Everyone seems to be trying out online dating these days. With how common it is, you might think that it’s an easy process. The truth, however, is that online dating isn’t always ideal. Apart from the risk it poses to your security, you can also end up feeling disappointed and frustrated.

If you want to avoid those things, you should probably consider dating offline.

But first, let’s review a few tips to make it work.

Have a simple goal of making new friends. Don’t put too much pressure on yourself. Seek to find a great friend and see where things lead.

Commit to saying “Hi” first. Don’t be shy. Perhaps set a goal of saying hi to 5 people a day. Start with one a day and then work your way up.

Smile and have fun. Everyone looks better with a smile.

Be open to meeting new people- anywhere and everywhere.

Always be dressed and groomed to meet new people even if you’re just running out to get milk. You just may meet that someone special in the dairy isle!

Be interested in others and ask lots of questions.

Don’t be afraid of rejection. You’ve got nothing to lose!! What’s the worst that could happen? Someone will laugh at you? That’s hardly likely. And even if they do, who cares! Just say “Next!” and move on!

Go slow for safety and success. Never rush into anything. Go slow.

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Now that we got that out of the way, here are the best ways to find an online date: