough* like seriously??! and have you forgotten about trans men? you sure have!

stop talking about periods as if it’s something that only women can have. stop fucking saying shit like “lady’s time of the month”, and stop talking about having “female monthly issues”. FUCKING. STOP IT. NOW. i have a period, too, and i’m not a fucking woman.

stop talking about “the dad bod” and all that shit. TRANS MEN EXIST. not every trans man looks like a cis man. in fact, unless they’ve been taking hormones and perhaps have had surgery, they probably won’t, either. inversely, you fucking shame trans women who haven’t been able to be on hormones, either, because DO YOU THINK THEY LIKE TO BE REMINDED THAT YOU ASSOCIATE HAVING A PENIS AND WHAT YOU CALL A “MALE” BODY WITH BEING THEM? fuck you.

cis friends, you all do this. EVERY SINGLE ONE OF YOU. not one fucking exception. even the people that i care about — you all do this shit. and you need to stop now. it hurts me and it hurts all other trans people in existence. it invalidates us. it’s fucking violence.

please change your cissexist ideas NOW, and change the way you speak now. specify cis men or women if that’s who you’re referring to. include trans and trans men to the equation. DON’T NEGLECT NON BINARY PEOPLE LIKE ME. say things like, “people who can have children”, say “people who get periods”. don’t center abortion debates around cis women. change your fucking language.

if you say you care about trans people, fucking show it.

thanks.