Ok, so we know that many zodiac charts say that a Saggitarius and Pisces combination is a horrible match. However, I believe that things can work if you want them to.

This Sag guy has been trying to pursue me for a while. When we first met he seemed kind of distant with no obvious signs that he wanted to pursue me. When we started speaking over the phone, he then mentions that he wants to give us a try. The thing is, we've had more sexual talk than casual talk- but great conversations at that. When I try to draw the line, he says he doesn't just want me for sex. He says he builds great connections through sex, but I tell him I can't be intimate with him yet until I know for certain we will have more than just a sexual connection. I'm a Pisces for crying out loud! I like to think about the outcome, whereas he's indulging on his impulses for the present.

Can someone please help me to know where to set ground rules that won't make him think I'm stringing him along or disapproving him? I really want to make this work.

Extra details: He's about five years older and seems pretty responsible when making decisions.

(** Serious answers only! And Saggitarius men's advice would really help! **)