Ephellova Mon 08-Jul-19 07:27:32

Dp has only lived with me for a few weeks. We've been seeing each other for over a year though. Have name changed for this.



Everything has been fine, we've been so happy and him moving in has been something both of us were looking forward to.



I've just left to go to work and I think I've discovered something I almost wish I hadn't. Dp goes downstairs when he wakes up to get water. First time he did it, I said you can get water from the bathroom tap (we have an en suite) and he said the tap downstairs is cooler and there's water that's properly cold in the fridge. Which is all true.



Except I was just sorting out the recycling and I noticed there was a bottle of vodka that was full only a few days ago that is now empty. And my gin is half full. It can't be anyone else.



Dp lost his job a few months ago and he has been very down about it. He's got a few other projects he is doing (part time work) but nothing where he has to be in an office in the morning so if he was drinking during the day, no one would notice.



I actually feel shocked. I don't want to confront him over messaging/text and I also don't want to jump to conclusions, but if he really is drinking spirits in the morning then he has a major major drinking problem.



I was thinking of making a mark on the bottles tonight and checking tomorrow before I say anything? But my mind is going round and round in circles as I can't think of any other reason for it