Six years ago, Smiley gave birth to identical boys. Now, she has a boy and a girl after last year, Smiley said her then-son asked something that shocked her: ” ‘When’s the fairy going to come and take my penis away?’ I had no idea what to say.” This led Smiley to take Logan to a school psychologist and a gender specialist before getting the diagnosis of gender dysphoria. “She went from Logan to Natashia just like that, smoothly, very smoothly,” Smiley said.