Ivehadtonamechangeforthis Mon 11-Dec-17 08:21:29

I do! I have a baby and a toddler and I often daydream about how different life would/could be and whether it would be better and I would be happier. I do it a lot! I imagine what my home would look like, what I would do with my spare time (I would want 50/50 custody he's not getting off that easily ) For me it's because DP is so bloody untidy he creates more mess than he helps clear up, he really is awful. He's also terrible with money, it's an ongoing battle and I've told him repeatedly his attitude towards money is immature and he needs to grow up. He still handles money like a single 18 year old with no responsibilities/bills etc and often says bills 'will just have to wait'. He has racked up debt but has no interest in paying it off because he has 'nothing' to show for it. Aaaaaaaargh! I have to lean on him every month to make payments. Problem is he is a really loving, kind hearted and faithful man which is what keeps me here!